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I Am a Big Sister

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    And my dads in prison,

    my mom got married, and now I'm with my grandma. My little sister got taken away from a foster home, and my other little sister and brother... How do people deal with this? 🙍
    itzlexx itzlexx 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    Yet Again.

    I am the second oldest of 5 kids. I have 1 older brother, 2 younger brothers, and 1 younger sister. I now found out that there is another one to come. So once again, I will become a big sister :).
    Acprat Acprat 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    Left My Younger Siblings Alone Again - Hope It Wont Turn Out Disastrous

    My parents are sometimes really, really, really difficult and as long as my little brother, who's the youngest, was smaller than my mother, I was always afraid she might hit him or anything (as she did, when she was drunk). Now, that he's almost 14 and taller than me, I took a...
    Galene Galene 22-25, F Sep 18, 2013

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    I have 3 little sisters

    and a little brother. Micaela, age 4, Zoey, age 5, and Isabelle, age 2. My little brother is Isaiah, age 7. All four of them honestly make me so happy. I couldn't imagine living a day without them, no matter how much they bother me. No matter how much school I have to play, or...
    shipmateelyssa shipmateelyssa 13-15, F 2 Responses May 6

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    So I come from a big family.

    Five sisters and two brothers. My boyfriend has a little sister who is 18 years old now. I've known her since she was 12. She doesn't have any sisters and the friends that she has aren't really "friends". She doesn't know what it feels like to have an older sister so I'm sort...
    SilentNynja SilentNynja 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Big Sister Me

    Well, I have a younger brother two years younger than me. He is 12 years old, and just figured out what girls are.lol. Not very fun on my part... even if I am halfway across the country. He is good..modt of the time. But he has some anger issues. Like, when he loses a game, he...
    alternrockerchick alternrockerchick 13-15, F Oct 12, 2009

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    My Baby Brother

    I was almost 8 when my baby brother was born, and being old enough to actually remember Mum's pregnancy and him as a tiny baby is pretty special. We had a great relationship as kids; even when I was a teen we'd still play together lots. I remember we once decided to get up at the...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F Aug 25, 2010

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    The Oldest Of Four

    I am the oldest in my family and have two younger sisters and then the baby brother. I do babysit......a lot and have to chauffeur them around.......a lot and there are times where I complain and wish to be an only child. However, I can't really see it any other way. I had...
    Rosarose22 Rosarose22 18-21, F Jul 17, 2012

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    My Best Friend

    My sister and I are three years apart and when she was born I was so happy. We were always really close and we are best friends. To this day we do everything together. We even share an apartment together. I thank God everyday that he put us in the same family. 
    thehoodedartist thehoodedartist 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 7, 2009

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    It Has Its Ups And Downs!

    Ups: 1) You're the first for everything! 2) Get to be bossy! 3) Get to do better stuff! 4) Get more money!!! 5) No bedtimes! Downs: 1) Your parent(s) have to learn what to do! 2) You have to babysit! 3) You have to help with homework! 4) More responsiblity! 5) You always get...
    TopKitten TopKitten 13-15, F May 24, 2012

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    I have two kid brothers,

    age 3 and 4 who live with my dad. I never see them much because they live in another state and I have a difficult relationship with my dad. I've never lived with them or spent much time with them at all really, it makes me sad sometimes because I wish I could get to know them...
    holly2955 holly2955 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    3 lil sisters. They're all half sisters.

    & I love them. One is 12 & the other is 5 & the other is also 12. I honestly think the 12 year old is better but I live the 5 year old just as much. The other 12 year old is just like... Shea not annoying but she's not the best. She's just annoying. If anything happened to any...
    Chocolateloverteam Chocolateloverteam 13-15, F May 4

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    Am I

    Am I your sister?Your big sister?Don't think so,I know,I can fix that,If I cross dress,Will that do?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 22, 2011

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    My Mantha

    I have a beautiful younger sister who recently turned twenty. I am so proud of the woman she is becoming; smart, sweet, and selfless. Yet, I worry. She has a habit of falling into the wrong crowd. Although she is working her way on out she tends to slip and fall. Being her big...
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    I'm The Big Sister...

