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I Am a Complicated Person

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    Most of us in fact are.

    Don't assume you can figure me out by chatting, or my groups. Chatting looses so much. Words meaning can change with body and face expressions.
    ItsSIRtoyou ItsSIRtoyou 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 14

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    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 9 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    More like I cannot be defined.

    I've chatted with plenty of people here about any number of subjects. Some yes, more adult in nature. ;). More often than not however discussing relationship issues. based on discussions in "real life" as well, I think I have some skill in narrowing issues down for people...
    Luckranger71 Luckranger71 41-45, M Apr 7, 2014

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    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 7 Responses May 30, 2014

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    Not Here For Naughty Fun Exchanges

    For those who care to read and also for those who don't care not to read and know first how I interact.I'm not here for nuaghty fun exchanges. I am not all for sex. If I want or need fun, I'd rather have it in real life.Checking and reading your Profiles after sending an invite...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 9 Responses May 2, 2013

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    I seise to even understand myself & feelings,

    there just so complicated a lot of times that I start asking questions when nobody can answer those questions but me....but find it yet impossible to answer them. (Since I'm asking the question...) I can't expect anyone ever to answer questions about me and my life, I need to...
    Cooper802 Cooper802 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    I realize that there is no pleasing someone

    who isn't happy with themselves-- so I just have to let them go and do their thing. But damn if it doesn't suck investing your time in someone for it all to fizzle out.
    KismetWrites KismetWrites 31-35 3 Responses May 6, 2014

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    Sometimes it feel like I'm a walking,

    talking definition of complicated
    ZnikiZ ZnikiZ 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    I'm only a teen but I've been noticing this

    year I've been getting very rude and angry. I just can't control myself. I'll list why. 1) Culture clash - I can't do what I want without being judged. I'm constantly shamed if I want to hangout with a friend (which I barely do) for lunch. They'll be like, eat lunch here. No...
    AriannaMariee AriannaMariee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I get easily attached

    but I also get tired of them the moment I lose interest. I'm messed up.
    alltimestrokes alltimestrokes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    It Started When I Was Young

    I believe things that happen to you at a young age, mold you into the person you are today. I am not your "normal" person. I see things differently than most. We could be standing side by side and see a color, you would say it was blue, I would say it was black.I have always been...
    JustcallmeCurly JustcallmeCurly 46-50, F Sep 29, 2012

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    The most complicated of people are those

    who walk around with words running through their mind, yet choose silence when they're in presence of you. These people are dangerous. Dangerously complicatedly beautiful. Don't dismiss them for their words, for their silence might dismiss you, and then who will save you? When...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 2 Responses May 3

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    Through The Rabbit Hole.

    I'm sitting in my bedroom and the day is half done already. The air is chilly but it reminds me a little bit of being back in Indy during the fall, so it's a comfortable sort of chill. It's something familiar.I've sat here many times over the past weeks, just thinking about my...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    Angelofthesilencess Angelofthesilencess 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 14

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    KendraKitty KendraKitty 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    Im very complicated kinda old fashioned in a

    scence, But very simple honest and sincere here. I have likes people don't approve of or cant relate. But to each is own.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M Aug 22

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    I've been told this thousands of times

    and really it all comes down to trust for me. I don't trust easy, so I remain a closed book. Plenty of people have asked me "don't you trust me" or said "if you trusted me, you'd do this..." And it's not that I don't want to trust people, it's just that I wear my heart on my...
    waywardgirl98 waywardgirl98 16-17, F Aug 20

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    at times I'm sentimental,

    at times I'm silly ..you really don't know what to expect...hell sometimes I surprise myself
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 1 Response May 14

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    I've been told so many times how hard I am to

    work with. I always expect things to go my way and if they don't I can be very complicated.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 22

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    AllSortsThings AllSortsThings 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Just spend a day with me

    and you'd understand. I'm really thoughtful and question everything, do my own thing quietly sometimes, sometimes I'm loud, sometimes I'll just sit in complete silence... Not a thought in my mind. If you could figure out what goes on in my mind and why for every second of one...
    Bingabang Bingabang 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Complicated, Yes..

    I am cut into a puzzle, with a picture that's black. My multi-paneled face is where I shelve a horde of masks. I quip and gibe, for I am a toddler. I have wisdom but only because of you, father. I bend and fold my heart to match any sword. Which results in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 28, 2011

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    Don't be a jerk. Try to love everyone.

