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I Am a Cheater

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    teasemenow teasemenow 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I can't hide it anymore .

    . I have been cheating on my bf with an older man .. Just physical part and its amazing .. I'm a horrible person
    Hellokittygirly Hellokittygirly 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    Controversial question: what's wrong with

    cheating? Isn't it possible to love your partner but not to want to possess them? Why should I deny my boyfriend the thrill of physical contact with another? I love him, so I want him to enjoy all that life has to offer. I know he loves me, so I don't feel insecure about his...
    Syngr23 Syngr23 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    canuckrider canuckrider 46-50, F Mar 2

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    Every morning I meet my faithful sweetheart.

    He's always waiting for me warm and welcoming. I embrace all that he offers me and depend on his support. Truly without him I would suffer just to make it through the day and if he were to ever abandon me, I would be lost. I remember the early days when I first met him, my...
    Sarbar96 Sarbar96 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I'm a serial cheater

    and I don't feel bad about it. I use protection and stay safe. Anyone else like me?
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 8 Responses Feb 7

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    Damn right i am, have been

    now since my ex bf went and current on came into my life, I cheat on him with other guys i meet at work usually or just neighbors. I love being able to do this without him knowing and im hoping someday my gd will take after her mom (who also cheats on her bf) and her g ma and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 13 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    I'll be cheating on my husband this weekend.

    He thinks I'm going out of town with a girlfriend but really I'll be with a guy I've been talking to. I'm already nervous,anxious and have knots in my stomach. I know this is wrong yet I still want to go through with it...
    NikkiBenz5 NikkiBenz5 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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    I have been married going on 2 years.

    We barely have sex. We did last week for the first time in 5 months! I have cheated on him once and feel the need/desire to cheat again. :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Jun 2

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    I am lost and I feel down,

    i meet my boyfriend almost 5 years ago in the USA, at that time I was an au pair and had a boyfriend back in my country, the things with him started to get really bad because the distance, I feel lonely and betray after 5 months of skipping. I went out and I met Andrew, he was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 26

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    Hello I cheated on my boyfriend of 3 years.

    He found out and of course, broke up with me.I hate myself so so much for doing this. I am very afraid and I know I have a problem. I am in a very dark place in my life and I'm afraid I won't get out of it. I also sent pictures of myself naked to my friend that I used to talk to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 4

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    Well, I was is Prague,

    Paris, and London last week and somehow managed to have sex with three different girls in each city. 2015 is turning into a very busy year.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    my cheating history is

    so long its overwhelming. ive been pretty good at keeping my secret garden intact but I know my partner does not share my views. he doesn't know. and ive been doing this.....about once a year, usually someone I all ready know or have grown close to, just one night of passion...
    canichange canichange 31-35, F 9 Responses May 18, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sarahcc11aa sarahcc11aa 26-30, F Jun 5

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    I'm with my wife for 10 years but sex is not

    good...but outside sex is super how I can help?
    joex2 joex2 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    But not exactly. I've never cheated on a girl I

    was in a relationship with. But I have had sex with married women, a friend's girlfriend, a cousins girlfriend and just other girls in relationships. Not sure why I like unavailable women so much. Maybe it's the thrill or knowing she wants me so bad that she'd cheat on somebody...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 25

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    I try really hard, obviously not hard enough.

    I think it's the mystery, intensity, and the feeling of being a bit rebellious, is why I subconsciously do it. I've always been in a relationship, but I've always ended up fooling around with someone else. I don't get the attached feelings with the other person as I do with the...
    alrightsprite alrightsprite 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    Now me and hubby have separated.

    All for the best and no bad terms, it's been coming a long time, not just cos of all this. I'm relieved and ready to move on with my life. I met 20 y/o M a few weeks ago, I am 28, and at first it was just meant to be a night of fun, but in the past few weeks we've been spending...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    Thrilling

    In high school I had a bad shoplifting problem. Each time I got away with it i became more bold. It wasn't so much to get free things as it was to feel that thrill. To know I could be caught, but I never was. Then I found my new fix. Casual sex. I can't think of a boyfriend I...
    charismaticenigma charismaticenigma 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I made a terrible mistake

    and cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years a weekend ago. I was incredibly drunk and he was actually at the place it happened passed out drunk. I know this story already sounds horrible, and it is so terrible that i am so ashamed, but there is more to it. In the last year I had two...
    unknown0605 unknown0605 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Im a married woman and last Sunday I slept with

    my married BFF/FWB while his wife waited down in the car with his kids. We've been FWB since June/2014. Our spouses know of our infidelity but think we stopped in July. I'm good friends with his wife and he's good friends with my husband. We **** at least once a month, sometimes...
    AdulterousBBW AdulterousBBW 26-30, F 12 Responses Apr 16

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    I'm a serial cheater.

    I've cheated on my wife 20 times. I don't love any of the new girls I'm with. It's just a compulsion that I have. It's that thrill of feeling new skin, new scent, new hair, and new lips. I travel extensively so I always have new opportunities to cheat. Last week I was...
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 9 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    I always cheat on my relationships.

    Even if im in love with my partner if given the chance i do it.
    pinksteam pinksteam 22-25, F 34 Responses May 27, 2014

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    I have the perfect girl

    and I still want to cheat.
    Sanonymous1 Sanonymous1 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 1

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    I'm absolutely addicted to cheating.

