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I Am a Cheater

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    Now me and hubby have separated.

    All for the best and no bad terms, it's been coming a long time, not just cos of all this. I'm relieved and ready to move on with my life. I met 20 y/o M a few weeks ago, I am 28, and at first it was just meant to be a night of fun, but in the past few weeks we've been spending...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    Don't Jude cheaters you don't know anything

    till you walk in their shoes and why they do it.
    yeaiknow yeaiknow 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2014

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    I made a terrible mistake

    and cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years a weekend ago. I was incredibly drunk and he was actually at the place it happened passed out drunk. I know this story already sounds horrible, and it is so terrible that i am so ashamed, but there is more to it. In the last year I had two...
    unknown0605 unknown0605 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    So confused and pissed off right now!

    So I've been f***ing my guy for a couple of months now, he knows how much I like him, but last week when we had a fight a went out with my girlfriend and ******* someone else. I told him about it, and at first he was all cool with it, said "it's ok, I'm glad you did, cos things...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    I cheated on my wife,

    got found out, reconcilled albeit still on cold terms, but I am not making much effort to mend back the relationship and make things back to normal. I however miss my lover who has since stop all communication with me for the final time since she got to know about the affair...
    valkilmer valkilmer 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I have the perfect girl

    and I still want to cheat.
    Sanonymous1 Sanonymous1 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 1

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    tomorrow I'm going to go **** a guy I met

    online behind my boyfriends back, he has cheated on me in the past and I have forgiven him but now I'm doing my thing.
    lostsoul9011 lostsoul9011 22-25, M 6 Responses Jan 9

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    I preface this with me not being a very good

    person. See 7 months ago I fell in love. 2 months ago we broke up. 1 month ago I met someone new. We went out. My ex came back and now I'm technically dating both and I've never hated myself more
    leaguegirl97 leaguegirl97 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    I always cheat on my relationships.

    Even if im in love with my partner if given the chance i do it.
    pinksteam pinksteam 18-21, F 38 Responses May 27, 2014

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    My Boyfriend Answered My Boyfriend's Skype Call

    It was bad. Really, really bad. I was on the phone with boyfriend A who demanded my skype password and since I thought boyfriend B was asleep I let him have it. As we're talking on the phone I suddenly hear the skype calling ring tone. Guess who?!? Before I knew what was going...
    paterpeccavi paterpeccavi 18-21, F 27 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    I try not to its just

    when my boyfriend at work or mad at me I get bored and text other boys. I do love my boyfriend I just cant stop he use to be a cheater too but he stop Its just hard for me to stop I do want to😩
    AlZhanaa AlZhanaa 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    Married for couple years,

    started off very sweet and very much love. However, last year has been different, a lot of fights, started not to get along. I did not want to have sex with him. I am not interested in him anymore. And started to go online random chats. And met with a nice guy. We are chatting...
    Aureus1 Aureus1 26-30, F 12 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I'm not 'normally' a cheater,

    but last Friday after work I was having a few drinks with friends, there was one guy there that I was seriously attracted to, once the pub closed we went back to his place, and we ended up having incredible s*x for a couple of hours! I haven't been able to stop thinking about...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    When I was a young girl I fell in love with a

    boy. I got so caught up that I gave into having sex with him. I didn't realize that one single action was going to mess up my whole life. I was 14 and he was 15. After getting back together from a break we had sex. That same night he called to break up with me. I cried for a...
    cottonblossom cottonblossom 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I wasn't always a cheater

    but my last serious relationship really ****** me up. Once he read my diary I lose respect for him n that whoever came after him. I love sex , I love dating spontaneously but I can't say no ! When a guy asks me to be there girlfriend. It would be all good in the beginning but...
    cecegee1990 cecegee1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2014

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    Looks like it tubbie hips.

    ...I need all the I hate cheaters here tracked match too that and her schoolboys and others. .that he's not aware Most people who hate cheats......are A cheater keeps his mouth shut Rock it
    letsgo2234 letsgo2234 51-55, F 8 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I Am A Female Against Monogamy

    I feel as though the pressure to be faithful makes people miserable. It's why we have difficulty maintaining monogamous relationships. Think about it, there is no other relationship that you aren't allowed to have any other companions of the same kind. You can have multiple...
    confusedandupset confusedandupset 26-30, F 54 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    I try really hard, obviously not hard enough.

    I think it's the mystery, intensity, and the feeling of being a bit rebellious, is why I subconsciously do it. I've always been in a relationship, but I've always ended up fooling around with someone else. I don't get the attached feelings with the other person as I do with the...
    alrightsprite alrightsprite 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    Hubby wont give me sex

    so I have to have sex.
    shortandstacked shortandstacked 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I Love The Adrenaline Rush

    Well I have been cheating since high school. At one time I had 7 boyfriends, that all believed they were my one and only. The funny thing is I never once got caught. It takes alot of thinking, coordination and planning to not get caught. You have to be on your toes 24/7...
    supergrrl supergrrl 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    canuckrider canuckrider 46-50, F Mar 2

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    Compulsive Cheaters..

    I am a cheater.  A Hands down, ingrained in my genes, pumping through my blood, drilled in my brain, taken over my body cheater.  I've researched countless articles about why people cheat and read countless cheater profiles.  There are those who cheat for revenge...
    theinbetween theinbetween 18-21 13 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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    Every morning I meet my faithful sweetheart.

    He's always waiting for me warm and welcoming. I embrace all that he offers me and depend on his support. Truly without him I would suffer just to make it through the day and if he were to ever abandon me, I would be lost. I remember the early days when I first met him, my...
    Sarbar96 Sarbar96 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I have a girlfriend and I love her,

    but I think I'm steps away from falling for a guy at my job. We are sort if involved in an emotional affair.
    BlackScorpionWidow BlackScorpionWidow 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I absolutely can't get enough of him,

    my lover, my release, the reason I smile each day. It's been 3 weeks since our first incredible night together, and since then the attraction and need for each other has only grown more intense. Because I am still married, we have tried cooling things off and just spending time...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Well, I did it again last night.

    Cheated on my wife. The allure is impossible to ignore. This one was a petite redhead. She had the softest skin and was sensitive. What was amazing is that every time she had an ****** she would squirt. I never have been with a woman who did that, but it was so erotic.
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 6 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    An Open Letter to the Man Who Cheated On Me

    T o a man who broke my heart: The man I loved, you may never read this, but I need you to know that I am GRATEFUL in a profound way for the gift of freedom you have given to me. It felt life my world had collapsed when I found out that you had cheated. Who had...
    Kixx Kixx 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    I have no problem cheating at all.

    . its like a huge turn on actually... I feel nothing when i do it... I think i do this because i love to put a mask... Love to **** people i don't even know
    Strippedaway Strippedaway 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    So Unfaithful

    I've never been faithful to any man. I truly love my husband, but I let my sexual desires completely control me. I am very aware of the consequences if he ever found out about my many infidelities. I don't like the person I am. However, I continuously have sex with other men.
    Zig8Zag Zig8Zag 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    So I had a bit of a fight with my lover last

    Friday, he was being an *** and got me upset, I was meant to be going out with my friend that night, but nearly backed out cos he'd upset me, but decided to still go and I'm so glad I did! Went to a local pub, really casual and a bit bogan but lots of fun, we sat on our own but...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    ?

    I stopped you know? for the first time i was faithful for four years straight and then ta da! I snapped! I first blamed it on my man, he doesnt satisfy me he doesnt have the stamina to keep up with me hes too old blah blah When i knew it all along....this is sadly a part of who...
    Unmasked Unmasked 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    A Cheating

    I just recently cheated on my boyfriend. Again. For a long time, since two years, in fact, I've been with my boyfriend. During this 2 years we were a loving relationship, it is however from what i feel, going down hill now. The distance is just killing our love and it is...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 15 Responses Dec 13, 2007

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    I have been married for about 3 years to the

