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I Am a Exotic Dancer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 164 People

    Missing The Spotlight

    It was my 18th birthday and my best friend and I were so excited about going clubbing for our first time we actually made way for the city a little too early. We arrived at the nightclub to discover we still had an hour and a half to wait so we decided to take a look around. It...
    SherbetLove SherbetLove 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Lasvegassins Lasvegassins 31-35 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    Day At Work. & After Work

    Let me tell you all about an experience I had at work a couple weeks ago. So I took a shower, with my sexy Victorias Secret body wash that smells very delicious. I washed my body slowly. Washed my hair, and brushed my teeth. ( yes I brush my teeth in the shower) lol. So Then I...
    cutiewithabooty cutiewithabooty 18-21, F 24 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    I've been dancing for a year

    and being a thick girl in the business can really make you grow thick skin but it turned me insensitive. I think it's a tough business but it's more so how you carry yourself that determines if you're sexy. I would bring home triple the money if the skinniest girl there with the...
    yourautumnscene yourautumnscene 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2014

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    Contortionist

    i am a male contortionist and exotic dancer.and i just luv performing 4 an audience.i luv the"oooooh!!!"sounds the people make when i bend or drop intp the splits. its very unusual 2 see a male contortionist.i can bend right backwards and b puy my head on my butt.do perfect...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 21, 2010

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    This may seem unusual to some.

    As a crossdresser who loves to wear girls clothes and as a dancer I love to perform for a female audience I will dance at parties dressed in sexy provocative lingerie but only for girls. For various reasons I will not perform where males are present I'd love to hear from girls...
    Sissygirlieboy Sissygirlieboy 36-40, T Feb 14, 2014

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    I Have Been A Dancer For Almost 2 Years Now

    I Started dancing later than most do. I moved back home after getting divorced and with michigan being the state with highest rate of unemployment in the country found I couldnt find a decent paying job to save my life. I had seen ads online that clubs were hiring dancers and...
    ravendreams85 ravendreams85 26-30 8 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    I Am A ********/exotic Dancer

         The first night I went to a ***** club was with my best friend of 10 years.We were both 18 and it was great.I never got up on that stage until my fourth time there though.The first night my friend and I were incredibly nervous.We walked in around 7 pm to an almost empty...
    DashaDasha DashaDasha 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Personal Assistant

    Iam a very feminine very gay tv.who has been a personal assistant to dancers before.I can do hair and makeup as well as wardrobe,In general everything a busy dancer requires!I would love to talk and share with any girls who would like to, and I would appreciate any job offers...
    Kimmie1 Kimmie1 51-55 1 Response May 28, 2010

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    Future Teacher.. Can I Be A Dancer Too?

    Hey everyone. :) I'm in college to become a high school teacher right now.  I'm completely broke and have been drawn to becoming a dancer for a while now.  I was wondering if there would be a record of me doing this when I go to look for a teaching job after...
    juicy3191 juicy3191 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    Love It

    I love being a ********. I was forced to do it by my husband, I feel so confident when I am half naked in front of a crowd of people. I love the money too, but all of it goes to my husband. I just love the way I feel when I get on stage, I feel like I am making love to the stage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    The Art Of Pole Dancing

    look up this video on youtube The Art Of Pole By Jamilla Deville Those who think pole is just for girls to get money might have it wrong. This is an art that most of us can not do and I give the girls props who can. great classy video, she makes pole dancing look very...
    KandiGirl KandiGirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Lap Dances

    I'm auditioning for the first time this week, I am a skilled dancer and learn pole tricks at pole class.but how do you give a proper lap dance?
    soulet soulet 22-25 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    A Word Of Caution

    I’m what you would call the preacher’s daughter type. I was raised in a good home with a strict, christian emphasis. My teen years were particularly hard especially with a disability (which I won’t specify here as I’m trying to remain anonymous). At 18, my boyfriend...
    Andie09 Andie09 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    In A Pickle

    hi-i am super excited to find this forum!!i have been "Ginger" for 2 years-ish.  I love it!  I'm married and i have a degree. i choose to dance.   anywho.... heres the pickle..... I'm having trouble keeping the two worlds separate.  I know i...
    Gingerbliss Gingerbliss 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    My So Called Dirt.

    I was a dancer. I still enjoy it but we have to grow up sometime. I was very good so I am told, though winning pole trick competitions might say something too. I miss dancing. I would perform more interpretive dance on the stage but believe me it was exotic. Especially...
    rebelqueen rebelqueen 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    I Don't Want to Be An Exotic Dancer

     I want to be a *good* exotic dancer. :) Any tips for someone just starting out? I'm pretty confident in the dancing aspect... but I'm nervous about approaching and talking to the clients and trying to get them to buy a dance.  Do you girls try to make small talk...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Well technically not yet

    but I am thinking about it. Got to pay dem bills...
    XxJamberxX XxJamberxX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2014

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    Well not me, my cousin works at some plus size

