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I Am a Bisexual Woman Married to a Man

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    Reading others experiences reassures me

    that I am not alone. That being married to a man and loving, longing for a woman is not uncommon. I have been married for 12 years. 5 years ago I had an encounter with a woman that changed my whole outlook on life and made me question myself. I was raised with the value of a...
    surrealzeal surrealzeal 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    Bisexual And Feeling Alone.

    I am married and the sex with my husband does nothing for me. I am constantly thinking about and wanting intimacy with women. I have seen two women making love to each other and I so wanted it to be me. It is so beautiful to watch women making love.I crave the touch , taste...
    joolz52 joolz52 56-60, F 3 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Heartbroken And Confused

    I told her the truth today. something that i had been holding back for quite some time. I don't know why I told her it just felt like the right time and the right thing to do. She said she wasn't upset with me and we'll always be friends. It's what she said and how she said it...
    BiButterfly BiButterfly 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    A couple of months ago I realised I'm bisexual.

    I've come out to a few supportive family members and friends. I've been married ten years to a wonderfully understanding guy, who wasn't entirely surprised when I came out to him. We are considering a one-sided open marriage, so that I can explore my bisexuality. . My husband is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 20

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    What To Do

    I have been married for almost 20 years to a wonderful man. But you know there are times he gets to that last nerve. I am retired military and have fallen for a beautiful woman. sad thing is she lives over 14 hours away from me. She is also married. She is sweet and witty and...
    bbeartc bbeartc 41-45, F Sep 30, 2013

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    Our Mistress

    I laugh because my husband said over the weekend we weren't rich enough to both have a mistress so we had to share one. As most of you know I have a girlfriend that WAS a lesbian. ..I say that because she was adamant about not giving a blow job. She had sex but bj was a hard...
    BiShellyLovesBBC BiShellyLovesBBC 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    I have known I had an attraction to women

    since I was in my early teens and I never acted on it until this past summer. I have been married to my best friend for 12 years almost and we have 2 kids together and the 3 of them are my world. Right before my last birthday, I decided to finally see what it would be like to be...
    suena5106 suena5106 36-40, F 4 Responses May 15

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    Married Bi And Lost

    I am on my second marriage I got 3childern people know I am bi but my husband is not.and he is not the kind of person that likes men or woman touching me..even tho making love him my husband is great...i need more..more intimacy..my husband dose not really touch or kiss before or...
    lonesome1234 lonesome1234 31-35, F Oct 17, 2013

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    omg i really thought i was the only one haha

    ive been married for nearly 2 years to my awesome husband but i think i'm starting to miss being with a girl, what should i do???
    leahlovesyou leahlovesyou 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 27

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    Craving A Woman

    Anyone who is bisexual and married to a guy knows there's nothing quite like a woman's touch. I miss the all-night sexual experiences I would have with my girlfriends that were filled with long building sexual tension that often resulted in giving me the best climaxes I have...
    HotwifeKelly31 HotwifeKelly31 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    The Secret Me!

    I’m "happily" married to a man for the last 13 years. We have a great life together and don't have any kids. He has no idea about any of this and wonder is it time to come clean now or do I just deny who I really am?? Boys never really featured for me when I was a teenager, I...
    riveria riveria 41-45, F 35 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    Sometimes...

    At night I dream of her...holding me, caressing me, kissing me, gazing into my eyes, making love until sunrise. Sometimes when I'm with him and I kiss him with closed eyes I imagine it's her. I lift his shirt exposing his chest and back. Kissing his chest and run my fingers up...
    BiButterfly BiButterfly 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2013

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    All Of Your Stories Speak Volumes.

    I'm 33 and have been married to a outstanding husband for 6 years. We've been together for 8 years. From our early dating and intimacy, my husband knew I was bisexual. He knew a female ex of mine, and also knew I dated women for the better half of my 20s. We've had conversations...
    Pepperminta Pepperminta 31-35, F 17 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Something A Little Off The Beaten Path

    hi all, I am a transgendered (mtf) pre op that is living entirely as a woman, although i am still technically a male.......most people just assume i am gay, and attracted to men.........but I actually am more attracted to other women, which always make for a difficult...
    Jaclyn30 Jaclyn30 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 6, 2011

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    I Kissed a Girl - and I Liked It

    I guess I am still in the process of really understanding what being "bisexual" is.  I am married to my college sweetheart for 12 years, and we have 2 beautiful children.  I do love him with all my heart and can't really complain about our sex life - he is...
    cmeshine cmeshine 31-35 28 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    Happily Bisexual

    First off I'm happily married to the most wonderful man in the world, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I'm also bisexual and have a girlfriend with whom I have and intimate relationship, and she is married as well. I met both my husband and my girlfriend in...
    iMacGirl iMacGirl 61-65, F 5 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    Last night I chatted with an old school friend

    for hours. She and I have a lot in common, and it turns out she's open to relationships with women. She doesn't say "bi" because she's attracted to intelligence regardless of who possesses it, and she says you can't help who you fall in love with. I have the same stance. She's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 21

