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I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love

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    "I Always Seem to Hurt the People I Love"

    I always seem to hurt the people I Love the most, I don't mean to do it. No matter what I do or say, I try to be the best I can be. I hope that one day I can make them all happy and not hurt them anymore.
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    Every time whether it's someone

    that likes me is friends with me or my family I'm just a horrible messed up person that hurts people and I can actually be a really loving person most times I just sometimes hurt people by saying the wrong things, making mistakes or simply not trying with them🙈
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    My Life In General!!

    I wake up everymorning wondering where am i going with my life, who am i going to hurt today, the people that try and help me and care for me, some times i feel like running away and not coming back, just so they can live in peace, but I cant i love them to much to leave them...
    KosovaKid KosovaKid 18-21 2 Responses Jan 26, 2009

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    Easier Said Than Done

    All of my life I have had an anger issue of sorts. And all of my life I have been told, "just stop it". Not so easy! I do not know how to cope with my high anxiety levels or frustration in healthy way. It builds up and I want to just let it go. Not say anything but I...
    habeuscorpse habeuscorpse 26-30, F Jun 21, 2008

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    I hate it. I do. I don't know

    why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job so I can save a lot of money and move, hopefully, somewhere far away. It's not fair to my family and friends that they have to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12

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    Never Fails

    With my bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, I tend to hurt the people I love the most. My friends and family! I hate it when that happens. I always end up letting them down or upsetting them. Im trying like crazy to get myself together and to get the proper...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2008

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    It Is My Mouth

    No matter how hard I try, I regularly manage to say something that hurts the people I care about. The harder I try to avoid saying things that hurt the more it seems to hapen. What really bites is when I manage to hurt someone I love and I don't even know what I did. I tried...
    ColorMeReal ColorMeReal 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    If You Count 4 Divorces As Hurting Someone I Think I Qualify

    I never set out to bring someone else pain. Maybe I thought about assinating Hitler or Fidel but having no actual way to do that they weren't in danger from me.  The ones that were closest to me learned to depend on me and when I decided to end our marriage that was hurtful and...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 1 Response Apr 12, 2011

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    I Keep Hurting Those Close To Me

    Its something Ive always had but in the past year or so the problem has kept on getting worse. In arguments I have with friends, family, and my girlfriend there are points where things get too heated and a side of me comes out that I hate. I say the most horrible things to the...
    spps spps 22-25 2 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    I Keep Hurting Him, And It Kills Me

    I met my incredible boyfriend online while I was in a sexless, emotionally abusive marriage. I didn't mean to love him, but I couldn't stop myself. I planned to leave and go to him without telling anyone, just disappear one day to avoid the drama I knew would ensue. It didn't...
    BeautifulPrison BeautifulPrison 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Hurt people,hurt.They surely do. I never want to cross paths with you again. Not because I am incapable of forgiving you but because I am scared of what you are capable of doing...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    People are drawn to me, they call upon me, they often ask me for advice which I have no qualifications to give. I am very careful not to give advice, but to give factual accounts...
    Human0xymoron Human0xymoron 41-45, F Aug 1

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    😊😊😊 yep supernatural if you hurt me or my loves one you will be hunted😉😉😉 if u don't we can be friends😄😄😄
    RainbowPower RainbowPower 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    hahahahahaha every tiiime 👌 always try to win people over with personality lol
    rruser27 rruser27 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    The first time I fell in love with a teacher, it was 7th grade. He was a shy teacher though, so I didn't act on it much. Then when I got to 8th grade I just fell in love with THREE...
    LightTheDarkness LightTheDarkness 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    3 girls find me Cute and one asked me out but I said no
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    I only get shocked because i still feel like i look like i did in middle school,good lord
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I don't know, basically what it says.
    hashtagliz hashtagliz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I have no idea why, I guess I just don't see myself as being attractive .
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Why do girls think I'm attractive all of a sudden like 6 girls think I'm hot or cute
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    honestly I don't believe it like when someone says tells me they think I'm beautiful or hot or whatever I say thank you but inside I immediately think they are joking or crazy or...
    nikkilicious143 nikkilicious143 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    Every time I have to check to make sure they are talking to me.
    KaylaJackie KaylaJackie 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's true. I don't see it
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    So true. I was raised being told I am ugly.
    IamGods IamGods 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Because it doesn't happen that often, lol. :D
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    Not only does it surprise me when those of both genders say I'm attractive, but the fact that when they feel my skin or touch my hair, they are mesmerized by the feel. Apparently...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T 17 hrs ago

