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I Am a Child Abuse Survivor

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    I was 11 years old, my mom was working,

    my stepdad was drinking his usual beer. I was in my room trying to stay out of his way I didn't want another beating from his belt. It wasn't long before I heard him calling my name. I went downstairs and he told me to bring him another beer. When I handed him the beer he...
    sarah95w sarah95w 18-21, F 20 Responses Apr 22, 2014

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    This whole Jared Fogle (Subway guy) thing has

    me really disturbed. He lives not far from me. I was abused as a boy. It's never left me. I never told, and the abuser went unpunished until he was caught many years later for doing the same thing. This has burned my *** for so many years because of the guilt I felt for not...
    tachem46032 tachem46032 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Being mocked for not being able to get over

    this is messed up but when it's my actual abuser doing it to me, I can't even deal.
    Charper44 Charper44 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 17

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    stolen youth Only an infant,

    not even a teen, far from being a woman A tiny 3 feet tall human being that you took by the hand You said to me: you're beautiful pretty girl, want to play? Come and see me, I got a secret for you, come my way A nice little game you said, but only for you and me Better not...
    ChantouKimmy ChantouKimmy 41-45, F 23 Responses Aug 11

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    My Parents

    I have never received a hug or kiss from my parents. If I have I don't remember it. I've never gotten a birthday present or blown out candles. I didn't know kids got all this until I made real friends in 5th grade. I didn't understand. My friends don't understand how I could get...
    atraptbird atraptbird 16-17, F 34 Responses Jun 28, 2009

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    I don't remember allot about my childhood.

    but I remember the abuse more clearly. I really wish I could get mental help. it's like my hart has shattered into shards of glass .
    flowergirl1997 flowergirl1997 18-21, F 20 Responses May 23

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    Happy People And Me

    I was abused verbally, physically, sexually.The main one being my dad, although it was my uncle who raped me first.But my dad had continued access, and he used it.My mom worked every night-well, five days a week, and...yeah.So my experience is that the worst thing that can...
    hylierandom hylierandom 41-45 26 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    It was never sexual but it was mental

    and physical. I would be beaten for the least little thing and pushed beyond breaking point. There may be no physical scars but the mental ones are still raw.
    Naominatrually Naominatrually 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was abused in a foster home.

    Males who have been raped and sexually abused, you're not alone. I'm not comfortable sharing my story so publicly but I'm here for anyone who needs to talk.
    lubesh lubesh 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    letters2mymother letters2mymother 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    My cousin molested me

    since i was to young to remember. I started to realize it was wrong around the ages of 7-8. He slept over all the time practically lived with me. I started to tie my pajamas really tight or wear jeans to bed but he would always get them off. One night i stayed up till the...
    Prettygurl234 Prettygurl234 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    i was nearly 12 year old.

    i have attained puberty but didn't know much about it. i was cute as all young obes are. i used to go to grocery shop on my own . One day i went after sun set. shop owner kept me standing there while he served others. i felt irritated. but have to got things from shop. so i...
    sexaddict1987 sexaddict1987 26-30, M Aug 7

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    A Few Words Of Encouragement

    before i let anyone in on my abuse story, i just want to say how grateful we should all be that we even RECOGNIZE that we were abused. there are many people who take tons of therapy to learn these things about their lives. i had to teach myself through small baby steps how to do...
    foldedunfolding foldedunfolding 31-35, F 15 Responses Jun 1, 2012

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    ~Once upon a time, there was a girl,

    a young angel, pretty and blonde, who had appeared sixteen and one night her and her boyfriend had sex and she got pregnant and fell from grace but a prince married her because her boyfriend left . A couple months later, a beautiful baby met her new father and mother. 2 years...
    LadyXSilverthorne LadyXSilverthorne 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Why We Keep Bringing It Up...an Essay

    So…dragonofjapan said something: “Yes, you were abused, but what are you going to do about it right now?” So I was thinking about that. What a lot of abuse survivors do…appears like wallowing. In some cases, it may actually be wallowing…but for most of us… What...
    hylierandom hylierandom 41-45 55 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    When I was like 5 my moms boyfriend would abuse

    me and my brothers everyday until she got home it was a living hell.
    Marines75 Marines75 13-15, M 11 Responses Mar 22

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    cant share my story yet

    but I belong here
    htrdbldsevl htrdbldsevl 36-40 3 Responses Jul 27

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    jeepxjdude2000 jeepxjdude2000 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 17

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    My Childhood

    Violence was very commonplace at home. I would often ask my mother whether it was normal to be beaten up by my father. She would reply that I was lucky to have a father who could provide for us and that complaining was very ungrateful towards my parents and towards God's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 26 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    I was sexually abused by two brothers over a

    four year period. It started when i was 8. Thought it was my fault, still kinda do. I mean, if I hadn't been born, it wouldn't of happened. I had the same nightmare night after night. When I finally told someone, I felt so embarrassed. I still do to this day. I couldn't change...
    gr8love gr8love 36-40, F 19 Responses Mar 9, 2014

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    My Dad

    I am 40 years old, and a survivor of child abuse. Although it seems so far away now, I choose to write because I am so moved by the other stories on here. I hope that I can be of help to some of you. The pain we endured cannot be reversed, but perhaps we can do something to...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 8 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    Strong

    Please be aware, the story may contain triggers. Please stop reading if you feel you've had enough. I need to write and share this, but there is no need for you to suffer from what I wrote. Today I feel strong. Usually I use those days to be merry and happy, but today I...
    Idonwannadie Idonwannadie 46-50, M 14 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    I think I am ready to share my secret

    if you still want to know.
    rehabparty23 rehabparty23 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    Abuse Comes In Many Forms and Degrees

      When I was a teenager, my mom kicked my step dad out when I told her he'd been sexually abusing my sister and me. There were tears and hugs that one night and then everything was expected to go on as normal. My mom acted like she didn't want to put us through a...
    sufirehorse66 sufirehorse66 46-50, F 32 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    I sometimes still have nightmares about my abuse

    as a child. My mom and my stepdad used to beat the hell out of me. I had no one to go to. Family members acted as if I was ok so they wouldn't have to get involved. Everyone didn't think it was as serious as I said it was. I'd get beat because it was Tuesday. My mom accused me...
    Lovelessgal Lovelessgal 31-35, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    We would like to believe

    as a society that we build prisons for the evil that are in this world. The reality is the most evil are often the ones that are too clever to allow themselves to be locked up. They are true sociopaths, and they reproduce torturing the most innocent. They are ugly with their...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 12 Responses Feb 3, 2014

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    you didnt believe me you didnt protect me you

    dont deserve my love yet i give it anyway because i am stronger and i dont need you to believe me or protect me anymore ...your broken child
    PixieLoveChild PixieLoveChild 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I remember being 6 years old

    and my older siblings had left home. My mother had jus had the youngest in our family. The twins were almost 3. My mother was a very sick alcoholic. Our father was the worst pervert I have ever met in real life. They started me on drugs and alcohol at this early age. After about...
    squirllykid squirllykid 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    Some days I don't feel like a survivor.

    How can something that happened fifty-eight years ago reduce me to a quivering mass of fear and horror? How can a scent awaken memories that flash back to those times? Today it was a voice. No one I knew, but it sounded so familiar. I began to cry as soon as I heard it, not...
    scarred4lifeby5 scarred4lifeby5 61-65, M 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Dear Daddy, I loved you

    so I hope you know I looked up to you even though You took my grace, you took my faith You made me weak and such a disgrace Just a baby, innocent, and whole You took that a away, all of it you stole And now I am here, shattered and confused How someone so little could take...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    In my family, the only person I was really

    close to was my mother. Once my parents divorced my brother and I lived with my mother while my father moved to the city. My mother slowly become physically and mentally abusive, beating and constantly emotionally messing with my brother and I. My brother adapted these methods...
    marcyr marcyr 16-17, M 9 Responses Jun 7

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    Being a survivor is something I embrace in

    myself. I could ponder endlessly as to why I experienced the trauma... and believe me, I have. But honestly, I've fought hard to put it behind me and rise above... to end the nightmare of the storm it created within me. Surviving is about living... and life is too short for...
    WithGracefulness WithGracefulness 46-50, F 9 Responses Jan 26

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    I'm still here alive a childhood lost

    but I'm still standing I try not to think about it but the painful members are for ever there wounds that will never heal like right now I can't even write about it without tearing up so I'm going to stop before I end up really crying
    masterLLL masterLLL 56-60, M 4 Responses Aug 4

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    My parents made me watch Gilligans Island.

