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I Am a Femme Lesbian

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    It's so frustrating..

    .. I'm not someone you walk by and your gaydar goes off.. Many of my closest friends even had no clue until I told them.. I just never know how to go about getting into these situations. I don't know when or how that ever comes into conversation.. It's like I need to wear a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Iam here to help any virgin girl younger

    or young or over 18 loose yr virgininty now
    Misssanta Misssanta 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    Girly Lesbian

    Hello, I am new to the site, but I want to say something that bugs the CRAP out of me. Why do people have to be so stereotypical? Not all lesbians have short hair. Not all lesbians are a "tomboy". There are girly lesbians, like me! I wear dresses, I love shopping, and wearing...
    lovely12704 lovely12704 18-21, F 35 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    Yes, I am. But girls think

    that I'm straight because I'm too girly. -.- If only they know. I am so gay. Like gayer than a rainbow puking unicorn.
    Ciem Ciem 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 19

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    My Strange Fetish/fantasy

    Im a vry happy proud and open feme-lesbian. And thow I have never been a very picky person when it comes to a lover. but yet I've adapted a strange fetish/fantasy (or what ever you might wanna call it) for seducing straight girls. And the straighter the better. OMG! have I...
    kreemy00peech kreemy00peech 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    Heya ladies, I'm getting pretty tired of being

    told, “You can't write this or that.” I've decided that's ok though because I've found a new website. I've only been here for 2 weeks but it's 100% FREE with thousands of active open minded people like us. It's called Secret Erotica . Com. I hope you guys don't read this as...
    DevilishTongue DevilishTongue 26-30, F Dec 10

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    Ciem Ciem 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Like most femme lesbians,

    I don't usually get mean comments for being a lesbian mainly because if you take one look at me you would assume I'm straight. (which I hate.) I'm a proud femme lesbian but I feel like femmes are basically invisible in the LGBT community. When most people think lesbian they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jan 17

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    Schizophrenia is linked to homosexuality,

    now there's nothing wrong with being gay but I think it's obvious something is wrong when your body is attracted to the same sex, you won't reproduce and at a basic biological level that is the goal of life
    alphadecay alphadecay 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    My first love... She was around 5 2" had long

    blonde hair and was stunning! I shared an apartment with her while I was at Uni! So obviously through the years I saw her with very little clothes on! This mad it even worse, I really wanted her to know my feelings! I sadly bottled them up and never told her, I wish I did! <3...
    yumyum115 yumyum115 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I don't like the label,

    but unfortunately it fits because I embrace my femininity and that of other women. I'm not girly girl or a tom-boy; I'm just me who happens to be attracted to other women who happen to look like women.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 16

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    nudinun nudinun 18-21, F Aug 28

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    AM 27, A BREASTFEEDING LESBIAN,

    RAISING MY KIDS,OLDEST IS 12 YR OLD BOY...AS NATURISTS 24-7,IN NATURE,IN THE SOUTH PACIFIC ISLANDS,YES WE HOMESCHOOL COSLEEP.CAVE EXPLORING,PRECIOUS STONE HUNTING,TREE-HOUSES,MUSIC,SPORTS MASSAGE AND YOGA CLASS THAT I TEACH,ALL WHILE 100% IN THE BUFF ! VERY HEALTHY...MOMS DO YOU...
    norma999 norma999 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Lisaooo Lisaooo 18-21, F 10 Responses May 10

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    I'm not totally a femme ( still learning how to

    use high heels lol) but i will never be a dyke or butch. Not my style
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    WILL NOT ANSWER BACK MEN WHO TRY TO CONTACT

    ~~~~AM 27,A CELTIC NUDIST COSLEEPING BREASTFEEDING VEGAN MOM,ORGANIC GARDENING HOME-SCHOOLJNG WE MEDITATE FOR A PEACEFUL WORLD..~~~~MOMS AND SINGLE WOMEN MAY communicate their thoughts and Heart-felt feelings AND contact.,yes communicate~~~~
    norma999 norma999 26-30, F Dec 1

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    chuotla chuotla 26-30, F Oct 9

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    Lesbianmommy Lesbianmommy 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I may look girly but I am

    so gay. Like so gay.
    Ciem Ciem 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 17

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    It feel great not wearing panties in cinema

    or going out for dinner and no panties in the summer
    Pushupbra Pushupbra 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 31

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    The struggle man.. I'm a senior

    and I'm really into this girl in my English class. I always thought she was really cute but she's crazy smart and like the third in our class. I just recently started hanging out with her because I found out that she smokes, which I never would have expected. And she's made it...
    alittlelame alittlelame 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I hate when people say "you're too pretty to be

    a lesbian" .. Like do you want me to be ugly? Lesbians aren't ugly. Straight people can't tell if a girl is straight or not if they're not dressing as a boy.. And when they find out that you're not straight, they get mad cause they think fems can't be a lesbian.. Tf with these...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 14

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    ****prison Changed My Life****

    Seven years ago on 9/15 I lost the man I called my Dad. After he passed my only escape from the pain was drinking, a lot of drinking. There were so many things I didn't understand..my mother moving on 3 months to the date and so on. I lived outside city limits so whenever I...
    cwhatic cwhatic 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    I am a femme lesbian

    who always seems to "miss" the boat when other females are interested. For example, I have a straight friend who I've gotten really close to. We were talking and hanging out all the time but recently she has grown cold and distance. At the time I didn't think she was attracted...
    reyna35 reyna35 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 17

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    I stick to being a femme

    and I'm also attracted to femmes! I'm all about heels, skirts, glitter, and pink on Wednesdays ☺
    callmejo4 callmejo4 16-17, F 2 Responses May 2

