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I Am a Femme Lesbian

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    I stick to being a femme

    and I'm also attracted to femmes! I'm all about heels, skirts, glitter, and pink on Wednesdays ☺
    callmejo4 callmejo4 16-17, F 3 Responses May 2

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    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    The struggle man.. I'm a senior

    and I'm really into this girl in my English class. I always thought she was really cute but she's crazy smart and like the third in our class. I just recently started hanging out with her because I found out that she smokes, which I never would have expected. And she's made it...
    alittlelame alittlelame 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    Butches Who Doubt You're Gay(ness)

    Hi Ladies, I was just curious if any of you have ever encountered what I will call "butch or boi disbelief" in your queerness, because you looked too straight. It's one thing for straight men and women to not believe that I am gay, but when I have people in my own queer...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 21 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    I've met this girl and I never thought of

    falling inlove with her (she's the tomboy one.). I never thought that I'd fall for someone I only knew through a website but YES I did. Our paths crossed when my heart finally said enough on my ex-boyfriend. She was the one who was there for me on my endless drama nights. Our...
    wishfulthinkingstar wishfulthinkingstar 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    i been with Lesbian and like it im bi

    but like to see if i can be true Lesbian some day if i found the right women im fem bottom i like domme top women
    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I live in the UK and I've really want to meet

    someone who is right for me...please feel free to message if you live around London/ essex area :')
    KeiraRhiann KeiraRhiann 16-17, F 1 Response May 19

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    My first love... She was around 5 2" had long

    blonde hair and was stunning! I shared an apartment with her while I was at Uni! So obviously through the years I saw her with very little clothes on! This mad it even worse, I really wanted her to know my feelings! I sadly bottled them up and never told her, I wish I did! <3...
    yumyum115 yumyum115 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Girly Lesbian

    Hello, I am new to the site, but I want to say something that bugs the CRAP out of me. Why do people have to be so stereotypical? Not all lesbians have short hair. Not all lesbians are a "tomboy". There are girly lesbians, like me! I wear dresses, I love shopping, and wearing...
    lovely12704 lovely12704 18-21, F 31 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    As I've said I'm in a Long Distance Relationship

    for 3 years and I ended it last May just this year. Why? What happened? Last year, I'm in a rage state and I'm really confused why I have to prolong my agony and kept loving my girlfriend from a distance. So i dared myself to go back in my home country and be with her and...
    levi22 levi22 26-30 2 Responses Aug 12

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    dogbrat dogbrat 16-17, F Jul 26

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    I'm not actually a lesbian.

    . But I love femme lesbian for embracing their feminity.. I admire them for being their selves but at the same time loving their own female beauty.. :)
    Aya0324 Aya0324 16-17, F Mar 2

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    I want a girl that's not afraid to pick up

    and go on a spontaneous road trips with me. The kind of girl that will laugh at me while I'm dancing around in just a Cowboys jersey. I want someone I can surprise with breakfast in bed, and someone that will surprise me with a lap dance after work. We may fight and argue, but...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Too Cute For Her Own Damn Good

    Growing up I was the biggest tomboy in my hometown. I could outrun, outclimb, and outsmart all the boys on my street. I could also give a pretty good ***-kicking when I felt so inclined. Then sometime between the awkwardness of puberty and my first equally akward girlfriend I...
    InvoluntaryFacelift InvoluntaryFacelift 18-21 10 Responses May 21, 2010

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    Schizophrenia is linked to homosexuality,

    now there's nothing wrong with being gay but I think it's obvious something is wrong when your body is attracted to the same sex, you won't reproduce and at a basic biological level that is the goal of life
    alphadecay alphadecay 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I am a 22 year old femme

    who is just soooo in love with women. Guys just cant seem to understand this. The whole "just a phase" theory is getting pretty old. I mean c'mon guys im too cool to be straight ;) I love being this way and there is nothing sexier than a girl with a funny witty attitude. (And a...
    tigerskies tigerskies 22-25, F 2 Responses May 21

