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I Always Felt Like I Didn't Fit In

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    I've always had friends,

    but kinda done my own thing. I've always been a non conformist, a leader and not a follower. Taken the road less traveled or hell the road no one would travel. These experiences have made me who I am. I'm still not sure I fit in...
    BeyondGreenEyes BeyondGreenEyes 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 3

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    Ever since elementary school.

    I've always been the odd one out. It was like no one wanted to be my friend and they just wanted me for my smarts. As the years progressed I'd assumed that I would get that kind of sense of belonging but I still haven't. Highschool isn't that bad since I have a few friends I can...
    Xoxolife Xoxolife 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Being The Weird Kid

    Ahh I can't pinpoint what makes me different. I'm just weird. I like being alone. I remember in middle school I grew accustomed to sitting alone and it didn't bother me. I liked it. It gave me time to think. A lot of Holden Caufeild thinking, looking in at the phonies in their...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Always. This is why I didn't stay in public

    school and was instead home schooled. I was always just so different from everybody else.
    LoneDreamer11 LoneDreamer11 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2014

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    And I still don't. I don't want to fit in.

    I don't need to be like others. Of course, this is only partially true. It's not like I can walk up to a woman half my age who is unknown to me and compliment her fine ***. Well, I could, but the outcome of that interaction isn't likely to be a good one. But, in the...
    Some1umayNo Some1umayNo 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    A sun rise A promise A new beginning A new

    chance For all things For the shadows of old stretch long and thin For a new days horror to find a new dark recess or shaded corridor to hide No not to hide To grow So that tomorrow they can stretch long and thin So hopefully I walk Through the valley of death Confidence...
    Drbosspaws Drbosspaws 13-15, M Jan 11

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    And that's when I realized

    that I needed a bigger bra.
    ronnkron ronnkron 22-25, F 4 Responses May 4, 2014

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    I never fit in, from elementry,

    Jr high, high school, college and even career. But I finally realized...lots of people feel like that. And no one talks about it. And I realized that feeling like is was screwing with my mind and wasting my time and causing me to feel sorry for myself. So, I decided to stop...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 1, 2014

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    Odd Ball Out

    I havent ever felt like I "fit in" or whatever you want to say. Being a kid I was always around guys. Even now that Im older I still find myself feeling like that odd kid out. I stand out and people stare like Im going to rob them or hurt them lol. Its stupid. But I guess thats...
    lostncali lostncali 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2011

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    Groupies, Gangs or club i really never had

    that kinda thing during my time in school even till now being in college. I mean other then my work environment but i mean that forced upon the employee so i don't think that really counts. I suppose i can be a little weird and corkie sometimes but i mean isn't everyone at some...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F Mar 17, 2014

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    Youcanthandlemyusername Youcanthandlemyusername 22-25, M Mar 2

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    I'm not trying to sound conceded

    or whatever, but honestly I swear I'm an earth angel next to humans...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jun 28, 2014

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    I don't know if I was born in the wrong era

    or the in wrong side of the world or in the wrong family. I always managed to become an outsider. I don't like it and I wish to change.
    alexiadahl alexiadahl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    I'm Tired And I Don't Feel Like Doing This Anymore..

    I'm not easily understood. People look at me and just assume that I have everything. When someone is pretty that must mean they are automatically happy and everything goes perfect for them all the time. I wasn't pretty my whole life. As a matter of fact I was quite awkward and...
    Teresa83 Teresa83 36-40, F May 10, 2011

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    Glad I didn't "fit in".

    ..**** that ****.Gotta' be your own individual,don't let society make one up for ya'.
    McKnight94 McKnight94 18-21, M Jul 12, 2014

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    I always felt like I didn't fit in.

    But it was more than that for me, I knew I didn't fit in. From first grade and someone asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. My answer was normal. I wanted to be normal when I grew up. So even when I was little I knew I wasn't normal. But I didn't really want to be normal...
    ElizaKate ElizaKate 16-17, F Jul 13, 2014

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    Being The Oddball

    Yes, even when i was with guys who were mostly the same age as me i was not quite the same as every one else in the group. Because i wore colours that were bright and girlish, i was considered to be something of a sissy ,even back then.When i was in middle junior high school and...
    dragonfang dragonfang 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    Everyone has their own group of friends.

    I felt like I never was meant to have any friends. I didn't fit in with anyone. I tried so hard to have the guy I was totally "in love" with love me the way I loved him. But it was stupid. And I learned that I can't change people and I can't keep hoping that they will somehow...
    bonyknees bonyknees 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    pmax2000 pmax2000 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 28, 2014

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    I am always the odd one out.

