I Am a Black Lesbian

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    Heya ladies, I'm getting pretty tired of being

    told, “You can't write this or that.” I've decided that's ok though because I've found a new website. I've only been here for 2 weeks but it's 100% FREE with thousands of active open minded people like us. It's called Secret Erotica . Com. I hope you guys don't read this as...
    DevilishTongue DevilishTongue
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    How It Came About.

    Goodness, how do i start?  I was thirty years old when we first met. I was fresh out of a divorce, and was so done with men. I figured it was best to be alone rather than constantly being hurt. I had a computer but never really got on it. One day in total boredom I signed on. To...
    roxxisthick roxxisthick
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

    True Love Lesbian Love

    Im a lesbian and i adore woman, do have respect for my brothers cause there are a few that know how to treat a woman right. I have been in a longterm relationship giving respect, loyalty, honesty and everything a woman want, but still at the end got dummed bu some she like and...
    Caly82 Caly82
    26-30, F
    Oct 6, 2012

    Well I'm not black as you can tell :p

    but I've always had a thing for freaky black girls message me if you think you're ;)
    Brendaxxx Brendaxxx
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2014

    Out All Alone...

    Unfortunately, my coming out and finding a woman to share my love happened at work; the worst place it could occur. Now that I realize she has a mental illness and is both physically and emotionally abusive I am unable to separate myself from her. I've also allowed myself to be...
    India1003 India1003
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2012

    Hi everyone! I run a blog called Apartment 11 &

    I'm looking for stories for my series Crazy Lesbian Love. As a QWOC, my community is very important to me and I feel compelled to write about the love stories within it. Essentially, I take the raw stories told to me by friends and turn it into creative nonfiction. I would love...
    apartment11 apartment11
    18-21, F
    Jul 15, 2015
    alexlovesgirls alexlovesgirls
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

    A Jamaican Butch

    Am a jamaican butch, that has plenty of relationship with women but never able to find that 1 girl that fits my needs. I am simple and very old school, i enjoy being who i am and am comfortable with my sexuality though some of my family knows but the ones that dont if i should...
    Jamaicanles Jamaicanles
    22-25, F
    Jan 11, 2013

    That's Just Life

    Not Only Is It Hard Being A Young Woman Of Color In Society But it Is Even Harder Being A Young Woman Of Color And Being A Lesbian. Some Days Are Easier Than Others But It Is So Helpful When You Have People Who Love You For Who You Are And Support You. I Refuse To Change Who I Am...
    HoneyBlossom2 HoneyBlossom2
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2012

    Black Lesbian Blog!

    www.cupcakeswithsugar.blogspot.com Basically, the best blog ever! 
    mfaith917 mfaith917
    Mar 24, 2013

    Heaven Sent!

    After praying and dreaming about my soulmate, I never thought that my dreams and prayers would be answered. Three years my baby and I have been living together in our own home. Heaven sent me a beautiful Lady that loves life and God. We have soooo much in common! We are never...
    everykissbeginswitk everykissbeginswitk
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2012

    Its hard finding love.

    I am a 25 year old trying to finish school, start my career and trying to let go of a person I love. Its a bit overwhelming. I have previously been in a 3 and a half year relationship. That was unhealthy. It ended bad, this woman cheated and left me alone to pick up the pieces...
    angrysoul8 angrysoul8
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2014

    Whats A Woman To Do

    Hello community and I'm happy to share somethings about my experience as a Black Woman Lesbian. I'm in my forties and I think it's time that we focus more on how to bring Women of color together in more productive ways instead of the focus on sex and partying. Yes, sex and...
    lovepurpose lovepurpose
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2011

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    blackgirlslikeblackgirls blackgirlslikeblackgirls
    Sep 5, 2013
    youknowrob youknowrob
    22-25, F
    Nov 27, 2015

    THE Girl Gotta Girlfriend...pls comment....updated

    T o make a long story short...theres this girl at my job.... she was the 1st sexy female that I saw on my 1st day at work. I never said anything to her cuz everytime we walk past each other we're both on the phone n plus I dont get to see her that often cuz we work different...
    phillyzbossfemme phillyzbossfemme
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Aug 17, 2008

    A Jamaican Butch

    Am a jamaican butch, that has plenty of relationship with women but never able to find that 1 girl that fits my needs. I am simple and very old school, i enjoy being who i am and am comfortable with my sexuality though some of my family knows but the ones that dont if i should...
    Jamaicanles Jamaicanles
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2013
    26-30, F
    Jan 26, 2014

    Poly Gone Wrong?

