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I Am a Bpd-relationship Survivor

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 47 People

    Hi. This post is more to do with me just

    writing down my feelings about a recent break-up with a BPD ex girlfriend, as I'm having a really bad day today. We had been dating (and living together on and off) for 2 years, and a month ago I decided to break it off with her. I loved this woman to bit and pieces, with...
    GoodThingsToCome GoodThingsToCome 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    I just had a break-up with my fiancé.

    We were engaged 6 months, and together total a year and 4 months. He went from "I love you so much. You don't understand. I'm so lucky to have a supportive woman in my life. I've never had that before. I want to go to the courthouse tomorrow and marry you. I can't wait." to less...
    Kimberlynico Kimberlynico 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 8, 2015

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    I am 33. I met a woman online

    and we talked as friends for 3 or 4 years without ever meeting. Even though she lived only 30 miles from me. She had been diagnosed with "bipolar" and was treated as so. One Christmas, she had started a medication and was feeling more social and really putting the heat on me to...
    bentsurvivor bentsurvivor 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

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    I Just Broke Up With My Bpd Boyfriend

    I just read supernovas story and I can fully relate,I met my ex 8 yrs ago, we fell in love quickly and deeply, well I did, he lead me to believe he felt the same, maybe he did I dont know,and Ive no energy left to figure it out.He told me his father beat his mother regularly,and...
    brokenkiwi brokenkiwi 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    I'm actually going through the same thing

    as u, the only difference is we have a child teacher and I got hooked back into him after 7mths of him trying to prove himself and wanting to work it out after he originally broken up with me. So he moved back in with me after moving out of his apartment. The first 8 months were...
    road2recovery road2recovery 36-40, F May 27, 2015

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    I look back and I am shocked at what I accepted

    in my life. The fun, charming guy I met was evil inside and hated women. With him, I felt insecure, ugly, scared, paralyzed, isolated, depressed - definitely NOT loved at protected and cherished. If you are dealing with this, please know you're not alone and it's not your...
    effinglovely effinglovely 31-35, F Feb 8, 2014

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    My BPD Ex-Boyfriend Wants Me Back After Breakup...For The 3rd Time.

    So, I have been trying to find a way to summarize this because it is such a long story. But I just don't know if that is possible without losing the essence. My ex-boyfriend has bpd. He hasn't been officially diagnosed but all the signs are there. He has a temper that is very...
    Supernova37 Supernova37 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Trauma And Questions Long After The BPD Is Gone

    I was in a relationship with my ‘soulmate’ for 2 years. We lived together and were deeply in love until I woke up one morning to find he had packed up his belongings and left me a ‘Dear John’ one sentence note. That was 1 ½ years ago. I recently learned about BPD and a...
    baffled7 baffled7 31-35, F Apr 25, 2013

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    I am currently dating (almost 2 years now) a man

    who suffers from BPD (Borderline personality disorder). Every month he has episodes of intense anxiety and depression due to this disorder. He copes with these episodes by binge drinking. When he binge drinks the most horrible incidents happen. Just a week ago was the worst...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    I can finally write about my experience with

    dating a borderline male well because I finally ended the toxic relationship. We only dated for a short time, 6 months to be exact, but when your referring to a relationship with a BPD partner thats too much time. Or should I say just enough time to allow you to be destroyed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 27, 2014

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    I Survived A Borderline Personality Relationship Break Up!

    I wanted to share that I survived a 4 year relationship with my BPD ex-girlfriend. During the break up I was experiencing so much emotional pain and after seeking help, I realized that my ex was a BPD woman. Everything started to make sense in my relationship, the walking on...
    toerrishuman toerrishuman 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    Through week 3 of no contact

    after a 5 year "relationship" with a BPD woman or whatever you want to call it. Things do slowly get better. Anyone out there in the same boat? Need inspiration to continue "no contact".
    flacobone flacobone 36-40, M 5 Responses May 19, 2014

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    A few days ago I posted how my head hurts and how I have to let ago of a relationship. Also to use it as an opportunity to reflect on my issues. So here goes. The thing that sucks...
    allinlove allinlove 26-30, F a week ago

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    I'm 31 my mum has bpd her words and actions suggest she hates me it's been this way since I can remember she says we have a love hate relationship mid 20s I told her I wanted to...
    Confused848 Confused848 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I'm seeing a psycologist I'm 31 the adult daughter of a bpd mother she refuses to get help.my relationship with her is so strained I can only show one emotion in front of her that...
    Confused848 Confused848 31-35, F Jan 31

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    I am being treated for depression, anxiety and panic attacks. Although I am certain that I have BPD (self observation, I haven't seen a professional as of yet) My mood is...
    EverlyLeex EverlyLeex 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I was from 1991 to 2008. We have 2 kids together. This best sums up the life in hell; what's it like? -Depending on the person, the first few days or years will be intense but...
    Onewithone Onewithone 46-50, M Jan 25

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    I feel alone a lot. Even though I have someone who loves me. Im afraid to hold on because everyone that I love has died, usually by committing suicide or because of me. Im in love...
    kayovele kayovele 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    And confused. My dad has been ignoring my mother due to a situation, and last night they were arguing from 9 to 12 in their room. I eavesdropped with my sister to check up on whats...
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