Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 122 People

    I hate it. I do. I don't know

    why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job so I can save a lot of money and move, hopefully, somewhere far away. It's not fair to my family and friends that they have to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never Fails

    With my bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, I tend to hurt the people I love the most. My friends and family! I hate it when that happens. I always end up letting them down or upsetting them. Im trying like crazy to get myself together and to get the proper...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Life In General!!

    I wake up everymorning wondering where am i going with my life, who am i going to hurt today, the people that try and help me and care for me, some times i feel like running away and not coming back, just so they can live in peace, but I cant i love them to much to leave them...
    KosovaKid KosovaKid 18-21 2 Responses Jan 26, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Easier Said Than Done

    All of my life I have had an anger issue of sorts. And all of my life I have been told, "just stop it". Not so easy! I do not know how to cope with my high anxiety levels or frustration in healthy way. It builds up and I want to just let it go. Not say anything but I...
    habeuscorpse habeuscorpse 26-30, F Jun 21, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Is My Mouth

    No matter how hard I try, I regularly manage to say something that hurts the people I care about. The harder I try to avoid saying things that hurt the more it seems to hapen. What really bites is when I manage to hurt someone I love and I don't even know what I did. I tried...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Keep Hurting Him, And It Kills Me

    I met my incredible boyfriend online while I was in a sexless, emotionally abusive marriage. I didn't mean to love him, but I couldn't stop myself. I planned to leave and go to him without telling anyone, just disappear one day to avoid the drama I knew would ensue. It didn't...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Keep Hurting Those Close To Me

    Its something Ive always had but in the past year or so the problem has kept on getting worse. In arguments I have with friends, family, and my girlfriend there are points where things get too heated and a side of me comes out that I hate. I say the most horrible things to the...
    spps spps 22-25 2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Every time whether it's someone

    that likes me is friends with me or my family I'm just a horrible messed up person that hurts people and I can actually be a really loving person most times I just sometimes hurt people by saying the wrong things, making mistakes or simply not trying with them🙈
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 12, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    "I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love"

