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I Am a Bpd-relationship Survivor

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    My BPD Ex-Boyfriend Wants Me Back After Breakup...For The 3rd Time.

    So, I have been trying to find a way to summarize this because it is such a long story. But I just don't know if that is possible without losing the essence. My ex-boyfriend has bpd. He hasn't been officially diagnosed but all the signs are there. He has a temper that is very...
    Supernova37 Supernova37 36-40, F 5 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    I am currently dating (almost 2 years now) a man

    who suffers from BPD (Borderline personality disorder). Every month he has episodes of intense anxiety and depression due to this disorder. He copes with these episodes by binge drinking. When he binge drinks the most horrible incidents happen. Just a week ago was the worst...
    melissac2983 melissac2983 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    I look back and I am shocked at what I accepted

    in my life. The fun, charming guy I met was evil inside and hated women. With him, I felt insecure, ugly, scared, paralyzed, isolated, depressed - definitely NOT loved at protected and cherished. If you are dealing with this, please know you're not alone and it's not your...
    effinglovely effinglovely 31-35, F Feb 8

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    I Survived A Borderline Personality Relationship Break Up!

    I wanted to share that I survived a 4 year relationship with my BPD ex-girlfriend. During the break up I was experiencing so much emotional pain and after seeking help, I realized that my ex was a BPD woman. Everything started to make sense in my relationship, the walking on...
    toerrishuman toerrishuman 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 8, 2013

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    Through week 3 of no contact

    after a 5 year "relationship" with a BPD woman or whatever you want to call it. Things do slowly get better. Anyone out there in the same boat? Need inspiration to continue "no contact".
    flacobone flacobone 31-35, M 4 Responses May 19

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    I Just Broke Up With My Bpd Boyfriend

    I just read supernovas story and I can fully relate,I met my ex 8 yrs ago, we fell in love quickly and deeply, well I did, he lead me to believe he felt the same, maybe he did I dont know,and Ive no energy left to figure it out.He told me his father beat his mother regularly,and...
    brokenkiwi brokenkiwi 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    I can finally write about my experience with

    dating a borderline male well because I finally ended the toxic relationship. We only dated for a short time, 6 months to be exact, but when your referring to a relationship with a BPD partner thats too much time. Or should I say just enough time to allow you to be destroyed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 27

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    Trauma And Questions Long After The BPD Is Gone

    I was in a relationship with my ‘soulmate’ for 2 years. We lived together and were deeply in love until I woke up one morning to find he had packed up his belongings and left me a ‘Dear John’ one sentence note. That was 1 ½ years ago. I recently learned about BPD and a...
    baffled7 baffled7 31-35, F Apr 25, 2013

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    I had a 2 year relationship with someone with

    BPD. It was so beautiful at times and painful and devastating at other times. I don't regret it but it's hard not to think of her and how close we were. She made it seem like she was "saving me" or something by leaving, saying she had "done enough damage to me" and that she...
    Rockstarr22 Rockstarr22 31-35, M 2 Responses May 31

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    Related Experiences

    I have written some about my experience with my now ex wife and BPD. We are now officially divorced as of 6/26 A few days before our wedding anniversary. She said it was because I...
    cutie7710 cutie7710 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was riding the bus the other day with my cousin when we witnessed angry old man accusing a young of stealing his phone charger. The young man had no idea why the old man was...
    Mulhollandrive Mulhollandrive 26-30, F Jul 9

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    I was recently diagnosed with BPD and feel overwhelmed with both joy and sadness. I feel joy for finally having a name for what's affecting me, but also of course sad because of...
    MysteriousKitty MysteriousKitty 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I myself smoke cigarettes and marijuana. I'm so empty that I can't seem to quit either one. It got me thinking; is there anyone out there tonight that has BPD who doesn't self...
    Mulhollandrive Mulhollandrive 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I can't talk to my family, friends or GF because they think I'm 'fine' or 'better'. I suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder. I was diagnosed two years ago. But suffered...
    bpdblue bpdblue 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Having a really bad day, I have this incredible urge to say F this and run away, run away from my family, my life, everything. I want to do bad stuff and not care about the...
    VenusIncarnate VenusIncarnate 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Does anyone else feel like some days they don't have BPD? You go through a stint of feeling almost ok? Almost normal? Of course it isn't true, but you can pass it off in public? Or...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was never diagnosed with BPD but I feel I do have it. I have been reading about it and after reading many of your own testimonies I am convinced this is what I have. It's been a...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    No I haven't married a women with bpd. I am writing to defend people who have bpd. I think it's grossly unfair how people on this site have written about people with bpd. We are...
    Gothicbabe Gothicbabe 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It took me a long time to realize something was wrong with the way I processed stress and handled relationships. Sure I always knew I was more emotional than others, more quick to...
    Sammy7802 Sammy7802 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Ever since this year, i have been very impulsive, obsessive and irritable. In the past i have self-harmed and undergone dissociative disorder and depersonalization at a small scale...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    So I really feel really alone lately. I have a mental disorder. BPD- Borderline Personality Disorder. I know this definitely stemmed from being sexually molested as a very little...
    PastelJewelpet PastelJewelpet 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I'm not quite sure whether I have one or not but I have this symptoms: 1. I feel like most of the times I feel nothing unless anger and sadness and hurt. Sometimes I'll laugh but...
    ayamaxx ayamaxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Emotional Affair: Was she Narcissistic or Borderline Waif? I am a married man with two beautiful children and a wonderful wife. I have never “physically” cheated on my wife...
    DriveRiggins DriveRiggins 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I know I write a lot here, but it's very therapeutic for me because these thoughts are constantly racing around in my head and getting them out is healthy. I usually wouldn't write...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    This is to true ... iv dealt with at lease two of these PA types of people before, iv never thought about it, that it could manifest in a male, lol. All i can add at this point to...
    Batiya Batiya 61-65 3 days ago

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    I was a straight woman who fell in love with a lesbian BPD almost 2 years ago, deeply and madly in love. Last spring, she "needed space," announcing this days before an...
    Dim485 Dim485 51-55, F 1 day ago

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    I am 23 and I find it so hard to find a guy who likes me and also I find it just as hard to maintain a healthy relationship. I have BPD and also Depression. On top of that I am...
    InsertYourLoveHere InsertYourLoveHere 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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