I Am a Army Fiance

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 313 People

    I am flying to Texas to visit my fiancé to

    marry him so that I can be on his orders so I can move to Italy with him! If anyone is willing to donate please message me. Anything and everything would honestly mean so much to my soldier and I. Thank you so much!
    Dobermeier Dobermeier
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2014

    Together forever, never apart.

    Maybe in distance, but never at heart :)
    Dobermeier Dobermeier
    18-21, F
    Aug 24, 2014

    my fiance left on the third I couldn't hug him

    or kiss him or touch him in anyway he was on duty when he left I balled my eyes out how do I cope with not being able to touch him or being away from him it's killing me.
    SierraDouglas SierraDouglas
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 8

    As A Army Fiance

    Well my name is aris and am engaged to a soldier which am proud of. His right now in basic training and he asked for my hand before he left, to be exact was after my high school graduation at first i didn't want to accept by then i realize that i love him very much and i want him...
    Ariz Ariz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 12, 2009

    Having a hard time thinking of planning the

    wedding all alone, while my man is away for 9 months! Planning to get married next spring when he returns. Any advice? We are also preparing to have our first child, which he might miss the birth of. Advice? Support?! On top of planning to move states away, to live with him...
    mirandab3 mirandab3
    22-25, F
    Mar 27, 2015

    Help!

    I'm waiting to see my fiance. He gets to come home December 20! Some day's I feel so sad, and have no one to talk to who understands. Can anyone tell me how you cope with the bad days?
    breannemichaela breannemichaela
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2013

    I KNEW IT!!

    I've been searching Facebook religiously trying to find the unit my soldier was assigned to. I kept being drawn to one in particular. About 3 days after he was assigned, that page posted pictures of ship date 11/11/13 but I didn't see him in any of them. I checked back several...
    ABella028 ABella028
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

    I am engaged to a man in the army,

    he Is stationed in Germany. I live in Texas. It's hard... Lately I feel like I have to beg him to call, text, or even be nice. I hate this ): I don't wanna loose him but I feel like if I don't speak up and say something then he will never know how I feel. Any ideas?
    kmiller1104 kmiller1104
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 20, 2014

    My First Deployment

    I am engaged to my soul mate we have been together for over a year and right after we got engaged he was deployed. This is my first deployment and all though it is difficult at times waiting for his return I know it is all worth it to have him back with me.
    msrb31 msrb31
    31-35
    1 Response Jul 16, 2011

    Dog Tags

    ah im super happy...i got a letter from my baby whos in bootcamp(16 days left by the way)..it was a really fat letter...with three stamps...i wondered what it was and as i carefully opened it i noticed it was his dog tags...=D he had shaped the chain in the form of a heart..he...
    Bunnypie18 Bunnypie18
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 22, 2010

    We're getting married June 18th 2015.

    I am super excited. He's currently completing his AIT in Virginia. I love him so much and planning our wedding is going to be so exciting.
    XoArmyGirlfriendXo XoArmyGirlfriendXo
    18-21, F
    Jan 11, 2014

    I Have So Many Questions

    I'm posting a lot on here, but I just have so many questions! This one in particular though. Any one's boyfriend/fiancé tell them that basic training "drained them of emotion" my mother in law keeps telling me that the army has to "brainwash" their soldiers because they don't...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela
    18-21, F
    Nov 13, 2013

    What If He Deploys...

     Ok so me and my fiance are planning to get married June 12, 2010 and he is in a non deployable honor guard unit over in Heidelberg Germany but what if he does end up deploying some random time that crosses over our wedding date. I know that the Army doesn't give a...
    HesMyArmyHero HesMyArmyHero
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2009

    I found this site a while back

    and I love it, I've enjoy reading other girls experiences, lots of them have really helped me, my fiancé has been deployed for 2 1/2 yrs and there are times when I don't get emails, texts or even a call for two weeks my heart beeps starts to slow down, it's horrible, but when...
    daisy777angel daisy777angel
    51-55, F
    Sep 2, 2014

    Patience

    My soldier is the most patient person I've ever met. We've both been through a lot in life growing up in broken homes and raiding our younger siblings but something happened to me when I was younger that I may never completely get over. It kind if made me afraid of human contact...
    ArmyWifeLaura ArmyWifeLaura
    18-21, F
    Nov 17, 2013

    Today's our anniversary!

    Although there was never a specific day, we decided a long time ago today should be our anniversary since today was the day he told me he loved me. I am so happy. He messaged me today even though they are seriously lacking on sleep over there. I am so happy for another year to...
    LLDL LLDL
    18-21, F
    Dec 28, 2015

    Ready To Get Married.

