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I Always Wanted a Big Brother

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 536 People

    mph1997 mph1997 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 24, 2014

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    I wish I had someone I could turn to.

    ... Someone in my family of the same gender to at least learn from... Grow up with, fight with. Bond with... Instead I grew up with 3 sisters and a mother... They raised me to be An amazing guy... But where does that put me? Being used and abused. People take advantage of me and...
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M Oct 18, 2014

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    I always wanted someone to look out

    for me and protect me
    maya0871 maya0871 13-15, F 12 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm so jealous of my friends

    that have an elder brother.. but then I also have a friend that is willing to be my bro since we born in this world in just 22 hours gap. He is cool! But I really want a real big bro. T.T huhu
    TKeyAlex TKeyAlex 16-17, F Oct 23, 2014

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    i always wanted a big brother in my life to

    protect me from the crap that has always happened to me
    iwannafityourmold iwannafityourmold 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    I just wish I knew how it felt to be the

    younger brother. I would even take an online brother.
    mph1997 mph1997 18-21, M Oct 24, 2014

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    I want a person who can protect me from myself.

    Someone who will listen and not judge. They're kind and caring.
    NeedingSomeoneToHelp NeedingSomeoneToHelp 13-15, F Jul 9, 2014

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    For years I've felt like I am/was missing some

    sort of role model. Or at least someone who will stay in my life and I could trust. I mean, I have 2 sisters, but we don't really talk and I've grown not to trust them. Mainly because I feel like they are spies and watchmen for my mother. It's kills me not to be able to talk to...
    XxInsanexX XxInsanexX 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    I wish I had a big brother.

    ..I grew up with an abusive older sister instead. I feel like had I had a brother that half the stuff I've been through wouldn't have happened...cause I'd have someone to protect me stand up for me someone I could always run to and tell him about anything and everything... I...
    Starvin9Artist1 Starvin9Artist1 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I always wanted a big brother

    who was like my eldest cousin who I used to hang out in his room and talk to him. I remembered the times when he shared food with me and never getting cross at me even when I tripped on something in his room. But now we're older, he's away studying and I know that I can't keep...
    SugarDoughnut SugarDoughnut 13-15, M Jun 30, 2014

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    I've always been a bit of a tomboy

    so I've always wanted an older brother to play video games with and joke around with!
    thelastfirstchoice thelastfirstchoice 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2014

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    Hey. I'm 16 and I live in England.

    Having an older brother is obviously impossible atm unless the do cloning of my genes or something. If u think u can be like my older brother message me Peace ∞ ❥
    SoundOfUnity SoundOfUnity 18-21, F 1 Response May 11, 2014

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    NormalTeenGirl NormalTeenGirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I'm the oldest in my family,

    and I've always wanted to have an older bother because I want someone to protect me, love me, do things with me, and always be there to talk when I needed it. He would steer me in the right direction and be a good example. He would take care of me when I needed, and just be a...
    Gravit33rva Gravit33rva 13-15, F Jun 26

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    Ive always wanted to be a big brother.

    x3 Never had the chance tho.
    BlowpopYum BlowpopYum 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    With my sister being six years older

    than me and living with her mom, I'm basically an only child. It's not all bad, I can get just about anything I ask for, but it gets lonely, and I've always wanted a brother around my age or older. At least then if have someone to hang out with.
    Shynerdwriter66 Shynerdwriter66 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2014

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    Sometimes I wish someone would adopt me

    as their younger sister :/ take care of me and protect me like a real brother.
    MissClueless MissClueless 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I have 3 younger sisters (2are full blooded).

    I want everything in the opposite direction of that!
    courtneybam courtneybam 22-25, F Feb 25, 2014

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    .. when you said a big brother ,

    i've always thought of big brother in 1984 by george orwell.
    Mmontag Mmontag 18-21, F Oct 14, 2014

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    I remember the time when I was video chatting

    with my friend, and I fell asleep. I wake up 7 hours later to him smiling and he says. " Don't worry i just woke up as well, i had to make sure you were ok first. You snore, your a dork. I still love you sis." Why can't he actually be my big brother. All I wanted was a big...
    AngelDaxx AngelDaxx 18-21, F May 9

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    I've always wondered what having a big brother

    was like. Then I met someone on here. He's always been there for me, we joke around a lot, he's kind, caring and protective over me. He's talked me out of suicide many times. He's even helped me with a bully who's been bothering me for some time now. He's an amazing person, I...
    BrokenInnocence BrokenInnocence 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    Dreams Of A Big Brother

    Im the oldest of two. I love my sister to pieces, but I have thought it would have been exciting to have a big brother, say just a couple years older than me.  I think we'd have had fun fishing, hunting, riding motorcycles. Maybe some of this comes from parents divorcing when i...
    kwispe kwispe 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    I suppose it's the fact

    that I never had a big family. No siblings (that I know of, anyway - my "dad" may well have other children). I've never felt like I really belonged to anything or anyone. I know that a few of my family members really love me - and I love them. But I've just always wanted a...
    EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind EternalVexOfTheLogicalMind 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    girlygirl981 girlygirl981 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    a big bro :'/ i want a big brother i think big

    brother is more fun than big sister
    KinnaSha KinnaSha 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    I have a big brother on here

    but he barely on. I need more big brothers that could be there for me, and that's on more often. That also lives in the U.S. And needs to be kind,caring,and loving. I want a big brother that's close or exactly like my grandpa. Here a link to my post about him and his life and...
    Custos1 Custos1 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 4, 2014

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    Becoming a Big Brother Changed My Life!

