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I Always Want What I Can't Have

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    owlabyss owlabyss 16-17, F Dec 10, 2013

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    Seems to only happen with people, how weird..
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 30, 2010

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    Pretty much the same old same old I guess. But what's there to lose by telling you? Here I go. He is a grade older than me. Doesn't go to my school. As far as I'm...
    ouatnatalie ouatnatalie 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I can't believe it's now a full year I haven't seen you. Heard your voice held your hand as we would walk along the Atlantic City boardwalk. Look into your deep brown eyes and see...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    Basically:- He's always with me, hasn't spoken to any other girls for a year since I've known him, helps me when I need help and we have a strong bond, talk for hours...- Anyway I...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I'm writing this because I am stuck in a situation I can't discuss with my wife or friends, nor the woman I have fallen back in love with. I just need to get this off my chest as...
    Tryingtobefriends Tryingtobefriends 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 3

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    Over the past few days I've been feeling a little bit angry. Maybe this is a good thing? Maybe it's a sign that I'm finally climbing out of the quick sand I've been stuck in for...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My life has been completely turned upside down and inside out over the course of the last 2 years. Why? Because I fell in love with a married man that I connected with on every...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    Every time we speak, he finds different ways of saying goodbye. Last we spoke, it was "hugs and hugs and hugs" (in European languages). He always leaves me wanting and more curious...
    femketje femketje 22-25 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Your hair, your face, your beautiful eyes...I want to tell you how strikingly beautiful you are every day, but I can't. Because you have someone in your life already, even though...
    HopelessRomantic6 HopelessRomantic6 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What are we? gfbf, mate or Fwb? He just ended a long term relationship (and i heard they are in open relationship now) Obviously he is not that into me, he rejected to take the...
    wtsthiswtstht wtsthiswtstht 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F Aug 25

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    Every woman wants her man to love her from his heart and soul. When a woman loves a man she wants to be the most important person in his life. When a woman truly loves you she will...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Aug 24

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    Over the weekend, a few friends and I rented a campsite to commemorate the summer. Due to several of the people either getting sick or becoming unable to attend, it ended up being...
    theanonwriter theanonwriter 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    About a month ago a girl moved to town from Washington state. My first thought was that she was cute, but I didn't really think more than that. It wasn't until I started getting to...
    HopelessRomantic6 HopelessRomantic6 18-21, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    When a person says that they like me, I somehow lose attraction to them. I like guys who are gay (yes this is super weird), because I know they will never like me back. I am...
    jiumpuu jiumpuu 13-15, F Aug 24

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    I think I seek them out because I like a chase and its a confidence boost to know that I can have even whats not on the market. I blame Nick Cannon. If he wouldn't have married...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 27

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    Sometimes i wonder if my ex have cast a curse on me, probably not voluntary but I remember so clearly when i broke up With her... Her saying to me that I will never find someone...
    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 1 Response Sep 2

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    There was this man, this beautiful man with dark straight brown hair and piercingly blue eyes. When I looked at him and he looked at me I knew I wanted to protect something forever...
    23starinthesky 23starinthesky 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    But I'll spend my time writing about the one sided love story, while you figure out where you stand. I'll spend every waking hour, telling people about how much you made me feel...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    how can i move on ? how to deal the pain of losing someone you actually never had? i can't let go but i have to...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Or at least I used to be. It's hard being in love with someone you know you can never have. It's even worse when you have to force yourself to let go and move on. And being "just...
    Iyaniaya Iyaniaya 22-25, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    ...thinking of you in every moment of my life, i'm okey, trying my best to move on...i miss you and treasure the memories i have with you...i love you and will always be a part of...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 9 hrs ago

