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I Always Want to Be In Control

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    I Am Never In Control During Sex

    Looking back over my experiences with about 5 women, I realize they were in control once I showed my desire for sex. They decided wheher to go further, what to let me touch, what to unbutton and unhook, how far ro go, then even the position she wanted, usually on top so she...
    anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M 4 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    But Getting Better At It

    Having been thrown into adulthood at the age of 16, I was forced to be in control of everything. Early on I had to 'fend for myself'. I have been in numerous supervisory positions and that tends to boost the ego as well. One of the hardest things for me is delegating, well...
    extremedad extremedad 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 11, 2008

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    Not Any More..............

    No matter how one defines it, I was the one in control, the in charge person. I was on my own from the time I was 16 and self reliant before that. I was a Navy man with 30 men working under me. I have been in supervisory positions for many years as well. Sounds nice, but the...
    extremedad extremedad 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2010

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    To Hell With Kindness?

    Have you ever experienced any situation which made you think maybe you're too kind? Maybe you're that person who always looks out for others, concern about them. Whenever your friends are feeling down and sad, you are there for them. Putting whatever you're doing aside just to...
    kemi8698 kemi8698 22-25, F Jun 3, 2012

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    Anger Evil ...

    Im usually in control but not when Im in anger .. Its the worst evil for me .. Control has gone completely when Im obsessed by anger .. I don't wanna be angry but sometimes its just too hard to be in control lol
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 14 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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    After I was assaulted I always want to be in

    control sexually. I know some men hate that!!! So if you don't like it don't email!
    funsnowgal funsnowgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    In Control Or Let Go Is the Question

    I naturally like being in control, like any human, however, like you I may have learned through experience that there is a time to let go. We have all heard the story of the way monkeys were caught. Goards with an opening big enough for the monkey's hand had food placed inside...
    Radiant Radiant 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2008

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    There Are Times That I Wish I Was

         there are tiems that I wish that I could be in control. That is when I wish that I could do what ever that I want. With out haviong someone keeping a eye on me. I know that I can't live on my own. But I would just like to feel like. I am able to be in control. But I...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Jan 10, 2011

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    Everyone Does...

    I have found in my very short life, when other people are in control bad things can, and will happen. But when ever I decide to take control of a situation these things tend not to happen. Of course, I've also come to another conclusion in my life. People are idiots, I am not...
    Cnbrrn Cnbrrn 16-18, M 4 Responses Nov 19, 2007

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    I Never Feel Like a Control Freak...

    Just like I know so much better than most people what should be done...or that I want to help somehow...or make things perfect so everyone can be a little happier...or that I'm terrified everything's going to fall apart and I'm going to end up old and lonely and broke and unknown...
    donquixote11 donquixote11 26-30, F Jun 13, 2009

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    To Them I'm Just Crazy

     I always want to be in control but In my family im considered just a kid and nothing more. I'm supposed to come when called. Sit when asked. And obey. what i want is not for me to decide it's for someone else too. I'm not in control of  this. I must listen to...
    Passionfruit3 Passionfruit3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2009

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    I Want to Be In Control...

    however, i am unable to do so. I am in control of one thing...and thats myself...
    lovelybonez17 lovelybonez17 16-17, F Aug 20, 2008

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    It's Not You, It's Me.

    I don't necessarily have to be in control of everything around me, but, when it comes to me or my body, I try to be in complete control. I must be in control of my thoughts, emotions, actions, and decisions. I freak out if I cannot think properly because of medication. I...
    maeven maeven 18-21, F Jul 12, 2009

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    Well, Here Is the Thing:

    I have a love/hate relationship with the whole thing. Please someone tell me: how do i stop wanting to be a control freak!
    ritchflynn ritchflynn 22-25, M Jun 14, 2009

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    Younger Days

    In my younger days living with an abusive alcoholic father and a battered wife syndome mother I want control so there would be peace and harmony....that what started me on my quest to find it and over the years found iit inside of me and moved it to places I lived and...
    PoppaBear53 PoppaBear53 56-60, M Jan 7, 2012

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    Or Else I Lose It...

    If I can not control my situation... ANYTHING I am in... I lose it. Like this whole flight thing tomorrow... I have no control over that and its going to drive me CRAZY until I land at the airport. I have to be in control at all times. Not in a...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    Not So Bad

    It's really not so bad to want to be in control of yourself-it's when you want to be in control of others that it becomes difficult-suffocating to them-making them not want to be in your company.  Self control is the one thing that most people don't practice enough of. ...
    SunnyHoney SunnyHoney 36-40, F Jul 3, 2009

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    I want to die first,

    before anyone I love dies. Please god, me first!!! I will get ready.
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I Am Just Thinking of How M...

