I Always Forgive People That Hurt Me

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    And then I get mad when the same person hurts

    me again. I'm starting to wish that I was heartless.
    sighselly sighselly
    13-15, F
    Sep 26, 2014

    Forgiving Is Essential, In My Opinion

    Cannot forgive and will not forgive are two totally different concepts of heart. Cannot forgive means you are physically incapable of forgiving. Will not forgive means you refuse to forgive. I forgive everyone who hurts me or wrongs me. I have been told even by Christians that I...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 10, 2013

    i always forgive people especially those

    who took my heart away then suddenly throw it away.. i dont know why and how i surpass thing is this situation.. they said im strong and so nice to forgive those guy just take me for granted or just used me or something.. i dont know why im like this.. i know to myself i dont...
    exor14 exor14
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 16, 2015

    i always forgive people

    that hurt me,my mom has this same habit even she forgives people who hurt her i dont know why i have such a soft heart i dont like to take revenge,even if i get mad that will only be for few seconds after that i get normal and when people ask me to forgive them i dont even think...
    Roadguy Roadguy
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2014

    I wonder how many times we forgive somebody just

    because we don't want to lose them, even if they don't deserve it.
    supermommyof2 supermommyof2
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2014

    It's Who I Am

    I've forgiven so many people, including myself. I don't forgive consciously, I do it more due to the fact that I cannot handle looking at somebody as they apoligize to me for something they have done in the past and not feel some type of emotional connection to that. It may not...
    BehindBlueEyes11 BehindBlueEyes11
    18-21, F
    Oct 25, 2010


    I always forgive anyone who hurts me, I always try and show understanding and compassion, even if I feel like killing them I stay indifferent, I tell them that what they've done is OK, no matter if they want to hear it or not, no matter if they even like me or not
    ZombiePandaDuck ZombiePandaDuck
    18-21, M
    Aug 31, 2013

    I can't stay mad. I always end up forgiving

    people, even when they don't deserve it. I forgive to easily... That's my problem..
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Mar 15, 2015

    He didn't deserve my forgiveness,

    but i still gave it to him.
    Sunshineh13 Sunshineh13
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    I'm to nice to everyone,

    I always look at a problem 8 different ways and fine out theirs was and go with it. Maybe I should pick the one I like the most but I don't like to make problems.
    RyanLThomas RyanLThomas
    18-21, M
    Apr 29, 2015

    Sometimes It Takes Awhile...

    But I always do. Forgiveness is a process, and depending on the level of hurt, some take longer than others. But forgiving them doesn't mean I will tolerate being hurt again, nor does it mean that all is well. I forgive them for myself, not for them. I have forgiven several...
    VendettaVita VendettaVita
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 21, 2012

    I Just Can`t Stay Mad

    it takes too much energy.i will just go on with my life if i am allowed to do so.if you want to be hurt full and mean then do it by yourself.i will useually forgive if i am allowed time.but their are some things i can`t foregive.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself
    1 Response Apr 24, 2009

    My Friends

    I hav friends that hurt me a lot but I forgiv thn easily even though my heart is very small when I go to thm they reject me but after time when they come to me I accept them as this had happened to me lots of time I joined this group n i don't hAv much to tell now but I want giv...
    haseena123 haseena123
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 14, 2013
    nutdumpster nutdumpster
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2013

    Thats Called Love

    As stupid as it may seem...or as unreasonable...I will always forgive. The bible tells me in the book of Luke I think to forgive and I will be forgiven, to not judge and I wont be judged, to not condemn and I wont be condemned. You will always hurt the ones you love the most. The...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 10, 2013

    I forgive and forget too easily.

    I always give people the benefit of the doubt.  Too often that has lead to me either enabling them or that person ultimately hurting me very deeply.   I am learning not to forgive so easily. I am learning to protect myself from selfish self serving people.   It is my nature...
    41-45, M
    1 Response Dec 29, 2013

    Sometimes it takes me awhile t actually forgive

    someone, but I do eventually do forgive them. It is forgetting that I really have the problem with.
    reverandron01 reverandron01
    51-55, M
    Dec 15, 2013

    No. It does not work like that.

    You do not forgive because you want people to walk right over you...even though sometimes it could be interpreted that way and they call you a coward. For me, it is the first step towards inner peace and acceptance to what has happened. For me, forgiving people that hurt me...
    Psychologica Psychologica
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2014

    My "dad"

    Well, my mother has always said I'm forgiving to a fault. Now I realize how true that is. My dad fought for custody of my siblings and I. Once he got every other weekend and half of the summer, he didn't show up as much. I haven't seen him in a few months, but I still want to see...
    saxgurl212 saxgurl212
    13-15, F
    Nov 1, 2012

    I Know Some Really Do Regret What They Do

    Yes it's true that you may have hurt me. I will forgive you. I have done and said things I wish I never did. I know what it's like to want to be forgiven and you aren't. The past is done and we don't live there no more. Let's worry about our present live together. That way we...
    Tara277 Tara277
    31-35, F
    Nov 23, 2012

    I Forgive For Me

    I always forgive people who have hurt me. I do this for my own sake not theirs. But that doesn't mean that I return them to the same position in my life that they once occupied. I'm forgiving, but I'm not stupid. If a person has hurt me once they can do it again. It takes time...
    CagedRaven CagedRaven
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Aug 3, 2009

    I Forgive The One Who Made Mistake To Me In The Childhood

    i'm not really forgotten and for some stories it is too worse and unbelievable to happen in family but not forgiving made your mind down and the obstruction to success or gain the happiness for your life that still go on
    Richy251124 Richy251124
    46-50, F
    Oct 16, 2013
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