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I Am a Femme Lesbian

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    Here is the scenario… Im in a committed

    relationship and have a friend who I believe has a crush on me…what do you guys think.. I am very femme, and I am not really outspoken about my sexuality unless you ask or you see with my significant other; well we became friends through mutual friends and have become very...
    reyna35 reyna35 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    I am new to expressing my attractions.

    ... So I just want to express about the obvious annoyance of how on earth do you tell if a beautiful feminine girl is interested in girls!?!? It drives me nuts! I can't walk up to a girl in the street because the rejection would be twice as embarrassing than asking a guy! Because...
    whoisoutthere whoisoutthere 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Im a single lesbian and looking

    for a clean chat(:
    myswagtho79 myswagtho79 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    Girly Lesbian

    Hello, I am new to the site, but I want to say something that bugs the CRAP out of me. Why do people have to be so stereotypical? Not all lesbians have short hair. Not all lesbians are a "tomboy". There are girly lesbians, like me! I wear dresses, I love shopping, and wearing...
    lovely12704 lovely12704 18-21, F 38 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    Not sure if I should come out to my close friend

    when I meet her next week. She isn't homophobic, and I know she has friends who are gay but coming out is such a huge thing for me. What are the pros and cons of coming out to someone? It's like, I want to, but at the same time I keep telling myself to wait for a few more months...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    Butches Who Doubt You're Gay(ness)

    Hi Ladies, I was just curious if any of you have ever encountered what I will call "butch or boi disbelief" in your queerness, because you looked too straight. It's one thing for straight men and women to not believe that I am gay, but when I have people in my own queer...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 20 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    I don't expect a woman to fall all over me,

    but compared to men and women. I literally get hounded from guys and then when I'm around lesbians. I'm like.. "Hmm do I have today's lunch in my teeth or something?" Like I said I'm not expecting it in anyway, but it just odd that the ratio is 10: 0. Zero being lesbians...
    Loopiee Loopiee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Alright girl, what is wrong with you?

    You just sent me a slo-mo video of you flipping your hair (or attempting to) because you said you just wanted to embarrass yourself again before sending me yet another selfie. You regretted it a few minutes later, apologized to me and said you probably did that because you were...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F Feb 20

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    One of the most frustrating things is

    when someone doesn't take your sexuality seriously. I have been out for over two years but people still ask if I have a boyfriend or something. Yet there is a girl I know that has short hair and is straight and everyone just automatically assumes that she's gay because of a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 27

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    I don't like the label,

    but unfortunately it fits because I embrace my femininity and that of other women. I'm not girly girl or a tom-boy; I'm just me who happens to be attracted to other women who happen to look like women.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 16, 2014

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    It's so crazy to me that I don't come across

    more femmes who enjoy being with another femme. So many fems are attracted to studs which I don't quite understand but... Whatever floats their boat. I just wonder why a feminine lesbian doesn't enjoy being with another femme lesbian.. Girls are girly & emotional beings, might...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    I Am A Femme Lesbain Dating A Dyke

    I am a femme lesbian. I wear make up every once in a while, I wear dresses every once in a while, and I do not like to fight. I am more of the girly girl type. When I first started to look for a girlfriend, some main physical features I was looking for were: I wanted her to be...
    snowkissedangel21 snowkissedangel21 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    AM 27, A BREASTFEEDING FEM -LESBIAN,

    RAISING MY KIDS,.AS NATURISTS 24-7, IN NATURE,IN THE SOUTH PACIFIC ISLANDS,YES WE HOME-SCHOOL CO-SLEEP.CAVE EXPLORING,PRECIOUS STONE HUNTING,TREE-HOUSES,MUSIC,SPORTS MASSAGE AND YOGA CLASS THAT I TEACH,ALL WHILE 100% IN THE BUFF ! VERY HEALTHY...WE BREAST FEED ALL OUR KIDS AND...
    norma999 norma999 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2014

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    I am a 22 year old femme

    who is just soooo in love with women. Guys just cant seem to understand this. The whole "just a phase" theory is getting pretty old. I mean c'mon guys im too cool to be straight ;) I love being this way and there is nothing sexier than a girl with a funny witty attitude. (And a...
    tigerskies tigerskies 22-25, F 3 Responses May 21, 2014

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    ♥ ♥ Best of all,

    you want her to know and she wants you to know too.
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F May 24

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    Funny how the song that she recommended

    for me to listen to when i was heart broken by another girl is the same song that i am listening to now that i'm missing her. "Say something i'm giving up on you!"
    katnis21 katnis21 26-30, F Jul 11

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    I am a femme lesbian

    who always seems to "miss" the boat when other females are interested. For example, I have a straight friend who I've gotten really close to. We were talking and hanging out all the time but recently she has grown cold and distance. At the time I didn't think she was attracted...
    reyna35 reyna35 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    My Strange Fetish/fantasy

    Im a vry happy proud and open feme-lesbian. And thow I have never been a very picky person when it comes to a lover. but yet I've adapted a strange fetish/fantasy (or what ever you might wanna call it) for seducing straight girls. And the straighter the better. OMG! have I...
    kreemy00peech kreemy00peech 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    ****prison Changed My Life****

    Seven years ago on 9/15 I lost the man I called my Dad. After he passed my only escape from the pain was drinking, a lot of drinking. There were so many things I didn't understand..my mother moving on 3 months to the date and so on. I lived outside city limits so whenever I...
    cwhatic cwhatic 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    Lesbianmum Lesbianmum 18-21, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Well I can't really classify myself

    as a lesbian yet but I m definitely looking. It's really disappointing I can't find many exotic foreigner lesbian girls in Hong Kong. Most are Chinese ( the pretty ones look fake because of plastic surgery and heavy makeup and the rest look terrible). I don't want butch either.
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Lisaooo Lisaooo 18-21, F 9 Responses May 10, 2014

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    I'm not actually a lesbian.

