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I Am a Closet Bisexual

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 298 People

    Just Can't Stop Looking Her Way

    Hi! i am a 19 year old female and i am clearly attracted to females.....i am the only one who knows i have not told anyone........because i always thought i was just a phase.....i mean i still's one of those itches that wont go away till scratched you know?! i've had...
    berlinwallz berlinwallz
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2009

    I Wish I Had the Confidence

    Have had long term male relationships, I'm in my 40's now and a single mum of one. I've kissed a lesbian friend years ago and to my surprise I liked it! I've also slept with a female [straight] friend on numerous occasions but I was more of the 'pleaser' if you know...
    mac69 mac69
    36-40, F
    Sep 14, 2009

    I Want To Tell Mom

    My boyfriend and even a few people know about my sexual prefrence. But I'm afraid to tell my family. I want to let everyone in the world know, but yet again this fear is holding me down. My mother is a christian and she wouldnt really aprove, but I know she would still love me...
    imjustlikeyou imjustlikeyou
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

    And Boy There Sure Seem To Be A Lot Of Us Out There!

    The only problem is that there are too many bottoms (myself included) and so few tops. Before I accepted my bisexuality I (thought I was) getting all the sex I wanted with women. But as I became more and more curious, I finally had an experience with another man. And then another...
    RayanneA RayanneA
    56-60, M
    1 Response Oct 28, 2013

    Shhh. It's A Secret!

    So, basically, no one I know even knows. I know it's nothing to be ashamed about, but there are several reasons I keep it secret. One, my mom would be devastated, worried her whole life over that I will 'go to hell'... which is, well, really a HUGE reason I don't want to tell her...
    Supia Supia
    Feb 25, 2012

    One Foot Out Of The Closet...

    It has taken me a really long time to get to where I am right now. But I have found myself taking more steps in the past few months than I have in my lifetime with regards to my sexuality. I attended my very first Pride Parade a while ago. I wasn't too sure if going was something...
    BlackLilly BlackLilly
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2011


    Hi, I am 22 years old and am married. I had a couple experiences with a man a couple years ago like kissing and blow jobs but nothing sensense then. I do sometimes look at gay **** and ********** to fantasies of men. I do really love my wife abd, love being with her but I cant...
    Cjh2010 Cjh2010
    1 Response Jan 29, 2012

    I Am Not Ashamed...just Awkward, And Lonely.

    I'm only thirteen but I think I sortof knew I was bisexual since last year. As a child maturing, of course my hormones have been...increasing? Well anyhow, like any other teenager, I am becoming sexually active. One of the things is, not really. I mean, I'm not looking for...
    artsyHomestuckerAndBisexualToo artsyHomestuckerAndBisexualToo
    18-21, F
    Aug 12, 2012

    Under Pressure.

    Right now, I need this group.. and maybe just for a little bit. I might be the most frequent poster. Maybe. I, am closeted. Sort of. I am out to my mom, and my younger sister. and to the majority of my friends. But not out to my brother and dad/step dad If all these...
    MissVenom MissVenom
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2010

    Male Looking For Moc

    Hello all; I am 30 year-old Arabian male; looking to get married to a lesbian/bi/asexual girl around my age... if you are interested please msg me back :) regards;
    Arab1983 Arab1983
    31-35, M
    Mar 24, 2013

    My House Of Lies...

    I've built myself a house of lies and now I don't know how to get out.Growing up I never questioned my sexuality because I was attracted to guys. So what if every now and then I found myself looking at a girl, my excuse... " I can appreciate beauty in whatever form, male or...
    BlackLilly BlackLilly
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2011

    Still In, But Hopefully Not For Long

    I've gone through stages about my bisexuality. First denial, then fear, then resistance. But finally the day came I admitted it and lost my fear of it, and decided to quit resisting it.But I am still in the closet, and at this point, especially until I've had a few experiences, I...
    Polyguy68 Polyguy68
    41-45, M
    1 Response Sep 25, 2011
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