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I Am a Black Woman

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    Don't Assume

    People assume that because I'm a black woman that I am easier than a white woman. They think I'm stupid. They think I'm a *****. They think I don't have class. Part of this is correct. I am a ***** its true. I will stand up for myself. I'm not easy though. I have had one night...
    Emirembe Emirembe 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 1, 2008

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    I love being a black woman.

    I know the media tries hard to undermine us and make us feel like we are not attractive or we need to change ourselves to fit what they think is beautiful. I'm not buying it...I love my dark skin and I'm not going to let anyone make me feel any differently about it.
    LaFemme0924 LaFemme0924 22-25, F 4 Responses May 10

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    The Black Woman's Battle

    Quite often, every day in fact, I feel like I am fighting a complex and multi-layered war: 1. As a woman 2. As a black woman 3. As a black, african woman 4. As a young black african woman 5. As a young black African. woman living in Europe 6. As a young black African woman who...
    nkii nkii 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    When Will Someone Pick Me?

    Iā€™m usually not the type of person that would complain about this kind of thing. I mean the whole race thing. I have thick skin when it comes to the standard of beauty in the United States. Let me tell you a little about myself first. Iā€™m a 20 year old female living in LA. I...
    MissArchon MissArchon 22-25, F 12 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    Heartbroken

    It Breaks My Heart And Brings Me To Tears As I Watched "The Butler" In Theaters. (If You Havent Seen It Yet, Please Do). The Way My Specific Race Was Treated. The Things They Did To Hurt Us. The Cruelty All Because We Were Colored. And I Don't Handle Racism Too Well So It Makes...
    Thegoofy1 Thegoofy1 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 7, 2013

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    I Am A Pretty Black Girl

    I just feel that how a wonderful thing it is to be a female at all. Many of my friends trying to change their face by make-ups cuz they have no idea or they don't understand that how a beautiful thing is to be look like checolate. My mixed colour tells me that i am from world...
    CheeryFlowerofOrch CheeryFlowerofOrch 26-30, F 6 Responses May 10, 2013

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    I love my chocolate skin,

    full lips, breasts and ***.
    Bluestarrr Bluestarrr 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 13

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    The Reality Of A Dark Skinned Woman

    Dark skinned females in America are at the bottom of the barrel. We get down graded in rap music, on tv, stereotyped as being loud and ghetto fabulous with long weaves and fingernails, we get rejected by our own race of men whom would gladly choose a white women over us, we get...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    We Are Beautiful But You Wonder Why We Have Low Self-esteem

    Having a conversation with my mother about how one "aunt" (I use that word lightly) supposedly (probably) said that my sister and I weren't as beautiful as our mixed-race (Black and Latina) cousins sent my mind back to thoughts and problems surrounding Black girls and self-esteem...
    mindofmaster mindofmaster 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2013

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    I Am A Colored Girl

    I am a colored girl. I am a colored girl who has considered suicide when my life seemed cloudy and gray. I am a colored girl who has been raped more times than any woman should, given her body and her love to undeserving men, and who has been a mother to an unborn baby whose...
    AfroerotiK AfroerotiK 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Growing Up.

    I went to high school, male teachers told me I had child bearing hips, looking me up and down like a dog in heat. Sending subtle messages on how they would love to screw me. I'm not sleeping with you because I'm black. College, I was told i would never graduate, I would never be...
    lovely618 lovely618 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    I am beautiful I am a beautiful curvy tall

    black women who at age 20 is finally embracing her colorful heritage. I remember when I was 12 how I wanted to be a little white girl soo bad. I wanted to have straight hair blue eyes and date white boys but no longer am I ashamed of being black.In fact I think white women wanna...
    chenille93 chenille93 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    No weaves----------------------------------I

    hate weaves, lol, I'm black with curly hair. I don't have long flowing hair and that is me. I don't want to look like you, I'm proud to be me.
    heavensmissinanangel heavensmissinanangel 26-30, F 12 Responses Jun 12

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    If I straighten my hair,

    bleach my skin, and change my eye color I will still be black. Natural hair, a big booty, and brown skin dont make you black. It is the Soul within me that tells me I'm black
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    So, I'm a very laid back person

    and I have nothing against race. However, sometimes I feel singled out and i feel like a misfit. I live in a foster home with Caucasian foster parents and I'm a black female.
    kico4 kico4 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I'm Sam-Alison. I'm a graduated

    seventeen-year-old soon to be eighteen and I'm a young black woman. ( :
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    -start rant- -.- there's a lot of annoying

    things about this fact... 1. Everything I do means I hate myself "I'm going to get a nose job" "You hate being black!" "....wtf?" 2. I have attitude ? I mean I'm so honest when I say I was not cursed with a bad attitude always had a positive and polite attitude yet I...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    That's Why She's Better Than Me??

