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I Am a Femme Lesbian

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    Girly Lesbian

    Hello, I am new to the site, but I want to say something that bugs the CRAP out of me. Why do people have to be so stereotypical? Not all lesbians have short hair. Not all lesbians are a "tomboy". There are girly lesbians, like me! I wear dresses, I love shopping, and wearing...
    lovely12704 lovely12704 18-21, F 40 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    lovekitten12345 lovekitten12345 13-15, F Jan 31

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    Butches Who Doubt You're Gay(ness)

    Hi Ladies, I was just curious if any of you have ever encountered what I will call "butch or boi disbelief" in your queerness, because you looked too straight. It's one thing for straight men and women to not believe that I am gay, but when I have people in my own queer...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 20 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2015

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    If you want check out my very gay tumblr

    account ;) : lezzz-rock-on.tumblr.com
    jlove987 jlove987 16-17, F Apr 19, 2015

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    I don't expect a woman to fall all over me,

    but compared to men and women. I literally get hounded from guys and then when I'm around lesbians. I'm like.. "Hmm do I have today's lunch in my teeth or something?" Like I said I'm not expecting it in anyway, but it just odd that the ratio is 10: 0. Zero being lesbians...
    Loopiee Loopiee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2015

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    I know I should spend more time with other

    friends to slowly get over my crush. But tell me how is that going to help if she keeps on texting me every single day? Should I ignore her texts or pretend to be busy and always reply late? Oh okay she just texted me again. And I just replied. You get what I mean? We're...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 28, 2015

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    I am a femme lesbian

    who always seems to "miss" the boat when other females are interested. For example, I have a straight friend who I've gotten really close to. We were talking and hanging out all the time but recently she has grown cold and distance. At the time I didn't think she was attracted...
    reyna35 reyna35 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 30, 2015

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    yeah I'm a femme, I like long hair and,

    nail polishes, other femme stuff
    GingerSheWolf GingerSheWolf 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Here is the scenario… Im in a committed

    relationship and have a friend who I believe has a crush on me…what do you guys think.. I am very femme, and I am not really outspoken about my sexuality unless you ask or you see with my significant other; well we became friends through mutual friends and have become very...
    reyna35 reyna35 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 1, 2015

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    I am a very femme lesbian!

    And I'm very attracted to other femmes (: so if you're a femme like me feel free to message me (:
    CassieLikesGirls CassieLikesGirls 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2015

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    I am new to expressing my attractions.

    ... So I just want to express about the obvious annoyance of how on earth do you tell if a beautiful feminine girl is interested in girls!?!? It drives me nuts! I can't walk up to a girl in the street because the rejection would be twice as embarrassing than asking a guy! Because...
    whoisoutthere whoisoutthere 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2015

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    One of a kind closeted gay man looking

    for his soul mate, a closeted lesbian. 100% discreet and 100% masculine. I am handsome, physically fit, athletic, genuine, outgoing, career oriented. I am 5,11 tall, 170 lbs, dark brown hair with green eyes. I am Caucasian, Italian background and was born and raised in NY...
    joesmithnyc joesmithnyc 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    I want a girl that's not afraid to pick up

    and go on a spontaneous road trips with me. The kind of girl that will laugh at me while I'm dancing around in just a Cowboys jersey. I want someone I can surprise with breakfast in bed, and someone that will surprise me with a lap dance after work. We may fight and argue, but...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    ♥ ♥ Best of all,

    you want her to know and she wants you to know too.
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F May 24, 2015

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    My first love... She was around 5 2" had long

    blonde hair and was stunning! I shared an apartment with her while I was at Uni! So obviously through the years I saw her with very little clothes on! This mad it even worse, I really wanted her to know my feelings! I sadly bottled them up and never told her, I wish I did! <3...
    yumyum115 yumyum115 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Not Feeling Okay

    I am a lipstick lesbian. almost everyone knows. My school life was ruined. especially since I am only 17. I have had plenty of girlfriends and enough experience to know that every girl I have dated, was never "out" or was never a fully lesbian women and always "needed" a man to...
    Anastasia116 Anastasia116 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    AM 27, A BREASTFEEDING FEM -LESBIAN,

    RAISING MY KIDS,.AS NATURISTS 24-7, IN NATURE,IN THE SOUTH PACIFIC ISLANDS,YES WE HOME-SCHOOL CO-SLEEP.CAVE EXPLORING,PRECIOUS STONE HUNTING,TREE-HOUSES,MUSIC,SPORTS MASSAGE AND YOGA CLASS THAT I TEACH,ALL WHILE 100% IN THE BUFF ! VERY HEALTHY...WE BREAST FEED ALL OUR KIDS AND...
    norma999 norma999 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2014

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    I'm a femme lesbian myself

    and I love girls who are also femme :) femme lesbians are just so sexy honestly hehe! If your a femme lesbian to I'd love to hear your story and meet you! Send me a message don't be shy I don't bite that much ;) haha
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 28, 2015

