Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Am a Exotic Dancer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 158 People

    My So Called Dirt.

    I was a dancer. I still enjoy it but we have to grow up sometime. I was very good so I am told, though winning pole trick competitions might say something too. I miss dancing. I would perform more interpretive dance on the stage but believe me it was exotic. Especially...
    rebelqueen rebelqueen 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Need Your Help, All Of You.

    im a college freshman who has been struggling like no joke. my parents arent helping me out, i have so many expenses and there are days where i feel like ill end up homeless with nobody. i went to my first ***** club when i turned 18 and i absolutely loved it. i honestly wanted...
    juliageezy juliageezy 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A Word Of Caution

    I’m what you would call the preacher’s daughter type. I was raised in a good home with a strict, christian emphasis. My teen years were particularly hard especially with a disability (which I won’t specify here as I’m trying to remain anonymous). At 18, my boyfriend...
    Andie09 Andie09 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

     I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :) Any tips for someone just starting out? I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance.  Do you girls try to make small talk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well not me, my cousin works at some plus size

    ***** club. Sounds interesting...
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M Oct 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Future Teacher.. Can I Be A Dancer Too?

    Hey everyone. :) I'm in college to become a high school teacher right now.  I'm completely broke and have been drawn to becoming a dancer for a while now.  I was wondering if there would be a record of me doing this when I go to look for a teaching job after...
    juicy3191 juicy3191 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Love It

    I love being a ********. I was forced to do it by my husband, I feel so confident when I am half naked in front of a crowd of people. I love the money too, but all of it goes to my husband. I just love the way I feel when I get on stage, I feel like I am making love to the stage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Lasvegassins Lasvegassins 31-35 1 Response Mar 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Missing The Spotlight

    It was my 18th birthday and my best friend and I were so excited about going clubbing for our first time we actually made way for the city a little too early. We arrived at the nightclub to discover we still had an hour and a half to wait so we decided to take a look around. It...
    SherbetLove SherbetLove 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Personal Assistant

    Iam a very feminine very gay tv.who has been a personal assistant to dancers before.I can do hair and makeup as well as wardrobe,In general everything a busy dancer requires!I would love to talk and share with any girls who would like to, and I would appreciate any job offers...
    Kimmie1 Kimmie1 51-55 1 Response May 28, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Working as a dancer was my first

    and is the only job I have ever had. you meet some strange people sometimes but most are pretty nice believe it or not. I love to dance and this pays well to
    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl 18-21, F 4 Responses May 3

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've been dancing for a year

    and being a thick girl in the business can really make you grow thick skin but it turned me insensitive. I think it's a tough business but it's more so how you carry yourself that determines if you're sexy. I would bring home triple the money if the skinniest girl there with the...
    yourautumnscene yourautumnscene 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This may seem unusual to some.

    As a crossdresser who loves to wear girls clothes and as a dancer I love to perform for a female audience I will dance at parties dressed in sexy provocative lingerie but only for girls. For various reasons I will not perform where males are present I'd love to hear from girls...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy 36-40, T Feb 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Have Been A Dancer For Almost 2 Years Now

    I Started dancing later than most do. I moved back home after getting divorced and with michigan being the state with highest rate of unemployment in the country found I couldnt find a decent paying job to save my life. I had seen ads online that clubs were hiring dancers and...
    ravendreams85 ravendreams85 26-30 8 Responses Feb 4, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Contortionist

    i am a male contortionist and exotic dancer.and i just luv performing 4 an audience.i luv the"oooooh!!!"sounds the people make when i bend or drop intp the splits. its very unusual 2 see a male contortionist.i can bend right backwards and b puy my head on my butt.do perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lap Dances

    I'm auditioning for the first time this week, I am a skilled dancer and learn pole tricks at pole class.but how do you give a proper lap dance?
    soulet soulet 22-25 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am A ********/exotic Dancer

         The first night I went to a ***** club was with my best friend of 10 years.We were both 18 and it was great.I never got up on that stage until my fourth time there though.The first night my friend and I were incredibly nervous.We walked in around 7 pm to an almost empty...
    DashaDasha DashaDasha 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well technically not yet

    but I am thinking about it. Got to pay dem bills...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Art Of Pole Dancing

    look up this video on youtube The Art Of Pole By Jamilla Deville Those who think pole is just for girls to get money might have it wrong. This is an art that most of us can not do and I give the girls props who can. great classy video, she makes pole dancing look very...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 8, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    In A Pickle

    hi-i am super excited to find this forum!!i have been "Ginger" for 2 years-ish.  I love it!  I'm married and i have a degree. i choose to dance.   anywho.... heres the pickle..... I'm having trouble keeping the two worlds separate.  I know i...
    Gingerbliss Gingerbliss 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Day At Work. & After Work

    Let me tell you all about an experience I had at work a couple weeks ago. So I took a shower, with my sexy Victorias Secret body wash that smells very delicious. I washed my body slowly. Washed my hair, and brushed my teeth. ( yes I brush my teeth in the shower) lol. So Then I...
    cutiewithabooty cutiewithabooty 18-21, F 24 Responses Mar 17, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Well dancers we all know what time of year it is. I just briefly touched on this in other post but I got call the other night from local pre-professional ballet company. I have...
    Applc Applc 51-55, M 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just joined this site a week ago and of course, saw the posts (mostly girls) infatuation and passion for their dance. I have added in what positive comments I can as I can...
    Applc Applc 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Tomorrow (Sat ) I will be dancing from 5am- 11pm. Then Sunday 11am-1pm . Yippee. I am so excited to be dancing 19 hours in two days. Awesome. ( not .. well sort of, dancing yes...
    Stefanie5678 Stefanie5678 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So, today the teacher and choreographer tell us all, " we have extended todays rehearsal for another 3 hours. " CRAP CRA P CRAP. ( I said to myself, mind you I personally think we...
    Stefanie5678 Stefanie5678 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I'm coming up with a dance routine to Bucket by Carly Rae Jepson I Love this song but I kinda feel bad for my neighbours as I am blasting... Not too loud but loud enough I...
    Stefanie5678 Stefanie5678 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Always wanted to be one since I was a kid...but never got the chance to take classes much less do it in front of an audience. I have currently renovated my room to commit myself to...
    TerritorialGirl TerritorialGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So it's 9pm and a song just came on as I'm supposed to be studying for a math exam tomorrow and I got up and started dancing. We danced to the song in a dance recital a few years...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    one of my roommates is a pole dancer! we r friends from b4. not in the friend zone by choice, but cuz neither of us been single amd/or available at the same time, it just hasn't...
    hardinya247 hardinya247 41-45, M 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am extremely open minded in all aspects especially when it comes to consumption. I've eaten fried frog legs, gator, deer, raw fish, raw chicken, just kidding not raw chicken. I...
    clamthatjams clamthatjams 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    dance is my escape... i've been dancing ever since i was 3. i feel as if nobody is there when i dance, like i'm free from everything else bothering me.
    intoxicatingxmuke intoxicatingxmuke 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love love love being a dance teacher. Dance has always been my safe place. I am so glad I am getting the opportunity to teach baby ballerinas 😄💙
    Samanthaladale Samanthaladale 18-21 1 Response Nov 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know if I should continue dance in college. I really love it and don't think I can stop but with the major I want (petroleum engineering) it might not be a good idea. I...
    sydneyduran sydneyduran 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Injuries suck. I've been dancing for 14 years and the wear and tear of hip hop and ballet tore up my knees. I haven't danced for a while, but my knees still hurt every once in a...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Can't wait to to start taking classes again Tap Ballet Hip hop This time I'm the student YES Instead of other way around Wonder what my students will think of me ,because I...
    Stefanie5678 Stefanie5678 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    In four hours I will be dancing. 40 min straight, no break with 30 seconds to 2 min quick changes. I'm so nervous because I have never danced that hard for a long time. 6 numbers...
    Stefanie5678 Stefanie5678 26-30, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am a fairly introverted, creative, intelligent, independent, and empathetic young woman. I take pride on being all of those things. I love art and music, and express myself...
    zsigginz zsigginz 18-21, F Oct 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I dreamed I was at the gym at night. Saw this ballet dancer they were practicing. He started talking to me. We got to talking about dancing. I told him I was never into dancing but...
    SadisticPsychoBitch SadisticPsychoBitch 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You will find me in the back.. Listening, tapping my left foot... ;) You Wanna Teach Me To Dance "I was never much of a dancer I never found the way to move With legs like...
    htheart htheart 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Reading a variety of fiction and listening to texts which are in the process of preparation, I’ve noticed that I have some in-built expectations about the level of truth, or...
    exponential123 exponential123 46-50, F Oct 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know why but people always say I look like some exotic actress I don't even remember the name of. I don't look exotic or famous at all ._.
    pikapup17 pikapup17 18-21 Nov 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wanted to become a dance performer. I had always loved to dance on stage or I have also performed at many functions. I am also a trained Bharatnatyam dancer. I not only want to...
    asthas asthas 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I started to learn to dance when I was entering a competition it was a fancy dress we decided to learn to we coudl dance properly. Unfortunately the competition was fied but I...
    jdansn jdansn 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    which I was fine with in my early twenties. After being in the military for a long while, alone, and having lived everywhere that I felt exotic enough for me, I just feel so empty...
    CMB2352 CMB2352 26-30, F Oct 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    100 Questions to pass the time waiting to hear someone special got home safely 1) Name: PlayfulOwlEyes on here 2) Male/Female: Female 3) Were you named after anyone? In real...
    PlayfulOwlEyes PlayfulOwlEyes 18-21, F Oct 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Quite often, if not every night. But tonight it is beautiful and exotic, I think. Lastnight was even better. Can you spot it? :)
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everyone Says I'm Running Away by Nomadic Matt My dad always asks what I’m running away from with my travels. A few weeks ago, a commenter told me to stop running away and live...
    tarara0414 tarara0414 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know accents can exotic or sexy but most of these people are from Britain and Australia.....whereas I have a Russian accent and not sure how people think of that. It's just...
    NataliaHeart21 NataliaHeart21 18-21, F 20 Responses Nov 1