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I Am a Femme Lesbian

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    My first love... She was around 5 2" had long

    blonde hair and was stunning! I shared an apartment with her while I was at Uni! So obviously through the years I saw her with very little clothes on! This mad it even worse, I really wanted her to know my feelings! I sadly bottled them up and never told her, I wish I did! <3...
    yumyum115 yumyum115 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I am a 22 year old femme

    who is just soooo in love with women. Guys just cant seem to understand this. The whole "just a phase" theory is getting pretty old. I mean c'mon guys im too cool to be straight ;) I love being this way and there is nothing sexier than a girl with a funny witty attitude. (And a...
    tigerskies tigerskies 22-25, F 1 Response May 21

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    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    ysa71195 ysa71195 18-21, F May 5

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    Hey, I'm a lesbian and I'm looking

    for a Gf. So anyone 13-15 pls message me. Also no boys!! ^.^ thank u!
    Thatonegaygirl Thatonegaygirl 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I love lesbian femmes.

    I'm stud myself
    THABLESSEDCHILD THABLESSEDCHILD 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Ok so being femme, does anyone struggle with

    constantly having to come out bc people don't realize your a lesbian.... I need a rainbow hovering over me lol
    pg143 pg143 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 14

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    I've met this girl and I never thought of

    falling inlove with her (she's the tomboy one.). I never thought that I'd fall for someone I only knew through a website but YES I did. Our paths crossed when my heart finally said enough on my ex-boyfriend. She was the one who was there for me on my endless drama nights. Our...
    wishfulthinkingstar wishfulthinkingstar 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Love The Label!

    Though many people may hate labels, I don't.I wear the label Femme with pride, and even though i struggle with aspects of my sexuality, i love being myself; which is girly. I am not high maintenance, nor am i ULTRA FEMME, though i can be. I like that i am free to express my...
    MissVenom MissVenom 22-25, F 8 Responses May 13, 2011

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    Spoke with my ex a few minutes ago.

    Its been near a year since we've spoken. She is now married with a newborn. Her new husband doesn't want her speaking to me so she snuck in a call while he was out. It was good to catch up but I dont want to be her secret.
    RosieRose63 RosieRose63 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't get hate for being gay I just get

    doubted. Maybe it's my age(14) or maybe it's because I'm a fem. I am 100% positive I like girls and I'd love chat with other girls who know the femme struggle! So message me :)
    Rforever Rforever 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    My Strange Fetish/fantasy

    Im a vry happy proud and open feme-lesbian. And thow I have never been a very picky person when it comes to a lover. but yet I've adapted a strange fetish/fantasy (or what ever you might wanna call it) for seducing straight girls. And the straighter the better. OMG! have I...
    kreemy00peech kreemy00peech 31-35, F 9 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    I don't like the label,

    but unfortunately it fits because I embrace my femininity and that of other women. I'm not girly girl or a tom-boy; I'm just me who happens to be attracted to other women who happen to look like women.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 16

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    callmejo4 callmejo4 16-17, F Jun 11

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    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F Apr 2

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    if you are female & wanna text- ask me

    for my number. Females only, over 18.
    MagicalyDelish MagicalyDelish 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I stick to being a femme

    and I'm also attracted to femmes! I'm all about heels, skirts, glitter, and pink on Wednesdays ☺
    callmejo4 callmejo4 16-17, F 3 Responses May 2

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    I'm such a girly girl.

    I think too many people picture lesbians with short hair and cross dressed clothing. Don't get me wrong, Dykes are awesome and I have mad respect for them! Though I don't like the stereotype. You can be girly and also like girls. Just my opinion. What do you think?
    wildflower444 wildflower444 18-21, F 7 Responses May 4

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    popples123 popples123 31-35, F 4 Responses May 4

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    My Feelings Right Now

    i'm seventeen, and still have yet to "come out" or tell anyone that i think i like girls. maybe this is the wrong group for me, because sometimes i like boys, but i truly do think that i want to spend my life with a woman. currently i'm crushing, crushing hard. i go through weird...
    missunderstood3344 missunderstood3344 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Young

