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I Always Fall For The Unattainable

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    Never Fails

    For some reason the only people I ever really fall hard for are people who are:A) too far away to pursue anything serious withB) too far out of my league for me to even admit to being interested inC) too emotionally unavailable to reciprocate
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    Sometimes Things Are Different

    OK if you read my profile and stories you will know what happened but in case someone out there has not. Here's an outline. I have had loads of crushes on unobtainable men. Then I got my crush on him, he works in the garage that deals with my car and is a family friend. He is...
    shall13 shall13 36-40, F Apr 3, 2012

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    She Drives Me Crazy Inside.

    I Was On Ep Like Every Other Day.Just Writing Stories,Commenting,Talking To Friends And Answering Questions.Someone Posted The Question What Five Words Will End A Date? I Answered And When I Submitted My Answer I Saw Her's.I Loved Her Response,So I Added Her.Then She Messaged Me...
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 2 Responses May 1, 2012

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    He Pointed It Out To Me.

    Why do I always seem to do this? This time its distance. I have completely fallen for a man that is 4 states away from me. It was suppose to be just fun but, easy, BECAUSE of the distance. However, that didn't work. I trust him I tell him everything. we are so much alike. Maybe...
    firefly21 firefly21 22-25, F Dec 28, 2011

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    Mm, Yeah :/

    That's how it is for me. I fall and crush over guys or girls I shouldn't But I can usually control myself and suffer in silence. Usually.
    ToxicRyu ToxicRyu 18-21, F Aug 3, 2012

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    Its Just So Typical!

    My biology teacher is alot older than me, and yet every time he walks into the room i feel as if the sun has come out. Even when i was most depressed (just after my mum died just over a year ago) if i saw him i would feel just that little bit lighter, like i...
    lovedwithoutbeingloved lovedwithoutbeingloved 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    Don't Know What To Do

    If you read my first story then you'll understand this one. Just yesterday I was chatting online with my cousin/boyfriend's younger cousin who is 17 years old. She doesn't know that I'm in a relationship with him. She told me that long before I came back to vietnam he already has...
    starlily100 starlily100 18-21 Aug 20, 2011

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    Almost Without Exception

    If it's not the guy who thinks I'm ugly/boring/etc., he's either gay, married, famous (i.e. out of my league/impossible to meet), prohibitively far away, or some other thing that makes him unattainable.Alternatively, I've dated guys who turned out to be gay and were just using me...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 16, 2011

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    The Mayor Of The Friend Zone

    Sometimes I wonder if I'm destined to be alone. My life has become a sick and twisted joke. First my wife decided 4 years ago, she no longer wants sex. After trying everything to convince her, I decided to have an affair. So I start looking for an ideal partner. (Younger...
    Valdaine Valdaine 41-45, M Oct 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    It's definitely more so the unavailable than don't like me. In this story I'm going to talk about several different guys. I'll mention their name at the beginning of each story...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I am finally living for myself. No longer scared of what others might think of me. It's the only way you can really get through your life the fullest. As I've gotten older I have...
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 13-15, F Apr 7

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    Have you ever felt like this? Lol I feel that people fall for me very easily and it makes me feel awkward because I don't fall very easily at all lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm not the type of person to fall for the typical romantic gestures. What really gets me are the unique displays of affection that leave me perplexed. romance that shows me who he...
    Arelia Arelia 18-21, F Mar 20

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    This guy has cheated on me the 2 past times we have dated, but I keep falling for him. He's a nice guy, it's just that I can't keep letting this happen, and my mom has basically...
    Done453 Done453 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I think that it is possible. And if he doesn't actually fall for him, maybe messing around with him is possible. We all have curiosity. Best friends are not exempt from feeling...
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M Apr 10

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    Fall for his gay bestie? Not so confidant in that. Experiment with them, that's a different story.
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    I am falling for a crossdresser. I love him and who he is and I would never change him. I told my family, which consist of my mother and sister. Mom was accepting, my sister was...
    bbsw1963 bbsw1963 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    After so many trials and so much strife, it is more than difficult to find the energy to care, let alone fall for someone. People use the term "baggage", when in actuality that is...
    Indari Indari 31-35, M Apr 11

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    I always fight for what I believe in because there is a goal that everyone has and it has to be achieved someday... I won't stop until I get there!!!
    ZebraPerfect01 ZebraPerfect01 13-15, F Mar 28

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    I really do they are always so sweet at first then it turns into, "sit like this, smell like that, wear this, don't ******* laugh like that!" I guess I'm submissive by nature, I...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I find myself always crushing on girls who would probably never date me. Either they're straight, out of my league or taken. Yep it's a bit depressing but you can't help what you...
    SloanAvery SloanAvery 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. I am starting to loose feelings for my boyfriend and it's been like this for awhile. His bestfriend is awesome and always talks...
    cvictoriaa cvictoriaa 18-21, F Apr 5

