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I Am a Black Women Who Likes White Men

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    White Knight

    I think we all grew up thinking that one day our white knight would rescue us and we'd live happily forever. Well, that's what happened to me, but growing up in the midwest, I never actually thought he'd really be white! I grew up in an all black neighborhood, the oldest of...
    Blackbedwench Blackbedwench
    46-50, F
    5 Responses May 28, 2013

    I Love White Guys Too :)

    I am a young adult, im an aspiring nurse to be currently in medical school in guyana which is in south america, i have always had a passion, interest and serious feelings for a white guy since i was in England when i Finnish high school over their i decided i wanted to be a nurse...
    SweetempressJ SweetempressJ
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 11, 2013

    I'm Black. My White Boyfriend Is More Attracted To White Women.

    My boyfriend and I have a pretty normal relationship. We love eachother, and live together, going on 3 years now. The only problem I seem to encounter is that sometimes I feel like I'm not attractive enough to him. Once and while, when I use his computer I find...
    PrettyGirlBlues PrettyGirlBlues
    22-25, F
    19 Responses Jun 23, 2011

    Jealousy Towards What I Want

    I have always had a deep desire to be with a white man. They are everything I want in a man they are kind to me, think im beautiful, and take care of me and dont mind me taking care of them. But sadly right now i am not in a relationship with one but my friend is. She is a black...
    traceyobi37 traceyobi37
    22-25, F
    17 Responses Oct 26, 2012

    I Love White Men Too!

    I am black bbw who loves white men. I have dated other races of men, but white men have a sex appeal and attraction I cannot shake. I have tried for years to analyze my attraction to understand it, whether it was the skin color thing, or interests, or physical appreciation of...
    36-40, F
    64 Responses Jul 12, 2009

    My Ep Romance… (part 1)

    How do I begin…Well it all started 4 1/2 months ago, when I like most EP members was searching for others who could identify with my specific interest and issues, you know, those topics that are not readily discussed with friends or family. Everyone believed me to be the...
    myredroom myredroom
    41-45, F
    12 Responses May 27, 2012

    Coffee & Cream ....

    There is nothing more sensual than the contrast of blk on white skin together..... Just my thoughts.
    Ladyis1 Ladyis1
    51-55, F
    10 Responses May 9, 2012

    I have been dating white men

    since my first boyfriend. It's enjoyable when they love to dance and eat spicy food because that's what I'm into. So anyone that doesn't like those two will not get on with me. There are no ill feelings towards black men. Ever since I was a child, I've only been attracted to...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 10, 2015

    I am 42 swm 5'9" 200 lbs red hair

    and green eyes. I am in Stillwater, Ok. Where can I find my Ebony Queen?
    ricster44 ricster44
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2014

    My Love

    I am a women who truly believes that love, TRUE love transcends in ethnic, racial, and even social background. All men are beautiful, personality and charisma and character are what is most important to me. But I also have an attraction, chemistry to white man ....that for me...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Feb 9, 2012

    I Love White Meat

    I have dated both black and white men and for a long time I actually thought I was equally attracted to both but recently I only date white men why??? In my view they are great in bed okay it's my own personal experience and no one alses but I also love the colour contrast and I...
    slutgirlabouttown slutgirlabouttown
    36-40, F
    15 Responses May 15, 2012

    black women are more sexy

    than white hoes I have a black girlfriend and omg she turns me on so much.
    cuebert1981 cuebert1981
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 26, 2015

    Step Daddy Role Play

    When I was the age of 19 I started dating a 40 year old white man who made me do things in the bedroom that no one else could.  The 3rd time we had sex he suggested that we'd role play and have sex that was rougher than usual. I was pretty down for it so I agreed. He said he...
    AngieBrownEyes AngieBrownEyes
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Jul 30, 2013

    With what's going on lately,

    I won't lie, I'm a little afraid that somehow our views and politics would tear us apart. I personally despite the fact that culturally don't really have much in common with black men at all, do feel a lot of heartache that every time I turn around one is found dead in the news...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    36-40, F
    Aug 19, 2015

    I Want To Suck A White ****

    I've sucked many black ***** of different shapes and sizes but i wanna taste the *** of a white man
    blackberrypie blackberrypie
    22-25, F
    48 Responses Dec 30, 2011

    Nubian Queen

    I would like to find me a Nubian Queen so I can make a few Swirls with her to Love and cherish her as I would my self
    cuebert1981 cuebert1981
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2013


    Not a story just wondering any Ebony women in or near Oklahoma here?
    ricster44 ricster44
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Aug 26, 2013

    Afrowoman Are Hot To Me

    i am married to a white woman but she canot turn me on like a beautyfull aforamerican hotty can
    Buddybo21 Buddybo21
    61-65, M
    1 Response Aug 17, 2013

    Give Me Him.... Now

    Tony Goldwyn... Oh my ♥.♥
    MissBellaB MissBellaB
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 5, 2013

    From Justin To Robin To Johnny OMG White Men Are HOT!!!!

