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I Am a Bbw

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    Fat Fear Needs To End

    I don't understand it. Why are people ready to try anything and everything no matter how unhealthy or insanely stupid, just so that they won't end up looking like I do? It's horrific and heartbreaking to see people destroying themselves on a quest to be as thin as possible...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 4, 2011

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    I will admit that I am a big woman

    but I would not refer to myself as 'beautiful' although I am slowly trying to learn to love myself. I have always been big and I have been ridiculed and humiliated for it all my life and I've never been happy the way I am. I have so much respect for BBW's who have the...
    Fallen94 Fallen94 18-21, F 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Hi everyone, I'm a 20-something BBW slowly

    learning to accept myself. Some days I look at myself and love myself and others not so much. However there are always things I love about myself and that is what I find important to remember. Now that I'm starting to love me I only wish I could find someone else who could love...
    0000ffmelody 0000ffmelody 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    I am sick of being single I want love

    and miss it. I am ready to give up
    tattoosandscars tattoosandscars 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I Can't Believe This....

    So, I haven't been on this site in a months, no particular reason, but then I started getting emails that people have commented or read my stories. So for the first time since Feb. I logged back in today. I was on for a couple hours and chatted with a few people in that time...
    NightOwl39 NightOwl39 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    If You Do Not Go To The Bar...

    I am told love hides in every corner. I must be walking in circles. I do not work with the public, I do not go to the bar and I have no success on dating websites. I am a bbw. I am independent and self sufficient. I am attractive for my size. How does a girl like me meet a good...
    billie87 billie87 26-30, F 17 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    BBW and Proud

    Hi, I have been a bbw for all my life. I have been a size 14 and a size 32. Living as a bbw is all about attitude. Not everyone will accept your beauty because they feel size defines beauty, but this is NOT true. I have been teased and even beat up. I have lost boyfriends and...
    phenominalfind phenominalfind 31-35 23 Responses Jan 15, 2008

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    I wouldn't say I was "proud" technically.

    I'm not curvy, I'm fat. And there's a difference. But I've been this way my entire life and I've accepted it for now. I plan on losing weight, but for now I do what I can to feel beautiful.
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    Hi everyone I am new to EP.

    I have always been shamed for my weight and was looking for somewhere where people won't judge me and that's how I found EP :) I just turned 18 and am from a small country town in Australia. I'm looking for people to chat with
    BBWFet BBWFet 18-21, F 14 Responses Feb 12

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    Big women are beautiful,

    my first wife was a size 2 high maintenance pain in the ***. She was self obsorbed and that made her ugly as hell. My second wife is 5'5" and at least 200lbs. And the sexiest woman I have ever been with, she taste like a peach and keeps this sex maniac happy. God Bless the...
    Interstellartraveler Interstellartraveler 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 5

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    CloversMoon CloversMoon 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 30

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    Thank You

    In reading everyone's stories and experiences about BBWs and men who love us, it has given me the needed self- confidence that the main stream media tears down on a regular basis.  It  helped me to see that no matter what size you are, whether it be beautiful and thin all the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    I Hate Being A Bbw

    Some people say I don't need to lose weight, but they don't know how miserable I am at this weight. I weigh 260 pounds and absolutely hate it. I'd like to be able to go into a store and buy some pretty clothes and look good in them. Don't get me wrong, I do dress nice but just...
    laj8 laj8 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    I'm told I'm a BBW and whilst I acknowledge I'm

    big, I don't see myself as beautiful
    SlightlySparkles SlightlySparkles 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 13

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     Yes, I'm big and beautiful.

    . but I don't think it's healthy.. so I want to lose weight.. at least 120 lbs..and I hope I can, and I will strive for health.. but just because I'm bigger doesn't mean I'm not beautiful.. I know I am.and if you don't think so, then kindly see your way off my page, I understand...
    greentearocks greentearocks 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    BBW and Proud to Be Me

      I am a 41 year old BBW. I am a Big Beautiful Woman. I have a problem regulating my insulin and it keeps me big. I have spent more time trying to mold myself to something I am never going to be. I keep myself healthy overall in my body and my mind. My family loves and...
    lorithelioness lorithelioness 36-40, F 12 Responses May 3, 2008

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    Bbw Who Works Out?

