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I Am a Control Freak

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    O.J. Simpson Will Pay For This!

    I was in college when O.J. Simpson's murder trial was going on. The public's obession with the case was as compelling as the case itself. On the day the verdict was announced, student's gathered in the school's campus center to see it on T.V. Hundreds of students gathered in a...
    CodyForrester CodyForrester 36-40, M 3 Responses May 21, 2009

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    Lost With Children That I Try to Control and Get No Respect

    I need to talk to someone that is going through what I am. I am 47 years old and I have lost a lot of my family by death. I try to control both my daughters 25 and 19 only because I am so fraid that something is going to happen and I will loose them. Its a horrible feeling I a...
    bottomlow bottomlow 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    Am I Controlling Or Just Scared of Being Alone?

    Hello All, I have been havig some problems with an on and off, relationship. We have some very intense feelings for eachother. I wont go to into detail, but at the beginning, she moved away and i was to follow, we were not in a relationship, and i was close with her best...
    donnoguy donnoguy 22-25 1 Response Jul 8, 2009

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    If I Don't Change, I'll Lose Everything That Matters

      My marriage is hanging by a thread for several reasons. One of the biggest reasons is because my husband feels like I control everything and that I need to lay off. objectively, I totally get what he's saying. If I go to bed early, I get so mad at him if he doesn't...
    nikki3585 nikki3585 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 14, 2009

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    My Way Is the Right Way

    I can’t help it but I am getting better. It’s mostly with the kids and the way things are done. When my oldest would go to her grandmothers I needed things to be my way. Feed her what I say, put the cloths on that I sent and even do her hair a certain way. Yes control...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2007

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    I Don't Want My Son to Grow Up to Be Like Me

    I am a control freak.  My father was one and I am one.  The cycle ends with me.  I don't know how, but I need to end it.  I am overly judgemental and need to change.  I now understand from a psychological and physiological perspective Why I am like...
    iamweak iamweak 36-40 1 Response Nov 16, 2008

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    Where Are All the Control Freaks?

    I'm surprised there are only two people in this group.  This is the major issue I am dealing with in my life.  My relationships are suffering because I always think I know best.  I believe this really contributed to my divorce since my ex never felt like he was...
    jendd810 jendd810 26-30 9 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    Control Freak

    i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years on and off due to my immaturity sort of say. but now that we are living together i notice i am a control freak and i had brought upon myself many problems in my relationship. trust me you dont want to be an insecure control freak...
    jeanette1721 jeanette1721 22-25 1 Response Dec 30, 2010

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    Only To My Self

    i have no interested in controlling others........................................................................................
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Sep 25, 2011

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    Let Go...let God!

    I try to be in complete control over my destiny but all things cannot be anticipated or controlled.  I had to learn the hard way but now that I've learned to let go and let God; my life is so much more relaxed.
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 2 Responses May 21, 2009

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    Control Freak Story

    First off, I am a control freak.  However, if there was a scale from 1-10, I'm not so sure how I'd be rated?  I've been married a little over a year but have been with my husband for 5 1/2 years now.  Since the beginning, he told me I was controlling, always...
    poohgal983 poohgal983 22-25 1 Response Aug 14, 2008

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    Totally Depressed -- Definitely Controlling

    Hi. I don't really know where to start with this. I never thought before that I was controlling. I always thought I had another complex instead. Some sort of Nightingale syndrome. I'm not a nurse, but I seem to date people that have "problems" that I can help them with. I'm...
    Buggie28 Buggie28 22-25 1 Response Jul 5, 2010

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    I Admit It

    I need to control everything but that bring me a lot of frustrations because there are things that are well beyond my control.  I am also trying to let go but it is not easy.
    jc2009 jc2009 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    Absolutely Not *lol*

    the random experience thing made me laugh. I am by no means a control freak. :P I have been called strong willed by others, but do not try to force my will on others. I attempt to give advice only as needed. I am a good leader but I realize there is more than one way to...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F May 1, 2010

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    So Much So That It Hurts Relationships

    Although I am a sexually submissive female in all aspects of my life I am in complete control. I do not rely on others, I do not ask others for anything I do not need others for happiness or success My home operates the way I allow it to run, my relationships are prety well...
    RighteousGirl RighteousGirl 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    I Hate Relying On People, For Anything.

     I'd rather put in more work to get something done, then let someone else do it. People are so careless these days. They're selfish, and only think of themselves.  Even if it takes me way longer to do something, let me do it. At least when I do it. It gets done...
    InfatuationAtItsBest InfatuationAtItsBest 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    Help Me....

    Hello, I have been researching the internet for some advice or help to deal with my problem(s). I want help so I can live a healthy life with a significant other. A little about myself so maybe this all makes more sense. I am somewhat young in age, 30ish, and have lived to a...
    a886933 a886933 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 10, 2010

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    I'm A Control Freak

    I just realized I'm a control freak I try to control my feelings. I try to keep everyone at a distance so I don't feel anything, Dat **** don't work!
    pinkgodess pinkgodess 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2010

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    Line Up Girls

    I have a hair brush and I am going to use it!
    LilAnnie LilAnnie 56-60, F Feb 15, 2013

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    Hells Yeah, My Ep Friends'!!!!

