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I Always Say "im Fine"

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    I guess I just don't understand why people ask how you are doing. 99% of them don't care, nor do they really want to know how you are. How did such a deep personal question become...
    sicgirl sicgirl 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 20

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    Everyone I Know: "Hey Daniel, how are you?" Me: (In my head: Just awful. Why does everything have to suck so bad. Oh, the misery!) I'm fine, thanks. (Damn it, Daniel! You did it...
    DanBurnett DanBurnett 16-17, M 3 Responses Feb 12

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    How Are You? - People always ask that How are you? If I answered truthfully I'd say: Broken Useless Confused Alone Clueless Betrayed On the verge of tears Depressed Anxious...
    bubblynng08 bubblynng08 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    No Really I Am! - I am fine If your in this group you know what I mean. If your not , than that's what you want to hear.
    Stephen1967 Stephen1967 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Monty Python and the Holy Grail (1975) King Arthur: [after Arthur's cut off both of the Black Knight's arms] Look, you stupid B@st@rd. You've got no arms left. Black Knight: Yes I...
    SweetKiester SweetKiester 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 16

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    I always say I'm fine...however lately when someone ask how I'm doing...my response has been "Im maintaining" maybe I should be extremely honest when Im asked that question...just...
    JustLaniece JustLaniece 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I'll be somewhere and I won't be able to stand up, or I am about to fall over and this is when people decide it's a good time to pass by and ask how I am doing. I've gotten into...
    IcyDragon IcyDragon 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Had a tough night working on Some work I should have finished way earlier. Shouldn't complain I gues.. 2 presentations today let's go :)
    bosslim bosslim 18-21, M Apr 4

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    Im Not Fine And Never Will Be - I'm tired of people asking if I'm ok. Unlike others I don't want to be loved, I don't want to have a caring family or good life. I'm sick of always...
    shy0teen0cd shy0teen0cd 18-21, M 7 Responses Feb 19, 2013

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    “You can't have a positive life with a negative mind
    PsychicKatie PsychicKatie 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    I hear ya. I do the same and I'm not fine. I have now started saying 'I don't know how to answer that question' and leave it at that. People around me know something is going on...
    neezy9 neezy9 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    "I'm fine" - does it ever mean anything except "my life is smoldering into dust as I stand by in shock"?
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Living a lie can be exhausting. Plastering on a fake smile , going through the motions. Pretending, pretending. " I'm OK." How many times can I say that yet know deep in my soul...
    redhotridinghood redhotridinghood 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    Bee Happy! ...................
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 6

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    I always say im fine but now im in the mood where idgaf
    carlos19cv carlos19cv 18-21, M 14 hrs ago

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    My grades need yo be higher My weigh needs to be lower My stomach needs to be flatter My teeth need to be whiter My heart needs to be STRONGER My face needs to be prettier My...
    majogallego2000 majogallego2000 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Have you ever felt too much that you kept building it.inside of.you to hide your weakness? Have you ever felt when you got hurt and every damn people that knew what happened...
    PartyPoison04 PartyPoison04 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    But I'm not. I tell everyone I'm fine, but I'm not. Is anyone really? We say we're fine, but we're not. I hide behind a smile everyday. Does anyone notice? Funny, how much a smile...
    GummiBearLover GummiBearLover 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 25

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    Friends- are you okay? Me-ya :) People who dont give- are you okay? Me-ya :( For once i want somebody to look at me and say no. No you are not. I want somebody to understand but...
    suicidallover400 suicidallover400 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    Been thinking for a while. Decided that I'd actually post my random disorganised thoughts. -I don't feel special, happy, or worth anyone's time. I've been saying I'm fine all week...
    Wiltedleaves Wiltedleaves 16-17, F 7 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I sometimes say I'm fine when I might be in so much pain. Physically and emotionally.
    Maxy112123235 Maxy112123235 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    All week long I've been saying it. "I'm fine thanks, how are you?" It rolls off the lips so smoothly and is so much easier than going into it. Well, I am fine today, thanks, but...
    SaraBee1995 SaraBee1995 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    There was a gunman on my college campus tonight. We were on lockdown for over three hours. People keep asking if I'm okay, I just nod and say "Yeah, no one got hurt. Thank God no...
    shortgirl4 shortgirl4 18-21, F Apr 1

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    Sometimes I just want grab someone and scream "I'm not fine, I'm really hurting inside"! But I don't think anyone cares
    pgl88 pgl88 26-30, F 11 Responses Feb 1

