I Am a Control Freak

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 317 People

    Am I Controlling Or Just Scared of Being Alone?

    Hello All, I have been havig some problems with an on and off, relationship. We have some very intense feelings for eachother. I wont go to into detail, but at the beginning, she moved away and i was to follow, we were not in a relationship, and i was close with her best...
    donnoguy donnoguy
    22-25
    1 Response Jul 8, 2009

    Totally Depressed -- Definitely Controlling

    Hi. I don't really know where to start with this. I never thought before that I was controlling. I always thought I had another complex instead. Some sort of Nightingale syndrome. I'm not a nurse, but I seem to date people that have "problems" that I can help them with. I'm...
    Buggie28 Buggie28
    22-25
    1 Response Jul 5, 2010

    Let Go...let God!

    I try to be in complete control over my destiny but all things cannot be anticipated or controlled.  I had to learn the hard way but now that I've learned to let go and let God; my life is so much more relaxed.
    ichooselife ichooselife
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2009

    I'm A Control Freak

    I just realized I'm a control freak I try to control my feelings. I try to keep everyone at a distance so I don't feel anything, Dat **** don't work!
    pinkgodess pinkgodess
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2010

    Big Argument

    I am a control freak.  My fiance and i just had massive fight.  It was over a minor thing, building debris (bricks etc) on front lawn, just asked when it would be moved as we are going away for a few days and i was thinking about security, or thats what i said as...
    littlecowpoo2 littlecowpoo2
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2009

    I Don't Want My Son to Grow Up to Be Like Me

    I am a control freak.  My father was one and I am one.  The cycle ends with me.  I don't know how, but I need to end it.  I am overly judgemental and need to change.  I now understand from a psychological and physiological perspective Why I am like...
    iamweak iamweak
    36-40
    1 Response Nov 16, 2008

    I Might Lose the Person I Love

    I am a control freak, which I just found out.  I have been with this amazing man for five years and we are planning on getting married in October.  He decides to tell me that he has been unhappy for two years and he is unsure if he wants to be with me, also  I...
    kelster kelster
    22-25
    4 Responses Dec 5, 2008

    I love control freaks!

    :) you can control me anytime.. if your from Perth, Australia pm me!! ;p
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 11, 2015

    I try to control everything in my life

    and everyone in my life. I tell my spouse what to do and then I tell him that he did that wrong. I try to control what my family does and what they think and if it is not my way it is the highway. I am sick of me.
    Karenflagg Karenflagg
    66-70, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2014

    Control Freak

    i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years on and off due to my immaturity sort of say. but now that we are living together i notice i am a control freak and i had brought upon myself many problems in my relationship. trust me you dont want to be an insecure control freak...
    jeanette1721 jeanette1721
    22-25
    1 Response Dec 30, 2010

    If I Don't Change, I'll Lose Everything That Matters

      My marriage is hanging by a thread for several reasons. One of the biggest reasons is because my husband feels like I control everything and that I need to lay off. objectively, I totally get what he's saying. If I go to bed early, I get so mad at him if he doesn't...
    nikki3585 nikki3585
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 14, 2009

    O.J. Simpson Will Pay For This!

    I was in college when O.J. Simpson's murder trial was going on. The public's obession with the case was as compelling as the case itself. On the day the verdict was announced, student's gathered in the school's campus center to see it on T.V. Hundreds of students gathered in a...
    CodyForrester CodyForrester
    36-40, M
    3 Responses May 21, 2009

    http://tinybuddha.com/blog/let-go-of-control-how-to-learn-the-art-of-surrender/ This is my first reach for help. Lol
    yousentmeflying yousentmeflying
    22-25, F
    Nov 24, 2014

    Control Freak

    i guess i have had bad things happen to me in life. who hasnt. ive learned from them and feel i can control what happens to me. the bad part is i try to control other people that can affect my life and it drives people away. i dont like being lonely! its a vicious circle.
    nrv1 nrv1
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 25, 2010

    I Admit It

    I need to control everything but that bring me a lot of frustrations because there are things that are well beyond my control.  I am also trying to let go but it is not easy.
    jc2009 jc2009
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

    Where Are All the Control Freaks?

