I Am a Exotic Dancer

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    In A Pickle

    hi-i am super excited to find this forum!!i have been "Ginger" for 2 years-ish.  I love it!  I'm married and i have a degree. i choose to dance.   anywho.... heres the pickle..... I'm having trouble keeping the two worlds separate.  I know i...
    Gingerbliss Gingerbliss
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2010

    A Word Of Caution

    I’m what you would call the preacher’s daughter type. I was raised in a good home with a strict, christian emphasis. My teen years were particularly hard especially with a disability (which I won’t specify here as I’m trying to remain anonymous). At 18, my boyfriend...
    Andie09 Andie09
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2011
    Lasvegassins Lasvegassins
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2014

    I have always wanted to ***** (for money

    and fun), but just last week I finally got the courage to put my body into that building and got the job . . . I had been secretly toting around my unworn lucite heels for about three months It is WILD! It feels like I finally have a grasp on the Mating World . . . I can make...
    rmcares rmcares
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2015

    Missing The Spotlight

    It was my 18th birthday and my best friend and I were so excited about going clubbing for our first time we actually made way for the city a little too early. We arrived at the nightclub to discover we still had an hour and a half to wait so we decided to take a look around. It...
    SherbetLove SherbetLove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2012

    The Art Of Pole Dancing

    look up this video on youtube The Art Of Pole By Jamilla Deville Those who think pole is just for girls to get money might have it wrong. This is an art that most of us can not do and I give the girls props who can. great classy video, she makes pole dancing look very...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Oct 8, 2009

    I think I want to try it out!

    I want to make that money!!!! 💰💰💰💰
    krmdr krmdr
    22-25, F
    Apr 13, 2015

    I Am A ********/exotic Dancer

         The first night I went to a ***** club was with my best friend of 10 years.We were both 18 and it was great.I never got up on that stage until my fourth time there though.The first night my friend and I were incredibly nervous.We walked in around 7 pm to an almost empty...
    DashaDasha DashaDasha
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Sep 12, 2011


    i am a male contortionist and exotic dancer.and i just luv performing 4 an audience.i luv the"oooooh!!!"sounds the people make when i bend or drop intp the splits. its very unusual 2 see a male contortionist.i can bend right backwards and b puy my head on my butt.do perfect...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 21, 2010

    My So Called Dirt.

    I was a dancer. I still enjoy it but we have to grow up sometime. I was very good so I am told, though winning pole trick competitions might say something too. I miss dancing. I would perform more interpretive dance on the stage but believe me it was exotic. Especially...
    rebelqueen rebelqueen
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

    Love It

    I love being a ********. I was forced to do it by my husband, I feel so confident when I am half naked in front of a crowd of people. I love the money too, but all of it goes to my husband. I just love the way I feel when I get on stage, I feel like I am making love to the stage...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

    I'm am exotic dancer tradition in to a full

    time job. it's extremely hard to get used to being somone else's scheduling and working long hours for half the money. but looks onky last so long. I'm trying to pave the way for my families future .
    deleted deleted
    Sep 9, 2015

    Day At Work. & After Work

    Let me tell you all about an experience I had at work a couple weeks ago. So I took a shower, with my sexy Victorias Secret body wash that smells very delicious. I washed my body slowly. Washed my hair, and brushed my teeth. ( yes I brush my teeth in the shower) lol. So Then I...
    cutiewithabooty cutiewithabooty
    18-21, F
    19 Responses Mar 17, 2012

    Lap Dances

    I'm auditioning for the first time this week, I am a skilled dancer and learn pole tricks at pole class.but how do you give a proper lap dance?
    soulet soulet
    1 Response Dec 22, 2012

    Working as a dancer was my first

    and is the only job I have ever had. you meet some strange people sometimes but most are pretty nice believe it or not. I love to dance and this pays well to
    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 3, 2014

    I Need Your Help, All Of You.

    im a college freshman who has been struggling like no joke. my parents arent helping me out, i have so many expenses and there are days where i feel like ill end up homeless with nobody. i went to my first ***** club when i turned 18 and i absolutely loved it. i honestly wanted...
    juliageezy juliageezy
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 28, 2011

    Well technically not yet

    but I am thinking about it. Got to pay dem bills...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2014

    Who wants to tour the East

    and Golf Coast and make money with me?? Serious inquiries only, i don't want to hear about NO bullshit. You need to be a confident woman, race doesn't matter (unless you are intimidated by a specific race of woman). Experience would be nice. Are you a young chick who wants to...
    shearrivesincognito shearrivesincognito
    26-30, F
    Dec 6, 2014

    I've been dancing for a year

    and being a thick girl in the business can really make you grow thick skin but it turned me insensitive. I think it's a tough business but it's more so how you carry yourself that determines if you're sexy. I would bring home triple the money if the skinniest girl there with the...
    yourautumnscene yourautumnscene
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2014

    This may seem unusual to some.

    As a crossdresser who loves to wear girls clothes and as a dancer I love to perform for a female audience I will dance at parties dressed in sexy provocative lingerie but only for girls. For various reasons I will not perform where males are present I'd love to hear from girls...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy
    41-45, T
    Feb 14, 2014

    I Have Been A Dancer For Almost 2 Years Now

    I Started dancing later than most do. I moved back home after getting divorced and with michigan being the state with highest rate of unemployment in the country found I couldnt find a decent paying job to save my life. I had seen ads online that clubs were hiring dancers and...
    ravendreams85 ravendreams85
    7 Responses Feb 4, 2012

    Future Teacher.. Can I Be A Dancer Too?

    Hey everyone. :) I'm in college to become a high school teacher right now.  I'm completely broke and have been drawn to becoming a dancer for a while now.  I was wondering if there would be a record of me doing this when I go to look for a teaching job after...
    juicy3191 juicy3191
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Mar 1, 2010

    I have always been very aware of my sexuality.

    When I was a teenager, I had a best friend who always joked that I would end up being an adult dancer. We both laughed, and we both believed it, because even then I already understood that just be being a girl, I had a certain power. I feel like stripping allowed me to really...
    EmeraldDreams12 EmeraldDreams12
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

     I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :) Any tips for someone just starting out? I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance.  Do you girls try to make small talk...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Dec 19, 2008

    Personal Assistant

    Iam a very feminine very gay tv.who has been a personal assistant to dancers before.I can do hair and makeup as well as wardrobe,In general everything a busy dancer requires!I would love to talk and share with any girls who would like to, and I would appreciate any job offers...
    Kimmie1 Kimmie1
    1 Response May 28, 2010
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