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I Am a Exotic Dancer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 160 People

    Lap Dances

    I'm auditioning for the first time this week, I am a skilled dancer and learn pole tricks at pole class.but how do you give a proper lap dance?
    soulet soulet 22-25 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    Who wants to tour the East

    and Golf Coast and make money with me?? Serious inquiries only, i don't want to hear about NO bullshit. You need to be a confident woman, race doesn't matter (unless you are intimidated by a specific race of woman). Experience would be nice. Are you a young chick who wants to...
    shearrivesincognito shearrivesincognito 22-25, F Dec 6, 2014

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    My So Called Dirt.

    I was a dancer. I still enjoy it but we have to grow up sometime. I was very good so I am told, though winning pole trick competitions might say something too. I miss dancing. I would perform more interpretive dance on the stage but believe me it was exotic. Especially...
    rebelqueen rebelqueen 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    I've been dancing for a year

    and being a thick girl in the business can really make you grow thick skin but it turned me insensitive. I think it's a tough business but it's more so how you carry yourself that determines if you're sexy. I would bring home triple the money if the skinniest girl there with the...
    yourautumnscene yourautumnscene 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    Missing The Spotlight

    It was my 18th birthday and my best friend and I were so excited about going clubbing for our first time we actually made way for the city a little too early. We arrived at the nightclub to discover we still had an hour and a half to wait so we decided to take a look around. It...
    SherbetLove SherbetLove 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    I have always been very aware of my sexuality.

    When I was a teenager, I had a best friend who always joked that I would end up being an adult dancer. We both laughed, and we both believed it, because even then I already understood that just be being a girl, I had a certain power. I feel like stripping allowed me to really...
    EmeraldDreams12 EmeraldDreams12 18-21 2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    I Need Your Help, All Of You.

    im a college freshman who has been struggling like no joke. my parents arent helping me out, i have so many expenses and there are days where i feel like ill end up homeless with nobody. i went to my first ***** club when i turned 18 and i absolutely loved it. i honestly wanted...
    juliageezy juliageezy 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    Personal Assistant

    Iam a very feminine very gay tv.who has been a personal assistant to dancers before.I can do hair and makeup as well as wardrobe,In general everything a busy dancer requires!I would love to talk and share with any girls who would like to, and I would appreciate any job offers...
    Kimmie1 Kimmie1 51-55 1 Response May 28, 2010

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    Future Teacher.. Can I Be A Dancer Too?

    Hey everyone. :) I'm in college to become a high school teacher right now.  I'm completely broke and have been drawn to becoming a dancer for a while now.  I was wondering if there would be a record of me doing this when I go to look for a teaching job after...
    juicy3191 juicy3191 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    Contortionist

    i am a male contortionist and exotic dancer.and i just luv performing 4 an audience.i luv the"oooooh!!!"sounds the people make when i bend or drop intp the splits. its very unusual 2 see a male contortionist.i can bend right backwards and b puy my head on my butt.do perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2010

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    In A Pickle

    hi-i am super excited to find this forum!!i have been "Ginger" for 2 years-ish.  I love it!  I'm married and i have a degree. i choose to dance.   anywho.... heres the pickle..... I'm having trouble keeping the two worlds separate.  I know i...
    Gingerbliss Gingerbliss 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    I Am A ********/exotic Dancer

         The first night I went to a ***** club was with my best friend of 10 years.We were both 18 and it was great.I never got up on that stage until my fourth time there though.The first night my friend and I were incredibly nervous.We walked in around 7 pm to an almost empty...
    DashaDasha DashaDasha 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    A Word Of Caution

    I’m what you would call the preacher’s daughter type. I was raised in a good home with a strict, christian emphasis. My teen years were particularly hard especially with a disability (which I won’t specify here as I’m trying to remain anonymous). At 18, my boyfriend...
    Andie09 Andie09 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    This may seem unusual to some.

    As a crossdresser who loves to wear girls clothes and as a dancer I love to perform for a female audience I will dance at parties dressed in sexy provocative lingerie but only for girls. For various reasons I will not perform where males are present I'd love to hear from girls...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy 36-40, T Feb 14, 2014

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    Well technically not yet

    but I am thinking about it. Got to pay dem bills...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2014

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    Love It

    I love being a ********. I was forced to do it by my husband, I feel so confident when I am half naked in front of a crowd of people. I love the money too, but all of it goes to my husband. I just love the way I feel when I get on stage, I feel like I am making love to the stage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Well not me, my cousin works at some plus size

    ***** club. Sounds interesting...
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M Oct 28, 2014

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    Lasvegassins Lasvegassins 31-35 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    The Art Of Pole Dancing

    look up this video on youtube The Art Of Pole By Jamilla Deville Those who think pole is just for girls to get money might have it wrong. This is an art that most of us can not do and I give the girls props who can. great classy video, she makes pole dancing look very...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    I think I want to try it out!

    I want to make that money!!!! 💰💰💰💰
    krmdr krmdr 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

     I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :) Any tips for someone just starting out? I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance.  Do you girls try to make small talk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    I Have Been A Dancer For Almost 2 Years Now

    I Started dancing later than most do. I moved back home after getting divorced and with michigan being the state with highest rate of unemployment in the country found I couldnt find a decent paying job to save my life. I had seen ads online that clubs were hiring dancers and...
    ravendreams85 ravendreams85 26-30 8 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    Working as a dancer was my first

    and is the only job I have ever had. you meet some strange people sometimes but most are pretty nice believe it or not. I love to dance and this pays well to
    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl 22-25, F 4 Responses May 3, 2014

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    Day At Work. & After Work

    Let me tell you all about an experience I had at work a couple weeks ago. So I took a shower, with my sexy Victorias Secret body wash that smells very delicious. I washed my body slowly. Washed my hair, and brushed my teeth. ( yes I brush my teeth in the shower) lol. So Then I...
    cutiewithabooty cutiewithabooty 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Sometimes you try to like other people continuously, for years, and they still keep on working your nerves. There's a woman in my dance group who makes me nuts. She presents an...
    katiegray72 katiegray72 41-45, F 4 hrs ago

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    ALL RIGHT BOYS AND GIRLS LET'S HAVE A CONVERSATION. Something that is so important with dancers is collaboration with the tech crew to make sure the performance goes smoothly. This...
    ReesesPeaces ReesesPeaces 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Sean Michael Innis is a professional Salsa dancer based in Rome, Italy. At present, he works as a Salsa instructor in a leading dance school; where he trains people of different...
    porter81 porter81 22-25, M May 14

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    Well, I was a dancer. I feel in love with ballet with my first lesson at age 8. I ate, drank, dreamed, breathed it. And I was good at it. I had the honor of playing Clara in...
    PaulaDancer PaulaDancer 18-21, F 3 Responses May 4

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    I've performed my entire life! :D I am 27 and have danced since I was 7. It's harder now I do it as much as I can in a small town but perform when I can & hope to move to a bigger...
    EloiseChen EloiseChen 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I love dancing with all my heart and am moving into a more lyrical approach. I was just offered a scholarship to a studio not to far from me. I have been taking classes for 11...
    Secrets27 Secrets27 13-15, F 1 Response May 4

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    I dance a lot and I love to do ballet and tap. I also belly dance from time to time 😳😳😳
    Omglolhaha15 Omglolhaha15 13-15, T May 14

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    I had dance photos today and this me In my costume Sorry you can't see the whole thing
    alexlovesfashion alexlovesfashion 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Dance is my life. My favourite and the style I'm best at is Commercial, I also do hip-hop/street dance, Ballet, jazz, Tap and contemporary. I've been doing it since I was 4 and its...
    hannahashleigh23 hannahashleigh23 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear coworkers, 1. I use to be exotic dancer. 2. I DO have a husband who I have been married to for 21 years. The reason he is not with me is because he's been in prison for the...
    CocoaBelle CocoaBelle 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    Met this girl really pretty...great figure...real bubbely ...witty and cleaver.....after a couple dates and the most erotic sex experiences I have every had or could dream of...
    3chuck4 3chuck4 22-25, M 4 Responses May 17

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    the best thing about being an exotic dancer is traveling and working with new people
    LilyAna2234 LilyAna2234 22-25, F 1 Response May 17

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    I really want to thank all of you here on EP and EP. I came here only because I heard a few teen girls talking about it and how disgusting the guys were on her and how easy it was...
    peachstring peachstring 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I think I fall in love too easy. This girls everything I want. But so was the last, until I realized I don't want an exotic short girl, I like Irish girls who are taller because I...
    BillyOMalley BillyOMalley 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    I care but I also don't. I want to lose weight but I also wish to stay curvy even tho I am much more than just curvy. I want a guy to love my body this way instead of when I'm thin...
    SlayG SlayG 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I was kind of nervous when I was invited to come see my G/F asked me to come watch her dance at the Playground ***** Club in Great Falls Montana. The more I thought about it I...
    nastynicole22 nastynicole22 18-21, F 20 mins ago

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    This biracial dancer with curly hair got to me... including her down there. Yes, she was a gogo dancer. New Year's Eve of 2013 was when I had my first crush. The only thing that...
    Laez Laez 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Im triracial,descending from mostly three groups of people.I'm really considered biracial.My dad is black African and mom is mostly Asian with a little creole mix.I have mostly...
    triracialbeauty triracialbeauty 26-30, F 3 Responses May 3

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    As a dancer my motto is, "I have nothing to prove, but everything to say." And it's true. I just wish that people accepted me for me. People say I'm a good dancer, yet they have...
    jewelre jewelre 13-15, F Apr 26

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    Today I was bag packing for my dance group that have won a competition to perform 5 days in Disneyland Florida, right, and this woman said to me what you raising for, I explained...
    hannahashleigh23 hannahashleigh23 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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