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I Am a Dominant Male

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 647 People

    The Firsts

    Breaking down a woman, and more particularly a wife, is a continuous stream of firsts. Each first chips away at her inhibition and personal dignity. Each first gets her closer to be a totally submissive object of my sexual and mental desires. The first time she says "I'm not in...
    InCharge8 InCharge8
    36-40, M
    Nov 18, 2013

    Choice Isn't Always A Good Thing

    People who are given too many choices often become stressed. I have seen my own wife in an agony of indecision over quite minor things - and that stresses me. So although I want her to feel free to chime in with any decision-making process that directly affects her, there will...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 9, 2012

    EP Ellie removed a 4 week old post of mine

    today. It had no foul language. no pictures, nothing politically incorrect. I guess there is really no point in trying.
    Jayded111 Jayded111
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 7, 2014

    It's A Choice.

    When I was a young lad and my friends went off to get drunk or high and chase the girls. I got a job and went in every weekend even in summer when everyone else went to the beach. I saved my money and bought a decent car. That was dominant. They were also choices. I made...
    ken360 ken360
    56-60, M
    6 Responses Jul 20, 2013

    Most people have strange misconceptions of the

    BDSM lifestyle. Whilst I don't feel the need to defend the way I live I'm happy to educate and enlighten those that don't understand. For me it's not ALL whips and ropes, it's more a state of mind. It's about intense emotions. It's about taking love to a higher level.This a poem...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses May 3, 2014

    I want to become a “Stay at Home Dom” This

    post is written “tongue in cheek” so please don’t get too concerned… …Yet. I have recently contemplated a career change. My “brat” and I have been working different shifts and since she is quite good at her job (being a brat), this has created numerous...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 30, 2014

    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 14, 2014

    In BDSM we often talk about 'velvet & steel'.

    Steel being the strength and discipline, velvet being the softer side. Here is my Velvet: Kneeling on the floor he saw her spread before him. She'd fallen asleep on the sofa as she'd waited for his return. He gently took the TV remote from her limp hand and hit the standby...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    19 Responses May 16, 2014

    Come To Me

    Come to me, lovely, and lay at my feet. Give me your fears, worries, and cares. Come to me, child, rest at my feet. I will comfort you, love you, and eat all your fears. Come to me, darling, lay down your head. Trust me, I am with you until you are dead. Come to me and cry...
    PaleFox PaleFox
    46-50, M
    2 Responses May 27, 2013
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 17, 2014

    I Am A Dom Author Unknown

    I am a Dom. I did not say brute. I did not say harsh. I am a Dom, not a cold-hearted chauvinist who cares little for, and respects even less the woman in his life. No, I revere my beloved, for I realize that without I do not exist. Without her I am a mere disassembled puzzle. Yet...
    herMaitre herMaitre
    46-50, M
    Jul 26, 2010

    Her First Submission

    Some years ago I was honored to have a woman give herself to me. She had never completely surrendered to any man before. Her job was with a high powered defense contractor making deals around the globe. She held black belts in 2 different martial arts and was an extremely in...
    bengez3 bengez3
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Mar 21, 2011

    I found the child within,

    the woman child I see her in your smile I hear her in your voice With soft voice and loving heart I bring her to my outstretched hand I guide her through the darkness toward the light And as a child you follow, unfaltering in your steps Each new door opened is your...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 14, 2014

    Submitting to me all the way is how I want my

    sub girl! I mean ready to worship my c*&k! On her hands and knees naked for me. I love nipple clamps, hard anal, spanking, handcuffing, and p
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2014

    The Dominant Man

    I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women. Yet to...
    goodaddy goodaddy
    46-50, M
    16 Responses Mar 9, 2011

    So many fake profiles.

    So many fake submissives. What's a Dominant to do? lol NO pics - NO chat - NO exceptions.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    I joined EP back in 2009.

    I deleted my account just over a year ago (something I now regret). But I'm back. I'm the same person as before but life has taught me some new lesson so I've upgraded myself to 00afreshstartUK (2.0) which has many new features:* Faster response times* Improved memory* Upgraged...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jun 13, 2014

    I am very new to this Lifestyle,

    but I fully believe that already I have learned many things that will benefit others new to a "taken in hand", "Head of Household", or perhaps even Master/sub relationships. This first blog may be quite wordy, but I think it necessary to give a background on our situation. The...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 13, 2014

    I found the child within,

    the woman child I see her in your smile I hear her in your voice With soft voice and loving heart I bring you to my outstretched hand I guide you through the darkness toward the light And as a child you follow, unfaltering in your steps Each new door opened is your...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 5, 2014

    Do you possess that which I seek?