    My Big Brother journey started in the summer of 1981. I just completed my first year at college and as I was relaxing by the pool I read a story in a tabloid magazine about a boy who was mauled by a dog after saving another boy from the same fate. The dog literally chewed...
    stevelantz stevelantz 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 27, 2009

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    When I was little I used to pretend

    that i had a big brother. He would walk me to school and keep me safe. My family life wasn't perfect so he'd be there to hold me when I'd cry. He'd be jealous if I had a boyfriend. My boyfriend would have to answer to him if he hurt me. That's something my absent father never...
    courtneyblue courtneyblue 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2014

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    I am the big brother

    and me and my younger sibling aren't close party because of the age difference I'm 17 he's 13 it's and awkward gap! Maybe in a few years though? He's quite like me
    Turtleisland97 Turtleisland97 18-21, M Oct 15, 2014

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    I'm not lonely, but I wish I had a big brother.. : ]

    Yeah a big brother.. ^__^ Most of my friends from school and college are female .. I don't mind hanging out with them unless i stand out too much :P Anyways.. I love to explore places inside and outside the city.. I couldn't get outta my house becoz of studies and all.. i wasn't...
    Thatsmystyle77 Thatsmystyle77 22-25, M 5 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    Well, I've got one, so it's not

    as if I have any choice. ;) ... but yeah. I always like having him around (mostly). I know some siblings fight but we don't. It's like... **** it. Too much trouble. Plus he's really clean and he smells good, which makes it easier not to hate his guts. I don't think he's gay, but...
    MyChemicalBreakup MyChemicalBreakup 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    I always wished I had a younger brother.

    I was always the younger one, but I was so much more mature than my brother that I never saw him as a role model. I always thought that if I had a younger brother, I would do my best to make sure they looked up to me.
    Rocker1188 Rocker1188 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 27, 2014

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    i've always wanted a big brother

    but that will never happen because i have no older siblings to look up to or to be there when i need advices and *****. i have a younger brother which really gives me headache all the time, always causing trouble. i gave up... i've always envied my friends who have older...
    deeyanah deeyanah 16-17, F Apr 5

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    Someone To Protect Me

    Always Always wanted an older brother. I look back at highschool and see that all the girls who had one, never got picked on. I wanted someone to guide me, protect me, stand up for me, love me. I wanted the scene where he puts his arm around my shoulder and lets me wear his...
    SkippingTheGoldenYears SkippingTheGoldenYears 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    My family, putting it bluntly,

    is a hot mess and I talk to no one, I wish I did have people to look up to like family.
    thoth15 thoth15 31-35, M Jul 8

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    I want to have a brother sister relationship

    with someone who is a loving and protective big brother. :) EP won't let me say it all but if you're interested just let me know.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 18

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    I'll be anyone's big brother.

    Protect and love you.
    COD101 COD101 18-21, M 5 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Not sure how relevant this is

    but I AM a big brother! Three younger brothers and three younger sisters spread across two families. And I love it!! One way or another they all come to me to chat, ask advice, ask for help etc. one time my sister sat on the phone crying for four hours after her husband left...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M May 11, 2014

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    I've always wanted a big brother.

    ...I'm the oldest of 2. I was always the responsible one, the one that took care of everybody, I hated it. Everybody alway counts name to do everything. I haven't had a normal childhood. After my brothers birth my parents were divorced, we stayed with our mom and we saw dad...
    Livetillmadness Livetillmadness 13-15, F Aug 6

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    Feeling down and out.

    .. :/ I really need a big brother to go to... I need your advice! I need someone I can look up to..
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    It would be nice, to have real good one

    who could hang out with me everytime it got lonely. I have 3 sisters, but they... One got her own family far away, and never visits, the other I don't get along well with, the 3rd I can't be myself around anymore. Besides, it feels like in the end, the only two I ever felt...
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda 16-17, F 1 Response May 11

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    I Get Lonely

    I've always just wanted a big brother that would protect and care for me without worrying about my younger sister who is only a year and a half younger. I always look at my friends older brothers and wish I could have someone to protect and love me like that. I think that an...
    Ari22lee Ari22lee 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

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    Ok so I have always wanted a big brother.

    Not for the typical reasons, they are actually quite opposite from what most people want. I have ADHD and anger problems. I wish I had someone that can knock me down when I get out of hand I need someone that can be able to stop me from hurting someone. And someone that can call...
    misprisy101 misprisy101 13-15, F Jul 25

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    I really wish I had one

    now since a guy just crushed my heart
    Babygirl12296 Babygirl12296 18-21, F Jun 30, 2014

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    I want a big brother

    who will protect. Someone who is kind and caring. Someone that actually lives in Canada.
    NeedingSomeoneToHelp NeedingSomeoneToHelp 13-15, F Jul 9, 2014

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    Growing up I had been picked on

    and stranded by enemies and friends alike. My dad was arrogant and destructive to me and my identity, and I never felt like I belonged in the male community. I was always very alone; convincing myself to go to school was a taxing act of nerves and courage. I desperately wanted...
    Zarcy Zarcy 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 25, 2014