    I still have counselling to this day 😕
    LesGirl01 LesGirl01 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    Here's A Thought...

    Just think about it, if you disagree, please tell me why I'm wrong. I won't clobber you over it, ok? ( I reserve the right to be wrong, I *don't* have to be perfect, and neither do you. ) Our abusers were weak. Weak people. They wanted to project that weakness outward, so they...
    hylierandom hylierandom 41-45 11 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    "What Happens In This House, Stays In This House."

    That was the catchphrase growing up with my parents. As an adult, hearing something like that sends alarm bells ringing. This is a story of how abuse and neglect nearly ruined me, but hasn't. I am two short years away from being thirty years old, and it's only through writing on...
    littledharmabum littledharmabum 26-30, F 24 Responses Mar 30, 2008

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    I just want to post a "THANK YOU!

    " to all the people on this site who use their experiences to support others. I've been having a difficult time coping and it usually gets worse around the holidays and my birthday, which is today (yesterday legally but that's a long story). Anyway, thanks guys. Hugs to everyone...
    ashamedofmyfamily ashamedofmyfamily 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Normal Sex? After years of being abused

    as a child, I’ve always had issues with sex. As a teenager I had a pretty unhealthy relationship with sex. I was always conscious that I didn’t want to hurt anyone, take advantage of anyone or push anyone else’s limits. However, I always craved that for myself. I like to...
    CoopSmith CoopSmith 26-30, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hello Im a 31 year old Female.

    ..Married with Children. .I was Molested by my Dad...I remember I was about 8 years old...My dad would turn on *********** soo I can watch with him..My dad wanted to Specifically watch the Women performing Fellacio on a Man...When it was over he would have me do the Same to him...
    Charitee Charitee 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 15

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    Poem: There Once Was A Girl,

    So Eager To Trust, How Did She Have Such Faith, With So Little Love. The Nightmares Started When She Was Just Two, Growing Into Adulthood, Not Knowing Who Was Who. The Days Were A Struggle, The Nights Pure Dispair. If Someone Would just Listen, Or Tell Her They Cared, To Bring...
    Shell9888 Shell9888 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    Ofelia, Or How Another Book Saved My Life.

    I like keeping certain things in order. My room, desk, and papers may look like a complete mess to an untrained eye, but my thoughts and memories are always preserved with a flawless method because since I cannot forget, keeping all the drawers in my mind clean allows me to put...
    sweetmeisje sweetmeisje 26-30, F 32 Responses Jul 18, 2010

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    You got knocked up and then you served your

    little girl up to your sicko husband while you were at work knowing exactly what he was doing to me. Yes, I do know for a fact that you knew exactly what was going on. which is why you made sure The boys were at grandmas and I was the only one left at home alone with him because...
    letters2mymother letters2mymother 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    It's funny how things happen,

    and how they affect us. I was so starved for love by the time my grandmother hired the second nanny that I ate up being treated like a toddler. It wasn't real love, obviously, but it felt better than the emptiness I had before she came. At times I'm quite sure she got off on...
    scarred4lifeby5 scarred4lifeby5 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I recently decided to stop speaking to my

    mother. I know she will never admit to what she did, but I was able to overlook it in the interest of my brother. This summer it became too much. Not only would she not admit her crimes, she continues to reference how I am to blame for all the tragedies in our lives. I...
    AliM3ss AliM3ss 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Anger is not something to be ashamed of.

    Anger is a natural response to injustice and can help break the cycle of abuse. Anger is a crucial part of recovery. Two weeks ago on 7/31/2015, I finally put the pieces together, saw the actions for what they were and realized my mother is not only a victim of a Narcissist...
    wowodeals wowodeals 26-30, F Aug 15

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    Time To Share

    I haven't really talked a whole lot about my past here, but recently, I think I have felt inspired to do so because of the strength of other friends in my circle who have talked about their experience. I think it's important to share, not for the purpose of reliving the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 31 Responses