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    I try really hard, obviously not hard enough.

    I think it's the mystery, intensity, and the feeling of being a bit rebellious, is why I subconsciously do it. I've always been in a relationship, but I've always ended up fooling around with someone else. I don't get the attached feelings with the other person as I do with the...
    alrightsprite alrightsprite 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    I cheated on my husband of 10years.

    We then separated and I was with the guy I cheated him with. After one year being with the other guy, I cheated on him. Am I a cheater, or I just can't be devoted to one person. Now my husband and I are trying to get back together. Would you trust your spouse who cheated on you...
    thatdorkygirl thatdorkygirl 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 23

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    My Boyfriend Answered My Boyfriend's Skype Call

    It was bad. Really, really bad. I was on the phone with boyfriend A who demanded my skype password and since I thought boyfriend B was asleep I let him have it. As we're talking on the phone I suddenly hear the skype calling ring tone. Guess who?!? Before I knew what was going...
    paterpeccavi paterpeccavi 22-25, F 26 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    Early on in my marriage I cheated on my husband.

    I've never told him and don't intend to but there are times I have a lot of guilt about it. And even in my guilt I look back and would have probably done it again given the circumstances, which is a horrible thing to say I know. But it is what it is and is a memory now.
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78 36-40, F 14 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I can't help but love cheating.

    Sometimes I feel like I've convinced myself I really love my boyfriend but he just can't satisfy me! I struggle to feel guilty too!
    DarlingN DarlingN 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I can't hide it anymore .

    . I have been cheating on my bf with an older man .. Just physical part and its amazing .. I'm a horrible person
    Hellokittygirly Hellokittygirly 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    Controversial question: what's wrong with

    cheating? Isn't it possible to love your partner but not to want to possess them? Why should I deny my boyfriend the thrill of physical contact with another? I love him, so I want him to enjoy all that life has to offer. I know he loves me, so I don't feel insecure about his...
    Syngr23 Syngr23 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I Am A Female Against Monogamy

    I feel as though the pressure to be faithful makes people miserable. It's why we have difficulty maintaining monogamous relationships. Think about it, there is no other relationship that you aren't allowed to have any other companions of the same kind. You can have multiple...
    confusedandupset confusedandupset 26-30, F 54 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    my cheating history is

    so long its overwhelming. ive been pretty good at keeping my secret garden intact but I know my partner does not share my views. he doesn't know. and ive been doing this.....about once a year, usually someone I all ready know or have grown close to, just one night of passion...
    canichange canichange 31-35, F 9 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I'll be cheating on my husband this weekend.

    He thinks I'm going out of town with a girlfriend but really I'll be with a guy I've been talking to. I'm already nervous,anxious and have knots in my stomach. I know this is wrong yet I still want to go through with it...
    NikkiBenz5 NikkiBenz5 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 15

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    So my husband has forced me to move

    and get rid of most of my friends so that he feels more secure in trying to work out our marriage, but nothing has changed. We're still struggling constantly and fighting... So i still have someone on the side.
    EmoCinderella94 EmoCinderella94 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    Do Cheaters Love? Ode to My Muse.

    This has become a popular topic of late among my stories and friends, so here goes: I think that you can love someone and cheat on them.  "Here we go again," they think.  Allow me to explain first.  That being said, I agree that not all cheaters ...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 47 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    I'm definitely a cheater.

    Every relationship I've been in I've been unfaithful. The thrill of being with someone new is incredible. No guilt or remorse here just love the passion
    throg00 throg00 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 22

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    Well, I was is Prague,

    Paris, and London last week and somehow managed to have sex with three different girls in each city. 2015 is turning into a very busy year.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 31

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    So it's August 2015 and I've already cheated on

    my wife with 10 different women. A couple of them I've seen more than once, the rest have been one night stands. I wonder if I'll ever grow out of this. Anytime a woman gives me that "look", I can't resist.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 6 Responses Aug 16

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    Every morning I meet my faithful sweetheart.

