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I Am a Exotic Dancer

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    I have always been very aware of my sexuality.

    When I was a teenager, I had a best friend who always joked that I would end up being an adult dancer. We both laughed, and we both believed it, because even then I already understood that just be being a girl, I had a certain power. I feel like stripping allowed me to really...
    EmeraldDreams12 EmeraldDreams12 18-21 2 Responses Dec 17

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    The Art Of Pole Dancing

    look up this video on youtube The Art Of Pole By Jamilla Deville Those who think pole is just for girls to get money might have it wrong. This is an art that most of us can not do and I give the girls props who can. great classy video, she makes pole dancing look very...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Contortionist

    i am a male contortionist and exotic dancer.and i just luv performing 4 an audience.i luv the"oooooh!!!"sounds the people make when i bend or drop intp the splits. its very unusual 2 see a male contortionist.i can bend right backwards and b puy my head on my butt.do perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2010

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    I Have Been A Dancer For Almost 2 Years Now

    I Started dancing later than most do. I moved back home after getting divorced and with michigan being the state with highest rate of unemployment in the country found I couldnt find a decent paying job to save my life. I had seen ads online that clubs were hiring dancers and...
    ravendreams85 ravendreams85 26-30 8 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    Day At Work. & After Work

    Let me tell you all about an experience I had at work a couple weeks ago. So I took a shower, with my sexy Victorias Secret body wash that smells very delicious. I washed my body slowly. Washed my hair, and brushed my teeth. ( yes I brush my teeth in the shower) lol. So Then I...
    cutiewithabooty cutiewithabooty 18-21, F 24 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    This may seem unusual to some.

    As a crossdresser who loves to wear girls clothes and as a dancer I love to perform for a female audience I will dance at parties dressed in sexy provocative lingerie but only for girls. For various reasons I will not perform where males are present I'd love to hear from girls...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy 36-40, T Feb 14

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    Well not me, my cousin works at some plus size

    ***** club. Sounds interesting...
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M Oct 28

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    I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

     I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :) Any tips for someone just starting out? I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance.  Do you girls try to make small talk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Love It

    I love being a ********. I was forced to do it by my husband, I feel so confident when I am half naked in front of a crowd of people. I love the money too, but all of it goes to my husband. I just love the way I feel when I get on stage, I feel like I am making love to the stage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Working as a dancer was my first

    and is the only job I have ever had. you meet some strange people sometimes but most are pretty nice believe it or not. I love to dance and this pays well to
    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl 18-21, F 4 Responses May 3

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    Personal Assistant

    Iam a very feminine very gay tv.who has been a personal assistant to dancers before.I can do hair and makeup as well as wardrobe,In general everything a busy dancer requires!I would love to talk and share with any girls who would like to, and I would appreciate any job offers...
    Kimmie1 Kimmie1 51-55 1 Response May 28, 2010

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    Future Teacher.. Can I Be A Dancer Too?

    Hey everyone. :) I'm in college to become a high school teacher right now.  I'm completely broke and have been drawn to becoming a dancer for a while now.  I was wondering if there would be a record of me doing this when I go to look for a teaching job after...
    juicy3191 juicy3191 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    A Word Of Caution

    I’m what you would call the preacher’s daughter type. I was raised in a good home with a strict, christian emphasis. My teen years were particularly hard especially with a disability (which I won’t specify here as I’m trying to remain anonymous). At 18, my boyfriend...
    Andie09 Andie09 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    Missing The Spotlight

    It was my 18th birthday and my best friend and I were so excited about going clubbing for our first time we actually made way for the city a little too early. We arrived at the nightclub to discover we still had an hour and a half to wait so we decided to take a look around. It...
    SherbetLove SherbetLove 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Well technically not yet

    but I am thinking about it. Got to pay dem bills...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I Am A ********/exotic Dancer

         The first night I went to a ***** club was with my best friend of 10 years.We were both 18 and it was great.I never got up on that stage until my fourth time there though.The first night my friend and I were incredibly nervous.We walked in around 7 pm to an almost empty...
    DashaDasha DashaDasha 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Lap Dances

    I'm auditioning for the first time this week, I am a skilled dancer and learn pole tricks at pole class.but how do you give a proper lap dance?
    soulet soulet 22-25 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    My So Called Dirt.

    I was a dancer. I still enjoy it but we have to grow up sometime. I was very good so I am told, though winning pole trick competitions might say something too. I miss dancing. I would perform more interpretive dance on the stage but believe me it was exotic. Especially...
    rebelqueen rebelqueen 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    I've been dancing for a year

    and being a thick girl in the business can really make you grow thick skin but it turned me insensitive. I think it's a tough business but it's more so how you carry yourself that determines if you're sexy. I would bring home triple the money if the skinniest girl there with the...
    yourautumnscene yourautumnscene 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Lasvegassins Lasvegassins 31-35 1 Response Mar 1

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    In A Pickle

    hi-i am super excited to find this forum!!i have been "Ginger" for 2 years-ish.  I love it!  I'm married and i have a degree. i choose to dance.   anywho.... heres the pickle..... I'm having trouble keeping the two worlds separate.  I know i...
    Gingerbliss Gingerbliss 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    I Need Your Help, All Of You.

    im a college freshman who has been struggling like no joke. my parents arent helping me out, i have so many expenses and there are days where i feel like ill end up homeless with nobody. i went to my first ***** club when i turned 18 and i absolutely loved it. i honestly wanted...
    juliageezy juliageezy 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    Who wants to tour the East

    and Golf Coast and make money with me?? Serious inquiries only, i don't want to hear about NO bullshit. You need to be a confident woman, race doesn't matter (unless you are intimidated by a specific race of woman). Experience would be nice. Are you a young chick who wants to...
    shearrivesincognito shearrivesincognito 22-25, F Dec 6

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    I have a chinchilla and his name is manny. I absolutely love him. My boyfriend always jokes about making earmuffs out of him but he knows I'd kick his *** lol.
    brunettequeen27 brunettequeen27 18-21, F Nov 30

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    I've always wanted to perform for people.
    darlingitsgrunge darlingitsgrunge 18-21, F Dec 15

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    When that song comes on that you danced to in the Christmas parade nine years ago and you still remember the dance routine and all you can do is sit there with tears rolling down...
    AngelWithASecret2 AngelWithASecret2 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    Andrea used to dance at the same club as me, but she got into trouble and was fired for letting the clients finger her. We have all fine that, but she never gave any kickbacks, so...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 27

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    I guess I can call myself that.
    HayellsDorion HayellsDorion 13-15, F Dec 6

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    I'm in a ballet studio. But I want to compete. But I want stay idk what to do
    jay3eee jay3eee 13-15, M Dec 7

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    I love dance so much, ballet and contemporary are my favorites. I would love to go en pointe some day :)
    phenxmenal phenxmenal 16-17, F Dec 10

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    I'm on my third year I'm pointe shoes! Ballet is so beautiful and graceful and I love being able to tell a story without any words.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Choreographing a dance to Taylor Swift's song 'Shake it Off.' Oh how I miss dance so much.
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    I don't do a class but I teach myself at home. I love the expressive moves and elegant pirouettes, everything incorporated in this style. I just love it- it's one of my favourite...
    mejustbeingme123 mejustbeingme123 13-15, F Dec 14

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    Okay so has anyone ever choreographed a bollywood routine? my dance team is doing an officer bollywood and we're doing our own choreography HELP
    sydneyduran sydneyduran 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 16

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    If you consider dancing like you're having an epileptic seizure whilst standing. Yeah then, boy I am simply the BEST.
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 16

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    Usually get quite a few complements from my dancing. But my legs kills the next day lol
    TheDarkOak TheDarkOak 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Someone help! Pick which one I should learn. I'm bored lol XD Choreography Videos Vixx Error http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AhjkiPjGqQA Vixx Eternity http://m.youtube.com/watch?v...
    kpopgirl21 kpopgirl21 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Dancing is my favorite!! It feels so good! I can pretty much do any dance out there^.^ my favorite is Lindy hop and swing.
    pixiepiink pixiepiink 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm very upset that 2 of my favorite artists dropped albums back. I now feel obligated to choreograph to all their songs
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    But I'd like it even more if i had a partner(someone who is also an exotic dancer) to travel with, and we can visit major cities and be young and rich together!!!!
    shearrivesincognito shearrivesincognito 22-25, F Dec 6

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    I use to be an exotic dancer. Then my lil sister wanted to dance so I took her to one of my shows and told one of my guy friends to show her a bad time . My intensions were to get...
    Bipolarshon Bipolarshon 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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