    Hi there! Hope this message finds everyone well! A little about me; 36 and considered myself bi-curious (with lots of experience over the years) prior to getting into my first lesbian relationship 6 months ago. The twist to this is it was a polyamorous relationship as my (ex...
    Mahogany2015 Mahogany2015
    36-40, F
    Sep 6, 2013

    Hello, I am a 28 y/o femme looking

    for some other females like myself in need of friends. Most of my girlfriends are straight and I'm looking for another lesbian friend like myself to talk to and build a friendship. If your looking for the same, hit me up.
    heronenonly heronenonly
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2014

    My Story

    I AM A BLACK LESBIAN! AND PROUD!  I am really.... lol. My story begins here and has yet to end I'm met my gf a little over 2 yrs ago and fell in love with her then and still love her just as much now. It's great meeting someone and then slowly get to know them, what they do...
    colormecoffee colormecoffee
    7 Responses Jul 24, 2010

    I guess you could say I'm a lesbian

    but I don't discriminate. I like women just as much as I like men. I don't favor either one more than the other. But I will say women are a tiny but better just cause I'm a woman :)
    Honorthycurves Honorthycurves
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 9, 2014

    Loving Who I Am

    I am a successful Black Gay woman. Yes according to society we are called Lesbians, but I don't like the word..I even prefer, lezzo or Lezzie but not the above. I came out when I was a teenager but am now 30+ looking 25+, yes I look young so I attract a lot of younger women...
    evilfamily evilfamily
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 7, 2012

    My Ex Girlfriend (What U Dont Know )

    This storie is about me and my ex girlfriend my names rae. Last year i was lonely you know everone gets lonely sometimes, I ended up meeting this beautiful women name meme (nickname). I thought she was the most gorgeous women i have ever seen, she had a job car money i...
    lustfulblist lustfulblist
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2013

    I Am A Black Polyamorous Lesbian

    What a mouthful. I've been a polyamorous lesbian for about three years now but I have not been able to find another that I can love on a long term basis. I love love and want to share it with lesbians that I have an interest in. But where are they hiding? Where can I meet them?
    econtr17 econtr17
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 24, 2013

    My life changed when I meant my girlfriend.

    She was my first girlfriend. She's the reason I believe in love. I believe in happiness. She brings out the best in me. Almost 4 years we've been together. Off & on we've done things that hurt each other but we really are in love with rach other. I grew up in a very religious...
    smileybby310 smileybby310
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2013

    I Don't Want To Loose Her

    I met someone online back in February and we hit it off immediately!About three weeks later I got into a huge fight with my roommate resulting in me needing to move. We went out on our first date already planning on me spending the weekend at her house afterwards. Things fell...
    nettesuga27 nettesuga27
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

    New Relationship

    I am in a new relationship. We live about 200 miles apart though! Our connection is amazing. I love her so much. I haven't told my parents that I am in a new relationship with a woman. I was married to a man for 8 years.
    Dyamonde Dyamonde
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2013

    Expressing Myself.....

    Ok so I'm going to put it all out there and for a minute or two allow yourselves to be in a "no judging" zone. I'm 34 newly married to a man but have had a serious attraction to women all my life. I have been with several and loved it, and before meeting my spouse, dated a woman...
    kachadam kachadam
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2013

    Miss Custom Fitted & Anonymous Love

    misscustomfitted misscustomfitted
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Nov 18, 2010

    I Am A Black Bisexual Lesbian

    Why do I call myself a Black Bisexual Lesbian? Because although I cannot ignore my attraction to the male species, I have a desire for women. However, that tends to be a problem when it comes to finding companionship. It is even harder when you have so many particulars about the...
    umberluv umberluv
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jun 9, 2012

