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I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love

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    "I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love"

    I always seem to hurt the people I Love the most, I don't mean to do it. No matter what I do or say, I try to be the best I can be. I hope that one day I can make them all happy and not hurt them anymore.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    My Life In General!!

    I wake up everymorning wondering where am i going with my life, who am i going to hurt today, the people that try and help me and care for me, some times i feel like running away and not coming back, just so they can live in peace, but I cant i love them to much to leave them...
    KosovaKid KosovaKid 18-21 2 Responses Jan 26, 2009

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    It Is My Mouth

    No matter how hard I try, I regularly manage to say something that hurts the people I care about. The harder I try to avoid saying things that hurt the more it seems to hapen. What really bites is when I manage to hurt someone I love and I don't even know what I did. I tried...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    I Keep Hurting Him, And It Kills Me

    I met my incredible boyfriend online while I was in a sexless, emotionally abusive marriage. I didn't mean to love him, but I couldn't stop myself. I planned to leave and go to him without telling anyone, just disappear one day to avoid the drama I knew would ensue. It didn't...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    If You Count 4 Divorces As Hurting Someone I Think I Qualify

    I never set out to bring someone else pain. Maybe I thought about assinating Hitler or Fidel but having no actual way to do that they weren't in danger from me.  The ones that were closest to me learned to depend on me and when I decided to end our marriage that was hurtful and...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    Easier Said Than Done

    All of my life I have had an anger issue of sorts. And all of my life I have been told, "just stop it". Not so easy! I do not know how to cope with my high anxiety levels or frustration in healthy way. It builds up and I want to just let it go. Not say anything but I...
    habeuscorpse habeuscorpse 26-30, F Jun 21, 2008

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    Never Fails

    With my bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, I tend to hurt the people I love the most. My friends and family! I hate it when that happens. I always end up letting them down or upsetting them. Im trying like crazy to get myself together and to get the proper...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2008

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    I hate it. I do. I don't know

    why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job so I can save a lot of money and move, hopefully, somewhere far away. It's not fair to my family and friends that they have to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12

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    Every time whether it's someone

    that likes me is friends with me or my family I'm just a horrible messed up person that hurts people and I can actually be a really loving person most times I just sometimes hurt people by saying the wrong things, making mistakes or simply not trying with them🙈
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I Keep Hurting Those Close To Me

    Its something Ive always had but in the past year or so the problem has kept on getting worse. In arguments I have with friends, family, and my girlfriend there are points where things get too heated and a side of me comes out that I hate. I say the most horrible things to the...
    spps spps 22-25 2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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