I Am a Cheater

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    I Am A Female Against Monogamy

    I feel as though the pressure to be faithful makes people miserable. It's why we have difficulty maintaining monogamous relationships. Think about it, there is no other relationship that you aren't allowed to have any other companions of the same kind. You can have multiple...
    confusedandupset confusedandupset
    26-30, F
    48 Responses Jan 28, 2013

    my cheating history is

    so long its overwhelming. ive been pretty good at keeping my secret garden intact but I know my partner does not share my views. he doesn't know. and ive been doing this.....about once a year, usually someone I all ready know or have grown close to, just one night of passion...
    canichange canichange
    31-35, F
    8 Responses May 18, 2014

    I always cheat on my relationships.

    Even if im in love with my partner if given the chance i do it.
    pinksteam pinksteam
    22-25, F
    32 Responses May 27, 2014

    I am a 16 year old girl

    and I am a cheater. I do recognize it's wrong. But I absolutely love it. I lasted almost 2 years with my last boyfriend, cheated on him with over 10 guys. I don't feel guilt. I don't know why I do it, to feel better about myself maybe, but I do know one thing, I enjoy it. Not...
    anatomicalheart anatomicalheart
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Mar 17, 2014

    End of the year recap part 2: So girl number 20

    came and went. Since it's almost the end of the year, I think I'll end it at that number. Happy 2016 y'all.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels
    36-40, M
    Dec 29, 2015

    After 6 years with my high school fling,

    it had Come to a point that I was lonely and needed more.. I worked as a waiter, a damn good one ;) and I'm very very open. It didn't take long for me, being the only guy working at the restaurant to work my way in close with the girls. I have done well for myself so i bought...
    Privategyuyhere Privategyuyhere
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 20, 2015

    I'm not, yet, but with the help of a helpful

    woman in the Baltimore area, I hope to be one soon!
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    I cheated everyone in ep.

    by posting in a girl im a lesbian like that.im so sorry. I done all this for making friendship with my online friend.I did more than 5-6 accounts here.if she not interesting to make friendship with me.its ok.i can understand.but I lover her like my friend.she was very good friend...
    sanasharif sanasharif
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 8, 2015

    I am married and cheated!

    It was quick and I hated myself as I was driving to him but after I fell completely inlove! He's 12 years younger and does not see me this way but he's is really trying to get to know me. I LOVE the attention! I can train him and be a teacher and lover and I love it! He makes me...
    AriesLover AriesLover
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    same house I have cheated on my BF with my

    daughters BF funny thing is we all live in the same house so its hard to hide the fact, although my daughter cheats as well not only on her BF with my BF but with other guys just recently we both cheated on our BFs with the same guy of course neither of our BFs know about it and...
    midschtch midschtch
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Dec 12, 2013

    Early on in my marriage I cheated on my husband.

    I've never told him and don't intend to but there are times I have a lot of guilt about it. And even in my guilt I look back and would have probably done it again given the circumstances, which is a horrible thing to say I know. But it is what it is and is a memory now.
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Dec 2, 2014

    I am currently dating a my best friend

    who I've literally know since I was 12. He's such a sweet mad. He thinks I'm so sweet, and pretty, and loyal. Little does he know that I sleep with my ex who've I've know for almost the same amount of time. My boyfriend is perfect in every way except he's not what I need in...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    Morning Gentlemen... I have a question.

    I am the Other woman to a married man. And as much as I "enjoy" him. I can't help but wonder. Why do men cheat? He's not unhappy in his life. He has a beautiful wife. A decent job. Amazing kids. He's a family man. His marriage isn't sexless. Why cheat? I'm not complaining, I...
    somebody999 somebody999
    31-35, F
    58 Responses May 29, 2014

    I am not a cheater myself,

    more so I can't seem to resist forbidden candy. If a taken girl or guy hits on me and wants to hookup, it's their issue if they're taken, not mine.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    My girlfriend and I have been together

    for 5 years. since junior year in HS...things have been rough. 2nd year in she hooked up with a random guy and I fought my hardest to get her back..then during the 4th year she found me texting on a dating app called OkCupid. She wanted nothing to do with me but I still fought...
    TheImAustin TheImAustin
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 24, 2016

    I have been married going on 2 years.

    We barely have sex. We did last week for the first time in 5 months! I have cheated on him once and feel the need/desire to cheat again. :(
    deleted deleted
    13 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    So I answered his messages

    and told him how I was feeling and this was his answer: "Well, ok. I thought this was a better to communicate as well. Texting, you seemed to forget about me and I would try and try and eventually you'd respond. I thought we had alot of potential, but if you're just not feeling...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015
    greywood21 greywood21
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    (Not in games)... I have been cheating on my

    husband for the past few month ... I always feared this would happen to me and ... It finally did. We have both been apart in the past year me in a country and him in a different country. We see each other every 3rd or 4th week a part. We both work alot... Me with my music and...
    rb47 rb47
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    "Meaning and morality of one's life come from

    within oneself. Healthy, strong individuals seek self-expansion by experimenting and by living dangerously. Life consists of an infinite number of possibilities and the healthy person explores as many of them as possible. Religions that teach pity, self-contempt, humility, self...
    BlueGreenGray BlueGreenGray
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Feb 15, 2016

    I try really hard, obviously not hard enough.