    I'm surprised there are only two people in this group.  This is the major issue I am dealing with in my life.  My relationships are suffering because I always think I know best.  I believe this really contributed to my divorce since my ex never felt like he was...
    jendd810 jendd810
    26-30
    9 Responses Jan 14, 2008

    Hi Guys

    I would have to say this is probably one of my biggest vices. I live off of to-do lists and schedules.  I make plans and do my best to stick with them.  I do everything in my power to run things "smoothly" whether events or relationships. But on the plus...
    SearchingAlone SearchingAlone
    22-25
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2008

    I Hate Relying On People, For Anything.

     I'd rather put in more work to get something done, then let someone else do it. People are so careless these days. They're selfish, and only think of themselves.  Even if it takes me way longer to do something, let me do it. At least when I do it. It gets done...
    InfatuationAtItsBest InfatuationAtItsBest
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2009

    Why can I not control the people

    who message me and are writing like my 4 year old nephew. I do not want a world without intelligent people but could these people please stop writing me. Is it some type of spam mail or something?
    yousentmeflying yousentmeflying
    22-25, F
    Dec 11, 2014

    Absolutely Not *lol*

    the random experience thing made me laugh. I am by no means a control freak. :P I have been called strong willed by others, but do not try to force my will on others. I attempt to give advice only as needed. I am a good leader but I realize there is more than one way to...
    wack1985 wack1985
    31-35, F
    May 1, 2010

    Only To My Self

    i have no interested in controlling others........................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Sep 25, 2011

    Line Up Girls

    I have a hair brush and I am going to use it!
    LilAnnie LilAnnie
    56-60, F
    Feb 15, 2013

    I Lost the Best Girl Ever

    I was dating the best girl ever and I lost her because I was unable to let go and let her do whatever she wanted. She wanted to go out and party and I wanted to keep her all to myself. She said she will reconsider our relationship if I can change and stop trying to control her...
    andrewjscott andrewjscott
    22-25
    1 Response Jul 29, 2008

    Lost With Children That I Try to Control and Get No Respect

    I need to talk to someone that is going through what I am. I am 47 years old and I have lost a lot of my family by death. I try to control both my daughters 25 and 19 only because I am so fraid that something is going to happen and I will loose them. Its a horrible feeling I a...
    bottomlow bottomlow
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 24, 2008

    My Way Is the Right Way

    I can’t help it but I am getting better. It’s mostly with the kids and the way things are done. When my oldest would go to her grandmothers I needed things to be my way. Feed her what I say, put the cloths on that I sent and even do her hair a certain way. Yes control...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 26, 2007

    Blocked on DA - Well,

    I never thought it would happen and I never thought I would have to type this but...apparently I was blocked on Deviantart for being a control freak towards a friend. It was regarding my latest storyline. Basically my character has vampiric traits and as part of his...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    Apr 21, 2014

    Coping

    I obsess over schedules. I schedule every second of my day. The stress of not keeping my schedules has actually given me ulcers.
    germanlbs germanlbs
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 25, 2008

    Control Freak Story

    First off, I am a control freak.  However, if there was a scale from 1-10, I'm not so sure how I'd be rated?  I've been married a little over a year but have been with my husband for 5 1/2 years now.  Since the beginning, he told me I was controlling, always...
    poohgal983 poohgal983
    22-25
    1 Response Aug 14, 2008

    Help Me....

    Hello, I have been researching the internet for some advice or help to deal with my problem(s). I want help so I can live a healthy life with a significant other. A little about myself so maybe this all makes more sense. I am somewhat young in age, 30ish, and have lived to a...
    a886933 a886933
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2010

    So everyday as humans I guess we learn more

    about ourselves and even though I already knew this it did not fully hit me until today and that was with help from some friends... I try and control everything little aspect of my life and when I don't I have a break down and almost can't cope with life... Yes I need to...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234
    22-25, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    So Much So That It Hurts Relationships