    He's always waiting for me warm and welcoming. I embrace all that he offers me and depend on his support. Truly without him I would suffer just to make it through the day and if he were to ever abandon me, I would be lost. I remember the early days when I first met him, my...
    Sarbar96 Sarbar96 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    did not plan it this way.

    my wife knows i am bi we both are was looking for a couple on craigs list but one guy caught my attention and have been meeting up with him almost four weeks now. just enjoying the secret meetings for now. really enjoying them.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 4

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    I started cheating in my second relationship

    because I knew I wasn't going to stay with that girl forever and was trying to find my next girl. I also found out that my first girlfriend had been cheating on me for the entirety of my relationship with her and that kind of messed with my head at the time. Anyway. At one...
    Eithstill Eithstill 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I am lost and I feel down,

    i meet my boyfriend almost 5 years ago in the USA, at that time I was an au pair and had a boyfriend back in my country, the things with him started to get really bad because the distance, I feel lonely and betray after 5 months of skipping. I went out and I met Andrew, he was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 26

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    ?

    I stopped you know? for the first time i was faithful for four years straight and then ta da! I snapped! I first blamed it on my man, he doesnt satisfy me he doesnt have the stamina to keep up with me hes too old blah blah When i knew it all along....this is sadly a part of who...
    Unmasked Unmasked 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    I always cheat on my relationships.

    Even if im in love with my partner if given the chance i do it.
    pinksteam pinksteam 22-25, F 33 Responses May 27, 2014

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    When I was a young girl I fell in love with a

    boy. I got so caught up that I gave into having sex with him. I didn't realize that one single action was going to mess up my whole life. I was 14 and he was 15. After getting back together from a break we had sex. That same night he called to break up with me. I cried for a...
    cottonblossom cottonblossom 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    Today makes the second time I cheated on my

    husband in less than a month, but this time I do feel guilty and I don't know why I feel so much worse this time than I did the last...
    EmoCinderella94 EmoCinderella94 18-21, F 6 Responses May 13

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    I am a 16 year old girl

    and I am a cheater. I do recognize it's wrong. But I absolutely love it. I lasted almost 2 years with my last boyfriend, cheated on him with over 10 guys. I don't feel guilt. I don't know why I do it, to feel better about myself maybe, but I do know one thing, I enjoy it. Not...
    anatomicalheart anatomicalheart 18-21, F 17 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    Cheating Can Be An End In Itself...

    A person can indeed cheat on their lover for no good reason. I have been in a relationship for several years.  My girlfriend is absolutely wonderful.  She is kind, loving, and empathetic.  She actually wants to get intimate more often than I do.  However...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 40 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    A Cheating

    I just recently cheated on my boyfriend. Again. For a long time, since two years, in fact, I've been with my boyfriend. During this 2 years we were a loving relationship, it is however from what i feel, going down hill now. The distance is just killing our love and it is...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 14 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    3 years ago, I used to not understand

    why people would betray their loved ones. I didn't understand why someone would cheat on their partner although the person is almost perfect - loyal, loving, understanding and etc. I was in an abusive relationship for 2 years and at that time cheating was not something that I...
    freesoul95 freesoul95 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 3

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    I have been with my wife over 10 years,

    I had a cyber relationship. The issue is it has only been a month and I have strong feelings for her... Long distance relationship, plus never met in person... She is also married, the issue neither one of us are happy with our partners... I have been trying to leave for years...
    heartstealing heartstealing 26-30 3 Responses Mar 4

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    An Open Letter to the Man Who Cheated On Me

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had cheated. Who had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    I have been married going on 2 years.

