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I Always Fall For the Wrong Guy

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    The Wrong Guy...my Best Friend...

     Hey there! First, I just have to comment on what a cool site this is! Hi all! My story: My best friend and I have been in a sexual affair for the last four months. He has a girlfriend though who he has an unhealthy on-and-of relationship with. Despite our affair, I have...
    methinkhappythoughts methinkhappythoughts 22-25 1 Response Jun 19, 2008

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    And Its The Same Guy!

    Sometimes I like the same guy I know is going to hurt me over and over again. Its like I just need to convince myself that I'm worthy of his heart and everytime I think I am he pulls the rug from under me and I fall even HARDER for him. Or I just keep liking the same, overly...
    MrsRight MrsRight 18-21, F Nov 4, 2010

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    There's this guy& he's always on my mind.

    We were best friends but then we started talking. Our "relationship" hit an abrupt end& I felt torn. We just started up as best friends and still are but...we kissed. He's the wrong guy because he's a player. He can never make up his mind and is super indecisive. But we were...
    anonymousgirl021 anonymousgirl021 13-15 1 Response Jan 2

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    We're Both Sort Of Idiots

    For almost four years I've been friends with Mike. It didn't take long before I was calling him my best friend, and he hasn't wavered from this position in my life since. Years ago he told me he liked me, and I was just too emotionally immature to even think of dating, but we...
    lipglossshinyshoes lipglossshinyshoes 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2011

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    I Always Fall Too

    Hi... I was searching the internet for conseils, of how to overcome this problem. I am actually in love with the wrong guy, he's a liar and a womanizer. I feel so stupid admitting this. If i read this, i would say, how can you love someone like that. Well... i do... He's ...
    Carito Carito 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    It's definitely more so the unavailable than don't like me. In this story I'm going to talk about several different guys. I'll mention their name at the beginning of each story...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    This guy has cheated on me the 2 past times we have dated, but I keep falling for him. He's a nice guy, it's just that I can't keep letting this happen, and my mom has basically...
    Done453 Done453 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I am falling for a crossdresser. I love him and who he is and I would never change him. I told my family, which consist of my mother and sister. Mom was accepting, my sister was...
    bbsw1963 bbsw1963 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I think that it is possible. And if he doesn't actually fall for him, maybe messing around with him is possible. We all have curiosity. Best friends are not exempt from feeling...
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M Apr 10

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    I hate this about me. I get depressed or angry, then my mouth moves faster than my brain. I say things without thinking. I hurt people who only try to help. I wish I was more...
    everyonehasbeauty everyonehasbeauty 16-17, F a week ago

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    Fall for his gay bestie? Not so confidant in that. Experiment with them, that's a different story.
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    I am finally living for myself. No longer scared of what others might think of me. It's the only way you can really get through your life the fullest. As I've gotten older I have...
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 13-15, F Apr 7

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    Have you ever felt like this? Lol I feel that people fall for me very easily and it makes me feel awkward because I don't fall very easily at all lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I'm not the type of person to fall for the typical romantic gestures. What really gets me are the unique displays of affection that leave me perplexed. romance that shows me who he...
    Arelia Arelia 18-21, F Mar 20

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    After so many trials and so much strife, it is more than difficult to find the energy to care, let alone fall for someone. People use the term "baggage", when in actuality that is...
    Indari Indari 31-35, M Apr 11

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    I always fight for what I believe in because there is a goal that everyone has and it has to be achieved someday... I won't stop until I get there!!!
    ZebraPerfect01 ZebraPerfect01 13-15, F Mar 28

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    LIMP BIZKIT "Eat You Alive" Hey you Mrs I dont know what the **** your name is Im drawn to you somethings magnetic here If I could approach you or even get close to the scent...
    hallowedwillow hallowedwillow 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I need someone to talk to about this guy that I like 😔
    liahellarad liahellarad 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I really do they are always so sweet at first then it turns into, "sit like this, smell like that, wear this, don't ******* laugh like that!" I guess I'm submissive by nature, I...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Everyday. Ive tried to stop having romance on my mind many times, I just cant help it. I feel empty, so I daydream of chandeliers in a grand ballroom and a masquerade with vampires...
    RadRen RadRen 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I find myself always crushing on girls who would probably never date me. Either they're straight, out of my league or taken. Yep it's a bit depressing but you can't help what you...
    SloanAvery SloanAvery 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. I am starting to loose feelings for my boyfriend and it's been like this for awhile. His bestfriend is awesome and always talks...
    cvictoriaa cvictoriaa 18-21, F Apr 5

