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I Am a Femme Lesbian

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    I'm a 14 year old lesbian,sort of a wild child ! Love to have fun and making new friends.I live in the glorious USA and wouldn't mind talking to a couple girls.I would like to chat/text and we can also send pics if you'd like,I love the bodies of girls.I like older,younger,same...
    JayMaeee JayMaeee 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    I Am A Femme Lesbian (I Think)

    I say 'I think' because I have only begun to know about such labels. I am quite good looking and am feminine in all ways but the work I do is not considered to be so. I fly fighter aircraft in the Russian air force and have raced cars and generally enjoy high adrenaline pursuits...
    sukhoi37 sukhoi37 31-35, F 6 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Like most femme lesbians,

    I don't usually get mean comments for being a lesbian mainly because if you take one look at me you would assume I'm straight. (which I hate.) I'm a proud femme lesbian but I feel like femmes are basically invisible in the LGBT community. When most people think lesbian they...
    handwrittenlovenotes handwrittenlovenotes 22-25, F 13 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm a girl that likes girl stuff

    and has a huge crush on men with hot sexy bodies. But here I am thinking that I kept on hiding my true feelings. I just want to love her. I just want to tell the world how much I like to be with her. But I can't and I'm scared. I don't want them to get hurt. And I don't know if...
    virtuosoja11 virtuosoja11 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F Apr 2

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    hello there, I am looking forward

    to make friends with a lesbian women like me because i believe we can share each other stories and advices easily because im pretty sure that we understand each other better... I am serious about a friendship proposal..:)
    CoffeeePrincesss CoffeeePrincesss 31-35, F a week ago

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    I Am A Femme Lesbain Dating A Dyke

    I am a femme lesbian. I wear make up every once in a while, I wear dresses every once in a while, and I do not like to fight. I am more of the girly girl type. When I first started to look for a girlfriend, some main physical features I was looking for were: I wanted her to be...
    snowkissedangel21 snowkissedangel21 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    I'm 14 I'm lesbian a before you say.. No, I'm not to young to know, I'm femme and I'm into other femmes, I live in the uk, i love sport and video games, I have blond hair an blue eyes, I'm 5ft 2, cuddles>sex I have kik, snapchat, Facebook, Instagram, whatsapp, iMessage, FaceTime...
    Tiamariaxx Tiamariaxx 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    I don't get hate for being gay I just get

    doubted. Maybe it's my age(14) or maybe it's because I'm a fem. I am 100% positive I like girls and I'd love chat with other girls who know the femme struggle! So message me :)
    Rforever Rforever 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    ****prison Changed My Life****

    Seven years ago on 9/15 I lost the man I called my Dad. After he passed my only escape from the pain was drinking, a lot of drinking. There were so many things I didn't understand..my mother moving on 3 months to the date and so on. I lived outside city limits so whenever I...
    cwhatic cwhatic 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    Yep, The Name Say It All

    To quote myself"Wouldn't it be nice if the world were filled with pink.  Sweet flowery scents, beautiful lace adorning every edge but that of your favorite Butch Wouldn't it be nice if all the pretty cloths & shoes just appeared in our closets...  Just show up when...
    lezfemme lezfemme 51-55, F 5 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I'm not actually a lesbian.

    . But I love femme lesbian for embracing their feminity.. I admire them for being their selves but at the same time loving their own female beauty.. :)
    Aya0324 Aya0324 16-17, F Mar 2

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    Femme

    I'm a femme lesbian, and I would love some other lesbians to talk to. Message me :)
    ellemcbm ellemcbm 18-21 5 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    :)

    I'm 14, I came put a year ago, I'm British... My accent sucks, I am lesbian :) and proud . I am a femme and I'm attracted to femmes, gay guys scare me and I don't know why, I have a phobia of feet and people touching my knees and ew... Spiders or anything that is a creepy crawly...
    Tiamariaxx Tiamariaxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Love The Label!

    Though many people may hate labels, I don't.I wear the label Femme with pride, and even though i struggle with aspects of my sexuality, i love being myself; which is girly. I am not high maintenance, nor am i ULTRA FEMME, though i can be. I like that i am free to express my...
    MissVenom MissVenom 22-25, F 8 Responses May 13, 2011

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    It's so frustrating..

    .. I'm not someone you walk by and your gaydar goes off.. Many of my closest friends even had no clue until I told them.. I just never know how to go about getting into these situations. I don't know when or how that ever comes into conversation.. It's like I need to wear a...
    LavenderLily88 LavenderLily88 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I hate when people say "you're too pretty to be

    a lesbian" .. Like do you want me to be ugly? Lesbians aren't ugly. Straight people can't tell if a girl is straight or not if they're not dressing as a boy.. And when they find out that you're not straight, they get mad cause they think fems can't be a lesbian.. Tf with these...
    Certvin Certvin 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 14

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    I don't like the label,

    but unfortunately it fits because I embrace my femininity and that of other women. I'm not girly girl or a tom-boy; I'm just me who happens to be attracted to other women who happen to look like women.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 16

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    Not Feeling Okay

    I am a lipstick lesbian. almost everyone knows. My school life was ruined. especially since I am only 17. I have had plenty of girlfriends and enough experience to know that every girl I have dated, was never "out" or was never a fully lesbian women and always "needed" a man to...
    Anastasia116 Anastasia116 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    if you are female & wanna text- ask me

    for my number. Females only, over 18.
    MagicalyDelish MagicalyDelish 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    Hey

    :) I am what I am nd I love it feel free message me
    babymonkey76 babymonkey76 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2013

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    I'm a not a complete girly girl,

    but I can be. I love to do my hair and nails. I'm not in to makeup much, I think natural beauty is the best. Other lesbians don't think I'm gay though, they think I'm straight and so do guys. I feel as though I should walk around with some kind of rainbow pendent. I love women...
    LovesDeceit LovesDeceit 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Too Cute For Her Own Damn Good

    Growing up I was the biggest tomboy in my hometown. I could outrun, outclimb, and outsmart all the boys on my street. I could also give a pretty good ***-kicking when I felt so inclined. Then sometime between the awkwardness of puberty and my first equally akward girlfriend I...
    InvoluntaryFacelift InvoluntaryFacelift 18-21 10 Responses May 21, 2010

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    I am really enjoying this life I life

    as a femme . Hope I can meet friends. Here who had the same experiences.
    Whitewave2 Whitewave2 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Young

    I have struggled with who I am in the majority of my short lived life. I went through phases when I didn't even recognize the person I saw in the mirror. I just want to say I am proud to be a femme lesbian and I am proud of me. And you should be proud of you!
    LalulaMae LalulaMae 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2013

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    Girly Lesbian

    Hello, I am new to the site, but I want to say something that bugs the CRAP out of me. Why do people have to be so stereotypical? Not all lesbians have short hair. Not all lesbians are a "tomboy". There are girly lesbians, like me! I wear dresses, I love shopping, and wearing...
    lovely12704 lovely12704 16-17, F 21 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    Butches Who Doubt You're Gay(ness)

    Hi Ladies, I was just curious if any of you have ever encountered what I will call "butch or boi disbelief" in your queerness, because you looked too straight. It's one thing for straight men and women to not believe that I am gay, but when I have people in my own queer...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 21 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    I am a femme lesbian ,

    & I like to date other fems . I like an all girly relationship , one where we can go out shopping together , get out nails done and have fun like to girly best friends , but be together , holding hands , kissing & cuddling ❤️ I think that's so cute
    BasicallyBrianna BasicallyBrianna 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    I'm not totally a femme ( still learning how to

    use high heels lol) but i will never be a dyke or butch. Not my style
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Be Proud!

    Hello guys! And to other fellow comrades I am a new member here :) all I want to say is, be proud if you're a femme lesbian! Remember that no one can judge us cause we are this :) so chin up, and be proud! God Bless, and let us support one another.
    YourQueen YourQueen 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2013

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    I Love Holding Her Hand

    It makes me feel we belong to each other. It makes me feel safe and secure. It makes me feel wanted and needed in a very sweet way. It makes me feel loved. I love holding her hand.
    amadyke amadyke 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    Nobody believes me when I tell them I am a

    lesbian because of how I look. I hate the fact that there are so many stereotypes to being a lesbian. You must dress and act manly etc. I enjoy wearing make-up, dresses,skirts,cute tops,nice shoes,but I also just like to wear jeans and a tshirt. I am not attracted to the butch...
    WolfChick WolfChick 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Not only am I am a femme lesbian

    but a trans femme lesbian. I have always felt that I am a woman trapped in the wrong body and love very feminine clothing. I love wearing skirts with blouses or tops with heels or a dress with heels and wearing makeup, having my nails both toes and fingernails painted and...
    saraashley saraashley 31-35, F Mar 17

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    Any Cowgirl Lezies Out There?

