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I Am a Bpd-relationship Survivor

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 39 People

    I'm actually going through the same thing

    as u, the only difference is we have a child teacher and I got hooked back into him after 7mths of him trying to prove himself and wanting to work it out after he originally broken up with me. So he moved back in with me after moving out of his apartment. The first 8 months were...
    road2recovery road2recovery 31-35 May 27

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    Hi. This post is more to do with me just

    writing down my feelings about a recent break-up with a BPD ex girlfriend, as I'm having a really bad day today. We had been dating (and living together on and off) for 2 years, and a month ago I decided to break it off with her. I loved this woman to bit and pieces, with...
    GoodThingsToCome GoodThingsToCome 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    Through week 3 of no contact

    after a 5 year "relationship" with a BPD woman or whatever you want to call it. Things do slowly get better. Anyone out there in the same boat? Need inspiration to continue "no contact".
    flacobone flacobone 31-35, M 4 Responses May 19, 2014

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    My BPD Ex-Boyfriend Wants Me Back After Breakup...For The 3rd Time.

    So, I have been trying to find a way to summarize this because it is such a long story. But I just don't know if that is possible without losing the essence. My ex-boyfriend has bpd. He hasn't been officially diagnosed but all the signs are there. He has a temper that is very...
    Supernova37 Supernova37 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    I Survived A Borderline Personality Relationship Break Up!

    I wanted to share that I survived a 4 year relationship with my BPD ex-girlfriend. During the break up I was experiencing so much emotional pain and after seeking help, I realized that my ex was a BPD woman. Everything started to make sense in my relationship, the walking on...
    toerrishuman toerrishuman 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    I can finally write about my experience with

    dating a borderline male well because I finally ended the toxic relationship. We only dated for a short time, 6 months to be exact, but when your referring to a relationship with a BPD partner thats too much time. Or should I say just enough time to allow you to be destroyed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 27, 2014

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    I Just Broke Up With My Bpd Boyfriend

    I just read supernovas story and I can fully relate,I met my ex 8 yrs ago, we fell in love quickly and deeply, well I did, he lead me to believe he felt the same, maybe he did I dont know,and Ive no energy left to figure it out.He told me his father beat his mother regularly,and...
    brokenkiwi brokenkiwi 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    I am currently dating (almost 2 years now) a man

    who suffers from BPD (Borderline personality disorder). Every month he has episodes of intense anxiety and depression due to this disorder. He copes with these episodes by binge drinking. When he binge drinks the most horrible incidents happen. Just a week ago was the worst...
    melissac2983 melissac2983 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    I am 33. I met a woman online

    and we talked as friends for 3 or 4 years without ever meeting. Even though she lived only 30 miles from me. She had been diagnosed with "bipolar" and was treated as so. One Christmas, she had started a medication and was feeling more social and really putting the heat on me to...
    bentsurvivor bentsurvivor 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

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    Trauma And Questions Long After The BPD Is Gone

    I was in a relationship with my ‘soulmate’ for 2 years. We lived together and were deeply in love until I woke up one morning to find he had packed up his belongings and left me a ‘Dear John’ one sentence note. That was 1 ½ years ago. I recently learned about BPD and a...
    baffled7 baffled7 31-35, F Apr 25, 2013

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    I look back and I am shocked at what I accepted

    in my life. The fun, charming guy I met was evil inside and hated women. With him, I felt insecure, ugly, scared, paralyzed, isolated, depressed - definitely NOT loved at protected and cherished. If you are dealing with this, please know you're not alone and it's not your...
    effinglovely effinglovely 31-35, F Feb 8, 2014

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    This is about discrimination. I'm all fired up now so I need to vent. This goes for any kind of discrimination or stigma. I hate all of it. It's cruel and hurtful and ALWAYS...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I will try to summarize this experience as much as I can but bare with me. I have gradually lost my self identity over the past 6 years. I will have to start from when I was 12...
    Bigtee2nd Bigtee2nd 18-21, M Jul 19

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    Okay so short and simple. I usually have no problem ending a relationship most of the time I caused chaos and then turn around on them so they feel like it's their fault or I leave...
    xoxoFireyIcexoxo xoxoFireyIcexoxo 26-30, F Jul 17

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    Okay so short and simple. I usually have no problem ending a relationship most of the time I caused chaos and then turn around on them so they feel like it's their fault or I leave...
    xoxoFireyIcexoxo xoxoFireyIcexoxo 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Okay so short and simple. I usually have no problem ending a relationship most of the time I caused chaos and then turn around on them so they feel like it's their fault or I leave...
    xoxoFireyIcexoxo xoxoFireyIcexoxo 26-30, F Jul 17

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    in a dream I was a werewolf... I love coco-rosie this song gets me every time, I guess for a lot of reasons, my bpd, my childhood but most recently the end of a very intense...
    hiskittehkat hiskittehkat 26-30, F Jul 13

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    This is first time when I admit how abusive I can get. I'm not as vulnerable as people think I am. I use my 'vulnerablility' in order to manipulate people. It sounds horrible I...
    biancaxxb biancaxxb 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I just do. I blame it on the BPD. I'm either obsessive, always worried I've hurt someone's feeling with some obliviously offensive comment I've made, or I detach completely, going...
    PersonalApocalypse PersonalApocalypse 22-25, M Jul 11

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    Folks, there are quite number of people who have been suffering through this. I too feel like sharing what I have been going through .. We have been married for more than 7 years...
    blueocean3 blueocean3 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Left alone to figure out life at 13. Used and abused up until now. Lonely. Sad. Frustrated. Hopeless. I just want to be in a happy relationship. I have BPD and other social...
    Saphhy195 Saphhy195 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    Hello EP, Been lurking on this site and finally joined. I have been dying to tell my story but am terrified someone I know will see it. But I'm desperate and need to vent. I've...
    iswell iswell 41-45, F Jul 5

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