I Am a Bio-mom and Stepmom

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    So I could write a novel about all the trials and tribulations that I've gone through in a very short period of time, due to my choice to be a step-parent, but I'll give you the cliff notes version -I met my boyfriend and he told me he had an ex wife. He really had a current wife...
    kmaple420 kmaple420
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2013

    Okay so I married a guy in the military 4 years

    ago his daughter was 3 at the time. I've only seen her twice since for two week at a time because the mother has custody. My husband only has 2 weeks visitation. My husband and this woman constantly argue over text and she lives on the other side of the country. My husband won...
    Sumkissed82 Sumkissed82
    31-35, F
    Feb 12, 2014

    Private Stepmom Support Group! :)

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2009

    It's very hard, my step daughter will lie

    and manipulate her farther.i don't ask much of her. Just clean her room and unload the dish washer once and a while. If I ask her to clean her room, she will egnor me, if iam talking to her , she will egnor me and shut the door on me while iam speaking. When her dad's not here...
    lauratarnowski lauratarnowski
    46-50, F
    Jun 27, 2014

    Hello :) I have been with my partner

    for 8 years now he had a 2 and a half year old when we got together. He is now 10 his bio mum is a crazy lady and hates my guts. She blames me for the relationship not working despite the fact she cheated on my partner with his best friend and I didnt meet him until they had...
    mishbish mishbish
    36-40, F
    Jan 19, 2014

    My Life

    I am a SAHM to 5 children.  3 of them are my step-kids, the other 2 are mine biologically.  My step-kids have lived with my husband and I for almost 7 years.  I love ALL of my children with all my heart and soul...I would do anything for each and everyone of them...
    WaterLily77 WaterLily77
    31-35, F
    Aug 9, 2008

    Struggling To Connect With Stepson

    I am a new stepmother of 2 lovely children, ages 4 and 7. I have my own daughter that is 11yrs old. I worked hard to give my daughter everything growing up but I was always working or going to school so my mother helped me raise her alot. Her father is a weekend father who has...
    Christiandriven Christiandriven
    5 Responses May 2, 2012

    Omg My Youngest Daughter

    uhh my babygirl is almost 20 months and she was on my back pulling my hair she is so freaking mean. i am not even kidding cant wait til my hubby gets home to put her to bed. happy bday my husband of mine you are the light of my life
    sturlington1988 sturlington1988
    22-25, F
    Mar 23, 2012

    Yes, Dear, Wicked Really Is a Myth

    I knew that it would be challenging to be a fulltime stepmom to a behaviorally challenged 7 year old when I met his father six years ago. I married his dad five years ago and believed that the bumps in the road would smooth out over time. Boy, was I wrong. I am not a novice at...
    wickedisamyth wickedisamyth
    3 Responses Aug 3, 2008

    Stepmom and Surviving .... Today

      When I married my husband he already had  3 children, the oldest 13 lives with his mother and although he has been for holidays, we have contact a few times a year and I don't really have  a strong bond with him,  The second has never been proved to be...
    larz larz
    4 Responses Nov 11, 2008


    I am having trouble with my kids I'm a mom of three and a step mom of 2 I feel like my kids are treated unfairly when the other kids are around, my stepkids are brats and very spoiled at their moms house. Having so many children makes it hard to spoil my kids. I don't know how to...
    number1stepmom number1stepmom
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2012
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