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I Am a Cheater

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    I cheat on my wife every year with a different

    woman but this time it's more like love i think we're in love I can't stop thinking of her and my wife makes me feel like ****
    HandsomGuy HandsomGuy 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 21

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    Early on in my marriage I cheated on my husband.

    I've never told him and don't intend to but there are times I have a lot of guilt about it. And even in my guilt I look back and would have probably done it again given the circumstances, which is a horrible thing to say I know. But it is what it is and is a memory now.
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 2

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    Every morning I meet my faithful sweetheart.

    He's always waiting for me warm and welcoming. I embrace all that he offers me and depend on his support. Truly without him I would suffer just to make it through the day and if he were to ever abandon me, I would be lost. I remember the early days when I first met him, my...
    Sarbar96 Sarbar96 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Morning Gentlemen... I have a question.

    I am the Other woman to a married man. And as much as I "enjoy" him. I can't help but wonder. Why do men cheat? He's not unhappy in his life. He has a beautiful wife. A decent job. Amazing kids. He's a family man. His marriage isn't sexless. Why cheat? I'm not complaining, I...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 78 Responses May 29

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    I absolutely can't get enough of him,

    my lover, my release, the reason I smile each day. It's been 3 weeks since our first incredible night together, and since then the attraction and need for each other has only grown more intense. Because I am still married, we have tried cooling things off and just spending time...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    I Love The Adrenaline Rush

    Well I have been cheating since high school. At one time I had 7 boyfriends, that all believed they were my one and only. The funny thing is I never once got caught. It takes alot of thinking, coordination and planning to not get caught. You have to be on your toes 24/7...
    supergrrl supergrrl 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    I always cheat on my relationships.

    Even if im in love with my partner if given the chance i do it.
    pinksteam pinksteam 18-21, F 38 Responses May 27

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    I can't hide it anymore .

    . I have been cheating on my bf with an older man .. Just physical part and its amazing .. I'm a horrible person
    Hellokittygirly Hellokittygirly 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    forders forders 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 4

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    my cheating history is

    so long its overwhelming. ive been pretty good at keeping my secret garden intact but I know my partner does not share my views. he doesn't know. and ive been doing this.....about once a year, usually someone I all ready know or have grown close to, just one night of passion...
    canichange canichange 31-35, F 9 Responses May 18

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    I try not to its just

    when my boyfriend at work or mad at me I get bored and text other boys. I do love my boyfriend I just cant stop he use to be a cheater too but he stop Its just hard for me to stop I do want to😩
    AlZhanaa AlZhanaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    same house I have cheated on my BF with my

    daughters BF funny thing is we all live in the same house so its hard to hide the fact, although my daughter cheats as well not only on her BF with my BF but with other guys just recently we both cheated on our BFs with the same guy of course neither of our BFs know about it and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 7 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Cheating Can Be An End In Itself...

    A person can indeed cheat on their lover for no good reason. I have been in a relationship for several years.  My girlfriend is absolutely wonderful.  She is kind, loving, and empathetic.  She actually wants to get intimate more often than I do.  However...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 40 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    Hubby wont give me sex

    so I have to have sex.
    shortandstacked shortandstacked 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    I am a 16 year old girl

    and I am a cheater. I do recognize it's wrong. But I absolutely love it. I lasted almost 2 years with my last boyfriend, cheated on him with over 10 guys. I don't feel guilt. I don't know why I do it, to feel better about myself maybe, but I do know one thing, I enjoy it. Not...
    anatomicalheart anatomicalheart 16-17, F 17 Responses Mar 17

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    I try really hard, obviously not hard enough.

    I think it's the mystery, intensity, and the feeling of being a bit rebellious, is why I subconsciously do it. I've always been in a relationship, but I've always ended up fooling around with someone else. I don't get the attached feelings with the other person as I do with the...
    alrightsprite alrightsprite 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 11

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    Infidelity Doesn't Just Happen

    Contrary to what some people claim, infidelity doesn't just happen. It requires participation and a desire to carry it out. The first time I cheated I didn't start out to cheat but was also very aware of what I was doing. Nearly 15 years ago after having been married for two...
    Kissweeterthanwine Kissweeterthanwine 41-45, F 16 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    I Am A Female Against Monogamy

