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    What Motivates You To Seek The Unavailable - Ok, ladies, As I prepare to jump into a hornets nest let me say this: Some women don't necessarily want to be in love they just love to...
    finity finity 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2012

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    No Good Explanation - I had loving parents, didn't have a distant dad, am pretty and confident.  But I tend to go after guys who are not available, either because they live in...
    Startnew Startnew 46-50, F Oct 11, 2009

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    Everyone That I Have A Crush On Is Unavailable :( - 1st I develop a crush on a guy named Brennen and he's in a really committed with an amazing girl and even though it sucks for...
    energizerbunnay energizerbunnay 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    Has anyone sorted out why they do this? I have been mulling over my so-called love life, of late (couple years), and this seems to be a pattern with me. They're married (and I...
    idonotwantausername1024 idonotwantausername1024 36-40, F Mar 9

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    C-note - Story of my life...I've gone through so much pain and trouble because of this girl. But I've also learned a lot about myself and life in general. First of all I'm...
    GooderThanB4 GooderThanB4 26-30, M May 3, 2012

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    Is It A Result Of Being Unavailable Myself? - I am attracted to emotionaly unavailable people, and lately I started to think why. Was is just bad luck to run in to them or was it...
    notnownotever notnownotever 18-21, F Jul 2, 2013

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    To Be Expected... - "Hi I'm ____, nice to meet you!" Are you married? Check. Do you have a girlfriend? Check. Are you a few hundred to a few thousand miles away from me? Check...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 3 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    ....and I Am In The Situation Now - Have been for 5 years.  Same woman.  What the eff is wrong with me?  I left a 23 year relationship 5 years ago, because I fell in love again...
    Icarus2006 Icarus2006 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    I'm In Love With A Married Guy - I truly, hopelessly, unconditionally  love a married guy. What should I do? I know that I can never have him but I can't stay without him...
    rainbow82 rainbow82 26-30, F 11 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    I Too, Have Noticed This Pattern In My Life - I have began to realize that ever since my second divorce (yep, I sure can pick 'em) that I have fallen for two men that are...
    sweetie8403 sweetie8403 26-30, F Jul 3, 2013

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    Everything I Desire Is Hurting Me. - I have had it up to here. I will no longer pursue, or even peruse, the impossible.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    Stalker Boyfriend - I dated a guy who was obsessed with and stalking his ex-girlfriend.  He was constantly distracted and hardly appreciated me, sometimes even unfavorably...
    trucktippingover trucktippingover 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2010

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    Story Of My Life For Real - I am so sick of it.Every single time I meet a guy I really like, he's unavailable somehow. Recently I started talking to a great guy who (so far) seems...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Loving Unavailable People - All my life, and I'm 49 now, I've fallen in love with person after person who doesn't return my affections ... I mean, everybody has these experiences...
    oskiesmom oskiesmom 46-50 7 Responses Jan 22, 2009

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    He's Confused And He Confused Me Too. - I knew him since last 5 years but fell for him a few months back. I told him all this and he said that he isn't interested. Still, we used...
    anushka98 anushka98 13-15, F Nov 21, 2013

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    So Frustrating - Ive been in so  many wonderful relationships, that I feel we have a connection, an understanding of each other...can say anything and have a great comfort zone...
    jojo31 jojo31 31-35, F Aug 31, 2011

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    Hmmm... - Read all stories in this group. No men posting. So what is this - a girl thing? Guess so. Recovering from my last unrequited love guy. Feel like a joke. He is (or...
    Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    They're either married, emotionally unavailable or aren't interested in me because of their sexual orientation. It's like I subconsciously scope out the people in a room who are...
    beautyofuncertainty beautyofuncertainty 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    The Road Not Taken - I've known her since high school. Not the thinnest (might be classified as big boned), not the prettiest (her two sisters got the looks - seriously), but she...
    scarsmart scarsmart 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    I have this habit of falling for charismatic guys who consider everyone they meet a friend. What usually happens is that they're nice to me (because they're nice to everyone, not...
    RobinDaggers RobinDaggers 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Flirting With Disaster - Perhaps Morrisey said it best, "I want the one I can't have, and it's driving me mad. It's all over, all over, all over, all over my face.." He's...
    PollySyllabacus PollySyllabacus 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    Emotionally Unavailable - Yup, I can sure pick them.  I married someone who was emotionally unavailable. I fell in love with a guy who was emotionally unavailable.I recently...
    Mahal1023 Mahal1023 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    Impossible Men - They are impossible for reasons like: religion, they are already married or in relationships, I'm basically not their cup of tea, they only like me as a friend...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    I've spent years analyzing my ****** love life and came to see a pattern in it - and it could not be more obvious: I FALL FOR PEOPLE I CAN'T HAVE (but I'm unsure why) I think I...
    MissMojo MissMojo 18-21, F Jan 6