    When I'm at school I have a few different groups that include me, but when we're together I feel like I'm the only one they won't talk to. I'm confident, fun, and outgoing, but I feel like people purposely leave me out. Maybe I'm just paranoid. But why would so many people open...
    lifeinthecity lifeinthecity 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    I used to not fit in In till yesterday.

    I went to party got high and drunk, lost my virginity ended up going to jail because the cops where called and I was caught doing illegal things. Don't really care at this point, my dad bailed me out but whatever as long as I have my job and my money for weed I'm good. No longer...
    nerd1500 nerd1500 16-17, M Jul 12, 2014

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    Outside Looking In.

    for as long i could remember, (until just recently) i had always ben the odd child out. first it was my height...i guess for girls you could say im tall..5'8 flat, and 6'1 or 6'2 in heels... what can i say? I love my high heels :) anyway, growing up I was always tall...my first...
    HERChikken HERChikken 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    I was stoked to visit my first comicon today,

    as none of my friends were really "nerdy" enough to be into it. I meticulously planned my matching costume with my biffle and I thought we looked fantastic! No one knew who we were though... Plus i think I was the only woman there wearing a moustache, lol. Well, this Mecca...
    BleuGardenia BleuGardenia 26-30, F Jul 13, 2014

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    at school been bullied

    since year three. badly bucktoothed therefore badly bullied. lost all my friends basically spent a whole year of lunchtimes sitting alone. didnt feel like i fitted in at all. i struggled to make friends and got myself into lots of trouble at home and at school. by yr nine...
    emmy1998 emmy1998 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2014

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    I just dont feel like i belong in all the high

    school clicks im not a jock im not emo or goth im not popular im a bit of a rebel but i feel out of place when im there like a wolf in a lions cage it just feels strange to be there
    Moonpawsrabbitofthemoon Moonpawsrabbitofthemoon 16-17, M Jun 21, 2014

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    Throught out my whole life I have felt like

    that , even in my own family . I can't talk to my parents or my sister about it . They won't understand it's a personal problem.
    shyartist1983 shyartist1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    I Really Started To Notice Around The Age Of 15 Or So

    i found that i didnt want to always go out and do stuff. i didnt want to get into drugs or even smoke. i remember telling myself and my best friend that i was going to try smoking pot. i convinced myself that i needed to try it. i never could do it though. and thats when me and...
    EdgeCrusher EdgeCrusher 26-30, M May 12, 2011

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    It is especially obvious

    where I work. Whenever I see my coworkers laughing it up and having a good time while I'm stuck working my butt off, I feel depressed. Then I make myself scarce, so it's harder for them to find me when they actually need me. "Get it your own damn self" as I like to say.
    killakissa killakissa 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    Do you ever feel you can not fit into into

    cliques and groups? I go to a recreational outlet for people who have various disabilities. I do not like I have to ride my bus there alone. Most of these people seem to know each other from other places. The ones that group up together tend to ride together too. I am from the...
    LovelyChris71 LovelyChris71 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2014

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    Sure who doesn't at times?

    So what? Life is too short to worry about fitting in our not fitting in. Be yourself and do what makes you happy.As long as you aren't a ********* or criminal element or murder.Enjoy life and don't care about what others think about you. speak your mind and be happy you're alive...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    I still feel this way,

    because it's true. I will never matter to anybody. No friends, no family, no boyfriend......just.....nobody.....
    ImaWeirdie ImaWeirdie 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

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    Picture this: you walk into school like you do

    every morning. People stare at you up and down trying to take in the way you look. To them, you're not like them. In fact, you're the opposite. They don't like that you're not like them. They make it their job to pick on you. To make you feel worthless. To post hurtful things...
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97 18-21, F Mar 4

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    I've always been a loner.

    I grew up as an only child and both parents worked so I was a latch-key kid. I was alone much of the time. I learned early on how to amuse myself. That carried into school where I was happier in the back of the room by myself and after school where I went off to the woods or...
    FriendlyBryan FriendlyBryan 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 5, 2014

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    Yeah that's me. Up until

    now I never felt like I belonged anywhere. Sometimes I still do but I realized now that I have always fit in with myself. I will never fit in with society the way I'd always dreamed and I'm glad. Self acceptance lets me forget everybody else and be happy with just me. :)
    SunlilySky SunlilySky 18-21, F Feb 27, 2014

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    I went to a group who were also fatherless.

    I realised I was part of something more than loneliness of a parent. My father was killed. Some women have fathers who runaway. Although I still feel I don't fit in in this particular way over others, at least my father didn't reject me.
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2014

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