    Although I am a sexually submissive female in all aspects of my life I am in complete control. I do not rely on others, I do not ask others for anything I do not need others for happiness or success My home operates the way I allow it to run, my relationships are prety well...
    RighteousGirl RighteousGirl
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    I've always operated with mindset/philosophy, essentially, that the respect you want to be treated with by others......should first be given by you to them. A "you get what you...
    kk1874 kk1874
    31-35, F
    Apr 21
    I am a catholic woman and I am against birth control of all kinds. I just love being pregnant . I come from a large family and I have a large family with 8 Kids I am planning on...
    Dagmar86 Dagmar86
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 21
    She's ruined our lives. *****.
    MustardTigre MustardTigre
    70+, T
    Apr 20
    I love him being in control! I feel safe and secure, loved and even appreciated letting him be in control. I can take care of myself but sometimes I need guidance and I am not...
    InLoveWithTheSun InLoveWithTheSun
    31-35, F
    Apr 20
    I live north of Indy and would like to chat with someone about spanking. Just a couple days left.
    Kwantsfun Kwantsfun
    51-55, M
    Apr 19
    Ok, so I'm asking this here so I won't seem paranoid/idiotic in front of my peers, because this might just be me overthinking and making this out to be much worse than it is. So...
    eminencee eminencee
    16-17, F
    Apr 19
    I’m posting this hoping for feedback from a third party. I’ve been told by friends that my boyfriend is abusing me emotionally. - He only supports what I do if he likes it...
    LoreleiLoch LoreleiLoch
    18-21, F
    Apr 19
    I want someone to control my bladder
    sexykylie sexykylie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 17
    SPEEEEEED IS KEY BOOPIE DOOPIE
    jocelynnM jocelynnM
    13-15, F
    Apr 17
    If anyone wants to give me dares or control me than reply here or message me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 16
    Message me to control me in a little bad girl
    wedgiebitch11 wedgiebitch11
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 16
    I need a female bladder slave ! message me asap !
    Master2016 Master2016
    16-17, F
    Apr 14
    I need a female bladder slave ! message me asap !
    Master2016 Master2016
    16-17, F
    Apr 14
    I need a female bladder slave ! message me asap !
    Master2016 Master2016
    16-17, F
    Apr 14
    I need a female bladder slave ! message me asap !
    Master2016 Master2016
    16-17, F
    Apr 14
    I need a female bladder slave ! Message me
    Master2016 Master2016
    16-17, F
    Apr 14
    I need to pee. . anyone wants to hold my poor little bladder and torture it. ? make me your pet slave and humiliate me can't share any pics though but I promise I will obey your...
    mayrar mayrar
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 13
    I have to stop indulging or dwelling on my wounds , very important
    vivianescrooge vivianescrooge
    22-25
    3 Responses Apr 12
    why is it that whenever im craving something someone ate it already from the fridge?!??!?!
    yellowbird255 yellowbird255
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 12
    I really, really need to pee. I am trying to hold it but it's getting difficult. I need help.
    Aysha78 Aysha78
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Apr 12
    My missus is a cold nasty control freak. But the thing is, she has a terminal illness, so I am staying with her. Help
    willyjonwilly willyjonwilly
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Apr 12
    I've held my pee now for about 19 hours. I need to pee badly! Please! Help me to control my urge. I am about to burst!!!!
    Aysha78 Aysha78
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Apr 11
    Stop being a control freak and she'll start liking you ^.^
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 11
    That alleged site is run by a control freak that censors anything that disagrees with her narrow view of the world. It's remaining members are terrorized of getting kicked off. I...
    Jackjjacksonjr Jackjjacksonjr
    56-60, M
    5 Responses Apr 10
    That alleged site is run by a control freak that censors anything that disagrees with her narrow view of the world. It's remaining members are terrorized of getting kicked off. I...
    Jackjjacksonjr Jackjjacksonjr
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Apr 10
    That alleged site is run by a control freak that censors anything that disagrees with her narrow view of the world. It's remaining members are terrorized of getting kicked off. I...
    Jackjjacksonjr Jackjjacksonjr
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Apr 10
    That alleged site is run by a control freak that censors anything that disagrees with her narrow view of the world. It's remaining members are terrorized of getting kicked off. I...
    Jackjjacksonjr Jackjjacksonjr
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 10
    Janet the so called owner is a censoring control freak Nazi and any people lame enough to out up with that are lemmings without a life. Just sayin.
    Jackjjacksonjr Jackjjacksonjr
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 10
    Any females want a pee holding contest on webcam?
    burstingbadly burstingbadly
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 10
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