I Always Feel I Have To Make Everyone Comfortable

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 475 People

    despitebeingdifferent despitebeingdifferent
    18-21, F
    May 20, 2014
    Rachel335 Rachel335
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 18, 2015

    I am sick & tired of being sick & tired!

    My mother & I got into a major fight about my social life. What do you think I should do?
    bigvi bigvi
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 18, 2014

    Trusting easily has bin my.

    ..would I say problem or weak point. Should I quit or keep trying...
    joyevaa joyevaa
    36-40, F
    Jul 17, 2014

    When people find out

    that I speak French or that I draw (pretty well, I'll say it^_^) they always ask me to teach them stuff or to "draw them something". I have never turned anyone down. I just can't, even though I really want to. They'd think I'm selfish and that they're not worth the effort. Not...
    commedesenfants commedesenfants
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2014

    It's so awkward when I put the radio on

    something in the car. I then feel responsible for every song that comes on. I always feel really embarrassed every time a new song comes on, like everyone thinks I picked it or something. Or when choosing random YouTube videos to watch with everyone. If I click on something and...
    SgtWalrus SgtWalrus
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2014

    I think it goes back to how I was raised.

    My mother and father always made me get the door for someone, walk them to the door or to their car, offer to help them carry things, help the one with the biggest load, ask them if they wanted a drink as soon as they came in the house... to look for ways I could be of service...
    johnstlouis johnstlouis
    61-65, M
    Sep 28, 2014

    outside of comfort,i could care less just

    as long as your mind is at ease ,,,,just breath
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    omg i thought i was the only one.

    i always have to make everyone comfortable af, especially when i know they are shy, like Yes! finally i'm not the one who is shy. like you can be weird, tell stupid jokes if that's your thing. show me the awkward side of you. just be you, i wont judge. no need to feel...
    SilverUniicorn SilverUniicorn
    70+, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2016

    Am I the only one that doesn't mind being

    different??.. Everyone wants to fit in everywhere, why?
    Seph2270 Seph2270
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2014

    I feel as though it is my life goal to make

    other people comfortable. I take pride in my selflessness but suffer when my sense of obligation becomes burdensome.
    hob0xcor3 hob0xcor3
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2014

    You Don't Have To!

    I have no idea why Im like this. Whenever I am around people, it can be a group or one, I feel I have to comfort them, and keep them feeling good? LOL, While talking about something like asking for help or asking for something, I will always say, you don't have to, or if it's...
    soulrunher soulrunher
    46-50, F
    20 Responses Aug 15, 2013
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