    I posted this in another "older sister" group as well. I have two younger sisters. It wasn't always easy being the oldest when I was growing up. I got in trouble the most, because I was supposed to "set a good example." Being the oldest...I think my dad didn't know how to...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F May 8, 2012

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    Love Being A Big Sister!

    I have 2 younger sisters and a younger brother. Danielle is 13, Lillly-Anne is 4 and Marc is 3. I very rarely see them as they live with my Father. I see them like once every 2 months. But when I do and they come running up to me with arms wide for a cuddle, I pick them up and...
    shannoncfc shannoncfc 18-21, F Dec 21, 2012

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    I am a big sister and a little sister.

    The perspective is crazy cool. In the family I was raised in I am the oldest. My twin brother is next, then my brother who will be 20 in April, and my youngest sister is 17. In my biological family my twin brother and I are the youngest. My oldest brother is 29, my oldest sister...
    Aerialk Aerialk 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    My Little State Champion And My Little Handy Man

    I'm blessed with two perfect little brothers in my life. They are totally different which makes me strive to be an all - around big sister. Joshua was born a little more than year after myself and has been attached to my side ever since. Every soccer game he plays and every...
    italianbeauty italianbeauty 16-17, F Aug 3, 2012

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    I am three years older

    than my little sister. She is one of my favorite people on the planet. My little sister is so talented. She is smart and she is pretty. I have struggled in the past with being jealous of her. She is so confident in who she is and she is happy. I envied that. I could never...
    EmoEmmyG EmoEmmyG 18-21, F 1 Response May 7

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    I Am A Big Sister

    Once a big sister, always a big sister. Even as adults, I'm still taller and heavier than my little brother. It used to always bug him when we were kids (I'm a year older than him). He always told me that one day he would be bigger and stronger than me. Then, puberty came, and he...
    Laura022 Laura022 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    I Love Him So Much But I Don't Like Who He Has Become

    I am seven years older than him and admit when he first came I did not want him. Even though i did not want a crying stinking baby my life my love grew for him. We were never close but we used to be closer than we are now. He started on the drugs and alchol 17 years agoand it...
    thenewestdaughter thenewestdaughter 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    Sister Of A Wrestler

    I am the eldest of three siblings. Both are boys. Most of the time I don't get along with my brother, Mitch, he's the second oldest. Mitch loves sports and he's really into wrestling. He trains all the time, eats right, and is constantly at some sort of sporting event. I am...
    tallcupcake tallcupcake 18-21, F Feb 10, 2013

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    I'M An Awesome Big Sister

    I have 3 siblings I have a brother he's 18 he's almost 19 then I have my sister who's 17 then me who's 16 then finally my little sister who's 12 almost 13 . When I was younger I hated being the youngest I always wanted some to boss around cause my older siblings bossed me around...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F Nov 13, 2013

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    Big sister to four little sister William 17 (

    really a boy and is older then me) Zoe 7 angel 9 becz 5 all half sibs but that's ok I love them
    Aoinosora Aoinosora 16-17, F May 6

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    One day I was at the shops and my mum and dad were out and my brother and my sister were at home. After the shops I went home, when I got home I put the shopping away. Then I could...
    Glasgowboy Glasgowboy 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I miss her, and I regret being harsh and cold towards her. But I can't say my apologies because she's gone. With no goodbyes or I'm sorry. She left all to quickly. I regret pushing...
    adoringcoronet adoringcoronet 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    When I was eleven I went to boarding school, leaving my three year old stepsister, Molly, at home. I had always been short for my age, and she had been rather tall but she was 3 so...
    betsy92 betsy92 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    My real sister who I haven't met yet. I know people must think "well if you haven't met her how can you love her?" I have no idea, I just feel a connection with her, I know who she...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    This is for my sister Kayla you're the best big sister ever, even better than my real sisters. You have helped me through everything, we even go through the same things together...
    EvaJL EvaJL 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Oh I would so have loved to have a girl adopt me as her little sister , and be my big sister and teach me how to my hair and makeup, take me shopping help me pick out nice outfits...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    3 years ago today baby bug..... Seems only yesterday I was awake at 3 am by your crying..... I feel selfish going through every day relatively healthy..... I miss you so much...
    CaliCoRex4 CaliCoRex4 13-15, F Jul 8

