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I Am a Cheater

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    I always cheat on my relationships.

    Even if im in love with my partner if given the chance i do it.
    pinksteam pinksteam 18-21, F 39 Responses May 27

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    An Open Letter to the Man Who Cheated On Me

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had cheated. Who had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    Thrilling

    In high school I had a bad shoplifting problem. Each time I got away with it i became more bold. It wasn't so much to get free things as it was to feel that thrill. To know I could be caught, but I never was. Then I found my new fix. Casual sex. I can't think of a boyfriend I...
    charismaticenigma charismaticenigma 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    Morning Gentlemen... I have a question.

    I am the Other woman to a married man. And as much as I "enjoy" him. I can't help but wonder. Why do men cheat? He's not unhappy in his life. He has a beautiful wife. A decent job. Amazing kids. He's a family man. His marriage isn't sexless. Why cheat? I'm not complaining, I...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 81 Responses May 29

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    I was with my boyfriend

    for about a year when things weren't so perfect anymore. Instead of focusing on trying to fix it, I started feeling helpless, and turned to a coworker as an escape. I started seeing him more and more... Ended up sleeping with him multiple times, after my boyfriend realized we...
    skairider235 skairider235 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    I can't hide it anymore .

    . I have been cheating on my bf with an older man .. Just physical part and its amazing .. I'm a horrible person
    Hellokittygirly Hellokittygirly 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    I broke up with my ex-boyfriend

    for another guy but I didn't tell him the true reason. Now I am just stringing him along because I can't deal with losing him. I realise it's wrong and I need to stop but I don't know how!! He was my boyfriend and my best friend who knows everything about me. Losing him would...
    april0132 april0132 26-30, F Apr 24

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    Guess So.... But with one special thing; my

    guy always knows about it. I've never hid that part of me from him.... I was your average one-night-stand T-Girl when I first came into being, then me and my man got together. He was ok with me with some of his friends from time to time but nothing else.... Anyways, about 5...
    TVCassandraSlut TVCassandraSlut 26-30, T Feb 2

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    A Cheating

    I just recently cheated on my boyfriend. Again. For a long time, since two years, in fact, I've been with my boyfriend. During this 2 years we were a loving relationship, it is however from what i feel, going down hill now. The distance is just killing our love and it is...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 17 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    same house I have cheated on my BF with my

    daughters BF funny thing is we all live in the same house so its hard to hide the fact, although my daughter cheats as well not only on her BF with my BF but with other guys just recently we both cheated on our BFs with the same guy of course neither of our BFs know about it and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 7 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Tempted by Love to Cheat

    Loving two men was not in my plan To leave my husband and family for another man Which man will win and which one will lose? How could I ever choose? Do I choose by the number of years? Thinking about it brings me to tears Living as an impostor pretending life is good. Not being...
    dare2love dare2love 56-60, F 17 Responses Sep 21, 2010

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    Hello Gentlemen, I am the Other Woman to a

    Married Man. And I have a question to ask all of you. Do you feel guilty? My man has never shown me that he feels guilty about seeing me. But I always wondered if he does. Would love to know your perspective. Thanks
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 22

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    Day 1 for me: About to leave my family

    for the love of my life until I found out she has been with 3 other guys over the last 6 months alone!! The pain is like a knife to the heart. I became a liar and cheat, I am far worse off emotionally for having known her. I am searching for the strength not to rush back and...
    LostSoul235 LostSoul235 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Today

    Today i lost my virginity to someone else than my boyfriend. He knows, and i hate myself. I am the worst thing on the planet!. & im sorry
    BeautyIsPain20 BeautyIsPain20 18-21, F 22 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    So Unfaithful

    I've never been faithful to any man. I truly love my husband, but I let my sexual desires completely control me. I am very aware of the consequences if he ever found out about my many infidelities. I don't like the person I am. However, I continuously have sex with other men.
    Zig8Zag Zig8Zag 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    I cannot remember the last time I was in a

    monogamous relationship, and I've been married for 6 years.
    theworkingdead theworkingdead 41-45, M 3 Responses May 28

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    I cheated on my husband,

    then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an emotionally abusive person. I was extremely depressed, and stressed, and didn't know yet that it was because of my husband. I...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I have no problem cheating at all.

    . its like a huge turn on actually... I feel nothing when i do it... I think i do this because i love to put a mask... Love to **** people i don't even know
    Strippedaway Strippedaway 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I try really hard, obviously not hard enough.

    I think it's the mystery, intensity, and the feeling of being a bit rebellious, is why I subconsciously do it. I've always been in a relationship, but I've always ended up fooling around with someone else. I don't get the attached feelings with the other person as I do with the...
    alrightsprite alrightsprite 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    I have been married for about 3 years to the

    "perfect" guy, except that we live like flatmates now. He's not interested in me anymore, not to talk, no cuddling, no sex, nothing. I've told him I'm unhappy and I've told him why, suggested relationship counselling, more quality time together etc. He's just not interested in...
    masa2014 masa2014 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 31

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    Cheated With My Doctor

    I have been with my husband for 7 years, married for six. We have 3 children. My husband and I have had our ups and downs. He's been pretty good to me for a while now. I was just getting bored with my routine, driving around in a mini-van, all that. I know I'm an attractive...
    Mujer82 Mujer82 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    I Am A Female Against Monogamy

    I feel as though the pressure to be faithful makes people miserable. It's why we have difficulty maintaining monogamous relationships. Think about it, there is no other relationship that you aren't allowed to have any other companions of the same kind. You can have multiple...
    confusedandupset confusedandupset 26-30, F 54 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Answered My Boyfriend's Skype Call

    It was bad. Really, really bad. I was on the phone with boyfriend A who demanded my skype password and since I thought boyfriend B was asleep I let him have it. As we're talking on the phone I suddenly hear the skype calling ring tone. Guess who?!? Before I knew what was going...
    paterpeccavi paterpeccavi 18-21, F 30 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    I try not to its just

    when my boyfriend at work or mad at me I get bored and text other boys. I do love my boyfriend I just cant stop he use to be a cheater too but he stop Its just hard for me to stop I do want to😩
    AlZhanaa AlZhanaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I've been m@rried for 5 years (2 kids,

    4 & 1 years old). I thought I was happy. Then one Saturday morning a old high school crush started chatting to me on Facebook. I didn't think anything of it at the time. It was just chit chat.. Then it he started saying things like 'he shouldn't have let me go', 'he m@rried the...
    maendie maendie 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 30

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    Do Cheaters Love? Ode to My Muse.

    This has become a popular topic of late among my stories and friends, so here goes: I think that you can love someone and cheat on them.  "Here we go again," they think.  Allow me to explain first.  That being said, I agree that not all cheaters ...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 47 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    Infidelity Doesn't Just Happen

    Contrary to what some people claim, infidelity doesn't just happen. It requires participation and a desire to carry it out. The first time I cheated I didn't start out to cheat but was also very aware of what I was doing. Nearly 15 years ago after having been married for two...
    Kissweeterthanwine Kissweeterthanwine 41-45, F 16 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Ok I admit it i cheated on a test!

    Their now that that's out if the why I fell better :)
    1LilLefty 1LilLefty 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Well actually let me be more candid.

    Been dating one girl since about sept of 2013 and everything was going good except I noticed a pattern with her. Now everytime we go out we would have a great time and when we would talk on the phone it would be hours of riveting conversation however I always AND I MEAN ALWAYS...
    TiimoFatz TiimoFatz 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 12

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    Damn right i am, have been

    now since my ex bf went and current on came into my life, I cheat on him with other guys i meet at work usually or just neighbors. I love being able to do this without him knowing and im hoping someday my gd will take after her mom (who also cheats on her bf) and her g ma and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    So I met this guy and we instantly fell in love.

    It was like love at first sight. But I have trust issues, pride issues, and self-esteem issues so I usually **** up **** when it gets good. So his friends are trying their best to break us up because they want to sleep with me or something. He went on a vacation out of state and...
    hatemyselfandrelationships hatemyselfandrelationships 18-21, F Jul 7

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    Cheating By Nature

    i am with someone and i want to have an affiar with lovely woman !! see how honest i am i am living in the middle east whish will make it harder to meet any member from here :) but i will keep waiting for a lovely woman to visit my country and then we can cheat and enjoy...
    DirtyMind DirtyMind 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 14, 2007

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    I'm not actually a cheater.

