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I Am a Daughter

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    A Despicable One

    I'm the last person I think my parents would want for a daughter. I'm snobbish, obnoxious, selfish, sloppy, lazy and disrespectful. My family love me so much but what do I give them in return headaches, high blood pressure and disappointment. There a times when I have a bad mood...
    Dumstey Dumstey 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2010

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    Im loving being a girl,

    always have been a girl wouldn't change that
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F Aug 9

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    Musings Of A Daughter

    I had a secret boyfriend for 4 years because we were a biracial couple and as a teenager I was still living under my parent's roof. Then a few months ago, my father found out about him and of course got very very angry. He demanded that we get married ASAP so that I do not shame...
    girlyhut girlyhut 18-21, F Apr 22, 2012

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    Backbone

    Okay...Today I had a moment of reflection. To start...In my years in high school I've seen my mom date men for the first time after my father passed away. They turned not to be what she had expected. I saw it was new to her because her choices were poor. A week ago she dump her...
    ephs ephs 18-21, F Nov 23, 2013

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    Love It!

    My dad has 4 daughters but im his little princess even now at 21!
    sazead sazead 22-25, F Apr 2, 2007

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    Not Just A Daughter But My Mothers Daughter

    the older i get the more i am like her, i swear. she is paula dean in the making. she is a wonderful cook and baker. she loves to bake for fun or special occasions. i too have been known for this. not as much and dedicated as her though. today i made an apple pie. why? because i...
    chey20002001 chey20002001 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2011

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    Sure Am

     A worthless daughter to be more exact. I mean that's what both of my worthless parents tell me. But hey I don't think it's my fault. I tried being a good daughter but hey they never acted like parents to me. So it really isn't my fault for being a worthless daughter. I have...
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2008

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    We Use To Be Bf's! What Happened To Us?

    Mom, I can say that, you are the best mother in my eyes. I know out of your 4 kids I turned out to be the worst, but your closest. The youngest girl. Second oldest. As I lay with my daughter, i can still remember me "sleeping" just feeling you singing to me and caressing my hair...
    wendysosa wendysosa 22-25, F Nov 10, 2012

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    I Am Very Much A Daughter..

    My parent's happily tell everyone they meet that I am their daughter. I am proud and honored to be their daughter, to have such loving, supportive, caring parent's. They love me more than I could ever imagine. And I get told by many people just how much they talk about me and...
    purplebutterfly14 purplebutterfly14 18-21, F May 3, 2011

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    Yep!

    I am the only daughter...I just have a brother and thats it...
    MzLoveAll MzLoveAll 18-21, F Dec 7, 2010

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    So Conflicted

    I am an only and have always had a hard relationship with my mom. She is co-depentant, bi-polar, and can be quite mean. I ran away from home, did drugs and drank at an early age. All of her husbands molested me and she never knew? maybe si, maybe no. I love her when she is my mom...
    Artisina Artisina 46-50, F Mar 10, 2008

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    A Thank You

    Don't really know what to write here other than yes I'm a daughter too. Conceived out of love. I have been known to wish in the past to have not been born, but I do have days where I'm fairly accepting of my existence. I try to make my parents happy and proud (although the proud...
    UnseenBlossom UnseenBlossom 18-21, F Jan 4, 2009

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    Nobodys Daughter

    mummy never smiles just drinks and passes out, sometimes she gets angry she hits she kicks she shouts. she never puts me to bed nor home to tuck me in, i think she just perfers her vodka and her gin. mummy is on drugs, stresses out if she cant score, she spends all the money, no...
    heidi2 heidi2 21-25, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2008

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    I Try to Be a Good One!

    I am the first and oldest daughter, of my mother. I am also the most over-protected one, for some odd reason. Sure, I almost died, before I was born. But my little sister also points out, that she was born premature, with is an equally (if not more so) dangerous situation. Still...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 21, 2009

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    A Daughter Is A Gift From God

    Ani parents who read this and have trouble appreciating their children to to understand the gold mine that has been given to them. Little girls need to point to their fathers in pride and know that he is her protector. He is to be the role model for who she marries. Little...
    retiredfather retiredfather 61-65, M 1 Response Feb 14, 2010

