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I Always Fall For The Unattainable

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    He Pointed It Out To Me.

    Why do I always seem to do this? This time its distance. I have completely fallen for a man that is 4 states away from me. It was suppose to be just fun but, easy, BECAUSE of the distance. However, that didn't work. I trust him I tell him everything. we are so much alike. Maybe...
    firefly21 firefly21 22-25, F Dec 28, 2011

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    She Drives Me Crazy Inside.

    I Was On Ep Like Every Other Day.Just Writing Stories,Commenting,Talking To Friends And Answering Questions.Someone Posted The Question What Five Words Will End A Date? I Answered And When I Submitted My Answer I Saw Her's.I Loved Her Response,So I Added Her.Then She Messaged Me...
    BlackroseVsWhiterose BlackroseVsWhiterose 16-17, F 2 Responses May 1, 2012

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    The Mayor Of The Friend Zone

    Sometimes I wonder if I'm destined to be alone. My life has become a sick and twisted joke. First my wife decided 4 years ago, she no longer wants sex. After trying everything to convince her, I decided to have an affair. So I start looking for an ideal partner. (Younger...
    Valdaine Valdaine 41-45, M Oct 8, 2013

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    Adulery And Death

    Many novels in American Literature contain the theme of the american dream and how this dream is corrupted by the sins of adultery. In the novels Sister Carrie by Theodore Dreiser, The Scarlet Letter by Nathaniel Hawthorne, and The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald, many of the...
    gr8jesus gr8jesus 51-55, M Oct 24, 2010

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    Its Just So Typical!

    My biology teacher is alot older than me, and yet every time he walks into the room i feel as if the sun has come out. Even when i was most depressed (just after my mum died just over a year ago) if i saw him i would feel just that little bit lighter, like i...
    lovedwithoutbeingloved lovedwithoutbeingloved 18-21, F Feb 20, 2010

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    Almost Without Exception

    If it's not the guy who thinks I'm ugly/boring/etc., he's either gay, married, famous (i.e. out of my league/impossible to meet), prohibitively far away, or some other thing that makes him unattainable.Alternatively, I've dated guys who turned out to be gay and were just using me...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember 22-25, F Aug 16, 2011

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    Never Fails

    For some reason the only people I ever really fall hard for are people who are:A) too far away to pursue anything serious withB) too far out of my league for me to even admit to being interested inC) too emotionally unavailable to reciprocate
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 6, 2011

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    Don't Know What To Do

    If you read my first story then you'll understand this one. Just yesterday I was chatting online with my cousin/boyfriend's younger cousin who is 17 years old. She doesn't know that I'm in a relationship with him. She told me that long before I came back to vietnam he already has...
    starlily100 starlily100 18-21 Aug 20, 2011

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    Mm, Yeah :/

    That's how it is for me. I fall and crush over guys or girls I shouldn't But I can usually control myself and suffer in silence. Usually.
    ToxicRyu ToxicRyu 18-21, F Aug 3, 2012

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    Sometimes Things Are Different

    OK if you read my profile and stories you will know what happened but in case someone out there has not. Here's an outline. I have had loads of crushes on unobtainable men. Then I got my crush on him, he works in the garage that deals with my car and is a family friend. He is...
    shall13 shall13 36-40, F Apr 3, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    It sucks but they're so tempting
    minicupcakes minicupcakes 18-21, F Jul 4

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    How to describe this boy, falling short of being a man? Undecided, lost, hurt, and capable of causing the greatest pain a heart could feel. He is beautiful. Tempting. Sweetness...
    walker13sl walker13sl 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    So my sister just had her 21st a few days ago, it was awesome heaps of great food with great people and music but I have a problem one of my sister's friends who attended the party...
    FabulousYetiMan FabulousYetiMan 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I fall for asian guys all the time
    DaiiaLaPapaya DaiiaLaPapaya 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I am falling for this guy, jade. We've known each other for about 2 years now, we met camping out at a lake we both love. We talk almost everyday & have a lot in common, however...
    Jurniholte Jurniholte 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I have a bf of about a little over a month but to be honest I am falling for my friend. We have been there for each other and even talked about how'd we work out. One problem is I...
    CountryByChance CountryByChance 18-21, F Jul 20