    It sucks when there is favoritism in your own family based on skin color. Two months ago, my younger sister went to visit my aunt and her friends. I wasn't totally happy about it because my aunt has a grudge against me (it's a long story). When she came back she told me that one...
    strangeviolet strangeviolet 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    This might be a long post sorry in advance.

    When i was six years old i moved to a predominantly white area . My first day of first grade i remember walking into the classroom , there were no other little black kids or teachers just me. Little did little me know that was just the beginning of my long journey here. I'm now...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 13-15, F 10 Responses Jul 23

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    I Am Not An Oreo, I Am Black

    *Disclaimer: I refer to myself as black for the purposes of this story, and because that is what people see me as. However ethnically I am French, Haitian and Lebanese, and if you only look at color then I am half black and half white...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    My skin is brown lol.

    There are actually people with almost black skin though. But yeah, I'm an island girl, was born in the Caribbean :) idk why, but I think that is just really cool to be from an island.
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199 18-21, F 3 Responses May 24

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    Not Your Typical Sistah...

    I am a Black woman...I like the color of my skin....the shape of my eyes, my nose and my mouth....my color is my joy..and not my burden...:)
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2010

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    I live in a predominantly white area

    and am literally the only black girl in my social group at school. I hear all the jokes and am usually the one who makes the best ones, but sometimes it gets to me. The other night at a party after a few drinks, my friends boyfriend, and i'm not quite sure how we got onto this...
    hernandes hernandes 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    It took a lot of hard work to get to the point

    where I am able to look in the mirror and say I am not ugly. It took a lot of hard work to not point out all of my flaws. It took even more of an effort to look at society's image of the perfect girl with long legs,a tiny waist, long flowy hair, just perfect everything and not...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    Californian

    I grew up in California in a diverse, multicultural city with every race you could think of. My father met my mother on vacation in Jamaica where after he brought her and her daughter to California and married her. My mothers family lives Canadian cities and in Jamaica, while my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I Am Me

    I am a woman and yes I am black. I have strived for the best in life and work hard to achieve my goals. I have been called names and critisized for my quest for higher education. I don't care, because I see my goals in the future. I see myself being what I want to be. I...
    KashK KashK 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 2, 2008

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    I'm Proud Of Who I Am But........

    Sometime I question it. Being a Black woman growing up in the southern United States is challenging. You are surrounded by people like me. But I'm also surrounded by racism, discrimination, and prejudice people. Which often makes me ask questions? Like I was on this dating site...
    TheLonelyPoet TheLonelyPoet 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Yes I Am.

    I can cast a spell With secrets you can't tell Mix a special brew Put fire inside of you But anytime you feel Danger or fear Instantly I will appear..
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F Nov 26, 2013

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    Being The Black Friend

    Hmmm.... How can I describe this? What is it like for me being the black friend? Luckily, because my friend now has a black friend, no one can call her racist. Yay for her. It's going out on a Friday night to a club and watching as all the guys dance with my White and Asian...
    StartingOvr18 StartingOvr18 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    A Sister's Love

    Mary was her name. Mary M. Travis. Mary was my oldest sister. I loved her. My sister was there for me when no else was. She never judged me. My sister was the only one who I could talk to about anything and we did. My sister was born and raised in Florida. She wasn't one to bite...
    ladyinrage ladyinrage 46-50, F Aug 31, 2013

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    Lmao I am...but are they serious with these

    topics sometimes? They crack me up
    Bandsx3 Bandsx3 16-17, F 1 Response May 18

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    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    We met on this site (www.

    blackwhitepeople.com)  2 years ago.It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for happy hour .We ended up talking for 4 hours and then she went with me to a cousin's cookout the next day .She is the most warm and...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 41-45, M Apr 10

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    I'm black and very proud!