    I always seem to hurt the people I Love the most, I don't mean to do it. No matter what I do or say, I try to be the best I can be. I hope that one day I can make them all happy and not hurt them anymore.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Yes, they can. You know when I was a child, I use to think when people said that I was like, how can that be so. They are only.....words. And if you don't believe what others...
    zonus zonus 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was thinking what I've done today. Did I hurt someone's heart? Did I say something offensive? Did I treat people wrong? I always thinking about that, like every night and then...
    supernerd22 supernerd22 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'd like to think I'm kind and caring to everyone, but I still somehow manage to **** off people I care about. Started to think people were over-reactive and sensitive about stuff...
    Vumsy Vumsy 22-25, M Jan 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There's a difference between older men, much older men, and old men. When I was 21, I was tired of only older men being attracted to me (30's, 40's, 50's). I felt like they were...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Let's just say I know what it feels like to get hurt
    BMTH26 BMTH26 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always mess things up. I'm so stupid.
    Waterstorm Waterstorm 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Anyone here want to do a massive favour for me I'll do anything I want both of my arms and legs broken badly (like bones sticking out) I want my arms and legs pulled out of the...
    katielovespeeingherpants katielovespeeingherpants 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Want to have that person above it all and don't be allow bc you two belong to different "worlds".I used to think life was easier that everything I'd propose I'd be able to do it...
    TroubleMarker TroubleMarker 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I truly want that large family. You know those crazy neighbors down the block with the active kids, who always seem to have another on the way? I'd like that to be my family. Seems...
    ryanjames23 ryanjames23 26-30, M 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm soooo sick of always getting hurt physically and emotionally. You can't really trust anyone in this f*cking world.... I just want to erase all of them in my life.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    YES THEY DO.THERE IS STILL A STIGMA AROUND IT;THAT STIGMA MUST END NOW!To this very day for us, the sufferers, it is difficult to broach this subject without fear, trepidation...
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 3 Responses Jan 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm in love and it is both the best and worst feeling I've ever experienced. He's my first love, but he doesn't belong to me. A is simply perfect. He isn't the best looking, but...
    CherryChickens CherryChickens 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This love story that I'm about to tell you is probably unlike anyone you've ever heard before. It is about GOD and I. I know you probably weren't expecting that, but that's ok...
    Tez328 Tez328 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This love story that I'm about to tell you is probably unlike anyone you've ever heard before. It is about GOD and I. I know you probably weren't expecting that, but that's ok...
    Tez328 Tez328 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi, I just joined today. I am in the 8th grade and in love with my Geography teacher. For the sake of animosity, I'll call him Mr Z. I started having feelings for him at the very...
    Meangirl83 Meangirl83 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel when I fall in love hard with someone, at first seems like a flirt and then seeing the person everyday who is also interested in me, flirting and giving me that look...
    Konelly Konelly 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My time with Shula: I've always been a lifelong dog lover, with little interest in cats. However all that changed one day last year. It was summer 2013 and I was sitting in the...
    Firefly198 Firefly198 31-35, F Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Two Ojibwa Indians in a canoe had been blown far from shore by a great wind. They had gone far and were hungry and lost. They had little strength left to paddle, so they drifted...
    warriorwolf1818 warriorwolf1818 16-17, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I always thought that nothing else matters if 2 people love each other and they feel happy together... It doesn't matter if they are from different countries , speak different...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Never during the whole time I've been on ep have I been blocked for this stupid reason 😒 So, let me tell you a little background first. I'm not the kind of person who would be...
    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17, F 6 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No matter what happens, through thick and thin.. I'll always tell her I love her. I know that in times like these things may not look to good. But everything will get better...
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate it when people ask me if I'm happy or kk when they know I'm not I'll always put on a fake smile everyday nd they believe it my real 1 is been gone 4 years I suffer from...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Runaway Train by Soul AsylumCall you up in the middle of the nightLike a firefly without a lightYou were there like a slow torch burningI was a key that could use a little...
    jetboyjetgirl jetboyjetgirl 18-21, F Jan 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The world always seems to be sending mix messages to guys. It seems to tell guys "It's fine if you have *** with 20 different girls, but if one gets pregnant it's all your fault...
    Annabeth11 Annabeth11 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My friend Reed had once commented on my mood one day. He said, "You always seem so happy?" and I told him I'd rather spend the rest of my days being happy instead of sad. "Well...
    SleepyGamers SleepyGamers 13-15, T 5 Responses Jan 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love it so much. Sometimes it has come when I've been feeling sad, and I really feel like it emotionally helps me in some way. I feel so 'cleansed'. I close my eyes and just...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There this man (probably in his 50's) who comes into my work. He always seem to make my day that little bit brighter. Today, I wished him a happy new year and asked what he wanted...
    JustThatNobody JustThatNobody 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Lyrics I Stand Alone" as recorded by Jackyl Well everytime I move Every step I make You know I just can't seem to take the right direction I'm always wrong I'm never right Right...
    joophomme joophomme 41-45 Jan 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Suicide is no joke. I had a friend successfully commit suicide when he was just 12-years-old. No one saw it coming, he always seemed very happy. He was very kind and respectful, a...
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Whenever I am bored I always wonder how people see me. Do I seem like a friendly and open individual? Reserved? Do I look pleasant to the eyes? I am not a self-conscious girl, oh...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, But what is more painful is to never have the courage to let that person know how you feel. Don’t go for looks; they can...
    abrarmalvat abrarmalvat 22-25, M 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Writing on her is beyond nerve wracking. Guys , she's back again. I have been with my guy for almost 3 years now, and her she is again. Ready to spin my world around and be a part...
    WhiteOrchid403 WhiteOrchid403 22-25, F Jan 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hope you know by now how much I love you. It's innocent and unconditional love; the same I feel for my dogs. I've never felt so protective of a human before. I can't help feeling...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 5 Responses Jan 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My brother got called ugly my his friends, male and female, and my dad started saying that he should tell them that their gay and then started saying how it's weird for guys to...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You're given many chances in life. And many, many opportunities. Yet, what makes the human mind, and the continuous beating heart, choose to be willing to sacrifice the...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I drink way too much of the stuff. I always seem to have a coffee in front of me and as fast as I drink one, another is on the way! They say it's addictive but when I do go without...
    00afreshstart77UK00 00afreshstart77UK00 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 17

    Your Response

    Cancel