I Am a Femme Lesbian

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,661 People


    norma999 norma999
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2014

    Yes, I am. But girls think

    that I'm straight because I'm too girly. -.- If only they know. I am so gay. Like gayer than a rainbow puking unicorn.
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    5 Responses Oct 19, 2014

    I know I should spend more time with other

    friends to slowly get over my crush. But tell me how is that going to help if she keeps on texting me every single day? Should I ignore her texts or pretend to be busy and always reply late? Oh okay she just texted me again. And I just replied. You get what I mean? We're...
    whentostop whentostop
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 28, 2015
    Taylorm1234 Taylorm1234
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    It has been some years

    since the break up, however I still remember her sometimes, not painfully but rather her good memories. Sometimes some people are not meant to live together though some are, I hope to find that someone...
    Janeoferiee Janeoferiee
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2015

    I hate when people say "you're too pretty to be

    a lesbian" .. Like do you want me to be ugly? Lesbians aren't ugly. Straight people can't tell if a girl is straight or not if they're not dressing as a boy.. And when they find out that you're not straight, they get mad cause they think fems can't be a lesbian.. Tf with these...
    Antonice Antonice
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Jan 14, 2014

    My Strange Fetish/fantasy

    Im a vry happy proud and open feme-lesbian. And thow I have never been a very picky person when it comes to a lover. but yet I've adapted a strange fetish/fantasy (or what ever you might wanna call it) for seducing straight girls. And the straighter the better. OMG! have I...
    kreemy00peech kreemy00peech
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 20, 2012

    One of the most frustrating things is

    when someone doesn't take your sexuality seriously. I have been out for over two years but people still ask if I have a boyfriend or something. Yet there is a girl I know that has short hair and is straight and everyone just automatically assumes that she's gay because of a...
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    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    I'm not totally a femme ( still learning how to

    use high heels lol) but i will never be a dyke or butch. Not my style
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2014

    So I'm confused. This girl

    either really likes me or she just happens to be one hell of an amazing friend. She surprised me with a special order of a new york cheesecake with lemon curd (not just a piece, but a whole cake) delivered straight to my workplace (coz she doesn't have my residential address...
    whentostop whentostop
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 7, 2015

    I am a femme lesbian

    who always seems to "miss" the boat when other females are interested. For example, I have a straight friend who I've gotten really close to. We were talking and hanging out all the time but recently she has grown cold and distance. At the time I didn't think she was attracted...
    reyna35 reyna35
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    Ok so being femme, does anyone struggle with

    constantly having to come out bc people don't realize your a lesbian.... I need a rainbow hovering over me lol
    pg143 pg143
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 14, 2014


    Hi, and welcome. May I get you a drink? Sit by the fire, and please allow me to tell you how difficult it is to be a femme lesbien. If you have money even worse. So to start I drove miles to get out of town. In any gay lesbien club there may be three, or four that intrest me...
    marissapillow marissapillow
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Mar 27, 2013

    I want a girl that's not afraid to pick up

    and go on a spontaneous road trips with me. The kind of girl that will laugh at me while I'm dancing around in just a Cowboys jersey. I want someone I can surprise with breakfast in bed, and someone that will surprise me with a lap dance after work. We may fight and argue, but...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2014

    i am basically looking

    for 18-28yrs old lesbian/asexual/bisexual/straight girl for short term moc and there are other terms too.things will be planned out properly and there will be confidentiality.i have no problem with your orientation,thinking and background.if you are interested,tell me about...
    imsearching4ud imsearching4ud
    26-30, M
    Dec 5, 2015

    I'm not actually a lesbian.

    . But I love femme lesbian for embracing their feminity.. I admire them for being their selves but at the same time loving their own female beauty.. :)
    Maria0130 Maria0130
    18-21, F
    Mar 2, 2014

    I'm feeling quite confused.