    Let me clarify that I like all men of every race including my own. I just think white men are soooooooo cute. Johnny Depp. Colin Farrell. Justin Timberlake. Robin Thicke. OMG...there's just so many. Yes, I am a black woman who loves white men and I don't care if you don't like it...
    CookiesNCupcakes CookiesNCupcakes
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Oct 7, 2013

    I Choose You.....

    For those of you who seen the movie "Something New" it was like watching my life play out. I met this white guy by chance while standing in line at the DMV when I had to renew my car tag. We struck up a conversation while in line and he was funny,smart and very nice. I was...
    myredroom myredroom
    41-45, F
    17 Responses Dec 24, 2011

    White Man Interested In A Black Woman Experience

    I grew up in a whites only world. By explanation; I grew up in north central Maine in the mid 1950s when there were no blacks there, the only others were either native American Indians or Canadian woodsmen. So we never had any option to try black ladies. Now that I am older and...
    curiouscs curiouscs
    66-70, M
    Oct 7, 2013

    But in NYC its hard to find a guy

    who wish the same. My desire is high and my attraction for them is overwhelming. I wonder if they are scared, i dont understand .
    MissBellaB MissBellaB
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 21, 2014

    Nothing Wrong With That

    I'm an african american woman and I LOVE WHITE MEN!!! They're all I seem to be attracted to and who I always make the best connection with, I honestly can't see myself with anyone else (although I am open to dating all races). It's just something so inexplicably alluring and...
    Princess1211 Princess1211
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Jun 22, 2011

    I Love White Men!!! :)

    I am a black & native american mixed bbw. Ive onyl dated 2 black guys in my life. The rest have been white men. I absolutely love white men. I really found myself becoming intrested in them in high school. Where I am from 90% are white, 5% mexican / asain, and 5 % blacks. In the...
    Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987
    26-30, F
    54 Responses Jul 6, 2011

    Crush On An Older White Gentleman...He's Captain Call, Lennie, Donald Sutherland, And Bill Kurtis All In One

    I've been shamelessly flirting with a white older man. He looks like he's feeling it...always kind smiling and full of laughter returning the flirts. I couldn't let him leave this area after his project without letting him know how I've been feeling. I told him, "You know I have...
    imastar1 imastar1
    3 Responses Jul 31, 2013

    First Time

    I really have not yet dated anyone outside of my race yet.  I am though very attracted to white men but too afraid to go up and strike a conversation.  I do notice that some stare at me and I stare at them back and its flirty on both parts but nothing more happens...
    chocolate34 chocolate34
    31-35, F
    29 Responses Apr 7, 2009

    Whats Not To Like? :-d

    they seem to like me too, especially the older men (30+)
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses May 5, 2012

    Hello Everyone...

    I think that black women have gorgeous skin. I have not had the opportunity to "be" with a black woman yet, but I hope someday, I will be honored to ravish one.
    nypennguy nypennguy
    46-50, M
    Jul 21, 2013

    No Doubt About It!

    No if's, and's or but's about it. I love you guys and you're just gorgeous men. This girl is hooked for life. ;)
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2013

    I'm A White Man Who Loves Black Women

    I'm really glad there is an active group for Black women who like White guys. The group for White guys who like Black women only has maybe four stories and about thirty members. I like Black women. I find the dark hair and chocolate colored skin absolutely beautiful, and most of...
    deleted deleted
    17 Responses Nov 1, 2011

    Sorry, But It's The Sex And Respect Effect.

    This group is a deram come true! Like most black women i know, i grew up in a predominately African-American neighborhood in Philadelphia and was taught that white men were weak, effeminate and raciest. My interactions with whites were almost always positive tho, and as i reached...
    Gbrowngurl Gbrowngurl
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Nov 11, 2010

    I Am A Black Female And Find White Males Attractive

    I live in spring Texas and have dated from many different races. I am 19 years of age and also a sophomore in college. I'm not just set on one race or the other because I believe the color of your skin shouldn't matter in a relationship but I'm very fond of interracial couples.
    Bria2737 Bria2737
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jun 9, 2013

    Am A Black Woman , Interested In Dating White Men Only, But I Seem To Be Not Luck With Them

    I am a 40 year old single mum who is interested in dating white men. I had this feeling ling time ago while I was 12 years old but due to apartheid I could not allow it to happen until i thought and felt I was free to be who am I . I date two white men , both of them were never...
    Mendy2010 Mendy2010
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Apr 24, 2010

    I am a black woman who definitely love white

    men. I started dating white guys when I was in middle school. For my junior and senior proms, my dates were white men. We had a blast for both of the proms. The dance was so much fun and so was eating out afterwards. I met my husband when we were both in college. I have...
    ebonynbill ebonynbill
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

    White Chocolate!!