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    What you guys still don't get is that it IS best for us if I leave her alone for right now.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 1 Response Mar 30

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    Last week I had to see a friend of mine cry, that's because his bestfriend in school got stabbed. I just sat there really not knowing what to do. I kept telling myself the pain he...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Apr 5

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    I think is sweet :) i dont let myself cry very often but when i do i sometimes feel better after that so i guess guys feel the same way too
    FunnyEnglish FunnyEnglish 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I actually find it cute and attractive as long as the guy is not exaggerating it. Crying is a sign of life, not a sign of weakness starting when we were still babies. It also shows...
    huskiesandmalamutes huskiesandmalamutes 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I have seen my good friends who are guys cry, it may be embarrassing for them, but I find them much more appealing when I know that they are more complex than what I normally see
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    There is this girl (Name withheld.) she goes to my homeschool group, has a great personality, and is a gamer like me. We have been friends for a while, we talk about anime and LOTR...
    Thehawk14 Thehawk14 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I never wanted to look back. I had to stack the deck against myself. I'm too scared of losing you to be involved with what I used to do. Please, let me break my cycle. I always...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 28

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    If we're finished, Kilig; it was decided by you. If you want our relationship to be over, it's been all about you from the very beginning. However, I'm not through with you. You...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 31

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    I look at new experiences like new food. I am willing to put anything in my mouth and give it a chance. I can always spit it out if I don't like it. But generally I am...
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F Mar 31

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    But for some reason i cannot physically cry, can anyone help me figure this out.
    anton88 anton88 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I always try to see the good in everyone. I always try to see the good, and not the bad people. It is easy to just see the bad in people, and judge them, but if you look past the...
    robbie1280 robbie1280 18-21, M Apr 9

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    Little did THEY know, that the only thing I really believed in was us. I never forget. We never forget. #ops
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 25

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    Please anon, don't make it any more difficult than it needs to be for me.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 28

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    You aren't the first person I've sent myself to jail for, Kilig. You just happen to be the one that matters most to me.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 30

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    It's been a long and rocky road and isn't getting any easier , so thanks for the welcome and look forward to making some new friends
    trace2765 trace2765 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    My best friend, Josef:) ily my homie:)
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F Apr 8

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    I agree with this, but to like that person, you need to be attracted to them, soooo looks does play a part!
    Beatit12 Beatit12 13-15, F Mar 22

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    I find it so stupid how society tells boys from the moment they practically enter the world that if they cry, they are not 'manly'. It's bullsh*t and untrue. I honestly think you...
    killyourhero killyourhero 16-17, F Apr 2

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    I think its cute O.o
    RavenHearts RavenHearts 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    It shows they have a sweet side
    ObeyDimples ObeyDimples 13-15, F Apr 3

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    I don't ever want to sit in a room where we all call each other wise. I'd rather be known as "Stella"
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F Mar 22

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    I hate having to push you away right now, Kilig. I don't want things to be all about me. I just need to figure out how to talk to you about how hurt I am right now. I don't think I...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Mar 29

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    If you don't then you didn't believe in it in the first place. It was just something you went along with to make you look better
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I didn't want it this way and I still don't Kilig. Never is a horrible word.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 1 Response Mar 30

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    I like and fall for people way too easily. I'm to trusting. I see everyone at face value. I think they all want they same thing that I do...especially the ones who say they do...
    Findingteesh Findingteesh 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I didn't mean to fall for him
    madybreen madybreen 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    I wanted the title of this experience to be "I'm going to ask for help", but there were no matches for that. I'm coping okay - but I always go for the wrong type of boys (sleazy...
    cunninlc cunninlc 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I'm kind of scared of falling in love. I've been hurt in the past. I always seem to pick the wrong guys. People have shown their true colors. People have hurt me. That's why I put...
    laubrown1 laubrown1 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    hi my name is tara but my real name is josh i am a trans woman who is in south carolina that is an adult baby and looking for someone that will love me for who i am and that i can...
    stacylynn7 stacylynn7 18-21, T 1 Response 6 days ago

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