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I Am a Closet Lesbian

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    Not really......after all there isn't enough

    room for the two of us in my closet anyway. I guess I could get a bigger closet or just be out like I'm starting to be. Okay so long story, but basically I've discovered girls in a whole new way. All through my life I thought I was straight, normal, you know, not gay...
    ClaudNine ClaudNine 18-21, F 15 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    Any lesbians or bisexual girls thats got

    blackberry messenger? If so then what's your pins? You could message me here if you like:) just looking for a relationship a girl that I could settle with😍😣
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I hate seeing a cute girl ,

    but I can't say anything .
    hazellboo hazellboo 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    At Fifteen

    My first serious gay relationship happened when I was 15. I'd kissed several girls prior to that, and had a fairly intense sexual experience in grade school, but lesbian lovesexmagic didn't happen till the summer before tenth grade. She was my next door neighbor, a cute...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    I'm your typical closet case.

    .. Done 'gay things' with a couple of special friends who I'm pretty sure are closet cases too. I have had a boyfriend that was very serious but it wasn't intimate at all. My friends at uni reckon that this girl is into me and I think she might be too... But she's definitely a...
    standardclosetcase standardclosetcase 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    And i am crushing on one of my mother's nurses

    so badly. She's perfection. Tall. Soft...Latina. I watch her as she moves about. I let my gaze stear over her thighs and bottom. Ahh if only i could stand her before me and peel those scrubs off. Fill my hands with her. Burry my face in the very center of her....all of this and...
    jrzseakret jrzseakret 36-40 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Lesbian, But I Can't Find Other Lesbians Or Don't Know Where To Look.

    I just joined this site because I saw another person post a similar concern as I have myself, but didn't quite answer all of my questions. I am a lesbian, been with men, been told all of my life being gay is wrong, or "weird", but now that I'm 20 years old I can form my own...
    brookesmelscer18 brookesmelscer18 18-21, F 28 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    Why Do People Assume You Choose To Be Gay Or Lesbian?

    Today during my Sociology class, we were talking about deviance and how a lot of psychologists believe that you're born 'bad'. Well, one of my stupid classmates, Ian, said, "I don't believe you can be born bad just as much as you can be born gay,"Well, that got me ticked off. Why...
    WeArePilots WeArePilots 18-21, F 25 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Couldn't Change Even If I Wanted Too

    It is scary to be yourself in a world full of hateful people. In a world full of people who don't understand that being gay isn't a choice. It isn't something that you decided. I don't wake up and think "You know what I'm feeling a little gay today." lol. It is something that I...
    EElena EElena 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    I have been hiding being a lesbian from

    everyone friends/family. I feel like I can't talk to anyone or tell anyone. I feel extremely alone and can't stomach the thought of being with a man even though that's what my family wants from me. I'm 27 years old and have never had a serious relationship or been physical with...
    anli28 anli28 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Dont Know What To Do

    im a student at university and i am a cheerleader but there is a problem im a lesbian and no one knows and i dont know what to do
    amy1200 amy1200 18-21, F 46 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    its so hard. laying in bed every night

    and fighting the urge to get online and look up videos of lesbians. its my only way of releasing the sexual frustration I have built up. I want to be out and to have a girlfriend and just be myself.
    sydlittle sydlittle 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    Do any girls want to exchange pictures of

    themselves for some of my girlfriend?
    YouCanCallMeSir YouCanCallMeSir 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I'm only 16 and I'm already a closet lesbian.

    It started at school. I was 11 years old and I saw this beautiful girl across the room, and I felt something weird... I knew that something "weird" was happening. We became best friends and we were REALLY close. But when I was about 13 I decided it was time to let her go. I...
    wholeticia wholeticia 18-21, F Feb 22

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    My hse mate was giving me shots.

    I had abt 10 shots and she till wasn't letting me go. She wanted me to get drunk. So I texted my friend who was having a reunion to come save me. It was just jokingly but my friend left the reunion early and drove 30 min to my place just to save me. Aww, I think I like her. I...
    hildaq14 hildaq14 22-25, F Mar 4

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    I’m Tired And I’m Coming Out!

    I have been a resident of the closet for a long time. I’m 22! So I have been hiding here for so many years. I used to consider it my comfort zone. A place where I can safely hide my ego from being hurt by homophobes who can’t understand. I am a lesbian. And a few months...
    deleted deleted 26-30 32 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    At Least I Can Be Proud Here, Where No One Knows Me.

    Isn't that sad? That we have to live in a worl where the only place we can be ourselves is when we are anonymous. I mean, of course Rose Donovan is not my real name. It is the name of one of my fictional characters. I could not out my real name on here for fear someone I knew...
    LonelySoul LonelySoul 18-21, F 75 Responses Jul 18, 2007

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    i am 27 yrs old and just a couple yrs ago i

    realized that i am attracted to women. the hardest thing for me right now is the fact that i haven't been able to explore these feeling further. i don't know why it took me so long to realize that i like women; all the early signs were there for me but i never paid close...
    laencantadora laencantadora 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 5, 2014

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    I could've came out twice today,

    but didn't. My friends and I were sitting in our school hallway (pretty empty) and one of them asked, who are you going to marry? Us being girls (and that we usually assume people are straight) said a man. I was kind of hesitant on answering the question, but if I insisted, then...
    PotatoesRAwesome PotatoesRAwesome 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    I tried so hard to like boys.

    But it just never really worked. When I tried dating guys, after a couple weeks I just couldn't do it anymore, I felt nothing towards them. Every time. I kept trying to go farther with guys sexually and I never felt aroused or good. When I lost my virginity to a guy it was awful...
    SavannaJade SavannaJade 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    I've told about 8 people about me.

    that includes only 1 family member. I plan on fully coming out to everyone my freshman year but I feel dumb when I can't even tell my sister or closer family members who I am.
    pansarecute pansarecute 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Advice for coming out bi?

    Someone help please.. I hate being in the closet and I'm comfortable enough with myself now to come out but I'm scared.. Help xx
    katemicheal katemicheal 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I Am Almost Certain I'm Gay... But I Love My Boyfriend. Argh. Help.

    I'm in my mid-twenties and I'm really just starting to accept that I'm a lesbian. The signs were always there, and I suppose it's always been in the back of my head since I was little. Men really don't interest me. I LOVE them purely and fully. I even feel in love with them.I...
    PeaceLilyGirl PeaceLilyGirl 22-25, F 35 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    I think, at least. I also prefer saying gay

    over lesbian but I don't mean to offend anyone. I'm 13 and I was so close to coming out to my best friend a few hours ago. For the past few days, I've been thinking about this girl at my school, how I long to be in her arms (because she usually puts her arm around me, and I have...
    PotatoesRAwesome PotatoesRAwesome 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    The girl I like n I had a chat.

    She asked me if why I always think "bend" (cause I always talk abt lgbt) and not straight? Why I always have a dirty mind? Then she asked me if I am a lesbian? Then she said hope u have a nightmare. I replied, my nightmare is u becoming thinner and prettier than me...
    hildaq14 hildaq14 22-25, F Mar 7

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    This guy is a threat.

    He would like every single photo that my crush posts and that to me is a major indicator that he likes her too. Well actually, I don't know. I have a guy friend who does the same to me too but that's because he's a really nice guy and I bet he does the same to his other friends...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I'm sure loads of girls have posted about this,

    and I'm sorry if this is just another one of those stories. But I really need to get this out. I am currently in a relationship with a guy. I love him a lot. But I'm almost positive that I am a lesbian, or at the very least, bisexual with a very strong tendency towards women...
    goshawk8 goshawk8 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Any lesbians or bisexual girls thats got

    blackberry messenger? If so what's your pins. You could message me here if you like:) just looking for a relationship a girl that I could settle with:))
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F Mar 8

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    I grew up in a family

    that is very religious. They are very anti-homosexual and would never accept me if they knew. I tried to be what they wanted me to be to the extent of marrying a man and having a son. I was miserable and my heart still ached to find the true soul mate I knew was out there. I...
    loanother loanother 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    So some of you suggested

    that I ask this girl to hang out with me. Okay guess what? I did. I mean, I didn't actually ask her, I suggested to her. I told her that maybe we should hang out sometime. And you know what? She told me that she didn't understand and said, and I quote "but we always hang out on...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    Sometimes I look at her real hard

    while she's looking away...lost in her own thoughts... That moment is a metaphor of my life. I'm right in front of her, already hopelessly in love, waiting for her to understand, to acknowledge, if not respond to my feelings. Sometimes I cannot believe that she is not aware of...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    This is my first time

    even writing the words "I am a lesbian," so this is a big step for me. I think I've always known (very very deep down, so far down that the thought never even came into my head), but I had my "aha" moment about 7 months ago (in the beginning of my senior year of college). I...
    anonymous0987654 anonymous0987654 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2014

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    I'm still confused but I guess I'm a 90% lesbian

    because I only wish to be in a relationship with a female. I just want someone that can relate to me and can keep up a conversation. Talking crap is also a form of entertainment :)
    Rachh13 Rachh13 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    I dont trust girls who are attracted to

    me…like why? write me a 10 page paper with a legitimate thesis and valid points backing up your claim or you fake.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 6 Responses May 21, 2014

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    She claims she's straight

    and she was annoyed at the fact a tomboy stole her first kiss. She kept pushing me to admit that I like girls yesterday but if I Say it, she might stop hanging out with me and things might be different. Almost everytime she wears zip or button tops she will dare me to open it...
    hildaq14 hildaq14 22-25, F Feb 22

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    I am using EP to slowly let people know

    that I am a lesbian..I have some barriers to being open...sigh..
    femsweety12 femsweety12 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 17, 2014

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    Erm I'm 19 now when I was 14 I had a friend

    who was a different kinda friend to all my other friends, we used to kiss and cuddle and fondle each other and it all just felt so right and perfect... Then when I was 17 I had another friend who was like that and I'm still friends with both of the girls now, however it's purely...
    standardclosetcase standardclosetcase 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I have an amazing boyfriend

    and I care about him but I can't love him. I can't love him because I like girls, not boys... And I've tried and tried and tried so hard to make it work but to me it's just an act. an act I need to keep on playing because I know what my parents and my friends would say if it...
    infinite1994 infinite1994 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 21, 2014

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    My worst fear is that I'm going to come out

    and then magically not like girls anymore, but I know that's not gonna happen lol x
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    I Was Confused For So Long...

    I'm not one of those "I knew since I was 5 years old" lesbians...but I am gay. Very gay. And even though I'm closeted at the moment, I'm proud of who I am and I'm happy with being gay. It took a long time to even understand my sexuality, allow me to explain... When I was 12, a...
    shesaloverofthelight shesaloverofthelight 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    My mom just found out

    that I am in love with one of my best friends.. She was fuming mad at me. She said that I better stop seeing her... I could only cry. I wanted to tell her that I am really gay and there is nothing I can do with it. I want to run away from home so I can be free.
    Mikey022 Mikey022 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    I'm Stuck In Closet-land..

    I'll start at the beginning.. I was a late bloomer in the love department. As a kid, I was always fine with just having fun whereas the other girls were more concerned with who liked who and which boys were the cutest. As much as I tried, I could not get into these conversations...
    ageyutsa ageyutsa 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    My Daughter Is A Closet Lesbian

    I have been wanting to write this story for a long time. This story is a tribute to my one and only daughter. For simplicity I will refer to my daughter as "M". After 5 children and several years of marriage my wife and I divorced. Our youngest, M, thought that I did not love her...
    Spockk Spockk 66-70, M 254 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    The reason for this is

    because my family are strict Muslims and wouldn't allow me to be a lesbian. I remember once i was joking about it, just to see their reaction and they took it so seriously that now i am scared to tell them. I know for sure that this isn't a phase. However i'm 17 now so i will...
    Sammim4lik Sammim4lik 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Any lesbians or bisexual girls thats got

    blackberry messenger? If so what's your pins. You could message me here if you like:) just looking for a relationship a girl that I could settle with:))
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F Mar 8

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    I'm a Closeted Lesbian

    I'm not sure how I got to this point. It's like I have two different lives--two sets of friends, two sets of stories; everything split rather unequally to fit into 'gay' and 'normal'. Not straight. Normal. My mother is my idol, and she's the hardest-working, most beautiful...
    Harpertrap Harpertrap 18-21, F 175 Responses Dec 28, 2007

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    I'm A 17 Year Old Lesbian,

    I Glenda Have A GF Who Is Amazing I Love Her ;) But I Wish I Could Live A Normal Life, Just Like A Straight Couple Would, Get Married Earn Good Money :) Have Children. Just Chill Without Being Judged With My Girlfriend ): We Are Both Closet Lesbian. Our Families Are Pretty...