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I Am a Fashion Victim

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    Omg You're Kidding Right!

    For obvious reasons I can't or won't ever be able to look like those models that we are subjected to every time we look at what the fashion trends are. 
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 5 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Not Intentional, Just Forgot How to Shop.......

    It's like my shopping muscle has atrophied.  Used to wear really cute stuff, but now I just can't be bothered. 
    unsureaboutthis unsureaboutthis 26-30, F Mar 16, 2008

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    Fashinista

    All I know is everything I wear has to match or else, all hell breaks loose. Usually my clothes are smart consiting of red, gray, navy blue, black, white, purple and dark green. I dont wear shouting colors. I usually wear Jeans and some Personali-Tees or like something plain on...
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F Aug 25, 2007

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    It's Always Hit Or Miss...

    I believe I have some fashion sense but sometimes i just don't know. One time I bought this cute shirt (in my mind) from Goodwill. I wore it all the time but after a while I realized it wasn't fitting quite right. It always looked poofy in the front and made my stomach look...
    OceanUndertow OceanUndertow 22-25, F Feb 19, 2012

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    I Guess So

    I do not dress fancy. i just wear jeans, a shirt, and a jacket. I do not have the confidence or the money to wear things I actually think are cute.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 30, 2011

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    What To Wear?

    Here is why i am a fashion victim. I have no clue what looks good on me in my current shape and weight. I used to be a big guy, well a big fat guy but I still had a good sense of style. I was one of those fat guys that actually carried his weight well, throw on a suit and tie and...
    MoriartyWolf MoriartyWolf 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    Bell Bottoms

    Why oh why did I buy those 2 pairs of bell bottom jeans last year? Now the skinny leg jeans are in. I sure missed that one coming. Those bell bottoms are perfectly nice and have a hell of a lot of wear left in them. Maybe I should wear them around and hope other people take...
    Sage360 Sage360 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 7, 2010

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    Money

    I am a fashion victim. I'm a fashion victim because of money. Or actually, the lack of it. Decent clothes cost more money than I have (which, technically is none, since I have no income of my own). But I'm still not a horrible dresser & I still dress better than most others who...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    Yeap......

    Im obsessed   Not in the obvious way, as I cant afford all my clothes to be designer etc.....   But I can look at an outfit and tell you what designer started that trend. I can then tell you what model wore it, at what fashion show, for what season. I can then...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F Dec 28, 2008

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    A Sad Wardrobe

    I am probably the only female with 7 pairs of shoes... this includes my crocs, shower flip flops, and 2 sneakers. I have 2 pair of heels and a brown flats. I pretty much only wear 2 different pair of jeans (one black and one blue) and about a dozen of...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F 48 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    Note To Self

    Babydoll dresses make me look preggers
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F Jan 13, 2011

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    It Took Me A While To Become A Victim Of Fashion

    growing up I just never had the money to buy much but when I did have some extra cash on me a few years ago I was getting hooked into the cheap labels ... and buying what ever was in fashion... only the occasional expensive item or label name because to me... unless you have the...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2011

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    Size Does Matter

    I'm not a slave to fashion, actually the furthest thing you could get from it.  It's not that I don't appreciate it, I'm just not one of those women that looks like I've pulled it all together the right way.  I hate shopping.  Oh well, we all have our...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 9 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    I Read Several Magazines and P...

    i read several magazines and pride myself on being in style i love clothes, trends, accessories and everything that goes along with fashion
    elloquentenigma elloquentenigma 16-18, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2007

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    I Am a Fashion Victim By Choic...

    I am a fashion victim by choice. I dress in the most outdated clothes and just dare people to try and make fun of me. They are to scared of me to do it by now though.
    dustygirl122 dustygirl122 16-17, F Aug 20, 2007

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    dublis dublis 31-35, M Oct 1, 2009

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    Me Too

    I always feel like i look weird or theres something wrong with the way im dressing
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2010

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    Though I Try

    Up until about a year or so ago I only wore loose fitting clothing. Besides jeans I never looked anywhere but the guys section. Now I'm stuck in that trend. I only own shirts that are in guys sizes and they're all t-shirts. I don't have any clothes that look particularly "nice...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180 18-21, F Oct 5, 2011

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    Mr Mix N Match Am I ?

    I just packed to move 2morrow and just realize OMG!! I have pretty much outfit I was come to this city with only one regular backpack, few jeans and t shirts! Now.. It have to fit in 1 big travelin bag Not include my 5 pair of shoes (2 sneackers,1sport shoes,2formal shoes) and 2...
    staticonveyor staticonveyor 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 26, 2011

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    I Just Don't Know How To Dress It!

    Every now and then I dress up and I look nice. But since I have had kids I just don't know how to dress my body anymore. I wish that I could afford for someone to help me find what looks good on my body and still be in fashion. I want to look and dress like the women on sex and...
    LivingInMyDreams LivingInMyDreams 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2010

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    Behind The Sence Dirt Of Riddim Runway

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    Mezniquee Mezniquee 22-25 Jul 19, 2012

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    I'm Victim Because Of Gender

    I'm a guy that jealous of the choses womens clothes offer On a hot summer day a cool brezze feels much better up a skirt than a pair of shorts
    notech64 notech64 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    Recessionista

    Fashionista? Nawww, not me i'm afraid. We're in a recession people, strictly op-shops or cheaper for me. I've always preferred second hand stores as opposed to the new yuppie market around these days. Converse shoes donned by every oxygen breathing being. Collared polos:popped...
    Flicksy Flicksy 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 7, 2009

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    Fashion=pay

    If I was paid more @ my job I would care about fashion, but since I don't make anything my fashion sense went rite out the damn window, I wish getting dressed up and looking so good. Now I look like a bum all the freaking time. It ****** me off so much...argggghhh
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2008

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    My Mom Is My Enabler!!!