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    My story is not special. My story is not anything above the ordinary. My story is nothing you haven't heard before. My story is about a girl named Ann-Marie. I fell in love...
    OrangeWishingStar OrangeWishingStar 18-21, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    ARGH I HATE IT SO MUCH. I ALWAYS TALK TO HER WHEN SHES IN TROUBLE, WHENEVER SHE WANTS TO, ooh sorry caps lock. Anyway, I'm always tree for her. I really love her. But she likes...
    LemStark LemStark 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My boyfriend is a Muslim and am a Christain it kills me that I might never be with him. This is because his family wants him to marry a Muslim. I feel like this is unfair and an...
    shumirai shumirai 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    I first laid eyes on him when I was a freshman in high school. He was one grade ahead of me. He was tall, fit, and very attractive. He wasn't dressed like the other guys at our...
    amazingcuzitis amazingcuzitis 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I keep everyone at a safe distance. I can open myself up to a point. I see so many faces all around me and yet a feel solitude. It's not always melancholy either, actually it's...
    lilHuman lilHuman 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Yes I hate being alone with my thoughts. That's because I either overthink or worry too much, but at the end of the day, can I get much out of it? No. Overthinking is not the...
    Mayuko Mayuko 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    ..having you in my life is the best thing that ever happened to me...but you no longer want to hold on and continue what we have... i still want to hold on but i need to let go and...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I'm in love with a girl that's over 20 years my junior. We are friends and she may know I really like her. I believe she is my soulmate and I love her with every beat of my heart...
    AmandaM02 AmandaM02 36-40, T 3 Responses Sep 9

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    Lol I wish i knew someone that could predict the futere and just know things ahah cause im tired of always not knowing and being confused all the time... Some answers would be...
    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 5 days ago

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    She was my best friend. We were extremely close. Then, one day, she found out, and after about a month she abandoned me. She won't answer the phone or reply to a text. She moved a...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    Lol my horoscope for the day, made me laugh. "Are you hiding your true feelings from someone? You'll never know what might happen unless you try, so don't hesitate to put it all...
    theonesbeforeme theonesbeforeme 26-30 1 Response Sep 7

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    No one wants us to be together and you have way too many of your own issues. You also plan on moving so you can finally live a normal life. I want you to be happy but i wish I...
    fuckthisshitforreal fuckthisshitforreal 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I thought he liked me but now I feel (a bit) ignored and I'm not sure what he's thinking about me. That's embarrassing.
    applepie0299 applepie0299 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I usually don't get this stuff.. Sigh I usually don't get crushes. It's just not something that happens to me. Might shock some of you who stereotype bisexual women. Anyway, I went...
    Amandaline Amandaline 16-17, F Aug 20

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    It gets a bit much sometimes knowing that no matter what girls I'm attracted to, they are never interested in me. At least they never show it at all if they are :/
    KiwiDan KiwiDan 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 3

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    i fell in love with a boy.he is damn cute and handsome i want him to became my friend but it is not possible we both are in same class but different sections also he has a...
    shreyanancy shreyanancy 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    I am a Hopeless Romantic~ ..but I am in Love with someone who will be Impossible to find, Someone who can merely be sought out through my Heart, people say I am crazy, but I am who...
    FavoleRose FavoleRose 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I actually can have him, he's just far away.
    Kianalchele Kianalchele 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I know that I've been mad in love before and how it could be with you, really hurt me baby, really cut me baby How can have a day without a night? You're the book that I have...
    femketje femketje 22-25 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I feel sad. Very sad. I don't understand, this is not fair. My social ineptitude just makes it so much worse. I wonder if he will ever know.
    anisse113 anisse113 18-21, F Aug 21

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    Yes, you already have me, but I cannot have you because we're never meant for each other. Yes, it hurts a lot. It hurts more than a punch. From the first day I met that person in...
    watasiwakurt watasiwakurt 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Because he passed away... I have a lot regret in not telling him my feelings. Lesson learned: Time waits for no one..
    naddo630 naddo630 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I obsess over, am in love with, am attracted to, and nearly stalk my therapists. They have become mother figures to me. Without them I feel lost.
    ShadowPrincess603 ShadowPrincess603 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I haven't seen the dearest person to my heart in 3 years and I'm afraid I will never hear his voice again.
    qlara qlara 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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