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I Am a Exotic Dancer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 162 People

    I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

     I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :) Any tips for someone just starting out? I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance.  Do you girls try to make small talk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    In A Pickle

    hi-i am super excited to find this forum!!i have been "Ginger" for 2 years-ish.  I love it!  I'm married and i have a degree. i choose to dance.   anywho.... heres the pickle..... I'm having trouble keeping the two worlds separate.  I know i...
    Gingerbliss Gingerbliss 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    I have always been very aware of my sexuality.

    When I was a teenager, I had a best friend who always joked that I would end up being an adult dancer. We both laughed, and we both believed it, because even then I already understood that just be being a girl, I had a certain power. I feel like stripping allowed me to really...
    EmeraldDreams12 EmeraldDreams12 18-21 2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Who wants to tour the East

    and Golf Coast and make money with me?? Serious inquiries only, i don't want to hear about NO bullshit. You need to be a confident woman, race doesn't matter (unless you are intimidated by a specific race of woman). Experience would be nice. Are you a young chick who wants to...
    shearrivesincognito shearrivesincognito 22-25, F Dec 6, 2014

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    Missing The Spotlight

    It was my 18th birthday and my best friend and I were so excited about going clubbing for our first time we actually made way for the city a little too early. We arrived at the nightclub to discover we still had an hour and a half to wait so we decided to take a look around. It...
    SherbetLove SherbetLove 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I Have Been A Dancer For Almost 2 Years Now

    I Started dancing later than most do. I moved back home after getting divorced and with michigan being the state with highest rate of unemployment in the country found I couldnt find a decent paying job to save my life. I had seen ads online that clubs were hiring dancers and...
    ravendreams85 ravendreams85 26-30 8 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    Contortionist

    i am a male contortionist and exotic dancer.and i just luv performing 4 an audience.i luv the"oooooh!!!"sounds the people make when i bend or drop intp the splits. its very unusual 2 see a male contortionist.i can bend right backwards and b puy my head on my butt.do perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2010

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    Lasvegassins Lasvegassins 31-35 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    A Word Of Caution

    I’m what you would call the preacher’s daughter type. I was raised in a good home with a strict, christian emphasis. My teen years were particularly hard especially with a disability (which I won’t specify here as I’m trying to remain anonymous). At 18, my boyfriend...
    Andie09 Andie09 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    Working as a dancer was my first

    and is the only job I have ever had. you meet some strange people sometimes but most are pretty nice believe it or not. I love to dance and this pays well to
    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl 18-21, F 4 Responses May 3, 2014

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    This may seem unusual to some.

    As a crossdresser who loves to wear girls clothes and as a dancer I love to perform for a female audience I will dance at parties dressed in sexy provocative lingerie but only for girls. For various reasons I will not perform where males are present I'd love to hear from girls...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy 36-40, T Feb 14, 2014

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    Lap Dances

    I'm auditioning for the first time this week, I am a skilled dancer and learn pole tricks at pole class.but how do you give a proper lap dance?
    soulet soulet 22-25 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    Day At Work. & After Work

    Let me tell you all about an experience I had at work a couple weeks ago. So I took a shower, with my sexy Victorias Secret body wash that smells very delicious. I washed my body slowly. Washed my hair, and brushed my teeth. ( yes I brush my teeth in the shower) lol. So Then I...
    cutiewithabooty cutiewithabooty 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Future Teacher.. Can I Be A Dancer Too?

    Hey everyone. :) I'm in college to become a high school teacher right now.  I'm completely broke and have been drawn to becoming a dancer for a while now.  I was wondering if there would be a record of me doing this when I go to look for a teaching job after...
    juicy3191 juicy3191 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    The Art Of Pole Dancing

    look up this video on youtube The Art Of Pole By Jamilla Deville Those who think pole is just for girls to get money might have it wrong. This is an art that most of us can not do and I give the girls props who can. great classy video, she makes pole dancing look very...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    I Need Your Help, All Of You.

    im a college freshman who has been struggling like no joke. my parents arent helping me out, i have so many expenses and there are days where i feel like ill end up homeless with nobody. i went to my first ***** club when i turned 18 and i absolutely loved it. i honestly wanted...
    juliageezy juliageezy 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    I Am A ********/exotic Dancer

         The first night I went to a ***** club was with my best friend of 10 years.We were both 18 and it was great.I never got up on that stage until my fourth time there though.The first night my friend and I were incredibly nervous.We walked in around 7 pm to an almost empty...
    DashaDasha DashaDasha 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    I think I want to try it out!

    I want to make that money!!!! 💰💰💰💰
    krmdr krmdr 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well not me, my cousin works at some plus size

    ***** club. Sounds interesting...
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M Oct 28, 2014

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    I've been dancing for a year

    and being a thick girl in the business can really make you grow thick skin but it turned me insensitive. I think it's a tough business but it's more so how you carry yourself that determines if you're sexy. I would bring home triple the money if the skinniest girl there with the...
    yourautumnscene yourautumnscene 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    My So Called Dirt.

    I was a dancer. I still enjoy it but we have to grow up sometime. I was very good so I am told, though winning pole trick competitions might say something too. I miss dancing. I would perform more interpretive dance on the stage but believe me it was exotic. Especially...
    rebelqueen rebelqueen 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    Well technically not yet

    but I am thinking about it. Got to pay dem bills...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2014

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    Personal Assistant

    Iam a very feminine very gay tv.who has been a personal assistant to dancers before.I can do hair and makeup as well as wardrobe,In general everything a busy dancer requires!I would love to talk and share with any girls who would like to, and I would appreciate any job offers...
    Kimmie1 Kimmie1 51-55 1 Response May 28, 2010

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    Love It

    I love being a ********. I was forced to do it by my husband, I feel so confident when I am half naked in front of a crowd of people. I love the money too, but all of it goes to my husband. I just love the way I feel when I get on stage, I feel like I am making love to the stage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I was an exotic dancer in London, i loved every min of it! It was like a party every time I went to work with the girls. At the time it was helping me with my university studies...
    D0016 D0016 22-25 Mar 19

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    When I was 3, I started gymnastics and did competetive when I was 4. When I was 5 I started going to Circus school for contortion idk why. But I learned a lot of my tricks there...
    ZacS9 ZacS9 16-17, M Mar 24

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    I love to dance and be silly when I'm in a good mood. I shut the door turn up the music and just let go. I'm not the best dancer but it feels Good and I'm in a better mood When I'm...
    beautifulbrowneyes21 beautifulbrowneyes21 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I'm a brand new burlesque dancer in training! I have an amazing supportive troupe, and I can't wait to perform!
    DreamingDreamingDreaming DreamingDreamingDreaming 22-25, F Mar 27

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    The curve of a tiger's back, the cute toes of a tree frog, the doleful hoot of an owl...these are the things I want to experience for the rest of my life. Animals from around the...
    XraZorBladezX XraZorBladezX 18-21, F Mar 30

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    I always find the perfect song to dance to when I'm home alone!
    Hayley13T15 Hayley13T15 13-15, F Mar 24

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    I taught myself how to pole dance via youtube videos.. My favorite moves are firefighter, carousel, and climbing with attitude. I love how strong it makes me feel and how happy. I...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    hello ! how are u contact me pleaseeee only girls
    Lorenzoo07 Lorenzoo07 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    Dancing takes me to a place of high existence. A natural high that I never want to come down from... I feel free, I close my eyes and feel the music. Sometimes there is no music...
    dancingyogi114 dancingyogi114 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Dancing is such a relaxing and healthy release for me. It frees the spirit and allows me to express my emotions
    tinydancer999 tinydancer999 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I study dance in college and I also do a lot of musical theatre and film. It's my passion. I'm going for it!
    piperweant piperweant 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    My absolute favorite hobby, my love, my dance pole. One of the few things I still have from my past and I will appreciate it forever.. It was a gift which I will always use. I love...
    LilVixen17 LilVixen17 16-17, F 15 Responses 5 days ago

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    I used dance until my company closed and that was the saddest thing that happened to me
    InfiniteTearDrops InfiniteTearDrops 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I had hired an exotic dancer to entertain at a bachelor's party a years ago and got call the night before the party that she was snowed in Chicago an her flight was canceled. I...
    IwasaCollegeStud IwasaCollegeStud 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    BILLY'S GAY DANCER DAD Billy was at school this morning in the English countryside and the teacher asked all the children what their fathers did for a living. All the typical...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    My Restless Sister- As I wrote in another post my younger sister died in a car accident at age 7. My mother, self then just turned 9,and now stepfather who was driving by the way...
    ChestnutNAmber ChestnutNAmber 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    People always say that dance is for girls and g-ays but I love it. I started out in competetive gymnastics and then I took hiphop classes. But then as I got older I learned all...
    ZacS9 ZacS9 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    ANOTHER of my favorite classic "game shows" was "The Gong Show":) Actually-this program was a satirical take-off on the classic 1950's talent shows, such as "Arthur Godfrey's...
    jrhanold jrhanold 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    I am a dancer and going barefoot is second nature to me. My soles are hardened with dancers' callouses and I can walk on most surfaces without wincing, but I am sensitive enough to...
    LizzieLost LizzieLost 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    So, I've had a crush on a dancer on my school's event. I asked her number, but then the manager of the dancer (female too) came to me and gave me her number instead. Now what all I...
    mz123456789 mz123456789 16-17, F Mar 24