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I Always Want to Be In Control

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    After I was assaulted I always want to be in

    control sexually. I know some men hate that!!! So if you don't like it don't email!
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    I want to die first,

    before anyone I love dies. Please god, me first!!! I will get ready.
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Or Else I Lose It...

    If I can not control my situation... ANYTHING I am in... I lose it. Like this whole flight thing tomorrow... I have no control over that and its going to drive me CRAZY until I land at the airport. I have to be in control at all times. Not in a...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 12, 2008

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    There Are Times That I Wish I Was

         there are tiems that I wish that I could be in control. That is when I wish that I could do what ever that I want. With out haviong someone keeping a eye on me. I know that I can't live on my own. But I would just like to feel like. I am able to be in control. But I...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Jan 10, 2011

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    It's Not You, It's Me.

    I don't necessarily have to be in control of everything around me, but, when it comes to me or my body, I try to be in complete control. I must be in control of my thoughts, emotions, actions, and decisions. I freak out if I cannot think properly because of medication. I...
    maeven maeven 18-21, F Jul 12, 2009

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    To Them I'm Just Crazy

     I always want to be in control but In my family im considered just a kid and nothing more. I'm supposed to come when called. Sit when asked. And obey. what i want is not for me to decide it's for someone else too. I'm not in control of  this. I must listen to...
    Passionfruit3 Passionfruit3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2009

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    Well, Here Is the Thing:

    I have a love/hate relationship with the whole thing. Please someone tell me: how do i stop wanting to be a control freak!
    ritchflynn ritchflynn 22-25, M Jun 14, 2009

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    Everyone Does...

    I have found in my very short life, when other people are in control bad things can, and will happen. But when ever I decide to take control of a situation these things tend not to happen. Of course, I've also come to another conclusion in my life. People are idiots, I am not...
    Cnbrrn Cnbrrn 16-18, M 4 Responses Nov 19, 2007

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    Not Any More..............

    No matter how one defines it, I was the one in control, the in charge person. I was on my own from the time I was 16 and self reliant before that. I was a Navy man with 30 men working under me. I have been in supervisory positions for many years as well. Sounds nice, but the...
    extremedad extremedad 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2010

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    Younger Days

    In my younger days living with an abusive alcoholic father and a battered wife syndome mother I want control so there would be peace and harmony....that what started me on my quest to find it and over the years found iit inside of me and moved it to places I lived and...
    PoppaBear53 PoppaBear53 56-60, M Jan 7, 2012

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    I Want to Be In Control...

    however, i am unable to do so. I am in control of one thing...and thats myself...
    lovelybonez17 lovelybonez17 16-17, F Aug 20, 2008

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    I Never Feel Like a Control Freak...

    Just like I know so much better than most people what should be done...or that I want to help somehow...or make things perfect so everyone can be a little happier...or that I'm terrified everything's going to fall apart and I'm going to end up old and lonely and broke and unknown...
    donquixote11 donquixote11 26-30, F Jun 13, 2009

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    Not So Bad

    It's really not so bad to want to be in control of yourself-it's when you want to be in control of others that it becomes difficult-suffocating to them-making them not want to be in your company.  Self control is the one thing that most people don't practice enough of. ...
    SunnyHoney SunnyHoney 36-40, F Jul 3, 2009

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    I Am Never In Control During Sex

    Looking back over my experiences with about 5 women, I realize they were in control once I showed my desire for sex. They decided wheher to go further, what to let me touch, what to unbutton and unhook, how far ro go, then even the position she wanted, usually on top so she...
    anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M 4 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    Anger Evil ...

    Im usually in control but not when Im in anger .. Its the worst evil for me .. Control has gone completely when Im obsessed by anger .. I don't wanna be angry but sometimes its just too hard to be in control lol
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 14 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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    To Hell With Kindness?

    Have you ever experienced any situation which made you think maybe you're too kind? Maybe you're that person who always looks out for others, concern about them. Whenever your friends are feeling down and sad, you are there for them. Putting whatever you're doing aside just to...
    kemi8698 kemi8698 22-25, F Jun 3, 2012

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    I try to control everything in my life,

    from the thoughts in my head to the specific way I say "hello" to people. I try to control every aspect of my life and maybe that's why I feel so frustrated? Maybe if I give up control things will just happen, instead of me making them happen. But in my mind how can I get...
    TheBlackLabel TheBlackLabel 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    But Getting Better At It

    Having been thrown into adulthood at the age of 16, I was forced to be in control of everything. Early on I had to 'fend for myself'. I have been in numerous supervisory positions and that tends to boost the ego as well. One of the hardest things for me is delegating, well...
    extremedad extremedad 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 11, 2008

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    I Am Just Thinking of How M...