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    Yes, I am. But girls think

    that I'm straight because I'm too girly. -.- If only they know. I am so gay. Like gayer than a rainbow puking unicorn.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I'm bored and want to talk to someone

    interested. Girls only
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0 18-21, F 1 Response May 13, 2015

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    prettymama123 prettymama123 18-21 1 Response Dec 28, 2015

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    nudinun nudinun 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 29, 2015

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    I hate when people say "you're too pretty to be

    a lesbian" .. Like do you want me to be ugly? Lesbians aren't ugly. Straight people can't tell if a girl is straight or not if they're not dressing as a boy.. And when they find out that you're not straight, they get mad cause they think fems can't be a lesbian.. Tf with these...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 13 Responses Jan 14, 2014

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    I am a 22 year old femme

    who is just soooo in love with women. Guys just cant seem to understand this. The whole "just a phase" theory is getting pretty old. I mean c'mon guys im too cool to be straight ;) I love being this way and there is nothing sexier than a girl with a funny witty attitude. (And a...
    tigerskies tigerskies 22-25, F 3 Responses May 21, 2014

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    kinkystapler kinkystapler 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2015

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    Hi, hope you are all well

    and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation with any gay. Due to family and society pressure. I am looking for a decent educated understanding lesbian for MOC, Please...
    pranaireddy pranaireddy 26-30, M Jan 21

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    Alright girl, what is wrong with you?

    You just sent me a slo-mo video of you flipping your hair (or attempting to) because you said you just wanted to embarrass yourself again before sending me yet another selfie. You regretted it a few minutes later, apologized to me and said you probably did that because you were...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F Feb 20, 2015

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    My Strange Fetish/fantasy

    Im a vry happy proud and open feme-lesbian. And thow I have never been a very picky person when it comes to a lover. but yet I've adapted a strange fetish/fantasy (or what ever you might wanna call it) for seducing straight girls. And the straighter the better. OMG! have I...
    kreemy00peech kreemy00peech 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    i am basically looking

    for 18-28yrs old lesbian/asexual/bisexual/straight girl for short term moc and there are other terms too.things will be planned out properly and there will be confidentiality.i have no problem with your orientation,thinking and background.if you are interested,tell me about...
    imsearching4ud imsearching4ud 26-30, M Dec 5, 2015

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    I'm not totally a femme ( still learning how to

    use high heels lol) but i will never be a dyke or butch. Not my style
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    Ok so being femme, does anyone struggle with

    constantly having to come out bc people don't realize your a lesbian.... I need a rainbow hovering over me lol
    pg143 pg143 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    Survival

    Hi, and welcome. May I get you a drink? Sit by the fire, and please allow me to tell you how difficult it is to be a femme lesbien. If you have money even worse. So to start I drove miles to get out of town. In any gay lesbien club there may be three, or four that intrest me...
    marissapillow marissapillow 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2013

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    I'm feeling quite confused.

    I have been in a very serious relationship for two years and I am more then happy with her. We're great for each other and everything is just amazing. But there is this girl at work and she is married, but has reveled to me that she has dated women before. This had been right...
    Scorcor12 Scorcor12 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    Uhmm. No. I'm a stud & I'm attracted to femmes.

    Where are the femmes attracted to studs??! Y'all still out there? Haiiii wassup? Im Rain, I'm 15, going on 16 in a few months.. I'm the sensitive type. Crazily protective over those I love.. I'm crazy sweet, down to earth, shy at first when I'm talking to girls but insanely...
    DopeAssFaggot47 DopeAssFaggot47 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Well I can't really classify myself

    as a lesbian yet but I m definitely looking. It's really disappointing I can't find many exotic foreigner lesbian girls in Hong Kong. Most are Chinese ( the pretty ones look fake because of plastic surgery and heavy makeup and the rest look terrible). I don't want butch either.
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 16, 2015

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    Taylorm1234 Taylorm1234 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2015

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    Lisaooo Lisaooo 18-21, F 8 Responses May 10, 2014

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    I may look girly but I am

    so gay. Like so gay.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 17, 2014

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    So I'm confused. This girl

    either really likes me or she just happens to be one hell of an amazing friend. She surprised me with a special order of a new york cheesecake with lemon curd (not just a piece, but a whole cake) delivered straight to my workplace (coz she doesn't have my residential address...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2015

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    It's so crazy to me that I don't come across

    more femmes who enjoy being with another femme. So many fems are attracted to studs which I don't quite understand but... Whatever floats their boat. I just wonder why a feminine lesbian doesn't enjoy being with another femme lesbian.. Girls are girly & emotional beings, might...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    Like most femme lesbians,

    I don't usually get mean comments for being a lesbian mainly because if you take one look at me you would assume I'm straight. (which I hate.) I'm a proud femme lesbian but I feel like femmes are basically invisible in the LGBT community. When most people think lesbian they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    I'm starting to like Sarah Stouffer!

    'Bloomington' is a great movie.
    virtuosoja11 virtuosoja11 18-21, F Oct 10, 2015

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