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I Am 40 Years Old

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    How Does Any Know To Trust Anyone

    I watch tv and see ads for singles and it got my attention we all want to meet are soul,mates And then when u meet someone people think omg i finally meet him or her what my question is U dont know these people and yet why do we as single grow ups dont...
    lovleyone lovleyone 56-60 Apr 23, 2012

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    If One More Person Says The Phrase...

    "...well it's better than the alternative...," I swear I will kill them.  I turn 40 in 4 weeks.  I would be lying to say that I'm not a little scared.  My career is ok, but the one thing that has haunted me for years is love.  I've never truly...
    Penguinfriends Penguinfriends 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    I am 40. I don't act like.

    I don't look it but no matter how much I run from it I can feel it. My body is not springing back into action at a moments notice. My mind is becoming forgetful and everything I eat, healthy or not, turns to belly fat instantly. I know this sounds cliche but I want to run...
    NowWhatLife NowWhatLife 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    My Life Has Just Begun

    The years have gone by fast. I am not mad at the time flying, because the first 40 has been a little hard for me. I have had more than my share of lost. Early in life, I had to deal with the death of my mother and the murder of my teenage love (first common law husband); all...
    Angelica420 Angelica420 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    10 Major Changes

    1. became very sensitive 2. cant take **** 3. go for priorities rather than opportunities 4.dont care bout pples opinion 5. no room for 2nd chance relationships 6. rather be alone than awkward relationship 7. becomes self centric. 8. choosy 9. new friends list 10. carry on the...
    sallysteve sallysteve 41-45, F 1 Response May 13, 2013

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    Turning 40

    I turned 40 this past january.  I don't know what the big deal is about getting old. Like a friend told me. Your as old as You feel. I have been told I do not look My age nor do i feel it.
    Cynn Cynn 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 12, 2008

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    Struggling With 40

    I turned 40 this past June. I had all these plans to eat right and exercise and go into my 40's strong. So far that hasn't happened. In fact I am doing the opposite. When will I feel motivated to make this important life change?!
    katherine05 katherine05 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 23, 2012

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    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    In my junior year of college I studied abroad and met this guy. We hit it off instantly but it never went farther than a night of dancing and drinking. When I went back home I...
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    I'm 27 years old and my heart is taken.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F a week ago

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    I don't know how it happened........ The hours, days, months, years, and yes, decades flew by. It seemed I stayed the same while the whirl of past experiences and memories...
    lllewyd lllewyd 56-60, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sometimes I forget I'm 26 and say I'm 21 haha. I feel older. I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up. I am happy to be alive and I am learning more about myself...
    InfiniteSunshine InfiniteSunshine 26-30, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Talk to me girls if you want a older friend add me
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    Looking for Lovers who can elder than me 10-20 years <><><><><<><
    Jimmy365 Jimmy365 26-30, M Aug 1

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    I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend who I've been with for two years. We used protection, nothing went wrong. But why do I feel so guilty all the time now? I wanted to wait...
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Turned 22 July 17th and celebrated at Venice beach💜
    thatgirlkay thatgirlkay 22-25, F Jul 31

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    My cousin (8 at the time) wanted to play Doctor. He never raped me. My mom walked in on us but she didn't see anything. She grabbed my arm and pulled me out of there looking at me...
    Khrona Khrona 22-25, M Aug 4

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    My birthday is coming on August 29th :)
    TheKillerShot TheKillerShot 22-25, M Aug 5

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    Hey I'm will and I'm 13. Anyone wanna talk? I'm super bored just want someone to talk to.
    pwillyp pwillyp 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    My body is weary from life and I contemplate the "end" quite often. I find little to no satisfaction in what my "generation" deems essential. Willing to search for wisdom and...
    BeNowSoul BeNowSoul 26-30 Aug 10

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    In December 2013, I met this amazing and artistic person. I have never felt so strong feeling for anyone... But now I can say that I'm in love with this guy. The only problem is...
    asthas33 asthas33 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Seems about right, Mr. 22 nice to have you on board. How about a drink, 1 shot , 2 shot and watch the grey goose fly away. .. So please don't shoot me down. Not how I...
    XnOXnO XnOXnO 18-21, M Aug 17

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    I work with this girl that is 22 or 23. I am soon to be 18. This girl has a boyfriend. But the reason I know her is because we work together at the hospital. She is one of the most...
    CJHall1234 CJHall1234 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    Hello everyone, , I love kids. I've been told I'm good with them but one day things changed . I always wanted children but I started having problems and I went to the doctor. I...
    maddypooh maddypooh 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm really lonely and wanna chat with people
    cornishboy13 cornishboy13 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Will be 26 this year though
    Kierstyne Kierstyne 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    well...................................... add a 0 to that 4....That's right... I saw my first 'professional wrestling event' last week.... let's just say, that it was all I...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    Some of them look like never had an off-spring and could be easily floundered upon!
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M 19 hrs ago

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    I am 21 years old and I'm in a relationship with a 48 year old man. Before anyone asks "are you with him because you don't have a father/father figure?" This is NOT the case. I...
    sugarrmagnolia sugarrmagnolia 18-21, F 2 Responses 38 mins ago

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    I've been retired and living in Knoxville TN for a bit over four years now. I've met many younger Gay men and have had, and continue to have, some great friendships and great sex...
    trtrk9118 trtrk9118 66-70, M Aug 15

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    Today I checked here is what my computer said... You are 17843 days old. Which is 2549 weeks and 0 days. That's 48 years and 311 days, including 12 leap years*, or 48 years, 44...
    JennaR JennaR 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 5

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    i wanna marry 51 years old man, and I'm 26 now. he has 0 in his bank account. he has financial problem, he has 2 kids from his ex wife, and his kids don't want me to marry their...
    ajenkk ajenkk 26-30 3 Responses Aug 13

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    Or I have in the past usually dated older men. The largest age gap was 11 years. Couple times they were just a few years older than me. I do prefer older but a huge gap is not a...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    can any girl give me some advice? When I say I like older men, I'm talking about guys who are older than me.. But not over 30. My boyfriend and I hve been 'dating' for a bit over...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    My parents told me that right after I was born, I opened my eyes and looked at them in such a way that they can only describe as piercing straight into the depths of their soul...
    lmg2474 lmg2474 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Thank goodness for the internet. When I was 15 years old there was no such thing. I was taken away from my beloved home and I had to leave every person I loved dearly. Leaving...
    Chopinsivories Chopinsivories 46-50, F 12 hrs ago

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    Stop adding me just because of one experience....mostly being the I like older guys one.....it's not even like tht or a sexual thing and I didn't mean guys 40-60 years old....u...
    VivirLaVida VivirLaVida 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    There's a Korean app called KakaoTalk (like Kik) that I use to keep in contact with relatives/friends and to find new friends. Many of us leave our IDs on k-pop forums for similar...
    feefeemcc feefeemcc 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I love older men... They are much better than boys... I love to talk to more older men, i have a master who 12 years older than me... And he loves that we connect so much
    littletease littletease 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm very much in love with a man 10 plus years older than myself. We have, what I'd like to think of as, a healthy relationship with open communication, warmth, love and support...
    honeybee2014 honeybee2014 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I really like this guy who is a lot older than me (like 15/20 years older) and I don't know what to do about it. Should I go for it and try and flirt with him or what?
    ellze ellze 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 5

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    I tell ya, as I hit 50 things are better than ever, I have dated younger women too, but women up to 11 years older and have loved their company and the sex is great too! Finally I...
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    I had this relationship with a married man he is 47 and darn sexy! 13 years older than me, i wish i married an older sexy man!
    mymami mymami 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    After taking over the farm and the 200 acres of land....thousands of hours renovating, and landscaping the yard from the pitiful state it was in...I began to wander the cornfield...
    DayDreamer81 DayDreamer81 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    35 is my limit. This cop I was with is 30. He's 10 years older than me and I loved it! Older men are very attractive.
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F Aug 15

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    I want 2 maybe 3 :) But, when I get older. Around 25 years old. I'm 15 right now so I want to wait.
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F Aug 16

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    I recently dated a man 14 years older than me, and I have to say it was the best experience of my life. It opened my eyes to a lot that I've been missing out on and there were no...
    Bunny808 Bunny808 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 19

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    I don't see why some older women like younger guys. I mean when I'm in my 30s/40s I'm going to date men my age if not years older
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago