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I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love

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    I Keep Hurting Those Close To Me

    Its something Ive always had but in the past year or so the problem has kept on getting worse. In arguments I have with friends, family, and my girlfriend there are points where things get too heated and a side of me comes out that I hate. I say the most horrible things to the...
    spps spps 22-25 2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    My Life In General!!

    I wake up everymorning wondering where am i going with my life, who am i going to hurt today, the people that try and help me and care for me, some times i feel like running away and not coming back, just so they can live in peace, but I cant i love them to much to leave them...
    KosovaKid KosovaKid 18-21 2 Responses Jan 26, 2009

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    It Is My Mouth

    No matter how hard I try, I regularly manage to say something that hurts the people I care about. The harder I try to avoid saying things that hurt the more it seems to hapen. What really bites is when I manage to hurt someone I love and I don't even know what I did. I tried...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    "I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love"

    I always seem to hurt the people I Love the most, I don't mean to do it. No matter what I do or say, I try to be the best I can be. I hope that one day I can make them all happy and not hurt them anymore.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    Easier Said Than Done

    All of my life I have had an anger issue of sorts. And all of my life I have been told, "just stop it". Not so easy! I do not know how to cope with my high anxiety levels or frustration in healthy way. It builds up and I want to just let it go. Not say anything but I...
    habeuscorpse habeuscorpse 26-30, F Jun 21, 2008

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    Never Fails

    With my bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, I tend to hurt the people I love the most. My friends and family! I hate it when that happens. I always end up letting them down or upsetting them. Im trying like crazy to get myself together and to get the proper...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2008

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    I Keep Hurting Him, And It Kills Me

    I met my incredible boyfriend online while I was in a sexless, emotionally abusive marriage. I didn't mean to love him, but I couldn't stop myself. I planned to leave and go to him without telling anyone, just disappear one day to avoid the drama I knew would ensue. It didn't...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    Every time whether it's someone

    that likes me is friends with me or my family I'm just a horrible messed up person that hurts people and I can actually be a really loving person most times I just sometimes hurt people by saying the wrong things, making mistakes or simply not trying with them๐Ÿ™ˆ
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    I hate it. I do. I don't know

    why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job so I can save a lot of money and move, hopefully, somewhere far away. It's not fair to my family and friends that they have to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

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    I swear I always feel like someone is getting on my nerves or bothering me. It's like no matter what I do or who I'm with I'm always in a bad mood and I'm so bitchy to people. I'm...
    margaret707 margaret707 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I hate it because I know what's it like to be hurt and to hurt. I don't understand people who hurt others for fun
    ScreamingWhispers ScreamingWhispers 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Society has long become more open to the idea of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F Jan 28

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    I think the further away people are from me the better, not because I set out to hurt others. No, this is due to me being an absolute pain in arse for everyone else. I think it's...
    HelterSkelter1 HelterSkelter1 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    in the early 2015 Valentines Day, i just refuse man, who wanna be my BF. i think he's nice person, i feel sorry for him, he fall in love with wrong person, i have BF already. I...
    storyboutme storyboutme 26-30, F Feb 13

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    If I'm having a conversation with you and you don't like what I'm talking about please say so and I will change the subject don't just block me
    medicalman123 medicalman123 18-21, M Feb 15

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    Anyone here want to do a massive favour for me I'll do anything I want both of my arms and legs broken badly (like bones sticking out) I want my arms and legs pulled out of the...
    katielovespeeingherpants katielovespeeingherpants 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I created this and somehow i chose I was a male.. I have no idea how to change it, so just call me Mr. makayla ๐Ÿ˜
    makaylahayes makaylahayes 18-21, M Feb 3

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    It's something I can never forget about, even if I'm forgiven, I still feel like an *******. This will bother me for a while...
    XxFuckYouxX XxFuckYouxX 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Want to have that person above it all and don't be allow bc you two belong to different "worlds".I used to think life was easier that everything I'd propose I'd be able to do it...
    TroubleMarker TroubleMarker 16-17, F Jan 30

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    when it comes to life always be yourself always live the best life you possibly can and dont let anyone cause you to feel any less than the person you were meant to be always live...
    stacylynn7 stacylynn7 22-25, T Jan 31

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    when it comes to life always be yourself always live the best life you possibly can and dont let anyone cause you to feel any less than the person you were meant to be always live...
    stacylynn7 stacylynn7 22-25, T 2 Responses Jan 31

