I Am A Commitment Phobe

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    Now That I Finally Know.....Now What?

    The Center of the Universe Up until the time I turned three, I was the center of the universe. I was the only child, and my grandparents lived down the street…and adored me. I had uncles, and family and friends of the family always paying attention to me….for the three most...
    Cookieforever Cookieforever
    56-60, F
    Mar 19, 2013

    Any GIRLS out there afraid of commitment like

    myself? Lol it's always been a problem of mine. It's not because I m afraid of being hurt as much as it is me just not wanting to put in the work. But I'm 20 a virgin & had 2 bf's lasting only a month each mainly due to me not really putting in the work.
    EnchantedMasochist EnchantedMasochist
    22-25, F
    Nov 19, 2014

    This whole working on yourself to be better,

    kinda sucks. What if I was ok not wanting to commit? I mean, life changes in an instant ( or it can) . Why commit? Just enjoy the ride. I know that's an unrealistic way of thinking. I actually freak out when it comes down to it. I'll gently push someone way because I'm...
    Stickwithmebaby Stickwithmebaby
    41-45, F
    Dec 4, 2014

    I Don't Like Dating Guys Where There Is A Potential Future

    I have been married before and I have dated a lot. Before I was married, I was always in a relationship (90 days tops before I'd start nitpicking the quirks I found endearing and just making the guy miserable). I'd go back and forth on my feelings to the point where I was...
    gettingokwithme gettingokwithme
    36-40
    1 Response Dec 2, 2012

    http://www.psychologytoday.

    com/blog/compassion-matters/201401/7-reasons-most-people-are-afraid-love It terrifies me to be in love, because I may be tough on the outside, but I have a very fragile heart.
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl
    31-35, F
    Feb 17, 2014
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