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I Am a Father

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    wintersecret wintersecret 31-35, M Jul 9

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    I'm a Father of two girls.

    ......26 and 19. The oldest is married and has a child......the youngest is trying to find her way in life. Since the divorce, her life has been turned up-side-down and she struggles with it daily.
    AddMeNot AddMeNot 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    Life was never meant to be easy,

    so you have to keep levelling-up.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 16

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    Tonight I'll take him out

    for his graduation dinner. Tomorrow he will walk across the stage to receive his High School Diploma. Valedictorian, just like his older brother. I could not be more proud of the young man I see before me. Challenges my every word, strives with his every waking breath to...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 21 Responses May 28

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    Today is both of my son's birthday's.

    .......18 and 22. Both born of the exact same day 4 years apart. Not hard to do when that day is 9 months after your anniversary!!! My anniversary boys!!!!!
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 19 Responses Jun 17

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    Best thing about being a dad - seeing your kid

    grow. Not always the best times when they are changing and you're both trying to figure things out, but my experiences have been pretty darn awesome. Awkward, crazy and challenging, but also happy and noteworthy and a learning experience.
    NoVADad703 NoVADad703 31-35, M 8 Responses Aug 2

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    I am a father to a couple of young women in

    their twenties. Many people will read my profile and not understand. I am normal, masculine with a kink for lingerie. This is what makes me different...
    MoreBeerPlease MoreBeerPlease 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    On July 15, 2015 I became a father to two

    beautiful girls. There names are Hailey Elizabeth and the other is Danielle Michelle. I feel like I am on top of the world and now have three important girls in my life which will keep me totally grounded.
    bluefireball4949 bluefireball4949 36-40, M 9 Responses Jul 20

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    I have fathered 2 lovely children,

    watched and helped my wife give birth to them. Oh what an experience and shock to look up and see all these people in the room after they were born not even being aware that they were there at the time. I am also called a father or Dharma father to a boy in Nepal born to a...
    Ozdharma Ozdharma 56-60, M 4 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I have a 9 year old son.

    My wife let me choose the name. Being a Star Wars fan, I really wanted Luke. "Luke, I am your father," would have been cool. I picked Ambrose, though. He is a great kid. I am a stay at home father so I tend to be the one looking after him. He is an easy kid. Smart too. I love...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I'm the proud father of two boys,

    ages 5 and 3. And while they can drive my wife and I crazy sometimes, I wouldn't have it any other way. The day that my wife, who was my girlfriend at the time (we had known each other for five years prior to that), told me that she was pregnant with our first child, every...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 6

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    My nest is finally empty

    and both boys are off living their own lives. Both are healthy, and doing well so far. Both boys keep in contact and we are all good friends. However....... Inside I can feel the loss of their presence in my life. An emptiness that is strange and uncomfortable. There is...
    Wilddesires Wilddesires 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    TheQuirkyQuasar TheQuirkyQuasar 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    Several years ago my father-in-law passed away

    from prostate cancer, leaving my mother-in-law a widow. Not ready to give up her independence, she chose to stay in their home. Unfortunately, the home and property were just getting to be too much for her to care for. My oldest opted to attend a private university that is...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 21 Responses Jun 10

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    Looking for love. I'm looking

    for your love Son.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 14

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    Why Is It So Important For A Father To Be In His Daughter's Life?

    THIS QUESTION WAS ASKED OF ME BY A YOUNG WOMAN: Why is it so important for a father to be in his daughter's life? After standing there for a few minutes with my jaw hanging down, I finally answered: This question just blows me away. Seriously. You don't know? I don't know the...
    GwydionFrost GwydionFrost 46-50, M 22 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Today I read a post of a friend of mine whose

    daughter ca 3 yrs old is in a induced coma to deal with a rare condition she has got. As a dad, I can only begin to imagine what that must be like. He went on to describe not being able to see his babies eyes cause they are taped and feeling only now and then her little hand...
    paddyinsweden paddyinsweden 36-40, M Jun 26

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    I've had nine kids. My oldest son passed away,

    and I have six at home right now. Being a husband and a father are two of my very favorite things.
    WalkingMyOwnPath WalkingMyOwnPath 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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    i am the proud father of 2 wonderful daughters

    and a grandfather of 3 beautiful grandkids
    1bigbeardaddy 1bigbeardaddy 51-55 Jun 14

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    Twins

    I can't begin to find the words to express the way I feel. It is as if my body would burst from all the happiness and excitement.I am now a father.  A real father of two little children.  I can't believe that I could get any happier than I already am but I am.  I am overjoyed...
    KingofSwords KingofSwords 56-60, M 34 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Yeah, I am a single father with 22 years ,

    and it was not an accident , I wanted my boy, the accident was he's mother, but now I'm ok with my boy , I'm happy and I don't regret anything. I love my boy with all my heart and he is everything for me . :)
    PedroMiguel583 PedroMiguel583 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 13

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    Yup, I am. 2 wonderful boys.

    1 in his 3rd year of college. The other a senior in high school. Very proud of both. Going to take the younger one tubing down the Delaware today.
    NJBeachGuy NJBeachGuy 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    Of two sons, ages 3 and 10.

    They are my center, the axis upon which everything in my life turns. I recall once being frightened, somehow, of becoming a father. It turned out to be the best damn life event that had happened to me.
    immortalspirit immortalspirit 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2014

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    It's not easy being a single dad.

