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I Am a Exotic Dancer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 172 People

    Lasvegassins Lasvegassins 31-35 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    I've been dancing for a year

    and being a thick girl in the business can really make you grow thick skin but it turned me insensitive. I think it's a tough business but it's more so how you carry yourself that determines if you're sexy. I would bring home triple the money if the skinniest girl there with the...
    yourautumnscene yourautumnscene 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2014

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    A Word Of Caution

    I’m what you would call the preacher’s daughter type. I was raised in a good home with a strict, christian emphasis. My teen years were particularly hard especially with a disability (which I won’t specify here as I’m trying to remain anonymous). At 18, my boyfriend...
    Andie09 Andie09 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    Love It

    I love being a ********. I was forced to do it by my husband, I feel so confident when I am half naked in front of a crowd of people. I love the money too, but all of it goes to my husband. I just love the way I feel when I get on stage, I feel like I am making love to the stage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Personal Assistant

    Iam a very feminine very gay tv.who has been a personal assistant to dancers before.I can do hair and makeup as well as wardrobe,In general everything a busy dancer requires!I would love to talk and share with any girls who would like to, and I would appreciate any job offers...
    Kimmie1 Kimmie1 51-55 1 Response May 28, 2010

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    This may seem unusual to some.

    As a crossdresser who loves to wear girls clothes and as a dancer I love to perform for a female audience I will dance at parties dressed in sexy provocative lingerie but only for girls. For various reasons I will not perform where males are present I'd love to hear from girls...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy 36-40, T Feb 14, 2014

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    Well technically not yet

    but I am thinking about it. Got to pay dem bills...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2014

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    I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

     I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :) Any tips for someone just starting out? I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance.  Do you girls try to make small talk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Lap Dances

    I'm auditioning for the first time this week, I am a skilled dancer and learn pole tricks at pole class.but how do you give a proper lap dance?
    soulet soulet 22-25 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    Missing The Spotlight

    It was my 18th birthday and my best friend and I were so excited about going clubbing for our first time we actually made way for the city a little too early. We arrived at the nightclub to discover we still had an hour and a half to wait so we decided to take a look around. It...
    SherbetLove SherbetLove 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19, 2012

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    Day At Work. & After Work

    Let me tell you all about an experience I had at work a couple weeks ago. So I took a shower, with my sexy Victorias Secret body wash that smells very delicious. I washed my body slowly. Washed my hair, and brushed my teeth. ( yes I brush my teeth in the shower) lol. So Then I...
    cutiewithabooty cutiewithabooty 18-21, F 22 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Who wants to tour the East

    and Golf Coast and make money with me?? Serious inquiries only, i don't want to hear about NO bullshit. You need to be a confident woman, race doesn't matter (unless you are intimidated by a specific race of woman). Experience would be nice. Are you a young chick who wants to...
    shearrivesincognito shearrivesincognito 22-25, F Dec 6, 2014

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    My So Called Dirt.

    I was a dancer. I still enjoy it but we have to grow up sometime. I was very good so I am told, though winning pole trick competitions might say something too. I miss dancing. I would perform more interpretive dance on the stage but believe me it was exotic. Especially...
    rebelqueen rebelqueen 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    Future Teacher.. Can I Be A Dancer Too?

    Hey everyone. :) I'm in college to become a high school teacher right now.  I'm completely broke and have been drawn to becoming a dancer for a while now.  I was wondering if there would be a record of me doing this when I go to look for a teaching job after...
    juicy3191 juicy3191 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    Working as a dancer was my first

    and is the only job I have ever had. you meet some strange people sometimes but most are pretty nice believe it or not. I love to dance and this pays well to
    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl 22-25, F 4 Responses May 3, 2014

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    I'm am exotic dancer tradition in to a full

    time job. it's extremely hard to get used to being somone else's scheduling and working long hours for half the money. but looks onky last so long. I'm trying to pave the way for my families future .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 9, 2015

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    I Need Your Help, All Of You.

    im a college freshman who has been struggling like no joke. my parents arent helping me out, i have so many expenses and there are days where i feel like ill end up homeless with nobody. i went to my first ***** club when i turned 18 and i absolutely loved it. i honestly wanted...
    juliageezy juliageezy 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    I have always been very aware of my sexuality.

    When I was a teenager, I had a best friend who always joked that I would end up being an adult dancer. We both laughed, and we both believed it, because even then I already understood that just be being a girl, I had a certain power. I feel like stripping allowed me to really...
    EmeraldDreams12 EmeraldDreams12 18-21 2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    The Art Of Pole Dancing

    look up this video on youtube The Art Of Pole By Jamilla Deville Those who think pole is just for girls to get money might have it wrong. This is an art that most of us can not do and I give the girls props who can. great classy video, she makes pole dancing look very...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    I have always wanted to ***** (for money

    and fun), but just last week I finally got the courage to put my body into that building and got the job . . . I had been secretly toting around my unworn lucite heels for about three months It is WILD! It feels like I finally have a grasp on the Mating World . . . I can make...
    rmcares rmcares 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2015

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    In A Pickle

    hi-i am super excited to find this forum!!i have been "Ginger" for 2 years-ish.  I love it!  I'm married and i have a degree. i choose to dance.   anywho.... heres the pickle..... I'm having trouble keeping the two worlds separate.  I know i...
    Gingerbliss Gingerbliss 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    Yes, I'm a "********".