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    "My first job is big sister and I take that very seriously." Venus Williams
    Skpan80 Skpan80 13-15, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    So I honestly just have to get all of this off of my chest because lately I've had way too much anger inside of me. So my girlfriend has 5 other siblings, two of which happen to be...
    lezbihonest18 lezbihonest18 18-21, F Jul 12

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    This is very weird. My sister has big boobs and I really like them. I'm a male and I am just attracted to big round boobs, even on my sister. Sometimes it makes me feel terrible...
    tdotman97 tdotman97 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 15

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    When you have a big family birthdays are a nightmare. I have four sisters and one brother. Four of them have children so I have ten nephews and nieces. And they have partners, my...
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F Jul 11

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    For some reason god gave me a sister and even tho We fight most of the time the love I have for her is bigger than anything else
    PrettyEvelin PrettyEvelin 18-21, F a week ago

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    I am the youngest in the brood of 6. My oldest sister is 24, then my brother, 22, then my sister, 20, then my fraternal sis and bro, 18. My parents are very busy because of the...
    Mikey022 Mikey022 18-21, F a week ago

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    it was around midnight i went into my sister room she was sleep i started sucking her toes and licking her leg she had a big blanket around her i started pulling it up and revealed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 1 day ago

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    it was around midnight i went into my sister room she was sleep i started sucking her toes and licking her leg she had a big blanket around her i started pulling it up and revealed...
    mrwalkoff mrwalkoff 16-17, M 14 hrs ago

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    it was around midnight i went into my sister room she was sleep i started sucking her toes and licking her leg she had a big blanket around her i started pulling it up and revealed...
    mrwalkoff mrwalkoff 16-17, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I am in my early 40s and my sister is in her 50s. My sister and I had always been close, even though were do not have the same mother. I was raised in a home that "step" or "half...
    sunshinesammie sunshinesammie 41-45 1 Response Jul 9

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    I have three sisters and one brother. I am not sure if that is already big but it feels like it. I am the second oldest and it is super busy because the oldest kid always has to...
    wkenny99 wkenny99 13-15, M Jul 15

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    Yeah I'm still around :D I've just been being really lazy and eating :D my sister made this awesome chocolate cake yesterday and Oh my gosh it was so ameowzing! :D Now that she's...
    devinprater devinprater 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I never knew about my sister until I was 12, my mom and dad have her up 4 adoption when she was born, nobody told me anything about her, I didn't even know she existed until one...
    Kirakat14 Kirakat14 13-15, F Jul 7

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    When I say annoying, I mean that she says and does things that makes me think "wtf? you really think thats funny?" or or "why would you even say/do that?" Shes a good sister, she...
    JosephMichaelSmith JosephMichaelSmith 18-21, M Jul 10

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    It’s always hard being the eldest. I’m still 20. My brothers are 13 and 8. My sisters are 17 and 9. I don’t know where I should begin, but… I can never go anywhere...
    HikoukiGumo HikoukiGumo 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Ok, well here's the situation: I think my sister feels way too entitled than she should for a number of reasons. First off she and her husband are currently looking for a place...
    Mousetrapreplica Mousetrapreplica 16-17, M Jul 8

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    I am the oldest of three children. My brothers are 31 and 27 respectively. Yet they have treated me more as their baby sister then I'd ever expected. When my husband died last year...
    youngwidow80 youngwidow80 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I have a sister and a half sister who are both a bit younger than me. Quinn is my real sister and one year on fathers day when our dad was in jail my mum made me go to the fathers...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    It's been a little more than a year since I married my husband and I am fed up with his family, especially his sister. I live with my in laws, my sister in law, her husband, and...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago