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I Always Try To See The Other Side

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    THE BRIGHT SIDE The sun is always there!

    You might not always see it and it might not be a sunny summer's day but the sun never disappears… remember that! The bright side I always think is like hope, I believe hope is on the other side! I believe there is two sides for everything you know got the good/bad, light...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F Apr 10

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    There Is Always Another Side Of The Story

    Dealing with many people on a daily basis, everywhere from extremely pissed off to completey elated and everything in between, I always want to see the other side of the story before I make a decision or back one person's opinion of a situation or issue. This has carried over...
    burn1 burn1 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 25, 2011

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    I Try To See The Other Side.

    But at times something is always in the way.
    Snookybear Snookybear 36-40, M Apr 6, 2010

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    Always

    Whenever I have a disagreement with anyone I try to see their point of view as well as mine. Sometimes I'm right and sometimes it turns out I'm wrong. I'm only human. That's why I try not to get stuck with only one side in my head.
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M Feb 25, 2011

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    The 3rd Side

    Because let's face it folks, in any given scenario there are 3 sides to any story, your side, their side and the truth. All that means is both of your realities don't make one single truth when differences are being sorted out. Can you guys dig that action?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 17, 2011

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    Wear The Other Shoes

    I do try very hard whenever I'm in conflict to try and see the other viewpoint.  I find imagining what it's like to be them very useful in achieving this.  Ultimately it's a courtesy though and unreturned courtesies usually dry up. In the case of more general issues I do try...
    badbinary badbinary 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    Yay! to 2014Though we all have our ups

    and downs, highs and lows. We have drifted apart from the normal phase once in a while. We lost tract of the original plans, become confused a long the way.Some of us suffered a lot. Some are still trying to heal. . . from devastations.Giving thoughts of all these on behalf of...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    The Other Side... I always take a step back

    and look at the other side. In this case I had taken a step back three times. The first was when you decided to push me aside for another....you had a 5 year plan. I was happy for you...as I'm married and couldn't offer you what you needed. The second was when you went to...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F Jan 14

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    Because I'm totally aware

    that people have different motivations and viewpoints and so to truly accept and be accepted I believe in educated reasoning rather than biased bigotry
    BiSexElleTgirl BiSexElleTgirl 26-30, T Dec 20

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    Relations Never Demand Personal Presence

    Some Relations Never Demand Personal Presence. . . Its the Confidence in the Relation Which makes, You Aware That when Needed. . . The Person will Always be with You. . .
    cheeco cheeco 26-30, F May 8, 2012

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    The Moral Of This Story

    A little bird was flying south for the Winter. It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field. While he was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on him. As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, he began to realize how warm he was...
    cheeco cheeco 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Today I saw a friend of mine and she was very quiet and seemed down. Since her normal disposition is peppy and friendly, I asked her how she was doing. She replied by saying that...
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    I am a kind hearted and I truly do want (almost) everyone to be happy but seeing happy people only worsens my depression. I will see people having fun and smiling with their...
    oohfiretwerks oohfiretwerks 13-15, F Dec 14

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    HorseAngel33 HorseAngel33 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I like to wear my leotards with others. SO we can wear them together. I think thats pretty awesome. I allways wear my leotards with my girlfriend and she loves it when I am in a...
    LeotardBoy1 LeotardBoy1 18-21, T 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I recently blew quite a large sum of money on a video game addiction my mother found out and lets just say she isnt quite happy about it especially since this is coming shortly...
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    I really love when people get happy due me.
    rahulgentleman rahulgentleman 22-25, M Dec 1

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    I sometimes day dream about girls, but I'm straight i just want to know what it feels like feel free to message me
    neverose neverose 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    But what makes it worse is ppl sending messages of support to all these unhappy teens so you read the persons profile who messages the teens and you scream at your phone don't talk...
    weeshil weeshil 41-45, F Dec 9

