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I Am a Army Fiance

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    Government Shutdown? - Does anyone know how this effects the soldiers who have just left for BCT? Has it been delayed or is everything going as planned?
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F Oct 6, 2013

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    Planning a Wedding With a Your Fiance In the Military.... -  So i just got engaged to my man recently yay! We had been talking about it for a long time but he finally popped...
    meggers616 meggers616 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2009

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    Ready To Get Married. - My Fiance, Jake, and I have been together for 3 years as of April 2nd. We got engaged in January. I know that we haven't been engaged for that long, but I...
    GraceMurphy GraceMurphy 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Christmas Exodus Wedding - What do you guys think about a Christmas Exodous weding?? The colors would be red and gold amd he would wear his dress blues. 
    singinjes singinjes 18-21, F Jun 13, 2011

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    Question? - I have been looking on FB pages for Fort Benning, looking through pictures in a failed attempt to figure out what troop he's in. He said his graduation date is January...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F Oct 19, 2013

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    No One Understands. - I hate having to even try to begin explaining to my friends what it's like to be a soon to be army wife. And it's only the beginning! He's hardly done...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    Getting There. Still Some Questions. - Each time I try to explain to my fiance how i'm feeling I get better at expressing how I feel. He doesn't always have the best responses, but...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela 18-21, F Nov 21, 2013

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    Help! - I'm waiting to see my fiance. He gets to come home December 20! Some day's I feel so sad, and have no one to talk to who understands. Can anyone tell me how you cope with...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    I Love My Soldier -  Hi..Im new to all of this..so bare with me . I met my soldier in Dec. of last year. We havent been dating long but yet it feels like we have . We have...
    sweetcountry34 sweetcountry34 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    Dog Tags - ah im super happy...i got a letter from my baby whos in bootcamp(16 days left by the way)..it was a really fat letter...with three stamps...i wondered what it was and...
    Bunnypie18 Bunnypie18 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2010

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    I Have A Long Way To Go - I love my fiancé with all my heart. Since I knew I loved him I never once stopped loving him. He's my world, and he can always make me smile even if I'm...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela 18-21, F Nov 13, 2013

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    The day my Fiance proposed to me, I remember as it had been yesterday, we'd been arguing over something silly. In February of 2014 she had purchased a Pandora Bracelet for me as a...
    SociologicallyMe SociologicallyMe 22-25, F Jan 11

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    He Just Called And I'm On Cloud 9 - I was not expecting a call at all! My kids and I were snuggled up on the couch when the phone rang and I saw his picture on the screen. The kids...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    My Life.... Wouldnt Have It Any Other Way - Hey everyone! My name is Chantalle. I have been dating my boyfriend now fiance for 10 months. we meet my senior in high school. but i...
    ChantalleDavid ChantalleDavid 18-21 1 Response Sep 23, 2012

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    Wait, WHAT?!?! - So my guys room mate just told me that his other room mate said he might be coming home for a few weeks BC of the shutdown. Something about he hasn't even made it...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F Oct 10, 2013

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    I Need Advice - I know this isnt really about the military completely but only military brides understand how military weddings are and I really need help deciding on a wedding...
    lbelle95 lbelle95 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2013

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    It's Sunday Ladies! - You know what that means- a phone call! I'd be lying if I said my hopes aren't up but I also know that things can change at any moment and not to get upset if...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F Oct 6, 2013

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    I'M So Scared - I don't want the person my fiancé is to be gone forever if he goes over seas or into a war zone. I'm just terrified of him coming home with PTSD and being...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela 18-21, F Nov 13, 2013

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    Military Love - I am a military fiance. I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card; I am not a dependent or...
    TimmesArmyWife87 TimmesArmyWife87 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 10, 2012

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    Letter - For anyone who's had their SO go through BCT for the Army, how long did it take for the letter from the commander to be mailed out? He was told by his recruiter that he...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Hi Everyone, So, once we are all married to our soldier - we'll all be part of the military family. I am currently engaged - and we're not planning on marrying until December 2014...
    SociologicallyMe SociologicallyMe 22-25, F Jan 12

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    My First Deployment - I am engaged to my soul mate we have been together for over a year and right after we got engaged he was deployed. This is my first deployment and all though...
    msrb31 msrb31 31-35 1 Response Jul 16, 2011

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    Coming Home - Since the beginning of September my soldier had been stringing along the fact that he had the greatest and most sweetest surprise for me and it took so much for him...
    escapingamemory escapingamemory 16-17, F Oct 10, 2013

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    I am engaged to a man in the army, he Is stationed in Germany. I live in Texas. It's hard... Lately I feel like I have to beg him to call, text, or even be nice. I hate this ): I...
    kmiller1104 kmiller1104 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    As A Army Fiance - Well my name is aris and am engaged to a soldier which am proud of. His right now in basic training and he asked for my hand before he left, to be exact was...
    Ariz Ariz 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2009

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    My Boyfriend Asked Me To Marry Him : ) - My boyfriend Chris of almost a year asked me to marry him this afternoon. :)( Ive known him since i was 13) In november I had my baby at 16...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 26, 2012