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    Lol I don't think anyone finds me attractive physically I'm all freckly and don't have boobies :/
    serenagirl87 serenagirl87 13-15, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Are there even any humans in the world today? I have always thought it is empathy that makes people humane, relating to each other; an inherent trait, as we as homo-sapiens are...
    Skullix Skullix 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I need to consolidate and vent all my thoughts... I was so naïve… I had little understanding of “feelings”… I knew that if I stayed on this site long enough, I might just...
    CuntscabMcBoner CuntscabMcBoner 18-21, M Jul 21

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    Love is a tricky thing. It varies in intensity and in the specificity of emotions. It is sometimes the most beautiful thing in the world and, at other times, it’s the most horrid...
    Oasisdawn3 Oasisdawn3 18-21, F Jul 22

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    I feel guilty sometimes, and don't understand why I am the way that I am. I love my family and friends, and have interests, but NOTHING makes me feel as good as being in a great...
    moonchile moonchile 31-35, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    So much has happened with my ex(?) this month. I've posted twice about him already. After last night, I feel so used and worn down. I'm feeling just depressed that I put in so much...
    sailed1316 sailed1316 18-21, F Jul 27

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    So today I need to write about something that makes me laugh. I used to laugh on the inside, however, now I let out a nice audible laugh whenever I hear people tell me it. It...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M Aug 10

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    *"Shower"* I don't know, it's just something about ya Got me feeling like I can't be without ya Anytime someone mention your name I be feeling as if I'm around ya Ain't no words...
    PartyPoison04 PartyPoison04 13-15, F Jul 27

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    Not physically. At least not anymore. But I always wanna put myself in danger. I always talk to people who I know will just hurt me. I always do dangerous things, especially if I...
    21cookielover21 21cookielover21 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Shower🚿🎶🚿🎶🚿 I don't know, it's just something about ya Got me feeling like I can't be without ya Anytime someone mention your name I be feeling as if I'm around ya...
    cchristinaa cchristinaa 13-15, F Aug 11

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    "Shower" I don't know, it's just something about ya Got me feeling like I can't be without ya Anytime someone mention your name I be feeling as if I'm around ya Ain't no words to...
    SouthernBelle81 SouthernBelle81 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I do not miss him because I loved him so much. I miss him because he was my friend for the formative years. Plus he's the first person I have ever loved and cared for deeply...
    jaylow13 jaylow13 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    Everyone would like to have friendships for a lifetime. Genuine friendships and relationships, But unfortunely people change, you hurt people, they hurt you and things are never...
    strawberry38 strawberry38 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I think there is a thin line between love and infatuation. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now. Things are great, I'm without a doubt in love with this girl, but...
    xlr8ed xlr8ed 18-21, M Jul 26

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    One day I went out after work with some friends, and some people I kind of knew, but not well. After leaving the bar, one of the guys I didn't know all that well invited all of us...
    Jackie22k Jackie22k 26-30, F Aug 3

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    Viewer Note! Viewer of my story this is a story about pokemon mystery dungeon so if you know about it read on, and if not you may still read but may not understand most of it. Now...
    JakeTheArtisit JakeTheArtisit 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I just hate it when people at school joke about people being autistic and a downie.. It's not funny it hurts peoples feelings and how do you know if that person isn't best friends...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I wasn't always this way. I didn't always push everyone away. With him I convinced my self after almost 2 months that I wasn't the one for him no matter how much I wanted to be...
    Meganrosee Meganrosee 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I am really sensitive when it comes to hate about my favorite celebrity Katy Perry. It really upsets me when people hate on her, and say negative things about her. For example...
    KPfan29 KPfan29 13-15, F Jul 22

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    I know Love is risky. You have so much to lose, but with the right person you can be really happy. I did not knew Love was this difficult. I never figured out myself and my...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F Jul 25

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    Fake people are a waste of time. I've dealt with fake people before and it's so frustrating and time consuming. No matter how hard you try, if someone is fake you can't change that...
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    Im not sure if its true. I was hurt all my life by several people. They werent unhappy, not all of them. The biggest emotional pain i had as my ex- boss female started to be rude...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22

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