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I Am a Dominate Wife

Dominate Wives share experiances in a D/s lifestyle 630 People

    I Am Now!

    So, last Friday I decided that the coming weekend  would start things moving along with my project to become my husbands dom, and I started as soon as I woke up Saturday morning. It was gone 9am and hubby was still sleeping, so I shook him and told him to wake up and go get my...
    pampereddiva pampereddiva
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 30, 2012

    Our Relationship

    Glad to have found this common interest group, thought i was alone when we started bringing our usual flr to a higher level. I married an assertive wife, she has always been dominant in our courtship earlier. The fact that she's the one making the decisions and calling the shots...
    andy8888 andy8888
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 22, 2012

    New World Part 3

    Rob was kept up for a good portion of the evening by the giggles, moans, and cries of delight from Jennifer and Amanda in the next room. He prepared breakfast for both girls and then waited patiently for them to wake up. Eventually the two girls got up and headed out to the...
    teenieweenie2 teenieweenie2
    51-55, M
    Aug 26, 2013

    A New World Coming Part 1

    act: Recent surveys show, for the first time that women now outnumber men in those receiving university degrees. The number of women in non-traditional degree programs has also increased greatly in the last few years. Fact: The level of testosterone in men has dropped over the...
    teenieweenie2 teenieweenie2
    51-55, M
    1 Response Aug 13, 2013

    Caned Hubby

    I had to discipline my little man yesterday. It is some time since I had to do it as generally he is well behaved. Sometimes a play spanking is given just to turn him on. This time however it was a full blown caning which did actually reduce him to tears. Tears might not...
    Mariecane Mariecane
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Mar 26, 2012

    File: Reply To Craig

    Hi Craig, Thanks for your mail. I liked the PS, your sister sounds quite the little minx! Now, it is essential that you are fully comfortable with what your wife is suggesting. Though it seems to me that you are more than a little tempted. But remember, living on the edge may be...
    Josszav Josszav
    46-50, F
    Mar 29, 2012

    Disciplined By My Wife's Friends.

    This is Craig’s account of his treatment at the hands of his wife and her four strict female friends. Hi Jocelyn, Well we talked it over after reading your advice about whether Melinda would bring her friends around to demonstrate how to keep a male disciplined. Well...
    Josszav Josszav
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2012

    **** On Him

    I understand that this is not for everyone -- but it is the single most effective way of establishing dominance and making your husband realize at his very core that he is your inferior. You may only need to do it once -- it is a deeply shaming and humiliating experience for...
    Melissa0163 Melissa0163
    41-45, F
    17 Responses Dec 12, 2011

    I am a submissive househusband,

    and my Wife and I have been happily married for 20 years as of July 2015. My Wife is the Breadwinner, and She is definitely the Boss in our marriage and calls the shots in our home. I am Her fully subordinate husband and completely under Her supervision where a married man...
    sksdomwife sksdomwife
    61-65, M
    1 Response Mar 27, 2015

    Younger Wife And Older Husband

    I am a thirty-six year-old man who had just received an over-the-knee spanking from his nineteen year-old younger wife whom I just married few months back. That’s when my dominant wife went to a party at a neighbor’s house and left me alone at home. About an hour...
    jmfil123 jmfil123
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2010

    Some Ways I Punish My Husband

    I am the undisputed boss at home but sometimes my husband disobeys me, complains or doesn’t show enough respect to me.  For those cases, here are some ways I punish him:   Some punishments that have to do with sex: Withhold his ******* for several days...
    martafarias24 martafarias24
    51-55, F
    27 Responses Sep 18, 2010

    On Christmas morning,

    I unlocked his **** cage for the first time in two weeks and told him his present was to be able to ***. I instructed him to **** me but not to *** until I said so. Between riding his **** and and mouth, I came several times. He wanted to *** a few times but did a nice job...
    cjwhip cjwhip
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Dec 28, 2013

    How I Started Becoming A Dominate Wife

    Well five years ago my husband got hurt on the job,he was a plumber at that time. He was on he back for about 6 weeks and still in pain when he did get up.When he finally got better his doctor told if he goes back in`to his Field of work again his pain will come back and it will...
    cjdomwife cjdomwife
    41-45, F
    27 Responses Mar 3, 2012

    I Am A Submissive Husband

    himy goddess calls me sissy rose. although she has me do some household chores goddess isnt really that strict. i would like to get another goddess to mentor my goddess in becoming aa real dominant wife. i love her very much and would do anything for her . pleasse help...
    sissymaidrob sissymaidrob
    Aug 18, 2013

    Taken A Stage Further

    My husband, Charles, now cherry, has been a transvestite for years. He has since childhood really but I was with him a couple of years before I knew. Over the years it has been a low key thing as we have children. As they have grown and left home he wanted to increase activity...
    deleted deleted
    May 16, 2012

    Am A Dominate Wife

    i think Women should be in all positions of authority, both at home and in the real world!! i think that all men should be kept in line by being forced to wear a male chastity device with their Wife or Girlfriend holding the key. Single males, age 14 and above, should have to...
    46-50, F
    18 Responses Jul 25, 2011

