Post

I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 101 People

    "I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love"

    I always seem to hurt the people I Love the most, I don't mean to do it. No matter what I do or say, I try to be the best I can be. I hope that one day I can make them all happy and not hurt them anymore.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Life In General!!

    I wake up everymorning wondering where am i going with my life, who am i going to hurt today, the people that try and help me and care for me, some times i feel like running away and not coming back, just so they can live in peace, but I cant i love them to much to leave them...
    KosovaKid KosovaKid 18-21 1 Response Jan 26, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Keep Hurting Those Close To Me

    Its something Ive always had but in the past year or so the problem has kept on getting worse. In arguments I have with friends, family, and my girlfriend there are points where things get too heated and a side of me comes out that I hate. I say the most horrible things to the...
    spps spps 22-25 2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Easier Said Than Done

    All of my life I have had an anger issue of sorts. And all of my life I have been told, "just stop it". Not so easy! I do not know how to cope with my high anxiety levels or frustration in healthy way. It builds up and I want to just let it go. Not say anything but I...
    habeuscorpse habeuscorpse 26-30, F Jun 21, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Keep Hurting Him, And It Kills Me

    I met my incredible boyfriend online while I was in a sexless, emotionally abusive marriage. I didn't mean to love him, but I couldn't stop myself. I planned to leave and go to him without telling anyone, just disappear one day to avoid the drama I knew would ensue. It didn't...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Is My Mouth

    No matter how hard I try, I regularly manage to say something that hurts the people I care about. The harder I try to avoid saying things that hurt the more it seems to hapen. What really bites is when I manage to hurt someone I love and I don't even know what I did. I tried...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Fails