    "perfect" guy, except that we live like flatmates now. He's not interested in me anymore, not to talk, no cuddling, no sex, nothing. I've told him I'm unhappy and I've told him why, suggested relationship counselling, more quality time together etc. He's just not interested in...
    masa2014 masa2014 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 31, 2014

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    my cheating history is

    so long its overwhelming. ive been pretty good at keeping my secret garden intact but I know my partner does not share my views. he doesn't know. and ive been doing this.....about once a year, usually someone I all ready know or have grown close to, just one night of passion...
    canichange canichange 31-35, F 9 Responses May 18, 2014

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    Controversial question: what's wrong with

    cheating? Isn't it possible to love your partner but not to want to possess them? Why should I deny my boyfriend the thrill of physical contact with another? I love him, so I want him to enjoy all that life has to offer. I know he loves me, so I don't feel insecure about his...
    Syngr23 Syngr23 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I'm with my wife for 10 years but sex is not

    good...but outside sex is super how I can help?
    joex2 joex2 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I'm a serial cheater

    and I don't feel bad about it. I use protection and stay safe. Anyone else like me?
    dfwtravels dfwtravels 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 7

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    Damn right i am, have been

    now since my ex bf went and current on came into my life, I cheat on him with other guys i meet at work usually or just neighbors. I love being able to do this without him knowing and im hoping someday my gd will take after her mom (who also cheats on her bf) and her g ma and...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    currently my wife is trying to catch me

    cheating. honestly I haven't thought, had time, or have some one to do so with... so she Googled me and found a old account for MeetMe (formally MyYearbook) so she asks me all nonchalant, "So why do you have a MeetMe account?" I told her it because I've had it fof a little...
    KingofHeartsMW KingofHeartsMW 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2014

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    If you have repeatedly cheated,

    or are the partner of a cheater and can't seem to forgive or break off the unhealthy relationship Look at the statistics. The chance of a successful relationship born of infidelity is not even one in 100. A marriage that starts in infidelity has no foundation. You go into it...
    darkenedsoul200 darkenedsoul200 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    Early on in my marriage I cheated on my husband.

    I've never told him and don't intend to but there are times I have a lot of guilt about it. And even in my guilt I look back and would have probably done it again given the circumstances, which is a horrible thing to say I know. But it is what it is and is a memory now.
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78 36-40, F 10 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Thrilling

    In high school I had a bad shoplifting problem. Each time I got away with it i became more bold. It wasn't so much to get free things as it was to feel that thrill. To know I could be caught, but I never was. Then I found my new fix. Casual sex. I can't think of a boyfriend I...
    charismaticenigma charismaticenigma 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I am a 16 year old girl

    and I am a cheater. I do recognize it's wrong. But I absolutely love it. I lasted almost 2 years with my last boyfriend, cheated on him with over 10 guys. I don't feel guilt. I don't know why I do it, to feel better about myself maybe, but I do know one thing, I enjoy it. Not...
    anatomicalheart anatomicalheart 16-17, F 17 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    i emotionally and online cheat

    and in my past physically cheated i have a problem with commitment and lust sex addiction etc I didn't want to admit it at first but that is very much so who I am
    UniversalVisions UniversalVisions 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 5

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    Infidelity Doesn't Just Happen

    Contrary to what some people claim, infidelity doesn't just happen. It requires participation and a desire to carry it out. The first time I cheated I didn't start out to cheat but was also very aware of what I was doing. Nearly 15 years ago after having been married for two...
    Kissweeterthanwine Kissweeterthanwine 41-45, F 16 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Trevor was a genuine sweetheart.

    He was the first kid who actually took me out on dates and pulled out my chair. I was so happy with him, then one day it all changed. My ex, Danny, messaged me on facebook. I contemplated on what to do. He broke my heart and honestly, I wanted to hear an apology. I deserved an...
    molliee151 molliee151 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 11

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    Today

    Today i lost my virginity to someone else than my boyfriend. He knows, and i hate myself. I am the worst thing on the planet!. & im sorry
    BeautyIsPain20 BeautyIsPain20 18-21, F 20 Responses