    I am a BBW who has recently discovered the whole feederism/belly community. I feel a little out of place though because instead of justing wanting to eat constantly and get insanely huge which it seems like a lot of women want i actually enjoying working out. I have a gym...
    bellyebabe bellyebabe 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    Learning to really love my body

    as each day passes. A bbw's body is perfection. ;) xox bbwchick21 :*
    bbwchick21 bbwchick21 18-21, F 13 Responses Feb 27

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    Always Been

    Ok, so I believe that I am a BBW.. some people may not think so but in my opinion being beautiful is what you think of yourself as. I dont care what others view me as.. Yes im fat.. So what.. If you dont like it you dont have to be friends with me or look at me. There are people...
    mockingjay2105 mockingjay2105 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    expressingmyself expressingmyself 36-40, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Love My Big, Beautiful Body For 34 years of

    my life, I wished I looked like someone else. I wanted to have bigger eyes, prettier hair, smaller lips...but most of all I wanted to be thin. I wanted to look like the women on TV and in the movies. I was a little chubby in high school but I felt as huge as an elephant. So, I...
    TheHeartOfDixie TheHeartOfDixie 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    I'm A Bbw!!!

    I am so tired of being judged in my outward appearance rather than what is on the inside.. I have always been over weight.... Never effected me getting a man, so I'm not complaining.. it's all in confidence and attitude... I smile, I laugh, I joke, I flirt, I love sex, and I...
    cooki66 cooki66 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Big All Over

    I am a very large woman, i am 5'6 and 286lbs and very thick. I always get people saying online how pretty I am and all that kind of stuff but in person I really don't meet anybody to date. I have been trying to figure out if its just me or do I look too big to be with? I am...
    lija30 lija30 31-35, F 15 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    Like Being A Bbw-just Want To Be A Bit Less

    I am 57 years old and a BBW. I look young for my age, and get plenty of compliments on my clothes and my looks. I am 5'6" and weigh 242 pounds. I am extremely size-positive, and I will defend anyone's right to dignity, whether they are 100 pounds or 500 pounds. However, there is...
    Bibiana554 Bibiana554 56-60, F 7 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    So Here's A Little Fat Rant.

    Sup, I have been a chubby kid since my teens and continue to be a heavy lady. Yes, it's been hard, all those years, all the judgment, the mockery, bullying, fat shaming, and on top of that I have not been treating myself very well either...but all that changed once I looked at...
    VertigoRed VertigoRed 26-30 3 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Bbw Not So Beautiful

    So I'm big! I'm grand in size. I'm not always pretty.. All my life ppl have said you have such a pretty face. I think that's a polite way of saying you need to lose weight. It's so hard to find ppl in general who don't judge. 😔if you're under weight ppl feel compassion for...
    shylilsecret shylilsecret 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Curvy Me ......With A Very Curvy Question

    i am curvy and big girl, but don't wish to be so obese that i cant move around my own home.... i believe that not even healthy on allot of levels. i am 5.6 and a size 16 and i like it this way may be few pounds less will do but for sure never ever wanna be less then a size 12...
    losttourist564 losttourist564 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    I am a BBW, not exactly proud of it

    but I will admit it. I've been big my entire life and have always struggled to lose weight and only recently have I began to embrace my weight. I don't have many friends because I am overweight so I joined this website to try and make some. A little about me: I am 18, from...
    Pootis96 Pootis96 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 7

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    I Am A Ssbbw But I Am Not A Feedee , Will Never Be :)

    I am 400 lbs and am the biggest I have ever been , but no I don't want to be bigger , please don't ask . I am not ashamed of myself, , yet would like to be 100 lb less for comfort issues and health issues . I enjoy long walks and leaving the car at home , just like junk food . I...
    cajunlady337 cajunlady337 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I'm 5feet 6inches 185 lbs.

    I'm certainly not skinny,...guess that puts me in this category .
    Pokahottyass Pokahottyass 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    5'5, 230 lbs and ashamed of it.