    I have been in a very serious relationship for two years and I am more then happy with her. We're great for each other and everything is just amazing. But there is this girl at work and she is married, but has reveled to me that she has dated women before. This had been right...
    Scorcor12 Scorcor12
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 5, 2016
    prettymama123 prettymama123
    Dec 28, 2015

    I Am A Femme Lesbain Dating A Dyke

    I am a femme lesbian. I wear make up every once in a while, I wear dresses every once in a while, and I do not like to fight. I am more of the girly girl type. When I first started to look for a girlfriend, some main physical features I was looking for were: I wanted her to be...
    snowkissedangel21 snowkissedangel21
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2013

    I don't expect a woman to fall all over me,

    but compared to men and women. I literally get hounded from guys and then when I'm around lesbians. I'm like.. "Hmm do I have today's lunch in my teeth or something?" Like I said I'm not expecting it in anyway, but it just odd that the ratio is 10: 0. Zero being lesbians...
    Loopiee Loopiee
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 11, 2015

    Not Feeling Okay

    I am a lipstick lesbian. almost everyone knows. My school life was ruined. especially since I am only 17. I have had plenty of girlfriends and enough experience to know that every girl I have dated, was never "out" or was never a fully lesbian women and always "needed" a man to...
    Anastasia116 Anastasia116
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 12, 2013

    My first love... She was around 5 2" had long

    blonde hair and was stunning! I shared an apartment with her while I was at Uni! So obviously through the years I saw her with very little clothes on! This mad it even worse, I really wanted her to know my feelings! I sadly bottled them up and never told her, I wish I did! <3...
    yumyum115 yumyum115
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    Im a single lesbian and looking

    for a clean chat(:
    myswagtho79 myswagtho79
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2015

    yeah I'm a femme, I like long hair and,

    nail polishes, other femme stuff
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    1 Response Jan 6, 2016

    I may look girly but I am

    so gay. Like so gay.
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    1 Response Dec 17, 2014

    ♥ ♥ Best of all,

    you want her to know and she wants you to know too.
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767
    46-50, F
    May 24, 2015

    When I was a kid I have been brought up like a

    boy, boys clothes, boys toys, and also during my elementary days, it is when I started to like girls until now. As I mature enough I have realized that I like to wear ladies clothes, I put my lipstick on and heels up. But I have like a body and a spirit of an athlete and I...
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2015

    If you want check out my very gay tumblr

    account ;) : lezzz-rock-on.tumblr.com
    jlove987 jlove987
    18-21, F
    Apr 19, 2015

    Butches Who Doubt You're Gay(ness)

    Hi Ladies, I was just curious if any of you have ever encountered what I will call "butch or boi disbelief" in your queerness, because you looked too straight. It's one thing for straight men and women to not believe that I am gay, but when I have people in my own queer...
    msriot msriot
    26-30, F
    20 Responses Apr 12, 2010

    I'm dying to feel the closeness of another

    woman. It's been years and I just... I miss it. Even just talking to another woman that I'm attracted to who was intelligent would be amazing. Open for messages from other ladies who fit the bill or just want to talk.
    bibliophileXlady bibliophileXlady
    3 Responses Jun 22, 2015

    I'm bored and want to talk to someone

    interested. Girls only
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 13, 2015
    nudinun nudinun
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2014

    Like most femme lesbians,

    I don't usually get mean comments for being a lesbian mainly because if you take one look at me you would assume I'm straight. (which I hate.) I'm a proud femme lesbian but I feel like femmes are basically invisible in the LGBT community. When most people think lesbian they...
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    11 Responses Jan 17, 2014

    I'm such a girly girl.

    I think too many people picture lesbians with short hair and cross dressed clothing. Don't get me wrong, Dykes are awesome and I have mad respect for them! Though I don't like the stereotype. You can be girly and also like girls. Just my opinion. What do you think?
    wildflower444 wildflower444
    22-25, F
    6 Responses May 4, 2014

    Girly Lesbian

    Hello, I am new to the site, but I want to say something that bugs the CRAP out of me. Why do people have to be so stereotypical? Not all lesbians have short hair. Not all lesbians are a "tomboy". There are girly lesbians, like me! I wear dresses, I love shopping, and wearing...
    lovely12704 lovely12704
    18-21, F
    37 Responses Jun 14, 2013

    Funny how the song that she recommended

    for me to listen to when i was heart broken by another girl is the same song that i am listening to now that i'm missing her. "Say something i'm giving up on you!"
    katnis21 katnis21
    26-30, F
    Jul 11, 2015

    It's so frustrating..

    .. I'm not someone you walk by and your gaydar goes off.. Many of my closest friends even had no clue until I told them.. I just never know how to go about getting into these situations. I don't know when or how that ever comes into conversation.. It's like I need to wear a...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    It's so crazy to me that I don't come across

    more femmes who enjoy being with another femme. So many fems are attracted to studs which I don't quite understand but... Whatever floats their boat. I just wonder why a feminine lesbian doesn't enjoy being with another femme lesbian.. Girls are girly & emotional beings, might...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Apr 11, 2014
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    Jun 29, 2015
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    Jun 30, 2015

    Here is the scenario… Im in a committed

    relationship and have a friend who I believe has a crush on me…what do you guys think.. I am very femme, and I am not really outspoken about my sexuality unless you ask or you see with my significant other; well we became friends through mutual friends and have become very...
    reyna35 reyna35
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Apr 1, 2015

    Uhmm. No. I'm a stud & I'm attracted to femmes.

