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I Always Have Little Crushes On People

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    Not even just in terms of romantic ones,

    I just find myself caring very intensely on people who honestly aren't even that big a part of my life.catching glimpses of genuinely sweet,silly,quirky,funny interesting people is the best, I find myself deeply invested in virtual strangers happiness just at the grateful ness...
    rawanabanana rawanabanana 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    earthquakeweather earthquakeweather 22-25 4 Responses Jun 23

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    Little Secret Crushes Delight

    I have many little crushes throughout daily life. I am not alone in this. Others do also. We see qualities in other people that trigger more than intellectual curiosity or aesthetic impression That certain smile, that lingering eye contact, that little flip of hair, a certain...
    WildeOscar WildeOscar 51-55, M 15 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I do, I do, I do! This time is a person on Ep

    that brings ease and flow in our communication. He is super busy, keeping me wanting more and curious.... His appreciation for my forms and a elegant way to handle my intensity..... Wishing for this wonderful man to be insanely satisfied and happy!
    onitaly onitaly 41-45 Jun 10

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    But wen i'm in love you'll see the difference,

    my little crushes are not so obvious, but when i love someone it is obvious that i'm in love
    SirWannabeGhost SirWannabeGhost 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I'm terrible. A male student has just started

    on my ward and I didn't think much of him at first until we walked home together the other day and he took his top off to put a new shirt on so I got a nice eyeful. I'm always applying an extra layer of lipgloss as soon as I see he's on duty and when I'm looking at him I only...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    It Almost Sounds Immature But I Can't Help It

    "I always have little crushes" sounds like such a teenybopper thing to say....lol. But it's true. I always want to have a crush on someone because it makes me feel good. If I don't have a crush, I feel miserable. The crush is almost never anyone I know in real life (usually well...
    BlankPage123456787 BlankPage123456787 70+, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    90slove 90slove 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Even on people on the subways,

    in the streets. I know this is weird, but I'm always looking, hoping that one day I'll meet someone like that.
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 3 Responses May 29

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    And the cycle begins.

    I'm an idiot.
    life14 life14 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 19

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    I feel like i have many crushes

    that i will never do anything about
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F Jun 24

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    So Many Different Things To Like :)

    i have always liked something in some one and then something in someone else..!! There are so many ppl, so many natures and behaviors and so many things to appreciate..!! :) thats precisely why i have had a lot of tiny crushes on lots of ppl..!! i used to find something i am...
    myrasmiles myrasmiles 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2012

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    I always have little crushes on Big Beautiful

    Women.I love all you big busty beauties....
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    It's fun to be cute with people you're close

    with. But sometimes I wonder if these little crushes would matter when I'm in a relationship. Hell, little crushes add some fun to my otherwise unattended to love life(?), but I wanna meet a guy who could make me a one guy kinda girl.
    SuperWomanFly SuperWomanFly 22-25, F Jul 27

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    But I'm mature enough

    now to recognize them for what they are... just little crushes. Moments of romantic admiration. And they have been with both women and men. I'm secure enough in my own sexuality to acknowledge that as well and it's okay and normal.
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M May 8

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    They usually go away within about 5 back

    and forth chats but when I get a good convo going with someone I cant help it. I think I have crushes on their chatting abilities.
    Nooneknowsmythoughts Nooneknowsmythoughts 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    Yep. True. Spooks most.

    Am researching why. Possible attachment disorder. Or psychic curse. Sigh.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Jul 4

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    I have huge crush on A$AP Rocky.

    He is so hot. I always have crushes on boys and girls too. It's a bless and a curse too.
    CuteGoldie CuteGoldie 13-15, M Jun 1

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    Ode To A Lover

    I release you sweet dove Man of my dreams And the promise of love so pure Of passion and peace Of rapture divine And our bodies entwined as one For fly you must, my love could not hold you And now I must let you go Release you from the promise Made beneath the stars Thank you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 2, 2012

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    All. The. Time. It's super annoying

    because they're gone just as quickly as they appear. Ahhh!
    3milyFaye 3milyFaye 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    I wonder what she's like in person,

    her mannerisms and appearance. I wonder what the hell she does for a living. I know only that nothing can live up to the image I've painted of her in my head. For all I know she doesn't even wear her hair long enough for me to grab a fistful of it, tilt head back and plant one...
    needlessthings needlessthings 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 22

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    My Ten Minute Crush

    I had the most delightful mutual crush recently. My husband and I were part of a guided tour at a historical site. The tour guide was not very impressive so I lost interest in her words and just focused on everything around me. I was standing beside my husband when I looked...
    CuriousAngelina CuriousAngelina 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    I often have little crushes.

    I would never act on them, but is that weird, considering I'm married?
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I fall for people too easily!