    With my bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, I tend to hurt the people I love the most. My friends and family! I hate it when that happens. I always end up letting them down or upsetting them. Im trying like crazy to get myself together and to get the proper...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I always do hurt my parents knowingly...... they still love me... tat really hurts...me... m 21 nw but still... i could not find out the seriousness about my life i always want to...
    NMRishe NMRishe 18-21, M Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Some people just steal from stores-.- what gave them the right to steal? Nothing! Those people who own the stores they have families they have to support and bills they have to pay...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is one thing that im proud of. I couldnt even hit my friend even if he asks me to. If i do happen to hurt someone i try to help, i cant stand seeing people in pain.
    admiral14 admiral14 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    For some reason hurting some one mentally or physically brings me joy not sure why it just does
    Dlife Dlife 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Whenever I bake or cool, something always has to go wrong!
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't even know how I do it! It's so ******* dumb. I sat on our brand spankin new couch and it just broke. The middle caved in and every single person that sat on it had no...
    RedtheEmerald RedtheEmerald 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's definitely more so the unavailable than don't like me. In this story I'm going to talk about several different guys. I'll mention their name at the beginning of each story...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Im emotional abuse survivor and i can tell you how people react to it. i told so many people online that ive been hurt. First they talked to me, then they ignored me and then i...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am far from perfect I've hurt people I never imagined I'd ever hurt. I struggle to forgive myself sometimes but after 2.5 years I'm I'm slowly getting there. In that time I've...
    Findingteesh Findingteesh 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ahaha my friends and family call me a baby magnet cos no matter if a baby is kicking off and screaming and all that they always seem to smile when I hold em!
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wrote this a while ago, it seems such a long time. I was reading it again, and I'm so much happier now. I am where I'm supposed to be. I thought I was in Love. To forgive and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm kind of scared of falling in love. I've been hurt in the past. I always seem to pick the wrong guys. People have shown their true colors. People have hurt me. That's why I put...
    laubrown1 laubrown1 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So this will be about me and Mr.B So Mr.B is rather high up in my school and I don't always see him but when I do it always seems memorable, so one of our encounters was after...
    JLH3DWT JLH3DWT 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always seem to care to much about people.im not even sure how it happends it just does.i always love more, i always care more,i always want to hangout more,talk more.i need to...
    cutealex21 cutealex21 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My ex and I have been together two different times. The first time lasted 3 months and then 6 months later we ended up together again for a year. It's been a little over two months...
    LameyC LameyC 18-21, F Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love him. All of him. Right down to every single one of his so called "flaws." Sometimes, I think his imperfections might even make me love him MORE. He's a strong man, a VERY...
    BelleGold BelleGold 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sometimes I look at the amount of people in this group and wonder if they are all really being sincere when they join this group. Have they all been hurt? Have they maybe hurt...
    Septisoul Septisoul 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't mind caring about other people but i hate it when I loose that person. When i show my caring side towards them I just can't stop thinking about them.... When I try to text...
    drs0307 drs0307 16-17, F Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "Timing Is Everything" When the stars line up And you catch a break People think you're lucky But you know its grace It can happen so fast Or a little bit late Timing is...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I still don't understand how it happened! So there was this guy in the military I meet him in December and we really got to know each other .. I ended up having sex with him it was...
    Gabydoll19 Gabydoll19 18-21, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don't people realize that if they could learn not to hurt people there wouldn't be as much evil in the world? Maybe some people would have complete family's, some people wouldn't...
    Awakened92 Awakened92 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always think love happens more often when you least expect it…Love is a powerful emotion…and it is great to be in love! But so many of us spend our lives with walls built...
    19Mariya77 19Mariya77 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I admire those loud obnoxious people that everyone wishes would shut up. You know, those people who always seem to have a smile on their face, and are very chatty and usually not...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ambiguous time: Two and a half this world hours later and I'm still near speechless and unsure how to even begin to find the words. An overly long post here. My apologies in...
    BelleGold BelleGold 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So not long after I got over the last person that I had an obsession with, I soon caught myself craving companionship from someone else. I was just getting really attached to her...
    chips24 chips24 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    NEIL SEDAKA "It Hurts To Be In Love" It hurts to be in love When the only one you love Turns out to be someone who's Not in love with you It hurts to love her so When deep down...
    sherrianna sherrianna 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've only been on EP for three days, and it's already helping me with my ongoing battle with depression. Or rather, it's helping me to help myself. I'm the kind of person who...
    xeian xeian 26-30, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hurt people hurt. So when im feeling like that. I do. "Push, kick", you name it l.(Not literary off course) Its wierd but thats when I need people more but dont want to feel...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I seriously dont like this feeling. I ALWAYS feel alone. People will always be telling me tht im not alone but i dnt listen. At the end im always alone nd this feeling hurts me...
    wolfbeliever wolfbeliever 13-15, F 22 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I could use some criticism... Whenever I answer a question in class I get really intense inside. Is it arrogance is it pride? I dont know. I do answer questions with intensity and...
    Es777 Es777 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I could use some criticism... Whenever I answer a question in class I get really intense inside. Is it arrogance is it pride? I dont know. I do answer questions with intensity and...
    Es777 Es777 26-30, M Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have always felt that people enter our lives at the moment they do for a reason. We have all been through things that have changed us. Those changes happen for a purpose either...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 5 Responses Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate this about me. I get depressed or angry, then my mouth moves faster than my brain. I say things without thinking. I hurt people who only try to help. I wish I was more...
    everyonehasbeauty everyonehasbeauty 16-17, F Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always feel bad when I hurt people
    Elizabethr1518 Elizabethr1518 13-15, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    In and Out of Time ~ Maya Angelou The sun has come. The mist has gone. We see in the distance... our long way home. I was always yours to have. You were always mine. We have loved...
    Netabell Netabell 26-30, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It hurts to love someone. And not to be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
    toufie1 toufie1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Things definitely feel different between us. Today on lunch as well as the ride home I felt like there was tension between us. It seem like he didn't want to converse. The only...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Look Up Your Birthday And See What You Are..... January 01 - 09 ~ Dog January 10 - 24 ~ Mouse January 25 - 31 ~ Lion February 01 - 05 ~ Cat February 06 - 14 ~ Dove February 15 - 21...
    cycloneange cycloneange 70+, F Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always seemed to get made a fool out of when it comes to money and having a home. My boyfriend often lands me in a mess with money. I always forgive and forget but am sick of...
    04grezoe 04grezoe 18-21, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't even know what to say to this You wanna know how I feel well here it it I love you and I'm in love with you. Imma love you together or not. I absolutely loved the past 1...
    princesskait48 princesskait48 18-21, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A man walked out to the street and caught a taxi just going by. He got into the taxi, and the cabbie said, "Perfect timing. You're just like Ryan" Passenger: "Who?" Cabbie: "Ryan...
    ssluvsvms ssluvsvms 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Listening to Same Love by Macklemore, that song always seems to put in a good mood, he really makes it seem like the world will accept lgbtq community some day :)
    avasarang avasarang 13-15, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Food Critic, Humorist, Traveler and Cool Cat. I had to check this guy out after being compared to him. I had no idea who the hell he was. I caught an episode and was thoroughly...
    Igotsnikt Igotsnikt 36-40, M Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    We are "best friends" yet she always seems to call me stupid whenever she can. Just because I'm not as smart in some certain subjects like her. I want to be a lawyer and she told...
    amandapanda2498 amandapanda2498 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 31