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    Me Too

    Im a bi sexual woman, I've never fully explored my bisexuality , when I was a teenager I shared a few romps and kisses with a female but we were only young and it never went any further at 17 I met my hubby, who I adore, we have a fantastic sex life and he's my best friend, I...
    Curious678 Curious678 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2012

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    Confused

    Ok. So I have been married to a man for 7 years. I have been with him for 8. We ended up getting married. In a rushed way. He lost his green card and the only way he could stay in the states is if he got married. So we rushed and got married in the courthouse. No ceremony or...
    angelina13 angelina13 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    I Just Woke Up

    So while I've always been very sexual, for years, I had a sort of emptiness that I couldn't really identify. I've been married for over 20 years to a wonderful man who I love very much. We have a wonderful sex life and he is very open to whatever I want. It has always been just...
    iloveboth iloveboth 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2013

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    I enjoy Bi sex with my sister.

    First while babysitting in High school, & later other close girl friends. Now at age 53 my husband & I both enjoy time together with other women.
    Helenjoy Helenjoy 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    This Way Out!

    Hi to all of you who know what it's like to want more than you're getting. This is my story and I'm submitting it on my friend Bob's account here at Experience Project. I started my bi-sexual experience when I was about 8 years old and a neighbor girl about 12 asked me to show...
    pappawlove pappawlove 70+, M Aug 21, 2012

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    If We Ever Get A Chance To Meet

    If we ever get a chance to meet, I would love to kiss you and run my fingers thru your hair, kiss your neck and give you tender, baby bites; kiss your face, your cheeks, and closed eyelids, and then your lips; fondling your breasts as we kiss deeply, our tongues swirling. Our...
    PenelopeTaylor PenelopeTaylor 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    It's Hard Being A Bisexual Wife

    I have been married to my husband for the past 8 years, but I have been a bisexual woman for most of my life. I knew I wanted to kiss other girls by the time I was six years old. Sometimes I think I lean closer to being gay than bi, seeing as I am not attracted to very many men...
    jackie829 jackie829 31-35, F 19 Responses May 17, 2010

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    Worried about husband's feelings, but hey, what about me?

    I've been with my husband for almost 11 years, since the age of 15. He is my absolute everything and love him very much. I remember being 6 years old, kissing a girl on the school bus. Had only boyfriends in school. My husband and I have had fun with another chick about 5 years...
    Bihousewife Bihousewife 26-30, F 11 Responses May 21, 2012

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    I'm a married, mother of 2,

    doctor. From the outside looking in anyone would say I literally might have the perfect life. Amazing, intelligent, understanding husband. Two beautiful children. A perfect girly girl and a rough and tumble football loving momma's boy. Those people would be mostly right...I...
    s061516 s061516 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    My Life

    I am married to a great man of 5 years. We have a wonderful marriage and a satisfying love life. I could not ask more anything more in the marriage department.The tricky part is that I have been attracted to women all of my life. I grew up in church and have never mustered up the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Bi-sexual Married To A Man Who Doesn't Know I Am Bisexual

    I had an sexual experience with one of my girlfriends 5 years ago. I am looking for someone to talk too about this. I do not want to loose my husband but sometimes I need the touch of a women.
    Jessica1969 Jessica1969 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    My First Time.....

    The first time I ever experienced another female was when I was living at Lake Powell working at the resort. I was 19 and very much into experimenting. Of course I knew my bf at the time just wanted a chance to be with the hot chic we lived with and of course so did I. We had...
    foxytinkerbell foxytinkerbell 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    I Finally Told My Husband

    Well, I finally told my husband about my feelings toward women. See, he had an idea- I've joked around about women and being attracted to them BUT he never realized how serious it was OR that I would define myself as being bisexual. Well, now I told him that I do, and that it is...
    ButterflyBreeze ButterflyBreeze 22-25, F 12 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    Lying to Myself

    All my life I did what I was expected to, got good grades, got married had kids, I even served in the military. I did everything except what I wanted to. I wanted to be with a woman. I love my husband but I have always been attracted to girls, I have never acted on it, other...
    furie furie 41-45 24 Responses Mar 23, 2008

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    Does Any Woman Really Want To Share Her Life With A Bisexual Married Woman?

    I am a 31 years old good looking and successful girl that have been with the most amazing man since almost 9 years. 2,5 years ago I fell in love with a woman. I had only experienced sex with one other woman some years before but never really fell in love. My life completely...
    vidaa vidaa 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    Fighting Back The Feelings

    I have known that I have strongly attracted to women since I was about 11 years old. Whle snsometimesg in my older brothers room I found a sex tape with all different sex scenes being curious I watched it and when I saw the girl on girl scene my life changed forever. I couldn...
    ShyBiButterfly ShyBiButterfly 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    Hi name is Nelia. I'm 23 years old

    and will get married to my fiance Adam Sept 14,2014.. (We have yet to talk to his pastor) I became a Christian on March 22, 2013.I was raised Catholic my whole life. But I joined a Southern Baptist church March 30 of 2013. My fiance works alot and right now I am unable to work...
    Ironmaiden22 Ironmaiden22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Bisexual, Married To A Man, Want To Be W/ A Woman