    My Fiance, Jake, and I have been together for 3 years as of April 2nd. We got engaged in January. I know that we haven't been engaged for that long, but I've known he was The One and been ready to get married at least since our two year anniversary. I just barely turned 18 and he...
    GraceMurphy GraceMurphy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

    He Just Called And I'm On Cloud 9

    I was not expecting a call at all! My kids and I were snuggled up on the couch when the phone rang and I saw his picture on the screen. The kids almost hit the floor I jumped up so fast! He's still in reception and from what he said he probably has another week left. He had to...
    ABella028 ABella028
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2013

    No One Understands.

    I hate having to even try to begin explaining to my friends what it's like to be a soon to be army wife. And it's only the beginning! He's hardly done anything and it's just so hard! My friends don't know why i say with him or why i'm going to marry him when I tweet about how i'm...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

    I Need Advice

    I know this isnt really about the military completely but only military brides understand how military weddings are and I really need help deciding on a wedding dress. My fiance will be wearing his asu's and it'll be summer so it needs to fit in and I really like lace but I like...
    ArmyWifeLaura ArmyWifeLaura
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2013

    We had a skype date planned,

    they don't happen a lot, maybe 2-3 times a month. Well I did my hair, did my make up, got dressed, like it was a date. I told him I was ready and could we skype now. He said he was watching a movie and that he would after. That was fine, he loves movies :) but ten minutes later...
    kmiller1104 kmiller1104
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 20, 2014

    Started a diet for my wedding

    and I lost one pound since Friday! If anyone else is trying to loose weight I'd love to have a support system! :)
    Dobermeier Dobermeier
    18-21, F
    Aug 31, 2014

    Its Getting Better Than I Thought :)

    Me and my fiancee recently broke up but 2 days ago he called me and said that it wouldn't matter about the things i did and he is not pressured on getting married. That brought me so much happiness and joy. And the date is set. We are getting married in June 8th, 2013. After that...
    ArmySPCGirlfriend ArmySPCGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 10, 2012

    Getting There. Still Some Questions.

    Each time I try to explain to my fiance how i'm feeling I get better at expressing how I feel. He doesn't always have the best responses, but he's getting there. I'm trying to get a little of what we had before basic back. It is even possible or his changed forever and nothing...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela
    18-21, F
    Nov 21, 2013

    Forever His Emotionally, Mentally, & Physically I Am A Army Fiance Stationed In Iraq

    Hello, I ran across this site after hours of doing school work on line.  I met my fiance on line back in January.  We met as friends and we emailed each other and then after a few calls and dozens of emails I was in love!  It is hard to explain unless you have experienced...
    ppunkforever ppunkforever
    41-45
    1 Response Apr 25, 2011

    My Boyfriend Asked Me To Marry Him : )

    My boyfriend Chris of almost a year asked me to marry him this afternoon. :)( Ive known him since i was 13) In november I had my baby at 16. He was there by my side when i was 4 months pregnent when her real dad left me and went to jail due to atempted murder trying to kill the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 26, 2012

    A Perfect Ending To The Day

    I received 2 letters from my soldier today :) It was about 10 pages!! He's doing great. He's on expert level with shooting, at the top of his class. However, I was in a rage when I read what they did to him. My first letter to him (about 20 pages since I didn't have his address...
    ABella028 ABella028
    31-35, F
    Nov 4, 2013

    I'M So Scared

    I don't want the person my fiancé is to be gone forever if he goes over seas or into a war zone. I'm just terrified of him coming home with PTSD and being emotionless and cold towards me. I'm just so scared after some stories on here :( all I wanna do is hug him. :(
    breannemichaela breannemichaela
    18-21, F
    Nov 13, 2013

    Wedding Is Less Than A Month Away!!

    So excited our wedding is less than a month away. And we just found out that I'm 3 months pregnant. And he got his new assignment for Germany. So very overwhelmed and trying to prepare for a new baby, husband and moving. Wow any words of advice??
    Tiffany83 Tiffany83
    26-30, F
    Mar 13, 2012

    My Love Letter

    I was blessed with a 4 th letter this week and I feel the need to share. The first time I met you, you captivated me. I couldn't get over how blind you were in regards to how beautiful you really are. The first time I talked to you, I had to find an excuse to talk to you again...
    ABella028 ABella028
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2013

    Late nights are so hard.

    I just want to sleep but I am missing my soldier.
    Dobermeier Dobermeier
    18-21, F
    Aug 24, 2014

    Im Getting Married

    Me and my wonderful fiancee are going to be having a court house wedding next week.. and then the ceremony for all our family and friends in march before he deploys again.. i am the happiest girl in the world.. i have the most amazing guy who is my best friend and my soul mate. I...
    mrsbronson mrsbronson
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2010

    Wedding.

