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I Am a Bio-mom and Stepmom

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    I am having trouble with my kids I'm a mom of three and a step mom of 2 I feel like my kids are treated unfairly when the other kids are around, my stepkids are brats and very spoiled at their moms house. Having so many children makes it hard to spoil my kids. I don't know how to...
    number1stepmom number1stepmom 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2012

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    Hello :) I have been with my partner

    for 8 years now he had a 2 and a half year old when we got together. He is now 10 his bio mum is a crazy lady and hates my guts. She blames me for the relationship not working despite the fact she cheated on my partner with his best friend and I didnt meet him until they had...
    mishbish mishbish 31-35, F Jan 19, 2014

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    It's very hard, my step daughter will lie

    and manipulate her farther.i don't ask much of her. Just clean her room and unload the dish washer once and a while. If I ask her to clean her room, she will egnor me, if iam talking to her , she will egnor me and shut the door on me while iam speaking. When her dad's not here...
    lauratarnowski lauratarnowski 41-45, F Jun 27, 2014

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    My Life

    I am a SAHM to 5 children.  3 of them are my step-kids, the other 2 are mine biologically.  My step-kids have lived with my husband and I for almost 7 years.  I love ALL of my children with all my heart and soul...I would do anything for each and everyone of them...
    WaterLily77 WaterLily77 31-35, F Aug 9, 2008

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    Private Stepmom Support Group! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2009

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    Yes, Dear, Wicked Really Is a Myth

    I knew that it would be challenging to be a fulltime stepmom to a behaviorally challenged 7 year old when I met his father six years ago. I married his dad five years ago and believed that the bumps in the road would smooth out over time. Boy, was I wrong. I am not a novice at...
    wickedisamyth wickedisamyth 41-45 3 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    Okay so I married a guy in the military 4 years

    ago his daughter was 3 at the time. I've only seen her twice since for two week at a time because the mother has custody. My husband only has 2 weeks visitation. My husband and this woman constantly argue over text and she lives on the other side of the country. My husband won...
    Sumkissed82 Sumkissed82 31-35, F Feb 12, 2014

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    Stepmom and Surviving .... Today

      When I married my husband he already had  3 children, the oldest 13 lives with his mother and although he has been for holidays, we have contact a few times a year and I don't really have  a strong bond with him,  The second has never been proved to be...
    larz larz 41-45 4 Responses Nov 11, 2008

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    Omg My Youngest Daughter

    uhh my babygirl is almost 20 months and she was on my back pulling my hair she is so freaking mean. i am not even kidding cant wait til my hubby gets home to put her to bed. happy bday my husband of mine you are the light of my life
    sturlington1988 sturlington1988 22-25, F Mar 23, 2012

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    Struggling To Connect With Stepson

    I am a new stepmother of 2 lovely children, ages 4 and 7. I have my own daughter that is 11yrs old. I worked hard to give my daughter everything growing up but I was always working or going to school so my mother helped me raise her alot. Her father is a weekend father who has...
    Christiandriven Christiandriven 26-30 5 Responses May 2, 2012

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    Love?

    So I could write a novel about all the trials and tribulations that I've gone through in a very short period of time, due to my choice to be a step-parent, but I'll give you the cliff notes version -I met my boyfriend and he told me he had an ex wife. He really had a current wife...
    kmaple420 kmaple420 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Is the reality of this blended family stuff that we will never truly be a "family." I want a family, the traditional family. I want to look at my husband hug my kids and think damn...
    mammamialove mammamialove 26-30, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    When I was a couple months old my bio father left me. my mom meets a guy, has a kid then married him when I was 1. they had 2 more kids & raised them on fear. today He asks...
    taekwoonie taekwoonie 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I have been a stepmom to two boys, who are now 6 and 10 for nearly four years now. I have my own biodaughter who is 12 and awesome. Neither my husband nor I look forward to our...
    whydopeoplelie whydopeoplelie 31-35 1 Response Jul 16

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    I always wanted my own children, but the timing was never right and it never worked out for me. Flash forward to 4 1/2 years ago when I heard of a little girl who needed a home...
    nanster23 nanster23 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    "I'm not your drop-in sitter" "I'm not your babysitter or nanny" "This boy has a mom who has rights and responsibilities, make her do more!" I've had it! I yelled these things at...
    Niceandcold Niceandcold 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I am done. Today for the second time I refused to go to my step sons t ball. Why you may ask. I am tired of standing awkwardly on the edges while bio mom and her family swarm mine...
    Wzv63w Wzv63w 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Well 3 days after is a new record for the step daughter. The daughter, who is 14 and is actually my step daughter earned herself another spanking today. This time for disobeying a...
    warlords1973 warlords1973 41-45, M 8 Responses Jul 3

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    Okay, so I have fully lost faith in the justice system after being through a divorce with my parents (twice with separate marriages), separating from my son's father AND now...
    BeThinXsin BeThinXsin 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I struggle with weight every waking and sleeping moment! I am ready to get it off. I dream about it even when sleeping. I am wife, and mother of 7 4 bio 3 step! But I am sick of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 2

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    I am a stepmother. My stepdaughter is almost 8 and I have been around for half of her life. I don't have children of my own but we certainly have been trying (sadly no luck), so I...
    MomAtHeart13 MomAtHeart13 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I hate being a step mother!!! I hate it! I hate it! I hate it! I know that blending families is a hard thing to do, and I love all of my children. I am tired of feeling wrong...
    Wzv63w Wzv63w 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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