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I Am a Bpd-relationship Survivor

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 32 People

    Hi. This post is more to do with me just

    writing down my feelings about a recent break-up with a BPD ex girlfriend, as I'm having a really bad day today. We had been dating (and living together on and off) for 2 years, and a month ago I decided to break it off with her. I loved this woman to bit and pieces, with...
    GoodThingsToCome GoodThingsToCome 26-30, M Oct 2

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    I Just Broke Up With My Bpd Boyfriend

    I just read supernovas story and I can fully relate,I met my ex 8 yrs ago, we fell in love quickly and deeply, well I did, he lead me to believe he felt the same, maybe he did I dont know,and Ive no energy left to figure it out.He told me his father beat his mother regularly,and...
    brokenkiwi brokenkiwi 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    I Survived A Borderline Personality Relationship Break Up!

    I wanted to share that I survived a 4 year relationship with my BPD ex-girlfriend. During the break up I was experiencing so much emotional pain and after seeking help, I realized that my ex was a BPD woman. Everything started to make sense in my relationship, the walking on...
    toerrishuman toerrishuman 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    I am currently dating (almost 2 years now) a man

    who suffers from BPD (Borderline personality disorder). Every month he has episodes of intense anxiety and depression due to this disorder. He copes with these episodes by binge drinking. When he binge drinks the most horrible incidents happen. Just a week ago was the worst...
    melissac2983 melissac2983 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    Trauma And Questions Long After The BPD Is Gone

    I was in a relationship with my ‘soulmate’ for 2 years. We lived together and were deeply in love until I woke up one morning to find he had packed up his belongings and left me a ‘Dear John’ one sentence note. That was 1 ½ years ago. I recently learned about BPD and a...
    baffled7 baffled7 31-35, F Apr 25, 2013

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    I look back and I am shocked at what I accepted

    in my life. The fun, charming guy I met was evil inside and hated women. With him, I felt insecure, ugly, scared, paralyzed, isolated, depressed - definitely NOT loved at protected and cherished. If you are dealing with this, please know you're not alone and it's not your...
    effinglovely effinglovely 31-35, F Feb 8

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    My BPD Ex-Boyfriend Wants Me Back After Breakup...For The 3rd Time.

    So, I have been trying to find a way to summarize this because it is such a long story. But I just don't know if that is possible without losing the essence. My ex-boyfriend has bpd. He hasn't been officially diagnosed but all the signs are there. He has a temper that is very...
    Supernova37 Supernova37 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Through week 3 of no contact

    after a 5 year "relationship" with a BPD woman or whatever you want to call it. Things do slowly get better. Anyone out there in the same boat? Need inspiration to continue "no contact".
    flacobone flacobone 31-35, M 4 Responses May 19

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    I am 33. I met a woman online

    and we talked as friends for 3 or 4 years without ever meeting. Even though she lived only 30 miles from me. She had been diagnosed with "bipolar" and was treated as so. One Christmas, she had started a medication and was feeling more social and really putting the heat on me to...
    bentsurvivor bentsurvivor 31-35, M Aug 22

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    I can finally write about my experience with

    dating a borderline male well because I finally ended the toxic relationship. We only dated for a short time, 6 months to be exact, but when your referring to a relationship with a BPD partner thats too much time. Or should I say just enough time to allow you to be destroyed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 27

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    Related Experiences

    I think. Here's my story. When we first met, I thought he was sweet, charming and opinionated individual. He was passionate and adored me to no end. He would often call me on...
    cheersbabe cheersbabe 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't even know where to begin. I was diagnosed with Bipolar disorder 2 years ago and was put on a medication called Viibryd, which is an anti-depressant. It seemed to help at...
    Kacey12206 Kacey12206 22-25, F Oct 10

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    Every form of relationship in life is dysfunctional and a wreck, I feel isolated and shunned, hated and mistreated. No more than a pest, but should it matter? I will write until I...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 11

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    With this disorder, relationships hurt. People frequently complain about being single, and how lonely they are; but with BPD, I hurt way more and am way more lonely in a...
    DanicaER DanicaER 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I am recently out of the "denial" that I have a disorder. I am consciously aware that the thought processes within my neurological wiring are malfunctioning. I have the behaviors...
    utteringartist87 utteringartist87 26-30 2 Responses Sep 29

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    So this is my first post on here and I don't really know what to say except that I took my diagnosis of BPD pretty hard, even though it made so much sense I couldn't help but...
    NeonMist NeonMist 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I have BPD and am in a serious live-in relationship. Things are rough, at best, mostly because of my own debilitating issues. Also, I feel so alone. How can you BE with someone...
    DanicaER DanicaER 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    With Borderline Personality Disorder, it is very hard to do much. recently i have been very good about going to the gym every day, but today not so much. it is also nearly...
    ana95j ana95j 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I see people so happy, with friends and a significant other. And then there's me. I'm so terrified I will spend my life alone. My loneliness is all thanks to my BPD. I just push...
    betelgeusex3 betelgeusex3 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 29

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    Hey Guys! I need some advice. My boyfriend of two years, has BPD traits. We met in college and it was a whirlwind of romance. Although, after some time together I began to notice...
    Nicoleashleyxo Nicoleashleyxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    It's fair to say my experience of growing up was rough: my mother had bipolar disorder, BPD and a few other things. At one point, our relationship got so bad (read: one or both of...
    EmThor EmThor 18-21, F Oct 6

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