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I Always Wanted a Big Brother

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    I'm not lonely, but I wish I had a big brother.. : ]

    Yeah a big brother.. ^__^ Most of my friends from school and college are female .. I don't mind hanging out with them unless i stand out too much :P Anyways.. I love to explore places inside and outside the city.. I couldn't get outta my house becoz of studies and all.. i wasn't...
    Thatsmystyle77 Thatsmystyle77 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    I grew up the oldest of two kids.

    I never liked being the oldest. I actually always wanted to be the youngest. My friend Shelby had a big brother and she always talked about how much they loved each other. My parents were both the youngest in their families, so I never felt like they understood me. I'm 15 now...
    FroG97 FroG97 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Still Hoping

    I think that having a big brother in my life would be the awesomest thing ever. I knew i wanted a big brother since i was 4 years old. I know i will never get a "real" older brother because im an only child. I feel so lonely when i am playing by myself. My parents work a lot so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 25, 2012

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    Haha Looking For An Older Brother On Ep Lol

    So who wants to be my older brother on ep i think it would be fun lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 14, 2013

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    I have 3 younger sisters (2are full blooded).

    I want everything in the opposite direction of that!
    courtneybam courtneybam 22-25, F Feb 25

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    --Sigh-- I've always wanted an older brother.

    I have a few male cousins, but they have siblings of their own, and wouldn't understand. I'm 14, and would love to have an older brother 3-4 years apart from me if possible. (So 17-18 Even 16) I have other cousins too, but the majority of my family is female, and In my immediate...
    Gravit33rva Gravit33rva 13-15, F 2 Responses May 11

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    Someone Adopt Me!

    I'm an only child. I've always wanted a cool elder bro. A brother I can count on, who I could run to seeking shelter, who is strong and a bro who can totally kick my butt when I'm being a whiny snot-nosed brat.
    lifeofmine lifeofmine 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    --Sigh-- I've always wanted an older brother.

    I have a few male cousins, but they have siblings of their own, and wouldn't understand. I'm 14, and would love to have an older brother 3-4 years apart from me if possible. (So 17-18 Even 16) I have other cousins too, but the majority of my family is female, and In my immediate...
    Gravit33rva Gravit33rva 13-15, F May 11

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    I've always wanted an older brother just to be

    there for me being the oldest sibling is always tough!
    ReganHawthorn ReganHawthorn 18-21, F 1 Response May 11

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    I want a big brother

    who will protect. Someone who is kind and caring. Someone that actually lives in Canada.
    NeedingSomeoneToHelp NeedingSomeoneToHelp 13-15, F Jul 9

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    Not sure how relevant this is

    but I AM a big brother! Three younger brothers and three younger sisters spread across two families. And I love it!! One way or another they all come to me to chat, ask advice, ask for help etc. one time my sister sat on the phone crying for four hours after her husband left...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M May 11

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    Ever Since I Was Little...

    I have a brother who is nine years younger than me, but for as long as I can remember, I've wanted an older brother. When I was younger, I just wanted one to have another kid around who I could have fun with--one who would watch ballgames with me and help me with my homework. But...
    goingon28 goingon28 13-15, F Apr 10, 2011

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    It Would Be Awsome To Have A Big Bro

    i always wanted a big brother  to beat up mean boyfriends, talk to, guid me, walk with,yell at, blame for stuff i did,and hug soo glad i got friends 4 all dat =)
    LoveISHateHateISLove LoveISHateHateISLove 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2011

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    Hey. I'm 16 and I live in England.

