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I Always Have To Say Goodbye

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    I'm Very Cognizant That We...

    I'm very cognizant that we may never see each other again. Eventually we all die--them and me. So as much as possible I want to ensure that if they die or I never see them again, I've said "goodbye." I'm also one of those people that always tells the people I love...
    liferiot liferiot 26-30, M Jan 8, 2007

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    Sometimes If I'm In A Hurr...

    Sometimes if I'm in a hurry, I won't. Usually, I do, though.
    SnoBunny SnoBunny 16-18, F Jan 8, 2007

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    I really don't like goodbyes, so I just made a rule years ago to say see ya soon and be gone. No use dragging these things out, it only makes things worse.
    pacwoman pacwoman 26-30, F Jan 8, 2007

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    I'm deleting this account,

    it's just not for me it's nice that all of you guys want to help out and hear other people's problems but that's not me and everyone thinks it is me. I don't know how to help people and if I think you did something stupid I'll call you an idiot lol so yeah obviously I'm not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 4

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    Always Forever Never Goodbye

    The people we meet everyday..in any situation is all part of some great plan...Like a form off punishment in a way..teasing...maybe destiny playing with us.. maybe ... have you ever meet someone who made your heart flutter, or you had to crane your neck just to see them...
    caroli9 caroli9 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2007

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    I Left My Boyfriend Thinking T...

    I left my boyfriend thinking that it was just a simple vacation. We broke up over the phone. I didn't feel compelled to go say goodbye in person.
    PatientRapunzel PatientRapunzel 31-35, F Jan 8, 2007

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    Why Did It End This Way Again?

     The love of my life works half way across the country, and I'm stuck here. I've only seen him twice in the last 2.5 years, but I know he's the one... Anyway I had to say goodbye again last night. Hopefully our goodbyes will end soon.
    Kipani Kipani 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25, 2009

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    Of Course I Always Say Goodbye...

    Of course I always say goodbye.  It would be very rude not to.
    missb missb 26-30, F Jan 8, 2007

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    I Fall For The Ones That Leave

    I tend to fall for the ones I know have to leave and just end up saying goodbye and feeling like crap for it. Last year the guy I fell for as a freshman in high school (now I am a sophomore in college) came home and we just fell in love all over. But I knew he was only going to...
    JennNoble JennNoble 19-21, F Jan 3, 2007

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    Good Bye and Hello

    Ever sence ive been agout 3 or 4 ive been going back and forth form my parents house. It seemed like i was always saying hi and bye to haph of my famly all the time. It just sucks. My mom and her family live in louisiana and my dad and his family live in michigan, so its not like...
    takeawildguess takeawildguess 19-21, M Apr 10, 2007

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    Mean Nothing.

    The hardest part of any friendship is when it is time to say goodbye, and even though I wished I could make you stay, I know I got to let you spread your wings and fly. For life is a journey that needs to be travelled and I am certain you'd make it through, I just want you to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 8, 2013

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    Close.....Open

    I heard somebody said that leaving is easy but saying Goodbye is Not! True!!! In my 33 years of my life, i seldom say goodbye especially if staying is pleasurable...why leave? Fact of life that everybody leaves! Before I like to stay in  a relationship that is so abusive...
    evergreen evergreen 31-35, F Feb 10, 2008

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    Kvikings102 Kvikings102 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Miss You

    You were always there for me.You always knew just what to say.You always had all the right answers.You were the one who always seemed to have it right.You always saw right through me.You could never fall for my lies.You understood me.Now I need to say goodbye.R.I.P. Keli. I will...
    morrisjey morrisjey 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

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    Pet-Peev

    I always have to say goodbye and finish a conversation or relationship knowing that it's over. When a person leaves a situation without saying "Bye" or something I feel that as rejection or that the person doesn't understand social interactions. From the start of...
    wellversed wellversed 21-25, M Oct 11, 2007

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    "Good" Byes Are The ...

    "Good" byes are the "Best" byes, I guess. Among friends I prefere to say, " Take care, see ya later." Bye seems so officially ended. See ya later, says 'gotta go for now, but I'm still around and thinkin' of you.'  Professionally though, it's...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2007

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    Usually, Because I Like To Hav...

    Usually, because i like to have the last word.
    sinfulaussie sinfulaussie 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2007

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    I Always Feel The Pain

    I am always the girl who find the guy that makes me feel perfect and special but after i have him i always have to say goodbye for one reason or another like my last realtion ship he went off to college
    Anjelibean Anjelibean 18-21, F Jan 5, 2007

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    Most Of The Time! ...

    Most of the time! My closest friends and relatives live abroad and we often have to leave each other!!! So, saying goodbye is kind of second nature for me... hurts every time too!!!  
    delighted26 delighted26 21-25, F Jan 8, 2007

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    At Ohare Airport, Post Lollapalooza...

    I am watching them walk away from me now, my closest high school friends, falling in line between the barriers, letting the guards check their backpacks and purses for lighters, scissors, toothpaste and all other weapons of mass destruction. Star bucks in one hand, luggage in the...
    captncannuck captncannuck 19-21, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2007

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    It Is Unbelievably Annoying Wh...