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    I am a femme lesbian ,

    & I like to date other fems . I like an all girly relationship , one where we can go out shopping together , get out nails done and have fun like to girly best friends , but be together , holding hands , kissing & cuddling ❤️ I think that's so cute
    BasicallyBrianna BasicallyBrianna 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    I have been attracted to girls

    for as long as i can remember. a girl was my first crush, first kiss and first time i had sex and orgasmed. For me there is nothing better than the scent, touch taste and sight of an aroused woman. i love the closeness, the gentleness, the strength the intimacy that you can only...
    drachenReiter drachenReiter 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm not really a lipstick lesbian

    but I do love getting my massages and hair done 😉
    chikkiebabe chikkiebabe 13-15, F Sep 5

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    Ciem Ciem 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Okay so I went to dinner at the same place

    where I ate the first night and the waitress was pretty cute but more like girl nextdoor type. Anyway she was so nice and the food was delicious do I decided to go back. Anyway she instantly recognized me and we talked and she asked if I had Facebook or what's app and we...
    Rltdancer Rltdancer 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    The struggle is real!

    I am a femme who likes other femmes! Neither of us could even tell if the other was gay. She wouldn't know if was interested and vice versa! I wish there was a way to truly know.
    Zena682 Zena682 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 15

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    I'm super wet somebody please help me out with

    this ;) send me pics and stories I'll return the favor
    thelezteen18 thelezteen18 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    Not Feeling Okay

    I am a lipstick lesbian. almost everyone knows. My school life was ruined. especially since I am only 17. I have had plenty of girlfriends and enough experience to know that every girl I have dated, was never "out" or was never a fully lesbian women and always "needed" a man to...
    Anastasia116 Anastasia116 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    I want a girl that's not afraid to pick up

    and go on a spontaneous road trips with me. The kind of girl that will laugh at me while I'm dancing around in just a Cowboys jersey. I want someone I can surprise with breakfast in bed, and someone that will surprise me with a lap dance after work. We may fight and argue, but...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I am a femme lesbian,

    and recently I found my future life partner and I love him a lot. I was attracted to him and I now make up my mind for him. But then some months later I come to meet my ex girlfriend after 6 years. We were in a lesbian relationship for just 3 months but there are a lots of...
    tiapriya tiapriya 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 16

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    I am a 22 year old femme

    who is just soooo in love with women. Guys just cant seem to understand this. The whole "just a phase" theory is getting pretty old. I mean c'mon guys im too cool to be straight ;) I love being this way and there is nothing sexier than a girl with a funny witty attitude. (And a...
    tigerskies tigerskies 22-25, F 3 Responses May 21

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    I'm such a girly girl.

    I think too many people picture lesbians with short hair and cross dressed clothing. Don't get me wrong, Dykes are awesome and I have mad respect for them! Though I don't like the stereotype. You can be girly and also like girls. Just my opinion. What do you think?
    wildflower444 wildflower444 18-21, F 7 Responses May 4

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    As I've said I'm in a Long Distance Relationship

    for 3 years and I ended it last May just this year. Why? What happened? Last year, I'm in a rage state and I'm really confused why I have to prolong my agony and kept loving my girlfriend from a distance. So i dared myself to go back in my home country and be with her and...
    levi22 levi22 26-30 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Young

    I have struggled with who I am in the majority of my short lived life. I went through phases when I didn't even recognize the person I saw in the mirror. I just want to say I am proud to be a femme lesbian and I am proud of me. And you should be proud of you!
    LalulaMae LalulaMae 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2013

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    Lesbianmommy Lesbianmommy 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Where can I meet lesbians?

    Or cities with lots of them? I want new experiences.
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F Dec 11

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    Ok so being femme, does anyone struggle with

    constantly having to come out bc people don't realize your a lesbian.... I need a rainbow hovering over me lol
    pg143 pg143 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 14

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    I'm not actually a lesbian.

    . But I love femme lesbian for embracing their feminity.. I admire them for being their selves but at the same time loving their own female beauty.. :)
    Aya0324 Aya0324 16-17, F Mar 2

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    Lesbianmommy Lesbianmommy 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm nineteen years old

    and I've never been in a relationship, and it's really starting to bum me out! Gay girls never notice me because I dress pretty femme. I'm constantly turning away dudes and pining for older women. Anyway, I'm totally up to talking to some older women haha. Message me I'm a bit...
    WaveOn WaveOn 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    It's so crazy to me that I don't come across

    more femmes who enjoy being with another femme. So many fems are attracted to studs which I don't quite understand but... Whatever floats their boat. I just wonder why a feminine lesbian doesn't enjoy being with another femme lesbian.. Girls are girly & emotional beings, might...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 11

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    i been with Lesbian and like it im bi

    but like to see if i can be true Lesbian some day if i found the right women im fem bottom i like domme top women
    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Too Cute For Her Own Damn Good

    Growing up I was the biggest tomboy in my hometown. I could outrun, outclimb, and outsmart all the boys on my street. I could also give a pretty good ***-kicking when I felt so inclined. Then sometime between the awkwardness of puberty and my first equally akward girlfriend I...
    InvoluntaryFacelift InvoluntaryFacelift 18-21 10 Responses May 21, 2010

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    Butches Who Doubt You're Gay(ness)

    Hi Ladies, I was just curious if any of you have ever encountered what I will call "butch or boi disbelief" in your queerness, because you looked too straight. It's one thing for straight men and women to not believe that I am gay, but when I have people in my own queer...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 20 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    I am femme and cute

    and a good person !! But I dont know what women are looking for!! Im single... And feeling lonely
    shewolf1984 shewolf1984 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 14

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