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I Am a Complicated Person

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    I believe that most people are complicated,

    although saying that, I suppose I feel kinda like a ball of chaos. It's difficult trying to be yourself when you have so many damn 'selves'. Countless sides to your personality, and quite frankly I can't even keep track of who (or what) I am. I almost rely on the people...
    TheOriginalDarkHorse TheOriginalDarkHorse 18-21, F 1 Response May 18

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    Day Dreams.

    My entire personality has been composed of day dreaming. I don't think I was born with any particular personality traits but rather composed myself as a musician to his composition. When I look outside there are telephone wires and grey shabby chic buildings I see the birds...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Stones On Bed

    I just din't know what to write and how to write so i am starting with random stuffs. I was trying to chhose a topic and to stick around that but i found it extremely difficult. I kepy thinking about title of the story and nothing came in my mind. Since there was no story it was...
    NotaGreenberet NotaGreenberet 26-30, M Nov 19, 2013

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    I'm a bit of a narcissist,

    yet I'm quite humble at the same time.
    journeyyy journeyyy 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't know what happened to me.

    . but I just lost my motivation for study, sport, hang out with my friends, "my dreams", hobbies...for life.. There is nothing at this moment that would motivate me to do anything.. I really don't know what should I do.. I read all kinds of motivational books, I was at a few...
    ledege ledege 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 5

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    When someone hurt me badly I keep calm.

    .. Cuz i know how to hurt them back badly...if i do it..they can't even face me again.... :-/
    shikoko shikoko 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    A lot of people say I'm childish

    and stubborn when I don't do what they say. Some guys don't even know what "No" means and keep asking me for pictures and all that jazz. It gets really annoying. I hate taking selfies and being on Skype. It's so annoying when people get mad at me because I'm complicated. Just so...
    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 7 Responses Apr 16

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    I know that being an HSP(High Sensitive

    Personality) issue make me look so easily to talk to...but also hard to understand as well. Let me take you in a tour in myself so to understand or try to understand myself as i try to understand me as well. I have been into a lot in my life from the day i was born but always...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 3 Responses May 20

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    Complicated, Yes..

    I am cut into a puzzle, with a picture that's black. My multi-paneled face is where I shelve a horde of masks. I quip and gibe, for I am a toddler. I have wisdom but only because of you, father. I bend and fold my heart to match any sword. Which results in...
    PrinceAdonis PrinceAdonis 26-30, M 16 Responses Apr 28, 2011

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    CompassionateCoffee CompassionateCoffee 13-15 2 Responses Apr 26

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    People are so predictable,

    that I am so bored with life. The same dumb comments over and over. I used to enjoy it. Now everyone and everything is soo boring to me. Life is so not interesting to me anymore. I think because I want to go out and experience life away from the computer. With real people...
    Muckyfuss Muckyfuss 31-35, F Dec 29, 2013

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    Through The Rabbit Hole.

    I'm sitting in my bedroom and the day is half done already. The air is chilly but it reminds me a little bit of being back in Indy during the fall, so it's a comfortable sort of chill. It's something familiar.I've sat here many times over the past weeks, just thinking about my...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 14 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    Curious.

    I'm not sure what prompted me to write again after all this time. I suppose it could have been a text I received from a friend, or a book I've spent the better part of my Sunday absorbed with.. but the end result is the same no matter the cause. Tonight, I feel that I have to...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    I have quite the few illnesses

    that could classify me as being a complicated person, my personality doesn't help either. I really am a problem child!!
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    i am high contrast every moment.

    i am serious but quirky, slow but smart, ditzy but ingenious, naughty but innocent, cynical but optimistic, outspoken but quiet, passionate but removed, soft but tough, pretty but not beautiful, clumsy but elegant, dainty but rough, sweet but crude, careless but gentle, open but...
    Greeneyedgrr1 Greeneyedgrr1 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 23

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    Im a train reck in the morning .

