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I Am a Complicated Person

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    Curious.

    I'm not sure what prompted me to write again after all this time. I suppose it could have been a text I received from a friend, or a book I've spent the better part of my Sunday absorbed with.. but the end result is the same no matter the cause. Tonight, I feel that I have to...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    I'm a person who doesn't feel hurt

    when people say something out of place until days later. Someone who understands people more than himself yet wishes for someone to understand him. I'm a person who has dreams of apocalypse but hopes everyone stays safe whether they are criminal or saint. I'm a person who can't...
    kai2 kai2 22-25, M Jan 28

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    its a clever coat and scarf I wrap up in.

    .. honestly... I never notice anything..I may as well be blind. particularly here...its sssoooo involved... oblivious... subterfuge skips by me... tertiary agendas are lost.. I am just a fool...trying to be something I am not.. rest assured.. I know nothing,...nor do I...
    tacitlygarrulous tacitlygarrulous 70+, M 1 Response Apr 16

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    i am high contrast every moment.

    i am serious but quirky, slow but smart, ditzy but ingenious, naughty but innocent, cynical but optimistic, outspoken but quiet, passionate but removed, soft but tough, pretty but not beautiful, clumsy but elegant, dainty but rough, sweet but crude, careless but gentle, open but...
    Greeneyedgrr1 Greeneyedgrr1 18-21, F 6 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    So much goes on in my head,

    sometimes it's hard to put into words.
    Infinite17 Infinite17 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    A lot of people I know think they have me all

    figured out. I'm so easy to talk to and a nice, sweet person. Well, those things may be true. But there is so much more to me than what most people understand about me...even I have trouble figuring out what goes on in my own head at times. I keep hoping there is at least...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm a person who understands people more

    than himself yet wishes for someone to understand him. I'm a person who has dreams of apocalypse but hopes everyone stays safe whether they are criminal or saint. I am a complicated person.
    bgupta766 bgupta766 31-35, M Mar 17

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    Why Must I Even Confuse Myself?

    It's so darn hard to get someone to understand who I am... my personalty is that of a paranoid,passionate,unhappy with life,yet happy with what life has to offer,understanding,not judging,yet judging,sarcastic jerk... Does that make any sense?! That's the best way to put it.. and...
    Areluen Areluen 16-17 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    This is extremely true

    for most aspects of my life. Probably the most complicated thing about me is the fact that I'm pretty black-and-white on a lot of topics dealing with relationships. For instance, there's no negotiation for cheating in my book. If you cheat on me, it's over. Period. I've been...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    A lot of people say I'm childish

    and stubborn when I don't do what they say. Some guys don't even know what "No" means and keep asking me for pictures and all that jazz. It gets really annoying. I hate taking selfies and being on Skype. It's so annoying when people get mad at me because I'm complicated. Just so...
    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    What Do You Think?

    I am so complicated. I want people to do certain things for me but I don't want to have to tell them to do it. I want certain people in my life, but only some of the time. I want to break out and do my own thing, but I know that I need someone to hold my hand along the way. I...
    DestinyLovexo DestinyLovexo 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    A dictionary open....

    an encyclopedia read through... no explanation for the person she is.... Thrusts herself up from the desk. Frustrated with the lack of answers for herself...... and they think they know me? Ah naw.... Storms by.... One finger touches the first bookcase.... anger topples them...
    chastewhisperer chastewhisperer 41-45, F Feb 26

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    Day Dreams.

    My entire personality has been composed of day dreaming. I don't think I was born with any particular personality traits but rather composed myself as a musician to his composition. When I look outside there are telephone wires and grey shabby chic buildings I see the birds...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I'm 21. Still I'm confused about the life style

    I've to pick. I wanted to be a nun since my child hood. But when I contacted a congregation and talked to the head about this, she said that I need to be more mature, and she referred me to a Spiritual director. When I talked with him in phone, it didn't take him much long. He r...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Im a train reck in the morning .

    Im a ***** in the afternoon . Every now and then without warning , I can be really mean towards you . Im a puzzle yes , indeed . Every complex and everyway . And all the pieces arent even in the pie . But yet ... you see the picture clear as day , I dont know why you love me...
    BeautynBrains4 BeautynBrains4 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    A Very Happy Belated Birthday Gift...

