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I Always Put My Man First

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 328 People

    To The Point Of Loss

    I feel that if you truly love another person that you will put that person first in front of all others.  I am not just talking about this from only a sexual standpoint but in all aspects of the relationship but it takes mutual respect from both sides.  I never...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2009

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    Thats The Way I Roll....

    The way I roll is, He is always 1st. He comes before me. he is the 1st thing I think about. Is he Happy. Is he healty. Is he safe, is he okay. I hope he is doing well. Is he having a good day. Is he eating right. Is working going okay for him. He is always the 1st thing to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 30, 2009

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    I always put my husband first in everything.

    I make sure his needs are well taken care of. I want him always to be happy and pleased by me. We have a great sexual relationship and he lacks nothing from me. His sexual needs are always taken care of. We have a great and different variety in our sex life.
    momofthreeinbikini momofthreeinbikini 26-30, F 3 Responses May 2, 2014

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    Part Of My Problem

    i always put my man first. i shouldn't though. i find when you give too much you always get taken for granted. selfish people always seem to get what they want and then some.
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2009

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    His Needs.....

    Are important to me....how he's feeling....doing....I treat my man with love...kindness...affection, and respect....never taking him for granted....because that's the type of woman that I am...:)
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2010

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    So.. A Question. Do You 'Dress' For Your Husband?

    I don't mean just wearing what he likes... I mean, does he prefer your hair a certain way? Does he like certain makeup (or none?), certain shoes...?Does he want you to avoid piercings and tattoos... or does he like them? Does it matter either way to you if he does?I usually keep...
    Tihtil Tihtil 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Growing up in an old fashion manner,

    I watched how my grandmother always put my grandfather first. Today I do the same thing. My husband is a spoiled rotten brat and I created that. I have always put him and his needs first. He gets whatever it is he wants and everyone around us knows that.
    SweetHawaiianHoney SweetHawaiianHoney 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    Why I Make My Husband A Priority

    I put my husband first in all matters, because that's what truly makes me happy, and content.  It is my desire to cater to his wants, and needs.  It is my desire, to be a submissive, obedient wife.  If we disagree, we will try it his way, this gives him the opportunity to grow...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 5 Responses Jul 7, 2011

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    I love him for everything he is

    and everything can can have together. He love me because he know I'll make a good wife and mother. I don't care if he doesn't get those little butterflies when I'm around. I need him. I cannot image my life without him.
    jgala90 jgala90 22-25, F May 9, 2014

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    My Husband, My All

    I always put my husband first (and of course our children). It is simply what above everything else makes me contented the most, too. I want to cater to him and fulfil his needs. It's not to say I'm a doormat, to say that I am submissive to his wishes or desires, but I do want...
    FaithfulB FaithfulB 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    A good woman is hard to find.

    .. As for how small of a minority of women are genuine submissive types who have discovered the wonder of uninhibited, masochistic sexual surrender..... It seems to me to be about 1 in 50 or something like that. Maybe less. I would say almost no women are like that. It took me...
    Ajushi Ajushi 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I'M A Straight Single Man, And...

    I wouldn't mind talking to any single women who genuinely feel this way. This attitude seems all but dead anymore. To those of you women who this group title applies to, I sincerely applaud you.
    aktor1970 aktor1970 41-45, M May 11, 2013

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    Yes!

    His needs, His emotions, his feeling, his wants, and his desires, are far more important to me, than mine are. I can care less about my needs, my wants, my feelings. But his matter most to me, and they will always go before mine.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 17, 2010

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    My mother always put my dad first

    and it worked for them so I have done the same thing in my marriage. I am one happy woman and so is my man.
    mominpool mominpool 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2014

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