    Was confident about myself most of my 20's until my husband admitted he's never liked bigger girls. Now I'm ashamed to undress in front of him.
    taetae85 taetae85 26-30, F 9 Responses Feb 1

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    The most part of time i feel shame

    for this but i become old and i don't know if i accept this or is just resigned. Any way i just want to be happy and i think the best way to will be is accept me
    0Angela0 0Angela0 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 5

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    tarkovsky tarkovsky 26-30, M Apr 1

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    I am a bbw, a nice, kind hearted,

    strong bbw. And despite what society says or thinks, I'm happy. Just the way I am. If I lose weight, I'll still be happy. My size does not define me. Im just another person on this planet, just another person... it bothers me that the only men that seem to like women of a larger...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 20

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    i want a guy who cares about me

    and not about the looks... yes i'm big and doesn't mean i'm not a beautiful person
    caromu caromu 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 24

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    Yes I Am

    I am a BBW and I know it...why is it so hard for other people to see beyond the weight?? I am bully everyday by my family cuz I'm not skinny...Do I need to lose weight for someone to love me? is that really necesary?
    luxxybunny luxxybunny 22-25, F 8 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    I'm A Proud Bbw

    I always hated having to dress up nicer and be more perfect than my skinnier friends just to be ignored by every boy. I couldn't get a guy to talk to me at a bar when all my friends were still in their uniforms and I was dressed to the T. I then realized that I was only...
    airguitarstar airguitarstar 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 1, 2010

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    Long Time Single Bbw

    I live in a small country town where everyone knows everyone and I hate it! The dating scene is pretty much non existant. I am looking for friends so anyone feel free to say hello!
    tattoosandscars tattoosandscars 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    I'm not fat but I would like to date a fat girl

    from Connecticut. Im also from Connecticut and currently 16 years old. Ok first off l did have something like this posted but I kept getting messages asking me why do I want a fat girls or they said I wanted a fat girl for an easy ride or to humiliate them. No I want to date a...
    bassmasterflea bassmasterflea 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I have a big belly, big chest,

    and big smile. Love my fat, beautiful, brown self!
    QueenBee479 QueenBee479 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Beautiful, Benevolent And Wonderful

    I have always been a chunky kid. I never thought that I was an ugly, grotesque being until I entered middle school. I let my peers convince me that I was a peon. I would never be accepted by society or loved due to my weight. I got suckered in by the taunts and teasing and...
    sillygirl2889 sillygirl2889 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    I Am A Bbw

    Yes i am a Bbw Yes am Fat so what i am not harming anyone If i wish to lose weight i will Yes i do love food I am tall beautiful 31 year old and no longer care what anyone thinks i am me and i don't want or need anyone's approval. :) xx
    shyscottishbbw shyscottishbbw 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Kik Me

    Any ladies who want to show off their big, beautiful and sexy bodies message me: GentlemenH
    gentlemenH gentlemenH 18-21, M Nov 9, 2013

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    Bbw Is Where It's At!

    For years I was always worried about how I looked, but in the past couple of years I have come to this conclusion:  As long as I am healthy (yes you can be a BBW and be healthy!) and happy with myself what the hell do I care what other ppl think?  It has only...
    Miluna Miluna 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    I am 17 and I am a proud BBW!

    I am looking to make new friends to chat with. :)
    ImJustFluffy ImJustFluffy 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I am twice as huge as the cover photo now.

    I love getting big and fat. Not only does my lover Gloria adore me. Men find me attractive. I can barely waddle now at 600 lbs. my belly drops down to my knees and I am so wide and flabby but I love it.
    Rhondalynne Rhondalynne 56-60, F 6 Responses Mar 6

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    Man me too. Knew this BBW in upstate NY once and she would win at wrestling against anybody. Scissor locks are virtually inescapable with BBWs. Talk about sexy knowing your with...
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    I have struggled with weight my entire life. I still struggle, but I am beautiful! I am a vivacious, full of fire kinda girl who loves to take life and live it! Why is it that...
    JdyFlty JdyFlty 46-50, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    theyre hot and sexy all that weight is sexy idk what else i can say a big woman is hot and beautiful
    briinthezone86 briinthezone86 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've been with my husband since I was 18. Dated for 11 years and been married for almost 20. Huge age difference. Everyone always told me it would make a difference one day and...
    JdyFlty JdyFlty 46-50, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I am attracted to all sorts of women but the women I love the most are BBW's. The first time I went all the way with another women was also the first time I got with a big woman...
    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    The first time - I preferred real sex but when I started meeting women online I found myself in intimate phone conversations that were tremendous. The first time was with a black...
    BlackBritishEbony BlackBritishEbony 36-40, M Mar 27

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    I am a reLly big fan of bbws wild love to talk to you lady's . Am am from the uk and I am British .
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