I Am a Firefighters Wife

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    My boyfriend and I have been discussing

    marriage.. He is a firefighter. It is already hard enough dating his busy schedule and dangerous job. I am scared of loosing him. I'm looking to the strong wives of fireman for support.
    JessieMae23 JessieMae23
    22-25, F
    Nov 2, 2014

    My Sweetheart

    My name is Michelle. Im 21 and I have recently gotten into the greatest relationship of my life. It is a very new relationship but he and I both feel like its going to go somewhere important. As I write this, he is on a call and while I know he and his crew know what they are...
    Chelle2012 Chelle2012
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2012

    Needing Support Being Married To My Fireman & Having A Family

    Hello all! I love my husband who is a full time fireman (he is on a california schedule) and I am working on his days off as a registered nurse. Since I am working when he's off and vice versa I have noticed that we have been arguing more and more....letting little things get to...
    dancingtinker16 dancingtinker16
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2012

    From Military Family To Firefighter Family!

    Hey everyone, I'm new to this whole blog and new to being a firefighter girlfriend/fiance. That's right I'm getting married to my amazing man August 10th of this year. I have to admit I'm head over heels for that mean. I'm Jen by the way, I'm 23. Me and my sweety met online last...
    firefightergf2012 firefightergf2012
    22-25, F
    Jan 27, 2012

    OK ladies I have a dilemma my firefighter has

    been offered a job doing construction that pays more money but deep down I feel like he will regret leaving the fire service. what should I do.??? help please
    aeserl89 aeserl89
    26-30, F
    Jan 21, 2015

    My Wildland Fire Fighter

    I'm missing my man.. It's fire season and he's only been home 3 days in June and a few in July I'm feeling so lonely I'm beginning to feel insecure. I know he's working and tired but just being home alone with my son is making me think soo much I begin thinking of crazy things...
    amstevens23 amstevens23
    26-30, F
    Jul 20, 2013

    Now I am engaged to the man of my dreams.

    I have had to learn in these short two weeks on how to deal with him leaving during important events in our life. It seems like every time we sit down to eat it never fails he has to go. It's hard but it is seeming I get easier knowing that he has promised to always try to come...
    JessieMae23 JessieMae23
    22-25, F
    Nov 30, 2014

    Why I'm Here...

    So I'm new to the whole forum world, but lately things have been hard.  I just got married in May to a wonderful man.  He's a firefighter at two of the fire depts in our town and he just recently started going back to school.  And now it seems like all we do is...
    babygrrl22 babygrrl22
    8 Responses Sep 16, 2008

    My husband is a firefighter/paramedic.

    I love his heart for helping others!
    jencrock jencrock
    31-35, F
    Mar 18, 2014

    Why I Am Here..

    I am not currently a wife of a firefighter, but i am in love with one. I am still young and so is my firefighter. He just became a volunteer firefighter for his local fire department about 5 months ago. We used to spend so much time together until then. I love his ambition...
    Marissa24 Marissa24
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    Confused and lost. I have been dating a

    firefighter for almost 2 12 years now. no it hasn't been easy at all. We have both made our share of mistakes. This past week though has been hard. His brothers gf decides she is going to tell my finance that I have been cheating on him, yet I haven't. We got engaged n June...
    aeserl89 aeserl89
    26-30, F
    Dec 21, 2014

    I am not a FF wife...

    yet. Pretty sure I am going to be! That is why I am here...to learn from those who are already in it for the "long haul"! Any pre-marital advice would be greatly appreciated !
    FireproofWoman FireproofWoman
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 24, 2014

    My husband is a firefighter

    and for the seventeen years of knowing each other I never worried about him because I knew that he loved his job & trusted the men & women he worked with. He served PG County for nearly 23 years of his life and it wasn't until tonite that I started to worry. Two firefighters...
    SexyZ08 SexyZ08
    41-45, F
    Apr 16, 2016

    Well my babies and I are on our way to vacation,

    due to work schedule hubby can't come until Saturday... But then he has off until October 5th!!! Why complain;)
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 16, 2014

    My Husband Just Became Captain At His Volunteer Fire Dept

    I'm pretty new to the scene, it's hard sometimes having him gone so much but in the same token I'm so very proud of him.  it's nice to be able to talk to other fire fighter wifes and girlfriends on here to have an outlet to express feelings instead of pouring everything on him...
    lisaloomis11 lisaloomis11
    46-50, F
    Sep 1, 2011

    Married To A Wildland Firefighter....my Soulmate.

    Hello, so happy if you read and join and blessed that so many have the same thoughts, concerns, and time away from your husbands. Im so blessed with this man who Ive been married to for 2 years now. It has not been easy for me. See I'm afraid of losing him in different ways. One...
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    1 Response Jun 18, 2012
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