    My fiance and I have decided to just elope in may and have a real wedding later when we can pay for it ourselves. Our families would hold it over us forever if they helped. He's a warrant officer so he makes enough and doesn't have many expenses except food and his car ...but we...
    ArmyWifeLaura ArmyWifeLaura
    18-21, F
    Nov 25, 2013

    My Life.... Wouldnt Have It Any Other Way

    Hey everyone! My name is Chantalle. I have been dating my boyfriend now fiance for 10 months. we meet my senior in high school. but i didnt start dating him until the end of my first spring semester in college november 2011. we were both 19 at that time. I started dating him 4...
    ChantalleDavid ChantalleDavid
    18-21
    1 Response Sep 23, 2012

    Army wives I really need your help!

    My boyfriend and I are talking about getting married and he wanted me to look into the paperwork and things we would need to do for the Army and I don't even know where to start with that. If you could please help I would be really grateful!
    foreverhis14 foreverhis14
    18-21, F
    Oct 5, 2015

    I am having a tough time today.

    Although I get to talk to him, and FaceTime him constantly. I'm still missing him like crazy. I get to see him again in 7 weeks. and then we will be facing our first deployment. During which he may miss our first child's birth, and all of the wedding planning. Since we are...
    mirandab3 mirandab3
    22-25, F
    Mar 31, 2015

    My Military long distance journey

    experience; Anyone out there can relate to this; SILENCE When it's" pass three days" n my stomach begins to cramp up, I can't sleep, my inner voice starts asking me questions, what if he's hurt, what if he got killed what if if if, and the if goes on and on😔and there's a...
    daisy777angel daisy777angel
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2014

    Wao, stripping my self completely,

    down to the bone, n in tears, honestly, up to 2 1/2 yrs b4 I met my Fiancé, never had the remote idea what, there love ones left behind went through, they are as much at a mental war as their soldiers are in a physical one overseas😔, 🙏I honestly, thank God and can't...
    daisy777angel daisy777angel
    51-55, F
    Aug 16, 2014

    So lately I guess I've been really "kept to

    myself" about stuff and he told me that from now on he just wants to know about everything that is on my mind. I didn't think that it was going to be such a bad thing until today. Our one year anniversary (of being a couple) was this past Saturday and for some reason we always...
    ArmyGF2014 ArmyGF2014
    18-21, F
    Apr 8, 2015

    Our Latest News

    If you've read my past stories then you can easily connect this one to them, if not, I recommend you do.. I had received a phone call from my fiance at 13:23 this last Tuesday, October 1, 2013. With the sounds of a broken heart and eyes full of tears I knew something was wrong...
    escapingamemory escapingamemory
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2013

    This is the ring my soldier got me.

    I love it so much an I can't wait to marry him :)
    Dobermeier Dobermeier
    18-21, F
    Aug 24, 2014

    I Have A Long Way To Go

    I love my fiancé with all my heart. Since I knew I loved him I never once stopped loving him. He's my world, and he can always make me smile even if I'm pissed off. Sometimes he just doesn't understand my feelings. I can't try to tell him but him being a guy he doesn't always...
    breannemichaela breannemichaela
    18-21, F
    Nov 13, 2013

    Coming Home (Part 2)

    My fiance was expected to come home for a four-day leave this past Friday through Monday. Knowing this was to be my surprise, it was still exciting to know I'd be in his arms for the weekend. Waking that Friday morning was one of the easiest things I could do that day because I...
    escapingamemory escapingamemory
    18-21, F
    Oct 14, 2013

    It seems like everything is falling apart right

    now...he hasn't even left yet and it seems like all he thinks about is me leaving and not being able to handle it. I support him so much...and yes things the going to be hard, but he thinks that worst of it. And the fights...all the time and they're always MY fault apparently. I...
    ArmyGF2014 ArmyGF2014
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2015

    Soon To Be Mrs Saville

    Well only three more weeks til 2012! Christian and I decided that we should get married December 2012 because he wants it done before he has to get deployed! I am so nervous! I want to be his wife though <3 I know he is the one for me. My parents are going to be mad when they...
    bbwshorty94 bbwshorty94
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2011

    I am engaged 😊 I've been engaged

    for 5 days now. Thanksgiving day was the day my amazing fiancé asked me to make him the happiest man in the world and marry him. I am soooooo happy. It was an amazing surprise, perfectly planned too. His mom gathered everyone together in the living room, for what we thought...
    armygf1231 armygf1231
    18-21, F
    Dec 3, 2013

    Military Love

    I am a military fiance. I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card; I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition...
    TimmesArmyWife87 TimmesArmyWife87
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 10, 2012
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