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I Am a Cougar

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 661 People

    My First Cougar Experience

    My first cougar experience happened when I turned 40.  I had just been dumped by a guy my age who was going through a bad divorce, and he was really bitter.  I had broken up with my ex about a year before this.  There was a younger man who worked at a club I go to.  We were...
    Joan43 Joan43 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Young Men Are Energetic And Fun And Hot~!~

    i never condidered younger men untill 3 years ago. i was 35 and am married and was minding my own business at work. i was asked to train the new guy and said sure why not! turned out to be smoking hot and just the sweetest thing ever! only problem i had he was only 18. when he...
    darlinsam darlinsam 36-40, F 10 Responses May 2, 2010

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    I Didn't Think I Was A Cougar But...

    Well I am 48 years old and have had a now 26 year old young man living with me for 4 years. It started out as a friend of my son's moving in for a short time while he got back on his feet to him livng here with me. My son moved out three years ago and his friend stayed. After...
    Margaret62 Margaret62 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    feistcc11 feistcc11 26-30, F Nov 5, 2014

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    He flirted with me in real life!

    26 yr dreamboat! I wasn't sure at all the time before. It was so awkward. This time it was unmistakable that he was flirtatious. Very coolly flirtatious, like he should pose for the anime characters kind of cool. (probably not cool of me to say that) I just think of final...
    fairine fairine 31-35, F Jul 7, 2014

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    Terrified...

    I am a 39 year old woman who recently separated from my 34 year old husband due to his refusal to just grow up. Over the past 3 1/2 months I've tried to reconcile and make my marriage work. It just became too much when I caught my husband cheating just hours after he left my bed...
    AccidentalCougar AccidentalCougar 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Was a Cougar Before It Was Cool

    I married my husband 14 years ago.  At the time we married there was no term of enderment for an older worman with a younger man. I am 10 1/2 years older than my husband.  And I have to tell you the sex with him in the beginning of our relationship was for lack of a...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 11 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Cougars

    I love being prey for cougars. 24 yo 6'2" light brown hair blue green eyes and have no problem rocking out to the classics, like marky mark lol.
    Johnnymeatspin Johnnymeatspin 22-25, M Oct 12, 2013

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    Younger Men Are Gorgeous

    Yes, I proudly admit that I am a cougar. My girlfriends and I love to go out and look at the eye candy, and some of us partake in the wonderful delicacies that some of them have to offer. Now, the 20 year old bucks do have a lot of enthusiasm and are willing to indulge in most...
    eve1967 eve1967 46-50, F 13 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    I have been called a cougar

    for a few years now by my brothers, dad, husband, and other male friends. I actually love the nick-name "Cougar" because I am tall, slender, when not pregnant, blonde, and blue eyes. I have beautiful huge boobs, tanned all over, and toned as well.
    momanddaughteratbeach momanddaughteratbeach 36-40, F 3 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Might As Well Accept It...

    I don't really like the term cougar. It implies that I am out on the 'prowl' for a younger guy. I guess my issue with it is that they find me. I don't seek out younger guys, or think 'hey- I'm only going to date a guy if he is younger than me'.  I guess I also don't like it...
    brokenangel913 brokenangel913 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 2, 2011

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    hello everyone. I am posting this just to vent

    about my son. he's 26 years old and he lives at my house and tries to prevent me from having a life. The other day he told me that I'm too old to have sex and he forbids me from doing it. One of my sons friends is a sexy fitness trainer and since my son was so rude and his...
    yogamom55 yogamom55 51-55, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    So it was New Year's Eve at a house party,

    a masquerade party. I didn't know anyone there, but with my cool cirque du soleil mask on, I fit right in. People gave me some compliments on the mask and they didn't try to hard to find out who you were. I liked that. I went out to the very small firepit to see what was...
    fairine fairine 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    Helentangcc18 Helentangcc18 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2014

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    Lately I've Been Fantasizing About Being With A Cougar

    Lately I have been thinking a lot about being with an older sexy woman. I have never been with one, but the prospect is exciting. I think it would be great to be with a confident mature lady that knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to get it. I've always had the pool boy to...
    AaronxxC AaronxxC 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 13, 2013

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    I Never Have Problems Getting Service

    I know my husband may get a bit riled up if he knew, but he does always challenge me.  He should know better. I don't think  being a Cougar is bad, it's empowering!  I am 45, 5'5" tall, blond haired, blue eyes, tan and a full DD cup.  I get attention all...
    momsprivate momsprivate 41-45, F 12 Responses Feb 24, 2010

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    courteney33 courteney33 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    I was married for 17 years with 3 kids

    and unhappy. I had always had the heart of a teen. Left my husband and started over. I got into a dating site and got my grove back. When I realized how attractive I was to younger men my self esteem when to the roof. I have a lot of fun and regained my sexual appetite. I was...
    godvelas3 godvelas3 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    My First Cougar Experience

    It was a warm autumn night, I had just broken up with my long time partner and my daughter had just gone to university. My older sister invited me to a party at her house and I guess I needed a good time. I had a bit to drink and had danced with some of the younger guys there. I...
    donna2013 donna2013 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    He"s 18

    I am a 31 yr old married mother of 5....recently i've started "seeing" an 18yr old man on the side. He is everything a woman could hope for. He provides me with the compliments and self confidence every 30 something year old should have. I have the best of both worlds, a older...
    angelblueeyes angelblueeyes 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    carriecc11 carriecc11 26-30, F Feb 18, 2014

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    I have been called a cougar by some of my male

    friends. I must fit the bill for that title. I am very tall, slender, except when pregnant, curvy, busty, and love to show off at times.
    tallmomwithkids tallmomwithkids 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    Lately I've Been Fantasizing About Being With A Cougar

    Lately I have been thinking a lot about being with an older sexy woman. I have never been with one, but the prospect is exciting. I think it would be great to be with a confident mature lady that knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to get it. I've always had the pool boy to...
    AaronxxC AaronxxC 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    Who Knew

    So I was married half of my life. My husband was very controlling of me. I didn't go out often, as I didn't want to put up with the way he was around me. He left me and his children after 18 years of marriage. I didnt know what to do I was lost and confused. I never knew that...
    jstlaidback jstlaidback 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2013

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic

    needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some prefer those younger than them. The individual needs are often criticized strongly, often accepted open mindedly, but the problem lies with finding...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F Jul 21, 2014

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    I Am A Cougar...

    I love guys much younger than me...  Especially if they still have the word teen in their age...  I love the sight and feel of a nice fat hard young **** in my hand, looking up into their still innocent eyes as I slide the head into my mouth and rub it...
    Cougar44DD Cougar44DD 41-45, F 12 Responses Dec 16, 2009

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    I'm An Accidental Cougar

    For the most part, I'd always dated guys close to my age or older.  On occasion, I'd date a guy a year or two younger, but not very often.  Then, shortly after my first marriage broke apart, I was pursued by a guy 11 years younger than me.  It didn't go anywhere; that age...
    aranarose aranarose 31-35 4 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    vicckycc18 vicckycc18 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2014

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    You Are My True Fantasy

    You are my true fantasy and I want to make you mine in every sexual way that I can. I want to eventually get to the point where you can’t live without experiencing my body every time that we can.  We both know that our relationship can only be a sexual one, but since that...
    Jezibell Jezibell 46-50, F 6 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    Ok so wife out side working in yard

    and the boy next door will not stop looking at her...So she came in the house and told me the boy next door who is 18 thinks she a Cougar...To funny
    CLPLIKESFUN CLPLIKESFUN 46-50 5 Responses Jun 12

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    ChangBending ChangBending 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    My sons and their friends call me a Cougar

    and a MILF. I am so honored to be given these nicknames. I will do my best to live up to these wonderful names.
    momanddaughtertogether momanddaughtertogether 36-40, F 21 Responses May 27, 2014

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    I Was A Cougar And ****** Three Teen Boys

    It was a Friday night. It was around 10:30, I was at a party my friend was giving. The party was winding down. I was a little buzzed but definitely fine to drive. I was dressed really sexy. I was wearing a nice low cut dress and the top was a tube top style, it just barely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 22 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    This is not really an experience.

