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I Am a Black Lesbian

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    Nothing to remind how great your life is like

    being single during holidays..... I'm proof nice people finish last.
    Ashclo Ashclo 22-25, F Dec 27, 2013

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    You'll Go With Anyone Who Can Provide For You

    Have any of you ladies noticed the rise in opportunistic women who take the title of lesbian when they want something, but still continue to go back and sleep with men? Prime example, I talked to a girl like a month ago who was interested in me. I told her that I don't date...
    CrazyK3022 CrazyK3022 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    Loving Her At First Sight.

    We met 3 years ago, she lived 300 miles away and because of my past relationships, she was far to beautiful to be single. After talking and extreme texting for 3 months, we finally decided to meet. I left Alabama with hopes that this queen was indeed what i wanted and needed in...
    tellmeurs40 tellmeurs40 36-40, F Jul 15, 2012

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    I Am A Black Polyamorous Lesbian

    What a mouthful. I've been a polyamorous lesbian for about three years now but I have not been able to find another that I can love on a long term basis. I love love and want to share it with lesbians that I have an interest in. But where are they hiding? Where can I meet them?
    econtr17 econtr17 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 24, 2013

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    THE Girl Gotta Girlfriend...pls comment....updated

    T o make a long story short...theres this girl at my job.... she was the 1st sexy female that I saw on my 1st day at work. I never said anything to her cuz everytime we walk past each other we're both on the phone n plus I dont get to see her that often cuz we work different...
    phillyzbossfemme phillyzbossfemme 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    A Jamaican Butch

    Am a jamaican butch, that has plenty of relationship with women but never able to find that 1 girl that fits my needs. I am simple and very old school, i enjoy being who i am and am comfortable with my sexuality though some of my family knows but the ones that dont if i should...
    Jamaicanles Jamaicanles 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2013

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    My life changed when I meant my girlfriend.

    She was my first girlfriend. She's the reason I believe in love. I believe in happiness. She brings out the best in me. Almost 4 years we've been together. Off & on we've done things that hurt each other but we really are in love with rach other. I grew up in a very religious...
    smileybby310 smileybby310 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    How It Came About.

    Goodness, how do i start?  I was thirty years old when we first met. I was fresh out of a divorce, and was so done with men. I figured it was best to be alone rather than constantly being hurt. I had a computer but never really got on it. One day in total boredom I signed on. To...
    roxxisthick roxxisthick 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    I'm A Black Lesbian Living In Dominican Republic

    I love to read novels and some poetry, sometimes I writeI run a beautiful blog "cogiendola.blogspot.com"But my first lenguage is spanish, so...I like good music, I'm a feminist, I do Reiki, and practice Vudu, I'm an organizer and a filmmaker...Well, I'm here because I am bored...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 29, 2012

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    My Ex Girlfriend (What U Dont Know )

    This storie is about me and my ex girlfriend my names rae. Last year i was lonely you know everone gets lonely sometimes, I ended up meeting this beautiful women name meme (nickname). I thought she was the most gorgeous women i have ever seen, she had a job car money i...
    lustfulblist lustfulblist 18-21, F Aug 4, 2013

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    Is She The 1

    Hi I'm a lesbian femme .join the group to share life experiences an connect with kindred souls
    Yumyumbx1 Yumyumbx1 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    Black Lesbian Blog!

    www.cupcakeswithsugar.blogspot.com Basically, the best blog ever! 
    mfaith917 mfaith917 22-25 Mar 24, 2013

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    I Don't Want To Loose Her

    I met someone online back in February and we hit it off immediately!About three weeks later I got into a huge fight with my roommate resulting in me needing to move. We went out on our first date already planning on me spending the weekend at her house afterwards. Things fell...
    nettesuga27 nettesuga27 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Miss Custom Fitted & Anonymous Love

    WE FOUND EACH OTHER ONLINE, WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER ABOUT 2 YRS NOW SHE IS YOUNGER THAN I AND THE LOVE WE SHARE IS AN EXPERIENCE THAT HAS ITS UP N DOWNS.......WE LIVE TOGETHER NOW AND SHE IS MORE THAN JUST MY LOVER BUT MY VERY BEST FRIEND
    misscustomfitted misscustomfitted 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 18, 2010

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    Expressing Myself.....