    We barely have sex. We did last week for the first time in 5 months! I have cheated on him once and feel the need/desire to cheat again. :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jun 2

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    Damn right i am, have been

    now since my ex bf went and current on came into my life, I cheat on him with other guys i meet at work usually or just neighbors. I love being able to do this without him knowing and im hoping someday my gd will take after her mom (who also cheats on her bf) and her g ma and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 12 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    Im a married woman and last Sunday I slept with

    my married BFF/FWB while his wife waited down in the car with his kids. We've been FWB since June/2014. Our spouses know of our infidelity but think we stopped in July. I'm good friends with his wife and he's good friends with my husband. We **** at least once a month, sometimes...
    AdulterousBBW AdulterousBBW 26-30, F 11 Responses Apr 16

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    Today

    Today i lost my virginity to someone else than my boyfriend. He knows, and i hate myself. I am the worst thing on the planet!. & im sorry
    BeautyIsPain20 BeautyIsPain20 18-21, F 19 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    Morning Gentlemen... I have a question.

    I am the Other woman to a married man. And as much as I "enjoy" him. I can't help but wonder. Why do men cheat? He's not unhappy in his life. He has a beautiful wife. A decent job. Amazing kids. He's a family man. His marriage isn't sexless. Why cheat? I'm not complaining, I...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 70 Responses May 29, 2014

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    Thrilling

    In high school I had a bad shoplifting problem. Each time I got away with it i became more bold. It wasn't so much to get free things as it was to feel that thrill. To know I could be caught, but I never was. Then I found my new fix. Casual sex. I can't think of a boyfriend I...
    charismaticenigma charismaticenigma 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Long story short. I met him

    when I was 16, I was young and wild and wanted to have a fun night. I had sex with him... And his best friend, my first multiple partner experience. We keep in contact and meet a few times and the three of us have lots of fun. I start to care for him and no longer want his...
    SocialJustice4Us SocialJustice4Us 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 10

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    Hello I cheated on my boyfriend of 3 years.

    He found out and of course, broke up with me.I hate myself so so much for doing this. I am very afraid and I know I have a problem. I am in a very dark place in my life and I'm afraid I won't get out of it. I also sent pictures of myself naked to my friend that I used to talk to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4

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    I'm absolutely addicted to cheating.

    I never want to get married because dating gives me the freedom I NEED. I'm currently in a relationship with a girl I've been with for 5 years. She lives 2 hours away from me and works/goes to school full-time. Whenever she does have time to spare, she spends it on me through a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I Love The Adrenaline Rush

    Well I have been cheating since high school. At one time I had 7 boyfriends, that all believed they were my one and only. The funny thing is I never once got caught. It takes alot of thinking, coordination and planning to not get caught. You have to be on your toes 24/7...
    supergrrl supergrrl 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    charljones charljones 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 24

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    I have been married going on 2 years in August.

    I cheated on my husband once about a year ago due to being unhappy with our sex life. I felt guilty and have never told him. Now I find myself wanting to cheat again. I have this man who I've grown fond of who will be visiting me. I keep going back and forth whether or not to go...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 27

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    I have no problem cheating at all.

    . its like a huge turn on actually... I feel nothing when i do it... I think i do this because i love to put a mask... Love to **** people i don't even know
    Strippedaway Strippedaway 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    I'm a serial cheater.

    I've cheated on my wife 20 times. I don't love any of the new girls I'm with. It's just a compulsion that I have. It's that thrill of feeling new skin, new scent, new hair, and new lips. I travel extensively so I always have new opportunities to cheat. Last week I was...
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 8 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    I am lost and I feel down,

    i meet my boyfriend almost 5 years ago in the USA, at that time I was an au pair and had a boyfriend back in my country, the things with him started to get really bad because the distance, I feel lonely and betray after 5 months of skipping. I went out and I met Andrew, he was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 26

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sarahcc11aa sarahcc11aa 26-30, F Jun 5

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    So, I met this guy throughout an online dating

    site. We both are married and we've been talking since November 2014. We text almost every day and we've met 5 times top since then. We haven't had sex yet, but we talk about it and we both want to do it. Problem is yesterday I asked him about what he feels for me and he said...
    SadCheater SadCheater 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago