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I Am 45 Years Old

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    I'm glad I found this forum,

    I'm 42, male and like many who've posted here I'm feeling some of the same things. My 20s was a voyage of discovery, as they say, I was young dumb (to life) and full of myself. I look back now and think how ignorance was really bliss. I've had a good journey since then, got...
    John2303 John2303 41-45, M Jan 23

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    I Did'nt Think He Was An Idiot When I Met Him

    What happened? I thought he was an upstanding person and had a bit more sav vy than me. All to find out he's just a 
    darcat2112 darcat2112 41-45 Apr 28, 2011

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    I Am 45 Years Young

    Hello, I know its hard at our age to look back at what's been accomplished so far and feel any real satisfaction. That's why this time of our lives is titled " Mid-life Crisis". I'm having one myself. BUT~ identifying what's happening is half the battle. Its what you do with...
    Kellmz Kellmz 41-45, F Oct 26, 2012

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    I Am 45 Years Old And Am Lost In Life

    I am 45 years old and have seemingly done nothing with my life. I have never married but have a long trail of failed relationships behind me.. I do not have children. I do not own a house or condo or even have a car. I am a business professional though currently unemployed. Yet...
    PogoStick99 PogoStick99 46-50, F 7 Responses May 8, 2011

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    45 ...and Not Handeling Well

    Getting older is really affecting me...having a hard time dealing with getting older
    Lennah1 Lennah1 41-45, F Sep 6, 2012

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    I Am 45 And Getting Younger & Wiser...:-)

    I have spent most of my life being older sister, oldest grand child, first this, first that, and had to grow up fast to cope. I even married young and had my first child away from my hometown, my mom and had to grow up to cope with that too. On top of that my hubby was diagnosed...
    SeehisLove SeehisLove 41-45, F Nov 4, 2012

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