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I Am a Cheater

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    I hate the label cheater, but I did cheat. I've been in a long distance relationship for about 2 and a half years now. My bf is such a nice, smart and caring person. We are from...
    EricaL2013 EricaL2013 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    Cheated With My Doctor - I have been with my husband for 7 years, married for six. We have 3 children. My husband and I have had our ups and downs. He's been pretty good to me...
    Mujer82 Mujer82 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    i've been the other woman for as long as i can remember, never number one. i've hooked up with guys in every stage of a relationship. Single guys, guys who aren't exclusive, guys...
    marykatherine92 marykatherine92 22-25, F Dec 9, 2013

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    I Love The Adrenaline Rush - Well I have been cheating since high school. At one time I had 7 boyfriends, that all believed they were my one and only. The funny thing is I never...
    supergrrl supergrrl 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    What Have I Done! - Recently, I started getting really close to my best friends boyfriend and one night a few weeks ago he came over to my house because we just wanted to see each...
    makeitreal makeitreal 16-18, F 8 Responses Sep 22, 2007

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    Cheating On Abusive Husband - I can't make excuses I knew and know what im doing was wrong but I just feel like I want to punish my husband forever. I want him to feel helpless and...
    kssdjr kssdjr 22-25 7 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    I was with my boyfriend for about a year when things weren't so perfect anymore. Instead of focusing on trying to fix it, I started feeling helpless, and turned to a coworker as an...
    skairider235 skairider235 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    I am a 16 year old girl and I am a cheater. I do recognize it's wrong. But I absolutely love it. I lasted almost 2 years with my last boyfriend, cheated on him with over 10 guys. I...
    anatomicalheart anatomicalheart 16-17, F 13 Responses Mar 17

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    I have been in love for over 3 years now it may not sound like long but he means everything to me. We used to be so happy together and he treats me so well I don't deserve such an...
    lost0000001 lost0000001 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Cut Off Without Warning - i dont really have a story i wanna tell but i do have a question for everyone...can anyone give me a good reason why I shouldnt cheat after beeing in a...
    lickusilly lickusilly 51-55, M 2 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    Damn right i am, have been now since my ex bf went and current on came into my life, I cheat on him with other guys i meet at work usually or just neighbors. I love being able to...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    Once Upon A Time..... - I believed in fairy tales. Then you grow up and realize that life is not a fairy tale. I found that out the hard way. I started dating my husband when I...
    navybean navybean 46-50 2 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    Schmidt In New Girl - Anyone else here watching this show? They are doing a good job, as many shows do, of being funny about what is in reality a very sad, heart-wrenching thing...
    crunchymouse crunchymouse 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    Well actually let me be more candid. Been dating one girl since about sept of 2013 and everything was going good except I noticed a pattern with her. Now everytime we go out we...
    TiimoFatz TiimoFatz 31-35, M 6 Responses Feb 12

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    How I Became a Cheat. - I think it all started in High School. I was kinda dorky to begin with and I didn't have any girlfriends for a long time. Eventually I did manage to...
    velosapien velosapien 31-35, M 8 Responses Feb 1, 2008

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    same house I have cheated on my BF with my daughters BF funny thing is we all live in the same house so its hard to hide the fact, although my daughter cheats as well not only on...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 7 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Tempted by Love to Cheat - Loving two men was not in my plan To leave my husband and family for another man Which man will win and which one will lose? How could I ever choose? Do...
    dare2love dare2love 56-60, F 17 Responses Sep 21, 2010

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    ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. hes a sweet guy but a total **** up. im talking to a man twice my age and who may not have been interested in getting to know me...
    inthismomentwhore inthismomentwhore 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Do Cheaters Love? Ode to My Muse. - This has become a popular topic of late among my stories and friends, so here goes: I think that you can love someone and cheat on them. ...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 47 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    I Am A Female Against Monogamy - I feel as though the pressure to be faithful makes people miserable. It's why we have difficulty maintaining monogamous relationships. Think about...
    confusedandupset confusedandupset 26-30, F 56 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    I've been m@rried for 5 years (2 kids, 4 & 1 years old). I thought I was happy. Then one Saturday morning a old high school crush started chatting to me on Facebook. I didn't think...
    maendie maendie 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 30

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    I have been married for about 3 years to the "perfect" guy, except that we live like flatmates now. He's not interested in me anymore, not to talk, no cuddling, no sex, nothing. I...
    masa2014 masa2014 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    I have no problem cheating at all.. its like a huge turn on actually... I feel nothing when i do it... I think i do this because i love to put a mask... Love to **** people i don...
    Strippedaway Strippedaway 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I Am In A Relationship With An Old School Friend - When I agreed to met on old schoolmate for lunch, I didn't know what to expect. I had always had a "thing" for this man, even in...
    loplo loplo 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    For the record? I never cheated in my serious relationships. I did with someone else from Grad school. I understand why she did and dont judge. Both great people they later...
    FCyclone FCyclone 46-50, M Jan 9