    I feel as though the pressure to be faithful makes people miserable. It's why we have difficulty maintaining monogamous relationships. Think about it, there is no other relationship that you aren't allowed to have any other companions of the same kind. You can have multiple...
    confusedandupset confusedandupset 26-30, F 54 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    NormalTeenGirl NormalTeenGirl 13-15, F Oct 18

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    I have been loyal in many of my past

    relationships but once my boyfriend now cheated , over and over again , I am no longer 100% faithful nor do I trust him .. When we first started talking I was everything he could ask for and completely loyal but he took it for granted now cheating is so easy for me because he's...
    AfricanHazee AfricanHazee 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 25

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    Today

    Today i lost my virginity to someone else than my boyfriend. He knows, and i hate myself. I am the worst thing on the planet!. & im sorry
    BeautyIsPain20 BeautyIsPain20 18-21, F 21 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    A Cheating

    I just recently cheated on my boyfriend. Again. For a long time, since two years, in fact, I've been with my boyfriend. During this 2 years we were a loving relationship, it is however from what i feel, going down hill now. The distance is just killing our love and it is...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 15 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    So I had a bit of a fight with my lover last

    Friday, he was being an *** and got me upset, I was meant to be going out with my friend that night, but nearly backed out cos he'd upset me, but decided to still go and I'm so glad I did! Went to a local pub, really casual and a bit bogan but lots of fun, we sat on our own but...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    cassiecc11 cassiecc11 26-30, F Dec 4

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    Looks like it tubbie hips.

    ...I need all the I hate cheaters here tracked match too that and her schoolboys and others. .that he's not aware Most people who hate cheats......are A cheater keeps his mouth shut Rock it
    letsgo2234 letsgo2234 51-55, F 9 Responses Nov 23

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    I wasn't always a cheater

    but my last serious relationship really ****** me up. Once he read my diary I lose respect for him n that whoever came after him. I love sex , I love dating spontaneously but I can't say no ! When a guy asks me to be there girlfriend. It would be all good in the beginning but...
    cecegee1990 cecegee1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I never thought I would cheat.

    My partner kept switching from 'together without labels' to 'we're properly together' close mates stayed over after a few drinks. One fella continuously tried it on after 2 hours I gave in. Told my man, he's torn to pieces but doesn't want us to end? How do I make it up to him.
    LiveLongerIfYouLaugh LiveLongerIfYouLaugh 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    So confused and pissed off right now!

    So I've been f***ing my guy for a couple of months now, he knows how much I like him, but last week when we had a fight a went out with my girlfriend and ******* someone else. I told him about it, and at first he was all cool with it, said "it's ok, I'm glad you did, cos things...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I hate myself. I have been in a relationship

    with my boyfriend for a while now. He's amazing, sweet, funny, handsome, tall, everything I could have ever asked for and wanted. The other day, about a month ago I guess we were discussing this girl he knows, who's been married for five years and has two kids, and how their...
    qwernia qwernia 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 26

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    I'm not 'normally' a cheater,

    but last Friday after work I was having a few drinks with friends, there was one guy there that I was seriously attracted to, once the pub closed we went back to his place, and we ended up having incredible s*x for a couple of hours! I haven't been able to stop thinking about...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 21

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    Married for couple years,

    started off very sweet and very much love. However, last year has been different, a lot of fights, started not to get along. I did not want to have sex with him. I am not interested in him anymore. And started to go online random chats. And met with a nice guy. We are chatting...
    Aureus1 Aureus1 26-30, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have no problem cheating at all.

    . its like a huge turn on actually... I feel nothing when i do it... I think i do this because i love to put a mask... Love to **** people i don't even know
    Strippedaway Strippedaway 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 16

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    currently my wife is trying to catch me

    cheating. honestly I haven't thought, had time, or have some one to do so with... so she Googled me and found a old account for MeetMe (formally MyYearbook) so she asks me all nonchalant, "So why do you have a MeetMe account?" I told her it because I've had it fof a little...
    KingofHeartsMW KingofHeartsMW 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 18

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    Controversial question: what's wrong with

    cheating? Isn't it possible to love your partner but not to want to possess them? Why should I deny my boyfriend the thrill of physical contact with another? I love him, so I want him to enjoy all that life has to offer. I know he loves me, so I don't feel insecure about his...
    Syngr23 Syngr23 22-25, F 17 Responses Sep 28