    Im femme and I work with and ride horses and have been all my life. I like to dress up to go out and care what I look like but at the same time I spend my working carreer stepping in horsepoop and doing lots of manual labor. :) so even if you see me in a pretty dress, I m not...
    Evangelique Evangelique 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Ok so being femme, does anyone struggle with

    constantly having to come out bc people don't realize your a lesbian.... I need a rainbow hovering over me lol
    pg143 pg143 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love lesbian femmes.

    I'm stud myself
    THABLESSEDCHILD THABLESSEDCHILD 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    It is so hard to meet other lesbian women

    for friendship. I'm not much of a bar person anymore, but I love to socialize. Mostly I don't go out because drinking & driving is a risk, and a cab costs too much lol. So, I end up staying home. But even the times I have been at a bar, how do you like make friends? I've lost...
    bethrichards bethrichards 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I'm bi sexual but I love girls more I'm a fem

    aress my girl friends a fem we are open to meet new people we are willing have a another girl join our relationship we have 3 kids :)
    prettypolyprincess prettypolyprincess 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    So basically being a lesbian

    and living in the midwest sucks! It's seriously been so long since I've been with another girl and it's driving me crazy. Trying to find a cute/sexy normal girl that also likes girls and lives anywhere at least 4 hours from me is almost impossible. My talents are going to waste...
    hollywoodqueenA hollywoodqueenA 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    No one takes me seriously

    when I come out to them. I really wanna meet other femme teen lesbians so I can relate to someone. Message me!:)
    Wowimbadatthis Wowimbadatthis 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 9

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    Different.

    Last time I wrote a story about my life being a lesbian was about two years ago. I had a complicated relationship with her. I'm actually still with her. Luckily :) . We've had our serious talks about how things would change if ever we decided to settle down. Then she told me...
    staymybaby staymybaby 18-21, F 5 Responses May 15, 2012

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    My Feelings Right Now

    i'm seventeen, and still have yet to "come out" or tell anyone that i think i like girls. maybe this is the wrong group for me, because sometimes i like boys, but i truly do think that i want to spend my life with a woman. currently i'm crushing, crushing hard. i go through weird...
    missunderstood3344 missunderstood3344 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    It's so crazy to me that I don't come across

    more femmes who enjoy being with another femme. So many fems are attracted to studs which I don't quite understand but... Whatever floats their boat. I just wonder why a feminine lesbian doesn't enjoy being with another femme lesbian.. Girls are girly & emotional beings, might...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11

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    Are there any femme lesbians that are attracted to other femme lesbians?! I can't be the only one! (:
    handwrittenlovenotes handwrittenlovenotes 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Nothing like a gorgeous femme. Always looking to chat with them :)
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F Apr 2

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    Problem is, I have the worlds worst gaydar. I have no idea who's straight or not. So it kinda sucks! Lol
    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I love a woman who is feminine. Her hair, her frame, her smell. I'm not a super stud by any means but I am a t shirt/sneakers and dreadlocks kind of woman. I just really love...
    zoraloveshard zoraloveshard 26-30, F Apr 6

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    I always been attracted to to girls...but I seem to be more attracted to white girls...I don't know what it is...it's just something about them that captures my attention ☺️
    rainbowgrl2 rainbowgrl2 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    And I have no idea how to tell if the girl I like is also one or not. See, I am partially a femme lesbian who is out and proud. I am not ashamed to tell people that I love women...
    LadyOfLorien LadyOfLorien 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Any lesbians wanna chat? PM me
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    While at uni I was at a party and one of the lecturers was there. She was about 35 and I was 19, and we had a wonderful time at the party, and ended up kissing while we were...
    PinkyPinks PinkyPinks 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Wondering why it's so hard to find a girlfriend. I mean I'm not desperate I'm fine with being single I just would like someone to love wishing it was different 16 femme looking for...
    sillygirl008 sillygirl008 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Hi! Is there any decent and friendly bi/femme/les here? OR anyone who's nice enough to talk with? Add ---- cy.xin (Pls. No dirty men and chat)
    DaniFie DaniFie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I have always been extremely attracted to Indian women. I honestly can't seem to find any decent women. I'd love to meet someone & just talk. Finding someone with good morals & a...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I was sitting near the river side, perfectly evening breeze touched my naked skin on my face. It was a peaceful evening. In a moment I lost myself in a world of romance with nature...
    kattee12 kattee12 26-30, F Apr 8

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