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I Am a Closet Bi-sexual

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 452 People

    I have been in the closet my whole life.

    I would love to come out, and don't care what people would think of me. But I worry what it would do to my children and grandchildren. I envy people that are able to come out of the closet.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 4, 2014

    I Guess I'll Share My Story Too.

    I'm a 20 year old who goes to an art school and also works at a place where I design t-shirts. I have a really chill life, and I enjoy video games and designing random things. :D I have noticed that I am really attracted to other girls. I've always been out to improve my self...
    phantomstar32 phantomstar32
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2010

    Had My First Experience In The Mens Room Of A Local Park

    My first bi experience was in the mens room of a park. i read about guys hooking up here from a website ( and thought i would go and see what it was about. i drove over at lunch on a hot august day - i worked 10 minutes away from the park. I parked in a parking lot...
    jampa59 jampa59
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 22, 2011

    So, What Gives?

    Male, marries or 25 years, 2 grown sons. Love life, music, food, wine, men and women. So What gives. Am I really that alone? I think not, at least as I understand it. But I am terribly lonely. Just the conversation, the companionship, the chance to speak honestly with others. Not...
    holidayisland holidayisland
    51-55, M
    Nov 7, 2013

    A Man Needs A Man

    I am a 19 year old closet bisexual who wants to fool around with a man so much.  I've done it all with girls and I need a man.  Just today I saw a shirtless guy walking home and got such an erection.  I hope my fantasy comes true.
    JakeWebb JakeWebb
    1 Response Sep 9, 2010

    I am a mid 20's newly bi woman.

    I am wanting to explore, and experience what it is like. I like chatting with other girls that are curious, and are willing to have some fun!! Message me if you want to know more!
    curiousslut4all curiousslut4all
    22-25, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    Should I Come Out

    I'm still in high school and going to graduate next year. I've been in the closet for 2-3 years now and it's getting harder to bear; I started questioning at 13, and now I'm a full fledged bisexual yipee! Anyways, I came out to my sis and my mom but I feel like they didn't take...
    pop34 pop34
    Jun 15, 2012

    I'm a 17 year old female

    and I know that I'm bisexual. I thought I was straight because I was sure that I was into guys and I only started questioning last year. I had no clue that I was into girls until last year.. I know most people know when they're younger, but am I the only one who found out at 16...
    rainbows8 rainbows8
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 8, 2014

    Coming Out Is Hard To Do...

    I am a thirty-five year old public relations executive. I have a teenage daughter who is overall a wonderful kid. I am an only child and not married. I have always had plenty of men who liked me and have even been engaged three times, the last one was over six years ago. All of...
    Nala1 Nala1
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 22, 2010

    Ummm Now What?

    I find certain women attractive. I always have but I have always defined myself and my sexuality by a man. I have never been without one. My first homosexual experience happened after I worked at a Gentleman's club. The freedom that I found in being exposed for the first time was...
    blackcat268 blackcat268
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2010

    My Story

    I'm a 22 year old female. I have only dated guys, but I was first attracted to a girl when I was about 14. At that time she was the only girl I felt that way for. I didnt think much of it though. Throughout high school, I had a few boyfriends. I actually had a little crush on my...
    purplehaze62 purplehaze62
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2013

    In The Closet No Longer!

    I believe I have been a bisexual for most of my life, but due to emotional baggage from my father, who was homophobic in the extreme, and later my wife, I have repressed my bisexual tendencies for over 35 years.  In the last two years, I finally started to at first recognize...
    EverlastOC EverlastOC
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 29, 2011

    My First Time - Military

    My first sexual experience with another man happened when I was 23 and a Sergeant in the U.S. Air Force stationed at RAF Lakenheath in England. Being overseas, most single enlisted men were assigned to dorms on base. Like most young military guys overseas, there wasn’t a...
    ExMilBiMan ExMilBiMan
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 23, 2013

    Enjoying Other Men Too Much...

    Im a 38 white bisexaul guy thats experimentingother pleasures with men rather then women for the moment, me and my wife divorced one another two years ago, we were married nine decent years but all that went south really fast when i picked up using heavy drugs at work. Well you...
    cris2295 cris2295
    41-45, M
    Apr 27, 2013

    And That Closet Is WAY Too Confining.

