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I Always Say "im Fine"

This group is for people who ALWAYS answer "Im fine" in responce to "How are you?" 15,406 People

    People ask me : how are you?

    I don't want to lie to you but I feel terrible.tired.exhausted.inside and out
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 26, 2015

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    Heyyy....I'm Kelsey. If you ever need to talk

    to someone, just know that I am here. I am new to this, but I love to help people. You can tell me anything you're comfortable with, or I you just want to vent, I'm here for you all. I want to be one of the people you call a friend. I don't really have many, but I can be one. I...
    kelseybriann28 kelseybriann28 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 20, 2015

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    All week long I've been saying it.

    "I'm fine thanks, how are you?" It rolls off the lips so smoothly and is so much easier than going into it. Well, I am fine today, thanks, but I haven't been for most of the last week. Something's been bothering me. We had a death in my family at the beginning of last week...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    It's easier to say you're fine

    rather than explain what's really going on to someone who really doesn't care.
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 28, 2014

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    I am 27 years old, I have 3 kids with me,

    I'm a single mom and work full time.. I have already given up one child for adoption and her name is Lydia. She is now 9 months old and living 4 states away from me. Each day I get new photos of how she's doing and how much she's grown without me. She seems like she's a happy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 7, 2015

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    not that people really ever ask me

    if I'm ok because most people don't care but when someone does ask me if I'm ok I always say yes because I don't want to unload my problem on to them or I feel like they wouldn't get it
    talenb24 talenb24 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    I always say "I'm fine",

    when I'm not.
    kuroijukai kuroijukai 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 14, 2015

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    What they really want to hear is just the one

    word, "Fine" even if you are in the very pits of despair. Thats all people want to hear because anything more requires commitment on their part.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2015

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    Whenever it rains the umbrellas complain

    they're gettin played for a chump...
    CloseButNoGuitar CloseButNoGuitar 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 27, 2015

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    xDarkRoomsx xDarkRoomsx 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    There's really no point in asking me

    if I'm OK because I'll never say that I'm not. Never
    quietlucy quietlucy 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 15

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    I honestly want to kill myself right

    now I can't deal with this **** anymore im ******* done
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses a week ago

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    LAMK1 LAMK1 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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    It is an automatic response most of the time.

    The question "How are you?" is asked out of habit most of the time and I don't think most people really want to know how you are. When I say it to people who I think might actually care it is usually because I don't want to trouble others with what is bothering me. It could...
    jmc39 jmc39 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3, 2015

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    When people always say " I'm fine" you should

    be worry.. Who knows what had happened or cause it.. Because you never know....
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 19, 2015

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    Monty Python and the Holy Grail (1975) King

    Arthur: [after Arthur's cut off both of the Black Knight's arms] Look, you stupid B@st@rd. You've got no arms left. Black Knight: Yes I have. King Arthur: *Look*! Black Knight: 'TIS BUT A FLESH WOUND A pin ***** in the heart. just a tiny thing. but enough to make me worry...
    SweetKiester SweetKiester 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    I'm sure if I told you how I felt everytime you

    asked how I was you'd be worried about me and everyone I'm around
    luv2pee23 luv2pee23 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    Sometimes I just want grab someone

    and scream "I'm not fine, I'm really hurting inside"! But I don't think anyone cares
    pgl88 pgl88 31-35, F 10 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    I figure most everyone

    who asks is asking to be nice...to be friendly...they have their own aches and pains...problems...they don't need to hear someone else's aches and pains and problems. My way of thanking them is to simply say, "fine...how are you?"...or "fine...thanks for asking". I even say...
    plainoldme724 plainoldme724 56-60, M Oct 19, 2015

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    Mahrhindha Mahrhindha 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2015

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    It's easier to say you're fine,

    than saying what's really on your mind.
    kuroijukai kuroijukai 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 17, 2015

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    Just vent ! No conversation,

    no replies... Just write what made you angry today. I am frustrated and exhausted of doing 3 people's jobs and being underpaid. I am angry at one of my best friends who is there for other people but me. Today was the most busy day at work and I would love to talk about it with...
    Littlefairydust Littlefairydust 26-30 1 Response Sep 4, 2015

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    I have had to say this too often these last few

    weeks. no I'm not fine, no its not alright. no mom I don't forgive you but since you'll get angry and tell me its my fault I'll say I do and take the blame like always. no dad I don't want to do all these things for school but I know you don't care what I say or my opinion as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 26, 2015