    Having an older brother is obviously impossible atm unless the do cloning of my genes or something. If u think u can be like my older brother message me Peace ∞ ❥
    SoundOfUnity SoundOfUnity 16-17, F 1 Response May 11

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    I always wanted a big brother

    who was like my eldest cousin who I used to hang out in his room and talk to him. I remembered the times when he shared food with me and never getting cross at me even when I tripped on something in his room. But now we're older, he's away studying and I know that I can't keep...
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M Jun 30

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    partylifegirl partylifegirl 13-15, F Jan 12

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    Lildemii Lildemii 18-21, F Jun 9

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    Growing up I had been picked on

    and stranded by enemies and friends alike. My dad was arrogant and destructive to me and my identity, and I never felt like I belonged in the male community. I was always very alone; convincing myself to go to school was a taxing act of nerves and courage. I desperately wanted...
    Zarcy Zarcy 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 25

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    I Did :/

    i dont have a have brother i consider my brother in law a big brother i think he is a great guy i sometimes go to him for help with my car,or boys he is funny to he told me not to long ago that when i date again he was gonna meet him and if he dosent like him he is goning out of...
    Tawny26 Tawny26 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2011

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    For years I've felt like I am/was missing some

    sort of role model. Or at least someone who will stay in my life and I could trust. I mean, I have 2 sisters, but we don't really talk and I've grown not to trust them. Mainly because I feel like they are spies and watchmen for my mother. It's kills me not to be able to talk to...
    XxInsanexX XxInsanexX 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    Realizations

    I have a younger brother.  He's about 3 1/2 years younger than me.  And I always thought having an older brother would have been cool because he could have protected me and stood up for me.  Then I realized that my younger brother would kick the crap out of anyone...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    A Childish Hope

    I think part of my fixation with unreal characters is the fact that I could always pretend that they were my older brother. Fred and George Weasley? The coolest older brothers ever! Peter Pevensie? Protective and wise and strong...exactly what I need. See..being the oldest, and...
    MasterOfStudies MasterOfStudies 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Someone To Protect Me

    Always Always wanted an older brother. I look back at highschool and see that all the girls who had one, never got picked on. I wanted someone to guide me, protect me, stand up for me, love me. I wanted the scene where he puts his arm around my shoulder and lets me wear his...
    SkippingTheGoldenYears SkippingTheGoldenYears 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    --Sigh-- I've always wanted an older brother.

    I have a few male cousins, but they have siblings of their own, and wouldn't understand. I'm 14, and would love to have an older brother 3-4 years apart from me if possible. (So 17-18 Even 16) I have other cousins too, but the majority of my family is female, and In my immediate...
    Gravit33rva Gravit33rva 13-15, F May 11

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    Never Comes

    I wish i had an Big brother to joke around with , to make me laugh , and to always want to protect me from other guys. It would be the cutest thing. So when i watch movies or T.v. and girls with older brothers say " i just want the best for you" or " Really? You like that guy...
    MissEvon MissEvon 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    I've always been a bit of a tomboy

    so I've always wanted an older brother to play video games with and joke around with!
    thelastfirstchoice thelastfirstchoice 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    When I was little I used to pretend

    that i had a big brother. He would walk me to school and keep me safe. My family life wasn't perfect so he'd be there to hold me when I'd cry. He'd be jealous if I had a boyfriend. My boyfriend would have to answer to him if he hurt me. That's something my absent father never...
    courtneyblue courtneyblue 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I have a big brother on here

    but he barely on. I need more big brothers that could be there for me, and that's on more often. That also lives in the U.S. And needs to be kind,caring,and loving. I want a big brother that's close or exactly like my grandpa. Here a link to my post about him and his life and...
    Custos1 Custos1 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 4

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    I have an older half brother

    who had grown up separately from me. It seemed we weren't even related. As I grew older Ive come to surround myself with others and build a family based off relationships instead of blood. I feel it's much better that way. In this sense I've had two big brothers. One I called...
    burrowbunni burrowbunni 18-21, F Mar 2

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    The older people who should've been brother

    figures did a ****** job of it... Shooting me with BBs, flogging me, punching me, excluding me and even stuffing me in a sack and sitting on me... So I wanted a big brother to beat them up... :) Kind of vain, I know. But that didn't happen and here I am the oldest... So I...
    iamFrightened iamFrightened 18-21, M May 14

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    I Missed Him

    My older sister would have preferred to stay an only child. She really couldn't stand me, was very jealous of me and loved to bully me together with her friends, yay! The perfect sibling combination... She was your typical popular girl while I was more boyish and shy at the...
    NekoGummy NekoGummy 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    I really wish I had one

    now since a guy just crushed my heart
    Lildemii Lildemii 18-21, F Jun 30

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    Dreams Of A Big Brother

    Im the oldest of two. I love my sister to pieces, but I have thought it would have been exciting to have a big brother, say just a couple years older than me.  I think we'd have had fun fishing, hunting, riding motorcycles. Maybe some of this comes from parents divorcing when i...
    kwispe kwispe 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2012

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    Sometimes

    I think it would have been nice to have an older brother shelter me from things the way I've protected my younger siblings. At the same time, I'm not sure I'd want someone else to have to shoulder that responsibility. So, while the thought of a big brother was and is still nice...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F Oct 11, 2008

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    Becoming a Big Brother Changed My Life!

    My Big Brother journey started in the summer of 1981. I just completed my first year at college and as I was relaxing by the pool I read a story in a tabloid magazine about a boy who was mauled by a dog after saving another boy from the same fate. The dog literally chewed...
    stevelantz stevelantz 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 27, 2009

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    Mmmm ..... I dont know

    why i want to write here tonight ... I just feel owe to EP ❤️ Dear EP, U have given me a trustworthy kind awsome friend , that its months im living with him, being happy and sad with him and feeling calm with his helping ☺️😍 I have to thank u dear ep, because o...
    ghazals ghazals 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I want a person who can protect me from myself.

    Someone who will listen and not judge. They're kind and caring.
    NeedingSomeoneToHelp NeedingSomeoneToHelp 13-15, F Jul 9

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    I Get Lonely

    I've always just wanted a big brother that would protect and care for me without worrying about my younger sister who is only a year and a half younger. I always look at my friends older brothers and wish I could have someone to protect and love me like that. I think that an...
    Ari22lee Ari22lee 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I wish I had it ******* sucks I dont
    Biking6969 Biking6969 13-15, M Jul 12

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    we lost him last month its hard to think about since the day is happened me and my husband had went it the court house to apply for a mirage licences and the day after we got...
    daddysprincess2026 daddysprincess2026 18-21, F Jul 16

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    So, my big brother is 12 (about to turn 13) and he's a pain in the ***. If I try to talk to him, he'll get mad at me for no reason and start an argument. When we get in an argument...
    Radrice56 Radrice56 16-17 3 days ago

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    Yes!!! Big Brother 16 just started biotches!
    Imsofancyy Imsofancyy 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    It was always lonely being a "single child". I always wanted to be surrounded by other kids somebody who knew the madness of my mother and could help take the heat off me 24/7...
    WomanWrites WomanWrites 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I always found a female dat played video games a huge turn on I always wanted a female gamer in my life very interesting to kno wat dat would be like
    Beamen973 Beamen973 22-25, M a week ago

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    I never smoked weed before but I always wanted to when I get older and I'm college I guess , weed just seems so interesting..
    breeze1998 breeze1998 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I've always wanted to be a mom..
    ahoyitsbailey ahoyitsbailey 16-17, F Jul 4

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    I am lucky to have him, he is really supportive and not judgemental, when ever we were little we played together and loved each other, we even shared a room. We were always friends...
    larson101 larson101 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I remember I have gone through a break up, he helped me get over it, after a year I had another girlfriend and one day I told her to come over, she did, and I told her to sit in...
    larson101 larson101 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    One day I was at the shops and my mum and dad were out and my brother and my sister were at home. After the shops I went home, when I got home I put the shopping away. Then I could...
    Glasgowboy Glasgowboy 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    no so big as to be able to challenge the Duggars.. but yea.. a handful :)
    paradox14 paradox14 31-35, M Jul 6

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    I wanted to go on Broadway at some point. Maybe not movies, but I always thought that with enough hard work and correctly nurturing my talent I could make it to Broadway. That...
    cyndercrys cyndercrys 18-21, F Jul 16

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