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I Am a Exotic Dancer

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    In A Pickle

    hi-i am super excited to find this forum!!i have been "Ginger" for 2 years-ish.  I love it!  I'm married and i have a degree. i choose to dance.   anywho.... heres the pickle..... I'm having trouble keeping the two worlds separate.  I know i...
    Gingerbliss Gingerbliss 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    Day At Work. & After Work

    Let me tell you all about an experience I had at work a couple weeks ago. So I took a shower, with my sexy Victorias Secret body wash that smells very delicious. I washed my body slowly. Washed my hair, and brushed my teeth. ( yes I brush my teeth in the shower) lol. So Then I...
    cutiewithabooty cutiewithabooty 18-21, F 28 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Working as a dancer was my first

    and is the only job I have ever had. you meet some strange people sometimes but most are pretty nice believe it or not. I love to dance and this pays well to
    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl 18-21, F 2 Responses May 3

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    I Have Been A Dancer For Almost 2 Years Now

    I Started dancing later than most do. I moved back home after getting divorced and with michigan being the state with highest rate of unemployment in the country found I couldnt find a decent paying job to save my life. I had seen ads online that clubs were hiring dancers and...
    ravendreams85 ravendreams85 26-30 8 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    A Word Of Caution

    I’m what you would call the preacher’s daughter type. I was raised in a good home with a strict, christian emphasis. My teen years were particularly hard especially with a disability (which I won’t specify here as I’m trying to remain anonymous). At 18, my boyfriend...
    Andie09 Andie09 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    I Need Your Help, All Of You.

    im a college freshman who has been struggling like no joke. my parents arent helping me out, i have so many expenses and there are days where i feel like ill end up homeless with nobody. i went to my first ***** club when i turned 18 and i absolutely loved it. i honestly wanted...
    juliageezy juliageezy 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    Missing The Spotlight

    It was my 18th birthday and my best friend and I were so excited about going clubbing for our first time we actually made way for the city a little too early. We arrived at the nightclub to discover we still had an hour and a half to wait so we decided to take a look around. It...
    SherbetLove SherbetLove 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19, 2012

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    My So Called Dirt.

    I was a dancer. I still enjoy it but we have to grow up sometime. I was very good so I am told, though winning pole trick competitions might say something too. I miss dancing. I would perform more interpretive dance on the stage but believe me it was exotic. Especially...
    rebelqueen rebelqueen 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    Lasvegassins Lasvegassins 31-35 1 Response Mar 1

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    This may seem unusual to some.

    As a crossdresser who loves to wear girls clothes and as a dancer I love to perform for a female audience I will dance at parties dressed in sexy provocative lingerie but only for girls. For various reasons I will not perform where males are present I'd love to hear from girls...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy 36-40, T Feb 14

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    Future Teacher.. Can I Be A Dancer Too?

    Hey everyone. :) I'm in college to become a high school teacher right now.  I'm completely broke and have been drawn to becoming a dancer for a while now.  I was wondering if there would be a record of me doing this when I go to look for a teaching job after...
    juicy3191 juicy3191 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    I Am A ********/exotic Dancer

         The first night I went to a ***** club was with my best friend of 10 years.We were both 18 and it was great.I never got up on that stage until my fourth time there though.The first night my friend and I were incredibly nervous.We walked in around 7 pm to an almost empty...
    DashaDasha DashaDasha 18-21, F 12 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Personal Assistant

    Iam a very feminine very gay tv.who has been a personal assistant to dancers before.I can do hair and makeup as well as wardrobe,In general everything a busy dancer requires!I would love to talk and share with any girls who would like to, and I would appreciate any job offers...
    Kimmie1 Kimmie1 51-55 1 Response May 28, 2010

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    Lap Dances

    I'm auditioning for the first time this week, I am a skilled dancer and learn pole tricks at pole class.but how do you give a proper lap dance?
    soulet soulet 22-25 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    Love It

    I love being a ********. I was forced to do it by my husband, I feel so confident when I am half naked in front of a crowd of people. I love the money too, but all of it goes to my husband. I just love the way I feel when I get on stage, I feel like I am making love to the stage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Contortionist

    i am a male contortionist and exotic dancer.and i just luv performing 4 an audience.i luv the"oooooh!!!"sounds the people make when i bend or drop intp the splits. its very unusual 2 see a male contortionist.i can bend right backwards and b puy my head on my butt.do perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2010

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    I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

     I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :) Any tips for someone just starting out? I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance.  Do you girls try to make small talk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Well technically not yet

    but I am thinking about it. Got to pay dem bills...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F Jul 6

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    The Art Of Pole Dancing

    look up this video on youtube The Art Of Pole By Jamilla Deville Those who think pole is just for girls to get money might have it wrong. This is an art that most of us can not do and I give the girls props who can. great classy video, she makes pole dancing look very...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    I've been dancing for a year

    and being a thick girl in the business can really make you grow thick skin but it turned me insensitive. I think it's a tough business but it's more so how you carry yourself that determines if you're sexy. I would bring home triple the money if the skinniest girl there with the...
    yourautumnscene yourautumnscene 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 7

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    Got me through college! No regrets at all
    tlbh tlbh 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 14

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    I plan to sample other exotic meats like Camel, Kangaroo, Elk, Antelope, Llama ,Rattlesnake and possibly Bear, Lion and Zebra in the future to satisfy my curiosity and maybe even...
    Moca2014 Moca2014 26-30 Jul 29

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    I took dancing as a minor when I was in college at Arizona State University. During my college days, in Mesa, I worked at a Gentlemen's Club as a nude dancer. It paid my tuition...
    leslieathome leslieathome 31-35, F Jul 26

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    Yes I am a dancer. I dance anywhere and everywhere, no this is a true fact. I drive one for my friends nuts because when I am on a nice wooden floor or a nice slate or concrete...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F Jul 29

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    Dancer's Block- when your ATTEMPTING to choreograph and your brain says NOPE. ...I have it -______-
    craziijessy craziijessy 13-15, F Aug 7

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    There's something so exciting about trying something new.. the stranger the better. Yes, there's part of me that's afraid it will be really gross, but I think that's part of the...
    amygirl33 amygirl33 26-30, F Jul 26

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    Meats and Seafoods I have eaten and enjoyed were: Octopus, Alligator, Shark, Mahi-Mahi, Venison, Emu, Ostrich, Beefalo (a hybrid cow and buffalo), Bison, Conch, Squid, Quail, Goat...
    Moca2014 Moca2014 26-30 Jul 29

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    Oh my goodness glad you've asked! Papaya!
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    I can't believe it just the other day, I discovered that my 'Maid of New Orleans' was covered in Buds:). As a result I now have five open flowers my room smells glorious. Like...
    TheCuckcake TheCuckcake 26-30, F Jul 31

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    That feeling when you can't get out of the car after 6 hours of dance
    shimmerly shimmerly 13-15, F Jul 24

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    I going to dance class so going off online get back on when done
    AmyAnn112 AmyAnn112 13-15, F Jul 25

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    Happy National Dance Day!! <3 (for all my fellow Americans)
    PrincessDemeter PrincessDemeter 18-21, F Jul 26

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    I love going dancing with family and friends on the weekends. I love wearing a short sundress, dress, or skirt and a low cut top or blouse with my buttons open, thigh highs...
    leslieathome leslieathome 31-35, F Jul 27

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    I've been tapping for so long and I love it! 🎵👣💜
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Choreographing is difficult for me cause I'm so picky, but once I'm done I feel so accomplished. I love it. ❤️❤️
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F Aug 5

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    Im determined to become one. I love the art, music, and body language. just got to start practicing and take classes and I'll soon be on my way to achieving my dream (^_^)
    feoxy feoxy 18-21, F Aug 10

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    Feeling good today, two weeks into the dance year. im so excited:D
    amazing97 amazing97 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Glad the dance business encourages uniqueness. Watching americas next top model and think its ridiculous the limits they put on what models should look like.
    amazing97 amazing97 16-17, F a week ago

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    Me and my friends have been doing freestyle disco dancing since we where like 4.
    EmmaWilliamss EmmaWilliamss 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Or so I like to think... I KNOW I get better with a few drinks in me.
    3dogmatt 3dogmatt 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Keep Your Money&Stay OUT of My Life!-Before my mother lost me to the state for good at age 10(1 year after I was removed from her for physical abuse&neglect) my biological father...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F Aug 12

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    Alexander714b4xm8 Alexander714b4xm8 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    Okay it's kinda like a love-hate relationship. I swear I love her with all my heart, but sometimes it's just like......... UUUGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! I mean both my brothers and me...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Karl, who is going out with a dancer who had two kids. One of the kids was bad, at least according to Karl. The daughter was the one who was bad, she was 13 and kept going out on...
    Colemanus Colemanus 36-40, M Jul 24

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    Hi, my name is evaleigh and I am new to this site. I just have a lot going on in mind right now, and I wanted to type it all out. I am a 16 year old teenager currently living in...
    evaleigh evaleigh 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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