    I never want to get married because dating gives me the freedom I NEED. I'm currently in a relationship with a girl I've been with for 5 years. She lives 2 hours away from me and works/goes to school full-time. Whenever she does have time to spare, she spends it on me through a...
    junkiri junkiri 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am a 16 year old girl

    and I am a cheater. I do recognize it's wrong. But I absolutely love it. I lasted almost 2 years with my last boyfriend, cheated on him with over 10 guys. I don't feel guilt. I don't know why I do it, to feel better about myself maybe, but I do know one thing, I enjoy it. Not...
    anatomicalheart anatomicalheart 18-21, F 17 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    i emotionally and online cheat

    and in my past physically cheated i have a problem with commitment and lust sex addiction etc I didn't want to admit it at first but that is very much so who I am
    UniversalVisions UniversalVisions 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    same house I have cheated on my BF with my

    daughters BF funny thing is we all live in the same house so its hard to hide the fact, although my daughter cheats as well not only on her BF with my BF but with other guys just recently we both cheated on our BFs with the same guy of course neither of our BFs know about it and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    An Open Letter to the Man Who Cheated On Me

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had cheated. Who had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    Trevor was a genuine sweetheart.

    He was the first kid who actually took me out on dates and pulled out my chair. I was so happy with him, then one day it all changed. My ex, Danny, messaged me on facebook. I contemplated on what to do. He broke my heart and honestly, I wanted to hear an apology. I deserved an...
    coolestdweebyahknow coolestdweebyahknow 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 11

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    Today makes the second time I cheated on my

    husband in less than a month, but this time I do feel guilty and I don't know why I feel so much worse this time than I did the last...
    EmoCinderella94 EmoCinderella94 18-21, F 5 Responses May 13

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    What is cheating? Can innocent flirting be

    considered cheating, hanging out with other guys/girls and convering it up. What is cheating?
    PrincessMarina PrincessMarina 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I have been married going on 2 years in August.

    I cheated on my husband once about a year ago due to being unhappy with our sex life. I felt guilty and have never told him. Now I find myself wanting to cheat again. I have this man who I've grown fond of who will be visiting me. I keep going back and forth whether or not to go...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses May 27

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    I cant help it. I dont

    even kno if I feel guilty. but I find so much pleasure in the fact of just knowing its wrong nd the consequences for getting caught.
    APL666 APL666 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 19

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    I Love The Adrenaline Rush

    Well I have been cheating since high school. At one time I had 7 boyfriends, that all believed they were my one and only. The funny thing is I never once got caught. It takes alot of thinking, coordination and planning to not get caught. You have to be on your toes 24/7...
    supergrrl supergrrl 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Married for couple years,

    started off very sweet and very much love. However, last year has been different, a lot of fights, started not to get along. I did not want to have sex with him. I am not interested in him anymore. And started to go online random chats. And met with a nice guy. We are chatting...
    Aureus1 Aureus1 26-30, F 12 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    When I was a young girl I fell in love with a

    boy. I got so caught up that I gave into having sex with him. I didn't realize that one single action was going to mess up my whole life. I was 14 and he was 15. After getting back together from a break we had sex. That same night he called to break up with me. I cried for a...
    cottonblossom cottonblossom 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    ?

    I stopped you know? for the first time i was faithful for four years straight and then ta da! I snapped! I first blamed it on my man, he doesnt satisfy me he doesnt have the stamina to keep up with me hes too old blah blah When i knew it all along....this is sadly a part of who...
    Unmasked Unmasked 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    Infidelity Doesn't Just Happen

    Contrary to what some people claim, infidelity doesn't just happen. It requires participation and a desire to carry it out. The first time I cheated I didn't start out to cheat but was also very aware of what I was doing. Nearly 15 years ago after having been married for two...
    Kissweeterthanwine Kissweeterthanwine 41-45, F 16 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    A Cheating

    I just recently cheated on my boyfriend. Again. For a long time, since two years, in fact, I've been with my boyfriend. During this 2 years we were a loving relationship, it is however from what i feel, going down hill now. The distance is just killing our love and it is...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 14 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    Cheating Can Be An End In Itself...

    A person can indeed cheat on their lover for no good reason. I have been in a relationship for several years.  My girlfriend is absolutely wonderful.  She is kind, loving, and empathetic.  She actually wants to get intimate more often than I do.  However...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 40 Responses Aug 17, 2007

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    Today

    Today i lost my virginity to someone else than my boyfriend. He knows, and i hate myself. I am the worst thing on the planet!. & im sorry
    BeautyIsPain20 BeautyIsPain20 18-21, F 19 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    Do Cheaters Love? Ode to My Muse.

    This has become a popular topic of late among my stories and friends, so here goes: I think that you can love someone and cheat on them.  "Here we go again," they think.  Allow me to explain first.  That being said, I agree that not all cheaters ...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 47 Responses Aug 26, 2007

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    I have been with my wife over 10 years,

    I had a cyber relationship. The issue is it has only been a month and I have strong feelings for her... Long distance relationship, plus never met in person... She is also married, the issue neither one of us are happy with our partners... I have been trying to leave for years...
    heartstealing heartstealing 26-30 1 Response Mar 4

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    Morning Gentlemen... I have a question.

    I am the Other woman to a married man. And as much as I "enjoy" him. I can't help but wonder. Why do men cheat? He's not unhappy in his life. He has a beautiful wife. A decent job. Amazing kids. He's a family man. His marriage isn't sexless. Why cheat? I'm not complaining, I...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 74 Responses May 29, 2014

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    tomorrow I'm going to go **** a guy I met

    online behind my boyfriends back, he has cheated on me in the past and I have forgiven him but now I'm doing my thing.
    lostsoul9011 lostsoul9011 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 9

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