    Ok so I'm going to put it all out there and for a minute or two allow yourselves to be in a "no judging" zone. I'm 34 newly married to a man but have had a serious attraction to women all my life. I have been with several and loved it, and before meeting my spouse, dated a woman...
    kachadam kachadam 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    True Love Lesbian Love

    Im a lesbian and i adore woman, do have respect for my brothers cause there are a few that know how to treat a woman right. I have been in a longterm relationship giving respect, loyalty, honesty and everything a woman want, but still at the end got dummed bu some she like and...
    Caly82 Caly82 26-30, F Oct 6, 2012

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    My Story

    I AM A BLACK LESBIAN! AND PROUD!  I am really.... lol. My story begins here and has yet to end I'm met my gf a little over 2 yrs ago and fell in love with her then and still love her just as much now. It's great meeting someone and then slowly get to know them, what they do...
    colormecoffee colormecoffee 18-21 7 Responses Jul 24, 2010

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    My First Lesbian Encounter

    This storie i will tell with a ryme hope you like... my names lyric <3 This girl i met so long ago She made me feel happy and open so i called her my bestfriend, Her thoughs her sound and affection made her interestion, Down the way she tould me she wasn't straight...
    lustfulblist lustfulblist 18-21, F Aug 4, 2013

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    blackgirlslikeblackgirls blackgirlslikeblackgirls 22-25 Sep 5, 2013

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    A Jamaican Butch

    Am a jamaican butch, that has plenty of relationship with women but never able to find that 1 girl that fits my needs. I am simple and very old school, i enjoy being who i am and am comfortable with my sexuality though some of my family knows but the ones that dont if i should...
    Jamaicanles Jamaicanles 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2013

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    Please In Need Your Help And I Hope Your Willing :)

    How are ya ?!My name is Jovanka i'm 26 years old and i'm from the Netherlands but my parents are originally from Surinam (South America).As you can read in my profile i have an online magazine that is called Lipless The Magazine (Lipless stands for Lipstick Lesbians) it's an...
    LiplessMag LiplessMag 26-30, F Jul 3, 2011

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    National Coming Out Day

    Today is national coming out day in the LGBT community. In 1988 (I believe) this day was designated to help closeted people come out and provide them with help and encouragement. So I just want to say come out come out wherever you are!! I won’t lie, coming from a southern...
    CrazyK3022 CrazyK3022 31-35, F Oct 11, 2013

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    True Love

    19 Years, 11 months and 10 days ago I met an angel.  I love her more today than when I originally fell in love with her.  She is my Queen and I am so blessed to have someone in my life to celebrate my ups and comfort and give me words of inspiration when I have my...
    nehari nehari 41-45 4 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    Well I'm not black as you can tell :p

    but I've always had a thing for freaky black girls message me if you think you're ;)
    Brendaxxx Brendaxxx 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    One Of Those Days....blabing

    its easy fr me to write things and not have to say my name or look into to someones face while i am tell a story. today was one of those days where you just feel like whatever i dont care anymore, i just want all the boring and draged out things to leave and for new to come in...
    geezymoey geezymoey 31-35 2 Responses Mar 4, 2012

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    Poly Gone Wrong?

    Hi there! Hope this message finds everyone well! A little about me; 36 and considered myself bi-curious (with lots of experience over the years) prior to getting into my first lesbian relationship 6 months ago. The twist to this is it was a polyamorous relationship as my (ex...
    Mahogany2015 Mahogany2015 36-40, F Sep 6, 2013

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    I Am A Black Bisexual Lesbian

    Why do I call myself a Black Bisexual Lesbian? Because although I cannot ignore my attraction to the male species, I have a desire for women. However, that tends to be a problem when it comes to finding companionship. It is even harder when you have so many particulars about the...
    umberluv umberluv 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    That's Just Life

    Not Only Is It Hard Being A Young Woman Of Color In Society But it Is Even Harder Being A Young Woman Of Color And Being A Lesbian. Some Days Are Easier Than Others But It Is So Helpful When You Have People Who Love You For Who You Are And Support You. I Refuse To Change Who I Am...
    HoneyBlossom2 HoneyBlossom2 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    THABLESSEDCHILD THABLESSEDCHILD 26-30, F Jan 26

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    A Midwest Love Story

    I was 25, fresh out of college, living in my first ever apartment. I was lonely, and so sick of the abundance of encounters with women who wanted absolutely nothing meaningful. Yet, I would continue looking for love in the only place I knew to look being from a small town...the...
    mlgreen8753 mlgreen8753 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 14, 2013

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    My Coming Out Story

    I never thought of myself as a lesbian. From the age of almost nothing, my wonderful predominately African American, southern Baptist church taught me that there was no quicker way to get to hell than to be homosexual. I didn’t pay much attention to it because I just knew that...
    CrazyK3022 CrazyK3022 31-35, F 6 Responses May 3, 2013

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    Heaven Sent!