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    ~ Not Just a Daughter ~

      An only daughter..... To both parents. Momma & my dad separated when I was 2. Neither one of them ever remarried or had any other children. I am their only child.....who happens to be a girl. lol. I know dad would have perferred a boy but momma wanted a girl & she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 27, 2009

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    To 4 people I am, my mother,

    my father, my dad and my mother's husband (soon to be not) and the one person out of those four that has always been in my life is my dad. He's raised me since I was 4 months old and he's always put up with me. I'm proud of him :') he's never let me down and I guess you could...
    JJSapphire JJSapphire 18-21, F Dec 30, 2013

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    I am a daughter, who was extremely close to her

    mother. I am a daughter who carries around a lot of guilt for how my mother died in the end. I am a daughter, who has to go on being a daughter, when my mother is no longer here.
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 16

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    Sometimes we have our good times

    and sometimes our bad times. Exspecially my father is looking after me very strictly and protective. Sometimes it leads to fights and tears. But I know I don't make it easy for them, too. I guess those are the difficulties a family has to deal with. We are all humans so we all...
    Jennyred Jennyred 13-15, F Jul 21

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    I Pray Not Let Anyone Have A Mother Like Mine

    All my life, nothing I ever did was good enough for my mother, even things I would surprise her with like cleaning the whole kitchen had no effect. I always felt I was the one lacking in something. It didn't bode well for my self-esteem which wasn't helped by her constant taunts...
    tigerkitty tigerkitty 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    Im the Only Daughter

    but sometimes they act like they hate me. well my mom does.  my dad is ok. full of false promises but still ok.
    SomebodyHelpMe SomebodyHelpMe 21-25, F Jan 29, 2008

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    Not Sure Whether It's Good Or Bad...

    In my family, I'm the only girl(excl. my mom obviously). My mom grew up with a sister who basically got everything my mom wanted, so now my mom goes out of her way to give me what she never got growing up. Don't get me wrong, I love the woman to pieces, but I've three younger...
    AngelofAries AngelofAries 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    I Am My Mothers Daughter. ...

    I am my mothers daughter. I love her with my heart to the full.  She was so wonderful
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F Mar 6, 2008

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    I Would Really Appreciate Your Input

       Hello, I've recently become a wife and like most people who are married, I found the transition to be exhilarating and challenging. I've decided to write a book about the psychosocial impacts of becoming engaged and married. The book will be...
    dragonfy12 dragonfy12 26-30 1 Response Feb 7, 2009

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    I Am a Daughter to Two Mothers...

    I am a daughter to two mothers and two fathers.  I am adopted, so I have a birth mother and birth father, also my adopted parents.  I also have godparents.
    rainbowlicious7 rainbowlicious7 26-30, F Jan 20, 2008

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    "my Daughter Hates Me"...............................

    Today i had a hard time with my daughter she made me so.....upset i am tired of crying over the things she says...I was looking for something today and i came across this...that someone had wrote to me for days like the one my daughter pulled today so...........i wanted to share...
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F Sep 1, 2011

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    My father is one of the most caring fathers I

    have ever seen. I don't just say this because he is my father, I say it because he has always put his children first. As a little girl I always remember my dad playing with me, taking me places, buying me toys and spending time with me. Even on his days off, instead of hanging...
    Valentina16 Valentina16 18-21, F May 24

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    Mom & I Are Like Oil & Water

    My dad is great but my mom and I are not "besties" - never have been and never will be. My mother acts as if I owe her something for birthing me and pushes my buttons every chance she gets, so I keep my distance for the sake of my sanity. Our latest dust up is about my brother...
    prugirl prugirl 36-40, F Jun 28, 2011

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    Its Nice......or Maybe Swwet As Well As Sour!

    its tough being a female in a conservative country. tough for parents too...they are in a constant state of alert...........and you can't blame them! it has its moments....and its downsides too
    thelight thelight 26-30, F May 10, 2008

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    Daddys Girl

    i am a total daddy's girl.  me and my mom are best friends but i am a total daddy's girl. anything i want he gives me, lol.  i know i am his favorite, ( i have three brothers) but i don't flaunt it, lol.  but it does come in handy, lol.
    destiny420 destiny420 22-25, F Aug 23, 2008

