Post

I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 113 People

    Every time whether it's someone

    that likes me is friends with me or my family I'm just a horrible messed up person that hurts people and I can actually be a really loving person most times I just sometimes hurt people by saying the wrong things, making mistakes or simply not trying with them๐Ÿ™ˆ
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    "I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love"

    I always seem to hurt the people I Love the most, I don't mean to do it. No matter what I do or say, I try to be the best I can be. I hope that one day I can make them all happy and not hurt them anymore.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Keep Hurting Those Close To Me

    Its something Ive always had but in the past year or so the problem has kept on getting worse. In arguments I have with friends, family, and my girlfriend there are points where things get too heated and a side of me comes out that I hate. I say the most horrible things to the...
    spps spps 22-25 2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I hate it. I do. I don't know

    why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job so I can save a lot of money and move, hopefully, somewhere far away. It's not fair to my family and friends that they have to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Life In General!!

    I wake up everymorning wondering where am i going with my life, who am i going to hurt today, the people that try and help me and care for me, some times i feel like running away and not coming back, just so they can live in peace, but I cant i love them to much to leave them...
    KosovaKid KosovaKid 18-21 2 Responses Jan 26, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Keep Hurting Him, And It Kills Me

    I met my incredible boyfriend online while I was in a sexless, emotionally abusive marriage. I didn't mean to love him, but I couldn't stop myself. I planned to leave and go to him without telling anyone, just disappear one day to avoid the drama I knew would ensue. It didn't...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Easier Said Than Done

    All of my life I have had an anger issue of sorts. And all of my life I have been told, "just stop it". Not so easy! I do not know how to cope with my high anxiety levels or frustration in healthy way. It builds up and I want to just let it go. Not say anything but I...
    habeuscorpse habeuscorpse 26-30, F Jun 21, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    If You Count 4 Divorces As Hurting Someone I Think I Qualify

    I never set out to bring someone else pain. Maybe I thought about assinating Hitler or Fidel but having no actual way to do that they weren't in danger from me. ย The ones that were closest to me learned to depend on me and when I decided to end our marriage that was hurtful and...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Is My Mouth

    No matter how hard I try, I regularly manage to say something that hurts the people I care about. The harder I try to avoid saying things that hurt the more it seems to hapen. What really bites is when I manage to hurt someone I love and I don't even know what I did. I tried...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Fails