    Hey I'm sort of new to this meaning I normally

    just browse and drop a few responses here or there but this is my first post well.... I am an 25y/o lesbian who is cool, down to earth, spontaneous, and an a well rounded person. I do have a gf and I am only looking to chat with new woman ( mature woman ). I do not call...
    AriesSim AriesSim
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 14, 2014

    First Gf

    When I was younger I had lesbian tendencies, but I didnt act upon them. I was 19 when I fall in love at first sight. When she approached me and asked me to go out with her I stood her up. She asked me another time but I stood her up once more. I didnt go out because I knew my...
    candiedrops2305 candiedrops2305
    4 Responses Jan 16, 2011

    Is She The 1

    Hi I'm a lesbian femme .join the group to share life experiences an connect with kindred souls
    Yumyumbx1 Yumyumbx1
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2013

    A Midwest Love Story

    I was 25, fresh out of college, living in my first ever apartment. I was lonely, and so sick of the abundance of encounters with women who wanted absolutely nothing meaningful. Yet, I would continue looking for love in the only place I knew to look being from a small town...the...
    mlgreen8753 mlgreen8753
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Feb 14, 2013

    True Love

    19 Years, 11 months and 10 days ago I met an angel.  I love her more today than when I originally fell in love with her.  She is my Queen and I am so blessed to have someone in my life to celebrate my ups and comfort and give me words of inspiration when I have my...
    nehari nehari
    4 Responses Sep 15, 2010

    My First Lesbian Encounter

    This storie i will tell with a ryme hope you like... my names lyric <3 This girl i met so long ago She made me feel happy and open so i called her my bestfriend, Her thoughs her sound and affection made her interestion, Down the way she tould me she wasn't straight...
    lustfulblist lustfulblist
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2013

    Loving Her At First Sight.

    We met 3 years ago, she lived 300 miles away and because of my past relationships, she was far to beautiful to be single. After talking and extreme texting for 3 months, we finally decided to meet. I left Alabama with hopes that this queen was indeed what i wanted and needed in...
    tellmeurs40 tellmeurs40
    36-40, F
    Jul 15, 2012

    A Jamaican Butch

    Am a jamaican butch, that has plenty of relationship with women but never able to find that 1 girl that fits my needs. I am simple and very old school, i enjoy being who i am and am comfortable with my sexuality though some of my family knows but the ones that dont if i should...
    Jamaicanles Jamaicanles
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2013

    really need someone in my life.

    been lonely for so long don't know what to do again. I wish I can find someone who will love me for me.
    hertwf hertwf
    31-35, F
    Nov 11, 2015

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    Black men who view black women with darker skin as uglier and put lighter skinned women on a pedestal make me sick. What's even worse is that most of the time they are dark skinned...
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn
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    There are many black business owners who hide their race. Many credit this to their business success and avoiding misperceptions about their services and products because of their...
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    ConfuseTeenager19 ConfuseTeenager19
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    7 Responses Apr 18
    Please let me know of any site which show women (or 'ladies') wearing black tights..I love em!! E-mail me at helter_skelter50@yahoo.com if possible. Sad to see EP go.. Thanks!
    comeinside comeinside
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    Apr 18
    Most of the attacks I've observed in the world against black women have been from bitter ignorant immature Twisted black men. How can the black woman we offer some type of respect...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed
    31-35, M
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    If black people were treated like animals for centuries all over the world, how come till this day many if not majority of people continue to hate blacks, fear and mistreat them...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee
    70+, F
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    i found out i as lesbian for sure yesterday when my bestfriend kissed me and it felt kind of ...... this is stupied ........... MAGICAL! yah stupied right. But hen she kissed me it...
    ChaleeEllis15 ChaleeEllis15
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    I have 2 biracial parents who are clearly black and have black children so I've never questioned my blackness. But I was watching RHOP and There was this issue where one woman...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Apr 16
    I'm an Asian guy 39 from New York , looking for a lesbian or lady friend for a cover.... I'm legally and happily married .
    deleted deleted
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    I can't stand the black conscious movement just like I dislike false religions. It's an undercover racist cult that has attached itself to mentally and emotionally vulnerable...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed
    31-35, M
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    wish I could meet a beautiful black woman before this ends.
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