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I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love

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    Never Fails

    With my bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, I tend to hurt the people I love the most. My friends and family! I hate it when that happens. I always end up letting them down or upsetting them. Im trying like crazy to get myself together and to get the proper...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2008

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    I hate it. I do. I don't know

    why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job so I can save a lot of money and move, hopefully, somewhere far away. It's not fair to my family and friends that they have to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

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    I Keep Hurting Those Close To Me

    Its something Ive always had but in the past year or so the problem has kept on getting worse. In arguments I have with friends, family, and my girlfriend there are points where things get too heated and a side of me comes out that I hate. I say the most horrible things to the...
    spps spps 22-25 2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    Easier Said Than Done

    All of my life I have had an anger issue of sorts. And all of my life I have been told, "just stop it". Not so easy! I do not know how to cope with my high anxiety levels or frustration in healthy way. It builds up and I want to just let it go. Not say anything but I...
    habeuscorpse habeuscorpse 26-30, F Jun 21, 2008

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    Every time whether it's someone

    that likes me is friends with me or my family I'm just a horrible messed up person that hurts people and I can actually be a really loving person most times I just sometimes hurt people by saying the wrong things, making mistakes or simply not trying with them🙈
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    My Life In General!!

    I wake up everymorning wondering where am i going with my life, who am i going to hurt today, the people that try and help me and care for me, some times i feel like running away and not coming back, just so they can live in peace, but I cant i love them to much to leave them...
    KosovaKid KosovaKid 18-21 2 Responses Jan 26, 2009

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    I Keep Hurting Him, And It Kills Me

    I met my incredible boyfriend online while I was in a sexless, emotionally abusive marriage. I didn't mean to love him, but I couldn't stop myself. I planned to leave and go to him without telling anyone, just disappear one day to avoid the drama I knew would ensue. It didn't...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    "I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love"

    I always seem to hurt the people I Love the most, I don't mean to do it. No matter what I do or say, I try to be the best I can be. I hope that one day I can make them all happy and not hurt them anymore.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    It Is My Mouth

    No matter how hard I try, I regularly manage to say something that hurts the people I care about. The harder I try to avoid saying things that hurt the more it seems to hapen. What really bites is when I manage to hurt someone I love and I don't even know what I did. I tried...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    i dont like hurting people. i like to make them smile. i think people should not judge each other. because everyone can have some excuse about anything. so we have to look smarter...
    berealistic82 berealistic82 26-30, M 7 hrs ago

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    I always seem to be that one person that messes up or does things the wrong way and yeah.
    Naniebananie Naniebananie 16-17, F May 17

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    At what point do you finally realize a friendship is over? Is it when you realize that through 25 years of friendship they have only been to your home twice? Maybe when you think...
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    I just seem to open my mouth and I mess things up I have the most amazing girl who is doing lots so we can be together but instead of appreciating what I have I open my big stupid...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 36-40, M 2 Responses May 4

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    I feel like I'm a train wreck and always have been. I lost the key to my office and am so embarrassed to have to meet the locksmith tomorrow. Its always something with me. I'd...
    AprilMay32 AprilMay32 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    No matter what I do, I always mess things up. I feel like I can't do anything right. When something goes wrong, I usually blame myself. You name it, I've probably done it wrong.
    bananafrenchtoast bananafrenchtoast 26-30, F May 20

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    This is true! I always do! I never think of myself before someone else! It's always their happiness before my own! And I never regret it.
    ijb2012 ijb2012 16-17, M 1 Response May 8

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    ..Why do people we care about always want to fight. Feel like beating the **** out of them.
    highstandardAPE highstandardAPE 22-25, M May 15

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    A black substitute teacher was dismissed from Prince George County school after he tried to disciple his students with his belt.Massa taught us well. Slave owners loved to whip...
    theslyfox theslyfox 36-40, M 18 hrs ago

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    I like it, older men are much better!
    kid222 kid222 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm someone you'd find with an awful personality and an awful face
    GBulldog47 GBulldog47 13-15, M 1 Response May 18

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    For me it's hard to believe. You sometimes just don't like what you see in the mirror and when someone tells you otherwise you find yourself wishing the ability to read their mind...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 18

