Post

I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 109 People

    I Keep Hurting Those Close To Me

    Its something Ive always had but in the past year or so the problem has kept on getting worse. In arguments I have with friends, family, and my girlfriend there are points where things get too heated and a side of me comes out that I hate. I say the most horrible things to the...
    spps spps 22-25 2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Every time whether it's someone

    that likes me is friends with me or my family I'm just a horrible messed up person that hurts people and I can actually be a really loving person most times I just sometimes hurt people by saying the wrong things, making mistakes or simply not trying with them🙈
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Life In General!!

    I wake up everymorning wondering where am i going with my life, who am i going to hurt today, the people that try and help me and care for me, some times i feel like running away and not coming back, just so they can live in peace, but I cant i love them to much to leave them...
    KosovaKid KosovaKid 18-21 2 Responses Jan 26, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Fails

    With my bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, I tend to hurt the people I love the most. My friends and family! I hate it when that happens. I always end up letting them down or upsetting them. Im trying like crazy to get myself together and to get the proper...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Keep Hurting Him, And It Kills Me

    I met my incredible boyfriend online while I was in a sexless, emotionally abusive marriage. I didn't mean to love him, but I couldn't stop myself. I planned to leave and go to him without telling anyone, just disappear one day to avoid the drama I knew would ensue. It didn't...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate it. I do. I don't know

    why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job so I can save a lot of money and move, hopefully, somewhere far away. It's not fair to my family and friends that they have to...
    silverwolf25 silverwolf25 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    "I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love"

    I always seem to hurt the people I Love the most, I don't mean to do it. No matter what I do or say, I try to be the best I can be. I hope that one day I can make them all happy and not hurt them anymore.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Is My Mouth

    No matter how hard I try, I regularly manage to say something that hurts the people I care about. The harder I try to avoid saying things that hurt the more it seems to hapen. What really bites is when I manage to hurt someone I love and I don't even know what I did. I tried...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Easier Said Than Done

    All of my life I have had an anger issue of sorts. And all of my life I have been told, "just stop it". Not so easy! I do not know how to cope with my high anxiety levels or frustration in healthy way. It builds up and I want to just let it go. Not say anything but I...
    habeuscorpse habeuscorpse 26-30, F Jun 21, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    If You Count 4 Divorces As Hurting Someone I Think I Qualify

