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I Always Have Little Crushes On People

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    Little Secret Crushes Delight

    I have many little crushes throughout daily life. I am not alone in this. Others do also. We see qualities in other people that trigger more than intellectual curiosity or aesthetic impression That certain smile, that lingering eye contact, that little flip of hair, a certain...
    WildeOscar WildeOscar 51-55, M 15 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    They usually go away within about 5 back

    and forth chats but when I get a good convo going with someone I cant help it. I think I have crushes on their chatting abilities.
    Nooneknowsmythoughts Nooneknowsmythoughts 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Crush On

    I don't know about 'crushes on people' but maybe a 'crush on a person' :) right now.
    hartleybroken hartleybroken 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    I have a crush on a internet friend

    that I have had for about 6 years now I would love to be in a relationship with him he is creative funny down to earth ohhh yeah and doesn't know im alive past what we do in our free time(youtube and fetishes) Supposed to be visiting him one day would love to take it to the next...
    foreversingle30 foreversingle30 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Oh my.... I have a major crush on the

    LensCrafter's guy.... He helped me a few months ago.... And he remembered me when I came in today... He's so cute and so so very nice *sigh*
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    I have this crazy happy crush on my celeb crush

    that I get jealous whenever he is rumored to be dating someone. #Borderlineobsessed
    jellyace jellyace 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    But I'm mature enough

    now to recognize them for what they are... just little crushes. Moments of romantic admiration. And they have been with both women and men. I'm secure enough in my own sexuality to acknowledge that as well and it's okay and normal.
    utahwriter utahwriter 41-45, M May 8, 2014

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    Well, It always happens,

    and it's always embarrassing the short time it does! I guess there's nothing wrong about it, though. There are a lot of girls not just in school, but in the world that are pretty, and I guess I get caught up in that occasionally.
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Dec 26, 2014

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    He is the most handsome being,

    he looks painted! He is kind, handsome and helpful. I feel love......just that. I am reminded about beauty/kindness/possibilities..... he is existence of them. I feel grateful!
    onitaly onitaly 41-45 3 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    It's never anything sorted just little crushes

    on everyday people. The cashier I always talk to for a few extra minutes every morning, the friendly girl who walks her dogs in my apartment complex, new friends when we first get to hangout and I see things I enjoy in their personality. They come and go pretty quick tho some do...
    DizzyGreenEyes DizzyGreenEyes 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    This is close enough to how I feel.

    I have crushes on multiple people at the same time. If one of them doesn't like me I have another one with someone else. A lot of them I don't feel would work out anyway though.
    notuh notuh 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    Ode To A Lover

    I release you sweet dove Man of my dreams And the promise of love so pure Of passion and peace Of rapture divine And our bodies entwined as one For fly you must, my love could not hold you And now I must let you go Release you from the promise Made beneath the stars Thank you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 2, 2012

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    All the time I get little crushes!

    When it really sucks is when they stop talking to me! Not on purpose but just accidentally.. And it drives me crazy and I want them more and more!!
    Jessicaliners Jessicaliners 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Omg all the time. If I see an attractive person

    somewhere who I feel a connection to I just start getting a crush on. I constantly have crushes on people even if we've never talked. I even planned a life together with someone I just became friends with.
    tgerr1 tgerr1 13-15, M 21 hrs ago

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    Why did I have to fall in love with you,

    I hate the fact that were never going to be together only in my dreams, when all I want to do is hold you in my arms. :'(
    Sykes21 Sykes21 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2014

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    Sometimes, when i'm just walking along the

    street, and people watching my mind kind of just goes "ooh he's hot". Yes I am weird.
    AlaiahMay AlaiahMay 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    She's here , she's not here.

    ..crawls into my heart to give it a kiss and then I can barely make out her shadow when she disappears out the door. What was that I say? And for just a fleeting moment a swarm of butterflies beat violently against my heart and my stomach and then ....gone. My little crushes...I...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 5 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    http://thoughtcatalog.

    com/pauline-navarro/2014/10/10-mildly-weird-things-overthinkers-do-when-they-have-a-crush-on-someone/
    panda05 panda05 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    ah, ya... this is the most true statement about

    me, of all time, I would think.. lol... I cant help myself, haha.... I have varying degrees of crushes too.. and I know when it is love, and just a crush... what can I say, I do enjoy caring for others, loving them and making them feel pretty dang special... I am also great...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Even on people on the subways,

    in the streets. I know this is weird, but I'm always looking, hoping that one day I'll meet someone like that.
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 2 Responses May 29, 2014

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    You're addictive, delicious I wish to taste you

    I'm waiting for the day Where I can satisfy my sweet tooth!
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    I wonder what she's like in person,

    her mannerisms and appearance. I wonder what the hell she does for a living. I know only that nothing can live up to the image I've painted of her in my head. For all I know she doesn't even wear her hair long enough for me to grab a fistful of it, tilt head back and plant one...
    needlessthings needlessthings 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 22, 2014

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    I'm terrible. A male student has just started

    on my ward and I didn't think much of him at first until we walked home together the other day and he took his top off to put a new shirt on so I got a nice eyeful. I'm always applying an extra layer of lipgloss as soon as I see he's on duty and when I'm looking at him I only...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 2 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    Well, ****. I really messed up today.

