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I Am a Bio-mom and Stepmom

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    So I could write a novel about all the trials and tribulations that I've gone through in a very short period of time, due to my choice to be a step-parent, but I'll give you the cliff notes version -I met my boyfriend and he told me he had an ex wife. He really had a current wife...
    kmaple420 kmaple420 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    It's very hard, my step daughter will lie

    and manipulate her farther.i don't ask much of her. Just clean her room and unload the dish washer once and a while. If I ask her to clean her room, she will egnor me, if iam talking to her , she will egnor me and shut the door on me while iam speaking. When her dad's not here...
    lauratarnowski lauratarnowski 41-45, F Jun 27, 2014

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    Private Stepmom Support Group! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2009

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    Struggling To Connect With Stepson

    I am a new stepmother of 2 lovely children, ages 4 and 7. I have my own daughter that is 11yrs old. I worked hard to give my daughter everything growing up but I was always working or going to school so my mother helped me raise her alot. Her father is a weekend father who has...
    Christiandriven Christiandriven 26-30 5 Responses May 2, 2012

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    Omg My Youngest Daughter

    uhh my babygirl is almost 20 months and she was on my back pulling my hair she is so freaking mean. i am not even kidding cant wait til my hubby gets home to put her to bed. happy bday my husband of mine you are the light of my life
    sturlington1988 sturlington1988 22-25, F Mar 23, 2012

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    Okay so I married a guy in the military 4 years

    ago his daughter was 3 at the time. I've only seen her twice since for two week at a time because the mother has custody. My husband only has 2 weeks visitation. My husband and this woman constantly argue over text and she lives on the other side of the country. My husband won...
    Sumkissed82 Sumkissed82 31-35, F Feb 12, 2014

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    Hello :) I have been with my partner

    for 8 years now he had a 2 and a half year old when we got together. He is now 10 his bio mum is a crazy lady and hates my guts. She blames me for the relationship not working despite the fact she cheated on my partner with his best friend and I didnt meet him until they had...
    mishbish mishbish 31-35, F Jan 19, 2014

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    Lost

    I am having trouble with my kids I'm a mom of three and a step mom of 2 I feel like my kids are treated unfairly when the other kids are around, my stepkids are brats and very spoiled at their moms house. Having so many children makes it hard to spoil my kids. I don't know how to...
    number1stepmom number1stepmom 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2012

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    My Life

    I am a SAHM to 5 children.  3 of them are my step-kids, the other 2 are mine biologically.  My step-kids have lived with my husband and I for almost 7 years.  I love ALL of my children with all my heart and soul...I would do anything for each and everyone of them...
    WaterLily77 WaterLily77 31-35, F Aug 9, 2008

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    Yes, Dear, Wicked Really Is a Myth

    I knew that it would be challenging to be a fulltime stepmom to a behaviorally challenged 7 year old when I met his father six years ago. I married his dad five years ago and believed that the bumps in the road would smooth out over time. Boy, was I wrong. I am not a novice at...
    wickedisamyth wickedisamyth 41-45 3 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    Stepmom and Surviving .... Today

      When I married my husband he already had  3 children, the oldest 13 lives with his mother and although he has been for holidays, we have contact a few times a year and I don't really have  a strong bond with him,  The second has never been proved to be...
    larz larz 41-45 4 Responses Nov 11, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    is it after ur parents divorced, you tend to not mix with your bio parents, especially ur dad. Most of the time the only person whom by ur side is ur mom and/or aunt......kau faham...
    myraaxx myraaxx 16-17, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I was adopted at 8 weeks and I knew as soon as I was old enough to learn it. I didn't mind about being adopted but when I was 14 I started having questions like why was I given...
    AnonymousKCQ AnonymousKCQ 22-25, F 23 hrs ago

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    So, this is interesting: I'm out of town on a business trip, and I see an email from SD's teacher, that she got a pink slip at recess today for tackling some kid on the playground...
    VickySpirit VickySpirit 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    Alright here is quick, as quick as I can make it, story of how my life as a stepmother is. When I met my husband I honestly had no idea of his past, I didn't even know he had kids...
    btrflybelle btrflybelle 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I knew my bio mom when I was-15yrs,they had me when both were teenagers..Our relationship is on/off,I often notice she's more communicative when she want to as me for something...
    comfortherself comfortherself 26-30, F Feb 4

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    I'm bored so I'm going to tell you a story. This started summer of 2015. I met this guy in an online game, I hate how I can still remember it like it was yesterday. He was offering...
    zoelalala zoelalala 18-21, F 20 Responses Jan 23

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    Sometimes I feel like I can't do this step parent thing. I've been married a little over a year-together almost 3. I knew Going into the marriage about all the drama. My husband...
    juneladybug74 juneladybug74 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    I am interested in venom first and foremost from a scientific perspective. Every component of venom has an impact on living organisms and I find it fascinating that by isolating...
    colorbuff colorbuff 51-55, F Jan 17

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    November 9, 2014 Note: This is actually about my stepmom but during this time me and my real mom had a bad relationship so my stepmom was always more like a real mom to me. I...
    HavanaHelena HavanaHelena 16-17, F Jan 17

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    I was adopted when I was three and I just started talking to my bio aunt and found out that my bio mom had two little girls that got taken from her and live in a diffrent state she...
    creativelyinsane1999 creativelyinsane1999 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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