    ***** club. Sounds interesting...
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M Oct 28, 2014

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    Working as a dancer was my first

    and is the only job I have ever had. you meet some strange people sometimes but most are pretty nice believe it or not. I love to dance and this pays well to
    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl 18-21, F 4 Responses May 3, 2014

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    Who wants to tour the East

    and Golf Coast and make money with me?? Serious inquiries only, i don't want to hear about NO bullshit. You need to be a confident woman, race doesn't matter (unless you are intimidated by a specific race of woman). Experience would be nice. Are you a young chick who wants to...
    shearrivesincognito shearrivesincognito 22-25, F Dec 6, 2014

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    I Need Your Help, All Of You.

    im a college freshman who has been struggling like no joke. my parents arent helping me out, i have so many expenses and there are days where i feel like ill end up homeless with nobody. i went to my first ***** club when i turned 18 and i absolutely loved it. i honestly wanted...
    juliageezy juliageezy 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    I have always been very aware of my sexuality.

    When I was a teenager, I had a best friend who always joked that I would end up being an adult dancer. We both laughed, and we both believed it, because even then I already understood that just be being a girl, I had a certain power. I feel like stripping allowed me to really...
    EmeraldDreams12 EmeraldDreams12 18-21 2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    Ugggggh dancers where are yoooouuu????
    sonicthefathog11 sonicthefathog11 18-21, M Jan 2

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    I saw a video once of this amazing male ballet dancer. He was so masculine, powerful, and graceful. When he danced you could see every muscle move, the video slowed down as he...
    RoyalCrystalPalace RoyalCrystalPalace 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I tried my best with Chelsea and Bill. They are terrible dancers just like Mrs Clinton.
    mrsclinton mrsclinton 66-70 16 hrs ago

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    I need a companion Girl I guess that must be you Body like the summer ******* like no other Don't you tell em what we do Don't tell em don't tell em Why would you
    Feelinthebeat Feelinthebeat 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    How do you become one? I hear a lot of people that do have this job but I don't know where to start or find the places.
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I can break dance! It is one of my only escapes from my uh...life. I do my best to get along with my team mates but some of them can be cocky.
    BrokenButterfliesDie BrokenButterfliesDie 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Every time I want to dance I put baby powder on the floor and dance like a ballerina :D
    BubblyJulie BubblyJulie 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    I love to dance traditional Jewish dances. It is a heritage, as so many things are with my family. I have danced to entertain my family. My father lives for me to dance.
    Corzomec Corzomec 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I like to dance at informal clubs where everyone is just having fun and some are drinking too much. Then no one seems to mind when some of the women's tops come iff c
    partigyrl partigyrl 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Not like strippers but when you can tell me a story and make me fear for your life on a pole girl you got it . Dancing is dancing
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm 19 years old and I have had am pretty well experienced at having sex. I live in the DC/ VIRGINIA area, and was working as an exotic dancer at a local club. I'm currently...
    kyuubikitsune11 kyuubikitsune11 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I left my mom behind and moved to Texas with my boyfriend when I was 21. I knew I was her whole world but I had to get away and spread my wings. My mother was a hard person to love...
    marladurden13 marladurden13 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am not a particularly religious person but at this point I just wanna belt to the sky HALLELUJAHHHH! I am RELIEVED. I have been in this hell of a relationship for the last 2...
    xsparklex xsparklex 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    we spent time together he bought me coffee we went out to a house he's building since he hasn't done things in a year he was a minute man but he's big i have a dancers body so he...
    carolinespecht4 carolinespecht4 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    so I saw an article, and it was titled: "5 countries with the worlds hottest men" so I read it and here is what it said: (p.s this article wasn't made by an american - and you'l...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 11

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    "Exotic" is such a ****** way to describe a person to be honest. I won't take it as a compliment. It's mostly white people calling Asian, black, Hispanic, etc.(people with colour...
    hecknope hecknope 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    Lots of Work opportunities in small business don't have to have learners to possess a business diploma or a major in a selected subject like R20;accounting.R21; Companies use...
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    My investigate currently concentrates on engineering-augmented experiential Studying in bigger training. I also instruct two Communication programs a yr, serve the university as a...
    Michael838w4jc6 Michael838w4jc6 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    What kind of beauty are you? Your beauty is exotic Your beauty is exotic. Your unusual appearance makes you stick out of the crowd. Everybody notices you, no matter where you are...
    BytheBy BytheBy 46-50, F Jan 2

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    Don't we all..well for 2015 my overall New Years resolution is to become a better person. However, I have 7 mini resolutions to work on/towards to achieve the overall resolution...
    SouthernBelle01 SouthernBelle01 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    confession: I used to want to be a break dancer. like. I always wanted to learn. But, considering my condition, I was never able to even try. anyone else love watching movies about...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I first heard about Butoh almost 15 years ago on a figure drawing models Internet forum. One of the other models posting there was a Butoh dancer who said that he did most of his...
    NakedDaniel NakedDaniel 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    I love being an American. I was born in the 50th state named Hawaii in January 1976. I have an Aquarius horoscope. After I graduated from high school, I moved New York City...
    femalemom1976 femalemom1976 36-40, F 13 Responses a week ago