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I Am a Dominant Male

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 680 People

    In BDSM we often talk about 'velvet & steel'.

    Steel being the strength and discipline, velvet being the softer side. Here is my Velvet: Kneeling on the floor he saw her spread before him. She'd fallen asleep on the sofa as she'd waited for his return. He gently took the TV remote from her limp hand and hit the standby...
    deleted deleted 26-30 29 Responses May 16

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    I am seeking a submissive woman.

    .. Who is intelligent, dedicated, not necessarily experienced, but understands the concept of belong to someone, seeking a Dom who wants to love and be loved (yes a Dom can love), who is willing to change some things in her life to meet the desires of her Dom, her Master, her...
    BullExpatriate BullExpatriate 36-40, M Jul 31

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    I found the child within,

    the woman child I see her in your smile I hear her in your voice With soft voice and loving heart I bring you to my outstretched hand I guide you through the darkness toward the light And as a child you follow, unfaltering in your steps Each new door opened is your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 5

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    I Am A Dom Author Unknown

    I am a Dom. I did not say brute. I did not say harsh. I am a Dom, not a cold-hearted chauvinist who cares little for, and respects even less the woman in his life. No, I revere my beloved, for I realize that without I do not exist. Without her I am a mere disassembled puzzle. Yet...
    herMaitre herMaitre 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 26, 2010

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    Dominants come in a variety of flavours,

    I guess I fall into the 'gentle and sensual' catagory. Mental domination is as importnant as physical domination to me. It's not roleplay for me, I live it 24/7.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 29

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    Still Waters Run Deep

    When you first meet me, I won't say much at first. But let me ask the questions. In the quiet pauses in conversation, I probably won't offer up much. You might wonder if I'm angry, bored, offended. Rest assured, I'm not. I just like my distance. If we drive together, I'll...
    buenosnoches buenosnoches 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    Her First Submission

    Some years ago I was honored to have a woman give herself to me. She had never completely surrendered to any man before. Her job was with a high powered defense contractor making deals around the globe. She held black belts in 2 different martial arts and was an extremely in...
    bengez3 bengez3 41-45, M 6 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    A New Friend

    I have been following the exploits of my friend Pampereddiva. She is a dominant, cruel, sadistic woman with a totally devoted husband. He was kept in chastity, cuckolded, tortured, and humiliated. Not any longer though, as it would seem he was developing a cunning plan, and has...
    djonlothario djonlothario 46-50, M Nov 25, 2013

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    I joined EP back in 2009.

    I deleted my account just over a year ago (something I now regret). But I'm back. I'm the same person as before but life has taught me some new lesson so I've upgraded myself to 00afreshstartUK (2.0) which has many new features:* Faster response times* Improved memory* Upgraged...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jun 13

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    This Is Who I Am

    "I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women. Yet to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    guyhere4u guyhere4u 41-45, M Sep 16

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    Collaring Of A Girl

    I have a fair amount of skill as a real life metal worker,this includes blacksmithing... I met a girl that identifies as an OWNED kajira (real time) online that lived about 85 miles up the freeway. We began chatting each asking the other for insights into the others thoughts. I...
    TEMPOLTON TEMPOLTON 41-45, M 10 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    I am a dominant male

    and have a nature of dominance even though there are many parts of me that call out submission. Submission has always been one of my fantasies but I know what I want too much...
    sancarn sancarn 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 6

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    Rejoice In Your Surrender

    Tell me everything. I want inside. I want to be able to give you what you want without thinking. I want to know you so well I can anticipate your desire. Are you ready to answer my questions? Are you ready to tell me what I need? Are you ready to submit your thoughts to receive...
    KnightMaster KnightMaster 46-50, M 2 Responses May 17, 2011

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    I am evolving. I can feel it.

    My sexual appitite is growing and I'm attracted to people and kinks I avoided only a year ago. The more I learn, the more I want to experience.
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    So many fake profiles.

    So many fake submissives. What's a Dominant to do? lol NO pics - NO chat - NO exceptions.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 16

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    I am very new to this Lifestyle,

    but I fully believe that already I have learned many things that will benefit others new to a "taken in hand", "Head of Household", or perhaps even Master/sub relationships. This first blog may be quite wordy, but I think it necessary to give a background on our situation. The...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    If I loved you . . . .

    You could never love again. No other could take you to the heights you once soared. You would feel the love few others have experienced. You would welcome death, because life without me would be empty. You too would learn to love with intensity. Passion has no limits. If...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 11

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    The D/s Way

    This is something that I have posted here before Enjoy "I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not...
    adarkhunter adarkhunter 51-55, M 28 Responses Jan 11, 2011

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    Our Secret

    Do you ever feel like you're carrying a secret? To all these people you interact with during a day, you have to come off like you're perfectly normal. You look around at all these ordinary people and wonder what would happen if they knew that you're not like that, not like them...
    malathion malathion 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    It's A Choice.

    When I was a young lad and my friends went off to get drunk or high and chase the girls. I got a job and went in every weekend even in summer when everyone else went to the beach. I saved my money and bought a decent car. That was dominant. They were also choices. I made...
    ken360 ken360 51-55, M 6 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    I wish some people would remember

    that this isn't facebook. Please take your drama elsewhere, I'm sick of seeing it on my screen. Come back when you have something intelligent to say . . .
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    I found the child within,

    the woman child I see her in your smile I hear her in your voice With soft voice and loving heart I bring her to my outstretched hand I guide her through the darkness toward the light And as a child you follow, unfaltering in your steps Each new door opened is your...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 14

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    Do you possess that which I seek?

    A strength, an understanding, a need to serve? Of the thing I need the most? Do you know yourself as I will come to know you? Can you give it freely and without hesitation? Or is the doubt to come between us? Give me your heart Give me your trust Give me your very soul...
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    Submitting to me all the way is how I want my

    sub girl! I mean ready to worship my c*&k! On her hands and knees naked for me. I love nipple clamps, hard anal, spanking, handcuffing, and p
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    There's Always More

    I love when a girl thinks that you've been as dirty or as rough with her as you can be. She thinks just because she's on all fours taking a **** in the *** that she is at her limit. That's when you start pulling her hair like you were playing tug-of-war. When she's grunting...
    InCharge8 InCharge8 31-35, M Nov 18, 2013

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    The Firsts

    Breaking down a woman, and more particularly a wife, is a continuous stream of firsts. Each first chips away at her inhibition and personal dignity. Each first gets her closer to be a totally submissive object of my sexual and mental desires. The first time she says "I'm not in...
    InCharge8 InCharge8 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    Come take my hand and let me guide you Let me

    show you the woman you really are Let us explore together, discover together Let me cross the boundaries and barriers you have built Let me find myself in you, only you can make me grow Let me learn to love again and I will teach you to trust again Let me find my strengths...
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    Most people have strange misconceptions of the

    BDSM lifestyle. Whilst I don't feel the need to defend the way I live I'm happy to educate and enlighten those that don't understand. For me it's not ALL whips and ropes, it's more a state of mind. It's about intense emotions. It's about taking love to a higher level.This a poem...
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    Choice Isn't Always A Good Thing

    People who are given too many choices often become stressed. I have seen my own wife in an agony of indecision over quite minor things - and that stresses me. So although I want her to feel free to chime in with any decision-making process that directly affects her, there will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 9, 2012

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    The Dominant Man

    I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel I am more intelligent, or wiser. I am not dominant because of the strength or mass of my body. I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women. Yet to...
    goodaddy goodaddy 46-50, M 17 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    As I have mentioned in one of my previous blogs,

    I am pretty new to the TPE/DS lifestyle. On the other hand, my Brat was very well trained (many years ago), but still knows all too well the do’s and do not’s of TPE. Please don’t misunderstand, I love everything about her and cherish her like none other, but she is very...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    I am a Dominant Male

    and I am proud of it. I like to have a couple to serve me. I like to give the orders and see how much they love to obey me. I am dicreet and I am looking for a couple in Middle East to start a relationship. If you are interested, convince me to accept you.
    BullExpatriate BullExpatriate 36-40, M Jul 6

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    I want to become a “Stay at Home Dom” This

    post is written “tongue in cheek” so please don’t get too concerned… …Yet. I have recently contemplated a career change. My “brat” and I have been working different shifts and since she is quite good at her job (being a brat), this has created numerous...
    RHSPKO RHSPKO 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    Trigger

    Heaven help you if you trigger my dominant side. On the surface, I appear perfect vanilla and a slice of nice guy. But start teasing or flirting with me and watch the beast emerge. Rest assured: I will huff, I will puff and blow your clothes down around your ankles and get you...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 9 Responses Aug 16, 2011

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    My favorite D/s related song/video.

    Once you understand what the 'mic' is, it all makes sense ;) The way she says please just drives me crazy! 
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    Inspired By Gumshoejane

    So many of the doms on here tell about the rough sex, as if that was the most important aspect. They give the impression they relish abusing their partners. It's a false impression. Being dominant means taking responsibility, being respectful and letting my woman know exactly...
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    (picture)  Saw this on a local advertising

    billboard. Ain't it the truth!  lol
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    Come To Me

    Come to me, lovely, and lay at my feet. Give me your fears, worries, and cares. Come to me, child, rest at my feet. I will comfort you, love you, and eat all your fears. Come to me, darling, lay down your head. Trust me, I am with you until you are dead. Come to me and cry...
    PaleFox PaleFox 41-45, M 3 Responses May 27, 2013

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