    But I can't see myself ever coming out to anybody I know. But I have learned over the years that women are attractive to me and I like sex with them. Men aren't particularly attractive to me, but I like sex with them too. I really like a warm **** in my mouth or in my ***. But...
    RayanneA RayanneA
    56-60, M
    Oct 28, 2013
    deleted deleted
    May 1, 2015

    I'm A Female Closet Bisexual

    Hey everyone, I am and have been in the closet about my sexuality since I was 15. I am now 19 and finally accept that I am bisexual but don't want to tell the world  just yet. I have since told only two people, two of my guy friends. They seem to accept me no matter what and...
    jokerlover77 jokerlover77
    2 Responses Apr 17, 2011

    Life Sucks....kinda

    I've been closeted ever since I can remember. I've had dozens of relationships with women. However, I can't stop looking at men. Whether it's a hot woman or a sexy man get turned on. My family and friends will never understand. I don't know what to do. I'm "suppose to be" with...
    bicurious1900 bicurious1900
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 15, 2012

    The Closet Door Opens

    I have never had sex with a man...but recently I have been thinking about it...I have gone from straight to closet bi to...... my hand on the door knob ready to open the door and step out into the world...naked and eager for a penis to adore.....
    hegal7722 hegal7722
    66-70, M
    1 Response Dec 15, 2012

    I Could Be Happy With A Man Or A Woman

    that about sums it up.  i find both desirable.  have had crushes on female friends but relationships with men only. i'll probobly end up with a man but who cares? it's not all about sexuality.  it's about being happy, right?
    pumperstiltsken pumperstiltsken
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 5, 2010

    Mamma Deep In The Closet

    I'm a 33 yr old closet Bisexual mom and wife. My husband knows and a few friends... But my best friend and my family  does not. They are very religious and would disown me. My parents are homophobic pentacostals who wouldn't have a meal with my brother cause he stopped going to...
    tmammalove tmammalove
    31-35, F
    Jun 30, 2011

    Not Able To Come Out, Or Stay Inside!

    So I’m a closet bi or a lesbian or whatever, I mean I don’t really know who I am but I like girls and no one knows about it except some of my friends , my sister, and also my brother kinda have some knowledge about it! Okay if all of those know who else left that doesn’t...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2011

    Dirty Thoughts

    ok Idk wat to classify myself as, im not fully bi but not completely str8 either, I wud say im more bi thatn str8. ok ima a freshman in college and my room mate is a junior. hes really cool and we get along great. I jsut find myself staring at him all the time, and he walks...
    mac29471 mac29471
    3 Responses Sep 26, 2009

    I'm In A Relationship With A Guy And Dream About Girls Every Day...

    I've been in a serious relationship with a guy for two years now. We have a great relationship for the most part. We have a lot of fun together and he's awesome. I am in love with him, however, lately, all I think about are girls. I am physically (sexually) attracted to them. I'm...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 11, 2011

    An Inconvenient Truth

    I suppose I've been bisexual since I became sexually aware. The problem has been a feeling that it wouldn't be good for other people to know it. At school - a boys-only school - we talked about sex all the time and shared ***********, but it wasn't cool to be gay. I was very...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2012


    I have been bi sexual for almost as long as I remember but in the sixties and seventies it was completely taboo so I became "straight"got married and had kids but I gave up that life to move in with a long term boy friend who unfortunately died so now I'm in a different town...
    joanz joanz
    Jul 4, 2011

    Im Tired

    i am a closet bisexual and dont know how or if i want to come out becaues im afraid of the outcome. In the 9th grade i realise i was attracted to not only females but also the males. During that time I had a sercetive fling with a guy that went on half a year because i...
    lostone30 lostone30
    Jul 15, 2012

    Im Bi And Dont No How To Come Out Or What To Say :( Im Scared

    ok ill start of by saying im from miramichi new brunswick im 21 and bi i want tp come out i have come out to my sister and too of my xs but thats it i dont no how to tell my mom and dad i dont no what to say or how to bring it up if anyone has any ideas plz tell me im scared and...
    bezeau bezeau
    Jul 18, 2010

    Love Men Fantasize About Women

    I have always loved having sex with men but enjoyed it even more with women.I only had sex with 3 very close friends who came out to me first.They like myself are very discreet my family would never accept that I love sleeping with women and I like being discreet anyway.
    Silvafoxx Silvafoxx
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 31, 2012

    Whats It Like?

    i am 46 been married to a man for 18 yrs and we have a 9 yr old son. i grew up as a evangelical christian, went to bible college, evangelized, lead worship services was very involved in my faith that taught me homosexuality was a sin, a really bad one at that...until i hit my 20...
    mybigsecret mybigsecret
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2013
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