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I Am a Bpd-relationship Survivor

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 41 People

    Trauma And Questions Long After The BPD Is Gone

    I was in a relationship with my ‘soulmate’ for 2 years. We lived together and were deeply in love until I woke up one morning to find he had packed up his belongings and left me a ‘Dear John’ one sentence note. That was 1 ½ years ago. I recently learned about BPD and a...
    baffled7 baffled7 31-35, F Apr 25, 2013

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    I can finally write about my experience with

    dating a borderline male well because I finally ended the toxic relationship. We only dated for a short time, 6 months to be exact, but when your referring to a relationship with a BPD partner thats too much time. Or should I say just enough time to allow you to be destroyed...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 27, 2014

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    Through week 3 of no contact

    after a 5 year "relationship" with a BPD woman or whatever you want to call it. Things do slowly get better. Anyone out there in the same boat? Need inspiration to continue "no contact".
    flacobone flacobone 31-35, M 4 Responses May 19, 2014

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    I Survived A Borderline Personality Relationship Break Up!

    I wanted to share that I survived a 4 year relationship with my BPD ex-girlfriend. During the break up I was experiencing so much emotional pain and after seeking help, I realized that my ex was a BPD woman. Everything started to make sense in my relationship, the walking on...
    toerrishuman toerrishuman 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    I am 33. I met a woman online

    and we talked as friends for 3 or 4 years without ever meeting. Even though she lived only 30 miles from me. She had been diagnosed with "bipolar" and was treated as so. One Christmas, she had started a medication and was feeling more social and really putting the heat on me to...
    bentsurvivor bentsurvivor 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2014

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    I'm actually going through the same thing

    as u, the only difference is we have a child teacher and I got hooked back into him after 7mths of him trying to prove himself and wanting to work it out after he originally broken up with me. So he moved back in with me after moving out of his apartment. The first 8 months were...
    road2recovery road2recovery 31-35 May 27

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    I Just Broke Up With My Bpd Boyfriend

    I just read supernovas story and I can fully relate,I met my ex 8 yrs ago, we fell in love quickly and deeply, well I did, he lead me to believe he felt the same, maybe he did I dont know,and Ive no energy left to figure it out.He told me his father beat his mother regularly,and...
    brokenkiwi brokenkiwi 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    Hi. This post is more to do with me just

    writing down my feelings about a recent break-up with a BPD ex girlfriend, as I'm having a really bad day today. We had been dating (and living together on and off) for 2 years, and a month ago I decided to break it off with her. I loved this woman to bit and pieces, with...
    GoodThingsToCome GoodThingsToCome 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    I am currently dating (almost 2 years now) a man

    who suffers from BPD (Borderline personality disorder). Every month he has episodes of intense anxiety and depression due to this disorder. He copes with these episodes by binge drinking. When he binge drinks the most horrible incidents happen. Just a week ago was the worst...
    melissac2983 melissac2983 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    My BPD Ex-Boyfriend Wants Me Back After Breakup...For The 3rd Time.

    So, I have been trying to find a way to summarize this because it is such a long story. But I just don't know if that is possible without losing the essence. My ex-boyfriend has bpd. He hasn't been officially diagnosed but all the signs are there. He has a temper that is very...
    Supernova37 Supernova37 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    I look back and I am shocked at what I accepted

    in my life. The fun, charming guy I met was evil inside and hated women. With him, I felt insecure, ugly, scared, paralyzed, isolated, depressed - definitely NOT loved at protected and cherished. If you are dealing with this, please know you're not alone and it's not your...
    effinglovely effinglovely 31-35, F Feb 8, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    I got dumped 3 days ago. Diagnosed with bpd, which is why i keep failing at relationships. I have been screwing up at work and school, so I've dropped most of classes and shifts. I...
    Kelsiii Kelsiii 22-25, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    My mother and her family emotionally abused me until I was in my early twenties. Therefore I often feel worthless, like I was born a bad person, and that no one likes/cares about...
    OnyxOrOrion OnyxOrOrion 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    i hate everything about this stupid illness BPD.. because of this i have lost friendships made my mom look like a terrible person. it is making me live like the "little boy who...
    xxcaylaxx xxcaylaxx 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    yes, sure I did. he was kind, caring, and nurturing....but, that was before I knew I suffered from BPD, which caused me to be drawn to ppl i cannot have, outta some false fear of...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 13

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    The more research I do and have become self aware. I've starting seeing things falling into place. Like one huge major thing for me is I have always wondered why it is that I will...
    BeautifullySickkk BeautifullySickkk 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    I realize now that I possiblely have the beginning stages, or a minor to mild form of BPD. I have come to this conclusion, by reading my diary from years past. As a student...
    janedoe50 janedoe50 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I just went through one of the most trying two years of my life. I apologize beforehand, because this might get long. My long-term boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago and I...
    soraji soraji 26-30, F Aug 3

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    Another failed relationship. Thank u BPD and depression. I'm a wreck again. I just want to die.
    CrazyDaisyeee CrazyDaisyeee 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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