Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Am a Cheater

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,569 People

    I am a 16 year old girl

    and I am a cheater. I do recognize it's wrong. But I absolutely love it. I lasted almost 2 years with my last boyfriend, cheated on him with over 10 guys. I don't feel guilt. I don't know why I do it, to feel better about myself maybe, but I do know one thing, I enjoy it. Not...
    anatomicalheart anatomicalheart 18-21, F 17 Responses Mar 17, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When the relationship gets better,

    I get worse. My bf satisfies me in every way possible and I've never asked for more, which is why I cannot believe I am in this group right now writing about cheating on him. But all the constant arguments in the past have killed a part of my love for him. His arrogance and...
    april0132 april0132 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So, this is an update

    for my last experience. It has been more than a week since I talk to him last time. I don't know how he did, but he managed to text me again several times. I didn't answer, but I've been tempted to do so. I'm confused, don't know if I should talk to him and explain that I can't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    it turns me on alot (; i

    even cheated on her with my ex
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 27, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I didn't think it would ever happen to me,

    but it did. I'm cheating, I'm having an affair!!!! And I don't regret it at all!!! I've been in this affair for a couple of months now. I met this amazing woman here on EP. When we got in contact with eachother it felt like coming home. There was an immediate connection...
    DutchMattieOffLine DutchMattieOffLine 36-40, M 9 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Im a married woman and last Sunday I slept with

    my married BFF/FWB while his wife waited down in the car with his kids. We've been FWB since June/2014. Our spouses know of our infidelity but think we stopped in July. I'm good friends with his wife and he's good friends with my husband. We **** at least once a month, sometimes...
    AdulterousBBW AdulterousBBW 26-30, F 12 Responses Apr 16, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I try really hard, obviously not hard enough.

    I think it's the mystery, intensity, and the feeling of being a bit rebellious, is why I subconsciously do it. I've always been in a relationship, but I've always ended up fooling around with someone else. I don't get the attached feelings with the other person as I do with the...
    alrightsprite alrightsprite 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 11, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So I answered his messages

    and told him how I was feeling and this was his answer: "Well, ok. I thought this was a better to communicate as well. Texting, you seemed to forget about me and I would try and try and eventually you'd respond. I thought we had alot of potential, but if you're just not feeling...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 8, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm not 'normally' a cheater,

    but last Friday after work I was having a few drinks with friends, there was one guy there that I was seriously attracted to, once the pub closed we went back to his place, and we ended up having incredible s*x for a couple of hours! I haven't been able to stop thinking about...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A Cheating

    I just recently cheated on my boyfriend. Again. For a long time, since two years, in fact, I've been with my boyfriend. During this 2 years we were a loving relationship, it is however from what i feel, going down hill now. The distance is just killing our love and it is...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 13 Responses Dec 13, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I love to sleep with married men.

    I sleep with them for money, booze, or sometimes for free. I cheated on my husband (both of them) and am now widowed. I just can't get enough sex or booze. i will do anything for booze. I thought I found the perfect sugar daddy but turns out his wife can't be removed from...
    RobinStriker RobinStriker 61-65, F 8 Responses Oct 5, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Early on in my marriage I cheated on my husband.

    I've never told him and don't intend to but there are times I have a lot of guilt about it. And even in my guilt I look back and would have probably done it again given the circumstances, which is a horrible thing to say I know. But it is what it is and is a memory now.
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78 36-40, F 14 Responses Dec 2, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm not, yet, but with the help of a helpful

    woman in the Baltimore area, I hope to be one soon!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was a cheater, I accepted my wife's terms

    and have never cheated again.
    CdKimmi CdKimmi 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Morning Gentlemen... I have a question.

    I am the Other woman to a married man. And as much as I "enjoy" him. I can't help but wonder. Why do men cheat? He's not unhappy in his life. He has a beautiful wife. A decent job. Amazing kids. He's a family man. His marriage isn't sexless. Why cheat? I'm not complaining, I...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 69 Responses May 29, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Every morning I meet my faithful sweetheart.

    He's always waiting for me warm and welcoming. I embrace all that he offers me and depend on his support. Truly without him I would suffer just to make it through the day and if he were to ever abandon me, I would be lost. I remember the early days when I first met him, my...
    Sarbar96 Sarbar96 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 20, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I never really had a honest relationship,

    wow! that is hard to swallow....
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    same house I have cheated on my BF with my

    daughters BF funny thing is we all live in the same house so its hard to hide the fact, although my daughter cheats as well not only on her BF with my BF but with other guys just recently we both cheated on our BFs with the same guy of course neither of our BFs know about it and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 12, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Thrilling

    In high school I had a bad shoplifting problem. Each time I got away with it i became more bold. It wasn't so much to get free things as it was to feel that thrill. To know I could be caught, but I never was. Then I found my new fix. Casual sex. I can't think of a boyfriend I...
    charismaticenigma charismaticenigma 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 20, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    (Not in games)... I have been cheating on my

    husband for the past few month ... I always feared this would happen to me and ... It finally did. We have both been apart in the past year me in a country and him in a different country. We see each other every 3rd or 4th week a part. We both work alot... Me with my music and...
    rb47 rb47 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 4, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have been married going on 2 years.

