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I Am a Black Woman

African-American/Black Women 740 People

    I Am A Pretty Black Girl

    I just feel that how a wonderful thing it is to be a female at all. Many of my friends trying to change their face by make-ups cuz they have no idea or they don't understand that how a beautiful thing is to be look like checolate. My mixed colour tells me that i am from world...
    CheeryFlowerofOrch CheeryFlowerofOrch 26-30, F 4 Responses May 10, 2013

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    I Am Not An Oreo, I Am Black

    *Disclaimer: I refer to myself as black for the purposes of this story, and because that is what people see me as. However ethnically I am French, Haitian and Lebanese, and if you only look at color then I am half black and half white...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    I feel like Black women are the butt of every

    joke now a days, and I'm so tired of hearing them. This one joke about girl "coons" is always said at my school and everyone always laughs. And the main person telling it is usually a black guy. I get so disgusted by people who chose to bring down their race instead of defending...
    Kasney Kasney 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 25

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    No weaves----------------------------------I

    hate weaves, lol, I'm black with curly hair. I don't have long flowing hair and that is me. I don't want to look like you, I'm proud to be me.
    heavensmissinanangel heavensmissinanangel 26-30, F 15 Responses Jun 12

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    My father is Portuguese,

    Black, and Puertorican and my mother is full Puertorican. I consider myself mixed because I do have black "features" I have tight curly wavy hair, tanned skin, big brown eyes. I always had a hard time kind of fitting in with my family, I kind of always was like the black sheep...
    hopeliveshavefaith hopeliveshavefaith 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I Love Being A Black Woman.

    Growing up in predominantly white areas, I was afflicted with a low self esteem; but as i grew older i learned to love things about my racial identity. First of all i learned it DIDN'T determine my inner or outer beauty, nor my Self Worth. I love my skin, i am less prone to...
    MissVenom MissVenom 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    Don't Assume

    People assume that because I'm a black woman that I am easier than a white woman. They think I'm stupid. They think I'm a *****. They think I don't have class. Part of this is correct. I am a ***** its true. I will stand up for myself. I'm not easy though. I have had one night...
    Emirembe Emirembe 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 1, 2008

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    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I love my brown sun kissed toned skin with dark

    eyes that sparkle. I love my petite figure and how young I look. I am in my 20s but I look like a late teenager. I love how intelligent and humble I am. I love how considerate I am to others and how I treat others. I treat people the way I want to be treated. I love how strong...
    browntaurus browntaurus 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 4

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    I'm black and very proud!

    When I die, I wanna come back as me....I wont change for a minute. God has created me for reasons and I thank himeveryday for me. I am so blessed and highly favored .....#Proudly BlackWoman #BlackIsBeautiful
    MelisaJ MelisaJ 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 28

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    I Am Me

    I am a woman and yes I am black. I have strived for the best in life and work hard to achieve my goals. I have been called names and critisized for my quest for higher education. I don't care, because I see my goals in the future. I see myself being what I want to be. I...
    KashK KashK 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 2, 2008

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    I'm not ratchet or ghetto

    or rude . I speak eloquently. And I wear my own hair. I'm proud of being of African decent. I'm a good god fearing dog loving person .šŸ˜€šŸ©šŸ¾
    CRizma7 CRizma7 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 14

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    -start rant- -.- there's a lot of annoying

    things about this fact... 1. Everything I do means I hate myself "I'm going to get a nose job" "You hate being black!" "....wtf?" 2. I have attitude ? I mean I'm so honest when I say I was not cursed with a bad attitude always had a positive and polite attitude yet I...
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 6

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    We Are Beautiful But You Wonder Why We Have Low Self-esteem

    Having a conversation with my mother about how one "aunt" (I use that word lightly) supposedly (probably) said that my sister and I weren't as beautiful as our mixed-race (Black and Latina) cousins sent my mind back to thoughts and problems surrounding Black girls and self-esteem...
    mindofmaster mindofmaster 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2013

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    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    The Reality Of A Dark Skinned Woman

    Dark skinned females in America are at the bottom of the barrel. We get down graded in rap music, on tv, stereotyped as being loud and ghetto fabulous with long weaves and fingernails, we get rejected by our own race of men whom would gladly choose a white women over us, we get...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl 18-21, F 14 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    I am a Black Woman. And I am tired of being

    told by society that I'm "Less Than" my fairer skinned sisters. I'm tired of the social injustice imposed upon us. I'm tired of my black brothers telling my that "they aren't attracted to black girls". I'm tired of being seen as ghetto. I'm tired of being displayed as the loud...
    PurpleHart PurpleHart 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    It took a lot of hard work to get to the point

    where I am able to look in the mirror and say I am not ugly. It took a lot of hard work to not point out all of my flaws. It took even more of an effort to look at society's image of the perfect girl with long legs,a tiny waist, long flowy hair, just perfect everything and not...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    And I want to provide some cliff notes to those

    interested in dating black women. So here are some thing you need to avoid saying when trying to pick someone up. -You're pretty for a black girl. -You're so exotic. -I love big ***'s and curves. (And all variations of this sentence) -Black girls give the best blow jobs. -Black...
    pinkypie5 pinkypie5 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 4

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    So, I'm a very laid back person

    and I have nothing against race. However, sometimes I feel singled out and i feel like a misfit. I live in a foster home with Caucasian foster parents and I'm a black female.
    kico4 kico4 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    Growing Up.

    I went to high school, male teachers told me I had child bearing hips, looking me up and down like a dog in heat. Sending subtle messages on how they would love to screw me. I'm not sleeping with you because I'm black. College, I was told i would never graduate, I would never be...
    lovely618 lovely618 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    This might be a long post sorry in advance.