    Give more than you take. And do it despite the fact that you only really like about seven out of five hundred people.
    MyGuardianAngel MyGuardianAngel 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    People Aren't Logical

    Just because I interrupt you while you're talking because a thought has suddenly exploded into my mind without warning and it has temporarily captured the entirety of my attention doesn't mean that I don't think you're interesting and amazing and that I don't want to listen to...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    Earthlostangel Earthlostangel 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2014

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    Earthlostangel Earthlostangel 46-50, F Jun 8

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    Being with you is like having the air sucked

    out of my lungs. In a room full of people who will never understand because I can never let them. I'm hiding in plain sight, things about me that I don't care to tell, but then again, you don't care to ask. I've never been accused of being cold but I have been told I'm boring...
    annalea annalea 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I understand that. I'm hard to figure out

    and I act like I don't care. But for once in my life I want someone to understand why I cry at 3 am and not ask me questions. Someone who will just tell me they're there for me and care about me. Someone who wants to get to know the real me and tear the walls I created. Someone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Making me jealous will only push me away from

    you. It won't make me want you more. If I see someone who is making you a lot happier than I am, I'll back up because I'll assume you want that person a lot more. Although it'll hurt seeing someone other than me make you happy, I'll leave it to them to keep you entertained. I...
    serenitee068 serenitee068 22-25, F 4 Responses May 18, 2014

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    I'm so complicated, I can't

    even describe how complicated I am! I'm so complicated, Rubik's cubes try to figure me out!
    MisunderstoodGirl69 MisunderstoodGirl69 13-15, F 1 Response May 19

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    I'm afraid to get hurt.

    I feel like I'm going to be alone forever because I'm always afraid I'm going to add a heart break on top of the pile of all my other problems that I have to deal with daily. Please don't hate me for that
    izzyx15 izzyx15 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    Aren't we all? Human.

    Flawed. Contradictory. If you want to understand anyone, you first have to understand that we are all complicated.
    utahwriter utahwriter 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 1, 2014

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    You know what the most hurtful thing is?

    Is that I really wanted him to love me. Love me deeply and mean it. I wanted him to tell me that I meant something to him. But I suppose I didn't think that what I needed was for myself to be honest. Be honest... What does he mean to you? Everything! Or maybe not... But he meant...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F Apr 15

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    I am a complicated person.

    Even to myself. I have many emotions that make me this way.
    BellaGirl7 BellaGirl7 41-45, F 6 Responses May 20, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 8

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    Day Dreams.

    My entire personality has been composed of day dreaming. I don't think I was born with any particular personality traits but rather composed myself as a musician to his composition. When I look outside there are telephone wires and grey shabby chic buildings I see the birds...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I'm happy being alone

    but there's nights where I crave affection. Like a warm body to sleep next to, a chest to bury my face into, a warm and welcoming hug ( I haven't had one of those in over a year now), the physical presence of just a person who matters to me to share the moment and simply talk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 29

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    I am a person with Bi-polar2 / border line

    personality disorder....so I am up and down, side ways some days...and dislike being judged due to the fact that I have these disorders, we are not crazy, dangerous or any of the stigmas that go with it, just a little more feeling than most.....I feel disconnected at times, but...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    I don't deny it. I'm complicated,

    there are many layers to my personality and ways. I sometimes embrace it, sometimes I don't.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Aug 6

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    Emotionless and Sadistic,

    Gentle and Caring, Homicidal and Confusing, Silent and depressed... my mind can't make its decision v,v I probably got some mental health issues from my dad or something, bipolar maybe? I can easily switch through these several times a day o.O often for no reason, it sucks...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I feel so upset for letting myself get

    so fat. I went to cook for Gloria several years ago when I weighed 145 lbs. I doubled my weight and then some to over. 300. Gloria was delighted , she wanted a fat girlfriend. At the time I didn't realize she wanted to get me even fatter and eventually immobile. Now at over 700...
    Rhondalynne Rhondalynne 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Since I have been on EP,

    I have done a lot of writing. I share my stories, feelings, hopes and dreams with you because it's a good outlet for me. I come here and feel very much at home. I've made some wonderful friends and have been able to put in words what I'm thinking, feeling, what moves me, what...
    lavendersea lavendersea 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    I love to work hard and to learn & just not to

    get a degree but I naturally love learning. When I little, I always said I wanna be a chef, I still have that passion & desire but I recently had an anxiety attack & said that I'm destined to be a computer engineer considering I love apple. But I do have ADHD & I know how hard...
    ialame ialame 22-25, M Aug 11

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    Feeling A Little Less Complicated Today

    Finally got something off my chest that had been bothering me for some time and I'm feeling good about it. I didn't realize how much it actually was bugging me until I came clean about it so I'm glad I did. Life doesn't have to be so complicated, speak up if you're unhappy about...
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2013

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    I tend not to care about people close to me

    (except for my parents) once I don't see or be with them anymore. I still get in touch with friends and relatives but there's no emotional attachment at all. I know I sound cold but it's true...
    alltimestrokes alltimestrokes 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I bought some heels. I loved them.

    I walked in them and I admired their design. But they started to hurt my feet, it became painful to walk in them and I was unstable when I stood up. I realised that somewhere in their design there was a flaw. But a flaw not all could see. I still wanted to wear them because they...
    TheWestlifer TheWestlifer 18-21, F 3 Responses May 11

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