    It's more an observation, of myself, than anything. Honestly, I'm not a big fan of labels. Words like cougar and cub are fun hear and use on occasion, but I find them restricting. I'm the type of young man who doesn't have a a type in regards to women. I like them in all...
    MirandoTe MirandoTe 22-25, M Jan 12, 2014

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    I never thought that would be on this site.

    There are 2 cute teenage boys who are stalking me in _______, this has been going on for the past 10 months. They tried to talk to me for a few times but i shyed away. I am wondering if I should keep wasting time. I like one boy, but i can't bring myself to even say hi to...
    stelselv stelselv 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2014

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    I have had many men at least 10 years younger,

    its mutually pleasing and i enjoy being able to fulfill their fantasies. One time i was swimming at my apartment pool, and lucky for me it was near a university. Two good looking college aged guys showed up and we were all drinking beer and making small conversation. I ran out...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    So I went to a concert

    and saw my young man there, he saw me first and greeted me nicely. That was brief and he went a different way. A couple hours later I saw him again but he was talking to a girl, so I did not attempt to talk again. Many men (older) approached me and I chatted with friendliness...
    fairine fairine 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2014

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    My Wife Loves Younger Men

    I belong to the alumni group for my fraternity. They asked my wife and me to chaperone a toga party. We are both in our late 40’s, but my wife is still very hot. Her face is still very pretty, she has long blond hair, she’s slender, and has pert 34C ****. We went with only...
    alexandria35 alexandria35 31-35 7 Responses Jul 18, 2011

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    I have been fortunate to have had the pleasure

    of being with a number of cougars in the past, and when I have, I have always done my best to please and satisfy them. My pleasure comes from giving them their pleasure, so it seems to work out well for the both of us. Helping a mature lady to reach one ****** after another is...
    jj59h jj59h 36-40, M Jan 1, 2014

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    Guess That's Me, After All!

    My friends couldn't wait for me to get separated to set me up with their friends.. Did I mention they were younger than me?! And this is becoming the norm. I had a guy call me a MILF the other day. He was nineteen. And I am 33. WTF?! So, I must be putting off some kinda...
    wonderingkitten wonderingkitten 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 21, 2010

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    I Still Kind Of Stalk Him... In A Random Mild Way...

    Only that one young man I like, I stalk him from time to time. He answers back sometimes, and asks his curious questions or even asks to see me. He flakes out though. And now I expect that, but I still play these games with him. On our last texting he wanted to know if I had...
    fairine fairine 31-35, F Sep 16, 2013

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    I Am A Cougar For Over A Year And A Half

      I guess you could say that I have been put into the category of a cougar. I am a 47 year old woman who has been through one marriage of 15 years and another relationship of 10 years and they both failed. I met a young man that is just 25 and we are totally compatible and...
    angeleyes65 angeleyes65 46-50, F 14 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    I am 36 yrs old and mother of 4.

    I was in a very abusive relationship for a long time with the father of my children. He is no longer in my life or cares to be in the kids life. I became very insecure of myself bc of the way he treated me, he scared me not only emotional but pyschically and I dont think alot of...
    melisakd melisakd 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    Feeling Torn

    I'm a 19y/o guy, in good shape and living in toronto and I've been in love with women much older than me for as long as i can remember. I would love for nothing more than to be intimate with a woman double or even triple my age. Trouble is I'm still a virgin and because of some...
    jackthekid123 jackthekid123 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    I ****** Two Men Last Friday And Neither Of Them Was My Husband

    So, I have a few different lovers since I decided to get sex from the outside. My husband is not interested in sex anymore, and I am hornier than ever and LOVE younger men.I met a new man who is 29 and we have been talking for a while online. We made a plan to meet up and he got...
    Jezibell Jezibell 46-50, F 2 Responses