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    Touch that girl again, I will come find you.... You sick SOB
    Imhungrytoo Imhungrytoo 51-55, M 1 Response May 26

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    First of all, please don't judge..I am a good person that did a not-so-good-thing. I fell deeply in love with someone I shouldn't have. He feels the same. We are both with other...
    Catontheroof Catontheroof 31-35, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Hi, I'm a 14 year old female. I don't know why but I have a tendency to mess things up. About 3 months ago one of my close friends instagram account was hacked. The hacker posted...
    polutedmind polutedmind 13-15, F May 3

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    There is the woman. It always starts like this. Attention please! I calculate everything. Carefully, wisely, precisely, permanently. And then comes the woman. Storming into my...
    placeborealis placeborealis 41-45, M 6 hrs ago

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    My friends always say they love me, but I don't know why they do. I'm not funny. I'm not nice. I'm not pretty. I lie. I'm rude. I hurt people. I'm irresponsible. And yet, people...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am mazed to day to find my self happy and fuctionong pretty much normally! I have been thru some hell over the past few days. Some of my friends here have come to my rescue and I...
    JamesPotterII JamesPotterII 51-55, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I have a good life. Sure when I was younger my parents divorced because my mom cheated on my dad and then left us, but then my dad remarried and everything seemed fine again. My...
    EmotionallyReckless EmotionallyReckless 13-15, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I love your eyes, and I don't care how much of a cliché that is I love that you smile, even when there is nothing to smile about, I love that you always seem to want to cuddle, I...
    LemmeFixMyHair LemmeFixMyHair 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    When someone approach me or meets me i always seem to come out very brutally honest, more then i sometimes should. This is actually me pushing people backwards so they don't get...
    Autumnflowers Autumnflowers 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I woke up this morning with this song playing in my head. And I was reminded just how amazingly beautiful these lyrics are. <3 (link at the bottom, if you'd like to listen...
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 1 Response May 4

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    I am hurt that my boyfriends grandparents say such rude things about me it hurts me so as do I even matter they put me down to low and my boyfriend brings me up but I have always...
    Sofia2526 Sofia2526 18-21, F May 7

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    and so I push people away.. I have lots of things I want to say, at the same time, I don't know what to say.. I am not good with poeple and so I NEVER had any friends, like 0...
    FallingWind FallingWind 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    the programmed girl ... those girlfriends who always judge and never use their senses when they accuse someone or when they break up without reasons .. dear girl you are not living...
    Volareman Volareman 26-30, M 1 Response May 19

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    I wish i could bottle the smell and spray it on my eReader... i have always been a book lover but the eReader is just so damn convenient... until it runs out of battery and then my...
    Harnah Harnah 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    It is funny as I have always wanted to be loved, but I had a difficult time loving back. There are points in my life in which a women would love me, but I wasn't into it. Lately...
    Joshua1325 Joshua1325 26-30, M 1 Response May 5

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    Gardening with My Mother When I was a little girl I used to HATE gardening, greenhouses, nurseries, and the ever dreaded “Plant Section” that could be found in the spring...
    InspireMeZilly InspireMeZilly 26-30, F May 12

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    Gardening with My Mother When I was a little girl I used to HATE gardening, greenhouses, nurseries, and the ever dreaded “Plant Section” that could be found in the spring...
    InspireMeZilly InspireMeZilly 26-30, F May 12

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    i have a friend, she acts like she knows me so well and i especially ******* hate that. she relates me to herself and i really hate that. i always feel like i should tell her off...
    theanoymouswreck theanoymouswreck 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    Somewhere down the line, people have to stop playing the victim. We've all been hurt sometime. It's not a "guy" thing, it's not a "girl" thing, it's not because it was a "he" and...
    Yu12 Yu12 26-30, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've always been wondering if long distance relationship would work out for me. I saw people love and hurt each other eventually. I saw them crying and even begging for advices yet...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    I always seem to throw my all into any relationship. I open myself up and share everything with someone-I don't always get the same in return! Just when I think that the other...
    curioussoutherngirl38 curioussoutherngirl38 36-40, F May 9