    I just want to know why you cheat? Ladies only please.
    Blake00048 Blake00048 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I cheated on my girlfriend,

    but she forgave me
    SkateDutch SkateDutch 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    Used To Cheat

    I used to be a cheater. I used to think it was fun to use guys to get anything I wanted, not because I wanted things but because I got a rush from getting them to do it. I always have had this deep depression, where I felt like nothing was enough. I needed to have everyone love...
    Keers Keers 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    I am a 16 year old girl

    and I am a cheater. I do recognize it's wrong. But I absolutely love it. I lasted almost 2 years with my last boyfriend, cheated on him with over 10 guys. I don't feel guilt. I don't know why I do it, to feel better about myself maybe, but I do know one thing, I enjoy it. Not...
    anatomicalheart anatomicalheart 16-17, F 14 Responses Mar 17

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    I'M Addicted To Having Multiple Relationships

    I have been in terrible , terrible relationships with people I have loved . Every person I have ever dated cheated on me or lied to me in some way. After the last relationship, in which a person who I had literally given up EVERYTHING to be with left me, I decided I was done with...
    numbhappiness numbhappiness 16-17, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Every morning I meet my faithful sweetheart.

    He's always waiting for me warm and welcoming. I embrace all that he offers me and depend on his support. Truly without him I would suffer just to make it through the day and if he were to ever abandon me, I would be lost. I remember the early days when I first met him, my...
    Sarbar96 Sarbar96 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Cheating Can Be An End In Itself...

    A person can indeed cheat on their lover for no good reason. I have been in a relationship for several years.  My girlfriend is absolutely wonderful.  She is kind, loving, and empathetic.  She actually wants to get intimate more often than I do.  However...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 39 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    ?

    I stopped you know? for the first time i was faithful for four years straight and then ta da! I snapped! I first blamed it on my man, he doesnt satisfy me he doesnt have the stamina to keep up with me hes too old blah blah When i knew it all along....this is sadly a part of who...
    Unmasked Unmasked 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    You really know your life's ****** up

    when your husband comes in at 3am from a night out with the boys (he never agreed it with you so you're annoyed) and then says he went to the place your AP (who knows exactly who huband is) works and the guys were so nice to him... I swear I'm too young for a heart attack!!!
    masa2014 masa2014 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    ive been with my boyfriend

    for almost 5 years. hes a sweet guy but a total **** up. im talking to a man twice my age and who may not have been interested in getting to know me outside of my pants but i didn't care. its gotten sexual and he's kinda starting to like me and i kinda like him too. i'm not a...
    inthismomentwhore inthismomentwhore 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I Love The Adrenaline Rush

    Well I have been cheating since high school. At one time I had 7 boyfriends, that all believed they were my one and only. The funny thing is I never once got caught. It takes alot of thinking, coordination and planning to not get caught. You have to be on your toes 24/7...
    supergrrl supergrrl 18-21, F 13 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    I'm a cheater. Not embarrassed by it either.

    Human beings are toys--just things to use. I could stop cheating any time I wanted, but I don't. Because it's exciting to have two different people, sometimes more, biting your bait at the same time. The best thing is to keep your original partner and dispose the other one like...
    Stythe Stythe 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I'm in a long relationship with someone

    who is one of the best men in the world. But our relationship is not going anywhere with no future promises. . I love him & he loves me but that's all.. I started to know this guy , we studied in the same college but we never been friends before.. he is treating me as a sister...
    TurningPage2013 TurningPage2013 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 19

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    *Venting* I think I need to end this.

    ..what ever THIS is...with my friend. I'm feeling very upset right now. He hasn't returned my texts messages for two days now. I'm upset with him for this and I am worried about him. The last time he did this everything was ok but I really and truly hate to worry about those I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 22

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    my cheating history is

    so long its overwhelming. ive been pretty good at keeping my secret garden intact but I know my partner does not share my views. he doesn't know. and ive been doing this.....about once a year, usually someone I all ready know or have grown close to, just one night of passion...
    canichange canichange 31-35, F 6 Responses May 18

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    It's like as soon as I start a relationship

    with a woman, I immediately try to cheat on her. It's so fun and exciting. Every time I'm having sex with one woman I fantasize about the other. I'm a sociopath so I really don't care about their feelings. I was with this one girl who was a 24yo virgin. I took her virginity and...
    seasonedspy seasonedspy 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 27

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    I've never cheated on my wife,

    well, not with another person. But having a secret account here, talking and sharing secrets with strangers do make me one. Wouldn't be here if I didn't like it, though!
    Longand Longand 46-50, M 2 Responses May 28

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