    I am just thinking of how much better I could make things!
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    While this feeling has been with me as long as I can remember, I've recently come to a new way of thinking about how I feel about this. I'm sort of a naturally curious person. So I...
    kope45 kope45 31-35, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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    i know this sounds really weird but i am a very big fan of the creepypasta's , i have always wanted to be one (I guess you could say i am saying this in the fan girl sense, no hate...
    jeff0the0killer0 jeff0the0killer0 13-15, F Apr 14

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    I've always wanted a little brother. I suspect it has something to do with me wanting to reflect back on myself at an earlier phase, and be able to support and protect that inner...
    4myinnerchild 4myinnerchild 51-55, M Apr 7

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    I've always wanted to be a girl when ever I'm dressed in guy mode I'm depressed and don't want to do any thing. now that I can dress up more I do it when ever i can and within a...
    olsentrisha olsentrisha 41-45, T 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Tree houses & how they are designed are all unique yet exquisite masterpieces. They can range from small, intimate & cozy to huge & luxurious-(depending on your budget & space...
    theswordinthestone theswordinthestone 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    I have never understood how people can act to hurt others deliberately, and so I always think we all see things the same way and all want the best for us all. Despite many...
    prrr74 prrr74 61-65, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    Always hoped one day my Daddy Prince Charming TOP would enter my life, make me his princess! I want to just be a wife so bad and just take of my husband!
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 9

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    You guys matter! I don't think I am worthy enough to judge people based on gender, age, ethnicity, sexual orientation, religious preferences etc. Feeling lonely? Inbox me and tell...
    AN1991 AN1991 22-25, M Apr 11

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    take a look at yourself and realise that you're not actually broken. You are strong. You are beautiful. You are sweet, kind and caring. You have such a big heart and you love with...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    take a look at yourself and realise that you're not actually broken. You are strong. You are beautiful. You are sweet, kind and caring. You have such a big heart and you love with...
    baconrind baconrind 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    but never happened..had a great son I raised alone though,it was an eye opening experience.yet so wonderful. but i always wish for the father daughter thing i read about.
    quietthunder2 quietthunder2 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I've always been a sissy boy who is TG and I need a real man in my life to protect me and treat me like a princess wife!!!!!
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I have a little brother but he's a jerk to everyone. I want a little bro who's 4 or more years younger than me. I want a close bond with him like best friends to each other. I...
    Dragonwarrior01 Dragonwarrior01 18-21, M 6 Responses Apr 2

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    Why do some people take the smallest things ever so hard. I mean.. Like what's the big deal if I believe in buddah and you beleive in some other god? None. There's no difference...
    Janellesings Janellesings 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I know a guy and I want his little brother he's so cool he's like 10 but he's awesome! I only have a older brother and he's annoying hmf
    AshCutten AshCutten 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    i want cross dress as a female like all the clothes,have long hair, makeup, jewelry and everything and also learn the ways of women. even how to do sex. plzzz message me and help...
    shifakhan shifakhan 18-21, M Apr 11

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    I can't pretend to be someone I'm not. I can't pretend to live life to the full like others. I can't pretend to like clubbing just to fit in with others. I can only be myself even...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 19 hrs ago

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    Ive kissed guys but ive never french kiss somone
    smores19 smores19 18-21, F Mar 24

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    When I was little I used to pretend that i had a big brother. He would walk me to school and keep me safe. My family life wasn't perfect so he'd be there to hold me when I'd cry...
    courtneyblue courtneyblue 18-21, F Mar 26

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    My dream car would be either a purple '73 El Camino with black leather interior and silver star stitching Or A robin's egg blue '57 Chevy with pink interior, chrome trim, and...
    meghanmonroe meghanmonroe 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Ever since I was very young I knew I enjoyed being with girls more than boys. I played almost exclusively with girls as a preteen and that was girl games and shared girly...
    Michaelene6356 Michaelene6356 61-65, M 5 Responses Mar 30

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    When I was a little angel I use to know I was a precious princess who was effeminate and loved every bit of it!
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Even if it means I have to be sad. I gave some people my concert tickets because they got ripped off. It was kinda sad cuz I noticed it was a date... So I had to discreetly give...
    Langour Langour 18-21, M Apr 15

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    Well I've always wanted a baby but I know I'm young so I am not intentionally trying to get pregnant but I have a sex life so if it happens I do know I'm ready for the whole...
    babygirl3259 babygirl3259 13-15, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I have always been on birth control, but my last dosage ended in early March. I've been busy and keep forgetting to make an appointment to get on new birth control. Pregnancy...
    FatNLovingIt FatNLovingIt 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I've always wanted to be in a relationship not because Im jelous of other people i just want to bond with someone or just laugh and have a good time with. I want a happy...
    natalie226 natalie226 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I've always wanted a bestfriend to just be crazy together 😜
    natalie226 natalie226 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I have always wanted to be a Police Officer. Ever since I was 5 years old I have known this is what I've wanted to do. But last night I came to a horrible realization. I realized...
    alyd473 alyd473 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I've always valued education, as a way to master a certain knowledge. Learning has become so restricted, though, and going to university makes me nervous. I've always been a...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I am 24 years old and just got out of a four year relationship with a 46 year old man. I met this guy in college when I was a fresh faced 20 year old. It was infatuation at first...
    freebird24 freebird24 22-25, F Apr 1

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    It seems very hard for SOME people to differentiate between family and family. I have said numerous times that im sad because I want my own family and I feel alone and incomplete...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I don't why~ I have a big one who's generally aloof to me. I always wanted a cute little brother who looks up to me and thinks I'm the coolest. :D Hm...really awesome kid who's...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    My ex and I have been together two different times. The first time lasted 3 months and then 6 months later we ended up together again for a year. It's been a little over two months...
    LameyC LameyC 18-21, F Apr 12

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    Christmas Eve of 2011, my boyfriend proposed to me with a beautiful ring on the docks of a lake in rural Newport Vermont. I've always loved him. I've always wanted him. There's...
    irelate14 irelate14 18-21, F Apr 15