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    I don't like seeing rude comments anywhere! Come on people - step it up a little. People who come here and poetically pour their heart out don't do it to get rude comments! They...
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    BRAVO! Nothing worst than someone conforming to peer pressure and being like "sisters" by copying and being exactly like their friends - imitating the same behavior and do what...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I think I don't like them because they seem too busy for me most of the time. I don't care so much that they're busy but if I go to a doctor, I want them to listen to me, listen to...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Hello guys, I hope you're all doing well. I sort of hesitated about the idea of posting my experience here but I decided to do so. I sort of think that I have been a schizoid my...
    Bloodyshrines Bloodyshrines 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am tired of people who make snap judgments, people who assume they know you based on a number of limited experiences they've had with you, people who are convinced that their...
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    I try to be an open minded and thoughtful person and whilst I'm definitely thoughtful and considerate I am not as open minded as other people. I don't run around "hating" people...
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    So I have had some stories about how men disrespect women I figure I should state this one. There are some women out there, who use their assets to use good men. They use them for...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 4

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    I don't like to be drunk. It's the worst feeling ever
    LucyPerez LucyPerez 36-40, F 20 hrs ago

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    I wish people were more honest with me. I have more respect for people who just tell it as it is and not lie than people who just tell you what they think you want to hear. I...
    pip34 pip34 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    People who share their true feelings are people who are brave and confident. I admire people who are able to share their true feelings because it really isn't just something...
    ccxc910 ccxc910 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I admire people who are able to be honest about their feelings and tell me how they really feel. It takes courage to express yourself, especially when you are unsure of how the...
    smhinterrupted smhinterrupted 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    I have demonstrated I don't care about the pervert EP community that don't like I get their stories remove that promote ********* content. They are upset they don't have the same...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Mar 27

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    Helping people who are in trouble can be a little dangerous I have found. You cant give people money or else they come back with their hands out. Fellow males view you as being...
    rozelli rozelli 51-55 4 Responses Mar 16

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    I can sense negativity in the things i say. It may come across as rude, and i notice almost immediately, but i am too awkward and anxious to smoothly correct the statement, i just...
    theMETAmonologue theMETAmonologue 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I'm not saying people who are the same are bad I love twins but its better to be yourself your not a copy machine
    MerpR MerpR 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    yeah like people who are comfortable wid their thoughts and dont go on the moral high ground standards set by some unknown people society etc etc in short like people who challenge...
    romell romell 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    They terrify me. I'm really a huge chicken. Of winds. I always think it will develop into a tornado. I'm like that with life. I don't like the tornado so much might become. "Might...
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I... I don't like players, I'm just usually not in the same game they are and it's like I'm that dumb bird who's flying around the baseball field and almost gets hit with the ball...
    fearlessbae fearlessbae 16-17, F Mar 25

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    I don't exactly dislike everyone; I just don't like most people. I don't expect most people to like me either.
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't like being the patient, but I LOVE being the caregiver! :D It is funny how different your point of view is from patient to caregiver! :D When you are a patient, the...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Yep that's pretty much what I'm feeling right now, I don't care if you don't like me, or my sense of humor. I think I'm pretty dang awesome and that's all that matters.
    IheartCupcake IheartCupcake 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I don't like my body. I think I'm a bit fat.. I exercise every evening to get a flatter stomach and less round hips. But I still see no difference. It's demotivating. I'm searching...
    SkateDutch SkateDutch 16-17, M Mar 21

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    It's crazy. If you could see me in the flesh, you might say I am not fat and you'd tell me to stop whining and all but I just don't like the way my belly bulges.Honestly, I'd agree...
    baseCharlie baseCharlie 18-21, M Mar 27

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    Hey I want to let everyone in on a little secret... There is a way out of this lifestyle and a way to make money! I'm on my way to the top. Having financial freedom and I'm looking...
    mchalk mchalk 22-25 Apr 2

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    I wouldn't say I don't like eating per say. I just don't know the aftermath. I have ednos and I know I should eat, but I feel like once I do, I won't be able to stop. My mind says...
    PanicAtTheDiscount PanicAtTheDiscount 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    It's just a pet peeve of mine. Yes, "I do like Cookies". No. I don't like cookys. That's just an example. I also hate it when the groups don't make any sense or even when the...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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