    I can't say I believe in Angels or Miracles but something brought me to where I met her It is a Bizarre feeling...sensing a haunting presence One that feels so familiar Yet, The How and Why are so Elusive The mutual draw, I just knew From the instant I saw her, ...and trust me...
    Ferric67 Ferric67 36-40, M Feb 3, 2012

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    Complicated Very

    And it would be scary to find someone who really understood me... there is always something new and different and (sometimes) exciting about me... to truly understand me... under all the complicated structures... would be an amazing feat. Someone would have to really take a...
    PoeticRejection PoeticRejection 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2007

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    Stop Trying To Figure Me Out

    People try so awfully hard to figure me out but I'm to complicated
    unicorncat unicorncat 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Knots

    Blacks, whites and gray are twisted inside me, leaving me with too many interest and outlets, like all mad creators who fumbles about with their experiments, prodding and toying with experiences--that many prefer to read. No one is as brave and resilient as I. For not the strong...
    DomDGrade DomDGrade 31-35, M Nov 21, 2013

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    Very very much so. Mentally emotionally

    and health wise. But that's who I am!
    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Why do I end up liking guys

    who aren't THAT into me or aren't emotionally available and not feel anything for those who are so keen and willing?! I don't choose it consciously but it just happens ending up this way! It's like a never ending chasing game and it's so exhausting and freakin' annoying!!! Why...
    thiscatownsme thiscatownsme 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    It Started When I Was Young

    I believe things that happen to you at a young age, mold you into the person you are today. I am not your "normal" person. I see things differently than most. We could be standing side by side and see a color, you would say it was blue, I would say it was black.I have always been...
    JustcallmeCurly JustcallmeCurly 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    Complicated Mess: Who Is The Real Me?

    I am complicated, really complicated I must say. People around me must have feel that too, but no one ever tells me that. I look like the average girl next door : not pretty, not clever, not rich. In school, I am labelled as a nerd. But strangely, i dont mind that people think I...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 28, 2010

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    I'm so complicated sometimes,

    I confuse myself...
    DefineMe7 DefineMe7 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I'm complicated Betches XD .

    ... Luv you ^_^ Hector: o_O...~_~' I contradict I'm kinda a ***** Some might say I'm kinda psychaotic like I'm twistedly narcissistic... I'm probably Emo d:}D Word ^_^' Hector: That doesn't even make sense >_< Me: Oh but it makes sense for your mom and me to have chemistry...
    SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 18-21 Apr 4

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    I'm that single friend

    who gives friends all the relationship advice. Hehe. I have a guarded personality but I'll always be upfront and honest about things (besides my feelings). Like, I constantly find myself in playful bickers that started out as a simple joke or tease. The guy who sorta likes me...
    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Picture

    I can imagine from you reading my stories, you get these contrasting pictures of me between a darling gentleman with all the sought after qualities of a nice guy and the rogue with a carnivorous hunger for sensuality, affection, raw passion and pure love. Yes I am that complex, I...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Complicated and unpredictable.

    . I don't even understand myself and will never understand :|
    CloversMoon CloversMoon 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I Know I'm Different

    I wont deny that I am a very complicated person. Very few people understand me but then again I dont understand them. I have a very complex way of reasoning and I make situations so complicated for myself that what was actually a simple problem I have made it so complicated in my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 29, 2012

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    Haylay Haylay 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    so complicated to the point I struggle to

    even understand myself sometimes. I spend a lot of my time thinking .. mostly overthinking. I make things more stressful than they should be & I hate that I feel like im just existing. I often wish I had the motivation to be more & do more .. but it isn't there. I'm surrounded...
    highforthis highforthis 18-21, F Feb 1

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    About being complicated.

    ..I want the emotional connection..yet push people away. I want to be a bit more extroverted...but I'm totally not that person. I want love, but don't want to get hurt. I want to be happy...but yet seem to sabotage myself. I don't get why I am the way I am...but it's a bit...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    People Aren't Logical

    Just because I interrupt you while you're talking because a thought has suddenly exploded into my mind without warning and it has temporarily captured the entirety of my attention doesn't mean that I don't think you're interesting and amazing and that I don't want to listen to...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I refuse to conform with what society has to

    offer me. Lately, I find myself confused. I'm looking for the reason of my confusion, but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack. The transition from being a boy to a man is much harder than I thought it would be. I shut myself down the past 3 years, and over those three...
    Mojo51 Mojo51 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Complicated......

    Feelings & Emotions:  They are the very weakness of all humans, body, mind and soul, They can be friendly and warm, loving and content, or they can be the very evil, cold, tear you apart, They can bring you happiness, and feeling of love, or they can bring you nothing but pain...
    DarkThornedLilyRose43 DarkThornedLilyRose43 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    People are so predictable,

    that I am so bored with life. The same dumb comments over and over. I used to enjoy it. Now everyone and everything is soo boring to me. Life is so not interesting to me anymore. I think because I want to go out and experience life away from the computer. With real people...
    Muckyfuss Muckyfuss 31-35, F Dec 29, 2013

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    To Call Me Antisocial (is That A Hyphenated Word?)