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    Unequal Love I used to complain to my mother

    why our sister seemed to be her favorite. She'd cook for her, take care of her and basically, tend to all her needs. My mother says we should love and be patient with each other. Recently, my ten year old daughter, Raspberry, would complain why I appear to love her sister...
    mareliberum mareliberum 26-30 1 Response Apr 22

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    The Worst Daughter In the World

    Ask my dad and he'll tell you I'm the greatest living thing on earth, ask my mother and she'll tell you I am the worst daughter ever lived. She always bad mouths me. We haven't spoken in almost a year now. Just because I no longer live in the same town she thinks I don't know...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 17, 2007

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    Like Water From A Rock

    I'm new and I sought out this forum because I feel like I have no one to talk to. I hope someone can relate at least to that before I share my story. I'm the eldest of 3 girls and my parents are happily together. I don't know how. My Dad is a warm, affectionate Carebear and...
    missladyK missladyK 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    Not Just Any Daughter

    i am not just a daughter to my mom. i am a daughter who shares something very special with my mom. for almost 28 years now i have been known as her little clone. i am a lot like my mom in many many ways. looks, personality, train of thought, interest, and etc. aside from sharing...
    chey20002001 chey20002001 26-30, F Mar 4, 2011

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    Some drugs trade and How he hurt us all ..

    Now , I'm 18 years old . When I was child , we were really happy . Not rich , but we had all of our wealth one in each other . Me , my brother , mum and dad . Four of us . Our parents were like friends , were playing with us and taking care about us. But we had some...
    Martinecka Martinecka 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6, 2010

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    Only One

    I am the only girl, all of my siblings are male.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F Oct 6, 2013

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    And Not Happy About It

    The redheaded step child. I would have preferred to have been just found. No parents to deal with or claim. I'm a daughter... of an alcoholic, abuser father that signed me away to be adopted because he didn't want to pay child support. I eventually signed him away too...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2007

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    I Pray Not Let Anyone Have A Mother Like Mine

    All my life, nothing I ever did was good enough for my mother, even things I would surprise her with like cleaning the whole kitchen had no effect. I always felt I was the one lacking in something. It didn't bode well for my self-esteem which wasn't helped by her constant taunts...
    tigerkitty tigerkitty 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2009

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    My father was killed.

    I only have a mother, and a stepfather. I am a daughter, going about daughterly duties sometimes. My mother and I are not friends.
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I am a daughter. of more

    than one person. Not a daughter of a mother and a father, but of two mothers and a father. The one who I call Mom and Mommy is the one I grew up with, the one who was always there, though not related by blood, our bond is strong. The other parents, the biological ones, just...
    mandarin125 mandarin125 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Isn't Every Girl Someone&#...

    Isn't every girl someone's daughter? And I actually know my mother - I guess that's a bonus.
    Semety Semety 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2008

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    Am Proud

    of my parents. I love them very much. My mom is my best friend. They stand behind me in all that I try to do and are there to catch me if I fail. I have the best parents in the whole world.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 14, 2008

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    Today i went to take my 7 yr old daughter to meet your teacher day :) one of the other mothers told me she loved my dress... i told her thanks.... should i have said anything...
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    My mum, I love her dearly but she always upsets me. We live a fair distance apart and I don't get to see her as often as I'd like. Yes, she drives me crazy but I still feel...
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    My oh my, if only I could hang this young dumb-bunny by his eyelids.. I am told I should be upset with my daughter for putting up with his lying, cheating, scabby, shabby ways...
    lorarena lorarena 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When I met my current wife, for some reason my parents didn't approve, but feigned approval. It became obvious it was all a lie when I got a call from my counselor who said my...
    BJH72 BJH72 41-45, M Jul 29

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    In October of 2011, my husband and I found out that we were going to be having another baby. We were scared and excited, since just 2 months before we had lost our first daughter...
    Krissysheart Krissysheart 22-25, F Aug 9

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    She was born absolutely perfect. All her developments were right on track. Walking, crawling, standing, pulling self up etc. I think we first noticed the problem at 18 months of...
    LStacey LStacey 36-40, F Jul 29

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    My son started seeing his now wife about seven years ago. I never liked her from the start. He and I used to be very close and after she came into the picture our relationship was...
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    I believe in my ability to parent my daughter and teach her all the things a mother is supposed to teach her daughter. My concern is the possibility of daddy issues later. As of...
    ah2013 ah2013 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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