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I Always Try To See The Other Side

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    There Is Always Another Side Of The Story

    Dealing with many people on a daily basis, everywhere from extremely pissed off to completey elated and everything in between, I always want to see the other side of the story before I make a decision or back one person's opinion of a situation or issue. This has carried over...
    burn1 burn1 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 25, 2011

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    Yay! to 2014Though we all have our ups

    and downs, highs and lows. We have drifted apart from the normal phase once in a while. We lost tract of the original plans, become confused a long the way.Some of us suffered a lot. Some are still trying to heal. . . from devastations.Giving thoughts of all these on behalf of...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    THE BRIGHT SIDE The sun is always there!

    You might not always see it and it might not be a sunny summer's day but the sun never disappears… remember that! The bright side I always think is like hope, I believe hope is on the other side! I believe there is two sides for everything you know got the good/bad, light...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F Apr 10

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    The 3rd Side

    Because let's face it folks, in any given scenario there are 3 sides to any story, your side, their side and the truth. All that means is both of your realities don't make one single truth when differences are being sorted out. Can you guys dig that action?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 17, 2011

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    The Other Side... I always take a step back

    and look at the other side. In this case I had taken a step back three times. The first was when you decided to push me aside for another....you had a 5 year plan. I was happy for you...as I'm married and couldn't offer you what you needed. The second was when you went to...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F Jan 14

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    The Moral Of This Story

    A little bird was flying south for the Winter. It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field. While he was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on him. As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, he began to realize how warm he was...
    cheeco cheeco 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    Relations Never Demand Personal Presence

    Some Relations Never Demand Personal Presence. . . Its the Confidence in the Relation Which makes, You Aware That when Needed. . . The Person will Always be with You. . .
    cheeco cheeco 26-30, F May 8, 2012

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    I Try To See The Other Side.

    But at times something is always in the way.
    Snookybear Snookybear 36-40, M Apr 6, 2010

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    Wear The Other Shoes

    I do try very hard whenever I'm in conflict to try and see the other viewpoint.  I find imagining what it's like to be them very useful in achieving this.  Ultimately it's a courtesy though and unreturned courtesies usually dry up. In the case of more general issues I do try...
    badbinary badbinary 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    Always

    Whenever I have a disagreement with anyone I try to see their point of view as well as mine. Sometimes I'm right and sometimes it turns out I'm wrong. I'm only human. That's why I try not to get stuck with only one side in my head.
    bvb1123 bvb1123 41-45, M Feb 25, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I work at a drive-thru currently and every once in a while I'll get a person who will pay for the person in the next car's order. It just makes me so happy to see others helping...
    Cocotoaster Cocotoaster 26-30 Jul 1

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    Hi girls! I'm Melanie. I'm new here and was just curious to see what this is all about. I'm looking for feminine women who like other women. I need to get my sexy chat on. So, hit...
    bisexualgurl69 bisexualgurl69 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    I've always known I wasnt perfect. Never once claimed I was. I know ill always have room to improve my life and how I live this life. Learning to ignore negative people and their...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I always been interested in doing it ... ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 12

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    Some painters transform the sun into a yellow spot, others transform a yellow spot into the sun. - Pablo Picasso
    marklovescoffee marklovescoffee 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    I always prayed to God that I could find a perfect girl, and then I finally had her. I was her first date, first love, first alot of things. But in the end I messed up bad. One...
    YoungScottt YoungScottt 16-17, M Jul 17

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    I am constantly trying to improve myself. Since I'm not perfect, I'll always be finding things I want to fix and improve.
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I hate it. I do. I don't know why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job...
    silverwolf25 silverwolf25 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I honestly think I mess things up all the time. When things are going great I just seem to say the wrong thing. Then everything just starts to fall apart. I think I just ruined...
    SimplyAmazingx SimplyAmazingx 16-17, F Jul 18

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    I see them in my dreams when I'm walking i imagine them everywhere like i said I'm f*cking crazy help
    CrazyUnStableGuy666 CrazyUnStableGuy666 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Every time whether it's someone that likes me is friends with me or my family I'm just a horrible messed up person that hurts people and I can actually be a really loving person...
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    looking for someone cute to have some fun convos with :)
    izzyyy izzyyy 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 2