    !! I've just started liking a guy that's never really talked to me, he's older and he'll probably never like me back and ugh Hate life
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 8

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    ah, ya... this is the most true statement about

    me, of all time, I would think.. lol... I cant help myself, haha.... I have varying degrees of crushes too.. and I know when it is love, and just a crush... what can I say, I do enjoy caring for others, loving them and making them feel pretty dang special... I am also great...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    There’s not a woman

    that I’ve met that I haven’t fallen in love with, whether it was for 10 minutes or 10 years.''
    LuisPT LuisPT 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Lol I'm pretty everybody goes through this

    there always somebody your extreme attracted to for dumb reasons but it only last few days and if it doesn't you never pursue them for whatever reason
    BlackSpartan7 BlackSpartan7 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    It's only been 2 days of school

    and I already have little crushes on guys. There are ALOT I MEAN ALOT OF HOT GUYS AT MY SCHOOL. And their EYES. Omg. Omfg. Omg. But there's this one guy that rides my bus and I think I like him. I always think bout him. Ugh. His eyes are blue. 💙. I don't know if he likes me...
    QueenBetcy QueenBetcy 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Always, since I was nine years old.

    One girl at a time, I idolised them all. Girls at school, girls on exchange trips, sometimes a teacher or an older girl. My next door neighbour, girls in college, then older women in work. Even girls on TV. Some crushes would go on for years, and so I believed I was in love as...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 1 Response Jul 5

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    ...But this one has gotten out of hand.

    I'm fretting over what is not mine. Over someone who I may never even talk to again. It's a sad thought. This is completely farfetched. Ugh.
    dreammassive dreammassive 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I usually find something I like about a person

    and I might develop a small crush on them. Other times I just see some random person and I imagine a future together. Idk it's nice to think about cute things like that.
    fillia fillia 16-17, F Jun 2

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    It's Natural

    I wouldn't necessarily call them crushes. They are not always typical crushes. Perhaps attraction is a better word. And it does happen to me at times, both with women and men. I like looking at women. I'm often impressed by them. Little things can cause that – certain fancy...
    touchOFspring touchOFspring 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    What's that thing called

    when your crush likes you back? Oh yea it's called your imagination
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Mornings Crushes

    They may be too brief or too isolated to be considered crushes; however, there is a whole class of harmless, innocent attraction that occurs in the morning, in contrast to the rest of the day. I was driving to work one morning, and I heard a brief story on a reasonably serious...
    WildeOscar WildeOscar 51-55, M 16 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    What is my type? I know these guys have

    something in common. I just can't put my finger on it. 
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I got a crush on a work colleague she amazing

    got lovely bot. Nos about my biggest secret.
    24chris24 24chris24 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Not always.. but i do had this with our new

    girl.. married one she is average fair.. but her capabilities are very much great her character talking style everything touched me.. i saw myself in her.. she is a good friend. she talks with me often.. and we have such a fun fighting.... i never told her.. since i dont know...
    silentwatch2 silentwatch2 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    i fall in live just a little old little bit

    everday with someone new hozier
    dothebartman dothebartman 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 25

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    This is so me! I just adore the little things

    about people. How they may act, laugh, or see the world and the people in it.
    eqlover eqlover 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    Why did I have to fall in love with you,

    I hate the fact that were never going to be together only in my dreams, when all I want to do is hold you in my arms. :'(
    Sykes21 Sykes21 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Sense I was 8 years old I would be at the

    grocery store with my mom and think wow he's cute for all the cute guys I spotted the whole hour at the store at school i had many and still do people my age people older too that's who interest me
    Dinosaurfanatic Dinosaurfanatic 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Wrong Message Sent...

             While staring  at my boss during the job offer, I was kinda nervous though he was curt and nice.       My first week was okay until I sent a wrong message to him which supposed to be sent to a friend who was asking about my new job.       This was my message...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    iLOVEjensfeet iLOVEjensfeet 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    Crush On

    I don't know about 'crushes on people' but maybe a 'crush on a person' :) right now.
    hartleybroken hartleybroken 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    And that's pretty suck:/ sometimes it really

    got me confusing like is it crush or love? Need advice to deal with it. 😶
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I have a crush on a internet friend

    that I have had for about 6 years now I would love to be in a relationship with him he is creative funny down to earth ohhh yeah and doesn't know im alive past what we do in our free time(youtube and fetishes) Supposed to be visiting him one day would love to take it to the next...
    foreversingle30 foreversingle30 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Sometimes, when i'm just walking along the

    street, and people watching my mind kind of just goes "ooh he's hot". Yes I am weird.
    AlaiahMay AlaiahMay 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    I easily get Little Crushes on People

    especially the cute ones, boy or girl. Sense of Humor or Talent or Smart or Nice is a plus. I act awkwardly and clumsily and shyly around them and my act would always put them to smile at me. *BLUSHED* and I smiled back at them. When they talk to me or just say HI to me, im like...
    lavender96 lavender96 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Oh Yes.

    On everyone - girls and guys, even though I'm gay.  But if they can make me laugh, are cute/hot, or are really nice, I'm instantly like shy around them and all giddy and ****.  It's quite annoying after a while actually.  It even happens with characters on TV or in...
    Jaggie Jaggie 22-25 1 Response Oct 1, 2007

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    There was this guy at my school in fifth grade,

    we were great friends. I didn't realize I liked him until now..
    AnAwkwardTurtle AnAwkwardTurtle 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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