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    Soon To Be Mrs Saville - Well only three more weeks til 2012! Christian and I decided that we should get married December 2012 because he wants it done before he has to get...
    bbwshorty94 bbwshorty94 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2011

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    My Love Letter - I was blessed with a 4 th letter this week and I feel the need to share. The first time I met you, you captivated me. I couldn't get over how blind you were in...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Hurry Up Deployment ! - Hey y'all, my fiance is currently getting ready to be deployed out of foot hood texas. We are counting down the days till he comes home so we can get...
    lyssa0728 lyssa0728 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2013

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    We're getting married June 18th 2015. I am super excited. He's currently completing his AIT in Virginia. I love him so much and planning our wedding is going to be so exciting.
    XoArmyGirlfriendXo XoArmyGirlfriendXo 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Coming Home (Part 2) - My fiance was expected to come home for a four-day leave this past Friday through Monday. Knowing this was to be my surprise, it was still exciting to know I...
    escapingamemory escapingamemory 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    Forever His Emotionally, Mentally, & Physically I Am A Army Fiance Stationed In Iraq - Hello, I ran across this site after hours of doing school work on line.  I met my fiance...
    ppunkforever ppunkforever 41-45 1 Response Apr 25, 2011

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    Im Getting Married - Me and my wonderful fiancee are going to be having a court house wedding next week.. and then the ceremony for all our family and friends in march before he...
    mrsbronson mrsbronson 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2010

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    What If He Deploys... -  Ok so me and my fiance are planning to get married June 12, 2010 and he is in a non deployable honor guard unit over in Heidelberg Germany but what if...
    HesMyArmyHero HesMyArmyHero 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2009

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    Our Latest News - If you've read my past stories then you can easily connect this one to them, if not, I recommend you do.. I had received a phone call from my fiance at 13:23 this...
    escapingamemory escapingamemory 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I Have So Many Questions - I'm posting a lot on here, but I just have so many questions! This one in particular though. Any one's boyfriend/fiancé tell them that basic training...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela 18-21, F Nov 13, 2013

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    I KNEW IT!! - I've been searching Facebook religiously trying to find the unit my soldier was assigned to. I kept being drawn to one in particular. About 3 days after he was...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Love Is Worth It All - Hey so I just joined this site today hoping to find some comfort I suppose..... My soldier and I were actually together 3 months before he left for basic. I...
    soldierzgrl soldierzgrl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 15, 2009

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    Patience - My soldier is the most patient person I've ever met. We've both been through a lot in life growing up in broken homes and raiding our younger siblings but something...
    lbelle95 lbelle95 18-21, F Nov 17, 2013

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    A Perfect Ending To The Day - I received 2 letters from my soldier today :) It was about 10 pages!! He's doing great. He's on expert level with shooting, at the top of his class...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F Nov 4, 2013

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    Here Is My Dilemma - I am a relatively new army fiance. I just got back from Texas on a trip to go and see him. It was the best feeling in the world to have him back with...
    LoriLoveBug530 LoriLoveBug530 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    Boot Camp - My fiance has been gone for 3 weeks now and its getting harder and harder....i like the army and i support him in this decison. My car got army bumper stickers...
    Saiaino Saiaino 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    Does Anyone Else Have Someone At Ft Benning? - Mine shipped out to BCT on 10/1/13 to Ft Benning GA. Anyone else have someone there? Or someone who's recently been there?
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F Oct 5, 2013

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    Wedding Is Less Than A Month Away!! - So excited our wedding is less than a month away. And we just found out that I'm 3 months pregnant. And he got his new assignment for Germany...
    Tiffany83 Tiffany83 26-30, F Mar 13, 2012

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    We had a skype date planned, they don't happen a lot, maybe 2-3 times a month. Well I did my hair, did my make up, got dressed, like it was a date. I told him I was ready and could...
    kmiller1104 kmiller1104 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 20

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    I am engaged 😊 I've been engaged for 5 days now. Thanksgiving day was the day my amazing fiancé asked me to make him the happiest man in the world and marry him. I am soooooo...
    armygf1231 armygf1231 18-21, F Dec 3, 2013

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    Its Getting Better Than I Thought :) - Me and my fiancee recently broke up but 2 days ago he called me and said that it wouldn't matter about the things i did and he is not...
    ArmySPCGirlfriend ArmySPCGirlfriend 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Wedding. - My fiance and I have decided to just elope in may and have a real wedding later when we can pay for it ourselves. Our families would hold it over us forever if they...
    lbelle95 lbelle95 18-21, F Nov 25, 2013

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    Is Anyone Else In My Position? - I'm just looking for some advice from someone who is in the same boat as I am. If you've read any of my stories then you know my fiancée just left...
    ABella028 ABella028 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2013

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    My family has finally came around with idea of me getting married! They are supporting me and Zach so much! It feels great knowing I have their support now all I need is my soldier...
    meliamill meliamill 18-21 a week ago

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    My soldier is in Germany and has been for 4 months. We have skyped, texted and sent each other gifts all throughout the months. My biggest surprise, gift and treasure was him...
    DancingElf DancingElf 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I've always been afraid to join the army, because I think I'll get sent off to war and just die..
    teejayy23 teejayy23 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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