    Im not going to lie, im a fashion victim. . . but my mom made me that way.  back in the day (only about a couple years ago) i was a little over wieght, i was about a size 12, and my mom would not let me get cloths i wanted, so when i would got shopping with her i  ended...
    sourpatch7 sourpatch7 18-21, F Dec 19, 2007

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    Fashion. Fashion. Fashion !

    Hey you :) First I looooooooooooove fashion ! Second I sew my own clothes ! Third I love to design clothes ! ;)
    NINA00 NINA00 16-17 Dec 13, 2012

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    Highschool Fashions...

    I'm sure we've all worn or looked a particular way where years later we look back and think: "Did I not own a mirror?! I wore that??" In grade 9-10 I went through a stage where all I did was wear XXL sweatshirts though I was a slender and a petite girl, wear my hair in a tight...
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2013

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    Slave to Fashion

    Okay. I am a slave to fashion. I don't have to necessarily " dress up", but I have to look hot. I spend almost half of my paycheck on clothes, make-up, new shoes, accessories. I care a lot about how I look. I almost care too much. I don't always wear skirts or dresses...
    unfucktheworld unfucktheworld 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2007

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    dublis dublis 31-35, M Oct 1, 2009

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    I Don't Care

    I am not the type that is pretty enough to care about the latest fashion but only care about what suits my mood and feeling. I like going to thift shops and put something together out of some idea i got. I have  alot of black shoes, and boots. I have a couple of...
    TheStray TheStray 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 18, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    For women fashion jewelry items have always been a matter of joy. They love to beautify themselves with different types of adornments.  We often use them with our party...
    cabrielking cabrielking 18-21, F Apr 9

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    Might sound like something out of a fashion magazine but I believe: "We are like Christmas trees and the decorations we put up are our clothing. We adorn our bodies in various...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M Apr 12

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    If you want to have some context as to where I am coming from with this post, please read my last entry here: EP Link … I can’t take it anymore. I really can’t. I think...
    UsernameEntered UsernameEntered 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 6

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    7 Years. Of those 7 years I was only happy for about 3 years. 7 years with a man who gave me so much joy in the beginning. Now it's like he lives to tear me down. To humiliate me...
    bmichelleb bmichelleb 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 10

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    We all love sharing on Instagram, why not take your fashion business to the next level in social media and join the #instafunSure a picture is worth a thousand words but when using...
    versacash versacash 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Why did he take it all? I was not smart. I knew I was not smart because I was told that every day. Sometimes with words and sometimes it was said with a look or a certain shrug...
    NoDavid NoDavid 46-50 Apr 13

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    And I want to share my fashion ideas with you.
    cabrielking cabrielking 18-21, F Mar 27

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    I don't like to go back to this era & I chose to forget it all. I am 31 now but when I was 12-13 my older sister moved back into the house I grew up in & brought her boyfriend to...
    BlueEyes3182 BlueEyes3182 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I love wearing very modest and slightly formal clothes. I have principles and morals which people now days would consider old fashioned but I am proud of who I am.
    TheDarkOak TheDarkOak 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I'm joining this group, not to take on a 'victim mentality' as the psychology folk would call it, but to share with others who have similar experiences. This is all for the sake...
    Buckley4U Buckley4U 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Why in the world should I? I just wear what I feel comfortable in. If it's out of fashion, I don't care! I wear what I like! B)
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Apr 2

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    I grew up with a mother who had a hatred for men. I was her only son out of 4 kids and I was the recipient of her anguish. I now suffer from PTSD and struggle with it every single...
    kpax81 kpax81 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Your Fashion Style is Dramatic
    ib14fun ib14fun 41-45 Apr 7

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    My fashion for today - April 10, 2014, Thursday I am going to a concert tonight and leaving in a little while. I am wearing black, blue, silver and pink. I have on a cornflower...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Apr 10

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    I can appreciate old fashioned values, but this is a little extreme....lol Advice from a Singer sewing machine manual from 1949. Prepare yourself mentally for sewing. Think...
    Lily176 Lily176 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    My friend is big into fashion. So we **** in his sock and put it in with all his laundry. He couldn't understand why his laundry didn't smell so good. Nice huh?
    DingleB DingleB 26-30, M Apr 13

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    The old fashioned romance has been long gone. We get caught up in life and the role of a parent who works outside the home. It would be nice to swoon a girl every once in a while...
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Tight pattern bodycon dress ,brownish fur vest ,neon heels & a black clutch . Excited to put this all together !! Fashionista 😍
    ladyafrika ladyafrika 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    im a very old fashioned person in many ways. I should have been born many years ago
    Returnoflordtyrant Returnoflordtyrant 26-30, M a week ago

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    Okay. I'm playing the fashion policewoman at the moment. Ladies, please: Do NOT wear things that are too small so you can say you fit into a number. It's a freaking number...
    jadakaii jadakaii 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Mainly because I'm clueless when it comes to fashion... I'll stick to wearing all black; it never goes out of style.
    ShesAVeryKinkyGirl ShesAVeryKinkyGirl 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My family and I are victims of police misconduct. I have file a formal complaint with local, state, federal agencies, and to anyone that is willing to listen and has yet to get a...
    justice318 justice318 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I hate following trends!!! Why try to follow everybody else and be like them? I just dress like myself and that's all. I express my feelings through my fashion choices. Everyday I...
    bulimicbixtch49 bulimicbixtch49 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't follow them for more reasons than one. I only have four outfits (four shirts, four pairs of pants, and a couple of sweaters), and I'm comfortable with that amount. Clothes...
    ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes ThatOneGirlWithTheBlueEyes 16-17, F 1 day ago

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