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I Am A Bisexual Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 349 People

    Totally Uninhibited Husband

    When I was a kid a friends parent’s had a new and used book store. Like all stores of this type there was a room separate from the rest of the store that had xxx rated books and magazines. My friend and I used to get in this room when no one was around and sneak stuff out, we...
    bareballers bareballers 51-55 14 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Watching Bi **** For The 1st Time.

    So Last night my wife and I decided to watch Bi-****. I was so excited about it because it was the 1st time that i got to show her why i like it so much. Anyways we brought the Computer up to our bedroom and i got searching away on bi ****. We went on one site and watch a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    Coming Out

    Recently I came out to my wife as bisexual. I call myself bisexual and not bicurious because I feel like I know I will enjoy it very much. I have had anal experiences with my ex and also my current wife. Exploring this new side of my sexuality is quite exhilarating and I've...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 4, 2013

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    I found that side after being married

    for a while and continue the life when possible
    alexiswcd alexiswcd 56-60, T Jun 21

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    I've been with more men

    than my wife. She was not very experienced, sexually, when we met. We are so compatible on so many levels but sex isn't really one. When we first met she told me she didn't believe people could really be bisexual, which is why I hid it from her. Now that we're married I...
    Ontguy Ontguy 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    3some

    my wife loves to f*** me with a stap**, but she is afraid to loose me if i have sex with a man, but if i do have sex with a men she wants to be present and just watch but not participat. i am alwayse the one talking about it , never her. also if i do have sex with a men there is...
    senninhadasilva senninhadasilva 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 11, 2012

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    I didn't realize it/accept it until

    after I was married, but now I'm trying to figure out how to stay married and be true to who I am.
    bisexualman79 bisexualman79 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 3

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    What To Do?

    I am a married bi male as well. I am 34, and haven't been with a man in over 10 years. My wife knows, but she can't separate my bisexual needs from her feelings on monogamy. I need a man in me, while I am still sexy and desirable. I am too honest to cheat, yet I love her and I...
    bimetal bimetal 31-35 9 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    Orally Bi Only!

    I am an orally bisexual husband, as my ID implies, but let me define that further. I have never let a **** come in my mouth, only because I was fearful of getting AIDS or some other nasty disease.  Now, in my "advanced age," I'd not only do it, I WANT to do it.  My wife knows...
    orallybihusband orallybihusband 66-70, M 10 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Coming Out To The Wife.

    I have to say that that was one of the hardest things that I have ever done.  It started because we started discussing swinging.  She has no bisexual urges what-so-ever and only wanted men to join us.  That brought up the subject of how I felt about being around...
    ericm12121977 ericm12121977 31-35, M 7 Responses Apr 18, 2010

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    Telling My Wife I'm Bisexual

      Where to start? I recently (1 month ago) told my wife that I'm bisexual, and that was something that I couldn't admit to myself until I told her. It was the hardest thing for me to tell anyone. I almost didn't do it because I was scared she would leave me and since we have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 28, 2012

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    I haven't come out to my wife- yet.

    She is not bi- yet. But, a good friend is working on her and she will seduce her soon. It's a slow process. Then, I will come out to her. Read my story in "I want to watch my wife with another woman."
    charleybi2 charleybi2 61-65, M Jul 15

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    Orally Bisexual Only, And Even Then....

    ...not totally bisexual.  I love licking balls and sucking and licking the bottom of a guy's **** until he comes all over my face, and I'd love to do it while my hot wife watches me, lying there ************, telling me how to suck the guy off. Some day I want a man to come in...
    Craver Craver 66-70, M 6 Responses Sep 1, 2011

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    I Love ****,and *****

    i've been bi before i met my wife leah.when i started dateing my wife,i was sucking a friend of ours rons **** that i met through her.funny thing is that she told me she used to have a small crush on ron,butt never dated him since he was younger than i was.although ron had a very...
    shelbycpl shelbycpl 41-45 7 Responses Jun 14, 2011

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    Hello...