    Im a ***** in the afternoon . Every now and then without warning , I can be really mean towards you . Im a puzzle yes , indeed . Every complex and everyway . And all the pieces arent even in the pie . But yet ... you see the picture clear as day , I dont know why you love me...
    BeautynBrains4 BeautynBrains4 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    I am a complicated person.

    Even to myself. I have many emotions that make me this way.
    BellaGirl7 BellaGirl7 36-40, F 7 Responses May 20

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    It Started When I Was Young

    I believe things that happen to you at a young age, mold you into the person you are today. I am not your "normal" person. I see things differently than most. We could be standing side by side and see a color, you would say it was blue, I would say it was black.I have always been...
    JustcallmeCurly JustcallmeCurly 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2012

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    Thekidsmom Thekidsmom 36-40, F 8 Responses May 30

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    It is time for me to delete this app.

    Too many perverts here and I'm embarrassed to be associated with a site that allows the propagation if perversion and freaks. See ya!
    Unit97 Unit97 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    Not Here For Naughty Fun Exchanges

    For those who care to read and also for those who don't care not to read and know first how I interact.I'm not here for nuaghty fun exchanges. I am not all for sex. If I want or need fun, I'd rather have it in real life.Checking and reading your Profiles after sending an invite...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 11 Responses May 2, 2013

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    More like I cannot be defined.

    I've chatted with plenty of people here about any number of subjects. Some yes, more adult in nature. ;). More often than not however discussing relationship issues. based on discussions in "real life" as well, I think I have some skill in narrowing issues down for people...
    Luckranger71 Luckranger71 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Everything seems so clear in my mind

    yet when I try to explain myself it comes out as a babble and a puff of air. No one truly understands me. I am such a very difficult person to understand and my action, motives, thoughts, everything, just seem to be overly complicated.
    dianeemariee dianeemariee 13-15, F Jul 22

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    KendraKitty KendraKitty 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    Earthlostangel Earthlostangel 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I used to think I was easy going.

    Then I got married. I've realized that not only am I not easy going but I like getting my way. That being said I came here to make friends so lets do some psychoanalysis on me... I have trust issues. I do and I realize it. Not that that helps tho. I've noticed I'm a quiet guy...
    Phnxrising Phnxrising 26-30, M 2 Responses May 8

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    Mixed Bi Polar,(highs

    and lows at the same time),Dyslexic,ADD and a feminine straight man...I'm so confused!
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 3 Responses Jun 30

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    Complicated Very

    And it would be scary to find someone who really understood me... there is always something new and different and (sometimes) exciting about me... to truly understand me... under all the complicated structures... would be an amazing feat. Someone would have to really take a...
    PoeticRejection PoeticRejection 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2007

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    courtneyyyx331 courtneyyyx331 18-21, F 2 Responses May 30

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    Just spend a day with me

    and you'd understand. I'm really thoughtful and question everything, do my own thing quietly sometimes, sometimes I'm loud, sometimes I'll just sit in complete silence... Not a thought in my mind. If you could figure out what goes on in my mind and why for every second of one...
    Bingabang Bingabang 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    paradox14 paradox14 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    I Prefer "Intriguing"

    I don't think I'm complicated but I have had others tell me that they think I am. I think I am different and intriguing. I take life very simply.  It really isn't that hard. People try to look for things that aren't there and don't see the things that are obvious.  The things...
    TheBlackBuck TheBlackBuck 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    Picture

    I can imagine from you reading my stories, you get these contrasting pictures of me between a darling gentleman with all the sought after qualities of a nice guy and the rogue with a carnivorous hunger for sensuality, affection, raw passion and pure love. Yes I am that complex, I...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    What I think of me? Good things My hair: it's

    one of my best features: and I love dying it funky colors. My eyes, they can change colors depending on the light. Their normal color is bottom of the lake blue. My voice, I hope to get a record deal some day. My front teeth, they're straight. My writings, obviously, because...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 1 Response May 1

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    Reason: I understand words

    for what they are. I was told I don't listen. But I do. until I realized he ment do as I am told
    miracle3054 miracle3054 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 6

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    Ask anyone who knows me well,

    and they will probably tell you that they can't figure me out. I have a mood disorder (bipolar), which can make me seem like even more of an enigma. I feel very deeply, I laugh a lot, I cry more than most guys do. It's just how I'm put together. I see it as a good thing; you'll...
    myguitarisbusted myguitarisbusted 41-45, M Jun 24

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    So I have been working at the night crew.

