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I Always Get Used By Others

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    I'm sorry I'm not who you want me to be.

    I'm sorry I'm weak. I'm sorry I can't always pick myself up when I fall. I'm sorry that I'm there for you, every minute of every hour, every day, listening to your problems, helping you, guiding you, hoping you'll feel better. I'm sorry you don't ever have the time for me. I'm...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F Apr 10

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    My story is like an issue

    that happens mostly o everyone may be...or may be with people who are kind heart and easy out going personality...i am sensitive and always care much about all kind of people and watch my languages when talk with anyone...people say sh*t towards me after taking advantages of me...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    people say they care

    when in reality they don't, they just want something from me. boys always act like they care when really they're just trying to get what they want from the little vulnerable insecure girl.
    kr1sten kr1sten 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Everyone Uses Me

    This is a long story, As of the last 4 years I've met a great guy we live together and he has a son and a ex wife. She and I get a long there was a falling out between us when someone else came in the picture who was miserable herself and we all know misery loves company. She the...
    agnes1977 agnes1977 31-35, F 2 Responses May 16, 2012

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