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    Thrilling

    In high school I had a bad shoplifting problem. Each time I got away with it i became more bold. It wasn't so much to get free things as it was to feel that thrill. To know I could be caught, but I never was. Then I found my new fix. Casual sex. I can't think of a boyfriend I...
    charismaticenigma charismaticenigma 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I have a girlfriend and I love her,

    but I think I'm steps away from falling for a guy at my job. We are sort if involved in an emotional affair.
    BlackScorpionWidow BlackScorpionWidow 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    I was never a cheater,

    and since being cheated on never will. I just need help understanding how it is possible to do that to your partner, and if they are doing it too why even stay with them and or stoop to their level?
    achantal achantal 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 2

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    Hey guys so I am currently in a lot of trouble.

    I am very young but I have always been known to be very mature for my age. I only date older guys, I hang around older people, I have a very small circle of friends, and I don't engage in absolutely ANY drama. I'm also a very.. umm.. secretive person (yes, I think that's the...
    nurschik nurschik 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 19

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    I have been married for years

    but also have been cheating on him for years. with the same man
    hw2015 hw2015 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 25

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    An Open Letter to the Man Who Cheated On Me

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had cheated. Who had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    ?

    I stopped you know? for the first time i was faithful for four years straight and then ta da! I snapped! I first blamed it on my man, he doesnt satisfy me he doesnt have the stamina to keep up with me hes too old blah blah When i knew it all along....this is sadly a part of who...
    Unmasked Unmasked 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    Damn right i am, have been

    now since my ex bf went and current on came into my life, I cheat on him with other guys i meet at work usually or just neighbors. I love being able to do this without him knowing and im hoping someday my gd will take after her mom (who also cheats on her bf) and her g ma and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 23

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    Well, I did it again last night.

    Cheated on my wife. The allure is impossible to ignore. This one was a petite redhead. She had the softest skin and was sensitive. What was amazing is that every time she had an ****** she would squirt. I never have been with a woman who did that, but it was so erotic.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 29

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    Do Cheaters Love? Ode to My Muse.

    This has become a popular topic of late among my stories and friends, so here goes: I think that you can love someone and cheat on them.  "Here we go again," they think.  Allow me to explain first.  That being said, I agree that not all cheaters ...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 47 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    My Boyfriend Answered My Boyfriend's Skype Call

    It was bad. Really, really bad. I was on the phone with boyfriend A who demanded my skype password and since I thought boyfriend B was asleep I let him have it. As we're talking on the phone I suddenly hear the skype calling ring tone. Guess who?!? Before I knew what was going...
    paterpeccavi paterpeccavi 18-21, F 27 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Compulsive Cheaters..

    I am a cheater.  A Hands down, ingrained in my genes, pumping through my blood, drilled in my brain, taken over my body cheater.  I've researched countless articles about why people cheat and read countless cheater profiles.  There are those who cheat for revenge...
    theinbetween theinbetween 18-21 12 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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    I saw the episode if catfish ever.

    There was this guy he had a girlfriend and a kid and he was on a Internet dating site looking for "hook ups" and he found this person he fell in love with he leafy his girlfriend and child. For her When they met she turned out to be a guy He was not gay so he was upset, the guy...
    Forders2 Forders2 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 3

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    I cheated on my wife,

    got found out, reconcilled albeit still on cold terms, but I am not making much effort to mend back the relationship and make things back to normal. I however miss my lover who has since stop all communication with me for the final time since she got to know about the affair...
    valkilmer valkilmer 31-35, M 4 Responses Dec 1

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    If you have repeatedly cheated,

    or are the partner of a cheater and can't seem to forgive or break off the unhealthy relationship Look at the statistics. The chance of a successful relationship born of infidelity is not even one in 100. A marriage that starts in infidelity has no foundation. You go into it...
    darkenedsoul200 darkenedsoul200 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I have been married for about 3 years to the

    "perfect" guy, except that we live like flatmates now. He's not interested in me anymore, not to talk, no cuddling, no sex, nothing. I've told him I'm unhappy and I've told him why, suggested relationship counselling, more quality time together etc. He's just not interested in...
    masa2014 masa2014 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Don't Jude cheaters you don't know anything

    till you walk in their shoes and why they do it.
    yeaiknow yeaiknow 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 26

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