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    when it comes to life always be yourself always live the best life you possibly can and dont let anyone cause you to feel any less than the person you were meant to be always live...
    stacylynn7 stacylynn7 22-25, T Jan 31

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    So I dated this girl for a few months and I was really in love with her . She was too . It was fast but it was real . I really ******* loved her but she hurt me so much . She did...
    ish1234567 ish1234567 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    I love writing scary stories heres one ive been working On tell me if you like it: Hello, my name is Alice. This is my story. No no, Not the cliche story of falling down a rabbit...
    lunerfang lunerfang 13-15 1 Response Feb 5

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    Unusual and Intellectual people. Well, I could look at these jointly or severely. Personally, I prefer them jointly. I really have always gravitated to having extreme interest in...
    Nyx613 Nyx613 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    I meet this guy like 1 year and a half ago. He was new in school and I'm that kind of girl that always try to be friend of those quiet, lonely people so they can feel welcome or...
    roxyse roxyse 18-21, F Feb 11

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    I developed an understanding: I can't manage or deal with people. I'm not a people person. I shelter myself. What is fine in my mind could be offensive or hurtful to someone else...
    simmerdame simmerdame 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I swear...they appear out of nowhere. I barely even have to know the person. I guess it's mostly a physical attraction thing (not always) but I just feel so creepy because it...
    esthersaccount esthersaccount 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    No matter what happens, through thick and thin.. I'll always tell her I love her. I know that in times like these things may not look to good. But everything will get better...
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M Jan 28

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    hey guys .. !! i am 16 and in a confused stage on life ' teenage' !!! man these can get the world around !! Today i decided to share my story with you guys because i was dying...
    aishaaa29 aishaaa29 16-17, F Feb 5

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    Migraine - Twenty One Pilots Am I the only one I know, Waging my wars behind my face and above my throat? Shadows will scream that I'm alone. I've got a migraine and my pain will...
    SpectrumOfTears SpectrumOfTears 13-15, F Feb 18

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    I feel like ALL of my loves have been first loves, in one way or another. And I miss them all. I could talk about the girl I loved for five years across middle school and high...
    straytian straytian 41-45, M Feb 13

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    some people just need to grow up. i mean here we are in the year 2015 and we still have racisms going on today. When are you racist people gonna die out? i know that kind of sound...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 35 Responses Feb 15

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    Auntie J Beautiful.Kind,generous,respectful,caring,giving,Loved by all Auntie J was the most amazing Auntie I ever had she was my favourite auntie I think of her everyday ,she...
    iwanttobeafashionesigner iwanttobeafashionesigner 22-25, F Feb 14

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    i have no clue of what to do. I feel alone even when i know I'm not. I want to be loved and have a meaningful relationship but when i do i always get hurt.
    kpfoster1985 kpfoster1985 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    In my line of work I meet some of the most rotten individuals. I truly feel sorry for the people who are famous. I am only slightly well known in just a few cities for being a...
    Flawedsevenfold Flawedsevenfold 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My son is 12 today. He's our only child and, I admit, shamelessly spoiled. But, he's also the kindest, most generous person I know. I asked him what kind of meal and cake he...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm soooo sick of always getting hurt physically and emotionally. You can't really trust anyone in this f*cking world.... I just want to erase all of them in my life.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    Resolved to always be alone To live my life on my own After oh so many deception Letting no one into my home Tragedy struck my faith Bringing for my own sake To shut my heart to...
    kimmychantwo kimmychantwo 41-45, F Feb 6

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    It's not only difficult. It's impossible. I recently came to this conclusion. However I'm talking about men/ women besties combinations. Once I accepted a guy as close as my own...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just love being outdoors at night, lay back and watch the star-lit sky, try to beat the shooting stars with my wishes . It's sounds freaky but Orion's belt always seems to be...
    SilverLeviathan SilverLeviathan 18-21, F Jan 28

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    I've officially begun lying to everyone again... I'm pretending to be just fine, but I'm not... Ive started cutting again (I made it a whole year, cut free, but now I'm back to it...
    iamFrightened iamFrightened 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    She hated them. She hated the way they smelled. How they always smelled of cake and trident tropical gum. She hated their touch. How their soft hands would find her own when...
    ILuvMusic229 ILuvMusic229 13-15, F Feb 15

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    What ever my mood is. Music always seems to make feel better. Music is always there when no one is.
    AverageGirl1k AverageGirl1k 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    fake means pretending to be someone. that is not nice. damn...feckin cowards. They always seem normal. But you better watch out.
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago