I Always Put My Man First

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    My Husband, My All

    I always put my husband first (and of course our children). It is simply what above everything else makes me contented the most, too. I want to cater to him and fulfil his needs. It's not to say I'm a doormat, to say that I am submissive to his wishes or desires, but I do want...
    FaithfulB FaithfulB
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2013

    Growing up in an old fashion manner,

    I watched how my grandmother always put my grandfather first. Today I do the same thing. My husband is a spoiled rotten brat and I created that. I have always put him and his needs first. He gets whatever it is he wants and everyone around us knows that.
    SweetHawaiianHoney SweetHawaiianHoney
    36-40, F
    Aug 14, 2014

    So.. A Question. Do You 'Dress' For Your Husband?

    I don't mean just wearing what he likes... I mean, does he prefer your hair a certain way? Does he like certain makeup (or none?), certain shoes...?Does he want you to avoid piercings and tattoos... or does he like them? Does it matter either way to you if he does?I usually keep...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

    I make my husband my priority -

    and when we are finally blessed with them, also our children. I don't think a wife has to be a "submissive" just in the sexual sense that some people write about here (not that there's anything strange about it it's just not normal sadly these days!). I think it to an extent...
    islaisla islaisla
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    His pleasure is mine.

    My priority is his happiness. His needs. If he is happy, so am I. It comes before anything else.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 4, 2016

    A good woman is hard to find.

    .. As for how small of a minority of women are genuine submissive types who have discovered the wonder of uninhibited, masochistic sexual surrender..... It seems to me to be about 1 in 50 or something like that. Maybe less. I would say almost no women are like that. It took me...
    Ajushi Ajushi
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

    My mother always put my dad first

    and it worked for them so I have done the same thing in my marriage. I am one happy woman and so is my man.
    mominpool mominpool
    46-50, F
    Jun 10, 2014

    Why I Make My Husband A Priority

    I put my husband first in all matters, because that's what truly makes me happy, and content.  It is my desire to cater to his wants, and needs.  It is my desire, to be a submissive, obedient wife.  If we disagree, we will try it his way, this gives him the opportunity to grow...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul
    4 Responses Jul 7, 2011

    Actually, honestly, I don't think I do.

    But I think I should definitely try to make his happiness a bigger priority. In a Christian marriage, if we are 'one flesh', being selfish doesn't only hurt the other party but ourselves as well and so the reverse is true, if we take care of our partner it's for our own benefit...
    ProfessorYaffle ProfessorYaffle
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2016

    I've been single now

    for the past 5 months now, and its enabled me to think about the type of relationship that I want the next time I get involved with a man..... I'm the type of woman that will respect him, be faithful, trustworthy, understand his need for space, be adventurous in the bedroom...
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    I'M A Straight Single Man, And...

    I wouldn't mind talking to any single women who genuinely feel this way. This attitude seems all but dead anymore. To those of you women who this group title applies to, I sincerely applaud you.
    aktor1970 aktor1970
    46-50, M
    May 11, 2013

    His Needs.....

    Are important to me....how he's feeling....doing....I treat my man with love...kindness...affection, and respect....never taking him for granted....because that's the type of woman that I am...:)
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2010

    To The Point Of Loss

    I feel that if you truly love another person that you will put that person first in front of all others.  I am not just talking about this from only a sexual standpoint but in all aspects of the relationship but it takes mutual respect from both sides.  I never...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2009

    Thats The Way I Roll....

    The way I roll is, He is always 1st. He comes before me. he is the 1st thing I think about. Is he Happy. Is he healty. Is he safe, is he okay. I hope he is doing well. Is he having a good day. Is he eating right. Is working going okay for him. He is always the 1st thing to...
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    1 Response Nov 30, 2009


    His needs, His emotions, his feeling, his wants, and his desires, are far more important to me, than mine are. I can care less about my needs, my wants, my feelings. But his matter most to me, and they will always go before mine.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Nov 17, 2010

    Nothing comes before him.

    He is my number one priority. He wants something, he gets it. I don't even give conscious thought to myself first. His needs are all that matter to me.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 6, 2016

    I always put my husband first in everything.

    I make sure his needs are well taken care of. I want him always to be happy and pleased by me. We have a great sexual relationship and he lacks nothing from me. His sexual needs are always taken care of. We have a great and different variety in our sex life.
    momofthreeinbikini momofthreeinbikini
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 2, 2014

    I love him for everything he is

    and everything can can have together. He love me because he know I'll make a good wife and mother. I don't care if he doesn't get those little butterflies when I'm around. I need him. I cannot image my life without him.
    jgala90 jgala90
    26-30, F
    May 9, 2014

    Part Of My Problem

    i always put my man first. i shouldn't though. i find when you give too much you always get taken for granted. selfish people always seem to get what they want and then some.
    goldie25 goldie25
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2009

    Speaking about my upcoming tasks to prove my

    enslavement to him, he asked would I prefer him to simply force these things upon him, or for me to give them willingly. He is such an amazing man. I cannot even begin to explain his immense effect on me. I graciously thanked him, but said my only desire was his pleasure. I...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 5, 2016
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