    It turns out the only reason they put me there was to take the fall for the other guy. I feel like such an idiot. But I'm going to quit, and I want to go to school. I'm trying to get the ball rolling but I'm not sure what I want to do. I want nursing but I don't want to wait...
    pewpew6488 pewpew6488 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 17

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    There was a news story on in the break room

    about a guy who got beat up at a baseball game by a fan of the other team. Someone said "I can't understand how someone could do that to another person." A couple of people made comments about how rabid some of the team in question's fans can get. What I said was "they have no...
    SilverSearching SilverSearching 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 26

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    I gave up on fitting in

    for the sake of having "friends" years ago and I have no regrets. I cannot relate to majority of humanity.
    knls knls 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Feeling A Little Less Complicated Today

    Finally got something off my chest that had been bothering me for some time and I'm feeling good about it. I didn't realize how much it actually was bugging me until I came clean about it so I'm glad I did. Life doesn't have to be so complicated, speak up if you're unhappy about...
    americanwitch americanwitch 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2013

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    kdperkin kdperkin 18-21, M 1 Response May 27

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    A Very Happy Belated Birthday Gift...

    I can't say I believe in Angels or Miracles but something brought me to where I met her It is a Bizarre feeling...sensing a haunting presence One that feels so familiar Yet, The How and Why are so Elusive The mutual draw, I just knew From the instant I saw her, ...and trust me...
    Ferric67 Ferric67 36-40, M Feb 3, 2012

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    I'm a Work in Progress.

    ... ...many people I know would simply call me a Piece of Work..:D
    Davido57 Davido57 56-60, M 1 Response May 4

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    People Aren't Logical

    Just because I interrupt you while you're talking because a thought has suddenly exploded into my mind without warning and it has temporarily captured the entirety of my attention doesn't mean that I don't think you're interesting and amazing and that I don't want to listen to...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    You can't talk to me!

    You don't understand your sex...you ain't been mindfucked yet.
    NobodyCanEverHearHerCall NobodyCanEverHearHerCall 22-25, F 5 Responses May 14

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    Some Days,

    I love everyone and want to help everyone out and such. Other days, I ******* hate everyone and think everyone should die because they all suck. Some days, I'll feel confident with myself and be happy. Other days, I am so insecure I don't even want to go out. Some days, I'll be...
    universesoul universesoul 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Making me jealous will only push me away from

    you. It won't make me want you more. If I see someone who is making you a lot happier than I am, I'll back up because I'll assume you want that person a lot more. Although it'll hurt seeing someone other than me make you happy, I'll leave it to them to keep you entertained. I...
    serenitee068 serenitee068 22-25, F 4 Responses May 18

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    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 2

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    Aren't we all? Human.

    Flawed. Contradictory. If you want to understand anyone, you first have to understand that we are all complicated.
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 1

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    This morning, like most mornings this week,

    I sent a good morning message to someone I am trying to rekindle a friendship with. I feel like I'm beating a dead horse. He's told me that he wants to be friends, heck his mom said he doesn't mind talking to me. But I always feel lol I'm talking to a wall. It's like I never get...
    BlankWhitePage BlankWhitePage 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 23

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    I realize that there is no pleasing someone

    who isn't happy with themselves-- so I just have to let them go and do their thing. But damn if it doesn't suck investing your time in someone for it all to fizzle out.
    KismetWrites KismetWrites 31-35 4 Responses May 6

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