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    I don't like the label,

    but unfortunately it fits because I embrace my femininity and that of other women. I'm not girly girl or a tom-boy; I'm just me who happens to be attracted to other women who happen to look like women.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 16

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    I am a Femme Lesbian attracted to other Femme

    lesbians.:) im 15 years of age and find the attraction of girls by their smile, personality, sense of humor, and eyes. I believe beauty is based on the inside of a women, not by their appearance or size and shape. Girls are very beautiful just the way they are c: most guys...
    TilDeathDoUsApart TilDeathDoUsApart 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I hate when people say "you're too pretty to be

    a lesbian" .. Like do you want me to be ugly? Lesbians aren't ugly. Straight people can't tell if a girl is straight or not if they're not dressing as a boy.. And when they find out that you're not straight, they get mad cause they think fems can't be a lesbian.. Tf with these...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 14

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    Okay so I went to dinner at the same place

    where I ate the first night and the waitress was pretty cute but more like girl nextdoor type. Anyway she was so nice and the food was delicious do I decided to go back. Anyway she instantly recognized me and we talked and she asked if I had Facebook or what's app and we...
    Rltdancer Rltdancer 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Like most femme lesbians,

    I don't usually get mean comments for being a lesbian mainly because if you take one look at me you would assume I'm straight. (which I hate.) I'm a proud femme lesbian but I feel like femmes are basically invisible in the LGBT community. When most people think lesbian they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jan 17

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    This picture is in Spanish

    and it says "My mom used to tell me that girls should hang with girls and now she's mad at me because I'm a lesbian" hahaha what do you think?
    Amusec Amusec 22-25, F Sep 1

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    ****prison Changed My Life****

    Seven years ago on 9/15 I lost the man I called my Dad. After he passed my only escape from the pain was drinking, a lot of drinking. There were so many things I didn't understand..my mother moving on 3 months to the date and so on. I lived outside city limits so whenever I...
    cwhatic cwhatic 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    lisarowell420 lisarowell420 22-25, F Sep 14

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    ysa71195 ysa71195 18-21, F May 5

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    Young

    I have struggled with who I am in the majority of my short lived life. I went through phases when I didn't even recognize the person I saw in the mirror. I just want to say I am proud to be a femme lesbian and I am proud of me. And you should be proud of you!
    LalulaMae LalulaMae 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2013

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    I'm not really a lipstick lesbian

    but I do love getting my massages and hair done 😉
    chikkiebabe chikkiebabe 13-15, F Sep 5

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    I Am A Femme Lesbain Dating A Dyke

    I am a femme lesbian. I wear make up every once in a while, I wear dresses every once in a while, and I do not like to fight. I am more of the girly girl type. When I first started to look for a girlfriend, some main physical features I was looking for were: I wanted her to be...
    snowkissedangel21 snowkissedangel21 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    popples123 popples123 31-35, F 5 Responses May 4

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    callmejo4 callmejo4 16-17, F Jun 11

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    I'm actually bi, but I'm looking to talk to a

    femme lesbian that is 17 or older. So message me ladies :)
    Victoriaxoxo12 Victoriaxoxo12 16-17, F May 3

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    Ok so being femme, does anyone struggle with

    constantly having to come out bc people don't realize your a lesbian.... I need a rainbow hovering over me lol
    pg143 pg143 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 14

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    Love The Label!

    Though many people may hate labels, I don't.I wear the label Femme with pride, and even though i struggle with aspects of my sexuality, i love being myself; which is girly. I am not high maintenance, nor am i ULTRA FEMME, though i can be. I like that i am free to express my...
    MissVenom MissVenom 22-25, F 8 Responses May 13, 2011

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    I'm such a girly girl.

    I think too many people picture lesbians with short hair and cross dressed clothing. Don't get me wrong, Dykes are awesome and I have mad respect for them! Though I don't like the stereotype. You can be girly and also like girls. Just my opinion. What do you think?
    wildflower444 wildflower444 18-21, F 7 Responses May 4

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    I don't get hate for being gay I just get

    doubted. Maybe it's my age(14) or maybe it's because I'm a fem. I am 100% positive I like girls and I'd love chat with other girls who know the femme struggle! So message me :)
    Rforever Rforever 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    nudinun nudinun 18-21, F Aug 28

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    I'm not totally a femme ( still learning how to

    use high heels lol) but i will never be a dyke or butch. Not my style
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I have come to the realization of my sexuality.