    I never set out to bring someone else pain. Maybe I thought about assinating Hitler or Fidel but having no actual way to do that they weren't in danger from me.  The ones that were closest to me learned to depend on me and when I decided to end our marriage that was hurtful and...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    People are drawn to me, they call upon me, they often ask me for advice which I have no qualifications to give. I am very careful not to give advice, but to give factual accounts...
    Human0xymoron Human0xymoron 41-45, F 17 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always prayed to God that I could find a perfect girl, and then I finally had her. I was her first date, first love, first alot of things. But in the end I messed up bad. One...
    YoungScottt YoungScottt 16-17, M Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I honestly think I mess things up all the time. When things are going great I just seem to say the wrong thing. Then everything just starts to fall apart. I think I just ruined...
    SimplyAmazingx SimplyAmazingx 16-17, F Jul 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The first time I fell in love with a teacher, it was 7th grade. He was a shy teacher though, so I didn't act on it much. Then when I got to 8th grade I just fell in love with THREE...
    LightTheDarkness LightTheDarkness 13-15, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I 'm SO sorry if I cannot answer all your messages...no time and a lot of messages. I'm sorry :(
    Yaroslava Yaroslava 16-17, F Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am so much desiring to meet beautiful souls who r honest. Honesty goes so much further than anything I could imagine. It took me longer than I wished to find this out in me and...
    dev1978 dev1978 36-40, T 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need to consolidate and vent all my thoughts... I was so naïve… I had little understanding of “feelings”… I knew if I stayed on this site long enough, I might just...
    MW1321 MW1321 18-21, M Jul 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Love is a tricky thing. It varies in intensity and in the specificity of emotions. It is sometimes the most beautiful thing in the world and, at other times, it’s the most horrid...
    Oasisdawn3 Oasisdawn3 18-21, F Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So much has happened with my ex(?) this month. I've posted twice about him already. After last night, I feel so used and worn down. I'm feeling just depressed that I put in so much...
    sailed1316 sailed1316 18-21, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been hurt too much. People always leave me. I end up getting treated like crap. I put up walls. I crave physical and emotional contact with that one person. I hope that day...
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    How do I end it with my MM? He's been a jerk lately. I've forgiven him many times. Last week I forgave him for his online searches...he actually has kept his promise but he also...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    *"Shower"* I don't know, it's just something about ya Got me feeling like I can't be without ya Anytime someone mention your name I be feeling as if I'm around ya Ain't no words...
    PartyPoison04 PartyPoison04 13-15, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Not physically. At least not anymore. But I always wanna put myself in danger. I always talk to people who I know will just hurt me. I always do dangerous things, especially if I...
    21cookielover21 21cookielover21 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't help but fear that my feelings are entirely one-sided. It really has gotten to the point where it physically hurts to even think about him. We've been good friends for a...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate when people have a crush on me and want to date and I don't feel the same. I'm not really the type that likes hurting people but I would rather them be with someone who...
    SimplyAmazingx SimplyAmazingx 16-17, F Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everyone would like to have friendships for a lifetime. Genuine friendships and relationships, But unfortunely people change, you hurt people, they hurt you and things are never...
    strawberry38 strawberry38 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think there is a thin line between love and infatuation. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now. Things are great, I'm without a doubt in love with this girl, but...
    xlr8ed xlr8ed 18-21, M 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am always judged by people around me. People think I am slow or too weird and its really hurtful. I am never nasty to people I go out of my way to be nice to them, but everyone...
    joelex300 joelex300 18-21, M Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am really sensitive when it comes to hate about my favorite celebrity Katy Perry. It really upsets me when people hate on her, and say negative things about her. For example...
    KPfan29 KPfan29 13-15, F Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Because I'm a bad person. I'm negative, I ruin everyone's fun, I say or do things that ****** people off, and I don't care about anyone else's feelings but my own. I don't mean to...
    silverwolf25 silverwolf25 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know Love is risky. You have so much to lose, but with the right person you can be really happy. I did not knew Love was this difficult. I never figured out myself and my...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Fake people are a waste of time. I've dealt with fake people before and it's so frustrating and time consuming. No matter how hard you try, if someone is fake you can't change that...
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Im not sure if its true. I was hurt all my life by several people. They werent unhappy, not all of them. The biggest emotional pain i had as my ex- boss female started to be rude...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Have any of you guys watched the TV series Awkward? Well the girl Jenna always seems to have boys liking her and by liking i mean.. 'like' like her. She never seems to be able to...
    miscellanious miscellanious 13-15, F Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    All my life I have only ever been capable of making and keeping one or two good friends at a time. I moved around a lot, but I don't think that was the problem. I talk very little...
    fatboy2336 fatboy2336 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I might be to most stupid and idiot person in the world. After all my ex have done to me. She left me with no reason, she shut me off always, she hurt me a lot and she makes me cry...
    Achelle07 Achelle07 18-21, F Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Nobody but i mean Nobodyyy can make her feel bad or hurt her i dont care if they are all little kids but i swear if i hear one just one more **** towards my stepdaughter that...
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am in love with a man I never met it's hard to know that yeah he loves me but not in that way I'll never get to meet him I'll never get to see his gorgeous brown eyes...
    xriiccii xriiccii 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Letting go of hurtful people doesn´t mean you hate them...it just means you love yourself...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    God is of love and I choose to follow in his footsteps. Hurting people that I love or people in General is never in my attentions.
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have had at least one dog most of my life. I have worked with dogs a lot in my professional life. I share my home with two dogs right now ( I would never say I own them, as it's...
    RaverFan RaverFan 41-45 2 Responses Jul 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't believe I'm writing this..but, it'swell here it goes: He is... God I don't know where to start. This man, to me is imperfectly just Perfect. How can a man be so...
    ShallowPink ShallowPink 18-21, F Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I was nine years old, my mom needed time to "get back on her feet." She dropped me off at her friend's family in a small town, and fled to the city. She promised she would be...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 9 Responses Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everything almost never works out for me . Relationships , friendships , everything . I'm always getting hurt. I know I deserve it sometimes . But I'm really tired of it . It hurts...
    emoniemm emoniemm 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So sneaking out naked has been a regular hobby of mine for the past 3 years. I usually have pretty fun adventures but tonight was my most adventurous ever. So right now it is...
    yoyomobread yoyomobread 16-17, F 24 Responses Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Even when I hurt someone unintentionally, I have trouble forgiving myself and living with what I did. Life is all about making mistakes - and that means hurting people is...
    PopcornForDinner PopcornForDinner 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really like meeting new people who are not like me! They always seem to have something interesting to say and different things to teach me(:
    dolliaa dolliaa 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Martina McBride - Independence Day Lyrics Well she seemed all right by dawn's early light Though she looked a little worried and weak She tried to pretend he wasn't drinkin...
    sherrianna sherrianna 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4