    Humiliate Him

    If your male animal has been cheatng, as mine did, I think we have every right to degrade and humiliate him. Some say revenge is not the answer, for me it is. No indigity is too much. As I said in my previous letter he has the choice, he can leave. If he chooses to stay, and he...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 22, 2012

    Starting Out

    STARTING OUT   The chicks had flown the nest. We’d settled down to a fairly conservative middle age, and our sex life was comfortable but, hardly Mount Etna.   Then one day I discovered some Fem Dom magazines in my husband Dave’s drawer. I wasn’t shocked, well...
    Josszav Josszav
    46-50, F
    7 Responses Mar 17, 2012

    Control Him

    Until 12 years ago I was a fairly typical suburban wife, blissfully unaware of what he was getting up to. It all turned bad when I heard he was seem kissing a younger woman in public, seemingly oblivious to my feelings. I then decided to put a watch on him through a number of...
    deleted deleted
    16 Responses Apr 15, 2012

    The Cage

    It is 6 feet long, 3 feet wide and 3 feet high. He can lie down in it, or sit up in it, he can be restrained in it. There is a water feeding bottle attached, like a large version of the one in pet cages and there is a tube leading to a water waste container. If he needs anything...
    MissCarole MissCarole
    56-60, F
    13 Responses Jan 4, 2012

    Gradual Domination

    My husband and I have been married for some years and have always like games of dominance and submission. It had to be worked around children until they grew and left home. At the start our games were equally shared, he dominant one time and me the next. As the children left home...
    MissCarole MissCarole
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Nov 27, 2011


    I am now an Ex wife and I still teach males what it is like to be female. Not just CD and panties, but what it is really like
    deleted deleted
    18 Responses Mar 10, 2013

    Training The Male

    Training your male should be a pleasurable experience but not neccessarily for him, although it helps. He must first be forced to ackowledge that your pleasure is paramount, he gets whatever you allow him. Find his achilles heel, all men have a secret fantasy. It is not always...
    Mariecane Mariecane
    41-45, F
    11 Responses Apr 25, 2012

    Femdom In The Family

    The three dominant woman in my family are now putting there slaves to the test, all three slaves are now locked in a chastity device & our Mistresses are very pleased with the effect this has had on us over the last three weeks. The keys to our chastity are kept by another...
    Bonky16 Bonky16
    1 Response Jun 30, 2012

    Depraved Acts Performed To Recieve My Allowance.

    One fantasy of mine is for my wife to become my Mistress, take me to the bank and have my check deposited into an account only she can access, then sever my credit rating with the credit reporting agencies so that I have no access to my money. She would have other lovers and lock...
    billycuck billycuck
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 14, 2012

    Our Fd Marriage

    We live in a wonderful, comfortable, absolute female dominant marriage. Think of the traditional middle class suburban marriage. Then flip the sexes. She is the leader, the commander, the breadwinner, the stronger one, the head of the household. I'm the contented homemaker...
    Clande567 Clande567
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 28, 2010

    Female Led Relationship . Must Read .

    Female Led Relationship . Must Read . The female gender is BY FAR the superior gender. Mans time is over and patriarchy is losing ground everyday . Matriarchy is the future and the sooner men accept this and embrace it the happier we all will be and the world will be a much...
    46-50, F
    14 Responses Feb 11, 2012

    My Husband - Slave

    I am bonky16s Wife & Mistress, i take great delight punishing my husband in front of other woman, a slap round the face or the heel of my boot crushing his foot or a good hard kick in the backside. One evening i was out with a friend of mine she said your husband dose what ever...
    Bonky16 Bonky16
    Apr 11, 2012


    Lately my husband/subbie has been dropping heavier hints about my taking a younger man. It is true that we dont indulge in the act very often these days as the dynamic of our relatonship has changed over the years. Aside from his taste for submission, and mine for dominance it...
    MissCarole MissCarole
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Jul 8, 2012

    New World Part 2

    Jennifer enjoyed a couple of so-so ******* and then pushed Rob away. His face was covered in her juices. "Go wash your face, you are a mess. And don't you even think of playing with that little worm of yours!" she snapped. Rob quickly cleaned himself up. His little **** was...
    teenieweenie2 teenieweenie2
    51-55, M
    Aug 24, 2013

    Becoming A Dominant Wife

    I am naturally bossy in my everyday life. I like things my way and my husband is the same. This has caused conflict in our Marraige over the past few years. Recently, I decided to try something new to see if it would benefit our marriage. I have started being more dominant in bed...
    Hotwife24 Hotwife24
    10 Responses Feb 5, 2013

    A Game Of Mental Torture

    Try this. A game we play now and then is that I have him put on his favourite short maids outfit. He stands beside my chair holding a tray with a glass of water filled to the absolute brim. I then slide my hand beneath the dress and play with his genitals. There is a promise of...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses May 21, 2012

    Sunday Exercise

    Well at the moment he's busy replacing brake lights on my car, then the ironing, then cleaning the house. Shortly I'm going out to find something nice to wear for my current boyfriend who is coming to a nice dinner which hubby will cook. Tomorrow we'll have more sex as hubby...
    pampereddiva pampereddiva
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

    Watching The 49'es Game Tonight I Thought About Dominance...

    Preamble:I have dominated my husband for quite a few years, but watching the 49'ers crush the Green Bay packers tonight i really had an Epiphany in understanding why this all works. The Question:If we females back up a bit and really ask the question: "Why would a strong man ever...
    lw85381 lw85381
    56-60, F
    11 Responses Jan 13, 2013

    Dominant Always

    From an early age I always found it easy to dominate boys and later men. My Mother ruled my Father and I took the cue from there. I was always aware that I got my own way with boys but my first concious act of dominance came around the age of 11 and a mixed senior school. The...
    Mariecane Mariecane
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Feb 9, 2012

    It'S Not The Pain, It'S The Humiliation...

    I recall vividly the first time I stood up to her. It may not sound like a big deal but it was, believe me it was. On saturday I'm meant to bake a cake for her mother's weekly visit. It's a day I dread. On this saturday I went out, without permission, and stayed out. I knew she...
    1 Response Feb 10, 2013

    Working Week

    During the week we are both really busy and so my plans to dominate my husband have been on hold a bit, waiting for the weekend to take the next step. I have been handing over some domestic chores when hubby is free though. Last night I did do something exciting. I put on a...
    pampereddiva pampereddiva
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 1, 2012

    Practical Advice

    So many dominant wives' stories include accounts of painful punishments, withholding sex, use of clumsy chastity contraptions, etc. There is a better way. After all both partners want to have a lot of sex, why limit it? With whipping and scrotum slapping nobody is really going to...
    WifeAscendant WifeAscendant
    66-70, F
    11 Responses Aug 6, 2013

    Permanently Eliminating His Penis From Your Sex Life

    To truly dominate your husband, his penis must be eliminated from your sex life. The act of penetration and *********** re-establishes his sense of dominance over you. He needs to crave performing oral sex on you, and his penis should no longer be considered a sex organ. At first...
    Melissa0163 Melissa0163
    41-45, F
    36 Responses Mar 7, 2012

    My Husbands Are My Slaves

    I guess I have always been confident in the power of my beauty. And the fact that I was able to marry two men and live with them under the same roof, was a great booster to my self-belief. I've always dominated both my husbands. Both are younger to me, Sameer by about 2 years and...
    mmflover mmflover
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Sep 26, 2010

    Had A Great Weekend

    It all started friday when my sister call and asked if the kids can spend the weekend i said sure. Well at 430 pm I took my male wife to the nail salon and he received a french mani and pedi, Well I just loved the look on his face when I told them give him french mani pedi and...
    cjdomwife cjdomwife
    41-45, F
    17 Responses Mar 24, 2012


    My sissy .is generally a good little girl for me. It embarasses her when I call her that but it also turns her on. She has become adept at housework and is good at picking up exactly on my mood. Sometimes, however, a few reminders need to be issued. Unlike some dominant wives I...
    MissCarole MissCarole
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Dec 8, 2011

    Unowned :-(

    I would just like to take the time to thank all of the Dominant Women for starting this thread and for just existing.I didn't even know I had a submissive trait within me until a Dominant Woman exposed it and made it my life during our time together.So if you have the desire to...
    asimtold2 asimtold2
    36-40, M
    May 25, 2013

    Naughty But Nice...

    Watching my friend spank my husband was a real turn on! I shouldn’t be saying this as it’s very private but I need to put it down! A few nights back, my friend Maureen and her husband Tony came round for a meal and drinks. I’ve known Maureen for years and we’ve...
    Josszav Josszav
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Jun 21, 2012

    Femdom In The Family

    My Wife - Mistress has never hidden the fact that she is the boss & now she has found that her sister in law & her aunty are also very dominant woman, the three of them get on very well they love to talk about dominating men & how to reduce them to tears. They have a meeting...
    Bonky16 Bonky16
    6 Responses May 31, 2012

    Toungue Her

    I think its incredibly sexy when a dominant woman summons you to pleasure her sex with the snap of her fingers. How you must crawl under her office desk with your swollen manhood. How it feels do deny your self the release but only thirst her nectar between her golden legs.To...
    jonnylong jonnylong
    36-40, M
    May 3, 2012

    Hubby Chastity

    I have had a number of enquiries, not quite sure why, about the sex life or lack of it for my hubby. The little man has a Prince Albert ring with a further ring behind the scrotum, both of surgical steel. These are locked together with a tiny padlock. It means he does not get an...
    Mariecane Mariecane
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Mar 31, 2012

    My Contribution

    I sometimes fantasize that I was blindfolded and my mistress brought me to an unknown house. The only thing I noticed was that there are more people in the house. I heard them but I didn’t see them. It became quit and I felt that the present people looked at us. My mistress...
    soulfire1 soulfire1
    56-60, M
    Jun 20, 2012
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