    It is really bad! I finally vented on my need to control, just now, and how I do it. It drives me mad, because I don't think what I do is cool, but the CONTROl in what I do, is what I freak, over. I gave up, control, more often, with others' because then I do not have the take...
    stigmafree stigmafree 31-35 Aug 29, 2010

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    I Lost the Best Girl Ever

    I was dating the best girl ever and I lost her because I was unable to let go and let her do whatever she wanted. She wanted to go out and party and I wanted to keep her all to myself. She said she will reconsider our relationship if I can change and stop trying to control her...
    andrewjscott andrewjscott 22-25 1 Response Jul 29, 2008

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    Hi Guys

    I would have to say this is probably one of my biggest vices. I live off of to-do lists and schedules.  I make plans and do my best to stick with them.  I do everything in my power to run things "smoothly" whether events or relationships. But on the plus...
    SearchingAlone SearchingAlone 22-25 2 Responses Jul 3, 2008

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    I Might Lose the Person I Love

    I am a control freak, which I just found out.  I have been with this amazing man for five years and we are planning on getting married in October.  He decides to tell me that he has been unhappy for two years and he is unsure if he wants to be with me, also  I...
    kelster kelster 22-25 4 Responses Dec 5, 2008

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    Control Freak

    i guess i have had bad things happen to me in life. who hasnt. ive learned from them and feel i can control what happens to me. the bad part is i try to control other people that can affect my life and it drives people away. i dont like being lonely! its a vicious circle.
    nrv1 nrv1 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 25, 2010

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    Big Argument

    I am a control freak.  My fiance and i just had massive fight.  It was over a minor thing, building debris (bricks etc) on front lawn, just asked when it would be moved as we are going away for a few days and i was thinking about security, or thats what i said as...
    littlecowpoo2 littlecowpoo2 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2009

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    Weston666 Weston666 18-21, M Jun 17

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    Coping

    I obsess over schedules. I schedule every second of my day. The stress of not keeping my schedules has actually given me ulcers.
    germanlbs germanlbs 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2008

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    I try to control everything in my life

    and everyone in my life. I tell my spouse what to do and then I tell him that he did that wrong. I try to control what my family does and what they think and if it is not my way it is the highway. I am sick of me.
    Karenflagg Karenflagg 61-65, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Blocked on DA - Well,

    I never thought it would happen and I never thought I would have to type this but...apparently I was blocked on Deviantart for being a control freak towards a friend. It was regarding my latest storyline. Basically my character has vampiric traits and as part of his...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Apr 21

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    Related Experiences

    I am so sick of the way my wife tries to control everything about me. I've been with her for 10 years now and I can't take it anymore. She can't even accept that she's a control...
    LewisCollins LewisCollins 31-35 1 Response a week ago

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    Boss calls me and have an attitude because I didn't answer my phone on my day off..... 1.you don't pay me to be on call!!! 2.why do he always ask me my business!!! 3.he *tries* to...
    coraleigh coraleigh 36-40, F Jul 20

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    I want a freaky girl it women to do what ever she wants to do freaky stuff to me I am so horny right now I want to feel your wet p
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M Jul 5

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    I stand out and am usually alone. I don't care what I do, and if that labels a freak then go **** yourself, II will continue to be a freak.
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    autodiagnosticobd autodiagnosticobd 22-25, F Jul 4

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    Growing up I felt like a prisoner in my own home. The only time I really ever left the house was to go to school or to go shopping with my parents. Whenever I tried to do something...
    dokkyo dokkyo 22-25 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Who created this experience? Should have been me... Since early age I've loved music. I was buying 45s at 5 years old with my pocket money and saving up at 7 or 8 to get Axis...
    nunos nunos 51-55, M Jul 4

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    I just broke up with my girlfriend of 7 years because I don't get no *** it's been 6 months I haven't get sex I was already for that and I deal with it but yesterday I left her...
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M Jul 5

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    It feel like a freak this morning I am a good looking guy that is looking to go yo your crib and give you a load I have backed up cause my ex girlfriend has not giving some add in...
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    Like really though... There are so many weirdos out here on this site. Instead of meeting mutual-minded introverts who are mature enough to have clean conversations (like myself...
    introvertpower94 introvertpower94 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Bored as **** someone inbox any freaks out there .? ;p
    13xoxo 13xoxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Okay I'm freaking out. I have so much anxiety right now that I'm shaking. Last night I told my best friend something that not a single person knows. And I don't know if I can go to...
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Freaks do it best💋.....(;
    JayKnotz JayKnotz 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hey guys, I'd like to introduce you to Mr Awesome (aka me :P) I mean, I'm so freaking amazingly awesome you wouldn't be able to take it in. Just imagine that guy you'd see in the...
    Kwilkwar9 Kwilkwar9 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    This series is what got me into reading and I would like to thank Darren Shan not only for Cirque du Freak but for Larten Crepsley books and Zom-B!
    UntamedComic UntamedComic 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I try to control everything in my life, from the thoughts in my head to the specific way I say "hello" to people. I try to control every aspect of my life and maybe that's why I...
    TheBlackLabel TheBlackLabel 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Well, I don't know how to start with this story, but I have a loving, but controlling mother who likes to control everything of the musical tastes I have for myself. I just feel...
    Grlcan697 Grlcan697 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    If anybody wants to control my bladder 24/7 please message me. I've always wanted to have someone else control me and this seems like the way to go. I would prefer if it was a...
    100PercentMe 100PercentMe 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 10

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    For Nissan copy remote control is obd2 repair blank remote key for digital counter remote master. For Nissan copy remote control can only work with digital counter remote master...
    obdiirepair obdiirepair 22-25, F Jul 11

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    I know i'm young and I still have a lot to learn and my opinion might differ from very many people, but I feel that religion is just a way to control people and keep them in order...
    Tuho Tuho 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 30

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