    I have struggled with who I am in the majority of my short lived life. I went through phases when I didn't even recognize the person I saw in the mirror. I just want to say I am proud to be a femme lesbian and I am proud of me. And you should be proud of you!
    LalulaMae LalulaMae 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2013

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    I Am A Femme Lesbain Dating A Dyke

    I am a femme lesbian. I wear make up every once in a while, I wear dresses every once in a while, and I do not like to fight. I am more of the girly girl type. When I first started to look for a girlfriend, some main physical features I was looking for were: I wanted her to be...
    snowkissedangel21 snowkissedangel21 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    Butches Who Doubt You're Gay(ness)

    Hi Ladies, I was just curious if any of you have ever encountered what I will call "butch or boi disbelief" in your queerness, because you looked too straight. It's one thing for straight men and women to not believe that I am gay, but when I have people in my own queer...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 21 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    It's so frustrating..

    .. I'm not someone you walk by and your gaydar goes off.. Many of my closest friends even had no clue until I told them.. I just never know how to go about getting into these situations. I don't know when or how that ever comes into conversation.. It's like I need to wear a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Lisaooo Lisaooo 18-21, F 9 Responses May 10

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    Any Cowgirl Lezies Out There?

    Im femme and I work with and ride horses and have been all my life. I like to dress up to go out and care what I look like but at the same time I spend my working carreer stepping in horsepoop and doing lots of manual labor. :) so even if you see me in a pretty dress, I m not...
    Evangelique Evangelique 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Girly Lesbian

    Hello, I am new to the site, but I want to say something that bugs the CRAP out of me. Why do people have to be so stereotypical? Not all lesbians have short hair. Not all lesbians are a "tomboy". There are girly lesbians, like me! I wear dresses, I love shopping, and wearing...
    lovely12704 lovely12704 18-21, F 29 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    It's so crazy to me that I don't come across

    more femmes who enjoy being with another femme. So many fems are attracted to studs which I don't quite understand but... Whatever floats their boat. I just wonder why a feminine lesbian doesn't enjoy being with another femme lesbian.. Girls are girly & emotional beings, might...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11

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    Once long ago, I was walking through a very

    crowded gay bar during gay pride in Houston. Pushing my way through the crowd, suddenly a beautiful woman grabbed me and gave me a very passionate kiss. When it was over, we both continued on through the crowd. I have often wondered who she was and did I blindly walk away from...
    RosieRose63 RosieRose63 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm actually bi, but I'm looking to talk to a

    femme lesbian that is 17 or older. So message me ladies :)
    Victoriaxoxo12 Victoriaxoxo12 16-17, F May 3

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    After dating a few guys,

    I didn't feel anything special...I now accept that I am a lesbian but I'm scared...what if I don't feel anything special towards girls either! I have never dated a girl 😔
    KeiraRhiann KeiraRhiann 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    It is so hard to meet other lesbian women

    for friendship. I'm not much of a bar person anymore, but I love to socialize. Mostly I don't go out because drinking & driving is a risk, and a cab costs too much lol. So, I end up staying home. But even the times I have been at a bar, how do you like make friends? I've lost...
    bethrichards bethrichards 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Uhmm. No. I'm a stud & I'm attracted to femmes.

    Where are the femmes attracted to studs??! Y'all still out there? Haiiii wassup? Im Rain, I'm 15, going on 16 in a few months.. I'm the sensitive type. Crazily protective over those I love.. I'm crazy sweet, down to earth, shy at first when I'm talking to girls but insanely...
    levitation143 levitation143 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    Too Cute For Her Own Damn Good

    Growing up I was the biggest tomboy in my hometown. I could outrun, outclimb, and outsmart all the boys on my street. I could also give a pretty good ***-kicking when I felt so inclined. Then sometime between the awkwardness of puberty and my first equally akward girlfriend I...
    InvoluntaryFacelift InvoluntaryFacelift 18-21 10 Responses May 21, 2010

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    I moved to a very small town from a very large

    gay city 7 years ago. There is no gay community here as far as I can tell. I feel isolated even though I have family here. Dont get me wrong, I love my family. I just miss my gay family.
    RosieRose63 RosieRose63 46-50, F Jun 27

