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I Am a Exotic Dancer

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    Well technically not yet

    but I am thinking about it. Got to pay dem bills...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F Jul 6

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    Missing The Spotlight

    It was my 18th birthday and my best friend and I were so excited about going clubbing for our first time we actually made way for the city a little too early. We arrived at the nightclub to discover we still had an hour and a half to wait so we decided to take a look around. It...
    SherbetLove SherbetLove 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19, 2012

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    Future Teacher.. Can I Be A Dancer Too?

    Hey everyone. :) I'm in college to become a high school teacher right now.  I'm completely broke and have been drawn to becoming a dancer for a while now.  I was wondering if there would be a record of me doing this when I go to look for a teaching job after...
    juicy3191 juicy3191 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    The Art Of Pole Dancing

    look up this video on youtube The Art Of Pole By Jamilla Deville Those who think pole is just for girls to get money might have it wrong. This is an art that most of us can not do and I give the girls props who can. great classy video, she makes pole dancing look very...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Personal Assistant

    Iam a very feminine very gay tv.who has been a personal assistant to dancers before.I can do hair and makeup as well as wardrobe,In general everything a busy dancer requires!I would love to talk and share with any girls who would like to, and I would appreciate any job offers...
    Kimmie1 Kimmie1 51-55 1 Response May 28, 2010

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    Lasvegassins Lasvegassins 31-35 1 Response Mar 1

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    Love It

    I love being a ********. I was forced to do it by my husband, I feel so confident when I am half naked in front of a crowd of people. I love the money too, but all of it goes to my husband. I just love the way I feel when I get on stage, I feel like I am making love to the stage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    I've been dancing for a year

    and being a thick girl in the business can really make you grow thick skin but it turned me insensitive. I think it's a tough business but it's more so how you carry yourself that determines if you're sexy. I would bring home triple the money if the skinniest girl there with the...
    yourautumnscene yourautumnscene 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    Working as a dancer was my first

    and is the only job I have ever had. you meet some strange people sometimes but most are pretty nice believe it or not. I love to dance and this pays well to
    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl 18-21, F 2 Responses May 3

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    Lap Dances

    I'm auditioning for the first time this week, I am a skilled dancer and learn pole tricks at pole class.but how do you give a proper lap dance?
    soulet soulet 22-25 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    My So Called Dirt.

    I was a dancer. I still enjoy it but we have to grow up sometime. I was very good so I am told, though winning pole trick competitions might say something too. I miss dancing. I would perform more interpretive dance on the stage but believe me it was exotic. Especially...
    rebelqueen rebelqueen 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    I Am A ********/exotic Dancer

         The first night I went to a ***** club was with my best friend of 10 years.We were both 18 and it was great.I never got up on that stage until my fourth time there though.The first night my friend and I were incredibly nervous.We walked in around 7 pm to an almost empty...
    DashaDasha DashaDasha 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    This may seem unusual to some.

    As a crossdresser who loves to wear girls clothes and as a dancer I love to perform for a female audience I will dance at parties dressed in sexy provocative lingerie but only for girls. For various reasons I will not perform where males are present I'd love to hear from girls...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy 36-40, T Feb 14

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    In A Pickle

    hi-i am super excited to find this forum!!i have been "Ginger" for 2 years-ish.  I love it!  I'm married and i have a degree. i choose to dance.   anywho.... heres the pickle..... I'm having trouble keeping the two worlds separate.  I know i...
    Gingerbliss Gingerbliss 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    I Have Been A Dancer For Almost 2 Years Now

    I Started dancing later than most do. I moved back home after getting divorced and with michigan being the state with highest rate of unemployment in the country found I couldnt find a decent paying job to save my life. I had seen ads online that clubs were hiring dancers and...
    ravendreams85 ravendreams85 26-30 8 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

     I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :) Any tips for someone just starting out? I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance.  Do you girls try to make small talk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    I Need Your Help, All Of You.

    im a college freshman who has been struggling like no joke. my parents arent helping me out, i have so many expenses and there are days where i feel like ill end up homeless with nobody. i went to my first ***** club when i turned 18 and i absolutely loved it. i honestly wanted...
    juliageezy juliageezy 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    Day At Work. & After Work

    Let me tell you all about an experience I had at work a couple weeks ago. So I took a shower, with my sexy Victorias Secret body wash that smells very delicious. I washed my body slowly. Washed my hair, and brushed my teeth. ( yes I brush my teeth in the shower) lol. So Then I...
    cutiewithabooty cutiewithabooty 18-21, F 28 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Contortionist

    i am a male contortionist and exotic dancer.and i just luv performing 4 an audience.i luv the"oooooh!!!"sounds the people make when i bend or drop intp the splits. its very unusual 2 see a male contortionist.i can bend right backwards and b puy my head on my butt.do perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2010

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    A Word Of Caution

    I’m what you would call the preacher’s daughter type. I was raised in a good home with a strict, christian emphasis. My teen years were particularly hard especially with a disability (which I won’t specify here as I’m trying to remain anonymous). At 18, my boyfriend...
    Andie09 Andie09 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    Don't call me Exotic!! You say I am Exotic You mean I am Other And you are Default It's hurtful and reflects institutionalized racism against the person your referring to. Don...
    thanamesnyaa thanamesnyaa 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I love my exotics so much! I currently have 2 skunks, a bearded dragon, 2 leopard geckos, and I also care for my sisters snake when she is away. It may seem like a lot of pets but...
    Lifebugzme Lifebugzme 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I plan to sample other exotic meats like Camel, Kangaroo, Elk, Antelope, Llama ,Rattlesnake and possibly Bear, Lion and Zebra in the future to satisfy my curiosity and maybe even...
    Moca2014 Moca2014 26-30 18 hrs ago

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    I'm not a dancer, but I love people who can dance. Especially when they give you a personal dance(;
    iamj iamj 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I've been a dancer for about 8 years, I do ballet, pointe, jazz & tap and I used to also do lyrical, hip hop, & modern.
    kaseyf2801 kaseyf2801 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I took dancing as a minor when I was in college at Arizona State University. During my college days, in Mesa, I worked at a Gentlemen's Club as a nude dancer. It paid my tuition...
    leslieathome leslieathome 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Yes I am a dancer. I dance anywhere and everywhere, no this is a true fact. I drive one for my friends nuts because when I am on a nice wooden floor or a nice slate or concrete...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 18 hrs ago

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    Oh my goodness glad you've asked! Papaya!
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My eyes are blueish gray with light grey stripes and a green ring going around my pupil.
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    There's something so exciting about trying something new.. the stranger the better. Yes, there's part of me that's afraid it will be really gross, but I think that's part of the...
    amygirl33 amygirl33 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Meats and Seafoods I have eaten and enjoyed were: Octopus, Alligator, Shark, Mahi-Mahi, Venison, Emu, Ostrich, Beefalo (a hybrid cow and buffalo), Bison, Conch, Squid, Quail, Goat...
    Moca2014 Moca2014 26-30 18 hrs ago

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    I have a habit of dancing. I originally started to dance publicly with other to earn some money. (Which actually got us quite the bit!) I am not entirely perfect at doing dancing...
    DamoiseauDynavolt DamoiseauDynavolt 16-17, M Jul 4

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    Just finished a session and I'm convinced that the dance techniques are complimented by EDM. I highly recommend more women and fem guys get into it - its inspiring watching my own...
    AnotherAvailableUsername AnotherAvailableUsername 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    when i first started dancing i was aroun 13... i was just messing around copying people in dance movies.. then i started taking it seriously... i have been dancing since then, now...
    Afsh1n Afsh1n 18-21, M Jul 15

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    any one care to chat let me know i love being a ballerina
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 17

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    I really wanna do ballet, but I'm 14 and I feel like I'm too old to start, I feel like I'll get laughed at, because I'm Not really, graceful? Or fluid, I bet most of the girls have...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F a week ago

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    That feeling when you can't get out of the car after 6 hours of dance
    shimmerly shimmerly 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I going to dance class so going off online get back on when done
    AmyAnn112 AmyAnn112 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Happy National Dance Day!! <3 (for all my fellow Americans)
    PrincessDemeter PrincessDemeter 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I love going dancing with family and friends on the weekends. I love wearing a short sundress, dress, or skirt and a low cut top or blouse with my buttons open, thigh highs...
    leslieathome leslieathome 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I had a phase during which my primary focus was robotic dancers.I kind of dislike the inherent objectification/dehumanization of women in drawing fembots, but my best friend used...
    Visola Visola 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Oh my goodness, thank the creator for the Mother Earth who provides such exotic food, I had a papaya the other day and *******! The seeds were something else but I must say, best...
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    Karl, who is going out with a dancer who had two kids. One of the kids was bad, at least according to Karl. The daughter was the one who was bad, she was 13 and kept going out on...
    Colemanus Colemanus 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    Well, kind of. Since it's such a long story, this will be part 1. I am a dancer, and almost one year ago, after a performance, there was another show on the same stage. My...
    ReplacedAxe ReplacedAxe 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    It all started in the eighth grade, and perhaps it shouldn't have. There I was, standing in a long line for school registration. It was hot, crowded, and it didn't help that my...
    TheAtheistNarwhal TheAtheistNarwhal 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    My uncle came to me and said "how are you going to become a dancer if you have no muscle?" In my head I heard "you can't be a dancer if your fat!" I'm feeling some type of way!
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 16-17, M 5 Responses Jul 7

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    My uncle came to me and said "how are you going to become a dancer if you have no muscle?" In my head I heard "you can't be a dancer if your fat!" I'm feeling some type of way!
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 16-17, M Jul 7

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    I don't just like it, I love it! Dancing is a huge part of my life. I am now in college and I take dance classes in college. Even though it does get in the way of my studies...
    PrincessDemeter PrincessDemeter 18-21, F Jul 13

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    I know some People alyways say that life is good and that you should explore and find things your interested in but I having nothing to live for I have no goals I had some really...
    purplelovebuddy32 purplelovebuddy32 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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