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    Infidelity Doesn't Just Happen - Contrary to what some people claim, infidelity doesn't just happen. It requires participation and a desire to carry it out. The first time I...
    Kissweeterthanwine Kissweeterthanwine 36-40, F 15 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    I am cheating on my husband.... I met my friend about a year ago and there was a connection between us from the first meeting. I've reached out to him and he's responded. We haven...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Question For Cheaters - Cheaters often do not use condoms. I have heard many explanations for this both from my wife and from other people as well. Why do you want to risk your...
    Sigmamale Sigmamale 41-45, M 5 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    The Curse Of Cheating - okay so i was with my ex for two years, we used to fight a lot but loved(still do) each other a lot. one night, right before going to a club, we fought real...
    gaby2506 gaby2506 18-21 7 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    Every morning I meet my faithful sweetheart. He's always waiting for me warm and welcoming. I embrace all that he offers me and depend on his support. Truly without him I would...
    Sarbar96 Sarbar96 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Ok I admit it i cheated on a test! Their now that that's out if the why I fell better :)
    1LilLefty 1LilLefty 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    Meet The Cheater. - so .... I noticed there's a group with a title " I hate cheaters " and that made me think of myself ,not that I hated cheaters but being one is not that fun and...
    BloodOnLace BloodOnLace 18-21, F 34 Responses Mar 4, 2012

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    Day 1 for me: About to leave my family for the love of my life until I found out she has been with 3 other guys over the last 6 months alone!! The pain is like a knife to the...
    LostSoul235 LostSoul235 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Thrilling - In high school I had a bad shoplifting problem. Each time I got away with it i became more bold. It wasn't so much to get free things as it was to feel that thrill. To...
    charismaticenigma charismaticenigma 22-25, F 11 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    A Cheating - I just recently cheated on my boyfriend. Again. For a long time, since two years, in fact, I've been with my boyfriend. During this 2 years we were a loving...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 14 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    I am a cheater i always was i dont like being a cheater and i dont want to be but its just something i cant help i really dont want to be a cheater i dont want to be the reason why...
    moet16 moet16 16-17, F Dec 11, 2013

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    I'm a cheater. Not embarrassed by it either. Human beings are toys--just things to use. I could stop cheating any time I wanted, but I don't. Because it's exciting to have two...
    Stythe Stythe 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 27

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    I cheated on my girlfriend, but she forgave me
    SkateDutch SkateDutch 16-17, M Mar 20

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    No Self-Respect - Dating and relationships is about perspective,you might learn something....or read about people crying,ranting about how they have been wronged but my fav are the...
    Terrable1020 Terrable1020 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Cheating Can Be An End In Itself... - A person can indeed cheat on their lover for no good reason. I have been in a relationship for several years.  My girlfriend is...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 39 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    *Venting* I think I need to end this...what ever THIS is...with my friend. I'm feeling very upset right now. He hasn't returned my texts messages for two days now. I'm upset with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 22

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    My Boyfriend Answered My Boyfriend's Skype Call - It was bad. Really, really bad. I was on the phone with boyfriend A who demanded my skype password and since I thought boyfriend B...
    paterpeccavi paterpeccavi 18-21, F 34 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    ? - I stopped you know? for the first time i was faithful for four years straight and then ta da! I snapped! I first blamed it on my man, he doesnt satisfy me he doesnt have the...
    Unmasked Unmasked 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    An Open Letter to the Man Who Cheated On Me - T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    Today - Today i lost my virginity to someone else than my boyfriend. He knows, and i hate myself. I am the worst thing on the planet!. & im sorry
    BeautyIsPain20 BeautyIsPain20 18-21, F 23 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    I'M Addicted To Having Multiple Relationships - I have been in terrible , terrible relationships with people I have loved . Every person I have ever dated cheated on me or lied to...
    numbhappiness numbhappiness 16-17, F Oct 12, 2013

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    I Love Them Both. - I'm engaged to the love of my life. We're getting married in a little more than a month. He's awesome. He's gorgeous, the sex is incredible (even after 4 years...
    TwoMenOneHeart TwoMenOneHeart 31-35, F 9 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    Used To Cheat - I used to be a cheater. I used to think it was fun to use guys to get anything I wanted, not because I wanted things but because I got a rush from getting them to...
    Keers Keers 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    Cheating By Nature - i am with someone and i want to have an affiar with lovely woman !! see how honest i am i am living in the middle east whish will make it harder to meet any...
    DirtyMind DirtyMind 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 14, 2007

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