    I am just thinking of how much better I could make things!
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    In Control Or Let Go Is the Question

    I naturally like being in control, like any human, however, like you I may have learned through experience that there is a time to let go. We have all heard the story of the way monkeys were caught. Goards with an opening big enough for the monkey's hand had food placed inside...
    Radiant Radiant 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 28, 2008

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    I have felt this way since being a young boy and told that dolls and pretend play was not the proper thing to do. But how do you explain this to anyone else that has never felt...
    jacqueline1972 jacqueline1972 36-40, T 4 Responses Sep 10

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    i always wanted to be a girl as i love putting on makeup and wearing skirts and pretty dresses.
    girlyAndrea1987 girlyAndrea1987 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I need help I have always wanted to be Jessica but I just started to come out I just want some friends I can talk to on my level thanks
    abdljessica abdljessica 22-25, T 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love kids very much and I have always wanted to have a large family. I now have a big family and we all are very happy. I have 7 boys and 5 girls.
    nudistwifeandmother nudistwifeandmother 41-45, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Since I was very young its something I've always felt. I did grow up male and learned to appreciate all the good things of being a man, but that feeling of wanting to be a girl...
    Jess0190 Jess0190 22-25, T 5 Responses Aug 27

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    But that doesn't mean I am always happy. I don't think you can always be happy. Everyone goes through atleast a small amount of depression. If happy is all you feel then I don't...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Iv always been turned on by an older professional man and constantly fantasize bout being their mistress and ******* in their office and hotels and just the thrill of sneaking...
    missbb2014 missbb2014 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    When i was little i always felt like i was a girl i know i was ment to be a girl
    Opticfire1221 Opticfire1221 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    But do you? What if I'm that one person who always hurts you in the end? The one that doesn't care as much as he should? The one that helps out of obligation and etiquette as...
    KurMujun KurMujun 36-40 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    No exceptions tend to be needed anytime sooner. This world is mad yet beautiful includes Human Beings like you and I: some of u are good and some of us are bad and the most...
    Angelanorexic Angelanorexic 18-21, F Aug 25

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    A couple of weeks ago, on daytime television, there was this woman who built this £25K treehouse for her kids to play in; she had an idyllic childhood and wanted her own to have...
    SarahTheHooker SarahTheHooker 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    My mother and father's side of their family are big with my mother having over 8 siblings and my father having over 6. I want to have a big family of my own who care for each other...
    AriosaRuby AriosaRuby 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    When I get frustrated or extremely upset or argue with someone I want to hurt myself. Its mainly when I argue with my close friends and mother. I feel so bad about things I said or...
    kleox7x kleox7x 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I was in a local movie production when I was little, called "Bottle Rocket Wars", about a group of young kids fighting over a treehouse. (I had a speaking role ;P ) After filming...
    mhenson144 mhenson144 22-25, M Sep 7

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    As a little boy I wanted to be a ballet dancer but was told it was for little girls now I'm older I'm thinking it's too late for me to learn ballet :(
    wassl wassl 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    So if there is any YOUNG guy who is willing message me please? And I love in FL
    ayooantonio239 ayooantonio239 13-15, F Aug 31

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    Any body that is young and willing to do it please message me asap
    ayoomelissa ayoomelissa 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I come from a huge family and now I have a huge family of my own. I have 8 boys and 7 girls. I am pregnant with triplets and my due date is November 29th.
    maturemominbackyard maturemominbackyard 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    Go away. Moronic teachers of pathetic laws.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 8

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    I'll be anyone's big brother. Protect and love you.
    COD101 COD101 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 9

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    I wish I had one so when I leave my mother has someone to be with her
    Gian422 Gian422 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    if i had a sister she would be my best friend , we would do crazy things, have fun , fight and laugh together, tell her my secrets i would share with her everything ..I NEED...
    lulutaa lulutaa 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Dude, I lucked out so hard.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I wish someone would adopt me as their younger sister :/ take care of me and protect me like a real brother.
    MissClueless MissClueless 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Salzburg Pageant sees initial effectiveness of show that chronicles life of youthful artist murdered because of the Nazis"We ended up in dialogue two or three times," Pereira...
    Keniaga838 Keniaga838 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There has been no obvious re-assessment of the function’s interactions or its themes. Mr. Hermanis has just put aged wine in a different bottle.In opera, Pereira's...
    Keniaga838 Keniaga838 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Who doesn't?? Every child's fantasy!!
    MajorBeauty MajorBeauty 13-15, F 18 hrs ago

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    I hate not having money for anything. Today I wanted my licenses not just because. I wanted my license because my mom was complaining about how she has to drive everyone every...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Sep 10

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