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I Am a Dom

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 301 People

    Been I. The lifestyle

    for 25+ years.
    AlaskanAlpha AlaskanAlpha
    56-60, M
    Dec 4, 2014

    I know this is going on a limb to post this

    because not very one approves of this sort of thing but I do partake and I am dominate , I keep that part of my life separate from my social life so that I can keep healthy relationships with people (I think that is important) but I rather enjoy it and am confident in what I do...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 22, 2015

    I Am a Dom

    I am a Dom in the bedroom and have been so for many years now. cant recall exactly when it started but it has grown over the years and I enjoy it more and more all the time. I like exciting my partner as much as posible and help us both grow and become stronger and better...
    magnum9 magnum9
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2008

    I found this on Fetlife,

    and thought I would share it here. Because I am Dominant: I understand that I simply receive authority. That is to say it is offered and given to me. To take it implies something entirely different. Though, I am always to remember to treat it with utmost care for it can be...
    KinkyIntellectual KinkyIntellectual
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 13, 2014

    An Incredible Experience For Both Of Us

    Yup, what can I say other than this is the way it ought to be. I am more and more gravitating to the opinion that I must make this way of life a more permanent routine. I need so much to be counseled and supported as I make the "final" transition. I have instructed my wife to...
    wes4617 wes4617
    51-55, M
    Jan 10, 2012

    The Gentle Dom

    I'm man in a polyfidelitous or bisexually polygamous family based on friendship, love, equality, respect & care, if we ever have a chance to meet or speak to each other you'll notice that I am caring kind thoughtful and very respecting. I am a Dom in the bedroom to those who...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 9, 2013

    The week has been full of fun,

    intense evenings but when the weekend hit I wanted her even more.  The first evening she was my baby girl.  Sexy girly sox, thin strapped blouse and nothing hiding her bottom or mound from my lustful eyes.  She pampered me that evening.  Brought me a drink...
    Wilddesires Wilddesires
    56-60, M
    Feb 27, 2015

    Toughs A Of A Dom

    A little background on me. I am Dom, black male. I have been in the lifestyle for almost 20 years. Being Dom comes natural to me. I am Dom not only in the bedroom but in life period. About a year ago I met a you lady looking for a Daddy/Dom on a S&M site. We chatted exchanged...
    November3rd November3rd
    41-45, M
    Nov 26, 2013

    Wish could find a sub who's a true Mas

    and loves to be whipped as hard as I can whip her.
    Jackem82 Jackem82
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    Spontaneity & Rough Play make Princess a happy

    girl! Went in the bed room to get ready for dinner. The wife was there half dressed in a sexy bra, panties, see through skirt outfit. I smiled as she said "I wanted to surprise you" and then pouted. I walked up, took her in my arms and kissed her passionately. I told her...
    Wilddesires Wilddesires
    56-60, M
    Jan 1, 2015


    what a bunch of high class fakers.................................
    fakedom fakedom
    26-30, M
    Sep 15, 2013

    My Beginnings

    Lets see.. its hard to tell where to start. I guess I should say I have been a Dom for around 12 years. I like to be considered a teaching Dom. I like to shape minds and attitudes of the submissives I work with. I enjoy seeing a sub grow from just base desires to full on wants...
    Satalite150 Satalite150
    46-50, M
    21 Responses May 19, 2011

    Dear Santa, My sub has not been naughty enough

    lately! I want her to be very naughty so I can reward her like she loves. I have 12 naughty wishes and I will share them with her a few at time and see how naughty she can be. oh yeah...thank you Santa for giving me such a wonderful, naughty, submissive, f-ck toy as a wife...
    Wilddesires Wilddesires
    56-60, M
    Dec 4, 2014

    I love everything about being a Dom

    though generally I prefer the term Master. It hold a feeling of more power. Plus I'm never a fan of letting a sub or slave back out. My favorite methods of pain are biting whipping and spanking. My favorite restraints are chains. As for torture of those dear to me it varies...
    draganaeros draganaeros
    26-30, M
    Jan 5, 2014

    Dom 62 Looking For A Sub In The Uk

    I am 62 and have been a Dom for 4 yrs,My latest sub has moved away to cornwall and too far to travel.I am looking for a genuine lady that feels that she has Sub tendencys and would like to explore her feelings more deeply in a safe enviroment.I am firm but fair,There is no rush...
    Dom4You Dom4You
    61-65, M
    Dec 26, 2012
    AlaskaAlpha AlaskaAlpha
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

    Long History Short.

    My start as a master/dom started 7 years ago I rapidly began to feed off the control and reflecting my negative energy in force. I've had many slaves/subs some who were serious some were looking for a one day thing but either way I acted heartlessly and carnal and enjoy and do...
    draganaeros draganaeros
    26-30, M
    Sep 4, 2013

    I have always been dominate

    and a leader in most things I do . It has been over the last few months I have been learning how to become a actual Dom . The ability to have so much control is really the greatest turn on . I enjoy bondage discipline .
    Bmansvw Bmansvw
    46-50, M
    Dec 18, 2013

    In the lifestyle for years.

    New to online relationships but It is interesting. Spoken to some very likable ladies. I think this is a great venue.
    AlaskaAlpha AlaskaAlpha
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 11, 2014

    I really hate guys that claim to be doms

    and use the label as an excuse to be selfish and treat women like crap. It's like they don't understand the dynamics of the relationship at all. If I meet another gorgeous, sweet, and sexy sub that tells me she's been mistreated by some idiot dom in the past I'm going to have to...
    sharkmarks sharkmarks
    26-30, M
    May 22, 2014
    BobRussell BobRussell
    61-65, M
    Sep 7, 2014

    Twice Immortal

    It started off as a character in my short stories, which slowly became my main character in my erotica and now has evolved into my sexual personality. There is a darkness that I embody when I take on the persona of 'Mikahel'. It is my Dom name to those who know me and it has...
    Mikahel Mikahel
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 29, 2013
    MagentaLace MagentaLace
    22-25, F
    Jan 8, 2014


    My wife and I live a 24/7 D/s lifestyle. It's tough sometimes, however, because we don't want the kids to see it so they don't think dad is mean to mom. I would like to hear others' experiences dealing with this issue and maybe share some of my expreriences.
    mAsarlai mAsarlai
    41-45, M
    Oct 4, 2013

    Unbelievable how difficult this can be at times.

    A Dom has wants, needs, and desires. The sub has wants needs, and desires. How to work the differences out and still keep the D/s going is tough. I cant seem to get it right with my sub. Always seem to push her too far and we end up in a long discussion about me over doing...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2014

    I progressed to Dom several years ago.

    Over that time, I have had a few partners that would role play the part of sub for me... but I have never felt fulfilled. That has all changed recently.About a month ago, I was contacted by an ex girlfriend of mine. We had been together 11 years ago for about 6 months. She broke...
    Sirkind Sirkind
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    My Sub

    My sub is so very obedient, very docile, so kind, so affectionate, so eager to please his dom in any way he can. He is not just my trusted sub, but he also his mate forever: He is my husband. No matter how rough I am with him, whether I yell at him, or whip him, or make him do...
    JustToFeel JustToFeel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2013

    How would you explain to a sub why

    so many Doms want to have multiple subs.
    MagentaLace MagentaLace
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    My pleasure comes from my submissives growth.

    All her tasks ,even the smallest ones have an objective. Guiding her on this journey that fulfills her,brings out her best,and opens her mind to all the possibilities in life. The greatest feeling I have ever felt is having the TRUST she shows in me to follow where I lead her...
    GreenBlueEyes GreenBlueEyes
    1 Response May 3, 2014

    This is all very new to me!

    My girlfriend told me that she was interested in the Dom/sub lifestyle a few weeks ago. I didn't know anything about being a Dom.I didn't even know how or where to start! I will say, lately things have really gotten interesting! I'm starting to love the respectful/dominant...
    MrFenix MrFenix
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 6, 2014

    I just realized something comforting.

    I can't find a good relationship because everyone tries to make me submit. If I actually feel for you, I will probably submit happily. And when I do, you have to accept that I will eventually show you my dominant side. You will be on your knees before me, desperate for me to...
    VeraFiora VeraFiora
    22-25, F
    Nov 3, 2015

    I Am Looking For Female Submissive

    Are you tired of the same old vanilla sex I am looking for female submissive. if you look to Erotic Pleasure and role-playing and explore new roles. During the activities, the practitioners may feel endorphins comparable to the so-called "runner's high" or to the afterglow of...
    Ravens522006 Ravens522006
    41-45, M
    Dec 30, 2012
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