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    My lil sis who is 6 was jumping off all the chairs and was just being silly I guess. Well my dad was watching his favorite show and my lil sis was jumping on his back then reached...
    fifidogg fifidogg 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    Because I would love to learn from and share life with them. And from good friendships as a woman
    BiSexElleTgirl BiSexElleTgirl 26-30, T Dec 20

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    Thinking about my connection with my MM I thought I would share something I find rather interesting and some others may as well. I have what some may see as a connection to 'the...
    Yudeiah Yudeiah 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 2

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    One side is the sweet and kind me who is always happy and is trying to make everyone around me happy as well, and i will do anything for my loved ones. The other side is like a...
    unidentiffied unidentiffied 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Joshua604a3xn8 Joshua604a3xn8 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 14

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    Well I have always had different sides to my personality...but didn't know until I was older...actually just recently...that I have Borderline Personality Disorder. I see things...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    Anthony1604hzs1 Anthony1604hzs1 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 14

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    Hi all, Two great Words, HOPE & PASSION. There are times in life where we all feel like giving a blow to everything, and running away to a place even we don't know. But, the thing...
    ProjectXPune ProjectXPune 18-21, M Dec 5

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    Its simple: I hate my mother and my mother hates me. We fight on a weekly basis. Sometimes she even chokes me and tells me how pathetic and worthless I am and she says how nobody...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F Dec 9

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    It's a terrible thing to know that you have always disappointed your own father, yet at 34 years old this is the realisation that I have gradually awakened to. Every year, I...
    Kitty786 Kitty786 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I'm posting this on my side of the fence but it really does belong on the other side. It goes with what Brokenami posted and I know for truth. http://rodentbassist.blogspot.com...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Oh, somebody is going through the phone bill again I see. I have two missed calls on my phone. The only difference this time my darling is I will not lie for you. I will try to...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 18 Responses Dec 12

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    well I was always the black sheep of the family. You know like getting the fault of everything and being called ugly and useless for the first 15 years of your life kinda messes up...
    kkkmmm123 kkkmmm123 18-21, F Dec 6

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    I have a sexual, sadistic other side of me and I don't like her. But it makes me wanna do stuff that sounds fun sometimes~ Like kill, assault*in any way*, or something like that~
    AveiraAmaria AveiraAmaria 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Am a comedian I always been, I like to see people laugh, it's make me laugh too I often send funny videos and jocks on chats I even made a yuutube channel and downloaded all the...
    collegegirl20 collegegirl20 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Ladies, I feel soo good today. I've been on vacation with the family (awesomeness BTW, you must visit Mozambique it's beautiful.). That's not all that's making me warm and fuzzy...
    Strang3r Strang3r 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    And now I'm on the other side of the glow. MM just texted me that he is home safe. I'm going to go find something to eat, since I haven't had any food all day. Tonight will be fine...
    whynot13 whynot13 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 9

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    I get really depressed and I get a little taste of happiness when I see others happy. I always gave my stuff away when I was a kid because it made other kids happier than me. It's...
    roseangel5747 roseangel5747 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    It gives me unbearable pain when I see others hurting. I always try my hardest to help them, and I will do absolutely anything in my power to make them smile again.
    msharleenquinzel msharleenquinzel 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    Well, I always get asked why im so quiet, when i was in elementary school i would always be alone at recces, i would always eat alone in lunch, i would always work alone in class...
    Rendon Rendon 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Update: we talked yesterday & he said he had to lay low because W found where he had recently downloaded yahoo again with a different user name. We didn't really have a lot of time...
    forbidden67 forbidden67 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    so here I am, in my condo-left my H tonight for the night needed clarity (see other post if interested) I knew tonight was going to be the first day of a rough week. At 17 days NC...
    Readytomoveon2015 Readytomoveon2015 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    That moment when people talk about their relationship, and how it's working so well ect. I really try to be happy for those people, but in truth I just feel like someone is waving...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M Dec 6

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