    Where are the femmes attracted to studs??! Y'all still out there? Haiiii wassup? Im Rain, I'm 15, going on 16 in a few months.. I'm the sensitive type. Crazily protective over those I love.. I'm crazy sweet, down to earth, shy at first when I'm talking to girls but insanely...
    DopeAssFaggot47 DopeAssFaggot47
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2014
    Lisaooo Lisaooo
    18-21, F
    8 Responses May 10, 2014

    I'm starting to like Sarah Stouffer!

    'Bloomington' is a great movie.
    virtuosoja11 virtuosoja11
    22-25, F
    Oct 10, 2015
    lovekitten12345 lovekitten12345
    13-15, F
    Jan 31, 2016

    Well I can't really classify myself

    as a lesbian yet but I m definitely looking. It's really disappointing I can't find many exotic foreigner lesbian girls in Hong Kong. Most are Chinese ( the pretty ones look fake because of plastic surgery and heavy makeup and the rest look terrible). I don't want butch either.
    thousandcuts thousandcuts
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    The struggle is real!

    I am a femme who likes other femmes! Neither of us could even tell if the other was gay. She wouldn't know if was interested and vice versa! I wish there was a way to truly know.
    Zena682 Zena682
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 15, 2014
    kinkystapler kinkystapler
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2015

    Hi, hope you are all well

    and healthy. I am 30 years old Indian Gay men & well settled Software employee and currently living in Hyderabad,India. I am single, not in a relation with any gay. Due to family and society pressure. I am looking for a decent educated understanding lesbian for MOC, Please...
    pranaireddy pranaireddy
    31-35, M
    Jan 21, 2016

    Alright girl, what is wrong with you?

    You just sent me a slo-mo video of you flipping your hair (or attempting to) because you said you just wanted to embarrass yourself again before sending me yet another selfie. You regretted it a few minutes later, apologized to me and said you probably did that because you were...
    whentostop whentostop
    26-30, F
    Feb 20, 2015

    I don't like the label,

    but unfortunately it fits because I embrace my femininity and that of other women. I'm not girly girl or a tom-boy; I'm just me who happens to be attracted to other women who happen to look like women.
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    Jan 16, 2014

    Hi, I'm Kathryn. I'm from Germany,

    lez and searching for an obedient girl 18+ who likes to serve me real or online. I'll be a strict but good mommy for you. You'll enjoy my love!
    MommyKathryn MommyKathryn
    46-50, F
    Mar 20, 2016

    ****prison Changed My Life****

    Seven years ago on 9/15 I lost the man I called my Dad. After he passed my only escape from the pain was drinking, a lot of drinking. There were so many things I didn't understand..my mother moving on 3 months to the date and so on. I lived outside city limits so whenever I...
    cwhatic cwhatic
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2012

    One of a kind closeted gay man looking

    for his soul mate, a closeted lesbian. 100% discreet and 100% masculine. I am handsome, physically fit, athletic, genuine, outgoing, career oriented. I am 5,11 tall, 170 lbs, dark brown hair with green eyes. I am Caucasian, Italian background and was born and raised in NY...
    joesmithnyc joesmithnyc
    41-45, M
    Feb 11, 2016

    I am new to expressing my attractions.

    ... So I just want to express about the obvious annoyance of how on earth do you tell if a beautiful feminine girl is interested in girls!?!? It drives me nuts! I can't walk up to a girl in the street because the rejection would be twice as embarrassing than asking a guy! Because...
    whoisoutthere whoisoutthere
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 22, 2015

    I am a 22 year old femme

    who is just soooo in love with women. Guys just cant seem to understand this. The whole "just a phase" theory is getting pretty old. I mean c'mon guys im too cool to be straight ;) I love being this way and there is nothing sexier than a girl with a funny witty attitude. (And a...
    tigerskies tigerskies
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2014

    I'm a femme lesbian myself

    and I love girls who are also femme :) femme lesbians are just so sexy honestly hehe! If your a femme lesbian to I'd love to hear your story and meet you! Send me a message don't be shy I don't bite that much ;) haha
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    1 Response Apr 28, 2015
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