    I think it's the mystery, intensity, and the feeling of being a bit rebellious, is why I subconsciously do it. I've always been in a relationship, but I've always ended up fooling around with someone else. I don't get the attached feelings with the other person as I do with the...
    alrightsprite alrightsprite
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 11, 2014

    Controversial question: what's wrong with

    cheating? Isn't it possible to love your partner but not to want to possess them? Why should I deny my boyfriend the thrill of physical contact with another? I love him, so I want him to enjoy all that life has to offer. I know he loves me, so I don't feel insecure about his...
    Syngr23 Syngr23
    26-30, F
    15 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa
    26-30, F
    Oct 19, 2015

    Infidelity Doesn't Just Happen

    Contrary to what some people claim, infidelity doesn't just happen. It requires participation and a desire to carry it out. The first time I cheated I didn't start out to cheat but was also very aware of what I was doing. Nearly 15 years ago after having been married for two...
    Kissweeterthanwine Kissweeterthanwine
    41-45, F
    15 Responses Sep 29, 2013

    I have an amazing boyfriend

    who literally does everything he can to please me. I love him, in my sick way...but I don't do a very good job of showing it. I have been cheating on him for 3 years, with the same man. It is complicated (as these things usually are). I am not trying to justify what I have done...
    kashamed kashamed
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 23, 2016

    it turns me on alot (; i

    even cheated on her with my ex
    deleted deleted
    Nov 27, 2015

    well yeah my gf dont give me any attention

    or loving so i cheated on her an still am
    deleted deleted
    Nov 27, 2015

    So, this is an update

    for my last experience. It has been more than a week since I talk to him last time. I don't know how he did, but he managed to text me again several times. I didn't answer, but I've been tempted to do so. I'm confused, don't know if I should talk to him and explain that I can't...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    Just a little update,

    it's October and I'm up to 15 different women that I've cheated with this year. The latest was a girl in Frankfurt that I met on a business trip. She was working in the office that I was doing training in and as I was getting some coffee she struck up a conversation. I...
    dfwtravels dfwtravels
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Oct 18, 2015

    Interesting forum.. I,

    myself am a cheater. Not proud of this AT ALL and have only cheated with one other than my husband. - question for men?? Have you ever cheated on your current girlfriend with someone you can't be with in the "real world" for whatever reason, timing, she's in a relationship...
    artangel3200 artangel3200
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Feb 15, 2016

    Every morning I meet my faithful sweetheart.

    He's always waiting for me warm and welcoming. I embrace all that he offers me and depend on his support. Truly without him I would suffer just to make it through the day and if he were to ever abandon me, I would be lost. I remember the early days when I first met him, my...
    Sarbar96 Sarbar96
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Dec 20, 2013

    I Love The Adrenaline Rush

    Well I have been cheating since high school. At one time I had 7 boyfriends, that all believed they were my one and only. The funny thing is I never once got caught. It takes alot of thinking, coordination and planning to not get caught. You have to be on your toes 24/7...
    supergrrl supergrrl
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Dec 21, 2010

    I go through phases of faithfulness,

    but it's always too much for me to resist. It's never emotional, just sexual. I want an open marriage. I enjoy sex too much. I love being with women and other men. I don't want to hurt my husband, but I can't stop.
    Seeyounexttues Seeyounexttues
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Dec 12, 2015

    My Boyfriend Answered My Boyfriend's Skype Call

    It was bad. Really, really bad. I was on the phone with boyfriend A who demanded my skype password and since I thought boyfriend B was asleep I let him have it. As we're talking on the phone I suddenly hear the skype calling ring tone. Guess who?!? Before I knew what was going...
    paterpeccavi paterpeccavi
    22-25, F
    26 Responses Aug 26, 2013

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11 kimcc11
    26-30, F
    Sep 1, 2015

    I didn't think it would ever happen to me,

    but it did. I'm cheating, I'm having an affair!!!! And I don't regret it at all!!! I've been in this affair for a couple of months now. I met this amazing woman here on EP. When we got in contact with eachother it felt like coming home. There was an immediate connection...
    DutchMattiesaysgoodbyeEP DutchMattiesaysgoodbyeEP
    41-45, M
    9 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    I'll be cheating on my husband this weekend.