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    I have been in a mind controlling and physically controlling relationship going on 4yrs. I know when I go somewhere I don't take too long and I know I don't wander off too far from...
    Imnotdillusional Imnotdillusional 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Reading all these experiences about people going through tough times in their lives makes me so sad. I wish that I could help and get through to all of those people and make their...
    jasenamigala jasenamigala 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Want to meet up with a girl in my area ;) x message me x
    zoe346 zoe346 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Yes mee to i do it alot and and i love it when theydont where any
    13andbi 13andbi 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I like guys but I really want to try with a girl, pleasure her and make her *** and moan my name
    chloelou chloelou 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    A different perspective. (This will be long...sorry) I'm going to change names and certain details purely because this is not my own experience, but observations I've made about a...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I look at being the other woman as a business deal...especially if the OW is also married and seeing another MM. Every business arrangement is different...for me and my MM, it was...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am NOT the other woman any longer but then again I never did feel that way…..For those that know my story already know that my relationship was an open book for all including...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973 41-45, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    "We're not broken, just bent..." One of my husband's most sustaining phrases he has used to keep my spirits up during our marriage recovery, is a lyrical line, from the song...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I hate to see a helpless little animal in pain. :( Thankfully, I have helped to save many - mainly my own pets, as I am always near to hand if they are injured or ill. Sadly,saving...
    randomlygenerated randomlygenerated 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I've been back for two and a half weeks. It's two and a half weeks since he text me last. I'm still hoping every day that he'll be in touch, still waking in the night and checking...
    Bittersweet14 Bittersweet14 26-30 1 Response Jul 6

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    So, I've been seeing my OM for over 6 months now. I guess it may be safe to say that the newness of our affair has worn off a bit. Now it's beginning to feel a bit like a...
    Ditto85 Ditto85 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Well, I am a graduate student at Grand Canyon University on the other side of the country . The university is in Phoenix, but I hear the actual Grand Canyon is not. The pictures...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Is it possible to take several steps back emotionally? This relationship with my MM is going to kill me slowly. Up until recently he told me he was hoping to leave his W next...
    JulyBug JulyBug 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 21

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    Ummm... The other side you noob.
    Mechawaffle Mechawaffle 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's always nice to see other people enjoy themselves. In fact, just seeing other people happy brightens up my day!
    RoddyB7589 RoddyB7589 16-17, M Jul 7

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    I never ever felt like the need to make fun of others to feel popular or to raise my self esteem. I used to be the one who been into a lot of making fun of. I knew it was cos they...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Jul 16

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    When I was nine years old, my mom needed time to "get back on her feet." She dropped me off at her friend's family in a small town, and fled to the city. She promised she would be...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 9 Responses Jul 14

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    After a workout I go into the locker room and get naked I take my time and sit their naked playing on my phone before walking across the locker to the shower. I watch older guys...
    ryanweisman ryanweisman 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I'm wondering if it is worth it to keep holding out, hoping for something that may never come. My MM is my best friend, which makes this even more difficult. His wife knows about...
    thedokken thedokken 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I always see patterns of numbers and I literally always see either 17 or 117 or 1117- or even patterns of 17 like 717 17. Driving me crazy
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well, where can I start off? Down to the facts, i'm the OW..or at least I was until last Friday when I founf out he was breaking everything off. I guess he got caught, and hadn't...
    cruz138 cruz138 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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    Having people see me naked is such a turn on. It just gives me a feeling of being a natural human. :) and the excitement is so pleasurable. Letting somebody see the real, all...
    matt904 matt904 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 9

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    This really bugs me. Women always attack other women like what? Women are the first to call other girls *******, ***** and all that. I'm just like why? Why can't we be friends...
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 16-17, F Jul 18

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    As often as possible! Don't you just hate all forms that want to categorise you? Rebel I say !!! Always tick OTHER !!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    Here I am again adding yet another journal like entry. The last 2 months was like a blur and went by so fast. I have just been dealing with life in general and taking things one...
    Lauryn0114 Lauryn0114 31-35, F Jul 7

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