    It is unbelievably annoying when people end a conversation, especially on the phone, by simply hanging up to phone.  In person, goodbye can take on many forms, but I still like to say, "goodbye."
    greenninjaix greenninjaix 19-21, M Jan 8, 2007

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    Everytime I End A Conversation...

    Everytime I end a conversation with someone, I have to make sure I have the last word.  Especially on the phone.  I hate it when you hang up without having the last "good-bye".
    mmmcripsybacon mmmcripsybacon 21-25, M Jan 8, 2007

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    Goodbye To You

    Laughter filled this room many times again & again   we’d sit for hours not saying anything at all,words weren’t always needed, somehow we each knew the others thoughts.   Close as sisters, our friendship was deep and true then one day...
    rollercoastergirl rollercoastergirl 22-25, F Oct 21, 2010

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    "Love Ya Goodbye"

    That's my least favorite way to end a conversation/phone call/etc.  If I'm going to say "I love you," then I say "I love you."  My mom likes to use not responding as a way to remind us when she's mad at us, and that makes me angry and hurt...
    Chanteuse1984 Chanteuse1984 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2007

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    Goodbye My Best Friend.

    Goodbye my friend. I never had a chance to say it to you because you left me so abruptly. It was not here, but in real life. I will never forget you and wish things were different. So I say goodbye here and will always think of you daily. I wish I had said the right things to...
    AlnAlli AlnAlli 46-50, M 3 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I hate saying goodbye to him ;( I never know when I'll see him again, it's always surprise visits!
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I need to say goodbye to the most important part of my life and I don't even know how to begin. It is said that one is nothing but a sum of their experiences, but what happens when...
    Tanira Tanira 22-25 Jul 3

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    I don't like saying goodbye but goodbye to the people I've met today......well until tomorrow because now I'm going to sleep.....so bye
    pattyricia pattyricia 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Well, not really saying goodbye, but just having some time for myself. I will be online nearly every day, but aether very early or very late so i won't be able to talk with most of...
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Its horrible. You've just had lots of fun and now you have to go to boring old home. But saying goodbye at the airport is the worst, it makes me cry for hours.
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F Jul 9

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    I always have little crushes on Big Beautiful Women.I love all you big busty beauties....
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    I always have to to tinkle because of all of the liquids I drink throughout the day. I drink plenty of soda and juice. And tons of water. Every morning I wake up with a full...
    Smileeboo Smileeboo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    goodbye old house that i moved into when i was 6 where you shared my smiles and tears goodbye to the dining room, where dinners full of delciousness and discussions of life and...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Goodbye is a simple lil word but somehow it seems final like coming to an endBut i know this is only the beginning of something wonderful with you my dear friend.So this word wont...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    Goodbyes are not forever, Goodbyes are not the end, they simply mean I'll miss you, Until we meet again.
    allencam05 allencam05 22-25, M Jul 4

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    A 5 year old girl had a panic attack. he passed away, she left and never looked back. She loved her daddy so much. That little girl was me. lost little soul wondering why her daddy...
    kjonesr kjonesr 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I have said many goodbyes but none hurt as bad as when I said goodbye to you. Goodbye ladybug
    babybop12 babybop12 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'll be off for awhile, goodbye. I won't be on as much anymore either, bit busy with somethings aswell, I'll be on my other account or k---eeek 9they filter this lol). Plus, going...
    Jakey942 Jakey942 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Goodbye seems like you will never see each other again. I prefer cya later.
    PanicAtTheBlink PanicAtTheBlink 13-15, M Jun 29

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    The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    As of late I have come to the conclusion about my life that seems quite enduringly logical. I have borderline personality disorder* & today I came too the realization that I will...
    girlinterrupted96 girlinterrupted96 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I do hate it... I don't even like to hang up... But sometimes you have to say good-bye so you can say hi for new and better stuff... Changes are good... Or that's what people say...
    dalexand16 dalexand16 22-25, F Jul 13

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    It took me four years to get over "U"I admit, i was in love till the very end. Even when you told me " you know it is over, right?" or that unforgettable night when you made it...
    STORMBRINGER72 STORMBRINGER72 36-40, M Jul 18

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    Sometimes, the person who tries to kept everyone happy is always the most lonely person, so never them alone because they will never say that they need you....
    mssst mssst 36-40, F Jul 9

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    It's currently the end of July and I am wearing warm fuzzy gloves and long sweatpants. It's really uncomfortable sometimes, but you know what they say "cold hands, warm hearts...
    alisemichelle alisemichelle 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    ah, ya... this is the most true statement about me, of all time, I would think.. lol... I cant help myself, haha.... I have varying degrees of crushes too.. and I know when it is...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    so my boyfriend is making me hold my bladder for punishment. I have to get 5 people to say yes I can go before I can. Please can I go!!!!
    Daddyslilgirl15 Daddyslilgirl15 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Always, since I was nine years old. One girl at a time, I idolised them all. Girls at school, girls on exchange trips, sometimes a teacher or an older girl. My next door neighbour...
    rolledgoldboy rolledgoldboy 22-25 Jul 5

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    I'm terrible. A male student has just started on my ward and I didn't think much of him at first until we walked home together the other day and he took his top off to put a new...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am actually a prisoner in my whole life is black out. It's a blackout because everything I see is so horrific. It's like I'm the little boy who is being molested and has erased...
    Danielle9355 Danielle9355 26-30, F Jul 3

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