I Always Put Others Before Me

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    I am always putting other before myself. It is how I have been all my life. I have never once put myself 1st. Even if I wasn't doing so well myself. I have never been very good at asking for help from others, but always good at being there for someone. I Love being there...
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    Jul 25, 2009


    Whenever there's a chance to make sure someone is alright before me, I take it without hesitation. I'd gladly put my life on the line to save someone else's. I make sure my friends are happy before I am; that my family is safe before I am. I don't really know why I do it, and I...
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    3 Responses Oct 21, 2010

    All The Time

    I always put others well being before mine no matter what like even if the person has been a total jerk I'd still protect him I just don't feel right when I put myself before others it's just like an impulse that even I don't wont to do it I still do end up doing it
    Itsasecrets Itsasecrets
    Apr 11, 2013

    Im Alive

    today i felt a little emotional, in the morning,suddenly i started to miss my soulmate, with in seconds he was beside me ,not in reality through my mental psychic link i was dancing as this totally uplifts me ,but suddenly i found his hands on my hips and i my hair brushing on to...
    trishkhb trishkhb
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    A Gift And A Curse

    For some reason i can never put myself first. I never want to see a friend abandoned or left out. I like feeling like the hero. Sometimes i feel like my friends take advantage of my kindness and guys get the wrong message. But no matter what i will always have my friends backs. I...
    angeliceyes11 angeliceyes11
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 15, 2011

    I Put Others Before Me

    I feel like it is a duty of mine to put others well-being before my own. I am not sure why, but it feels good when you help someone. Especially in todays world where almost everyone is only concerned with number one, I tried to just look after myself, but I could not when there...
    TheMythLives TheMythLives
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 29, 2008

    I m a very self-sacrificing person,

    and I deeply want to help those who need it. The problem though is I will always put the needs of other before myself, and so I drain myself and sometimes let my own life go to hell in a hand basket before I'll admit I can't be there for someone who needs me
    Setarcos Setarcos
    22-25, M
    Dec 8, 2013

    I always put everyone else's happiness

    before my own, and I think that's why I'm breaking now, because I let people tease me and make fun of me and push me around my whole life because I assumed that they had something bigger going on than my problems, because yeah my mom is unappreciative and yells too soon and too...
    ozziegirl88 ozziegirl88
    18-21, F
    Apr 18, 2015
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