    We barely have sex. We did last week for the first time in 5 months! I have cheated on him once and feel the need/desire to cheat again. :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    After 6 years with my high school fling,

    it had Come to a point that I was lonely and needed more.. I worked as a waiter, a damn good one ;) and I'm very very open. It didn't take long for me, being the only guy working at the restaurant to work my way in close with the girls. I have done well for myself so i bought...
    Privategyuyhere Privategyuyhere 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 20, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Cheating Can Be An End In Itself...

    A person can indeed cheat on their lover for no good reason. I have been in a relationship for several years.  My girlfriend is absolutely wonderful.  She is kind, loving, and empathetic.  She actually wants to get intimate more often than I do.  However...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 40 Responses Aug 17, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I go through phases of faithfulness,

    but it's always too much for me to resist. It's never emotional, just sexual. I want an open marriage. I enjoy sex too much. I love being with women and other men. I don't want to hurt my husband, but I can't stop.
    Seeyounexttues Seeyounexttues 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 12, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    End of the year recap part 2: So girl number 20

    came and went. Since it's almost the end of the year, I think I'll end it at that number. Happy 2016 y'all.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    my cheating history is

    so long its overwhelming. ive been pretty good at keeping my secret garden intact but I know my partner does not share my views. he doesn't know. and ive been doing this.....about once a year, usually someone I all ready know or have grown close to, just one night of passion...
    canichange canichange 31-35, F 9 Responses May 18, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Damn right i am, have been

    now since my ex bf went and current on came into my life, I cheat on him with other guys i meet at work usually or just neighbors. I love being able to do this without him knowing and im hoping someday my gd will take after her mom (who also cheats on her bf) and her g ma and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    ?

    I stopped you know? for the first time i was faithful for four years straight and then ta da! I snapped! I first blamed it on my man, he doesnt satisfy me he doesnt have the stamina to keep up with me hes too old blah blah When i knew it all along....this is sadly a part of who...
    Unmasked Unmasked 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 12, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    hello...i don't know

    where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback from others. i'm not sure why i need the feedback, but i just do. i've been married 9 years and have 3 AMAZING children...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    there are just some curiosities of mine

    (nothing too taboo) that my wife won't do that I still explore. there for I have ways. it's nothing personal I love my wife. but sometimes I want to be choked, cut, whipped tied up. or be the one doing it. not the cutting.
    InsconpicuouslyExposed InsconpicuouslyExposed 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am not a cheater myself,

    more so I can't seem to resist forbidden candy. If a taken girl or guy hits on me and wants to hookup, it's their issue if they're taken, not mine.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    End of the year recap: So this year I cheated

    on my wife with 19 different people. I have the 20th lined up for Monday. This by far has been my busiest year. I know I'll get a lot of **** for this post, but it's out there now.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 11 Responses Dec 25, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Boyfriend Answered My Boyfriend's Skype Call

    It was bad. Really, really bad. I was on the phone with boyfriend A who demanded my skype password and since I thought boyfriend B was asleep I let him have it. As we're talking on the phone I suddenly hear the skype calling ring tone. Guess who?!? Before I knew what was going...
    paterpeccavi paterpeccavi 22-25, F 26 Responses Aug 26, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am married and cheated!

    It was quick and I hated myself as I was driving to him but after I fell completely inlove! He's 12 years younger and does not see me this way but he's is really trying to get to know me. I LOVE the attention! I can train him and be a teacher and lover and I love it! He makes me...
    AriesLover AriesLover 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F Sep 1, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Infidelity Doesn't Just Happen

    Contrary to what some people claim, infidelity doesn't just happen. It requires participation and a desire to carry it out. The first time I cheated I didn't start out to cheat but was also very aware of what I was doing. Nearly 15 years ago after having been married for two...
    Kissweeterthanwine Kissweeterthanwine 41-45, F 15 Responses Sep 29, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Controversial question: what's wrong with

    cheating? Isn't it possible to love your partner but not to want to possess them? Why should I deny my boyfriend the thrill of physical contact with another? I love him, so I want him to enjoy all that life has to offer. I know he loves me, so I don't feel insecure about his...
    Syngr23 Syngr23 26-30, F 15 Responses Sep 28, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'll be cheating on my husband this weekend.

    He thinks I'm going out of town with a girlfriend but really I'll be with a guy I've been talking to. I'm already nervous,anxious and have knots in my stomach. I know this is wrong yet I still want to go through with it...
    NikkiBenz5 NikkiBenz5 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I wish there was a extremely fat girl

    who would let me cheat on them :(
    girlwithallsortsoffetishes girlwithallsortsoffetishes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    well yeah my gf dont give me any attention

    or loving so i cheated on her an still am
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 27, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Love The Adrenaline Rush

    Well I have been cheating since high school. At one time I had 7 boyfriends, that all believed they were my one and only. The funny thing is I never once got caught. It takes alot of thinking, coordination and planning to not get caught. You have to be on your toes 24/7...
    supergrrl supergrrl 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 21, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am currently dating a my best friend

    who I've literally know since I was 12. He's such a sweet mad. He thinks I'm so sweet, and pretty, and loyal. Little does he know that I sleep with my ex who've I've know for almost the same amount of time. My boyfriend is perfect in every way except he's not what I need in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Do Cheaters Love? Ode to My Muse.

    This has become a popular topic of late among my stories and friends, so here goes: I think that you can love someone and cheat on them.  "Here we go again," they think.  Allow me to explain first.  That being said, I agree that not all cheaters ...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 47 Responses Aug 26, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel
    greywood21 greywood21 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa 26-30, F Oct 19, 2015

    Your Response

    Cancel