    When i was six years old i moved to a predominantly white area . My first day of first grade i remember walking into the classroom , there were no other little black kids or teachers just me. Little did little me know that was just the beginning of my long journey here. I'm now...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 13-15, F 14 Responses Jul 23

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    Yes, I am Black Woman BUT I hate it

    when people who like black girls always say things like " I love their big ***** or curves" or " they are so sexy" I do like the fact there are some men who do like black women don't get me wrong but I can't stand it when people sexualize or fetishize about us too much. I mean...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 21

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    My skin is brown lol.

    There are actually people with almost black skin though. But yeah, I'm an island girl, was born in the Caribbean :) idk why, but I think that is just really cool to be from an island.
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199 18-21, F 3 Responses May 24

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    I'm Proud Of Who I Am But........

    Sometime I question it. Being a Black woman growing up in the southern United States is challenging. You are surrounded by people like me. But I'm also surrounded by racism, discrimination, and prejudice people. Which often makes me ask questions? Like I was on this dating site...
    TheLonelyPoet TheLonelyPoet 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Being The Black Friend

    Hmmm.... How can I describe this? What is it like for me being the black friend? Luckily, because my friend now has a black friend, no one can call her racist. Yay for her. It's going out on a Friday night to a club and watching as all the guys dance with my White and Asian...
    StartingOvr18 StartingOvr18 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    I love my chocolate skin,

    full lips, breasts and ***.
    Bluestarrr Bluestarrr 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 13

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    I am beautiful I am a beautiful curvy tall

    black women who at age 20 is finally embracing her colorful heritage. I remember when I was 12 how I wanted to be a little white girl soo bad. I wanted to have straight hair blue eyes and date white boys but no longer am I ashamed of being black.In fact I think white women wanna...
    chenille93 chenille93 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I am a black woman. I have dark skin.

    I have brown eyes. I have short hair. I have full lips. Don't assume I'm from Africa just because of my complexion. Don't assume I'm from Jamaica simply because you know of no other Caribbean island. Dear fellow African Americans no I am not being stuck up. I am not white...
    darkdimples darkdimples 18-21, F 4 Responses May 3

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    I love the way God majestically created me.

    From the silky rasp of my voice, the gentle sway of my hips. And he loves the way the light catches my skin. The glow, a hint of warm, sweet mocha that peaks out beneath my modest covering. I love being me. I love being a black woman.
    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F Oct 1

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    i like black woman , most of them are sweet

    and caring ! most of the black people i know are good and funny :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 16

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    I do not have a huge behind it's medium size,

    I do not have big boobs down to the tummy, I am not a subhuman species like society says I am, just your regular human being just like everyone else. I am not the person who takes offenses lightly.....I mean who doesn't? I have a variety of music that I listen to such as...
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    Lmao I am...but are they serious with these

    topics sometimes? They crack me up
    TheSoulessWorld TheSoulessWorld 16-17, F 1 Response May 18

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    When Will Someone Pick Me?

    Iā€™m usually not the type of person that would complain about this kind of thing. I mean the whole race thing. I have thick skin when it comes to the standard of beauty in the United States. Let me tell you a little about myself first. Iā€™m a 20 year old female living in LA. I...
    MissArchon MissArchon 22-25, F 14 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    If I straighten my hair,

    bleach my skin, and change my eye color I will still be black. Natural hair, a big booty, and brown skin dont make you black. It is the Soul within me that tells me I'm black
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 18

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    Hi! I'm just a black woman

    that feels like our culture focuses on the outside much more than the inside? As a fellow black woman, hair and beauty doesn't take priority in my life as I am mostly too busy trying to do some soul-searching and bettering myself in other areas. It's like society always tries...
    princessbopeep princessbopeep 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I'm Sam-Alison. I'm a graduated

    seventeen-year-old soon to be eighteen and I'm a young black woman. ( :
    sammisanin sammisanin 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Not Your Typical Sistah...

    I am a Black woman...I like the color of my skin....the shape of my eyes, my nose and my mouth....my color is my joy..and not my burden...:)
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2010

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    It really bothers me how black men can date

    white/Hispanic/Asian women but when it's a black women she's bitter or bougie or some other negative adjective. Sometimes I just hate being part of the "black community" because of all the backwards bull and negativity permeating it.
    PurpleHart PurpleHart 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    I am black. I'm actually only half,

    yet nobody is able to tell though. They always assume I'm from South America or Ghana, which is not an insult, but a little annoying to constantly hear. Well Ghana's football team is amazing so I don't really mind. Anyway I'm pretty insecure about myself but I've never hated my...
    AngrySantaCat AngrySantaCat 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    We met on this site (www.

    blackwhitepeople.com)  2 years ago.It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for happy hour .We ended up talking for 4 hours and then she went with me to a cousin's cookout the next day .She is the most warm and...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 46-50, M Apr 10

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    I love being a black woman.

    I know the media tries hard to undermine us and make us feel like we are not attractive or we need to change ourselves to fit what they think is beautiful. I'm not buying it...I love my dark skin and I'm not going to let anyone make me feel any differently about it.
    LaFemme0924 LaFemme0924 22-25, F 4 Responses May 10

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    Taking care of your body is like making

    Valentine's chocolate, or like carving a pumpkin, or decorating a Christmas tree, or Easter tree, or brewing coffee, or making wine etc. you've got to put your soul into it, or you're doing it wrong and it will look like a dried plum. Much like my skin at this moment :/
    AngrySantaCat AngrySantaCat 18-21, F Nov 5

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    Black Beauty

    When you find the right Black Woman you will find that she is worth more than gold. She has the warmest heart and will make you laugh. She will hold your hand when your heart is heavy. Her light from within is more brilliant than the brightest diamond. Remember she has always...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 28 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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