    For some reason the idea to be a jerk to the girl I have a crush on popped into my head. I guess I wanted to know if she was interested in me, but in the end all I did was hurt her. I walked into class while wearing earphones and kept them on the until class stared, ignoring her...
    GrimCreeper0150 GrimCreeper0150 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 29, 2014

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    i feel like ill never have the guy i like .

    ever. might have other guys liking me right now . but not that special someone i got in mind . 😔😢 FML . #truestory #FML
    jussttmee98 jussttmee98 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    Mornings Crushes

    They may be too brief or too isolated to be considered crushes; however, there is a whole class of harmless, innocent attraction that occurs in the morning, in contrast to the rest of the day. I was driving to work one morning, and I heard a brief story on a reasonably serious...
    WildeOscar WildeOscar 51-55, M 14 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    I'm married, but I still I get crushes on the

    most random people. The FedEx guy who delivers to my office, my neighbor, a former coworker - I've had crushes on all over the last couple year. Currently, I'm crushing on one of my husbands friends. It's weird, but I get excited and worry a little more about my appearance when...
    HarmonyCHILL HarmonyCHILL 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 7, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 15, 2014

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    It's Natural

    I wouldn't necessarily call them crushes. They are not always typical crushes. Perhaps attraction is a better word. And it does happen to me at times, both with women and men. I like looking at women. I'm often impressed by them. Little things can cause that – certain fancy...
    touchOFspring touchOFspring 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    She was on EP, and I always enjoyed her stories.

    I commented when I could. Then she became upset, removed her photos, and I was planning to write her a little note. Tell her how much I appreciated her, and it was about the stories not the photos. But the words escaped me again. Today, she is gone.
    qcrash qcrash 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I can fall in love with someone

    who is really nice to me. There was one time i met a guy and we talked for an hour and i already had feelings for him. it's like 2 months later and i still have some feelings even though we don't talk anymore
    Tiffjoy Tiffjoy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    For a long time I've had a soft spot

    for The Amazing James Randi. After watching the recent BBC documentary about him (part of the excellent Storyville series) that soft spot became like kittens' fur. He's a magician, storyteller, debunker of some of the nonsense that plagues our lives, and all round good egg...
    BigBlueChicken BigBlueChicken 41-45, M Nov 4, 2014

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    It usually happens when I am alone on the

    subway, on the bus or walking somewhere. Some man catches my eye and I imagine what kind of person he is and play a little game in my head in which I meet him. Obviously he is a really good guy in my fantasy and I get a crush on him. Happens every time. Makes travelling more fun...
    CutePerfectionist CutePerfectionist 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 13

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    littljay littljay 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 1

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    Funny isn't it! I can't help it.

    I feel guilty about it, having a girlfriend and all, but maybe everybody's like that, and the ol' frontal lobe inhibitory signals stop us all doing anything about it? It's not abnormal to think to myself "in any other world...", sigh, smile a sad smile and just imagine what it'd...
    jahosijhs jahosijhs 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense 31-35, M Nov 28, 2014

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    I easily get Little Crushes on People

    especially the cute ones, boy or girl. Sense of Humor or Talent or Smart or Nice is a plus. I act awkwardly and clumsily and shyly around them and my act would always put them to smile at me. *BLUSHED* and I smiled back at them. When they talk to me or just say HI to me, im like...
    lavender96 lavender96 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Are you still considered a cougar

    if the guy is only two years younger??
    GtotheC GtotheC 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    I thought I had grown out of it

    but here we go again. She works at the library at uni so I see her almost everyday. Amazing how crush's can make you do things you never imagined you could do. She's the reason I started going to the library. Just to at least get a glimpse of her. I was on the verge of...
    nick030 nick030 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    And the cycle begins.

    I'm an idiot.
    life14 life14 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 19, 2014

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    It Almost Sounds Immature But I Can't Help It

    "I always have little crushes" sounds like such a teenybopper thing to say....lol. But it's true. I always want to have a crush on someone because it makes me feel good. If I don't have a crush, I feel miserable. The crush is almost never anyone I know in real life (usually well...
    BlankPage123456787 BlankPage123456787 66-70, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I always have a little crush on my male science

    project partner.It started on first year high school,I am now second year high school. Coincidentally,both of their names has the name Joseph..
    loonylynx loonylynx 13-15, F Sep 15, 2014

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    I've been crushing on this guy

    that used to visit me at work and talk to me. I haven't seen him for a while and I kinda miss our little chats made the work day more interesting haha! Plus we both played bass! I think if I ever see him again I'll ask him for his number, hope he doesn't think I'm stalking haha
    Zaada Zaada 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    Oh Yes.

    On everyone - girls and guys, even though I'm gay.  But if they can make me laugh, are cute/hot, or are really nice, I'm instantly like shy around them and all giddy and ****.  It's quite annoying after a while actually.  It even happens with characters on TV or in...
    Jaggie Jaggie 22-25 1 Response Oct 1, 2007

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    So Many Different Things To Like :)

    i have always liked something in some one and then something in someone else..!! There are so many ppl, so many natures and behaviors and so many things to appreciate..!! :) thats precisely why i have had a lot of tiny crushes on lots of ppl..!! i used to find something i am...
    myrasmiles myrasmiles 22-25, F 1 Response