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    So I have been friends with this girl for over a year and now we are honestly best friends. I haven't been this close to someone ever in my life. We met at work and after a couple...
    cj177 cj177 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    We don't call our selfs best friends, but I believe we are the best friend of each other. He is really the only person I can be smart with, and actually hates me when I play dumb...
    Notwhatyouthinkiam Notwhatyouthinkiam 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I ALWAYS attract gay/bi men why oh whyyyyy can't I date a straight man 😖 I don't wanna be anyone's cover up
    gatoonie gatoonie 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    Help :( met on holiday. stayed in touch. nothing happened, all normal conversations.. through whatsapp we could tell something was there but I left it because i was like ok he's...
    livelovelaugh93 livelovelaugh93 18-21, F Jul 10

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    My feelings are all jumbled. I'm very confused at the moment. On one hand I feel as though he might not even be real, he's too perfect to be real. But on the other hand, some of...
    Mannz Mannz 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    I met him on omegle. You know that site where almost every guy is flashing his "thing" and girls are willing to watch? Well after skipping the "online flashers" I settled on this...
    Tajahnae26 Tajahnae26 16-17, F Jul 9

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    We met on a whim, an accident even. Now you're all I think about. You're so many things I want and never asked for. I turn my phone off to keep myself from staring at it. Then I...
    Soltanto Soltanto 18-21, F Jul 14

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    So I've known this girl for about half a year now and when I first met her I thought of her as just a friend. One night I was hanging out with her and I realized I had feelings for...
    Wazzup67 Wazzup67 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    i tried so hard... i knew it was wrong and that i could get arrested for it... i tried to stay away... but i could not. i fell for you alyssa. and i know your my soulmate... every...
    GhostieDSE GhostieDSE 18-21, M Jul 20

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    Nextag would make sensible attempts to keep up the precision of item and pricing details exhibited on our web-site, and we do not assure that any data is appropriate. If pricing or...
    Joshua950z5kh8 Joshua950z5kh8 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    OMG! If this is true please let me know because I have a straight best friend who I think that I would be great for and him for me. After my ex he brought back the ability for me...
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So there's this girl in my class and everyone doesn't seam to like her but I feel very drawn to talk to her I feel like everyone around her just sits around and judges her weird...
    VaidaV VaidaV 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I like to meet new people It's always interesting to know what other people have to say
    georgio1971 georgio1971 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    I'm from Illinois. Cubs, Bears, and for awhile there Blackhawks (though they've shaped up)
    fuzzynerd fuzzynerd 26-30, M Jul 3

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    I think I work best when I have an audience, or someone to show off for. When writing just by myself with no input, my motivation tends to be lacking.
    socalwriter socalwriter 31-35, M Jul 6

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    And I've been learning so much through talking to people about their own problems reading experiences by other ep-ers... Kind of makes me reflect on my own weaknesses that I wouldn...
    Mysticme Mysticme 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Not this time. I promised myself never to do this again and I won't
    Error404nameunknown Error404nameunknown 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    He's a member on here. Really like him. 😊
    CountryBoy122 CountryBoy122 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    This is my biggest problemm. Omf. :c
    xxsamelovexx xxsamelovexx 13-15, M 4 Responses Jul 23

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    When that special person texts you ❤👌🙌🙊😆😍📲
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F Jul 7

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    Hi there:) what is everyone up to? I'm here to meet new people .. If interested message me. :)
    starzygirl1 starzygirl1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    why not? life is short gotta have people to laugh with ;)
    Li1981 Li1981 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I love getting to know people
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F Jul 14

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    When no one around you shares the same quality of detail,love, compassion , hapiness.. No matter how much time you spent trying to teach this it never sticks to them.....
    appleofmycareer appleofmycareer 31-35, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Wow her arms are so young , her beauty is so true, her voice is unheard during this time of her life, no one sees and understands her pain, she looks like a woman a child inside...
    appleofmycareer appleofmycareer 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    love hearing from different people and different points of view. life is an adventure to be explored.....
    mineman61 mineman61 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    For the past few weeks, I had been doing a little "me" time thinking things over and being preoccupied with work. It was during my break time at work that I try to log in here just...
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I fall in love with every other girl i see so that predicts that i will never be in a relationship and i will be always looking for other girl even when i would already have a girl...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    This post might be long but I do Hope some people read this. I'll try to make it as short as possible. keep in mind this is NoT a love story maybe it was intended to be once but I...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I am scared to fall in love with my friend because she's a girl and I've never really had a serious crush on another girl before her, I didn't even know I was bi before I grew...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    This is starting to become more than just some crush, I believe. I've never truly fallen for someone, so I had no idea what it feels like. But I'm sure when all you gotta do is...
    Guuuu Guuuu 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 5

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