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    People always think I am doing really well. Sometimes horrendous things happen in My life and rather than reach out for help and destroy the perfect facade, I simply deal with it...
    pinkmouse31 pinkmouse31 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    Of Course I'm Fine! - I know what "fine" really means: F ucked up I nsecure N eurotic E motional I'm fine, thanks.
    sugarfooties sugarfooties 66-70 4 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Im too stubborn to let other people help me. I dont want to be a burden. I wish i could do it myself. I know i cant do it myself, but i dont have anybody to tell... Exept my...
    notworthitatall notworthitatall 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I'm drowning.. Slowly. Nobody notices. I say I'm fine and they all believe my smile but inside I'm dying.
    audralina09 audralina09 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 22

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    Do u ever go through your day with a smile on your face and it's only there to hide the pain you say your fine but your struggling to get by and when you shut the lights out and...
    musicismypassion95 musicismypassion95 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    When people really ask "how are you today?" they don't really want to hear the real **** that's going on...right? They don't want to hear the story of how you stubbed your toe...
    deelilai deelilai 31-35, F 6 Responses Jan 15

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    I Hate Who I Am I hate what I see in the mirror. I hate my past. I hate my present. I hate everything I am. I go to bed every night wishing i can find 'my people' to fine love and...
    eavei eavei 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    "Are you alright?" What I want to say: "No. I am sad, depressed, angry, nervous, mad, anxious, suicidal, and crazy. I want to cut, I Just want to sleep, I don't want to fake a...
    KeepingSecrets KeepingSecrets 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    It's easier to say you're fine rather than explain what's really going on to someone who really doesn't care.
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 28

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I'm fine.. I don't know how people can't see the pain in my eyes... 2 days ago I cut 65 cuts.. But ya "I'm fine"
    MichaelOKBurns MichaelOKBurns 13-15, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I have a love/hate relationship with the phrase "I'm fine." I say it when I mean it; I say it when I mean the opposite. Because, let's face it - when someone asks how I'm doing...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I Say It Everyday - I refuse to let people in.No one who knows what I look like is allowed to know me.Sometimes I don't wanna know me.Its easier to express myself from behind a...
    KindaCrazy KindaCrazy 18-21, F 26 Responses Dec 8, 2010

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    I'm never actually fine. I just act like I am.
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    i say that because i know that if i didn't say i am fine they will start questioning me ,, plus i don't wanna hurt them , so i pretend i am okay Tina <3
    tinathefreak tinathefreak 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 4

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    Well this week I'm not. I keep saying I am but its just a lie. In 4 days I turn 24. I can't find work I constantly am broke and borrowing money from my grandmother to help friends...
    draganaeros draganaeros 22-25, M Apr 7

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    I do not share my problems with all or I can say I do not allow others to listen to my miseries. I am grown up and I can handle myself and my stuff.
    donotfollowme donotfollowme 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    Feeling like holy hell and it is so nice when someone notices that all Is not fine! Thankful for good friends!!
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I say I'm fine but I'm really not. I've been in this vicious circle with the guy I was dating. I say was because I finally put my foot down and said no more. It's really hard...
    Jaeid77 Jaeid77 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    how is everyone? I'm fine, even great.
    noconcerns noconcerns 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I feel like as long as I say I'm fine it will be. But honestly every time I say it I die inside. It's like holding everything in and being the strong one is what is tearing me down...
    nicolemarie3 nicolemarie3 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Seems easier to say those two words. Rather than describe the suffocation you feel on a daily basis. Just seems like you're ruining a persons good mood by stating the fact you feel...
    PoisonousWolf PoisonousWolf 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    When I say I'm fine I never mean it. I just say it because it makes others happy to hear and it makes me seem less sad even tho I know it hurts me more pretending I don't feel pain...
    silentlyhurtingeveryday silentlyhurtingeveryday 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm not fine I'm feeling anything but fine. I'm torn. I'm confused. I feel trapped with many doors open to me but all offering a sinister trap on the other side. Yet I can't stay...
    Munchycaterpillar Munchycaterpillar 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Because of manners, "I'm fine," has become meaningless. We say it out of social convention. When people ask us how we are doing, they ask because it's polite and not because they...
    matt61277 matt61277 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Oh how I hate the small talk question "How are you" when asked by strangers or anemone I know. I am anything but fine, still my answer is always the same... "I'm fine". Those are...
    WithoutHope00 WithoutHope00 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's just become a bad habit since last year.. The only person I don't say it to is my best friend. Sometimes I don't even feel like she understands.
    Bdkanissiddjdndj Bdkanissiddjdndj 13-15, F 1 day ago