I Always Compare Myself to Other People

It's interesting that I've been doing mostly negative comparisons rather than positive ones, even if the positive ones are there.  For this reason, comparing fuels a lot of my self-improvement projects. (this is both a good and a...

I don't do it always, but once in a while is enough to get me hopeless and sad. It usually happens when I am missing very much something in my life. Then I look around for examples of people who have it and I start to compare. I see how...

It's this inevitable and annoying part of me. I can't perform the simplest tasks sometimes, without being drowned in the sea of other people's opinions. And other people's standards.I signed up into this driving school last summer. I...

There's just one thing I always compare myself to others about - looks and beauty. Yep, that's it. I am 15, female, and I've always dreamt of being the most gorgeous girl ever.
Yet in 2008 I was hurt very badly by a boy I still am madly...

My usual day:I wake up, dress, go downstairs. I have breakfast with my sister, because we're the only ones who have to leave earlier. I compare mines to hers:My breakfast contains whole grain bread with smoked chicken breast/muesli with...

am a doctor.just finished ug.now onto my pg.since i was 12yrs old i have been comparing myself to others on almost everything.and i feel burning pain deep within me.i always wanted to come out of this feeling but just couldn help myself...

i compare myself to everyone in a negative way. actually it gets me pretty depressed in conversation. my mind kind of goes blank, can't decide who to be. i feel like i have no foundation. like today i met up with my friends ross and...

It recently began. The always trying to find something about someone else that I didnt have & I wanted.I can find anyone on the face of the earth and come up with at least one thing they have I dont, but I wish I had..I feel so...

I am the type of person who idolizes and obsesses over celebrities, and it makes me who I am, but I am always looking at them thinking how I will never be as beautiful as them, or how I will never be with someone that beautiful. I don't...

I'm sixteen years old. Junior in high school. Dancer, singer, actor and photographer.
I have this little issue, I know all these beautiful girls, my BEST friend i've known for 7 years is maybe the most absolutly beautiful most...

In everything i do i compare myself to others. Whether it is in appearance, intelligence, financially, or in my career or even just everyday life. I am convinced in the vast majority of these areas i feel as if i am extremely inferior...

I’ve obsessively compared all aspects of myself to other people all my life. I suppose it was a part of the way that I was raised, having been raised a perfectionist and made to believe that I am unworthy unless I am perfect...

Literally. he has it ALL. a cute face, nice toned 6 pack, broad ... thick muscles & hes VERY flexible. Me? I have a huge nose, stretch marks on mu hips & Butt from God knows what & a Teeny bit of a pot belly. We haven't really been in...

I always compare myself to other people. I just started doing it this year. It's mostly about looks. When I'm at school, and I see a pretty girl who people seem to like, I constantly think about how she is better than me and how she isn...

I have had self confidence issues since I was little. I have always comapred myself with others. I find that I still do this to this day. I know I shouldn't thought it's had to stop something that you've been doing your whole life. I am...

I compare myself constantly to others and worry all the time if I see differences between me and someone of a similar age. I am almost 27 and constantly feel as though something is amiss. Like I should be married and with kids by now...

This is just something I'm constantly doing in my head.
What are they better at than me?
How would I have done something differently?
Are they smarter than me?
Stronger than me?
Faster than me?
I don't really know if I'd go as far...