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I Am a Complete Failure In Love

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    Distance Separated US!!

    Hi Everyone! I completed my graduation, me and my girlfriend was in love almost five years... After that she went to abroad to pursue her higher studies even after going to abroad she was in contact with me for sometime... but suddenly she stopped talking to me, i don't know...
    pr92 pr92 22-25 1 Response Jun 9, 2013

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    I Hate My Luv Bec It Hurts Me Lot

    Like all i too fallen in luv wit a guy who is very handsome,cute and sexy. at the starting stage he told me that he loves me so much , he cant live without me, i will be his wife and m his first love so i too believed him very deeply. i always use to call him...
    trrfhjjkll trrfhjjkll 18-21 4 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    Whatever I do, I will bound to fail in love

    and I always do. I believe that 4/5 women I meet everyday will say that they have a boyfriend while the 1 person is married. I spend my time working diligent for my family and my little sister because we are living in poverty and our current situation is really bad. My parents...
    CaptainHarlock CaptainHarlock 26-30, M Aug 18

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    My Girl is the sweetest

    and charmy girl , coincidence is that myself and my girl are similar kind of struggles and think of mind , might be the reason our hearts came together unknowingly , we used to fight a lot but a certain time without Proposing or any greetings Liked eachother. But both were...
    BreakupSacrifice BreakupSacrifice 31-35, M Feb 7

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    Afraid

    So last year, my company filed for bankruptcy and all employees were let go. I decided to go back to school. 1 year later I have my Bachelor's degree and about to start teacher certification program in January to teach high school science. I am still unemployed and get...
    Godito5 Godito5 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    How Do I Deal With Repeated Rejection?

    Right now I stopped believing I would ever have a loving relationship..   I cry myself to sleep every night, and get very depressed.. Whenever I see loving couples I give them dirty looks  and walk away because I get so jealous..   What should I do?
    Laura4444 Laura4444 41-45 2 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    Feeling so left out..

    A lot of people manage to get a loving relationship or get married and have children even people who are not attractive or people who are disabled. I'm a female who's going to be 44yrs old soon and I never manage to get a boyfriend or husband.  I'm a pretty lady but I always...
    Laura4444 Laura4444 41-45 2 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    I Stopped Believing In Myself

    The first girl i ever fell in love with was in elementary school. But back then i was so little and didnt know anything about relationship, and im a very shy guy so i never bothered pursuing it. Then in high school i found this girl that was just so attractive and beautiful, i...
    Jungmans90 Jungmans90 22-25 1 Response May 26, 2013

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    I am what some might call,

    a hopeless romantic. This, in my opinion, is the most attractive girl in the world. And I love her so so much! She's my girlfriend and her names Humaira c: why she loves me, I have no idea... She'll be reading this and when she does I want her to know that there is nothing on...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I Lost It

    I loved someone but we ended up. And up to now i cant move on. I still think of her. But she's happy with someone else. I did everything to make her happy but she never appreciated it. Sad part i still misses her and love her. How i wish i could turn back the time when were still...
    chiairforce chiairforce 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    She Left Me, Still She Is Beautiful

    Hi friends, I am Chandu, I studied in an reputated engineering college and now working in an MNC. In the college, there are many girls who attracted me, but no one captured my attention. When I joined in job, during training period of 45 days, a girl captured my attention. The...
    dhinammajhivitham dhinammajhivitham 22-25 4 Responses Mar 13, 2011

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    Shes My Angel , Shes diferent frm others, she crossed my life , She changed my life, I cant 4get her until now

    I meet her in fb, first we both were just friends soon and soon we both started to chat everyday. So one day i asked her number she said she cnt give, then i asked her num again she told me her hp is with her mum but i knw shes lieng cause shes scared to gv it ! So i told her dnt...
    RINAY RINAY 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    My Failure In Love At College and There After

    failure in love! i dont no the exact word for that , may be called heart broken. i had so many love failure in my life.i will tell some of them that make me  feel like i am real waste and useless. my first love realy happend when i was in college, i love this girl who is...
    rojerjaan rojerjaan 26-30 9 Responses Feb 14, 2009

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    Everything But Happiness

    i met this girl in 3rd year of engineering college.i met through one of my friends,on a bday party.we both talked a lot .then after few days i met her when i was thrown out of class and she was coming towards the canteen.we both sat and talked for some time. we exchanged...
    doggie28 doggie28 22-25 10 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    I Gave Up Hope

    i am a calm guy till date who do believe in reality and dont have friends (hardly 4 till now) and i too have a failure story to tell she is gorgeous women she spoke to me on a full moon day and she is the first women i spoke to her i mean i have never talked to a girl till 18...
    hary007 hary007 22-25, M 9 Responses Aug 21, 2011

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    My Painful Story

    hi, friends i'm a b-tech student and up to my 1st year i never used to talk too much to my class girls and that was continued to the 2nd year and when i entered into my 2nd year then one of the girl in my class tried to talk with the help of my friend and after some days me and...
    sanjusan sanjusan 18-21, M 7 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    10year Love Depression

    hi everyone, my love story may be disgusting horrible still i call that as love.i fell in love with a girl same gender as mine.my own cousin used me.my mther wanted to sell me wen i was small god grace i hv been saved by my dad sister and dad parents.i hv been bought up by my...
    loveisfate loveisfate 26-30 Sep 7, 2012

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    Failure In Love...

    who has two thumbs and lack social skills? this guy! (me) -never been in a relationship -never kissed a guy -never had a confession -only person i knew of who liked me was a lesbian and my friend...i feel flattered however i am not gay so it doesn't work out. T_T -many guys...
    yournerd yournerd 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Tried And Failed, Again.