    When I die, I wanna come back as me....I wont change for a minute. God has created me for reasons and I thank himeveryday for me. I am so blessed and highly favored .....#Proudly BlackWoman #BlackIsBeautiful
    MelisaJ MelisaJ 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 28

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    Black and Beautiful

    Was born a black, will live black and will die black. I am not ashamed to be in a minority group. I like my skin. I am fine with it. Don't need anyone's permission to like who I am.
    Abriee Abriee 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 29, 2008

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    I am a Black Woman. And I am tired of being

    told by society that I'm "Less Than" my fairer skinned sisters. I'm tired of the social injustice imposed upon us. I'm tired of my black brothers telling my that "they aren't attracted to black girls". I'm tired of being seen as ghetto. I'm tired of being displayed as the loud...
    PurpleHart PurpleHart 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 3

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    I'm not ratchet or ghetto

    or rude . I speak eloquently. And I wear my own hair. I'm proud of being of African decent. I'm a good god fearing dog loving person .šŸ˜€šŸ©šŸ¾
    CRizma7 CRizma7 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I am a black woman. I have dark skin.

    I have brown eyes. I have short hair. I have full lips. Don't assume I'm from Africa just because of my complexion. Don't assume I'm from Jamaica simply because you know of no other Caribbean island. Dear fellow African Americans no I am not being stuck up. I am not white...
    darkdimples darkdimples 18-21, F 4 Responses May 3

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    I am black. I'm actually only half,

    yet nobody is able to tell though. They always assume I'm from South America or Ghana, which is not an insult, but a little annoying to constantly hear. Well Ghana's football team is amazing so I don't really mind. Anyway I'm pretty insecure about myself but I've never hated my...
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I Love Being A Black Woman.

    Growing up in predominantly white areas, I was afflicted with a low self esteem; but as i grew older i learned to love things about my racial identity. First of all i learned it DIDN'T determine my inner or outer beauty, nor my Self Worth. I love my skin, i am less prone to...
    MissVenom MissVenom 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    I feel like Black women are the butt of every

    joke now a days, and I'm so tired of hearing them. This one joke about girl "coons" is always said at my school and everyone always laughs. And the main person telling it is usually a black guy. I get so disgusted by people who chose to bring down their race instead of defending...
    Kasney Kasney 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    Theres Something Tearing Me Up Inside

    Im a beautiful black woman. I say this with no conceit, neither do I desire to flaunt it. God is a God of truth and he says so himself, that 'The woman who fears God will be praised' (Proverbs 31:30) I love my God and I love his laws, they are so wonderful and beneficial to us. I...
    ethereal101 ethereal101 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    Black Beauty

    When you find the right Black Woman you will find that she is worth more than gold. She has the warmest heart and will make you laugh. She will hold your hand when your heart is heavy. Her light from within is more brilliant than the brightest diamond. Remember she has always...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 28 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I love white men. They're all I've been dating the past year. I haven't been in a serious relationship. Only a few I've felt really comfortable with, especially after sex. Can some...
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 28

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    Ever since I was little I've been so attracted to white guys and Hispanic guys. Black guys always get upset at me for "dating outside of my race". But it's perfectly okay for them...
    markinicole markinicole 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Just want a little chocolate princess! Any takers message me!
    Hazza8989 Hazza8989 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I'm more into the substance of a person than their color. I've dated guys of a variety of races but I seem to connect better with white guys. It's just crazy that it's 2014 and I...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 14

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    m so curious about being with a black woman of size.My love of big breasts has had me recently discover how beautiful big black busty woman truly are.I'm wondering as much about...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 5 Responses Jul 26

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    I love the skin I'm in. I used to think that there weren't any beauty in black women when I was younger and that white women possessed all the beauty. As I got older I realized how...
    breeze1998 breeze1998 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I have been bald for over 10 years due to alopecia (in lamest terms, not growing hair from somewhat of an allergy to it). I put a lot of effort into my hair when I was 7-13 years...
    threebe threebe 22-25, F Jul 27

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    Ok continuing on from my going out for walks, which to be honest I find really scary now. Well I finally went to town to the gay village, there is a club there for gurls like us...
    novpl novpl 46-50, T Aug 11

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    Joshua603a4yn8 Joshua603a4yn8 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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