    I would say im bisexual before but I haven't felt any attraction to any men in a while i would fake it so nobody would get suspicious but idc anymore..so im a lesbian :)
    Jamila94 Jamila94 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    The difficulties of lesbian dating Well I'm 23

    and sometimes I think I'm going to be hopelessly single. I finally have gotten to the point where I'm 100% confident in myself and also my sexuality, but I still haven't really been able to find anyone I've been seriously interested in. Most of my past relationships (and trust...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 30

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    Any Cowgirl Lezies Out There?

    Im femme and I work with and ride horses and have been all my life. I like to dress up to go out and care what I look like but at the same time I spend my working carreer stepping in horsepoop and doing lots of manual labor. :) so even if you see me in a pretty dress, I m not...
    Evangelique Evangelique 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    I Love Holding Her Hand

    It makes me feel we belong to each other. It makes me feel safe and secure. It makes me feel wanted and needed in a very sweet way. It makes me feel loved. I love holding her hand.
    amadyke amadyke 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 1, 2013

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    Uhmm. No. I'm a stud & I'm attracted to femmes.

    Where are the femmes attracted to studs??! Y'all still out there? Haiiii wassup? Im Rain, I'm 15, going on 16 in a few months.. I'm the sensitive type. Crazily protective over those I love.. I'm crazy sweet, down to earth, shy at first when I'm talking to girls but insanely...
    DopeAssFaggot47 DopeAssFaggot47 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    Hi my name is Macy and I am a lesbian

    and live with my girlfriend. Her name is Jan we are both 19 and have been in love with each other since we were 16. I meet her when I was 13 and fell in love with her soon after but thought she was straight. When we were both 16 I was spending the night at her house. Both of us...
    macyisalesbian macyisalesbian 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    My Feelings Right Now

    i'm seventeen, and still have yet to "come out" or tell anyone that i think i like girls. maybe this is the wrong group for me, because sometimes i like boys, but i truly do think that i want to spend my life with a woman. currently i'm crushing, crushing hard. i go through weird...
    missunderstood3344 missunderstood3344 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Lisaooo Lisaooo 18-21, F 10 Responses May 10

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    It's so crazy to me that I don't come across

    more femmes who enjoy being with another femme. So many fems are attracted to studs which I don't quite understand but... Whatever floats their boat. I just wonder why a feminine lesbian doesn't enjoy being with another femme lesbian.. Girls are girly & emotional beings, might...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 11

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    Not Feeling Okay

    I am a lipstick lesbian. almost everyone knows. My school life was ruined. especially since I am only 17. I have had plenty of girlfriends and enough experience to know that every girl I have dated, was never "out" or was never a fully lesbian women and always "needed" a man to...
    Anastasia116 Anastasia116 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    My Strange Fetish/fantasy

    Im a vry happy proud and open feme-lesbian. And thow I have never been a very picky person when it comes to a lover. but yet I've adapted a strange fetish/fantasy (or what ever you might wanna call it) for seducing straight girls. And the straighter the better. OMG! have I...
    kreemy00peech kreemy00peech 31-35, F 9 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    Be Proud!

    Hello guys! And to other fellow comrades I am a new member here :) all I want to say is, be proud if you're a femme lesbian! Remember that no one can judge us cause we are this :) so chin up, and be proud! God Bless, and let us support one another.
    YourQueen YourQueen 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2013

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    It's so frustrating..

    .. I'm not someone you walk by and your gaydar goes off.. Many of my closest friends even had no clue until I told them.. I just never know how to go about getting into these situations. I don't know when or how that ever comes into conversation.. It's like I need to wear a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    not a despo or something but would really like to know some one and see if she likes me the same way i like her :) i am femme would prefer a femme :D
    brokendeepdown brokendeepdown 22-25, F 3 days ago

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