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    Not only am I am a femme lesbian

    but a trans femme lesbian. I have always felt that I am a woman trapped in the wrong body and love very feminine clothing. I love wearing skirts with blouses or tops with heels or a dress with heels and wearing makeup, having my nails both toes and fingernails painted and...
    saraashley saraashley 31-35, F Mar 17

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    ****prison Changed My Life****

    Seven years ago on 9/15 I lost the man I called my Dad. After he passed my only escape from the pain was drinking, a lot of drinking. There were so many things I didn't understand..my mother moving on 3 months to the date and so on. I lived outside city limits so whenever I...
    cwhatic cwhatic 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    hello there, I am looking forward

    to make friends with a lesbian women like me because i believe we can share each other stories and advices easily because im pretty sure that we understand each other better... I am serious about a friendship proposal..:)
    CoffeeePrincesss CoffeeePrincesss 31-35, F Apr 11

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    I'm not totally a femme ( still learning how to

    use high heels lol) but i will never be a dyke or butch. Not my style
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I'm not actually a lesbian.

    . But I love femme lesbian for embracing their feminity.. I admire them for being their selves but at the same time loving their own female beauty.. :)
    Aya0324 Aya0324 16-17, F Mar 2

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    Be Proud!

    Hello guys! And to other fellow comrades I am a new member here :) all I want to say is, be proud if you're a femme lesbian! Remember that no one can judge us cause we are this :) so chin up, and be proud! God Bless, and let us support one another.
    YourQueen YourQueen 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2013

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    I live in the UK and I've really want to meet

    someone who is right for me...please feel free to message if you live around London/ essex area :')
    KeiraRhiann KeiraRhiann 16-17, F 1 Response May 19

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    So basically being a lesbian

    and living in the midwest sucks! It's seriously been so long since I've been with another girl and it's driving me crazy. Trying to find a cute/sexy normal girl that also likes girls and lives anywhere at least 4 hours from me is almost impossible. My talents are going to waste...
    hollywoodqueenA hollywoodqueenA 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    I hate when people say "you're too pretty to be

    a lesbian" .. Like do you want me to be ugly? Lesbians aren't ugly. Straight people can't tell if a girl is straight or not if they're not dressing as a boy.. And when they find out that you're not straight, they get mad cause they think fems can't be a lesbian.. Tf with these...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 14

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    Not Feeling Okay

    I am a lipstick lesbian. almost everyone knows. My school life was ruined. especially since I am only 17. I have had plenty of girlfriends and enough experience to know that every girl I have dated, was never "out" or was never a fully lesbian women and always "needed" a man to...
    Anastasia116 Anastasia116 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    I'm a not a complete girly girl,

    but I can be. I love to do my hair and nails. I'm not in to makeup much, I think natural beauty is the best. Other lesbians don't think I'm gay though, they think I'm straight and so do guys. I feel as though I should walk around with some kind of rainbow pendent. I love women...
    LovesDeceit LovesDeceit 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Like most femme lesbians,

    I don't usually get mean comments for being a lesbian mainly because if you take one look at me you would assume I'm straight. (which I hate.) I'm a proud femme lesbian but I feel like femmes are basically invisible in the LGBT community. When most people think lesbian they...
    handwrittenlovenotes handwrittenlovenotes 22-25, F 13 Responses Jan 17

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    I am a lesbian and I'm super girly.

    I love the color pink and I wear high heels and skirts. Its so hard to find other girly lesbians.
    DontBlameMee DontBlameMee 18-21, F 3 Responses May 13

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    kbforlife kbforlife 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    i love being a lesbian!! i am closeted though which isnt great. i want more lesbian friends, im sick of straight people. message me!!
    trashqueen trashqueen 13-15, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Hihi, I'm a Malaysian lesbian from Kuala Lumpur. Just hope to know more lesbian friends, femme, age 26 - 40, preferably who is staying in Klang Valley ( KL or Selangor) Nickname...
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    xiaobaozi xiaobaozi 26-30, F Jun 29

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    Hihi, I'm a Malaysian lesbian from Kuala Lumpur. Just hope to know more lesbian friends, femme, age 26 - 40, preferably who is staying in Klang Valley ( KL or Selangor) Nickname...
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