    A strength, an understanding, a need to serve? Of the thing I need the most? Do you know yourself as I will come to know you? Can you give it freely and without hesitation? Or is the doubt to come between us? Give me your heart Give me your trust Give me your very soul...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 16, 2014

    A New Friend

    I have been following the exploits of my friend Pampereddiva. She is a dominant, cruel, sadistic woman with a totally devoted husband. He was kept in chastity, cuckolded, tortured, and humiliated. Not any longer though, as it would seem he was developing a cunning plan, and has...
    djonlothario djonlothario
    46-50, M
    Nov 25, 2013
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    Velvet: In BDSM we often talk about the 'velvet

    and steel' side of our personality. The steel being the discipline and punishment, the velvet being the tender, loving side. This is my velvet. Kneeling on the floor he saw her spread before him. She'd fallen asleep on the sofa as she'd waited for his return. He gently took the...
    00afreshstart77UK00 00afreshstart77UK00
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Jan 14, 2015

    Collaring Of A Girl

    I have a fair amount of skill as a real life metal worker,this includes blacksmithing... I met a girl that identifies as an OWNED kajira (real time) online that lived about 85 miles up the freeway. We began chatting each asking the other for insights into the others thoughts. I...
    TEMPOLTON TEMPOLTON
    41-45, M
    10 Responses Mar 25, 2012

    Come take my hand and let me guide you Let me

    show you the woman you really are Let us explore together, discover together Let me cross the boundaries and barriers you have built Let me find myself in you, only you can make me grow Let me learn to love again and I will teach you to trust again Let me find my strengths...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 16, 2014

    There's Always More

    I love when a girl thinks that you've been as dirty or as rough with her as you can be. She thinks just because she's on all fours taking a **** in the *** that she is at her limit. That's when you start pulling her hair like you were playing tug-of-war. When she's grunting...
    InCharge8 InCharge8
    36-40, M
    Nov 18, 2013

    Inspired By Gumshoejane

    So many of the doms on here tell about the rough sex, as if that was the most important aspect. They give the impression they relish abusing their partners. It's a false impression. Being dominant means taking responsibility, being respectful and letting my woman know exactly...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jan 2, 2012

    This Is Who I Am

    "I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women. Yet to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 7, 2010

    If I loved you . . . .

    You could never love again. No other could take you to the heights you once soared. You would feel the love few others have experienced. You would welcome death, because life without me would be empty. You too would learn to love with intensity. Passion has no limits. If...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses May 11, 2014

    My thoughts about this way of life started

    several years ago. Over the years, I have experienced a hell of a lot that the BDSM World offers. I was fortunate to be instructed by a very well reknowned Master here in the UK, and have since used those techniques and adapted them further to suit mine and that of any sub...
    simplynickstill simplynickstill
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 25, 2014

    I am a dominant male

    and have a nature of dominance even though there are many parts of me that call out submission. Submission has always been one of my fantasies but I know what I want too much...
    sancarn sancarn
    22-25, M
    Jun 6, 2014

    I am evolving. I can feel it.

    My sexual appitite is growing and I'm attracted to people and kinks I avoided only a year ago. The more I learn, the more I want to experience.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 20, 2014

    Rejoice In Your Surrender

    Tell me everything. I want inside. I want to be able to give you what you want without thinking. I want to know you so well I can anticipate your desire. Are you ready to answer my questions? Are you ready to tell me what I need? Are you ready to submit your thoughts to receive...
    KnightMaster KnightMaster
    46-50, M
    2 Responses May 17, 2011

    For those who don't understand the D/s

    relationship I would just like to say : Dominant does NOT mean domineering. For those who do understand : No explanation needed, just keep on having fun!
    00afreshstart77UK00 00afreshstart77UK00
    51-55, M
    Jan 15, 2015

    Absolute Dominance

    I was about 25 when I met a girl in Las Vegas at a club ironically called Pure. She was very good looking - 23 years old, long dark hair, nice body, large breasts in a tight fitting dress. We were having a good time, and then she revealed she had a boyfriend. I'm dominant but...
    borgj borgj
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

    As I have mentioned in one of my previous blogs,

    I am pretty new to the TPE/DS lifestyle. On the other hand, my Brat was very well trained (many years ago), but still knows all too well the do’s and do not’s of TPE. Please don’t misunderstand, I love everything about her and cherish her like none other, but she is very...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO
    46-50, M
    Jan 22, 2014

    My favorite D/s related song/video.

    Once you understand what the 'mic' is, it all makes sense ;) The way she says please just drives me crazy! 
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 14, 2014

    The D/s Way

    This is something that I have posted here before Enjoy "I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not...
    adarkhunter adarkhunter
    51-55, M
    22 Responses Jan 11, 2011

    I wish some people would remember

    that this isn't facebook. Please take your drama elsewhere, I'm sick of seeing it on my screen. Come back when you have something intelligent to say . . .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 17, 2014

    Discipline Problems

    Some time ago, I posted a story elsewhere on EP of my meeting w/a 19YO girl who shared my fantasies (basically involving her being spanked, diapered, and generally treated like a bratty little girl)...it wound up going so well that I flew out to be w/her again for another weekend...
    cd1019 cd1019
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jul 6, 2013

    Dominants come in a variety of flavours,

    I guess I fall into the 'gentle and sensual' catagory. Mental domination is as importnant as physical domination to me. It's not roleplay for me, I live it 24/7.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 29, 2014

    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 14, 2014

    (picture)  Saw this on a local advertising

    billboard. Ain't it the truth!  lol
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 16, 2014

    Our Secret

    Do you ever feel like you're carrying a secret? To all these people you interact with during a day, you have to come off like you're perfectly normal. You look around at all these ordinary people and wonder what would happen if they knew that you're not like that, not like them...
    malathion malathion
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Dec 7, 2012
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