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    F: ****** up I: insecure N: neurotic E:

    emotional I'm not telling you how I'm feeling because I can't even handle it. How the **** are you supposed to?!
    thebeautifulprincess thebeautifulprincess 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2015

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    More than once, I have said “Im fine”

    when really, I am as far from fine as humanly possible. I guess I am so use to saying that I am fine, because it is so much easier to tell them that I am fine, than to tell them what is going on, and what is bothering. A Lot of times, I just don’t want to burden them with...
    HisLittleAriel HisLittleAriel 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2015

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    I'm supposed to be meeting friends

    for a few drinks tonight but can't really be bothered. I'm being bombarded with "are you ok?" Texts off my friends and because I don't want to really talk to them I'm replying back with "I'm fine. Honest." Truth is I'm feeling really depressed and all I want to do is curl up in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 25, 2015

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    A bloody nose, a broken leg,

    6 bullets in the chest and I'll still be saying I'm fine.
    Asia06 Asia06 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    So many of us automatically reply I'm fine

    when asked how we are, even though we're not. Yet, when a friend who is obviously not "fine" says it to us, how many of us take the time to insist, to ask how are you really? How many of us care enough to tell that friend: "Come on, this is me you're talking to. What's wrong...
    Diablessse Diablessse 46-50, F 9 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    Hi Friends !im nisha F20 UK Im on skyp Add me

    and funn with me S.k.y.p.e ID: nimesha123455
    nishahot nishahot 18-21, F Jan 12

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    Im too stubborn to let other people help me.

    I dont want to be a burden. I wish i could do it myself. I know i cant do it myself, but i dont have anybody to tell... Exept my parents, but they never listen... Sometimes i wish the world made me feel important and loved. I feel ignored.
    notworthitatall notworthitatall 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 25, 2014

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    How Are You?

    People always ask that How are you? If I answered truthfully I'd say: Broken Useless Confused Alone Clueless Betrayed On the verge of tears Depressed Anxious On the verge of a nervous breakdown Like giving up I'm just a burden A bother to people Never good enough Lonely...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 13 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    I actually cannot remember the last time

    that I was honestly fine. It's difficult to always be that person that people can lean on, especially when you have no one to lean on. Maybe if I continue saying it I'll speak it into existence.
    BrownSugarBabe BrownSugarBabe 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 19, 2015

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    It's the easiest two words to hide behind of.

    No one would know the difference since most people are not observant enough to know otherwise.
    SweetHawaiianHoney SweetHawaiianHoney 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2015

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    I told my Best FriEnd If he is jealous he did

    grab my arm a nd kissed me then I was shocked and he said YeS and he ran away
    bellaXd bellaXd 13-15, F Nov 27, 2015

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    I actually am, though.

    So. I'm not sure if that counts.
    AdmiralUnbearable AdmiralUnbearable 18-21, M Oct 22, 2015

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    andreaa01 andreaa01 13-15, F Aug 18, 2015

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    But deep inside Im not.

    .. I am afraid to express my true feelings because it seems nobody cares on me....
    Jmasong Jmasong 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 10, 2015

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    HOW THE **** DOES LIFE KEEP SUCKING

    CONSISTENTLY? EACH DAY GETTING WORSE THAN THE LAST. FUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK
    LovingDead LovingDead 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 18, 2014

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    I constantly tell my friends

    that I'm Fine and it hurts me to know that they believe it without suspicion.
    BlackIrises BlackIrises 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    I feel like I'm always creating problems in my

    head. I take small things to heart and pretend I'm fine with it. I am a self conscious person, so much it's sad. I am the kind of person to say something once and regret it for years. I don't remember the last time I had fun. I have no substantial relationships bar my family. I...
    imme163 imme163 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    Do u ever go through your day with a smile on

    your face and it's only there to hide the pain you say your fine but your struggling to get by and when you shut the lights out and silence surrounds you that's when the tears come from your eyes everybody needs a hand to hold once in a while everyone needs a reassurance it will...
    musicismypassion95 musicismypassion95 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    My biggest lie...... I'm fine.

    I'll say it even though I'm not alright at all but for the sake of others happiness I'll put a smile on my face
    NoraWilliams NoraWilliams 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Yep saying it tonight.

    . I'm not fine tonight, but I keep saying i'll be fine tomorrow. I'm getting tired of fighting the sadness and sleepiness I have in my life. I just wish I could feel better. But for right now I just keep telling myself tomorrow is a new day and I'll be "fine"
    Forevertired23 Forevertired23 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 29, 2015

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    i alwys say im fine even

    when im not even close.
    gramafey gramafey 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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