    My first bi expereinces was always with couples. I met with couples prior to anything bi happening were the male was still in charge and just like to see his wife ******, used, serviced, or wanted to **** her husaband and someone else at the same time. Then I fell into the...
    CHARLES456 CHARLES456 41-45, M Nov 16, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    So I've been going through people's experiences about being or figuring out their bisexuality. The reoccurring theme is that they were around 12 years old when they figured it out...
    c0nfus3d22 c0nfus3d22 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Most important thing is being comfortable with yourself and being able to talk about it. I suggest not being a relationship where your partner or spouse does not know that you're...
    OfSweetestNothings OfSweetestNothings 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    When I woke up on 8-22-14, I knew deep down nothing was okay. He should have been home at 8am, and it was 9am. I called his phone 8 times in 42 minutes: all straight to voicemail...
    seannabug seannabug 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    My husband is an *******!!!!!!! I hate how my kids cry for him when he leaves or goes out to be with his friends!! He doesnt deserve that kind of love from them he never spends...
    texaschick85 texaschick85 26-30, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    So, I speak to a girl, who at first started out to be my bestfriend but we did develop strong feelings for eachother. I still love her but I'm not sure that I want to be bisexual...
    blissfulx blissfulx 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I think I got it figured out. I am comfortable with being bisexual. I'm moving on to the I am a bisexual group. If it doesn't work out I'll be back.
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I think I am bisexual because I am attracted other woman. I haven't tried anything yet but am wondering if I should. Of course I also dont know any bisexual women so that might be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I'm bisexual. So Girls and guys hit me up ☺️😉
    GalaxyJumper GalaxyJumper 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    I'm bisexual Message me and I'll tell you more ;)
    GalaxyJumper GalaxyJumper 16-17, M Aug 9

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    I have never given this thought until just a month ago and again now as I am writing this. For the longest time I have been blinded by bias towards thinking like this because of my...
    FainofHearts FainofHearts 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm being surprised by life! I've been bullied most my life and I made some really bad relational mistakes but recently things have gotten so much better. I have had more dates in...
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I've identified as bisexual since the age of ten. But, I haven't told my family. Part of the reason is because the few relatives I'm close to say and think the most homophobic...
    LolliViolet LolliViolet 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've finally come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual, but it is really hard to accept myself now that I can't deny it anymore. I've grown up in a Catholic household where my...
    c0nfus3d22 c0nfus3d22 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have a boyfriend. I love him so much, with all my heart. But, I'm bisexual. I like this girl, she's my bestest friend. What the hell do I do? 😢
    xboobearx xboobearx 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I fell in love with a woman for the first time in my life. I'm just not sure about the bisexual label because I was not physically attracted initially to the woman..It was...
    cdavis1969 cdavis1969 41-45, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 17

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    She introduced us when she started working at my workplace. later she told people that she only did that so that she made friends. then she told me that people told her i was...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 11

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    Hello, My name is Amanda .G. and I have one daughter who is 2yrs old with my husband that I've been married to for 4yrs and together for 11yrs. It took us 7yrs to get married and...
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Dear Future Husband, This isn’t the first letter I’ve written to you. This may be the first one I’m sharing with you (and others), but I want you to know I’ve been...
    Jessicamlee21 Jessicamlee21 18-21, F Aug 17

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm honestly not the type of person who wants to be alone all the time but I've become somewhat of a hermit lately. My husband is an alcoholic and it seems to keep getting worse...
    nikkib3809 nikkib3809 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    My husband, Mike, died on May 9, 2001. I was only 24 years old. He was only 26. There's never a day where I don't think about how much I miss him. I met my husband in high school...
    aladynamedkatie aladynamedkatie 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    My husband had a great paying, great benefits job in the Army & got out & took a job making less than half of what he was making. He works for his uncle & we moved into a house...
    Laurenannette Laurenannette 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So, unfortunately as it is with so many of these stories, things are not going much better than when I found this page and started writing my experiences. Not much has changed...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F Aug 17

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    My life as I know it has been turned upside down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I would feel a lot more secure if I had a child with my husband. In a basic relationship, even the tiniest things can shake the whole foundation. While in a marriage, it would be...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I hate my husband of 20 yrs. I often wish he would just leave or even die, and then feel like a horrible person for wishing for him to die. Not because I would miss him, but...
    shazzy41498 shazzy41498 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    My husband is the best. He was made for me. We met in high school but unfortunately did not get together until 25 years later. We married in 2007 in a Celtic ceremony. Each year I...
    robalsean robalsean 41-45, F Aug 8

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years and married for 5. He has known since the beginning that I wanted children. I have a 17 y/o from a previous relationship and...
    gd78 gd78 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I just found out today that my niece in the Philippines almost got killed by her own dad. She has a very abusive father. My niece run away from their house but so worried because...
    sunshininginme sunshininginme 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    This is a story 10 years in the making. 10 years ago, I met the son of my mother's friend. He had a g/f (wife now - and she was there that night) and I had a b/f (husband now...
    crazycontrolled crazycontrolled 36-40, F 3 Responses