    Proves to me, beyond any doubt... That you hold a poor sense in understanding Moi! (I need to fulfill my French Quota for the day!) I'm not specifically naming anyone with allegations Nor am I pointing fingers (or mouse...just for the record I use an IPad) For my record keeping...
    Ferric67 Ferric67 36-40, M 3 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    People talk about my boobs I just found out

    (specially guys) I really don't know if im ok with that or if it makes me uncomfortable... Not much I can do.. It kind of makes me subconscious about my self, but at the same time it makes me feel sexy... I like feeling sexy but I don't like feeling like an object.
    ifos ifos 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    Just spend a day with me

    and you'd understand. I'm really thoughtful and question everything, do my own thing quietly sometimes, sometimes I'm loud, sometimes I'll just sit in complete silence... Not a thought in my mind. If you could figure out what goes on in my mind and why for every second of one...
    Bingabang Bingabang 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I am in love, and I am taken,

    and I love being in love and belonging. I love being able to accept and love, but when I can't everything starts to wobble a bit and things take off from there. I often think there is something wrong with me, and perhaps there is. I'm quick to hesitate, and fiercely...
    trytostealthisname trytostealthisname 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Not Here For Naughty Fun Exchanges

    For those who care to read and also for those who don't care not to read and know first how I interact.I'm not here for nuaghty fun exchanges. I am not all for sex. If I want or need fun, I'd rather have it in real life.Checking and reading your Profiles after sending an invite...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 13 Responses May 2, 2013

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    Some Days,

    I love everyone and want to help everyone out and such. Other days, I ******* hate everyone and think everyone should die because they all suck. Some days, I'll feel confident with myself and be happy. Other days, I am so insecure I don't even want to go out. Some days, I'll be...
    universesoul universesoul 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Most of the time things pop out of my mouth

    and the other person's response is "huh?" Why is it that when I write a paper I can explain myself soooo easily...but when I simply try to explain a TV show or my dreams, they come out sounding like a 5 year old spoke it.
    abbidavidovna abbidavidovna 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    KendraKitty KendraKitty 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    More like I cannot be defined.

    I've chatted with plenty of people here about any number of subjects. Some yes, more adult in nature. ;). More often than not however discussing relationship issues. based on discussions in "real life" as well, I think I have some skill in narrowing issues down for people...
    Luckranger71 Luckranger71 41-45, M Apr 7

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    This life, this situation,

    these people… they are all bullshit. Sometimes I just want to leave and start over. Start everything over. But I can't, my responsibilities and small problems consume me. It's eating away at me, pretty soon there will be nothing left. So hold me if you can, but sooner or later...
    Mojo51 Mojo51 16-17, M Jan 26

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    “I am complicated. half of my poems are

    warning people not to get close to me and the other half are begging them to come near. I am not simple. I am not the kind of person you fall in love with. Please, love me.”
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 27

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    Through The Rabbit Hole.

    I'm sitting in my bedroom and the day is half done already. The air is chilly but it reminds me a little bit of being back in Indy during the fall, so it's a comfortable sort of chill. It's something familiar.I've sat here many times over the past weeks, just thinking about my...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 14 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    Just Human

    I used to think that I was a very complex person. I laugh at this notion now. The older that I get, the more typical I become it seems. I have learned that for the most part, we are all pretty basic when you get right down to the heart of matters. We all share certain basic...
    hillbillycrone hillbillycrone 51-55, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    I'm sure the majority of you

    who liked this experience aren't quiet as intricate as you think.
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 16-17, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Complicated, Yes..

    I am cut into a puzzle, with a picture that's black. My multi-paneled face is where I shelve a horde of masks. I quip and gibe, for I am a toddler. I have wisdom but only because of you, father. I bend and fold my heart to match any sword. Which results in...
    AcloudOnTheGround AcloudOnTheGround 26-30, M 16 Responses Apr 28, 2011

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    Everything about me is considered "complicated".

    My interests, fashion, way of thinking and hobbies. But that's what makes me who I am.
    LilithAbney LilithAbney 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I've reached a point now,

    where I can't even feel anymore. Everything is black and white.. I can't even answer to the question 'how was your week' cause it was a week, nothing special, just a day after another. I really need time to think about questions like how I feel about stuff and answer it but I...
    BlaBla01 BlaBla01 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The Way I Am

    First off…to my friends that so graciously offered to help me talk through something on my mind yesterday, Thank you. Truly and Sincerely.That being said….My mind is an incredibly bizarre thing. It seems to thrive on information…and whenever it doesn't have all the...
    amodelcitizen amodelcitizen 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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