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I Always Get Used By Others

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    People always get what they want from me.

    I'm always there and always willing to help or be a friend or whatever, but when I need something they get tired of me and move on.
    Xander8905 Xander8905 18-21, M Jul 18

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    I'm sorry I'm not who you want me to be.

    I'm sorry I'm weak. I'm sorry I can't always pick myself up when I fall. I'm sorry that I'm there for you, every minute of every hour, every day, listening to your problems, helping you, guiding you, hoping you'll feel better. I'm sorry you don't ever have the time for me. I'm...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F Apr 10

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    I have realized recently

    that my friends do not love me, they do not care for me, they do not have my back. They use me when they want something from me. My friends do not call me. I don't receive messages from them. I have cut off ties with all my friends. I have deleted their names, numbers...
    memph31 memph31 31-35, M Sep 28

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    Did I already mention EP should make it easier

    to attach experiences to appropriate groups... I think so :pSo I'll put this motivational here. Although I'm more than slightly partial to Bob Marley's “The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.” ...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    people say they care

    when in reality they don't, they just want something from me. boys always act like they care when really they're just trying to get what they want from the little vulnerable insecure girl.
    kr1sten kr1sten 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Everyone Uses Me

    This is a long story, As of the last 4 years I've met a great guy we live together and he has a son and a ex wife. She and I get a long there was a falling out between us when someone else came in the picture who was miserable herself and we all know misery loves company. She the...
    agnes1977 agnes1977 31-35, F 1 Response May 16, 2012

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    I always get used my dad doesnt want me mom

    just wants my money nan just wants someome to clean her house every lad mate i make always ask for sex every lad im with just wants sex, am i really that bad of a person thay they cant be around me unless they want something?
    nevermentioned nevermentioned 16-17, F Jun 22

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    I think my biggest weakness is being nice to

    everyone it seems everyone uses that to their advantage and then leave , even in love. I wonder if its possible to change.
    YoungHeartedSoul YoungHeartedSoul 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    My story is like an issue

    that happens mostly o everyone may be...or may be with people who are kind heart and easy out going personality...i am sensitive and always care much about all kind of people and watch my languages when talk with anyone...people say sh*t towards me after taking advantages of me...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 23

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