I Always Want to Be In Control

however, i am unable to do so. I am in control of one thing...and thats myself...

Have you ever experienced any situation which made you think maybe you're too kind?
Maybe you're that person who always looks out for others, concern about them. Whenever your friends are feeling down and sad, you are there for them...

I am just thinking of how much better I could make things!

Having been thrown into adulthood at the age of 16, I was forced to be in control of everything. Early on I had to 'fend for myself'. I have been in numerous supervisory positions and that tends to boost the ego as well.
One of the...

I naturally like being in control, like any human, however, like you I may have learned through experience that there is a time to let go.
We have all heard the story of the way monkeys were caught. Goards with an opening big enough...

Well, okay -and it means more stress. But that's worth it.Isn't it better to be in control and make sure that everything gets the right way and you know about everything? Instead of letting others get the things done wrong or maybe not...

I always want to be in control but In my family im considered just a kid and nothing more. I'm supposed to come when called. Sit when asked. And obey. what i want is not for me to decide it's for someone else too. I'm not in ...

... most of the time is good. Apparently with introverts the greatest fear is loss of control; with extroverts, abandonment. I was chatting with a dear friend and one of the things I concluded from our bouncing thoughts between...

In my younger days living with an abusive alcoholic father and a battered wife syndome mother I want control so there would be peace and harmony....that what started me on my quest to find it and over the years found iit inside of me...

Im usually in control but not when Im in anger .. Its the worst evil for me .. Control has gone completely when Im obsessed by anger .. I don't wanna be angry but sometimes its just too hard to be in control lol

Looking back over my experiences with about 5 women, I realize they were in control once I showed my desire for sex. They decided wheher to go further, what to let me touch, what to unbutton and unhook, how far ro go, then even the...

I have found in my very short life, when other people are in control bad things can, and will happen. But when ever I decide to take control of a situation these things tend not to happen.
Of course, I've also come to another...

     there are tiems that I wish that I could be in control. That is when I wish that I could do what ever that I want. With out haviong someone keeping a eye on me. I know that I can't live on my own. But I would just like to feel...

No matter how one defines it, I was the one in control, the in charge person. I was on my own from the time I was 16 and self reliant before that. I was a Navy man with 30 men working under me. I have been in supervisory positions for...

If I can not control my situation... ANYTHING I am in... I lose it. Like this whole flight thing tomorrow... I have no control over that and its going to drive me CRAZY until I land at the airport.
I have...

I don't necessarily have to be in control of everything around me, but, when it comes to me or my body, I try to be in complete control.
I must be in control of my thoughts, emotions, actions, and decisions. I freak out if I...