    He thinks I'm going out of town with a girlfriend but really I'll be with a guy I've been talking to. I'm already nervous,anxious and have knots in my stomach. I know this is wrong yet I still want to go through with it...
    NikkiBenz5 NikkiBenz5
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    End of the year recap: So this year I cheated

    on my wife with 19 different people. I have the 20th lined up for Monday. This by far has been my busiest year. I know I'll get a lot of **** for this post, but it's out there now.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels
    36-40, M
    9 Responses Dec 25, 2015

    Damn right i am, have been

    now since my ex bf went and current on came into my life, I cheat on him with other guys i meet at work usually or just neighbors. I love being able to do this without him knowing and im hoping someday my gd will take after her mom (who also cheats on her bf) and her g ma and...
    midschtch midschtch
    41-45, F
    15 Responses Mar 23, 2014

    Im a married woman and last Sunday I slept with

    my married BFF/FWB while his wife waited down in the car with his kids. We've been FWB since June/2014. Our spouses know of our infidelity but think we stopped in July. I'm good friends with his wife and he's good friends with my husband. We **** at least once a month, sometimes...
    AdulterousBBW AdulterousBBW
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Apr 16, 2015

    I was a cheater, I accepted my wife's terms

    and have never cheated again.
    CdKimmi CdKimmi
    66-70, M
    1 Response Jan 9, 2016

    Well it's done... I sent him a message.

    .. it said "Thank you for everything". I deleted and blocked him from everywhere. So there is no way we can communicate again. It wasn't easy, I'm gonna miss talking to him, but it's better this way. I'm trying to save me from the pain of a broken heart... Not doing this never...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 1, 2015

    I plan on cheating on my husband in a few weeks.

    ..yes I know it's wrong but I'm wanting advice on how to not be paranoid and to not worry...I know I'll feel guilty..please no judgement just advice would be great!!
    NikkiBenz5 NikkiBenz5
    31-35, F
    61 Responses Jun 4, 2015

    A Cheating

    I just recently cheated on my boyfriend. Again. For a long time, since two years, in fact, I've been with my boyfriend. During this 2 years we were a loving relationship, it is however from what i feel, going down hill now. The distance is just killing our love and it is...
    nicorley nicorley
    26-30, F
    13 Responses Dec 13, 2007

    I am married guy . age 28

    and I cheater bcz u hv affair with my best frd mom. she dammm hot and I normally book to call girls also
    kingofrcr kingofrcr
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016


    I stopped you know? for the first time i was faithful for four years straight and then ta da! I snapped! I first blamed it on my man, he doesnt satisfy me he doesnt have the stamina to keep up with me hes too old blah blah When i knew it all along....this is sadly a part of who...
    Unmasked Unmasked
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Apr 12, 2013

    there are just some curiosities of mine

    (nothing too taboo) that my wife won't do that I still explore. there for I have ways. it's nothing personal I love my wife. but sometimes I want to be choked, cut, whipped tied up. or be the one doing it. not the cutting.
    InsconpicuouslyExposed InsconpicuouslyExposed
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 14, 2016

    Well this year is starting slow.

    I've managed to cheat on my wife with only two people in two months. :-) Maybe 2016 will be kept to only 12 new people.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels
    36-40, M
    6 Responses Feb 16, 2016
    kpitup kpitup
    56-60, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2016

    I'm not 'normally' a cheater,

    but last Friday after work I was having a few drinks with friends, there was one guy there that I was seriously attracted to, once the pub closed we went back to his place, and we ended up having incredible s*x for a couple of hours! I haven't been able to stop thinking about...
    Coco181225 Coco181225
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    Cheating Can Be An End In Itself...

    A person can indeed cheat on their lover for no good reason. I have been in a relationship for several years.  My girlfriend is absolutely wonderful.  She is kind, loving, and empathetic.  She actually wants to get intimate more often than I do.  However...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster
    26-30, M
    40 Responses Aug 17, 2007

    I love to sleep with married men.

    I sleep with them for money, booze, or sometimes for free. I cheated on my husband (both of them) and am now widowed. I just can't get enough sex or booze. i will do anything for booze. I thought I found the perfect sugar daddy but turns out his wife can't be removed from...
    RobinStriker RobinStriker
    66-70, F
    6 Responses Oct 5, 2015

    Do Cheaters Love? Ode to My Muse.

    This has become a popular topic of late among my stories and friends, so here goes: I think that you can love someone and cheat on them.  "Here we go again," they think.  Allow me to explain first.  That being said, I agree that not all cheaters ...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster
    26-30, M
    45 Responses Aug 26, 2007

    When the relationship gets better,

    I get worse. My bf satisfies me in every way possible and I've never asked for more, which is why I cannot believe I am in this group right now writing about cheating on him. But all the constant arguments in the past have killed a part of my love for him. His arrogance and...
    april0132 april0132
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Nov 5, 2015
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