    There is a lovely lady whom I have known for years. We're good friends but I thought I saw a hint that maybe it could be more.      I let her know that I feel more than just friendship for her.    Once again, I was gently but unequivocally told "no".   Again, again...
    solocelt solocelt 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2013

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    I Wasn't Made For Relationships.

    Ruined every one I've had with emotional distance. When someone says "I love you", I want to run far, far away from them. When a guy puts his arm around me, my first reaction is to flinch away. Dunno why. Just is.
    oreo491 oreo491 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2012

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    Love Never Hurts!..but Lover Can Hurt...

    once she left me..... again she came back........ once again she left me......... she never come back...... by mistake we get connected but not too close still far apart.... i thought you remember the memories we lived...before i could ask you, you praised the...
    dinesh2009 dinesh2009 18-21, M 7 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Heartbroken Because Of Distance...

    A year ago I met this guy online and we started talking and became friends. I had to move to another country right after we started talking, so we never met in person. We talked every now and then through Skype and late last year this became an every day thing. I started to fall...
    veroouu veroouu 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    I Had It All

    I graduated high school this may. I never dated before this senior year because the majority of high school was spent recovering from major acne scars, and I still am. I dated once. I thought it would be perfect. I really did. Day before prom, me planning on going stag, I find...
    ragnar2016 ragnar2016 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    I started loving my cousin girl from childhood

    but i never disclosed my love to her, since she was 12. while she is studying 9th standard it started like a converstion between us through phone and she proposed me, i went on excitement that my dream come true and i expressed my heart felt love towards her.. Am a silent type...
    muttakannand muttakannand 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 12

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    I Am Worthless

    I am a complete failure, people tell me its not my fault but want do they know. See I am 39 years old and I really don't know what love is. I will start from the beginning I love my dad but he beat me because he was unhappy with my mom, my mom had a hard life and seem to take it...
    imworthless5 imworthless5 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    My Love Story

    Hi my name is Alex, I liked a girl Sandhya sk for last 5 years, we were very close to each other, we  not fought even a day, we both were mad about each other, recently about 3 months back she got a job after her graduation, now she realised that her parents will not agree for...
    Alex4one Alex4one 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    I'm A Love Failure

    After seeing all the posts of the love failures even i thought of sharing my story so that i can reduce my pain. I cant write the whole story yet i try to convey it in simple way "I did the Searching and Remembering. She did the Disappearing and the Forgetting". Well, Coming...
    ysrishi ysrishi 22-25 Dec 2, 2013

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    My Pain On Broken Love

    Hi friends!                   I am an engineering student and this story tells u that how a man should not be a saddist to a girl and also not to play with her feelings. I know there will be some mistakes in my English but any...
    deepisin deepisin 22-25, M 5 Responses Nov 8, 2009

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    I Mis Him

    love is a pain... our's is arranged marriage ... but we love eachother... at first everything is good.. he is a good man.. we r happy... but from some days i feel like our relation is not happy... becoz of office he will be with me for few hrs only.... in that few hrs also our...
    sireeshasai sireeshasai 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Finished

    I am finished.I give up. I am done.  I find that I am semi-likable but totally unlovable.   I tried one of the better dating sites.  After a month my profile has been 'viewed' by over 600 women. Not one even thought me worth a closer look,I send emails to over 50 women whose...
    solocelt solocelt 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    This Dude. (Friend-Zoned)

    I liked him. I've told him I liked him. He was cool with it, ya know? Told me everything would be the same. ...I wish I could back in time and have the guts to smack the hell outta him then. Of COURSE things are gunna change. That's life. I was too infatuated to see it before...
    shadowedfantasies shadowedfantasies 16-17 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    Time To Call It Quits

         I am in my early 50's and over my entire dating life, I have only been involved with 5 women.     I didn't make any of them happy and they all broke my heart to varying degrees.    My wife has left me and am discovering that I seem to have nothing to offer a woman...
    solocelt solocelt 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    awholenewthing awholenewthing 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    Depressed By Love

    first i want to say my id is in my ex-lover name..i love him tat much.he loved me a lot.but as his elder sister got running marriage,his parents arranged a girl to marry him in his relation. he loves his family and don want to hurt them.so he break my love and gone away from...
    divish divish 18-21 3 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    I am working in call center one day a girl

    called me and she was complaining about our company services and she was very angry I resolved her issue and she requested me to give her my personal number and I provided her then we started to contact each other and meet each other and like each other but did not share the...
    Ajmal786 Ajmal786 16-17, M Feb 5