    With my bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, I tend to hurt the people I love the most. My friends and family! I hate it when that happens. I always end up letting them down or upsetting them. Im trying like crazy to get myself together and to get the proper...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    A lie I tell myself:I'll forget I loved you a someday. Because the memory will become faint. And the feelings will dissipate. And the thought of you won't make me hurt anymore.And...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The love I knew was hate, hurt, pain, and abuse. When "real" love comes around.... I want it... But I run from it. I'm pretty f---ed up. Huh?
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I find someone I like, after a awhile of talking, I seem to always say the wrong thing at the wrong time. Makes me seem like something I'm not when it comes out. Oops.
    1970Something 1970Something 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have got some mental problems and sometimes i just want to take a knife out into the streets and just stab people and make them hurt and bleed and i want to hear them scream in...
    RazorToMySkin RazorToMySkin 16-17, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I was younger I had a huge crush on this boy in my school. It was at that time when the boys hadn't hit puberty yet but some of the girls had, and I was one of the lucky few...
    dontyouforget dontyouforget 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š yep supernatural if you hurt me or my loves one you will be hunted๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰ if u don't we can be friends๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜„
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    hahahahahaha every tiiime ๐Ÿ‘Œ always try to win people over with personality lol
    romeo27 romeo27 13-15, M Aug 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Perhaps I'm just a bitter, young thing, but in all honesty I say this without a bitter tone. This isn't a threatening idea, it simply is a truth. What is there to love? And if...
    typedwriter typedwriter 26-30, F Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i say something and then it just makes everyone feel awkward so terrible
    Superwholockian Superwholockian 13-15, F Aug 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just can't ever do things right in regards to him.
    CuddlySpikes CuddlySpikes 18-21, F Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hate that. But better than other wrapons. Other types leave ptsd in me. Me deserves less bad memories.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
                 im sorry to those on EP whom ive offended...so i hold my ears and say im SORRY.....@heyitsme
    ishansaha24 ishansaha24 18-21, M a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am surrounded by family but feel deeply alone. Anyone please rescue me, I have the hopelessness blues.
    itstime2sleep itstime2sleep 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Every time I have to check to make sure they are talking to me.
    KaylaJackie KaylaJackie 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's true. I don't see it
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Aug 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So true. I was raised being told I am ugly.
    Ellyhi Ellyhi 13-15, F Aug 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Because it doesn't happen that often, lol. :D
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Aug 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Not only does it surprise me when those of both genders say I'm attractive, but the fact that when they feel my skin or touch my hair, they are mesmerized by the feel. Apparently...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Lol I don't think anyone finds me attractive physically I'm all freckly and don't have boobies :/
    serenagirl87 serenagirl87 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I look in the mirror and find myself ugly, but lots of ppl say I'm "hot"... :/ I try to look at personality not looks, although looks sometimes come on handy ;P
    Nick221B Nick221B 13-15, M Aug 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel guilty sometimes, and don't understand why I am the way that I am. I love my family and friends, and have interests, but NOTHING makes me feel as good as being in a great...
    moonchile moonchile 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I lost my mama on September 6th 2014. She fell down the stairs. The paramedics decided to check her over in the van instead of rushing her to hospital when she complained of chest...
    AngelaTattum AngelaTattum 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "Shower" I don't know, it's just something about ya Got me feeling like I can't be without ya Anytime someone mention your name I be feeling as if I'm around ya Ain't no words to...
    SouthernBelle81 SouthernBelle81 31-35, F Aug 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I do not miss him because I loved him so much. I miss him because he was my friend for the formative years. Plus he's the first person I have ever loved and cared for deeply...
    jaylow13 jaylow13 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just hate it when people at school joke about people being autistic and a downie.. It's not funny it hurts peoples feelings and how do you know if that person isn't best friends...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wasn't always this way. I didn't always push everyone away. With him I convinced my self after almost 2 months that I wasn't the one for him no matter how much I wanted to be...
    Meganrosee Meganrosee 16-17, F Aug 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I seem to be back to my old ways and back to my old pain. And it always seems that I crave self harm more than I do cigarettes. And I love cigarettes. Darkness has consumed my soul...
    Bluetoxicity Bluetoxicity 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have to admit that holding a grudge is one of my faults. I acknowledge it and try to temper it but that adage of fool me once always seems to stick in my head.
    Nuovinzi Nuovinzi 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm just really really disappointed. I told my mom that this woman (I have a story of how I distrusted this adult who happens to be my moms close friend and how she is now bluntly...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Aug 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate my reality. The more the failures trying to better or escape it, the more exhausting it's getting to face. I don't know what to do. I feelโ€ฆ Well, honestly, I don't think...
    stashd stashd 22-25, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel really frustrated. My entire life I have been asked what my hobbie was. Until a couple of years ago I never had an answer. Every other kid had that ONE thing that they would...
    Missinghim99 Missinghim99 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Spiritual healer Sometimes cruelty is like putting a delicate sheet through a rough washing machine. Eventually the sheet rips and tears. Cold words. Lack of understating...
    faerylight faerylight 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    hi everyone am new here i am keen to know more of myself in the sense thati know i am different from most i always sense how people feel if they happy or unhappy i sense where am...
    DoroBucci22 DoroBucci22 22-25, F Sep 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "Home" --- Daughtry One of those songs the first time I hear it, it becomes an all time favorite. I remember exactly where I was and what I was doing when I first heard this song...
    midnighttrain61 midnighttrain61 51-55, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hate how I will always be hurt by the same person no matter how much I just want to love them they will never love me like I love them I just want a mature relationship why is it...
    jackdahliamurder jackdahliamurder 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've dealt with more mean people than the average person, in my opinion. Then again, it seems 'mean people' are on the rise. I know that I'm still pretty young, but I remember a...
    HillyHana HillyHana 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always seem to care more of the people around me rather than myself... is it good or bad?
    Potchii Potchii 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always wonder if what I physically see in the mirror is the same as what others see when they see me & I always seem to ask whomever I'm hanging out with at the time to point out...
    lostbmo lostbmo 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 25

    Your Response

    Cancel