I Am A Bigender Genderqueer Teenager

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 45 People

    I Am Who I Am, And There'S No Ignoring That.

    The big question: Who am I? This is a question I've struggled to answer for years. I was born a girl, and I'm comfortable with that... Most of the time, however, there are days that being in this female body just feels wrong somehow. My gender seems to change constantly and...
    TheSecrets TheSecrets
    Apr 26, 2013

    Confused And Need Help

    First time posting so I might mess a few things up but here it goes... I am a biogirl but I don't feel comfortable in my own body. I feel alienated by it. I haven't had the courage to tell anyone (I haven't even told my mom I'm bisexual), I have cut my boobs because I don't like...
    SD132 SD132
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

    So it wasn't up until

    after my 17th birthday that I found out I was bi-gender. I was talking to a friend who was also bi-gender and he told me about his feminine side. During this conversation I found out what he meant and I ended up looking into it for about a week before I realized that it was all...
    DeadlySweetKiss DeadlySweetKiss
    18-21, T
    1 Response Jan 22, 2014

    Can One Person Be Two People? Does That Even Make Sense?

    I have a boy half and a girl half. Sometimes I don't feel a transition, and it's not like they talk to each other inside my head, it's just sometimes I am a boy and sometimes I am a girl, and when I'm a boy I act quite differently to when I'm a girl. It's really frustrating...
    HalfDoomed HalfDoomed
    5 Responses Feb 19, 2012

    I'm F**ked?

    My life has gone through thinking I was female, trying out crossdressing, thinking I'm bigender, coming out as trans again, and finally maybe accepting my bigender-ness. This has got to be one of the most confusing problems I've seen... I love doing makeup and everything but then...
    happycrab happycrab
    18-21, T
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2011


    so, for about 6 years now ive been either on one end of the spectrum or the other- very masculine or very feminine. the only time i cross-dressed was in the safety of my own home, never letting anyone know about my secret. ive seen what i look like with a beard, but ive also put...
    krekoriz krekoriz
    22-25, F
    Sep 14, 2013

    I Am Man And Woman

    Okay so, hm, most people dot know this but I'm, I am a very genderqueer person, I don't feel like my gender was ever even approved. When I was a little girl I would always through tantrums because I didn't want to wear dresses and then other days they had to fight me to get jeans...
    Cryingsmile Cryingsmile
    18-21, T
    Jan 5, 2013

    All Of Me

    Last night I came out to my best friend. I told her what I had been telling myself was untrue, I told her what I didn't want to face. I am bigender. I am a biological female, and I feel comfortable in my body... but I have never felt like I conform to the female gender. I feel...
    EtherealMelody EtherealMelody
    18-21, F
    Jan 28, 2013

    Yes, I'm Bigender..

    (I'm new to this site but here goes nothing.) I haven't really known i was out of the gender binary for very long. (Im a 15 year old female, technically) For a while, i thought i was Transgendered but it didnt exactly fit me. I wasn't just male. But i wasn't just female either...
    DavidFall DavidFall
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

    I Am Me

    Ever since I can remember I have never been completely male or female. Physically I am a girl. Mentally it depends on the day and situation. I like being a girl, but I also like being a guy. Whenever someone mistakes me for a guy I get a little happy, i admit. I daydream alot. My...
    missymora missymora
    5 Responses Jul 1, 2011
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