    Surprise! I love my job and I love what I do. And I don't care what anyone has to say negatively about me.
    Piercedprincess17 Piercedprincess17 18-21, F 18 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Contortionist

    i am a male contortionist and exotic dancer.and i just luv performing 4 an audience.i luv the"oooooh!!!"sounds the people make when i bend or drop intp the splits. its very unusual 2 see a male contortionist.i can bend right backwards and b puy my head on my butt.do perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2010

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    I think I want to try it out!

    I want to make that money!!!! 💰💰💰💰
    krmdr krmdr 22-25, F Apr 13, 2015

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    I Have Been A Dancer For Almost 2 Years Now

    I Started dancing later than most do. I moved back home after getting divorced and with michigan being the state with highest rate of unemployment in the country found I couldnt find a decent paying job to save my life. I had seen ads online that clubs were hiring dancers and...
    ravendreams85 ravendreams85 26-30 7 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    I Am A ********/exotic Dancer

         The first night I went to a ***** club was with my best friend of 10 years.We were both 18 and it was great.I never got up on that stage until my fourth time there though.The first night my friend and I were incredibly nervous.We walked in around 7 pm to an almost empty...
    DashaDasha DashaDasha 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    I am 14 1/2 year old girl. I am a freshman in high school. I am a dancer and I am an artist. I am looking for someone in the USA. Please reply and I will give you my kik/snapchat...
    quinntc quinntc 13-15, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I thought it might be a little narcissistic to do one of these but I love reading them so I figured, why not. Here goes. 1. My name is Spencer 2. I'm a senior in high school 3...
    JerseyBoy16 JerseyBoy16 16-17, M 19 hrs ago

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    Purple pecocks he's got 53 when it comes to exotic type mammals!
    anonymousgirl31 anonymousgirl31 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I bought for my honeymoon, a black laced teddy along with black laced panties, bra and seamed stockings. Black stockings are one of the sexiest items in lingerie on the planet. My...
    LadyTea LadyTea 56-60, F 20 Responses 2 days ago

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    ...i have had ednos for many years, but before that was a strict eating dancer. ...i want to be skinnier, but i hate it when i binge. i am eating less today and yesterday, a...
    cosmosdrift cosmosdrift 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    1s and 0s. That’s how computers and machines see us. Nothing more than that. It’s simple. There is no prejudice, no stereotypes…just 1s and 0s. How we see ourselves and how...
    OakleysWorld OakleysWorld 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    One night I was at the club and I received a message from my assistant . She told me she needed so time off from work. So i asked one of the girls at the club to fill in for her .I...
    dominator69 dominator69 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    Someone/anyone follow me on @21ST_CENTURY_DANCER I need followers please and thank you😘
    Galaxy2girl Galaxy2girl 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I don't really believe, I don't really know, but all I do know is that my heart tells me that we were lovers at one time or another. We may not be meant for each other in this...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's a modern day romance, two fools driving blind. Both finding their passion on some site online. He said he's a doctor (a Doctor Who fan). She says she's a dancer (but in...
    TonyGrey TonyGrey 31-35, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    i love that, i feel like i haven't lived much of an interesting life and i always wanted to travel frequently so i can see different cultures, meet different people and see exotic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Until recently I had never been to. Gay bar, I went to one last night and they were great, they had sexy gogo boy dancers, one was so hot, like ripped all over I just had to give...
    jameson1992 jameson1992 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    I've done loads of different types of dancing growing up, love to dance.
    DemiFrsr DemiFrsr 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    His name is Stacy. We are both 1/2 Native, 2 different tribes, 2 different nations, and he made sure we weren't the same clan lol... He was from CA and I am from NV. He is a grass...
    TellyLuv TellyLuv 22-25, F Jan 28

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    I haven't written a story on here in quite a while. I just felt like sharing this experience, I suppose. I haven't had a true best friend since elementary school. Even in middle...
    OblitusAuri OblitusAuri 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I want to be a dancer so bad :( I'm to ugly and shy but I want to dance and I wish I could dance and look pretty and have an audience.. That would be so awesome
    KittyLannister KittyLannister 16-17, F 15 Responses Jan 26

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    So I want to travel the world, see exotic locations, teach english in different countries and be happy abroad. BUT, I have major anxiety problems recently with is causing me to be...