    My first sexual experience was with a girl. Actually about 75%% of my sexual relations have been with girls. But for some reason, I got married to a guy (most likely to make my mom proud... she wants grandkids) and I used to love him... Anyway, Im really starting to miss girls...
    Graceful123 Graceful123 36-40, F 16 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    She Wanted A *********

    She confided in me that she had been wanting to enjoy a ********* with her husband and another woman, however her husband was a very conservative, uptight, inhibited sort of man, and she could not convince him that it would be fun and enjoyable. She said she had never done it...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Glad I'm not alone. My husband

    or anyone for that matter knows at all. It's been inside so long. 23rd birthday just looking for people to chat with around my age who are going through this too. Thank you guys!!
    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26

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    I say bisexual only because I am married to a

    man. In my heart and in all of my being, I love women... only women... and just realizing I can't deny it any more.
    femoiselle femoiselle 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    Married To A Man....Wanting To Be With A Woman

    I have a toddler son too...35 years old, feelings of guilt....I am from northern illinois... anyone from the same area wanting to talk....lets talk....
    username1978 username1978 36-40, F Oct 10, 2013

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    Playing House Led To Much More

    I'm 24yo female, with my husband over 7 years. My first sexual experience was with a female at age 10. Playing house led to much more but I can remember being much younger and knowing then i was attracted to females, I showed a girl My nipples in first grade. I lost my verginity...
    nelle0elle nelle0elle 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    I am scared to lose her.

    I don't want to lose her. I've told her time and time again to date elsewhere as as seeing me because I don't want her "wasting" her time- since I do not plan on leaving my husband. She doesn't seem interested in going anywhere else, and I love that...but I know what will happen...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    shygirl1986 shygirl1986 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Bisexual And Married...

    Im only 21, I dated a girl a long time ago but I had to keep it a secret from my family. Their the ones who made me feel like I had no choice but to date guys. So I kept it hidden. My husband knows and he doesnt mind it. But what he doesnt know is that lately I have been yearning...
    kittiexmae kittiexmae 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    Relating, Realizing, And Wondering

    I have recently admitted to myself that I am bisexual. I am 38 years old, married to a man for 12 years, and have 2 children. I have had very few encounters with women most of which involved my husband. I really enjoyed being with the women we experimented with and have...
    missykatsing missykatsing 36-40, F Sep 3, 2013

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    I recently met an amazing woman,

    and we became really close friends. We understood each other, and the struggles of being bi and married. Unfortunately her husband didn't like us being in contact, and put a lot of pressure on her. What he didn't realise, however, was that our respective marriages were always...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 2

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    A Night Out With My Crush...

    I can still feel the warmth of her breath on my neck...the softness of her lips as she leaves sweet kisses on my neck...our bodies pressed up against each other as we flow to the music, my hands around her neck, her arms around me, her hands exploring my body. She turns me around...
    BiButterfly BiButterfly 26-30, F 1 Response May 12, 2013

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    Bi And Feeling Confused!

    Let's clear up that I love my husband more than anything... But to keep it 100 percent honest I have to say these things. I have no one in my life to confide in really, so I have just been thinking and thinking and driving myself bonkers tryin to deal with these feelings. I have...
    mrsapplepiex mrsapplepiex 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    ***** Club Hook Up

    My husband and I had to go out of town on business and while there we discovered a ***** club.  We decided to go get cleaned up have a nice dinner and go to it.  While there we noticed another couple watcing the show and noticed that she kept making eye contact with me...
    IMASassyAss IMASassyAss 36-40, F 11 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    So Prouded That Im

    im prouded that im bi. its a gift from god to give me the talent to enjoy both gender. it also made me a kind open minded person who knows how to live the life and even how to entertain others. my marriage did not affect those desires in me and my hasband always beside me. with...
    naughtytequila naughtytequila 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 7, 2010

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    Still So Confused...

    Since she and I became friends things have definitely been better between my husband and I but at the same time he seems more adamant than before about having a 3some. He even went as far as to ask a female co-worker of his if she is bi and/or curious! (I was furious) Since that...
    BiButterfly BiButterfly 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 6, 2012

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    Not Sure Why I Decided Now That I Was Going To Explore This Side Of Me.,,

    I am married happily :) I Love my husband very very much. Sex with him is amazing... it always has been. Im not sure exactly what happened but he asked me one day if i checked out other women. and all i could do was laugh... like a kid caught in a lie. He finds it extremely sexy...
    RiAnEaToN RiAnEaToN 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    I'm Not Giving Me A Title...

    I recently confessed to my husband of 13 years, and 4 kids later, that there was this women I had met and become completely infatuated with. I told him I felt bad but since I have always been honest with him that I had to tell him too. He said that was fine. He didn't laugh, ask...
    neparker neparker 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2013

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