    OK, probably as hard as being a single mum, and there are tons of those, but this is my point of view. My wife left only a few months after our son was born. One day she was there, the next she wasn't. To be honest I didn't care. When I realized she'd left I'd supposed she'd...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 6

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    It'd be a blessing to have a child.

    I'd prove to everyone I'm not going to be a bad father like mine. I'll have something worth fighting for and I'll love that child more than myself. One day, I'll be the best father possible.
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Losing a child is a completely unique

    experience, which is so abstract that most can’t comprehend the gravity of it. To those without children, it may be even harder to grasp. It is easy to think that a baby who never blinks their eyes would be easier to grieve, or even forget, than one which reciprocates with...
    Kman4You Kman4You 36-40, M 9 Responses Jun 21

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    I figured out that I'm looking at the experience

    but this nation needs a father actually the young men of the nation is a father to teach them the value of being a man I have to teach them the value of what women are looking for because in the back of woman's head there's some little thing that tells okay this is what the fine...
    junjames23 junjames23 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 10

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    I am a father not just a ***** provider.

    I've changed diapers, sat in emergency rooms, stayed up late helping with home work, lost sleep worrying, provided a shoulder to cry on, laughed with them, cried with them, prayed for them, and the best word I'm called is when they say "dad". I love my kids.
    lars51 lars51 51-55, M Jun 15, 2014

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    worksTooMuch worksTooMuch 41-45, M 7 Responses Aug 13

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    I just watched my toddler son fall asleep in

    his high chair. It was the funniest thing to see, especially since he never sleeps randomly like that. I carried him to bed. I guess bed time is early tonight.
    MeandL MeandL 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 9

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    So the youngest runs home from college

    for the weekend, I think he's starving and homesick. He notices every tiny detail of the changes at home since he's been gone. Notices the different color spectrum of the light bulb in the living area lamp. As a joke, I tell him that if he notices that.....he's really going...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 11 Responses Jul 25

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    I have been for 30+ years now.

    Five children, all grown. Two grandchildren, very small. I am not a buddy, a pal or distant entity to my children, but a father. I raised them, I educated them, I fed them, clothed them, spent time with them, looked after them and still do. It is not an easy position, but it is...
    paleryder paleryder 56-60, M 3 Responses Jan 8

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    I am watching football with my dad today.

    We don't get a lot of time together because we are both busy but I am loving it. Commercial break so thought I'd say hi. :)
    EmmaBrun EmmaBrun 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I'm tired of feeling like a failure

    because my son is depressed and sometimes suicidal. He is starting a vocational education program in the fall and I think this is a tremendous accomplishment. I'm tired of the look of pity from other parents and friends. I'm tired of feeling like all they are wondering is...
    markiemarc1969 markiemarc1969 46-50, M 8 Responses Jul 7

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    I am a father who has lost a child.

    Today is Father's Day. I am spending it with my daughter from my first marriage and my step-daughter from my second marriage (who I will always call my own, even when my soon to be ex-wife remarries. They are my joy in this world. I wish I could spend just one more with my son...
    bipolarPeter bipolarPeter 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 21

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    Strive to be a good one.

    Hopefully I have...
    RocknRollCowboy71 RocknRollCowboy71 41-45, M Jun 3

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    My twin boys still sleep in the same bed.

    It's as if they go back to being crowded together in the womb.
    AbbottLewis AbbottLewis 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Thanks to Harry Chapin For Making Me a Better Father

    I have always been touched by the Harry Chapin son “Cat’s in the cradle”. For those of you who don’t know the song, the storyline is about a father who was so busy with his career that he failed to make his child a priority. In his later years, when he wanted to spend...
    dawinla dawinla 56-60, M 8 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I love my sons because of the warmth on their

    hearts for me!!! They love and appreciate me and make me feel like a good man!! These might be the only 2 ppl in the world who make me feel that way and appreciate and love me that way and I'm fine with that!
    NJLonely NJLonely 36-40, M Aug 25, 2014

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    My Daughter Is Too Great

    I got divorced when my daughter was 2.  It was a bad scene; I had a huge Manic episode.  But I fought for joint custody and I got it.  We have always been very close, and as we've both grown up, our relationship has continued to evolve.  When she was...
    ElLagarto ElLagarto 56-60, M 24 Responses Jun 21, 2007

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    Father & son bonding time,

    my favourite time in the world.
    robclark88 robclark88 26-30, M Jul 11

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    Not A Father But A Single Mother

    Just wish I knew what to do.  I am sure my son is missing out on some things not having a father.  Sometimes I google Father for Rent or Father for Hire to see if there is such a thing.  Sometimes I am mad at myself for letting this happen to me.  I love my son but I know he...
    B3lla01 B3lla01 46-50, F 41 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    Lesson

    I want to give you the world. So you can be all that you can be. I can. I thought. But I can't teach you happiness unless I am happy myself. I can't teach you how to be a good friend unless I spend time being one. I can't teach you responsibility unless I hold myself accountable...
    geetar39 geetar39 46-50, M 34 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    2 Hours With You/166 Hours Without You

    And as the weight of the world crashes down upon me, My arms buckle, my back breaks, my knees give way As I look to the skies and curse your name. I take a step back, look down at my side, I see one standing there, his hand in mine.   I look back to the skies with remorseful...
    whatif23 whatif23 26-30, M 5 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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