    Well what can I say I haven't always liked white men there was a time when I wouldn't go near one (not for racist reasons) lol it’s only because I did not find any of them attractive. Anyway when I moved house about 6 years ago there were more white people that lived in the...
    insomniac1989 insomniac1989
    26-30, F
    12 Responses Feb 1, 2013

    Sometimes I felt guilty

    that I wasn't as attracted to men of my race as white men, but I can't help it. I used to be afraid to admit it because I thought that people would judge me for it. The problem I have most is that no white guys ever ask me out :-/ the most they will do is smile, stare at me from...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Feb 14, 2014

    Lightskinned Black Woman Who Adores White Men.

    I am a 19 year old model,and I've been attracted to white men since 4th grade. I've Never been attracted to black males before. Problem is though is that it's very difficult getting a white male, which is very confusing because I'm very beautiful, long black hair and beautiful...
    HillaryVega HillaryVega
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Oct 13, 2013

    I Hope To Find A White Man That Wants To Be In A Serious Relationship

    why does it seem like white men are so scared of blk women? what is i tthat they are scared of??
    blknwhtluv4u blknwhtluv4u
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jul 26, 2013

    Really Attracted to White Men

    I am so very attracted to white men!  I have never date a white guy (I have not dated much at all) but I find myself extremely attracted to them!  I am a bit afraid to admit this to my mom and dad and my family because I am scared of how they will react...
    kashugirl kashugirl
    25 Responses Jul 27, 2009

    White Men are Scrumptious!

    They are so delicious. I love when a white guy has dark hair and blue eyess! I am a very attractive girl and I'm positive some white guys find me attractive but they are probably to afraid to date me. They probably think I wouldn't like them but I actually like them more than...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17
    26-30, F
    17 Responses Apr 26, 2011

    White Guys...

    What can i say. I love them. I'm married to a half white and mexican guy, and every day i wake up, its like heaven. To everyone who hasnt gone interracial, DO IT!!!!! It's awesome. :D
    EsotericDestiny EsotericDestiny
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Jun 26, 2009

    Mature White Man From Europe!

    Mature white man from Europe,outgoing,with zest for life 52yo, passionate about young black women, seeking complete relationship with young non-materialistic, curvy black woman 20-28yo, who wants to relocate to form a family with mature wm, or accomodate for complete ongoing...
    sugardaddy4ebonysugarbaby sugardaddy4ebonysugarbaby
    46-50, M
    Sep 23, 2013

    Hope to find him some day,

    BUT I'd like it to be based on other factors beyond "how good our skin looks by contrast" or "we're freaks in the bedroom". I mean, physical attraction is a driving force but let's not boil it down to fetishes and sexual stereotypes. An intelligent white guy will get that much...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jul 30, 2014
    rsb97080 rsb97080
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Dec 14, 2013

    Like Art ...

    We Combine together like art Your skin pressed against mine Creating the most perfect Mix Your heart Beat's red as mine You temp my every way Showing me your world as I Show you mine Were the same 2 Hearts that beat for each other
    MissBellaB MissBellaB
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 5, 2013

    Fiftyand Fab

    Hi I am a 50 yr.old single woman looking for a white male 50-70...that loves to go out to dinner,movies,long drives,traveling and talks. I would like for him to be financially stable. I prefer non smokers and drug free. :)
    Ms50andfaboulus Ms50andfaboulus
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2013

    I'm a white man that has been with black women

    before & I'm very attracted to them but I live in north florida & find it hard to find black women that want white men
    papabear1010 papabear1010
    66-70, M
    Apr 25, 2015

    My ex was Irish and he was just amazing!

    We may not be a couple but he will always be a friend of mine!! And the sex was spectacular, he would put it on me so good! I know I will find another white man that will enjoy my company and vice versa!! Looking for my best friend!!
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    1st Date

    I am a black woman and I've always found white men attractive. I've attempted to date white men but nothing ever happened. And now I have my first date with a white man coming up soon and I'm so nervous. I'm often told that I come across intimidating and things like that. And I'm...
    ashlyt810 ashlyt810
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2013

    My First White Guy

    His name was Sandro. He was an older make. I was 19 when we started dating. he was 40 and I was still a teen. he had found me walking. after my car broke down on my way to the club. I guess he thought I was a prostitute or something. Not the case at all. I had just broken up...
    AngieBrownEyes AngieBrownEyes
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 30, 2013

    Black Women Rock

    I have had the pleasure of dating many black women in my time and I can tell you every one of them were very straightforward, NO bullshit and tell it like it is! Additionally they are more open about their needs and desires; in other words they're not shy about anything. If you...
    takeitezokie takeitezokie
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Aug 16, 2011


    First and foremost, I love love white men! However, I don't know how to approach them. I get very nervous and scared when I attempt to approach a guy I've been out of fear of being turned down because I'm black. Any advice??
    whitechocolate21 whitechocolate21
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Oct 28, 2013
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