    . But I love femme lesbian for embracing their feminity.. I admire them for being their selves but at the same time loving their own female beauty.. :)
    LightAngel0324 LightAngel0324 16-17, F Mar 2, 2014

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    My first love... She was around 5 2" had long

    blonde hair and was stunning! I shared an apartment with her while I was at Uni! So obviously through the years I saw her with very little clothes on! This mad it even worse, I really wanted her to know my feelings! I sadly bottled them up and never told her, I wish I did! <3...
    yumyum115 yumyum115 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    Lesbianmummy Lesbianmummy 18-21, F Dec 23, 2014

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    I am a very femme lesbian!

    And I'm very attracted to other femmes (: so if you're a femme like me feel free to message me (:
    CassieLikesGirls CassieLikesGirls 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    nudinun nudinun 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2014

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    I'm such a girly girl.

    I think too many people picture lesbians with short hair and cross dressed clothing. Don't get me wrong, Dykes are awesome and I have mad respect for them! Though I don't like the stereotype. You can be girly and also like girls. Just my opinion. What do you think?
    wildflower444 wildflower444 18-21, F 6 Responses May 4, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 30

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    Not Feeling Okay

    I am a lipstick lesbian. almost everyone knows. My school life was ruined. especially since I am only 17. I have had plenty of girlfriends and enough experience to know that every girl I have dated, was never "out" or was never a fully lesbian women and always "needed" a man to...
    Anastasia116 Anastasia116 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    The struggle is real!

    I am a femme who likes other femmes! Neither of us could even tell if the other was gay. She wouldn't know if was interested and vice versa! I wish there was a way to truly know.
    Zena682 Zena682 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    So I came out to my friend yesterday.

    It was the most nerve-wracking thing I have ever done. She took it so well and kept telling me "it's okay" when I started to cry (it was at night, and the place was poorly lit so no one else noticed). She asked me when did I realize that I'm gay and when I told her I kinda knew...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    I'm bored and want to talk to someone

    interested. Girls only
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I know I should spend more time with other

    friends to slowly get over my crush. But tell me how is that going to help if she keeps on texting me every single day? Should I ignore her texts or pretend to be busy and always reply late? Oh okay she just texted me again. And I just replied. You get what I mean? We're...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    I'm a femme lesbian myself

    and I love girls who are also femme :) femme lesbians are just so sexy honestly hehe! If your a femme lesbian to I'd love to hear your story and meet you! Send me a message don't be shy I don't bite that much ;) haha
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 28

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    Like most femme lesbians,

    I don't usually get mean comments for being a lesbian mainly because if you take one look at me you would assume I'm straight. (which I hate.) I'm a proud femme lesbian but I feel like femmes are basically invisible in the LGBT community. When most people think lesbian they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    I wrote a story a couple months back saying

    that I think I'm a lesbian. Since then, after I told my sister, she told me that her lesbian girl friend found me attractive but she knew that I was engaged to a wonderful man that is a crossdresser. After a few days of talking, my sister told me that her girl friend wanted to...
    titelips titelips 31-35, F 12 Responses Feb 6

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    Ok so being femme, does anyone struggle with

    constantly having to come out bc people don't realize your a lesbian.... I need a rainbow hovering over me lol
    pg143 pg143 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    It's so frustrating..

    .. I'm not someone you walk by and your gaydar goes off.. Many of my closest friends even had no clue until I told them.. I just never know how to go about getting into these situations. I don't know when or how that ever comes into conversation.. It's like I need to wear a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    I have been attracted to girls

    for as long as i can remember. a girl was my first crush, first kiss and first time i had sex and orgasmed. For me there is nothing better than the scent, touch taste and sight of an aroused woman. i love the closeness, the gentleness, the strength the intimacy that you can only...
    suzieGurl suzieGurl 31-35, F Dec 21, 2014

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    If you want check out my very gay tumblr

    account ;) : lezzz-rock-on.tumblr.com
    jlove987 jlove987 16-17, F Apr 19

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    When I was a kid I have been brought up like a

    boy, boys clothes, boys toys, and also during my elementary days, it is when I started to like girls until now. As I mature enough I have realized that I like to wear ladies clothes, I put my lipstick on and heels up. But I have like a body and a spirit of an athlete and I...
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I'm not totally a femme ( still learning how to

    use high heels lol) but i will never be a dyke or butch. Not my style
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    Lesbianmummy Lesbianmummy 18-21, F Dec 24, 2014

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    I hate when people say "you're too pretty to be

    a lesbian" .. Like do you want me to be ugly? Lesbians aren't ugly. Straight people can't tell if a girl is straight or not if they're not dressing as a boy.. And when they find out that you're not straight, they get mad cause they think fems can't be a lesbian.. Tf with these...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2014

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