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    There is this girl (Name withheld.) she goes to my homeschool group, has a great personality, and is a gamer like me. We have been friends for a while, we talk about anime and LOTR...
    Thehawk14 Thehawk14 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Everyday. Ive tried to stop having romance on my mind many times, I just cant help it. I feel empty, so I daydream of chandeliers in a grand ballroom and a masquerade with vampires...
    RadRen RadRen 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I never wanted to look back. I had to stack the deck against myself. I'm too scared of losing you to be involved with what I used to do. Please, let me break my cycle. I always...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 28

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    If we're finished, Kilig; it was decided by you. If you want our relationship to be over, it's been all about you from the very beginning. However, I'm not through with you. You...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 31

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    I look at new experiences like new food. I am willing to put anything in my mouth and give it a chance. I can always spit it out if I don't like it. But generally I am...
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F Mar 31

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    I always try to see the good in everyone. I always try to see the good, and not the bad people. It is easy to just see the bad in people, and judge them, but if you look past the...
    robbie1280 robbie1280 18-21, M Apr 9

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    Little did THEY know, that the only thing I really believed in was us. I never forget. We never forget. #ops
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 25

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    Please anon, don't make it any more difficult than it needs to be for me.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 28

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    What you guys still don't get is that it IS best for us if I leave her alone for right now.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 1 Response Mar 30

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    You aren't the first person I've sent myself to jail for, Kilig. You just happen to be the one that matters most to me.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 30

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    It's been a long and rocky road and isn't getting any easier , so thanks for the welcome and look forward to making some new friends
    trace2765 trace2765 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    I agree with this, but to like that person, you need to be attracted to them, soooo looks does play a part!
    Beatit12 Beatit12 13-15, F Mar 22

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    I need someone to talk to about this guy that I like 😔
    liahellarad liahellarad 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    My best friend, Josef:) ily my homie:)
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F Apr 8

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    I don't ever want to sit in a room where we all call each other wise. I'd rather be known as "Stella"
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F Mar 22

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    I hate having to push you away right now, Kilig. I don't want things to be all about me. I just need to figure out how to talk to you about how hurt I am right now. I don't think I...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 29

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    If you don't then you didn't believe in it in the first place. It was just something you went along with to make you look better
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I didn't want it this way and I still don't Kilig. Never is a horrible word.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 1 Response Mar 30

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    I like and fall for people way too easily. I'm to trusting. I see everyone at face value. I think they all want they same thing that I do...especially the ones who say they do...
    Findingteesh Findingteesh 26-30, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    *Note: These stories I'm posting are in the past tense! Falling... I was just living my sophomore school days. I was normal at first. Attending my classes, (not once have I ever...
    Aphradite109 Aphradite109 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I fall in love with ideas of people. About people. I fall for these images I have in my head about how they could be. How I imagine them to be. How they could be if only they...
    Jenuinely Jenuinely 18-21, F Mar 22

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    One of my best friends, one of the people I lean on, I am falling in love with... I didn't think he would ever want me. Today he told me that he is applying for a military college...
    curveycupcake curveycupcake 18-21, F Apr 8

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    I wanted the title of this experience to be "I'm going to ask for help", but there were no matches for that. I'm coping okay - but I always go for the wrong type of boys (sleazy...
    cunninlc cunninlc 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    hi my name is tara but my real name is josh i am a trans woman who is in south carolina that is an adult baby and looking for someone that will love me for who i am and that i can...
    stacylynn7 stacylynn7 18-21, T 1 Response 6 days ago

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    **** it's always like this as well,it was the same with my ex as well,she said she liked me first then i fell for her. I know it was love,but then she broke up with me,i wish i...
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F Mar 19

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    I typed other stories before and deleted them as I keep trying to start fresh, to no avail. I sit here crying. I cry out of so much frustration; with God and myself. I don’t...
    myownproblem13 myownproblem13 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    I was not always like this. I loved him, I can't ever see him upset and I could never be angry over him, but right now I am. I though he was my best friend and I had fallen for...
    Alveira04 Alveira04 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    which is a sad story actually so, hi guys, you can call me Christopher, I'm from Indonesia i realized that i'm gay at 7 years old, at that time there is a hole inside my heart and...
    ChristopherLeardno ChristopherLeardno 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    So my first love was a girl. She's the only person I've ever love. It's been three years and well we stopped talking and started talking again I feel like im falling in love with...
    Loovee1C Loovee1C 18-21, F Apr 7

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