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    The Three Words Which Spoiled My Life Nothing But'i Love You'

    before starting my love story i would like to introduce myself.i am tradition and innocent and very sensitive girl.my father died at the age of 11. ok let me introduce my story.when i am studying b.tech 3 rd year my love story started.i like the people who cares me and who...
    swett swett 22-25 12 Responses Dec 29, 2011

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    A Complete Failure

    I come from a decent family background and a country which is rich in cultures. I am in love with my guy for the past 10 months now.I was so happy.I liked him like anything on earth.Trusted him to a full extent believing he would never leave me.We had so many silly fights...
    thapasya thapasya 26-30 5 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    A 3 Word Sentence To Death

      I LOVE her... i miss u.... don't leave me.. i used to end the day by watching our picture spending together in Chennai beach. The day u said u don't love me.i live like a fruit with out pulp,man with out happy.., all i had is SAD and TEARS.., please dont leave me I LOVE...
    durru durru 22-25 Dec 23, 2012

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    Here's Why..

    When i enter into a relationship i automatically think to myself 'why bother its not like we're going to get married anyways' so from that point on the relationship just dies. people make relationships look easy but to each its own i guess.
    joycub joycub 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2012

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    Another One Bites The Dust

    I have been heartbroken ever since middle school when I found my first love. From there, all the men in my life have completely made me sad in one way or another. There were times when I though I was the problem, but later I have realized that I have just been too sensitive...
    cleargerman cleargerman 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

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    She Is Playing With My Emotions And I Cann't Stop Loving Her

    Long time ago i loved a girl from my heart and i tried to do everything to please her, she was not rejecting what i was doing but everytime i feel that i am close to her heart, she starts to ignore me and telling me indirectly that i am not the suitable person for her and that i...
    kikopan kikopan 31-35 2 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Im Terrible In Communication.

    I mostly talk about anime, & girls don't like that. I don't know if I can keep a girlfriend.v.v
    SecretHentaiBoy SecretHentaiBoy 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2011

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    Decision.... Now...or Until When??

    Yesterday...while I was watching my boyfriend playing basketball bare-footed ...I am starting to imagine what could be my future with him… as time pass…Is he contented with that? he is not getting any younger. I felt like I wanted to escape this relationship that is going...
    envlained envlained 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    I Am Missing You Arpy... By Putta...

    I met my angel first time in HR dept. i don't remember the day, but still i remember how my angel was looking... she was wearing a salwar, looking homely, and she was busy with filling her application form.   and i was troubleshooting a system... yes I met the most wonderful...
    arpyandPutta arpyandPutta 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 15, 2013

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    hi my Name is Raj i was fall in love with a

    girl during my childhood when i was at 7th standard i tried a lot to say her pray to god alot thatshe must love me the same and when i was at 12th standard told my friend to say her that i love her he do as usual but she replied i mustsay in front of her then next day i do the...
    rajchopra2491 rajchopra2491 22-25, M Feb 16

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    It's obvious that I'll never have a loving relationship b/c I'm always a failure and I'm not getting any younger...

    I'm already in my forties and still never yet found a loving relationship..   Every time I tried to get aquainted with a guy I always fail. I always been rejected.   When I spot loving couples kissing I get frustrated and turn away b/c it will only remind me of a loving...
    Laura444 Laura444 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    I Myself Spoiled My Love

    I loved a girl from November 2002, i Proposed to her at the same month. but she refused my love but i cant forget her so i was always insisting her to love me. atlast after 4 years at the date of 7.8.2006, she accepted my love. so till march 2010 we were so happy with some small...
    karthickscoob karthickscoob 22-25 1 Response Jul 19, 2010

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    I Dono Whether Am A Love Failure

    Hi Friends, am an engineering graduate and now applied for Masters. am poor in english but i think this much will explain what i want to express.. When i was 12 year old i met a girl who was a good friend of mine and also like a teacher advising me whats good and which is not...
    Mattewmanik Mattewmanik 22-25 2 Responses Jun 23, 2010

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    True Love For Me

    Ava enna eamathita but na avala ippailla eppavum love pannuva eana my love is true
    jjyuvaraj jjyuvaraj 22-25, M Aug 11, 2013

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    One Wild Night I Saw Her

    Hungry and wild she was born to the night A demon, a daughter of madness One look from her eyes could burn you alive...Drown you in oceans of sadness Oh - even the deadly shades of night Won't let me hide... from her eyes of fire Face in the mirror we meet eye to eye Passions of...
    WannaKissU WannaKissU 31-35, M Nov 13, 2013

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    Ok well I'm 20 I got 4 GCSE's in school and dropped out of college twice so great start. I've always known I was a failure and I have come to terms with it. I mean you can tell if...
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