    After praying and dreaming about my soulmate, I never thought that my dreams and prayers would be answered. Three years my baby and I have been living together in our own home. Heaven sent me a beautiful Lady that loves life and God. We have soooo much in common! We are never...
    everykissbeginswitk everykissbeginswitk 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 15, 2012

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    First Gf

    When I was younger I had lesbian tendencies, but I didnt act upon them. I was 19 when I fall in love at first sight. When she approached me and asked me to go out with her I stood her up. She asked me another time but I stood her up once more. I didnt go out because I knew my...
    candiedrops2305 candiedrops2305 22-25 4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

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    Being A Black Lesbian

    I'm a black lesbian who has just started a social network. I've been working to bridge a large gap in the lesbian of color bridge. It's refreshing to find so many who are not afraid to say I am Lesbian. I hope to converse with each one of you at some point. If your interested in...
    LyfeBNLestyle LyfeBNLestyle 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    A Jamaican Butch

    Am a jamaican butch, that has plenty of relationship with women but never able to find that 1 girl that fits my needs. I am simple and very old school, i enjoy being who i am and am comfortable with my sexuality though some of my family knows but the ones that dont if i should...
    Jamaicanles Jamaicanles 22-25, F Jan 11, 2013

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    I guess you could say I'm a lesbian

    but I don't discriminate. I like women just as much as I like men. I don't favor either one more than the other. But I will say women are a tiny but better just cause I'm a woman :)
    Addictivethickness Addictivethickness 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 9

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    Out All Alone...

    Unfortunately, my coming out and finding a woman to share my love happened at work; the worst place it could occur. Now that I realize she has a mental illness and is both physically and emotionally abusive I am unable to separate myself from her. I've also allowed myself to be...
    India1003 India1003 41-45 2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    Loving Who I Am

    I am a successful Black Gay woman. Yes according to society we are called Lesbians, but I don't like the word..I even prefer, lezzo or Lezzie but not the above. I came out when I was a teenager but am now 30+ looking 25+, yes I look young so I attract a lot of younger women...
    evilfamily evilfamily 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    Its hard finding love.

    I am a 25 year old trying to finish school, start my career and trying to let go of a person I love. Its a bit overwhelming. I have previously been in a 3 and a half year relationship. That was unhealthy. It ended bad, this woman cheated and left me alone to pick up the pieces...
    angrysoul8 angrysoul8 22-25, F Jan 19

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    Related Experiences

    I never thought that I was going to be this girl/woman. I grew up very interested in men. Making them feel good, being great at sex but never really enjoying it. But I knew how to...
    zoraloveshard zoraloveshard 26-30, F Apr 8

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    I dont enjoy sex with guys much. For the past couple months, I haven't even been in the mood for sex. I keep having lesbian fantasies in my head. I don't watch **** anymore but if...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    Im a single lesbian and looking to make more friends with other lesbians in the UK and around the world. With any luck il also meet an amazing UK woman to develope something more...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I am actually married but my hubby works on a merchaant ship. He is away mostly. Last summer I got into a lesbian relation which totally changed my life. Messsage me if you want to...
    tinapsst tinapsst 31-35, F 12 hrs ago

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    I never had a boyfriend but I had better experiences with white men than I did with a black man. The white men I was intimate with are still friends with me to this day. White men...
    peacefullover peacefullover 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I was sitting near the river side, perfectly evening breeze touched my naked skin on my face. It was a peaceful evening. In a moment I lost myself in a world of romance with nature...
    kattee12 kattee12 26-30, F Apr 8

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    I'm 100% lesbian. Sorry guys looking for ONLY lesbians friendship, lesbian advice, or just plain lesbian whatever else comes to mind. I wa
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    This happened about 5 months ago. I was sitting in the cafeteria together with my 6 officemate then one of us start a conversation. She's bragging how lesbian relationship is so...
    HoneyClover HoneyClover 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    although i am a pre op t/s i have much more in common with lesbians and relate myself to them more i guess after the op i will be a bit of a butch lesbian although i try to be as...
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I feel so alone cause my parents don't like lesbian and gay they said to me it's a sin to be a lesbian and I think I will never tell to my parents that I'm lesbian
    mary8001 mary8001 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 29

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    I recently discovered that I am a lesbian I am always up for meeting others out there like me as if I told anyone at my school I was a lesbian then everyone would know. I would...
    gurlygurls gurlygurls 18-21, F Mar 30

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    I think I knew all my life that I was a lesbian but actually didn't notice it until I was about 15-16 years old. Even before then, I knew something was off about me. All...
    handwrittenlovenotes handwrittenlovenotes 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    What is a lesbian , I've been reading posts and stories about lesbians and they love women , the look , feel , touch , taste and smell of the female body , they love how a woman's...
    Nunlover Nunlover 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I would really like some new friends black white Hispanic gay straight it does not matter just good genuine people message me I'm never judgmental a little opinionated lol...
    lariyo36 lariyo36 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm addicted to Orange is the New Black
    baedadue baedadue 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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